they never leave! I have two and I’m a sandwich every day of my life, but I love it, because each man satisfies me in a different way. you want loyalty and a lil trust issues ( that can patiently be resolved, then you are ready and honey they are everywhere

Lindsey I can only say my Virgo husband of 34 years passed away more than a year ago – that was the greatest heartache, after many tears I know that only a Virgo is for me a Taurus a perfect match, I miss him dearly. He was the most caring man my best friend and lover, not always the most demonstrative but he loves me till his dying day. Now I was lucky again and another Virgo crosses my path. No other sign can ever take such good care of his love than a Virgo. Taurus ladies go find your Virgo man. He is the perfect match.

@Joanna Thanks. I’ll check it out.

Seeing as their Virgo men are probably not there to give you one.

I will say one thing for my Virgo man. That is he is the first man I’ve ever had in my life that is more man than me!

I like that HUGE! I’m hardheaded and can handle most anything life throws my way on my own. For me to ask for help is a disgrace to my nature. Move aside, I can do everything for you too. Virgo loves being pampered, food woes him into submission, always talk to your Virgo when he’s had a full meal and if you can when he’s not tired.

If that’s possible with his 70 hour work week.

I met my guy in a bar, a bar I did not like. I was so out of there and upon leaving I saw him. That was 11 years ago. Little did I know the roller coaster ride from hell I was about to get on.

Crazy Train….

That first night I met him, we talked and I told him he could drive me home, which amused me because I never leave anywhere with a stranger. On the way to the car I ran behind another to throw up, bad draft ! He looked at me and said (and I remember this to this day) “Well maybe something is telling you to stay away from me if I make you that sick”

I should have listened then. He walked me to the door and we passed numbers and that was that. Kind of.. this went on for more then 3 months. And it rattled my soul in bewilderment. Was he ever going to make a move? Needless to say he kept returning and we did a lot of talking and laughing, but my self esteem was dive bombing everytime he left without so much has a hand shake. So I shut it down and so did he.

Nothing for months. Then voila! At my door and in the house and just caring on talking fast and than grabs me and slaps a big one on my lips. Then we off to the races, but all in slow motion which for this Taurus was very different. It was, how shall I say like a reincarnation. And that was that.

A Taurus women who does life all by herself generally only requires this level of intimacy, but Virgo will teach her

all about herself in ways she never thought possible.

Many very hard lessons, including any form of rejection or abandonment issues she may have. You see a Taurus loves the act of love. She than must face her inner demons to realize that she is still being loved for her all.

So I embraced him for his friendship during the dry times

and of course going about my life alone is a zero struggle until I was finding my self doubting his love and always thinking about every ort of any moment we had together.

Until finally I blew, most women who have left long long ago. And when a Taurus blows it’s like a snow plow in a hot hell. Needless to say Virgo got in a few words and was out the door in probably fear for his personal safety.

He called once in a while. Nothing new, and that was all he had to give. I eventually just stopped answering his calls, what may have been easy for him, was actually destroying me, I didn’t realize it at first, but when I realized my frustration, I let it be.

3 years later, and he’s on the door step. It was like 3 years had dissolved into 3 minutes. Like a time warp I was wrapped into him and he into me. But the party dissolved into old habits and faded to black. This went on and off for 6 more years. The best thing is that I’ve learned to say my peace, me myself, enjoy the moment and leave well enough alone. Anyone may think that I am just playing by his rules, but actually I’m quite different and I like this

more assured self that I have become. Our relationship has matured like a fine wine, an acceptance and forgiveness.

We’ve lived our lives independently which we both admire.

Virgo is the Zen of Astrology. A friend a lover and someone that may never be there for the moment but when the moment strikes it’ll be etched into their souls for eternity.

It is when Taurus the Strong allows her guard to drop and be taught a different path she becomes a whole person.

She knows the lessons she needs, she’s incredibly smart.

If any Taurus is brave enough to come out of her pasture and walk in the sandy bare landscapes with a Virgo, she will be shown how to paint her own landscape.

If you think for a moment, if your Virgo was to die tomorrow what would you be feeling, you’d realize that you’d be more crushed than when he runs away for those seemingly tortuous moments, and eventually you will see them as just that, seemingly, for it will be only as a Zen master may say. I second in ones life.

Best wishes and kisses and love to all Virgo and Taurus.

Humanity never looked so good.

We were off and on for a number of years. He always grew distant after any particularly intense sexual/emotional encounter. It was like he’d pull away as soon as we got comfortable enough to really connect and enjoy one another. In response, I’d become frustrated, demanding, dramatic… In other words, I’d unwittingly drive him away. But he’d always come back after a few months. It was like he couldn’t stand to be away from me, but also totally uncomfortable with me. For me, the connection and attraction was overwhelming and impossible to suppress. I was always willing to give it another try.

Eventually, though, I made a commitment to another man — a Pieces with whom I consistently share immense joy and laughter. The decision to abandon the romantic relationship with the Virgo was traumatic, but I was still young and lacking the perspective that comes with age. I had become convinced that the Virgo just wasn’t that into me. The Virgo and I remained friends for a couple years, and then one day, while we were working on a project together, he abruptly asked me to leave, to go home. At first, I was incredulous. It was so sudden and (seemingly) unprovoked. When I realized he was serious, I was distraught. He ceased all communication with me for several years.

After a few cross-country moves, he reconnected with me via an email that included (only) a picture of me at my wedding. When we moved on to words, there was some initial arguing (over a period of about six months), but we eventually renewed our friendship. He said that he regretted how he had behaved toward me in the past. For several years, I didn’t really understand what that meant.

Five years ago, we ended up living in opposite corners of the same state. We began visiting each other semi-annually, became friends with one another’s partners, deepened our connection. The attraction has deepened as well. I came to realize that pretty much everything in the past that I saw as disinterest, selfishness, or cruelty in the Virgo was actually the result of his fear of his feelings about me and his frustration with my inability to understand and respect them. When I developed the self-esteem to see myself as a worthwhile human being, I was able to stop ignoring the obvious fact that this isn’t a case of unrequited infatuation. As my self-confidence has grown, so has my confidence in the Virgo and in my relationship with him — and this has clearly led to him being increasingly playful with me.

This is all very frustrating, of course, but it is also something wonderful. In some ways, we’re at an impasse because neither one of us is interested in dissolving our existing partnerships with others. In other ways, though, our love for one another brings us tremendous pleasure and comfort. What’s really amazing is how our partners respect for this thing between us and how we respect each other’s partners’ roles in our lives. And this is probably the most certain indication of the depth of the love and commitment present.

This is all to say, patience and self-confidence are a must when dealing with Virgo men. Showing them your trust and confidence in them (in spite of their skittishness and emotional reserve) is key in getting them to feel loved. Don’t give up prematurely on Virgo men. There a lot going on there that they don’t share — often because they don’t know how. The saying “still waters run deep” couldn’t be more true about Virgo men.