Comments on: Taurus Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

By: alexis

alexis — Thu, 27 Jul 2017 06:13:23 +0000

I have read soooooooo many readings for my Aquarius man =-)
I’ve dated 3 and didn’t know until I fell in love with my last one and realized the similarities. He made me realize why it didn’t work with the rest & why I couldn’t knock this attraction to Aquarius.
I’ve never commented but I have a response to a lot of those heart broken and confused. Especially to Lisa and the one Aquarius man that commented. I want to be someone’s resilience to keep pushing or others strength to let go.
The biggest hurdles for the Taurus woman/ Aquarius man relationship is communication and understanding. These signs are both FIXED!!!!!!! In astrology, a fixed sign is very sure of themselves, very stubborn, and also extremely loyal (Scorpios, Leos, Taurus, Aquarius). These signs are hard to sway. Their word is bond. But from the signs I named, I attract those in my life the most. I also keep the around the longest because of their natural self-confidence…
Now, I used to be the bitter Taurus woman who would blame him for everything wrong in our relationship but still stay to complain -___- I obviously was delusional. So much to the point that I realized my delusion. I would always look up Taurus readings, Taurus Aquarius readings, but never Aquarius readings. I would always point out his flaw or mistake but would overlook my own. As a Taurus, I can be extremely self-absorbed and forget everything if it doesn’t pertain or fit into my life like I want it to and that was my biggest downfall.
Three things everyone reading this has to understand:
1. ASTROLOGY IS NOT GOD!!!!!
2. Your faults are not what makes you special, they are what you need to work on the hardest.
3. No one is the same & no one is perfect.
Astrology gives excuses to the people who say well this is who I am and I can’t change that!!! And my Taurus ass loved anything excusing my flaws: my stubbornness, my loudness, my temper, my logic/practical approach to everything, my laziness, etc.
AQUARIUS & TAURUS ARE THE EXACT SAME PERSON!!!! Do not let this astrology shit fool you. We are polar opposites meaning we are the exact same just on opposite sides of the extreme. The north & South Pole, ying, & yang, summer& winter (literally), wind & earth. Seemingly things that wouldn’t need/know the other but two things that work in harmony/ on the same chord. HEAR ME OUT. I’m stubborn, l know it all, in a lighthouse for my friends & family (meaning I bring them together & give the best advice), I’m creative & fun, I love talking, in very intellectual and so is my Aquarius.
“Just because someone doesn’t love like you, doesn’t mean they don’t love.”
My Aries mother helped me put this all into perspective. I shared his flaws with her just for her to tell me an exact time I was just like him. He’s too aloof, too on the run, too into friends, too quiet, too moody. But I’m too practical, too much in my home, emotionally shut off from friends, too talkative sometimes, and sometimes it seems as if I have no emotions. Then I thought, aren’t I moody? Don’t I love my friends? Don’t I love being a hoe and talking to multiple people (Taurus don’t deny it!)? Anyways, I realized that was me on the inside. Only my mother knew this but I was mad at him for openly being the person I was on the inside. I faulted him because he was transparent to the world when I hid from the world.
Understanding someone could change everything. Understand what they long for and desire will help you with your relationship. When I began to research Aquarius men, I realized I had been doing it all wrong. I would explode when he does the same thing over and over but I would get mad if he completely walked away. But I was wrong. I was wrong in thinking like a Taurus instead of a human being. I’m extremely keen on my surrounds and pick up on most things in the physical (senses). But he wasn’t as keen to my signs of me not liking something. Instead of being a human being and expressing to him what I didn’t like when he first did it, I thought it was common sense when he had no clue. I realized that he would leave because he felt more alone and even more misunderstood that he couldn’t deal with trying to fix what was wrong. Especially with me acting like a bull.
