This unlikely combination works out well. Two interesting, responsible adults face the world together with a good combination of skill sets. He supplies the optimism and expanded consciousness. She grounds his intellectual and adventuresome goals into realistic fruition. Together they tend to take life seriously but go for their full quota of enjoyment, the so-called “Good Life”. There is a tendency for this combination to be different in a plus way – different ages, cultures, backgrounds ….
How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as a Capricorn Woman:
Be as mature and intellectual as possible. Show an interest in the world around you both politically and philosophically, not just “people I know (and use)”, but conversation in a context of world events, history, community action, etc., some larger generalized context. Avoid small talk if possible. When asked, “What would you like to do tonight?” have something interesting in mind. Understand the significance of the things he does. Help him remember where he parked the car, left his umbrella and forgot to put his credit card back in his wallet. Help him track down the cleaners he took his clothes to last time. Do these things with a smile. If this puppy grows on you, you’re just getting warmed up to Life with a Sag!
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as a Sagittarius Man:
Make her smile. Help her relax and not take things so seriously. Teach her how to run and play. She never got to as a kid! Teach her about vacations and Gone Fishin’ Days. Show appreciation for how responsible she is and try to get places on time at least while you’re courting. Get your car detailed (for God’s sake!!). Dress up or down a little – get more appropriate in general. You’re dating her because secretly you want to go more mainstream so don’t blow it. Pay attention to where you are and who you’re with. Try to understand the significance of the people she introduces you to.
Degree of Romance:
Really, they have more important things to do. Capricorn may try to structure some “romantic time together” but it doesn’t work that way. Sag loves you the way it is and thinks romance is a big fat jokeroo.
Degree of Passion:
Sagittarius can get almost anyone close to the fire since they never have anything to lose but Cappie is still gonna balk at jumping on the funeral pyre of decorum and self-control.
Degree of Friendship:
These two can be quite marvelous friends especially if they take on a project together like planning a trip. Their skills fit together like a hand and a glove. These two win my vote as most likely to actually survive even something like designing a house together,
Degree of Marriage:
Excellent, provided Cap gives Sag enough playtime and an around the world cruise every now and then.
Progression of Relationship:
It has a nice pace, a realistic basis and a high probability of succeeding. They both know right from the start where it’s going.
Sex:
Sag looks at Capricorn’s inhibitions as a fun and interesting challenge His sense of humor helps them learn new things together. (Lots of things are “new” to a Capricorn.) Saga is a born teacher. He teaches with enthusiasm and abandon. Her shyness, which is genuine, fans the flames of his desire. She demonstrates to him that sex can be useful as a means of building continuity and rapport.
When It’s Over:
No denouement will ever be more efficient or humane. If the relationship didn’t already, the unwinding will earn each the other’s undying respect. If they need to cooperate in the future over children, they have the maturity and spiritual wellness to make it a win-won for everyone.