my nature is to open up from the start when i really like a woman, as much as an introvert/ scorpio can, and thanks God i’m a pretty smart and also good looking guy because otherwise i know i wouldn’t have had a chance to get her attention. i know that i did all i possibly could (bluntly, i have never courted a women like that, was not afraid to show things) to make her see my intentions and all the emotion she sparked in me (no roses in mouth and cheesy declarations, but long talks – interesting ones, commitment through what ive said and did, compliments, sincerity, a lot of good sex, cooked for her, fixed for her some house stuff like a man should, surprised her..basically no woman was in sight beyond or above her…we had a lot of good times in the beginning 🙂 i know i’m far from being perfect but with her it was the closest i could get to romantic perfection

BUT

people say that scorpios are cold and hard to deal with…no way, she was stone cold to most of my display, at least that was my perception, so hard to crack, to get some usual feedback that we crave to have in order to know we’re on the right track – it took me between 1-2 months to realize this but eventually the stupid in love part faded and it started to ich (to put it in other words, virgo feedback was like a foreing language to scorpio – i just couldnt get if she was into me or prospecting also around – most probably id say, she never confirmed). She had very little or no display of tenderness, 0 declarations to validate my actions, very little intention of initiating dialogue – super quiet (although she could debate on most topics no problem), no intention to share (like a thought, surprise me with a message whatever)

we talked about all as soon as the situation gave the opportunity, i understood and thought i believed her words that were”that’s me, be patient”, i saw her trying to improve some aspects but there seemd to be effort involved, she was trying to speak my language but really struggled. my scorpio mind translated this with – im not that into you, you’re not enough, i might be looking around. the natural pride that we scorpios come with made me lose interest and repeatedly say that i diserve better, although i stayed just to see if this could turn around.

this coldness, quitness and little emotion display (also she would shy away from showing affection towards me in public) would eventually drive me into my paranoid and overthinking zone from which i sabotaged and distroyed the relationship in time, was not my intention but my demons were strong

she dumped me when she understood that there was no turning back and i respect that, she was strong to take action because she developed feelings for me as i had for her and this situation was hurting us both. i love her and i know that she also loves me, unfortunately was kind of a bad timing and 2 different languages spoken.

so my conclusion. usually mature or evolved scorpio is looking for a lifetie partner (for the end of the world 🙂 and is willing to put all chips in if decides to, but sensing you’re not all in from the start or somehow beginning (and some virgo’s coldness might seem to be like that), will lose interest because it doesn’t know any better. all or nothing.

I dated a bunch of Scorpio men, and every single one of them left me (a Pisces) for a Virgo woman. I think there’s just something about Virgos that they love. Virgos women are really independent and not at all clingy, unlike us artsy lovey dovey Pisces. Every single Scorp guy I dated eventually got sick of my romanticism and ended up with a bossy, on-top-of-her-shit Virgo woman.

I know astrology always says that Pisces-Scorpio is a great combo, but from personal experience, I really don’t think so. My Scorp guys were all so horrible for me…but somehow Virgo women (super busy and independent) do well with them, and Scorp guys follow them around like puppies.

I’m talking to Cancer guy now and he is soooo consistent I love it. He texts and calls me like clockwork. (My Scorp ex would just go MIA for days at a time.) I cannot handle that up and down on and off drama that Scorp men do…but I think Virgo women are tougher and can handle it and put Scorp men in their place somehow (God bless, I guess someone is strong enough to handle Scorpio men. Not me, haha.)

That is my two cents…hope it is helpful!!!!!