So, sorry to rain on the parade

All these ‘lovely’ Leos I’m hearing about, that’s not the Leo that I know! (WARNING, much more negative comments from now on not for the faint heared)

Leo woman can be the most bossy and possesive woman once they have you. You go to the grocery store and if you smile and say hello to the woman behind the counter then they’re getting jealous over that.

I also wonder about other Libra guys what they like to do… I figured that my ascendant is Aquarius maybe that is why I am like this… anyway 1 in 12 Libra guys have Aquarius ascendant… I really enjoy my ‘hobbies’ and stuff that I like to do… use the net and listen to old rock songs, play car racing games, write about crap like Astrology… if my wife is at home… NONE OF IT… if I don’t sit next to her ALL THE TIME she starts yelling out where are you?? If I use my computer when she’s at home she just goes and unplugs it.

One thing I can tell you for sure, Astrologers always say is that Libra always avoids conflict, and detests conflict. You know that anyway, we hate conflict AND are indecisive. Let me tell you no one loves an argument more than a Leo; they love arguments, especially WINNING arguments I hope someone can understand my point… (though I have to say their anger is over once they’ve done they’re yelling in a matter of minutes you can be friendly)

If you really must do it as a Libra man, check your ascendency sign… if it’s Earth or Fire you have a shot, there’s some part of you that can stand up to her. My ascendant is also an air sign… her ascendant is Capricorn (of all things Capricorn!!) so that FIRE has a lot of GROUND to stand on… being two air signs I have nowhere to go once she gets angry!

Being with a Leo is surprisingly quite like being with a Capricorn… Whereas one equates money and financial stability with love the Leo equates offerings of luxury items and overly generous compliments with love… the big difference is Capricorn is quite happy to see the back of Libra man… Leo can be like “You’re not going ANYWHERE!!”

In a strange way their demanding nature somehow drains the romance out of you. You think you’ve gone to the local mall to do SHOPPING, suddenly, she sees a ring and it’s like “Oh if actually loved me you’d buy me that ring” and if I’m like “I’ve got bills to pay and I can’t afford it right now” she’s all “Oh that’s just an excuse, your not ROMANTIC at ALL”. They keep demanding more ‘love’ and ‘romance’ angrily, like a nagging wife, but instead of ‘keep the toilet seat down’ or ‘don’t leave that cup on the couch’ it’s ‘why don’t you say romantic things to me more often, huh?’ and ‘why don’t you buy more gifts, more jewellery?’ and the compulsory nature of it all turns you into and unromantic piece of stone.

In that sense I think I’m VERY lucky she has that Capricorn Ascendant because it gives her some satisfaction to actually earn money herself and be financially independent.

Part of the problem, and I shouldn’t mention it but… she is fat, and that makes her more insecure and possessive. But most of the astrologers say that Leo women are like that anyway, they aren’t called The Lion for nothing!

The worst part about her is, I’m pretty sure she is on the Virgo cusp, and often she likes to make the relationship quite domestic and starts yelling like all hell about little things about the home. I’ve read about Virgo women enjoy the domestic life, but whereas many Virgo women are passive, it seems VITALLY important to my woman that she constantly asserts her dominance in all the domestic aspects. Maybe if she wasn’t on the cusp she wouldn’t be so concerned about the roost, and ruling it?

And she wont talk about nothing… if I want to talk about interesting subjects… meh… it’s always straight back to her: me me me me… I’m the boss around here… my day at work was terrible… my feet are so sore… how come no one ever massages my feet!

The good thing is her she herself doesn’t care too much for doing house work maybe one hour here and then she likes to chill out, buys delicious food and kicks back with a good DVD… sometimes we go out and get lost and it feels good.

But generally every one else is saying what a good pair, so don’t let my overblown tale of woe get you down…

Thank you for the interesting insight into a Libra male. I have recently met a Libra male and I must say he seems everything you have described. Myself personally I understand and respect what you are saying. As a Leo woman I would say the Libra male is calming, humerous and very passionate. A refreshing change to any other star sign I have dated. !!!!

Loving Scales :
I am a Libra man. I love being a Libra man and I really emjoyed reading everyones post. I chuckled reading that we are flighty and indecisive. That is not the total case. We analyze everything, your words, body language, habits, temperment, everything. We weigh out every possiblity. If we are interested we will invest time in you. While we are learning you we are hoping for consistantcy. We are hoping that you are real, true, and genuine. We know that people put up fronts so, we wait. Once we have sized you up then we will make a decision. We Love Leo women. You all are the best! We are great foundational supports and we want you to shine. We want to love you and provide for you. You just can’t take us for granted. True, we love women but, really we desire that one that can balance us out. But, she has to be confident in her self, trusting of us, and reciprocate. If we write you a poem, tell us how much you loved it. If we send you flowers praise us for being thoughtful. If we send you a text telling you how much we adore you and want you. Tell us the same. We don’t mind a little chase but, we get tired quickly. We are aware of our options but, we want who we want. We may flirt with other women but, its only because we are natural charmers. It’s who we are. We may love our Ex’s and never truly get over them. That’s only because when we love, we love hard. At times it may seem that we are more in love with the thought of being in love. Use that! Be a apart of our love journey and don’t try to figure it out. Because, the moment you start questioning us or our motives then thats when it goes sour. We read people well. It may seem like we know you better than you know yourself. You wont admit it but, its true! We can be very loyal just dont let greed, envy or ego get in the way of the relationship. Do not try to manipulate or control us. We can pick up on it quickly. Do not try to use other men to make us jealous. We will remove ourselves from the equation and leave you with your male factor. We are big dreamers. Support that. It may seem that we have many things going on. Support that. We are filtering possibilities. We may say a lot of our ideas aloud. Support that we are including you in the process. Remember that it is a process. We take longer than most but, that’s only because we want the best outcome. We can be very spontaneous! We are more spontaneous when we feel appreciated. Don’t make us feel bad or guilty for an idea that we have. Encouragement inspires us to be creative and innovative. Choose your battles wisely. We are extremely dissinterested in conflict. Negativity is a pool that we do not like to swim in. To calm us… touch us. The head, lowerback, and genital area. No matter how many times we tell you the same story just listen. Listen like its your first time and be excited. We are from the house of love and partnership. We are our best when we are in a loving relationship. We will worship and adore you. The funny thing is… We actually want to! Please try not to box us with limiting beliefs or try to smother us. At times we need space. That’s only because we are recharging and when we come back the love is even stronger. But, it has to be un interrupted. This may seem a little much but, I assure you. It will be a love so powerful, so passionate, so fullfilling that you will wonder why you did not do it in the first place. You can have ego with everone else but, do not have ego with us. We will be your personal Cheerleader. Even if you do wrong we will be by yourside. We will tell you about it. But, you will still have our support. If you focus on peace, love, harmony and beauty and you maintain your mind, body, and spirit in that same regard. You have a solemate for life.

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