It can be really difficult to “get along” with Cardinal signs. They aren’t game players and don’t usually have agendas, but they are oriented in a certain direction (usually some goal), and if you aren’t going in that same direction, they don’t know how to relate. If the person is an immature Aries or there are other Mars influences in the chart, Aries can also pick fights for no reason just to generate some energy. Geminis are great company, and mutable signs are so easy-going. You have the perfect description: “I did my thing and he did his.” An Aries is looking for a lot more interaction and can be really provocative if they don’t feel you’re paying them enough attention.

Towards the end of high school, she got in a verbal confrontation with my friend. My friend was not really cool about it, but I believe she saw it as contest to see who I would back up. I found the whole argument childish anyways, so I kept my mouth shut. She took it as a betrayal, that I should back up my girlfriend 100%. I told her that she should have just let it go, and that it was just my friend being a jerk (I would have lots of convos about how awful my friends were. Maybe she didn’t like me giving attention to other friends?). Anyways, after that things got crappy. We had a long talk and at the end of it we were “on a break”. We had already made plans for senior prom so we went to that together, but it sucked. I thought she looked beautiful and she knew it, and she teased me all night long and then left with other people afterwards. She started pursuing this guy, who I knew she was attracted to even when we were dating, and behaved very coldly to me. I was very hurt.

I started flirting with another girl, yet maintained a polite relationship with my Sagi. Then one night, she broke down in tears while I was dropping her off at her dad’s house. She wanted to get back together, and I tried to tell her we were broken up, that we needed to stay as just friends. But I was weak, and couldn’t cut it off. My baby was bawling right next to me, and I just wanted to make her feel better. I knew that the guy she was pursuing had turned her down; she had told me so herself. Looking back, I wonder if she only wanted me back because I was getting involved with another girl while her attempt with another guy floundered.

Anyways, I took her back (a mistake) and the following summer was the most sexually explosive time of my young life. But I felt like she was very clingy. I always had to give her rides to work, to hang out with her friends, to do anything. I even had to give her little sister rides. She still did not have a license to drive at this point, and I honestly felt like I was a chauffer or taxi man.

Then, when I was about to start college, we had another talk. This time, she said she felt like I loved her, but not as passionately as before, not like a girlfriend. But she was not sad about it, and I found it too easy to agree with her, to tell her she had hit the nail on the head. After all, the world had just opened up for me, and I was eager to explore. So once again, we separated, this time as friends. Things got worse. We had a casual sexual relationship, but she never thought twice about telling me about how she took some younger kid’s virginity who worked as a counselor at the summer camp she worked at, or how sexy this guy I work with is when they are alone *gag*.

And then she started dating this other guy, and our sexual relationship ended. I became evasive and withdrawn from her. Eventually she broke up with that guy, and once again our passions were reignited. But then, suddenly, it was over again. We still slept in the same bed, but things were obviously different when we never did anything more than exchange simple kisses during several concurrent nights spent together.

Then one morning after we slept together (mind you, still no physical relations), the insane Scorpio in me came out to rear it’s ugly head, and I looked at her text messages that she was spending so much time on the previous evening. Well my suspicions were confirmed, unfortunately. She had been texting her boss from work, who I had met previously. I didn’t know they were involved romantically, but it hit me like a ton of bricks that morning. According to her text, I was an “asshole friend” who couldn’t take her out to the bar where he was hanging out. I guess they had made plans or something, and I was her ride (yet again grr) to get out to meet him. I was wondering why she was so eager to go out…

So I kept looking thru her texts with him, and I have never felt any heartbreak greater than that day. I was literally able to trace their romance from its beginnings to the night they hooked up to the night that I was too tired to take her out to the bar to meet her friend. After that, I was really depressed and felt betrayed. I became withdrawn again, but we managed a shaky and tenuous relationship as friends. They dated for quite a while. While dating him, she revealed to me how she felt caged by him, and she told me how I was her outlet for her feelings. Then they broke up, and this time I was more than ready to reignite our flame. I had some other unsuccessful attempts at romance, and the chemistry we have is unlike anything else I have experienced.

But it seems that she is past me. We have kissed and hugged romantically and only once made love since. I thought she wanted to take it slow perhaps, let our love blossom again. I was ready to treat her like a goddess; I had come to realize how happy she made me. But it isn’t turning out as I imagined. I can handle her having physical relationships with other guys, but I need a little physical attention of my own. She says she wants things to last between us, but I can’t handle it when she invites me out to a bar, where she is hanging out with another guy friend that I know she has a crush on, and she is all over him while I had to sit by myself and make small talk with her sisters friends.