The Aquarius man is one hard to understand but one worth understanding. They definitely believe in true love but are extremely aloof. So what usually happens is they fall in love in a week and get their feelings hurt. They will continue the relationship secretly trying to get you back for something you probably don’t remember or will keep a chip on their shoulder. Ex: I’m a slow and steady Taurus when my boyfriend fell in love with me and I rejected him 2xs. After 8 months in the SITUATIONSHIP I was upset that we weren’t in a relationship. We talked and he finally made it official but not before I admitted I was wrong and that I shouldn’t have kept him waiting. Now even though he believes in true love, he won’t be a fool to love. Because he gets hurt so easily, he knows that he must keep going so he in turn has “no time” for emotion. And that’s not wrong to be like that. I had to start understanding. He runs away because he knows people won’t understand his feelings or will think he is over exaggerating when really that’s how he feels. That explains the aloof nature and the walk up and leave attitude.
AQUARIUS ARE ATTRACTED TO TAURUS BECAUSE WE UNDERSTAND THEM IN SILENCE. And that’s what they prefer. But you have to get that Aquarius to talk & open up. They can’t open up if Taurus continues to only see the flaws of other people & snaps on people when they don’t know what happened in the first place. As a Taurus, you are your Aquarius’ safe haven, the logic guru, the gushy lover that doesn’t make it feel gushy. Embrace your powers (patience) and this could turn out amazing. The Aquarius is the Taurus’ safe haven too, IF WE LET THEM. As soon as I start understanding and communicating with my Aquarius, I saw the most amazing side to him. He was my safe haven, my opposition when I’m always right, my get up and move when all I want to do is be lazy, my shoulder to cry on when I guilt myself into a corner. I had to realize that differences weren’t bad. I just hated being wrong.
AND TO LISA: (and any other Taurus guilting their Aquarius for being them)
BE REAL WITH YOURSELF! Is it his fault your life is in shambles or yours? A Taurus is loyal to a fault. We will literally let people use and walk over us just because it feels comfortable, because we don’t like change, because we don’t like being wrong about our decisions. The second I put my pride to the side and said hey I made a mistake, was the second I realized my life SHOULD NOT BE A RELATIONSHIP. My Aquarius made me realize that life goes on, even if you’re sad and heart broken. I had broken his heart millions of times just to prove a point and he always came back. And it was stupid because breaking his heart broke my own but my point had to be made -__- He did something that was wrong and I took my friendship and love. This made him value it more and realize I’m not like the rest of the zodiac that likes to play games. A Taurus can take a long time deciding something but once the decision is made, it’s made for life. I would say hey I can’t do this anymore, but still hang with him, still fuck him and get mad…… But that loyal Taurus stuff fucked me up. Because the Aquarius is a friend to the Taurus. The Taurus in turn has to be a friend to the Aquarius. Why stay in a relationship if you are unhappy & then blame it on someone else? It hurts Taurus to turn away from people they love but sometimes a punk fake is necessary (a fake pulling back just to see someone’s reaction). I was forcing a marriage like relationship on a 22 yr. old rapper. He didn’t let me go but let me in his world. We changed each other. I helped him understand that having hoes isn’t where it’s at and he helped me realized life has to go on. When I was feeling lazy and unmotivated I had to remember life goes on. When he was meeting groupies at the studio he had to realize the stable life Taurus provides will not stand for a 3rd party. So we make each other better. I had to learn that a friendship was more important than a relationship. The friendship is always going to last even when our relationship was rocky. And because I understood that, he changed his ways. Now our relationship is not rocky. He understands my need to know what he’s doing just like I understand his need for excitement. `
Being with my Aquarius on and off for two years, we’ve both realized that life is better together. We’ve trumped so many strongholds together that I couldn’t imagine falling in love with any other person or sign. At first, we didn’t understand each other but we did understand that we loved each other and that never faded. TAURUS- DO NOT RUIN SOMETHING GOOD! I almost did. We sometimes think that because someone doesn’t run after us that they don’t love us. But if both partners are worth having why did I run away in the first place. THE AQUARIUS IS THE ONE SIGN THAT TAURUS DOES NOT HAVE TO FAKE FOR. They understand you and most importantly, you understand them. You both long for each other. But Taurus are too in their heads. I was too concerned with people never seeing a single emotion that I had hid them all from the one person I needed to see them. He felt alone, cold, and that I was very distant. And he was right. Taurus has a way of distancing people because we know they wouldn’t understand. Your Aquarius does. Love them & they’ll love back 10xs harder.

