Hi. Could you tell me please, which one of your was older? I love a taurus woman who is 6 years older than me. I am afraid it can be a problem for her

@TAea Thank you. I’ll verify the dates and add them.

We married and had children but from the point we got married he changed didn’t feel he had to be romantic any more, was secretive and had a girl ring me out of the blue saying he had got her pregnant which according to him was a lie……. our children had a wonderful father in him he was THE best and I sat back and watched this wonderful Daddy but the strain of everyday life and working to support our family took its toll he became violent and moody as I devoted my time to our two daughters upbringing one was sick and to annoy me he obstructed my getting help for her urgently then our youngest daughter died and he withdrew into his shell, he realized what he had done, we struggled on for another ten years him being in a large debt I got him out of and took one hell of a pasting for it… then ever devoted, tenacious and steady as a taurean woman, im thinking for better for worse……. I hung in there but my Cancer man was gone, hit me numerous times I had him arrested he hated that … in the end he got into debt again this time I threw him out…… today four years on even though we still see him he is moody withdrawn into his Cancer shell and there is no reaching him today I have to beg him to see his children he has no part in their day to day lives yet lives 20 mins away….Ive said sorry for every and any thing I got wrong but he refuses to accept so we can be friends. when I read all these lovely comments its all true Cancer men and poss women are truly wonderful to date be romantic and sexual with and to care for you but when they get secretive tread very carefully they don’t talk about feelings much, and if you pull too hard can react very badly. I mourn my Cancer man every day a lot is based on character, moon placements etc…..but its a huge loss… we dated for 10 years of total bliss, married for 16 years of sulkiness moods and tantrums, the minute financial hardship came in the door he withdrew into a shell…. he would not be reached, resenting me I stayed at home while the kids were young, but even when I returned to work he didn’t change! Men say we want to change them, I didn’t want that I wanted him to be the guy I dated… or close.. I’d go for it again but warily with another cancer…but if my perfect match didn’t match, maybe Ill take it I was loved once and stay alone not sure anything can be as good as that was once.