She used to call me to hang out all the time. But now she has 2 jobs and is very busy, I can understand that. But she is too tired to hang out after her double shift, and I work a lot too, which leaves us little time to be together. A few weekends ago she said she would ‘save a weekend night just for me’. I was looking forward to it with great avarice. But then, our time together ended abruptly as yet another friend came to pick her up out of nowhere to take her somewhere else. All in all, I’d say I spent more time thinking about how I wanted the night to go compared to the amount of time we did spend together. This brings me to the here and now in my life. I started looking into astrology out of curiosity, and the descriptions for Scorp and Sagi were pretty fitting for me and her. I love her but I am tired of being emotionally toyed with. I am having trouble moving on, and in truth, I don’t want to move on. She pervades my dreams, and fills my head at night with feelings of desire. I am young and I will find another love. This is my mantra until further notice

Towards the end of high school, she got in a verbal confrontation with my friend. My friend was not really cool about it, but I believe she saw it as contest to see who I would back up. I found the whole argument childish anyways, so I kept my mouth shut. She took it as a betrayal, that I should back up my girlfriend 100%. I told her that she should have just let it go, and that it was just my friend being a jerk (I would have lots of convos about how awful my friends were. Maybe she didn’t like me giving attention to other friends?). Anyways, after that things got crappy. We had a long talk and at the end of it we were “on a break”. We had already made plans for senior prom so we went to that together, but it sucked. I thought she looked beautiful and she knew it, and she teased me all night long and then left with other people afterwards. She started pursuing this guy, who I knew she was attracted to even when we were dating, and behaved very coldly to me. I was very hurt.

I started flirting with another girl, yet maintained a polite relationship with my Sagi. Then one night, she broke down in tears while I was dropping her off at her dad’s house. She wanted to get back together, and I tried to tell her we were broken up, that we needed to stay as just friends. But I was weak, and couldn’t cut it off. My baby was bawling right next to me, and I just wanted to make her feel better. I knew that the guy she was pursuing had turned her down; she had told me so herself. Looking back, I wonder if she only wanted me back because I was getting involved with another girl while her attempt with another guy floundered.

Anyways, I took her back (a mistake) and the following summer was the most sexually explosive time of my young life. But I felt like she was very clingy. I always had to give her rides to work, to hang out with her friends, to do anything. I even had to give her little sister rides. She still did not have a license to drive at this point, and I honestly felt like I was a chauffer or taxi man.

Then, when I was about to start college, we had another talk. This time, she said she felt like I loved her, but not as passionately as before, not like a girlfriend. But she was not sad about it, and I found it too easy to agree with her, to tell her she had hit the nail on the head. After all, the world had just opened up for me, and I was eager to explore. So once again, we separated, this time as friends. Things got worse. We had a casual sexual relationship, but she never thought twice about telling me about how she took some younger kid’s virginity who worked as a counselor at the summer camp she worked at, or how sexy this guy I work with is when they are alone *gag*.

And then she started dating this other guy, and our sexual relationship ended. I became evasive and withdrawn from her. Eventually she broke up with that guy, and once again our passions were reignited. But then, suddenly, it was over again. We still slept in the same bed, but things were obviously different when we never did anything more than exchange simple kisses during several concurrent nights spent together.

Then one morning after we slept together (mind you, still no physical relations), the insane Scorpio in me came out to rear it’s ugly head, and I looked at her text messages that she was spending so much time on the previous evening. Well my suspicions were confirmed, unfortunately. She had been texting her boss from work, who I had met previously. I didn’t know they were involved romantically, but it hit me like a ton of bricks that morning. According to her text, I was an “asshole friend” who couldn’t take her out to the bar where he was hanging out. I guess they had made plans or something, and I was her ride (yet again grr) to get out to meet him. I was wondering why she was so eager to go out…

So I kept looking thru her texts with him, and I have never felt any heartbreak greater than that day. I was literally able to trace their romance from its beginnings to the night they hooked up to the night that I was too tired to take her out to the bar to meet her friend. After that, I was really depressed and felt betrayed. I became withdrawn again, but we managed a shaky and tenuous relationship as friends. They dated for quite a while. While dating him, she revealed to me how she felt caged by him, and she told me how I was her outlet for her feelings. Then they broke up, and this time I was more than ready to reignite our flame. I had some other unsuccessful attempts at romance, and the chemistry we have is unlike anything else I have experienced.

But it seems that she is past me. We have kissed and hugged romantically and only once made love since. I thought she wanted to take it slow perhaps, let our love blossom again. I was ready to treat her like a goddess; I had come to realize how happy she made me. But it isn’t turning out as I imagined. I can handle her having physical relationships with other guys, but I need a little physical attention of my own. She says she wants things to last between us, but I can’t handle it when she invites me out to a bar, where she is hanging out with another guy friend that I know she has a crush on, and she is all over him while I had to sit by myself and make small talk with her sisters friends.

She used to call me to hang out all the time. But now she has 2 jobs and is very busy, I can understand that. But she is too tired to hang out after her double shift, and I work a lot too, which leaves us little time to be together. A few weekends ago she said she would ‘save a weekend night just for me’. I was looking forward to it with great avarice. But then, our time together ended abruptly as yet another friend came to pick her up out of nowhere to take her somewhere else. All in all, I’d say I spent more time thinking about how I wanted the night to go compared to the amount of time we did spend together. This brings me to the here and now in my life. I started looking into astrology out of curiosity, and the descriptions for Scorp and Sagi were pretty fitting for me and her. I love her but I am tired of being emotionally toyed with. I am having trouble moving on, and in truth, I don’t want to move on. She pervades my dreams, and fills my head at night with feelings of desire. I am young and I will find another love. This is my mantra until further notice

In addition….. “oh only if he’s sure she’s his lover” …. you will forever be his always!

All said and done, Scorpios are adorable, sound, solid, stable, dependable friends and the most awesome lovers 🙂