Thank you who ever you are…. everything you said helped me. Thank you!!

Although he is secretive we do somehow compliment one another. In contrast, we live in separate homes but his actions defines him as a excellent provider. He is self-employed and his financials are similar to our communications up and down. Although he does not admit it, I believe his self-esteem is low most of the time because of his financial situation, and his inability to provide for me in the way in which I provide for my self, although he will never admit it. We motivate one another even though confrontation is difficult for him. Because of it I often wonder what is behind all the unnecessary conversation. I know without a doubt he cares for me, and often display it in his actions, even though he is not vocal. I am not certain exactly how I feel or if I would be willing to open my heart entirely if he choose to make more of our relationship. Because I do not feel entirely safe, but that could be because I have been independence for 5 years now and not certain if I am truly ready to make that kind of commitment.

Moreover, there have been times when I wanted to throw in the towels because of his lack of communication. But have since acknowledge that he does shares a little at a time. As for our relationship I often wonder how long it would last because although I love him. I truly do not know what the future holds for us.

Don’t give these guys a chance. They pretend to be decent and like they’re really interested in you, but they will pull the rug out from underneath you so fast. Stay away from these men. They’re all psychotic and have deep-set anger issues and will blame you for every single one of their shortcomings. They’re obsessive stalkers too and won’t leave you alone, even long after they’re done with you. They feed off of attention, so ignore these guys. Don’t be fooled if you catch one looking in your direction. They’re just a cesspool of hate and manipulation looking for new victims to ensnare. These are the kind of guys who become serial killers and the stuff of LifeTime movies. Stay away! Be warned!

I will agree that yes everyone transitions at their own pace but by not letting go of a past disappointment will only mean you’re denying yourself a chance of ever living fully in the present. Its like engraving the bad things that happens to us in marble therefore allowing the painful memories to be immortalized in our minds flowing well deep over into our soul…..and for sure thats not healthy, neither to you or the other person it willl indirectly affect.

Listen you were just a responsible for part of the bad experiences so next time aspire to not be so forthright with some those kind of reflecting behaviours and maybe you will have a better relationship, because for every action is a reaction, like it or not, only you will know what you need to do differently the next time around to make sure you have a more meaningful and fulfilling relationship with someone new, whenever you find that person….we arent stupid and we are pretty much aware of all the things that ruin a relationship, so refrain from doing them next time.

Why would anybody want to be walking around with baggage from the past about failures, disappointments, mistakes and keep weighing down ourselves, like idk – why? To fully live in the present and be able to adequately plan for the future we seriously need to release the past and stand firmly in the present and prepare to step assertively in the future.

Renew yourself and refuse to entertain old pain – release that attachment, today is a new day and a new year 🙂

Marty :

Hello All, I am a virgo woman dating a pisces man and the key to a longtime relationship is that virgo must know more about themselves than they do about pisces. Why? Because otherwise you will get blown away and lose yourself. If Pisces is in a relationship or with you at all, they are into you…and there is a good chance that it could be good as between you , BUT….Pisces is a water sign, (flowing, moving, free like water. Virgo is a earth sign,(stable, anchored and formed). The relationship becomes mud when Virgo doesn’t her ground. By this I mean pisces is attracted to you for what they DO NOT have. TRUST me…Pisces KNOWS he’s flighty, he knows he’s romantic and has charm…he’s looking for a STRONG woman who knows who she is and is not blown away by his outer shell and sensuous ways alone. He wants you to love yourself to the point that your independent, you enjoy him when he’s there, BUT you have a life when he’s not…(YOU KNOW JUST AS YOU DID BEFORE HIM). You see he loves the chase, he wants to sweep you off your feet, but let him. He can’t do this If you are always at his side. They get tired quickly and need time to restore themselves. They are very spiritual people…healers even, but they need a purpose. THE CHALLENGE for us virgos is we need a routine. Pisces are NOT routine people. They like the “flow”…DON’T worry. Which is what we do. (KNOW THIS ABOUT YOURSELF). Pisces are also deep feeling. They take on other peoples energy both good and bad. Virgo FIND A BALANCE, a good one and try to stay there…otherwise you will scare him away because your energy is way to scarey, roaring like rough water. He will escape until you calm down. YOU CANNOT CONTROL PISCES!!!! Hear me…they will not be manipulated, lied to or controlled. They are your OPPOSITE. KNOW WHO YOU ARE and you will be able to know them…”opposite”. If your frustrated—he’s not, so calm down and he will come, if you miss him–he doesn’t, get busy with something and he will come, if your overthinking it–he’s not, let it go and he will talk, etc. He(PISCES FEEDS)off your energy. Remember it’s OPPOSITES that attract, but you must act the opposite of what YOU would normally feel…that is once you have become spiritual partners. Once you have slept with a pisces…he carries your spirit with him in his chest, he knows what your feeling before you tell him. RELAX!!!!!!! ALWAYS BE PLEASANT with your discussions and tell him eye to eye what you want from him, but if he fails, be prepared to keep moving on with your life. YOU HAVE NOT LOST HIM! He simply needs direction from your actions. He lacks this. LISTEN if your direction is him? There’s NOTHING for him to do. Let me say this ladies: THERE’S TWO OF THEM…”fish” that is. The ones we love is the kind, compassionate, loving fish….HE DOES NOT dominate. It’s the under-current fish who is flighty, distant, escapism, dark, depress fish who rules this sign. PUT YOUR EMOTIONS AWAY!!! Learn to keep the under-current fish at bay. This is why your pisces came to you in the first place; your order, your light, your love of all things good….not to have you go under with him. He came along when he was NOT your focus…you must continue to have a life outside of him and not get swept away with his nice charm…BE STRONGER than that. LOVE yourself virgo….YOU ARE THE ANCHOR in this relationship whether you know it or not. You are what keeps him from drifting….Don’t take that literally, as we do. He will go away at times, daydream, get depressed etc. LET HIM!!!! Do you and he will QUICKLY follow suit for his love sooner than you expected. Some will even TEST your strength to see your abilities and try to wait you out…C’MON WE’RE VIRGO!!!! The most intelligent zodiac of them all. KNOW YOU! Do what it is we do…be committed, focused and determined to succeed. But CALM DOWN!!No one likes a worry wart, a nag, a trembler, a pain, STOP THE DRAMA. YOU ARE THE QUEEN, GODDESS…act like it. HE ALREADY KNOWS THIS and is wondering why you don’t. By the way…I’. dating my best friend, we went to school together 20 years ago, my brother, my uncle, my aunt and my son are all pisces…..lot of practice on different levels. They really are the most loving, warm and gentle people to know, but they need what you have, not the other way around. Don’t get swept away by their intensity…it is chilling and soul shaking, but YOU ARE THE SAME TO THEM…he he, You DIDN’T KNOW THAT DID YOU? Love YOURSELF Virgo and they will love you too…they already do, but don’t let on to that. They are scared to be hurt and vulnerable. They have scales. Anyway, us virgo tend to be chatty…Hope this helps.

love everything you said Marty plz email me i have a few questions im going through a lil something right now [email protected]