I’m a gay Pisces male, and I dated an older gay Pisces male (there was a thick age gap). I was from the East Coast, he was from the West Coast, but he also had a place on the East Coast. Two words: Terrible relationship. He was far too quiet for me. It was INCREDIBLY annoying. Quiet isn’t necessarily bad, but he would hardly communicate his feelings to me openly. We would also go without communication for a really long time. And, even if we did talk, he’d be really bad at communicating with me and would tell me that neither one of us was really good at communicating over the phone or online. So, he’d really only contact me when he was around. One time, I complained about the lack of communication, and he said, “Listen, I know you’re trying to be affectionate, but you haven’t developed that capacity yet.”

The sex was mediocre, to be honest. I was bored with it, but he was clearly turned on. After sex, I would cuddle with him, but he would criticize me, saying things like, “I know you’re trying to be affectionate, but I need my sleep.”

I would wanna go out, but he would wanna stay in. Whenever we went out, he was only openly affectionate in contexts where he felt comfortable.

I spent seven hours standing out in the freezing cold on New Year’s Eve with him, waiting for the crystal ball in Times Square to drop. This was nearly seven months after we’d met, and, yet, he still considered me the guy he was still “kinda seeing”. A few days later, he shied away from me in bed and we didn’t cuddle or have sex; it was in that instant that I knew that something was wrong. I stupidly shrugged it off, but, about two weeks later, when I offered to fly out to see him, he said that he wasn’t ready to step up the relationship. He broke off things with me via IM. Completely rude and classless. I really should’ve been a lot more upfront with him, but I was certainly much more open about my feelings than he was.

We had a stupid fight after we broke things off because I joked, saying, “Have fun with your new boy toy”, but he took it very personally and accused me of trying to find out whether he was seeing someone else. (I wasn’t, but okay…) I apologized to him later that night by leaving a card on his doorstep and tried to talk to him, but he said he never wanted to “talk”. I tried to reconcile things by telling him that I do care that he’s seeing someone else, but only to make sure that he’s happy. I even called him, apologizing for offending. I’m definitely not jealous, since he and I already broke everything off. I simply wanted to be friends with him, but he just didn’t wanna be friends anymore.

I read into his Moon sign, and it turned out being in Pisces (aka double Pisces). I, on the other hand, have my Moon sign in Aries. This was probably part of the problem. Perhaps I was the more aggressive one, but I was showing myself honestly.

But, still, there were some good moments in the “relationship”. For example, he drove up to visit me at school (I go to school 100+ miles away from home). He also was there for me when I had problems with my parents. When he was sweet, he was very sweet, and he was delicate. I miss him, sure, but after how he treated me, I feel I should definitely move on. Now, I’m kinda getting into a Leo man.

MORAL OF MY STORY: Check your Moon sign carefully!

He loves sex so much and he’s always willing to amaze me. So far I must I’m glad to be in a relationship with him