By: Chineseboxes

Chineseboxes — Thu, 13 Apr 2017 11:42:21 +0000

Thanks a million and ten hundred times @Lisa Smith, really do appreciate the account of all your experiences, it has really been an enlightened eye opener on all the things I refuse to and will never compromise on and even if it means not to ever pursue or attempt to fullfil a dream of a relationship let alone marriage with an Aqua Man then so be it.

end of lent today…..END OF STORY forever!

p.s. – To everyone out there looking for real love, there is no such thing, they are all a bunch a liars, cheaters, users and genuine assholes, save your heart the trouble and torture and be your own happy place.

Love & Light folks, take care and be good to yourself always; no one can do that for you.

By: Asobo

Asobo — Sat, 17 Dec 2016 17:01:32 +0000

Hi am a Taurus in love this Aquarius guy we on Jun 21 we where happy together going out every day chatting all night suddenly he just stop texting and calling I try o find out what was going on he just he is no interested in the relationship that we can only be friends and nothing else . H

By: Kynance

Kynance — Thu, 10 Nov 2016 01:16:04 +0000

@ Lisa Smith . . . I don’t think the problem is the Aqua sign here . . Your ex-man sounds like a psychopath narcissist. You describe my 22yr marriage to a tee . . But he was a Leo.
I am with an Aquarius now.
Sure . . I know it’s a mismatch and I’m scared to give my all in case i get hurt (me = Taurus).
But he has persued me enough for me to give him another chance . . He’s tardy and untidy and a few other niggles . . But he is gentlemanly and polite and (so far) very loyal. I have seen much much worse out there from ‘compatible’ signs . . . So I’m going to try harder and put my horns away as much as I can.
I honestly think your guy was a narcissist . . And this can happen with any sign.
All the best guys x

By: CheckPlease

CheckPlease — Fri, 01 Apr 2016 23:24:49 +0000

@Lisa Smith: Wow the person you described sounds exactly like an Aquarius male in his fifties with the initials J.S. who happens to be married for about 28 years and works at the DWP…..hmmm. He frequents a skating rink every Thursday in California and has been flirting dangerously with one or more of the female skaters there despite his sporting a gold wedding bad. At one point in late January 2016 he brought his wife (possibly you?) to the skating rink only in an failed attempt to make one of the female skaters he flirts with jealous. He wears dark colors in a miserable attempt to go undetected in his wrongdoing.

He is very possessive, seeks to control (ha! even though he is already married), is cold, moody, fake, a “good actor”, is egotistic, jealous, and has a dark energy about him. He is vague, and is careful in his choice of words in attempts to control the mind and emotions of another, in a failed attempt to paint a “good boy” image.

This past Thursday (yesterday) he quietly and passive aggressively stormed out of the skating rink at the end of the skating session because one of the female skaters he flirts the most with was getting so much attention from other male skaters, without walking her to her car like he normally does.

Lisa whether or not the person I just described is your husband I encourage you to muster the mental and emotional strength to leave this man once and for all. Everything (which I’m quite sure isn’t everything) you outlined points to a miserable, cold, controlling, selfish, toxic, and unhealthy marriage for you emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. He is entirely toooo old to be emotionally and mentally unstable. Don’t feel compelled to stay in the “marriage” /”relationship” just because 30 people/family members come to visit your home for the holidays. Don’t feel compelled to stay in this pony show with him just because you’ve become “comfortable” or because the two of you share the same friends, or because you are married to his family and don’t want to be criticized by them or your friends.

At this point it’s all a pony show, it’s not authentic joy, love, and respect. You’re still being neglected physically, mentally, and emotionally and are selling yourself short. It’s not too late. You have more of a support system than you may realize. If you don’t feel like you have a strong enough support system to leave him where he stands then consider this post your support system. He does not respect you. You are stronger than you think!

By: kbrownsugar

kbrownsugar — Mon, 08 Feb 2016 03:38:39 +0000

My experience with a male Aquarius is crazy been friends for about 4 years the last past year in a half has been emotional rollercoaster ride for the both of us. He asked me twice for a title relationships and I declined both times. However my ex (Pisces) violent threats was the reason for my decision. However the Aquarius male and I female Taurus continue to have a sexually relationship as well as a genuinely friendship. The sex is amazing. It is getting to a point where we both are wanting more than what we have so far. We don’t always text or talk everyday I’m sure he would love for me to call every day but I don’t. My time is very valuable I work, have class, kids so texting is convenient for me. He does has a large number of female friend. Which I don’t mind because I do also have a few male friends that are purely platonic. I think out of our short comings the glue for us is our friendship and plus the sex is like a cherry on top of friendship between us. I enjoy my time spent away and together

By: Kahan

Kahan — Wed, 20 Jan 2016 07:31:35 +0000

Hahahah look who is telling someone to sleep.

By: Ms_Enid

Ms_Enid — Sat, 09 Jan 2016 15:02:10 +0000

No Enlightened, there is a commodity called Pre-Maritial Counseling , those flaws are nothing short of what a few sessions can do to adjust…..in addition, in my opinion nothing worth having comes easily, takes alot of time, effort, patience and nourishing to achieve the goal or results you really need.

I have a question for you, if you dont mind please…Do you believe that people can/do change – ok maybe I should rephrase that because change covers a much wider spectrum, so maybe I should say: Do you believe that people are capable of having or showing a sensible and much needed practical approach of what can be achieved or expected by making a well grounded compromise on the actual challenges in order to make a marriage work?, if yes or no, elaborate please!

By: Enlightened

Enlightened — Sat, 09 Jan 2016 05:44:57 +0000

@Lisa Smith- Do you happen to live on the West Coast? Does the Aquarius man’s name start with a “J”?

By: Enlightend

Enlightend — Tue, 05 Jan 2016 23:44:30 +0000

Lisa, Lisa, Lisa…….wow……THANK YOU soooo much for the eye-opener. You know? I’ve been feeling this Aquarius dude for a while. My intuition regarding him, his character, and his energies had already honed in on so many of the things you mentioned in your post, even in his attempts to be vague with me and dodge certain questions. I believe you. THANK YOU SO MUCH for helping save me from a mistake of a marriage.