I am a gemini male and I actually just started talking to a wonderful taurean female that’s why I was on this site but I read your comment about your experience with the Gemini male and the first thing I can tell you is I’m almost positive if you would be more understanding of his wanting to hangout with friends occasionally it would of went a long way. The Gemini craves freedom and is basically terrified of commitment so if he’s with you in a relationship of any kind he must really like/love you because we don’t like wasting our time. and if he didn’t love you being in a relationship with you would be basically wasting his time. A Gemini could spend a lot of time with different lovers until they find the right one who is able to match their intellect and energy. They need excitement, variety and passion, and when they find the right person, a lover, a friend and someone to talk to combined into one, they will be faithful and determined to always treasure their heart. Our personality is marked by dualism, making them inconsistent but clever, and amazingly attractive to others. This man is impossible to cling to, and need a partner who gives him enough freedom and space, followed by mental stimulation and variety. To win his heart, one has to be fun, stimulating, adventurous, laughing at his jokes and ready to learn from him day after day. As if opposed to his eloquent nature, this isn’t a man ready to discuss emotions that much, and will prefer if they are shown rather than spoken of.