Comments on: Cancer Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

By: Saskia

Saskia — Sat, 03 Jul 2021 01:42:29 +0000

I find myself in the same predicament as El Guero, the Aquarius man in my life is all the man I’ve ever needed, he’s sooo funny, extremely naughty and such a great kisser, he’s so damn sexy and oh so very handsome (especially love his eyes) …. he’s also clever, ambitious (which is a big deal for me), to be honest he’s just the perfect man for me in so many ways…. he’s not nagging, overbearing, clingy and by no means is he weak-willed, a lot stubborn but I can see that he would be willing to compromise to reach a amicable resolute, but the one thing I truly admire about this man is that he is okay with giving and receiving time and space (sometimes he gives a tad bit too much for my liking though lol), this man truly makes me happy…. there is only one issue I have with him, and its that he’s not too affectionate, in the sense that he doesn't like to give any verbal expression to what he’s feeling, now that kinda bothers me because I want to know that I’m with someone who is not afraid to say or show how they feel in a honest and genuine way, someone who is not afraid to speak up when something is bothering them or keep a barrier up that cannot be obstructed, I want a man who is willing to tackle any issue together as the gladiators we are….. I’d never want to abandon ship, but not having a strong solid emotional bond is just not for me, emotional connection; THAT is my love language, emotions is an essential part of me, which I think plays a key part in the development of any relationship….I know no other way…if I don't have that kind of connect, then it feels awkward, now there is no doubt he’s captivated my interest and vice versa but then if he’s not willing to make the necessary, however slightest alterations in order to sustain the interest then there is no way either of us can expect a long lasting or successful relationship. I’m willing to stay for as long as he is willing to make me want to stay….. in other words, if he TELLS me how he feels then I will hold his hands and listen. —————- P.s Does anybody really want to spend the rest of their life with someone who cant appreciate the simple act of physical touch and/or creating an emotional bond?…. I didn't think so! Show me a person who says a physical touch nee-dent be mutually involved with an emotional connection (whether it be by words of affirmation or quality time) and I’ll show you are person who is not only delusional but so out of touch with reality. ————————- Infidelity to me is an inconsiderate, thoughtless and especially an unforgivable act, and so that is why the man I want in my life and I must be on the same page, because I don't even as much as give 1 single chance, I believe people ought to behave in a mature and responsible manner. I will love my man hard, deep, now, here, today and as he is, but I will immediately retreat tomorrow once the emotional bond of trust gets broken. Do I love him, absolutely! Do I want to spend the rest of my life with him, without a doubt!! Do I feel he is the perfect man for me, in every sense of the word!!! Does he feel the same way?…. I HAVE NO IDEA and thats the hardest part and if I were to let go of “this thing” we have, it would be for the mere fact that he keeps all his most vivid feelings, thoughts and emotions bottled up hypoxy tight inside and that, I cannot deal with that

By: Saskia

Saskia — Sat, 03 Jul 2021 01:22:37 +0000

By: Celestina

Celestina — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 12:24:04 +0000

In reply to El Guero. I would find out more about her chart. The sun sign really isn't much to go on. Her moon sign and placement will tell you what makes her most comfortable, and the Venus and Mars sign/placement will sigve you a sense of how she loves and her attitudes towards sex. If we just had to go by the sun signs, I'd say continue to be stable and protective. You don't have to talk that much. I'm sure she can sense how you feel. Just don't lie about if asked.

By: El Guero

El Guero — Fri, 07 May 2021 14:09:27 +0000

I recently met a woman 20 years younger than me but who is perfect for me. Motivated, loving, beautiful, well I could go on for a while with those. She is super traditional but she’s into me as she says very nice, positive things. I have tried to go super slow because of how traditional she is and it is HARD. I have no slow speed. I go 100%. I was made to love one person at a time. I focus all my attention on them.
I am a person that retreats when things are uncomfortable. When stressed at work I prefer to dissapear into my work and become less communicative and this scares me as I don’t think she can handle something like that. When I’m not stressed it’s easy for me to connect with her. She’s amazing. We connect on so many levels.
My great fear is that for me, the physical side of things is VERY important. That is my only love language. I am worried that perhaps she will not be that physical due to comments she has made about how hugging people used to make her feel threatened. I mean, she hugs me and touches me from time to time when we are driving around together etc. I just want to feel confident that cancer women like physical contact and making love because those things are vital to my existence.
I get the need for reassurance, she is 25 and it is easy for me to reassure her. She has amazing abilities and is an angelic human being. She just has trouble believing it. I feel convinced she is for me because I can give her what she lacks and I believe everyone comes to us for a reason. I just don’t want to let her down as she gets to know the “real” me when I’m not charming and outgoing. I’m actually super boring most of the time. But then I think about how she doesn’t do parties and drinking either, we both love being out in nature and we both do yoga, love children and animals, work hard, just so many things. I really want this girl. Just concerned about keeping her. She is the kindest, sweetest person you have met with a heart the size of the universe. She has feelings that run miles deep which I’m sure I will never understand as I feel detached from most of humanity all the time. I just want to explore everything about her and keep her with me for as long as she will stay. So if you have advice on how to make that last longer I am taking advice. 🙂

By: Alex

Alex — Fri, 22 Nov 2019 07:26:38 +0000

I disagree with the friendship aspect here. Aquarians deeply value friendship.. more than romance! It’s what they’re good at. They love humanity in general, and know many people usually. As for my personal relationship with an Aquarian male, our romance started with a friendship that bloomed into it. We were very attuned to each other and had a strong mental rapport .. and chemisrty! I’m sure we had many planetary aspects that made us particularly compatible.. after you can’t go by sun signs alone. However he wasn’t very outwardly emotional, wheras I am. Sometimes I couldn’t tell how he felt, but he had ways of letting me know. He was the sweetest, gentlest and wittiest man I’ve been with. I miss him a lot.

