Libras love to uplift and compliment. One of the biggest misconceptions people have about Libras is mistaking our niceness as flirtation. We are actually very picky with whom we give our time and attention to given we don’t want to waste our efforts and our energy (especially within our love life). You most likely misinterpreted their intentions. Try looking at situations from different perspectives. Given you are a cancer, I am not taken back by your response and interpretation towards the given situation. Given that cancers are emotional and can certainly see it as a threat when Librans show attention to others outside of the relationship. Even if the attention they gave to others held zero negative intentions.

@Stephanie: Carrie Fisher and Paul Simon were married less than a year, though I think they dated off and on after that. Carrie Fisher and Dan Aykroyd were once engaged. You were right about the others. Thank you for catching those.

During the last few years, many people around me noticed that I have changed from an emotionally dependant, sensitive but adoring Cancer to an almost pure libran.

The only things that show my “cancery” side are when I am around children, animals and elderly people. I just adore them and never bother to hide it=).

Another thing is that I still tend to be a tiny bit insecure and sensitive at times. But instead of lashing out, I sit back and think things through, which works for me.

So, my story would be as following:

I am a very dedicated martial artist and my teacher (turning 33 in December) happens to be a sagittarius. I do not know his rising sun yet, but he told me that he’d tell me his time of birth as soon as he knows it himself. I am planning on finding out myself, otherwise I’m never going to know ;). That’s a Sag for you, I guess^^.

So, the thing is: I am not in love with him, not really.

But the sexual tension between us is INSANE. I am not imagining things, I’ve had enough times to sit back, observe and analyze him. But there’s still one piece missing: the rising sun. I need to know in order to be able to properly finish my thoughts.

Anyways, to make it shorter, I would like to list a few things about this guy and some of his reactions towards me.

There will be 3 groups: “Compliments”, “Teasing” and “Various”. Here we go=):

Compliments

He told me many times that he’s extremely proud of me at the way I keep getting better and better at what I do.

He tells me that other should take me as an example, as I am very interested in everything he says and all the stories he tells. I just want to learn everything there is, which I think he likes enormously.

He really like that I am striving to be the best I can be, especially at my age.

He likes the way my mind works and how focused and decided I appear to be at all times.

He likes my wit and my very flirtatious and sexually oriented teasing (not actually directed at him), but he either laughs out loud or puts his head in his hands unbelievingly xP… Maybe I am too much=)?

When we (our entire class) go out, which happens more and more frequently, he’s always the first to point out how pretty I am or how good I look.

He also told me a few times that he thinks that I am very wise for my age, that he likes the way that I “joker/devilishness” back and that I have become a very, very important member of the school, even though I haven’t been training for long (approx. 7 months).

So how come people say that Sagittarians aren’t able to give compliments? He’s amazing at it =D. (Need rising sun. NOW.)

“Sexual”

Last weekend we all went out and he, as always, drank a LOT=). He can take it really well tough, it only heightens his own deviousness and readyness to flirt, which I like a lot, obviously^^.

There was always this other guy (he’s the same age as my teacher, but only a fellow student), whom I like very much, but strictly as a friend only. There’s just nothing going on between us at all.

The funny thing is, that everytime we’re going out (the entire group), I always happen to sleep over at his place or at the same place as him. We are also bantering and arguing a LOT, all in good fun.

So, as our group has been discussing astrology for almost an hour, my teacher suddenly speaks up and asks, out of the blue: “So, young Lady, what do you think about the compatibility between you and Tom?”

I’m like: “How? Sexually? The aggressive potential is definitely there^^!”, one of my usual answers. I never cut back on honesty. You ask a question like that? Be ready to get one hell of an answer=).

Funny thing is, that just beforehand, he asked me what my rising sun was (after claiming he wasn’t interested in astrology at all. I just carried on talking, and there it is: Interest.) and I replied: Libran.

He went like: “Oh, we Sags get along with those.”

