If you are a strong individual and looking for a mirror, this is your best bet in the zodiac. Courage, will, intention, and commitment are personified in this combination of energies. It works especially well if you are both community activists or targeted on some futuristic goal that will make the world a better place. The keywords here are future and goal.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as an Aries woman:
If your target is that interesting Aquarius over there, you’d best be interesting yourself. And if you possibly can, dare to be different. Your Aquarius male will respect your individuality. He is likely to be gender neutral in his appreciation of your capabilities and willing to give you complete respect if you earn it. Plus, you will get extra points for being forthright and daring in your opinions.
How to Attract an Aries Woman as an Aquarius Man:
You have to challenge her in some way. Show yourself to be uniquely desirable. She loves to win the big prize. Your detatchment will be thrilling to her at first and the fact that you don’t fawn all over her will be refreshing and stimulating. However, she is not patient or subtle, so if you are interested, be sure to spell it out for her. An afternoon at the ballgame is not everyone’s idea of romance, so she may be confused about your intentions. She’ll love your intellectual qualities and large network of acquaintances since she has trouble getting along with anyone. Do your best to treat her like a girl and not just one of the guys. She needs to know she’s special to you.
Degree of Romance:
This relationship does not exactly rock the boat romantically. The emphasis is likely to be on common causes or a shared world view. Aquarius, though loyal, tends to be cerebral. And Aquarius by its very nature prefers the equality of friendship over a relationship which elevates one woman above all others. She may indeed have his whole heart and undiluted loyalty, but he will be reluctant to admit that even to himself because of his egalitarian beliefs.
Degree of Passion:
There is a possibility of great passion and devotion in this relationship; however, it will be to a common cause not to each other. If she wants to win his heart and keep it, she should get interested in the things that put stars in his eyes. He’ll have to yield some of his goals to create shared activities, but its doubtful that he will. You pretty much have to take an Aquarius as you find them.
Degree of Friendship:
This relationship has a strong possibility of friendship. Aquarians pride themselves on their loyalty though not necessarily their constant physical presence. If she can give him the space he needs, she’ll probably be hearing him introduce her as his best friend. By that he means she has won the key to his heart. She is a steadfast friend who always brings out the best in the other person. An Aries comes into your life when you need confidence and courage. He’ll appreciate the strength she gives him.
Degree of Marriage:
This is an unlikely combination for a marriage. It could turn into a lifelong live in situation as neither sign particularly likes to be put on a leash.
Progression of Relationship:
Aquarian men are noted for being busy or elsewhere. Even when he is with you physically his mind may be otherwise engaged. So if you’re a lady ram who really wants someone to hold your hand in the moonlight, better count this guy out. The relationship will progress in fits and starts. Aquarians all seem to have an on/off switch, and as I have said before, he will have a plate full of activities and responsibilities that he takes just as seriously (but not more seriously) than her. Life with an Aquarian can be a three ring circus, and that’s a plus for an active, secure Aries gal.
Sex:
Sex can be quite kinky with Aquarius which is just fine with an Aries who is a “ good sport.” When Aquarius hauls out the gear and low voltage electrical devices Aries’ passion goes over the top.
When It’s Over:
She may be the last one to know when it’s over. He will just leave longer and longer intervals between contact. There is not an Aquarian in the world who wants to have it out or who feels the least bit down once his affections have turned elsewhere. His general outlook on life and love seems to be “take me or leave me, and if I leave you, oh well.” Don’t underestimate her ego, jealousy, and impatience. When she accuses you of flirting with the waitress in front of her and you tell her she’d be better off with someone else, be sure you mean it because this is one woman who will tire of your detachment quickly.