By: Jhanna

Jhanna — Sat, 23 Jan 2016 02:34:52 +0000

Good stuff…. I didn’t know all these different breakdown in characteristics of a soulmate……….hmmmmm

Now this pretty much explains alot of things I have been experiencing and could not put a finger on the reasons for such profound level of emotions….. (thank you for sharing this bit of info)

http://lonerwolf.com/20-twin-flame-signs/

on point these #…. WOW!!

(10) . You are finely tuned to their energy, and they are finely tuned to yours. This means that you are both very conscious of the present play of energy (whether happy or sad, angry or forgiving, open or withholding) present in the connection. You’re both therefore highly empathic with each other.

(18) . Your twin flame doesn’t try to change you. They accept you for who you are and what stage you’re at, and encourage you to do the same for yourself (and vice versa).

(20) . Together, you both feel driven towards a higher purpose, whether spiritually, socially or ecologically.

By: That aquarius guy

That aquarius guy — Sun, 07 Jun 2015 08:26:47 +0000

Be straight foward with him I’m an Aquarians and if i really liked someone i would definately act aloof towards them and wait for them to confess its basically what we expect to happen.

By: Isabella

Isabella — Fri, 29 May 2015 12:09:27 +0000

I’m a young cancer woman currently interested in an aquarius man who’s about 14 years older than I. I’m having a hard time figuring him out though. Allot of my friends can tell that he’s interested in me but I’m way to shy and scared to tell him how I’ve felt since November 2014 we met in October 2014 but I started to have very deep feelings for him in January This year. I see him around sometimes but he never usually comes up to me we just bump into each other and allot in the beginning. Now that I hardly go to the place he works, we hardly bump into each other but when we do, my friend says his face lights up right away. Though there are times he’s in a hurry we always say a quick hello and sometimes look back. It’s hard to be in contact with him as well because of his work status. Our situation is very complicated, he’s a doctor that tried a study on my child sooooooo yeah. He works in a children’s hospital that my chil went to her whole life unfortunately didn’t make it In January. He explained to me there are certain boundaries in the regulations of the hospital as to why he cannot give out his contact information that he can only remain in contact when he happens to see me in the hospital. That’s when things got awkward between us but we still havgood mini chats when I go sometimes but it’s still hard to know what he truly thinks of me. I don’t want to risk his job either so I stopped contacting him via work email. I don’t know I think I’m just losing it maybe he isn’t interested but I swear every time we talk or he sees me, he’s very friendly and likes to ask how I’ve been and I look better or I’m doing a great job things like that and when he does he constantly gives me this look since Novemberish he started giving me this look like he’s trying to figure me out but with a little concern it’s a very sexy look. Someone please help I just don’t know and I’m very scared of rejection because I’ve grown to like him way more than what I thought I would. 🙁

By: The One Feminine Cancer

The One Feminine Cancer — Sat, 18 Apr 2015 20:52:13 +0000

I am a Cancer female who have vice versa feelings with an Aquarian male. I think he is perfect, and stuff hasn’t gone any further for us yet. Only I love you’s are shared, and he compliments me a lot! He says I am very kind, he loves my persona, very attractive and much more. But as for him, he is in a complicated relationship with my best friend, and if they break up, ( or I think they did ) things will get very ugly. I don’t want to break bonds with my budding romance, Aquarian, and I don’t want to hurt my best friend either. As for the Aquarian and I, I have some doubts if we hook up. He is very serene, and I am outgoing and cheerful. Opposites, but we still accept each other, but this could affect in the future. It’s not just me, it’s him too. He is very social, humorous, and words that can’t describe.. It’s just that we don’t communicate a lot.. And what I want is to take this a step further meaning, it’s either him or I who will do something about our bond, and my best friend. In this so called relationship, communication is a bit low, we share a lot of differences and similarities. And we haven’t fought which is good.
I want to know if this is going to work out, I love him but I hope this isn’t an affair or anything.

By: Megan

Megan — Wed, 25 Mar 2015 21:48:30 +0000

Runawaycaptive, you’re right about learning the things they like to do. I’ve learned to hunt, fish, boat, etc. with my Aquarius & he loves it (& so do I, it’s fun!). Bonnie, yes, they LOVE phone sex! My Aquarius can’t get enough of it when he’s out of town! Sweet &young, agreed! I’ve freaked my Aquarian out a time or too but he’s stuck it out! Between two worlds, mine picks on me as well but is a wonderful long distance bf.