I’m a Virgo, not of the chaste variety, and my best relationship ever is with my Leo lover and best friend. We definitely put some effort into understanding each other. I totally dug how the relationship intensity increased over time, rather than the typical honeymoon phase when you put your best foot forward and then start seeing the so-called negative traits of your partner and settle into compromise. Where we overlapped so perfectly is in honesty and loyalty, and fierce protection of our loved ones. I never worried about him cheating as we were open and honest about our sexual curiosities. I’m usually the one making the most effort to attune to my partner, but my Leo was absolutely astounding in his ability to find ways to connect. I just never had any doubt in his love for me, or mine for him, He way very playful, which I often am when with someone who will appreciate it. As a Virgo who tends to worry, having a fierce Lion made me feel so safe. I grew up in a chaotic home, and my Leo made sure that I knew how to live on very little cash so I wouldn’t be forced to lean on my family for financial help, and his kindness and warmth gave me the emotional experience I needed to identify healthy relationships. I moved in with him after like 2 months of dating, which is fast for me. No regrets. Although we broke up (sorta — I don’t know if we really did, cause 20 years down the road we were still in touch and supportive of each other in ways that did not interfere with any other relationships). We kinda had like a psychic bond, knowing exactly when one of us needed the other. It pissed a few guys I dated off that I kept in touch with my Leo, but I was unwilling to give up the friendship of a lifetime. We supported each other’s goals and genuinely appreciated our differences. I just liked myself so much more when I was with him. I used to give my folks a pass for their neglect and abuse under the idea that they didn’t understand me, but my Leo showed me that I’m worth the effort to understand. I married someone else eventually, who went through my love letters from Leo and used that info to sucker me in. I divorced the husband eventually and had some friendly visits with my Leo. The pandemic hit and things got rough. Both my ex-husband and my Leo died the same week. I still feel a warmth and connection to my Leo. He touched so many lives with his warmth and support. Hands down the love of my life. I try not to compare potential mates to him, but it’s tough. He was not only loving and kind, he was handsome and graceful. As a Virgo, I look about 15 years younger than I am, and amazingly, when we hung out for a few moments, he became healthier and younger looking. We just vibed that way. I love the way we influenced each other and grew into better people as a result. Those are the best lovers — the ones who accept you and help you grow. I miss him terribly. It is totally worth the effort to communicate needs to one another. A Virgo and Leo will be happy to meet each other’s needs and create a private, magical world all their own. Virgo ladies, do not underestimate the power of this connection. I’ve dated a Cancer and a Scorpio, supposedly good matches for a Virgo, and neither could hold a candle to the magic of my Loyal Lion. Grrr, I miss him.

Ya gotta move on. It’s unmanly to dwell on a woman, especially with the gifts and zest for life us Leos have, which ought to be attractive to all but the most boring of women. There are literally billions of fish in the sea. You can’t make love to memories, man.

lol

There’s something missing in your description about this pairing; Virgo’s out of control mouth, which the Leo would not put up with for long.

It would take a docile cat to tolerate the mouthy Virgo, and I have to say docile Leos don’t exist.

We are both first born which I believe helps.

I admit that I have a lion’s ego and can be selfish, but she loves my kingdom and I make sacrifices for my princess that I have never made for anyone else

But Let me tell you this. If you are a virgo girl.. you will have to zip up a layer of thick skin as leos can be too straightforward despite their natural kindness. They can storm in a flurry of rage, get raging mad and get into physical fights (my bf has put quite a few guys in the hospital!) . You gotta stay patient and be reasonable and sweet at the same time and talk them out of it and play mama. Bear the temper tantrums and the occasional domination patiently. It reaps great rewards in the form of an unconditionally loving person who will never let go of you and will brave any storm just to catch a glimpse of your face just to say ‘I love you’.

lionheart :

rabbi :
SERIOUS HELP REQUIRED..I have been looking for someone to speak to or get a little help with whats going on with me..Anyway, i am a virgo girl and have fallen madly in love with a leo man..We got to know each other last year and hes a part of my social circle, so all of us friends chill and party together quite a bit since its a closely knit circle..Anyhow, hes been in a relationship with this one girl for the last 8years, and hes still committed to her and hes known to be one of the most faithful and loyal guys of our social setting..but everytime we talk to each other i feel like he is attracted to me and we both end up with controlling smiles and blushes..then recently after a few drinks i blurted out my feelings for him and he kissed me..but we didnt go too far, cause i kept moving back..ever since that has happened weve met quite a few times, but i feel he avoids me, i act normal cause i know he has a girlfriend but i feel he wouldnt ever smile at me like he used to or talk to me in particular and it really upsets me naturally..The jist is, im madly in love with him, hes already committed and apparantly very faithful but hes hooked up with me once..what can i possibily do to get him and i want to know what hes feeling?please someone reply im very desperate to know whats happening..any input would be appreciated..
Thank you so much!

Type your comment here
Hi…
It seems like this is a page from my book. I am a Leo guy who has an existing relationship with a Libra, but eversince I met this gorgeous Virgo at a party a couple of months back, everything changed for me. I’m more focused, driven and inspired more than ever. And No One EVER had these effects on me except that one Virgo girl.
So to try and help you figure out Your Leo guy, let me share a few thoughts on how we feel.
#1. We do love to flirt around too (just like you Virgos)
#2. We do feel if someone has an attraction towards us, and WILL
reciprocate if we like them too.
#3 Although we like excitement and new stuff in our lives, we tend to safekeep what we have working in our lives as well. (you being a part of the same social circle probably scares the hell out of him since things WILL change if he decides to pursue you)
#4. We hate hurting anyone’s feelings (its the nobility in us that drives us to consider delivering the least damage to anyone if its unavoidable)
But if you’re really crazy about him, try to assess his relationship status, if he’s happy or not, and just be there for him. And he’s probably avoiding you because he has issues of his own and is trying to fix them first before doing anything life-changing. (I should know this because I’m in an unhappy relationship with my current GF, and I think I’m in love with this Virgo girl I’ve met). Hope this little info can help you. Lots of luck to you!

I really agreed with all the statements above. 100% support from me..!