With Venus placement, it may become challenging to understand each others approach to love and romance, which I might add, could lead to deep hurt feelings, On the bright side though, Mars, the planet of aggression that we all feel is the worst, has actually facilitated the perfect harmony — the highest level of compatibility where it matters most; passion and sexuality.

Notwithstanding, one possible indicator of an inability to manage one’s own emotions is a tendency to be inconsiderate of the feelings of others. In my opinion, the most effective approach is to simply let your feelings guide you and express what’s on your mind and in your heart.

Further, you shouldn’t disregard the fact that you share an intuitive ability to understand and respond to each other’s emotional states, to me I believe that is something that not many people experience, so then why would anyone have that and let it go?

Approaching the new year, 2023, also known as the year of “7”, which in numerology ( 2+0+2+3) is ‘thee’ foundation number, similarly associated with spiritual awakening – which takes me back to approximately seven years ago when I somehow stumbled into a kindred spirit with whom I share sooo many surprising similarities in terms of how we think and communicate, and even despite our seemingly conflicting ideals on responsibility, boundaries and fears, we understood each other…. so very well.

But whether it was fate or chance, it has been challenging for the most part, but the serendipitous coincidence, I must say, has given life to some remarkable beginnings that were brought forth at just the right time. During our time apart, to counterbalance the mental haze I experience at times, I had to remind myself that letting go of any form of expectations would allow me to see that the world I formerly claimed to have known… seems to be no longer my home, or was I living in a world that I had outgrown?

Having to let go and move on as a result of significant shifts that are taking place right now. It was only by adhering to the truth that I was able to find my way to acceptance of reality. I find that when you’ve been through a lot, you get a clearer picture of how things should be and how they might be, and ultimately, you can tell just how they will turn out, or not; to be..

Altogether, there is a chance for the life-changing experience you’ve always wanted, and the only way to make sure you don’t miss it; is to keep the window from closing.
Happy New Year🌻

NN in 7th house is about learning to be selfless, not selfish, and based on what you’ve expressed here, you have a long way to go. The only way to do that is in relationship with others. Without it, you’ll doubtless never reach your full potential for your souls purpose in being here, but I wish you good fortune in your future.

Agree with your last line! In the same dilemma.

You’re absolutely correct, Sam.

General descriptions, such as this article, can confuse and misguide others. Aries North Node is about balance between independence and partnerships (whether it’s work or intimate).

You seem to have a passion for it. Maybe you should think about writing, too 🙂

@Jyoti Josahentara: As a 7th house Pisces NN fellow traveler — and fellow teacher (history, in my case) — your comment made me want to stand up and cheer. Indeed, it really resonated with, fleshing out out the grave misinterpretation that I, like you, feel that all too many astrologers make with regard to the 7th house.

Thank you so much for calling for a broader interpretation of 7th house NN as you share your valuable experience of this nodal position.

The refreshing voice that you bring to this comment also prompts a plea: Please, please, please write and publish your astrological thinking. Please! In my view, you’d be doing the world a great service, as astrology needs voices like yours that don’t simply embrace cookie-cutter, simple astrological interpretations — e.g. Scorpios are sexy; Aquarians are space cadets; the 7th house denotes only or even mainly marriage and committed romantic partnerships, etc.

In the meantime, please know that you are appreciated; your comment is gold, and I hope that other 7th house NN folks stumble upon it. Thank you.