Wow!!

You’re very fortunate to have caught the affection of a Sagittarius woman. I’m an older Sag. female, but can well remember having the energy and enthusiasm of a puppy, never running out of energy. We also have a natural affinity for learning new languages. But, the ball, as they say, is in your corner. You must never lie, miss a date nor underestimate our level of intelligence, simply because we have a good sense of humor or make a silly joke. We may act like clowns, sometimes, but that does not mean we’re stupid. It’s completely the opposite. So, you must be a grown up, too. I’ve wondered why so many of my friends’ fathers are Gemini. My father and my ex- husband’s father is also a Gemini. Donald Trump is a Gemini. What am I trying to say? A Sagittarius woman is especially attracted to a man with integrity, as much as she is to a man who’s fun and witty; equally. Treat her with respect above all

He did everything to woo me. I ignored him the first time I met him as I got side tracked and forgot about him. He wanted me to move in, then have children. I didn’t instigate anything, but loved him, so was happy to carry on.

When my children were born he took it very badly. He hated being disturbed, he never helped me during the night with my children and he resented his world being changed.

I know quite a few Geminis all of which have been attracted to me. I think some people are afflicted with really heavy planets and others have the more positive side going on. I have made a friend with a younger man who is a gemini. He has a lovely bubbly personality. A great communicator, warm and very sweet, he cheers me up so much. I keep my distance from him as I love the way we miss each other and don’t want to lose him as a friend. We made love once and it was amazing. It took my breath away literally. We are meeting again and I feel energy between us leading up to it. Its quite strange but in a good way. I am not looking for a relationship so it is nice to have positive feelings, but not having to do anything with them other than accept that they are good and cherish them. It sex was as good as the Scorpio intimacy I have had, if not better and that is saying something, but with more genuine friendship behind it, rather than games. Although my first Scorpio boyfriend was madly in love with me and did not play games – just to set the record straight. I think sex with all the Gemini’s I have been with has been pretty wonderful.

Anyway, my advice is and this is how I am going to be with all signs – Just be really busy and focus on your life and don’t see people all of the time even if you are dying to. I have naturally found this out through being genuinely busy as I am virtually all of the time and it has made us closer somehow. I am tired of being hurt so I am going to stand back from things more and let others make the effort for me. When the right man comes along I will marry him, but until that happens I am happy doing all of the things I am involved in now, which are for my own growth and progression through life. I get to be intimate with my true young Gemini friend, as no sex would probably drive me bonkers, so I feel in balance.

With regards to my Ex, BEWARE they can really turn. What they are like when you first meet, is not necessarily what you are going to end up with. Actually a lot of men are like that. My last boyfriend a Leo was totally guilty of that. The Lazy streak really came out. Out of 13 years with my past Gemini, 1.5 were genuinely happy. Mine was extremely negative though. A nicer one I can imagine would make a great partner. We had sex all the time for 13 years without fail. The attraction was dynamite and it is true how this keeps couples together.

Good luck to you all.

Listen if someone does not want to get intimate with you, there is no power in the pussy or on the dick that will change that, you have to establish that deep propelling mental bond to sexually connect with someones soul and thats why I dont be fucking with just anyone who has an erection either! You could be the sweetest person in the world with a dick standing to attention about to give a gun salute, it dont matter, if my soul isnt into you it ain’t happening, once the soul starts losing interest the pussy loses it too (for different reason, mark you I dont believe in withholding sex or using it as a weapon of revenge – for me my soul stops connecting once you have been unfaithful and it stays like thats forever unfortunately lol), and people will think maybe you are cheating, but for me, its not so, I just cannot connect if its not on all levels. I dont fuck for fun orgies if u know what I mean, neither talking about hooking up for sex.

I crave spiritual sexual intimacy, I want to look into your eyes going deep down your soul on that sexual plateau. That raw pure energy of synchronistic ecstasy is what keeps me enthralled, the kind of experience that transcends into both our worlds.

My husband refuses to discuss my sexual desires. Calling me a cougar… All in humor in his typical sarcastic manner. He would be humiliated and betrayed if I spoke if this to any of my friends… But this frustrates me terribly.

For any union to be successful whether it be dating, common-law or marriage, communication is absolutely necessary infact I think its even more important than sex 😛 – okay serious now lol – its my belief that effective communication has to be of extremely high priority, its one of those essentials of the basic needs that we simply cannot survive without because great relationships flourishes on open and honest communication of ones desires, needs, beliefs and emotions and there is infact no way of understanding the needs of your partner if you are not able to communicate and communicate in such a way that leads to the achievement of the desired results. What I do find though is that most persons in a relationship when things aren’t going well or there is a slight glitch in the system, they tend to develop some sort of destructive pattern that ruins and defeats the entire purpose of the already intended and established result they were working towards achieving and this is where communication gets broken down or starts breaking down.

Yes we communicate with each other on a daily basis, infact even the silent treatment behavior is considered a method of communication where as depending on the signals, will let another know that you are either stressed, relaxed, happy or sad or simply just need some alone time for whatever the reason, how these emotions are communicated makes all the difference , actually there are numerous ways in which we communicate with each other that can lead to a positive reaction whilst not been misunderstood because the fact is communication does not only encompass verbal exchange of words as most persons be believe either, we communicate when we show emotions/facial expressions and other signals like a simple bodily gesture of a touch, but not been able to effectively communicate either of those is where the problem lies and thats when we get misunderstood but my favorite form of communication FIRST is VERBAL, simply because I don’t want to nor do I want to be misunderstood and by expressing what your desires are verbally and effectively, then that eliminates the prospect of ever been misunderstood by the non-verbal connotations that usually follows!

Communication does not have to be as complex as most people make it appear to be, yes it might be a tad challenging at times to process or express all the information at once but once we are able to sit calmly and be rational about the issues, I strongly believe that it’ll open up a whole new understanding of moving forward in the right direction.