thank you Katlynn for your positive and articulate reply. I have deep love for my scorpio and believe things will be alright. He has tendencies like you describe yours was in the beginning. Thank you again I need the hope!

I am very free spirited and move around a lot (mentally), he grounds me and my thoughts, he lets me know when I’m being to eccentric or my thoughts are getting to a crazy level. He holds my thoughts and I together like no one has before.

When I first met him he was a hard man, he was very secretive and hidden with his feelings. I showed him what love was and what it felt like to truly be loved and he opened up to me. Things he would NEVER do, he’ll do with me because he wants me to be happy.

It is hard and you do bump head sometime but the love and passion that is held between us is so spiritually overwhelming. I have never met another person that I connect with on so many different levels, sexually, spiritually and emotionally.

I would go through the obstacles and challenges a million more times to have the connection that I have with my amazing Scorpio man. It can work if you both are willing to compromise, and the result is unimaginable!!!

We met this summer by the end of July and things were amazing. She’s always had a dream of becoming a doctor and by the end of august, she was approved to a medical program in another City to become a doctor. I takes approx. 1h with train to go between the cities. At the time she moved there, things were amazing and both of us were really sorry and she said that she would apply for the medical program in our city so that she could move back by the end of the year (a couple of monhts later). That was the plan. As we are both students, we were not able to see eachother that much during the first couple of weeks. She was supposed to come back on the weekends to get together. By the first weekend, she became sick, and we decided it would be best not to see each other in order for me not to get sick aswell. So we met the following weekend (2 weeks after she moved). We had been skyping and texting each other a lot during this time. We got together that weekend and things got back to normal for a day or two, and it was once more amazing. The she left again and I went back to take care of my buisness. We would see eachother the next weekend. That was the plan. At this point, I hadn’t got any clue of what was lying ahead. I’m glad I didn’t knew what was coming to be honest.

So the days rolled by, an we were gonna se eachother the next weekend. However, during the week, she got sick again. This time very sick. We talked and she said that there were just so much stress and that she didn’t knew how to handle it. It is reasonable to expect a lot of stress if you are a young girl that’s moving to another city for the first time and also attending a medical program. She said she had been crying alot and that she didn’t know how to handle the stress. We talked alot I tried to be supportive. After that weekend, she did not get better. When the next weekend came, she told me that she still didn’t feel good enough to come back. So we continued talking and skyping. So three weeks after seeing eachother the last time (when things were as amazing), we finally got to se eachother. However, something was not right. I could tell by the first night (friday) that she wasn’t like normally would be. I thought that it depended on the stress and the fact that she still was a bit ill. The following day (saturday), we went to the movies with her sister and her boyfriend (really good friends of both of us). However, all of us three could tell that something was serioulsy wrong. me and my girl got home at about 01.00 am and we grabed something to eat quickly and went to bed. I started to cuddle with her but I could feel the something was wrong. It had been all weekend. So I asked her to say whats on her mind and tell me everything. She explained there was so much stress and the she did not know how to handle it all. And she started crying. She told me the she felt like we were slowly being pulled away from eachother. I agreed, i had felt it to, but I still had very strong feelings for here. She told me that she were not sure of how we were gonna make our relationship work. I tried with all my heart to find out the thruth and she revealed a very important fact that need to be highlighted.

She felt like the overall impression she had got during our relationship, was that I did not care enough for her.

This killed me. I started crying uncontrollably because I knew that I did in fact care for her, but she insisted that we were too different to be together. That night was the worst night of my life. I litterally cried the whole night beside her because I knew that this would be our final night together. She would not give me a chance to improve myself, as I was feeling willing to sacrifce all to be with here.

The following morning we talked for hours and eat breakfast at approx. 12am. I was devastated. She was not crying. Maybe becuase she had already been crying the past couple of weeks. That’s probably the reason why she got sick.

What upsets the most me is the fact the she never explained to me in the first place how she felt, and how she wanted me to show her more that i care for her. If she would have told me this earlier, I would have done everything in my power to show her my feelings. But she decided to tell me this before she had already made up her mind.

She has explained that when she had been with me, she had been feeling like she hadn’t got any response or confirmation from me, that I truly had feeling for her. She explain that all the time she felt more and more torn and the she evetually felt worthless.

When I heard that, It destroyed me. It felt like a blade slicing through my stomach. It made me realize how bad of a boyfriend I had been. But at the same time, I had only been myself. If I were to change, then she would not love me for who I am. i did have feelings for her, I’m just not that good at showing them.

However when the cards were dropped and She wanted to breakup, I felt like I really was not ready for it. She broke my heart. What I did not know was that I had been breaking her heart all the time. So right now, I don’t feel very well. She had always been treating me perfectly, and right now I feel like I have made a huge misstake, and I feel incredibly sad. The last time I saw here before the break up was when things were amazing, and I had been longing to get together ever since.

It was yesterday that we woke up together for the last time, eat breakfast and said goodbye. When we said goodbye, she started crying, but not to the extent that I had been crying. I cried the whole day.

So today (break up took place yesterday) I just wanted to share my experience as a scorpio man getting together with a gemini woman. Don’t make the same misstake I did. Show your partner how important she is for you. Make sure that she feels loved. I thought that she was feeling loved due to the way she was treating me and the way she behaved when we were together. I turns out she was holding back her emotions because she was afraid to hurt me. This eventually lead to the break up. I told her in the early stages of the relationship that if you ever feel like something is wrong, let me know so that we can work those things out. She never gave me a clear indication that something in fact was wrong. She had in fact been giving me small hints like jokingly saying “you’re so hard to read” etc. but not to an extent that I actually realized how she felt.

However I think that, in the end, we were in fact very different. And I do believe that sooner or later, it would have ended. Maybe this contributed to my feelings not being expressed properly. But right I feel like this wasn’t the right time to break yp, especially for me. But what can I do? I just gotta keep going forward, without thinking about us, even though I still feel willing to try again.

I just hope that no one ever have to go through what I am going through. Knowing it’s over because of you, unintentinally, broke you partners heart, is overwhelming.