keep it reall you guys! 🙂

Its obviously not important to him (not anymore it seems, maybe was all a game to him and never was) so direct your focus elsewhere and develop that spiritual growth and sense of harmony with your own self. Since both cant be combined with consistency and hopes of reconciliation; but only creating confusion and uncertainty, then its best to stay clear and carry on with your own life and let him with his. Be real with yourself, giving your best to him seems not to be good enough, giving your all to him is maybe just too much.

Since creating that atmosphere of disencouragement and which is also rather unfulfilling; its probably best to and is also clear of exactly what steps needs to be taken, this emotional rollercoaster has reached some kind of impasse and there is just no way around it.

Anyway, after 6 months of dating his daughter had some kind of emotional problem which he would not confide in me about. And just like that he was gone. He even sent a few of my belonging, which were at his house, back to me in the mail. Talk about shocker… I was absolutely heart broken, bleeding on the floor. I couldn’t believe that he had been looking at houses and jobs in another state (one that I had wanted to relocate to) and then this. A few months later he sent me a box with a card for my birthday. The earrings were my favorite stone (tanzanite). The card said, “I’m sure these will look beautiful on you”. He had purchased them months prior while on a business trip knowing that they were my very favorite stones and held onto them even after leaving me. Well a few more months passed and one day I heard an article on the radio about depression for college kids and sent the link to him. Not expecting any response of course. Well, he responded immediately saying that he s till thinks of me all the time and would like to stay in touch. We’ve sent e-mails and a few phone calls for about a year and this past summer, he called me to say that he wanted to have a relationship with me again. Of course my heart raced because I too feel as if we’re soul mates. It’s funny how so many Scorpio women have said that about Aries men. Well now he travels about 10 months out of the year and we live in different states but it appears that we’re going to have a chance to see one another in two weeks. I asked him to pick me up from the airport and he called right away to say he would, gladly. I have a question for y’all…. What should I do now? I want to have a relationship with him but I want it to be more communicative. He doesn’t ever write or call from abroad and many times his e-mail isn’t working so there are weeks and sometimes months that go by with no correspondence. It makes me feel as if he’s just a figment of my imagination. This is not a relationship. Should I bring up the topic of why he left during my visit with him or should I wait for him to bring it up? Part of me wants to have a nice visit and not put any pressure on him but the other part of me says that if he can’t make any type of commitment to me I really need to let the idea of happily ever after go wit him and move on. HELP!!