This relationship is one of my secret favs. Two very gentle, tuned-in individuals find peace and comfort in each other’s arms. Both the Virgo woman and Cancer man carefully groom each other and a small circle of people with whom they have genuine connections. Each would never knowingly hurt someone else. Both are protective and talented in human relations. Though, much to their own dismay, they can be whiny, fussy and needy when off center, they feature high on the integrity scale for good intentions. Bringing out the very best in one another, they actually enjoy giving more than receiving when paired up together. Their taste is likely to be similar, focusing on a small world of comfort and perfection rather than, for example, setting the world on fire – though they may wind up doing so peripherally. Both tend to value soul care and moral development above egoism, keeping-up-with-trends or accumulating the latest stuff. Both prefer comfort and understatement to ostentation.
How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Virgo Woman:
Show your awareness of and concern for healthy lifestyle. Describe how much you like vegan or low-cholesterol cooking. Imply that you would love to take very good care of him. Give him something you made with your own hands like a cookie. Get to know his favorite color. Keep it low key and low maintenance. Here, finally, is the right place to be sincere. Use the Magick Word often (“we”) and in future implied tense. Be comforting and soothing. If he’s late or forgot to bring his mapquest directions printout, say “Now, now, everything’s going to be ok.” I know that’s what people usually say to you but you’ve met your match. He needs it even more than you do. In this relationship you’re going to have to calm, cool and collected while he worries and frets. Your tender ministrations will help him avoid an ulcer at an early age. Here’s another hot tip. Please treat his mother like royalty. He really, really loves her.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Cancer Man:
Pay for everything. Make exquisite choices that show attention to detail. Remember everything she tells you as she will remember everything you tell her. Wherever you go, keep the lights low, the music soft and the food healthy. Treat her small pet as a member of the family. Drop her off at the door while you hassle the parking and weather issues. Let her know how much you appreciate every little thing unless you want it to evaporate into thin air. She is very devotional but NEVER a door mat. If you have a complaint, word it diplomatically. Keep it short and focused. No reason to get emotional. She really listens and will understand. No need to go Commando/
Degree of Romance:
There’s a lot of exquisite feelings between these two but even greater is their ability to express them. This couple thrives on the impromptu foot or neck rub which quickly turns erotic. (You have no idea what feet are for till you date-and-mate a Virgo woman.) . They may particularly enjoy romancing in the hot tub. Cancers are water babies and Virgo is great with a nubby toweled rubdown.
Degree of Passion:
Passion comes naturally when two people are so relaxed and comfortable with one another. Trust is not just a five-letter word. It’s a visceral “I’m ok You’re ok” feeling that pervades everything they do together.
Degree of Friendship:
Who is ALWAYS there to lend a helping hand? Virgo. Who is ALWAYS there for a shoulder to cry on? Cancer. These two are everyone else’s best genuine friend. Why wouldn’t they be each other’s?
Degree of Marriage:
Cancer man and Virgo woman make for super compatibility. They really focus on “love, honor and serve”. They will spend untold blissful hours getting their lovely home “just perfect for us”. It will be a marvel of comfort and efficiency with personal detailing every where in evidence. They make model “hands-on” partners and parents. In a world full of wind bags, uber bling bling enthusiasts, slobs, geeks, freaks and weaks, they have each found the Perfect Partner. Ah! The sanity of it all. Now let’s go have some good, clean fun.
Progression of Relationship:
Being so grateful to find one another, they may want to go slowly and savor every step along the way. They do a minuet courtship dance of intricate touches and personal pleasure. There they are, over there!! She’s saying, with tears in her soft eyes, “I always wanted someone to watch the sun set with me from the temple steps here overlooking the harbor. This is so right.” “I know. I know,” he says and pulls her close. Virgo: You know what else I’d like to do next >>> ?” …. Cancer: Big smile.
Sex:
Sex becomes something of a ritualized way of “showing I care”. There’s the Kama Sutra, lying open on the nearby mantel to our current favorite page. Let’s start right where we left off last time. We may want to bathe each other before or after with bath salts and our special monogrammed Egyptian cotton luxury bath towels, his and hers (we splurged!). And here on the bedside table are our special products and toys …. No interruptions, please!
When It’s Over:
It’s the never-ending combination. Just keep the dream alive.
Our Rating: 10/10