Take it with a grain of salt. Hey honey life is too short .What comes around goes around. Like Steve Harvey’s Book “Think like a Man, Act like A Women”. Men are capable of 3 things and 3 things only they profess, provide and protect. They are not emotional creatures and neither should you be. Things don’t go well with either of these guys just be open to meeting someone new. Next time try to save the emotional part for last enjoy!

This being said, my jealousy still ate at me all the time. The thought of his fliracious ways made me sick to my stomach. Images of him chatting it up with the girls at work as I’m sure he did are making my chest ache as I type this. I began to feel unable to look at him the same way as I once had. The worst thing was on some level it seemed he was entertained by this! He upset and tease me, but it would usually quickly escalate to a full on fight with tears and then he would chastise me for getting so worked up. I knew for months it was not going to work out long term, I think and I think he knew also. So one day as we were laying on my bed together I proposed the idea of taking a break to get some time away from each other to which he gladly agreed. I felt that there were no hard feelings, we agreed to a week of not hanging out together. So when we were almost done with the week long break I decided to go on a short camping trip with a former Sagitarius flame who was also just an old friend of mine, that I had always had strong feelings for. My Gemini man even sensed my feelings for the Sag when he met him and was quite jealous of him. Well needless to say my Sagitarius man was not my Geminis biggest fan either.

So during this short camping trip my Sag woo-ed me like he always had and then some. Telling me how my Gemini wasn’t cool enough for me, how if he loved me he would be with me at that moment not allowing me to be off with someone else. Along seranading me and telling me all kinds of sweet things. All of this made me feel like I didn’t need my Gemini anymore and that he was just using and abusing me, so with my Sagitarius right there I called my Gemini and left him a voicemail telling him how it was over and I wish he hadn’t wasted my time. It crushed my Gemini, he tried not to show it too much but I could see it and in a few days after seeing my Sagitarius travel off as they often do, I tried to recconect with my Gemini several times. But I had hurt him too much and he wouldn’t take me back.

Months and months past and I heard nothing from my Gemini assuming he was done forever I took a trip with my Sagitarius. When me and Sag got back to town he ran into my Gemini and talked about the trip. What do you know my Gemini texted me out of the blue the next morning telling me how it had gone on too long and he missed me.

That was back in august that we started talking again and we still do now and then when he texts me or I text him, and I have never felt love for anyone like I did for him. However I don’t know if I can ever make him feel the way about me that he used to and it breaks my heart 🙁

You’ll need 4 sheets of paper

1.Determine and write down that ultimate desired goal
2. Write down a list of all your fears that are holding you hostage
3. Make a list of all the actions you need to take to overcome each fear
4. Finally, call this last list – ‘Stuff I make up in my Head’,(lol) stuff like comparing a past relationship with a prospective one.

If you find that you have been making unfair comparisons, write down all the destructive traits of the former partner and the positives which you’ve observed in that of the prospective partner (basically just the ways the prospective is different), rationally review the list which should then help you to stop assuming that the future has to be like the past.

Thing is once we stop confusing imagination with reality, we are sure to see a positive breakthrough much sooner than denying ourself the peace we so desire.

Start challenging your own fears rather than to be accepting them.

Relax, close your eyes and imagine feeling strongly secured around your partner, this will absolutely train your brain to know that whatever happens here, everything will be okay, insecure people tend to look for signs of things that doesn’t work, so we need to start looking for signs of what does, and stop seeing problems where none exist….doing this will no doubt get you and your partner feeling positive towards the future and each other. Yes there will be difficulties but keeping focused is what is good. Infact if you’ve been treated badly, lied to and cheated on, feeling insecure is a natural response but dont let that overshadow your happiness.

A good relationship is definitely possible and absolutely there for you to enjoy and grow with your partner, share resources and develop healthy ways which is a precious thing to have and really experience.
So just learn to relax and enjoy your partner, try adapting a new laidback attitude which makes it easier for the love to naturally and abundantly blossom…. Remeber you already have the top soil prepared 😉 <3

Happy Sunday!
"je t'aime pour toujours"