This combination can be very delightful, bringing out the best in both signs. Libra’s equanimity has a calming effect on Scorpio’s complicated psyche. It also works in their favor that gender-wise men are expected to be rational and logical, while women are expected to be emotional and feeling.
How to Attract a Libra Man as a Scorpio Woman:
If you can tie your receptivity to an interest in his career, somehow, that’s a great entree. You have to begin at a rather cool temperature and warm up slowly. If you guys do connect, he will begin to rely utterly on your feedback particularly as regards the politics of life and the motives of others. He can be amazingly naive, as you will discover. That’s why he needs you so much. Help him to see that.
How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as a Libra Man:
I think you could safely assume that she will be very flattered by your attention. This lady, for complicated karmic reasons, tends to attract very crude, overt sexual attention, and your gentlemanly manners will be a striking relief. Take your time making your way around the bases. Make sure there are some lovely bouquets and impressive dinners before you round the plate to home base. Your natural charm utterly beguiles her.
Degree of Romance:
These two wrote the Book of Romance. She can pout, dote, manipulate, coerce, and wheedle anything she wants out of him with her feminine ways. She has a way of getting all the romantic moves she can out of a man and Libra has plenty to offer. Scorpio is not particularly romantic in and of itself, but a Scorpio woman can draw it to her out of thin air.
Degree of Passion:
The Libra man will think that what the Scorpio woman is doing is passionate because he’s so unfamiliar with his feelings, so there’s a nice little complicity here. She will have him believing that her breasts heave and her heart beats only for him.
Degree of Friendship:
The Libra man will think they are best friends and it’s just as well kept that way. The fact that Scorpio is in it for what she can get will be just our little secret.
Degree of Marriage:
This is good first marriage material, particularly because of the gender-friendly aspect. It may be years before he realizes that she is the most innovative manipulator, and decades may pass before she realizes that he is really rather detached and somehow always avoids taking off his white gloves. These two will make especially good parents which can do a lot for keeping the marriage together.
Progression of Relationship:
The way these two energies work together is like a beautiful waltz. She may cry or tear up, which allows him to dry her tears and/or help her out of a tough situation. She is likely to provide problems that need solving and he will see them through to a logical conclusion. This wins her trust and undying appreciation because God knows a Scorpio woman has a lot of problems. Somehow in the process, she impresses him with her perceptiveness regarding everyone else but herself, and her instincts for power interest him greatly. As they begin to put pieces together in the puzzle, a beautiful picture emerges.
Sex:
The possibilities here are endless. Scorpio will introduce the emotional element in sex to the more-or-less virgin Libran territory. He will become increasingly excited as he begins to explore new territory. Most Scorpio women are incredibly comfortable with sex (even to the point of exploiting it sometimes), and they tend to attract partners interested in an initiation into the intimate rites.
When It’s Over:
When it’s over, Libra will be a little naively rational and Scorpio will be a little bit extreme emotionally which guarantees a pretty fair ending. These two balance each other out to the end.