The Virgo man may be intriguing to the Aries lady at first blush since he presents such a challenge, but this relationship is fraught with difficulties. Just because something is a challenge doesn’t mean it’s worth pursuing.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as an Aries Woman:
Virgo men are so sensitive and basically very shy that you may not be able to attract one unless you make the first move. Herein lies the rub because Virgo men are incredible flirts. You may be throwing yourself at him, and he is just bouncing you around like a play thing to stroke his ego. If you get beyond the beginning stages of interest, try to resist castrating him which will be hard because he will play hard to get. Be neat, clean, and punctual (LOL). Try not to be as blunt as you normally are about finances, his hairstyle, the car he doesn’t drive, your ex-boyfriends, etc. You’ll have to tone your personality down so much you will begin to wonder why you are even trying with this guy.
How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Virgo Man:
Getting an Aries in your life is something that happens to you. You’ll notice that most people talk about “getting mixed up” with a ram. If your number is up, she’ll appear, and you’ll have to figure out what to do about it.
Degree of Romance:
This relationship will promise great romance but it will never deliver. Virgos are in love with their daily routine and the details of their lives. It is an accumulation of precise, exquisite small things that bring them the greatest delight. You know as well as I do there is nothing small about an Aries. The ram is liable to do a cannon ball into the hot tub and be blamed for making waves.
Degree of Passion:
This relationship may be very passionate to start with, but the more Virgo focuses on housework and the other minutae when Aries would rather take a roll in the hay, the quicker passion diminishes to a weak flame crying for help.
Degree of Friendship:
There is an outside chance for friendship if both are healthy and sports oriented. This is possible because Aries loves to be active and “do things” and Virgos pride themselves on being fit. Since all Virgos are bachelors at heart, they usually have the afternoon free to go cycling.
Degree of Marriage:
We find this a slim chance for marriage. But one Aries-Virgo scenario that might work is a lady ram with an exceptional amount of energy and a Virgo man so weak that she needs to take over a lot of his territory. That could be a win-win for both.
Progression of Relationship:
This relationship progresses in fits and starts. Aries lights the match to the flame, then Virgo lets the flame go out. Ram strikes another match, etc. It may take you a while to figure out what is going on, but don’t confuse busyness with progress. Many Virgos are absolutely committed to themselves and their tidy lives which are usually in excellent working order. Deep down inside they are not interested in upsetting the status-quo or introducing any disruptive elements like demanding girlfriends or needy wives.
Sex:
Sex can be pretty intoxicating, although it is not to be confused with a whole relationship. It would be exciting because Virgo helps to focus Aries’ drive. (This may also translate into career success.) Eventually, though, the ram may get very tired of the whole thing when Virgo insists on changing the sheets, showering before and after, and avoiding certain acts considered too messy. There is a certain quality of aliveness and spontaneity lacking here.
When It’s Over:
At the end, Aries will push and push for resolution, and Virgo will pussy-foot to one side or the other until the ram virtually bursts with frustration. Aries, you might have to complete this relationship by yourself, but then you’re used to doing everything for both of you. Since when did you need someone’s permission to kick butt and haul ass? Virgo, it may take you longer than you you anticipated to get over this one.