I immediately and bluntly said: “Yeah, especially sexually.”

His reaction was non-existent, which is totally fine=).

I don’t need nor want reactions to everything I say. Just saying them is great to me.

So, anyways, he keeps teasing me about “Tom”, but more to that later. Btw, I teased him about a femal student whom he always hangs around with and said: You two wouldn’t be very compatible on an astrological level (she’s a Cancer with rising sun CANCER. Yeah, emotional much^^?). Try the sex instead.” and he immediately went like: “No, I can’t do that, she’s my student…” in a seriously BASHFUL tone. What=)?! A bashful Sag? Really?

Now come the more “juicy” parts, meaning: where the tension went skywards.

As we left the restaurant we decided to go and visit a few bars (we were out until 6 a.m. Yeah, holy smoke indeed.) and we were always walking in groups of 2-3 persons.

I almost never walked beside my teacher, but when I did (3 times, with 1-2 hours in between), the conversations were very, very interesting. Here a few highlights:

He told me (not flat out, more like: “Btw…”) that,the only relations acceptable to him at the moment were physical ones.

After I asked him about “names” (’cause he mentioned something about “My Venus rests in….”), he replied that there were none, but that he KNOWS that his next romantic interest is going to turn up next year.

In the same conversation I asked him: “Do you know what you want?”. And wow, he just looks at me from the side with this very badass-predator-look, quickly looks me up and down and says: “I KNOW what I want.”

But dammit, we weren’t able to keep that conversation up, ’cause the others caught up to us and broke us apart. Oh well, there’s always next time=).

And the last and juiciest one:

Right after I arrived (I was the last one to get there and it was right before dinner), I was quickly kissing everybody (on the cheeks) and when I got to my teacher, I asked him: “Are you going to greet me=)?” and he said, “Alright, just this once.”, got up and did the same.

At the end of the evening, when we were saying our goodbyes, I went to him to kiss him on the cheeks and he went like: “No, not this time.” and turned away.

The great thing is: I didn’t care in the least, on purpose.

And I guess that this bothered him a LOT=).

Because, after everybody said their goodbyes and were waiting for him, he came up to me (seriously close. I mean REALLY close), rested his hand on my butt and asked: “With tongue or not?”. I was way too baffled and tired to answer with wit or “do the deed”, but he only laughed and we kissed on the cheeks.

“Various”

I talked to “Tom” (who is the same age as my teacher) who knows my teacher really well and asked him how serious he meant the thing about the kiss. Because I told him that next time, there was no way in hell that I would back down.

I even texted my teacher the same night: “Next time you’re asking for a french-kiss, be ready to get one.”

And Tom told me: “He is not someone who backs down from these things. As far as I know him, he would go all the way, probably not without hesitation. He wouldn’t put up a big resistance, though, because you’re a seriously gorgeous girl with a boatload of sex-appeal.”

And I will not back down next time either. If he comes up to me like that again: Bring. It. On.

I like to play with fire, and apparently, so does he=).

As a last thing:

The next time we had our regular training, everything was back to normal again, which is more than fine. I don’t want this to interfere in my training.

What I have noticed though is that my teacher is “sparring” against me a lot more often and demonstrates a lot of thing on me instead on the more advanced students like he used to.

But I’m more than okay with that, because if he wants to help me to get better I am not going to turn him down.

He also helps me a LOT with the classes on a financial level. He keeps offering me things, like taking over fees in order for me to attend classes, which I like a lot, because I am always happy to accept financial help. I am not broke, but I am an apprentice, so yeah=).

My mother keeps telling me: “Be careful with that, because maybe one day, he will want something in return.”

I went like: “Mum, what can he possibly want from me that I am NOT willing to give him?”

Mum: “True.”

Yeah, my mum’s awesome=).

So, you guys. What do you think of all that?

You are the ones with the Sagittarius-experiences.

I believe that he only wants to play and flirt, but I’d still love to hear your opinions^^!

Good Night