Yes, your evaluation is on point! I have never in my life experienced financial abuse until dating an overly possessive Cancer man. We had amazing sex but that fighting makes sex fizzle quickly because they fight petty. All he did was use his millions to disarm my freedom and make me trust him. What price at the end of this when he didn’t receive enough acknowledgedment and praise for his decisions. He definitely used materials to control later but gave freely in kindness to get me.

He is very sensitive, he needs love and caring and perhaps I have to tell him that I love him and need him but I think he needs simple things. That s ok. I need that too. But I think that depends on your experiences in life, what you need from someone. But whatever I give him, I take it back instantly. He is very kind. He is someone who cares and very tender. But he tested my patience and faith many times. He was really hard on that. Believe me. That part wasn t easy because he was coming from another relationship which was a nightmare for him. It was hard to take him out of his shell. But if you make him trust, it worth the trouble at last. What I like to mention is that when you speak to a Cancer man, you have to be clear or else you can be misunderstood easily. It s not necessary to speak to much to tell him how much you love him. Just say it or be there when he is in bad mood and you got it all. They are very warm people and generous with things and emotions. They do anything to understand the eir partner and he is really trying.

At the beginning I thought he is suffocating me with his questions but now is better. In fact I thought I would die from asphyxia. But now, we learned each other and works better. I admit that we could separate from the first moment. But we worked it out because we were too much in love. He respects the space I need and my work. I do respect his work too.

He is the right man who will help you in housework. The man who will take care of you when you are sick. I know what you may think, but we share things like that at home. He cleans, I do that too. In fact, he knows more things than me.

Another thing is perhaps someone will think at the beginning, that Cancer abandoned his efforts to win you. But if you think such thing, you just fool yourself. You cannot get rid of him so easily.

But he is very nice! In fact in the past I had another relationship with a Cancer and it really failed. When I was listening about Cancers, I was running away. But this one, is the something else. When I find out that he was Cancer, I was really surprised. Such relationship needs many compromises but it was t so irrational to me ,about what we both need. Both s nerves really worn out, but now we are really happy and we enjoy our love.

I m not saying that he is so intellectual but he is the ideal man for family and feel safe, if is that what you really need. If you feel sad ,insecure and you had a bad day, he can take you in his arms and forget it all.