Thanks, Hestia!

My virgo man (pisces woman) have been together almost a year now. We’ve had acouple blow outs but any other time things have been great. Well I overreacted when he cancelled plans with me because he was in a bad mood and now he has pretty much ostracized me from the relationship. Long talk last night about how I wasn’t there for him and how he was let down and that I am selfish and always need attention. He doesn’t understand that I overreact sometimes but I am sensitive not selfish. He said he has all these mixed feelings and emotions and doesn’t know what to do. I asked him to keep his heart open when he leaves my place and that I hoped we could work this out. What threw me for a loop was he started saying weird things like thank you for everything, tell your family thank you, and said a long goodbye to my dog (obvious right). He hugged me and was just like things have been great thank you for everything, at that point I flat out asked him if he was breaking up with me. He looked like a deer caught in the headlights but nodded his head yes. I said alright and walked back in my place and shut the door. He texted me later that night saying he has never had a better relationship, that we have things to work on as individuals, and that he has alot of mixed feelings and emotions but when I closed the door he said it sunk in.

Does that mean he is done with me? I told him I still wanted to be with him but that I had to distance myself and he said thank you for everythinf like everythinf was already over. Has anyone been in this scenario? Is it time to move on or wait for him to come around. I know Virgo men are notorious for not changing their mind but I can’t tell if feels final about breaking up.

He’s romantic, always walks me to my dorm, loves holding hands, takes me out at least once a week. We’re both shy nerds and have a lot in common. We share a lot of interests and can just hang out and talk about them. We just clicked for some reason I can’t explain. It’s nice to see him worked up and excited about things.

I can tell he’s very possessive and has the potential to be super jealous, but I actually like that? I really like dominant guys who know what they wand and that can take the lead. For having a gemini moon I’m super serious about not even looking at other guys while I’m dating him. I don’t want to say I’m horribly insecure but when left to my own devices I end up fretting a lot especially when it comes to relationships, and he’s just great about being silently reassuring. He is big on spending time together and in the beginning was almost wanting it to be 24/7. He was horribly skeptical when I explained to him I had homework to do, or that I was hanging out with family, or that I was honestly just tired and wanted to sleep in. But as we spend more time together I can see him figuring out that I am telling the truth and am not just blowing him off to sneak around or something. He’s pretty patient with me and letting me set the pace, which is currently at a snails crawl, but is comfortable because I seemed to be easily spooked.

He talks to a lot of other girls which is a little disconcerting sometimes, but I can tell he’s just being friendly and he only ever really flirts and spends time with me so as long as it doesn’t escalate to anything I think I can just write it off.

It’s much too soon to say anything too definite, but I really do like him and hope this lasts.