This relationship works like Good King Wenceslas and his page, Colonel Blake and Radar O’Reilly Frank Costello and Frenchy or a shepherd and his sheep dog. The strong Aries male needs a good and trusted right hand and someone to cover his a— while he’s out on campaign — especially someone who isn’t secretly plotting behind his back to overthrow the regime. These things Virgo is more than willing to do in exchange for protection and shelter. Good service (a very high calling) is what she’s into. She is even wiling to extend certain privileges in return. She’s knows how good she is at what she does. It’s an art. She quickly becomes indispensable in his world. She is no weak sister and certainly no doormat (leave that to Pisces and Libra). Rather, she is fully aware of her personal worth and commands his respect and appreciation on a daily basis because of her integrity. She is capable of unparalleled calling and devotion to duty. Many a politician and his wife have this arrangement. Of the two, she can live without him not vice versa.
How to Attract an Aries Man as a Virgo Woman:
You are the pickiest and most desirable in the zodiac. He loves a challenge. It’s off to a great start. Keep your advantage (you always do). He needs you far more than you need him. You’re a great flirt. Try flirting with his best friend. He’ll notice you! The other thing you have to do if you want the relationship to progress is to get behind his dream, goal or ambition. He is an Emperor looking for someone to rule by his side, someone he can trust explicitly to be 100% faithful, a social asset (cleaning up after him) and someone who actually wants to pay second fiddle.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as an Aries Man:
First of all, you’ve got to get over your bad self because she gets more attention than you can possibly imagine. You thought you were the only one? You thought she was shy and demure and that she’d be flattered by your attention? Better think again. Somehow her demure ways and a certain Je ne sais quoi” aloofness about her draws men to her like a moth to a flame. She’s probably got a past you’ll never hear about. But she’s uber-picky. THAT’S why she’s available. Get it?
So you’re going to have to go all out to impress her without being excessive. She hates excess. Be sincere or don’t bother. This lady can spot a player a mile away. Trust me, despite appearances, she’s had plenty of experience with men.
Degree of Romance:
This relationship is so romantic. She gets petulant. He wins her back. She puts on a pretty pout. He makes her laugh out loud. She fusses and frets. He says, “Why don’t you let me take care of that?” A Virgo woman very prettily brings out the best in an Aries man who is a righteous protector and avenger. He’s her attack dog and that’s precisely why she wants him. She never intends to dirty her pretty little hands again and she does intend to live out her ambitions through him.
Degree of Passion:
Virgo really brings out the passion in Aries. “The Virgin” never completely gives herself to any man and that keeps him on the razor ‘s edge of desire. Her discriminating nature always makes him feel like he’s privileged to even touch the hem of her Lucy or Bella’s
Degree of Friendship:
They can be marvelous friends and traveling companions. If Virgo serves Aries, they are perfect for one another. He sets the big goals and does the outer courageous stuff. She handles the details, takes care of things behind the scenes and watches his back, like no other.
Degree of Marriage:
If Virgo wants to serve Aries, this makes a fantastic combination for marriage. In exchange for his protection she gives him a beautifully organized life, taking care of all the details so he can focus on momentum and the Big Picture.
Progression of Relationship:
He will make his intentions clear from the outset. He is a man of action so the plot will move forward without delay. No one can impress like an Aries-on-the-move and no one is so impervious to hustling as a Virgo. She’s looking inside his heart to make sure it is “all or nothing at all” pure.
Sex:
This is one combination where the sexual interest is likely to be lifelong. It has to do with the chemistry. Aries wants it all. Virgo always reserves something for her moonlight self alone. It creates a never ending desire and a sweet yearning on Aries’ part while Virgo plays indifferent, knowing she is enflaming his passion. When these two have sex he will occasionally be permitted to have certain “favors” or “treats”. This is according to an intricate erotic map she has of his psyche whereby the slave controls the master. It is intended to keep him begging for more. Anne Boleyn’s Big Tease of Henry VIII as portrayed on “The Tudors” is a fairly good example of the dynamic only Virgo does it by nature.
When It’s Over:
It’s not likely to end as long as Aries does a good job at protecting and providing. Being a perfectionist above reproach herself, Virgo doesn’t suffer weakness or dereliction of duty well in a man. If he proves incapable of the task, she will terminate the contract one fine morning and give him a list of Things He Must Do to Wind Down Perfectly, I mean Properly. The little princess brings out the strong man’s last best energy before moving on. He may try to stay a hero in her eyes forever, selling the home, hassling creditors, getting her her own credit card, figuring out why their kids are acting out, watching them while she vacations with her new admirer. And so it goes.
Our Rating: 7/10
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