Opposites attract and that’s what’s operating here. She admires his cool detachment and diplomacy. He adores her courage and initiative. Sometimes the excitement of an opposite cools off pretty fast, so go slow and easy with this one.
How to Attract a Libra Man as an Aries Woman:
You can attract your Libra heartthrob by being all Aries — daring, courageous, impulsive, and even reckless! Just be sure and give him the space (time) he needs to return each volley before slamming another ball right at him. Show some of your famous independence. That will absolutely win him over.
How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Libra Man:
Libra is a shrewed strategist who manages to get what he wants without alienating those he manipulates into giving it to him. Such a concept is fascinating to Aries. If you can dangle this in front of her, she’ll be oddly compelled to learn more about you. The trouble starts there. You’re indecisiveness and scrupulous manners will infuriate her by the second month of your relationship. That’s just about the time you become convinced she’s a barbarian. But, if anyone can keep an Aries on track, it’s a Libra. Always push back when she gives you a little shove. She wants someone she can respect.
Degree of Romance:
There is a high degree of romance at the beginning, but things will go sour if he suddenly decides she’s bitchy and castrating. Whether she is or not, Librans like to throw out their disagreeable octopus ink resentment when they feel crowded. If this happens, there’s little chance the relationship will endure because the ram will get mad and want to have it out, while Libra will do his famous duck and avoid, suddenly demanding that everything be civil and “decent” — no raised voices or grand scenes. Rams aren’t capable of such diplomatic manouvering in their personal lives. What’s the fun of relating if you can’t have a good, clean fight, then kiss and forgive with all that great make up sex?
Degree of Passion:
There is a moderate degree of passion. Fascination would describe it better. There’s a subtle role reversal that san be very sexually exciting as long as he’s secure and confident in his masculinity.
Degree of Friendship:
Unfortunately there’s not much chance of friendship because, after all, friends have a lot in common and these two are, well, opposites. There are plenty of marriages where friendship is not the driving force, but it’s best in that case to have a lot of other things in common to tie and bind such as kids, houses, and traditions. One thing that can contribute to friendship is her willingness to pursue independent activities, which leaves him with the space he craves. Libra’s war cry is, “I just want to be alone.”
Degree of Marriage:
Many first marriages are based on attraction of opposites.
Progression of Relationship:
The relationship will have a nice rhythm if he doesn’t take too long to hit the ball back over the net or drag his feet in the bedroom.
Sex:
Sex is interesting because of the background role reversal. If the Aries girl is turned down often enough it will inflame her passion beyond realistic desire just because it seems like she can’t have what she wants and she secretly loves the challenge. The Libran guy will be secretly astounded at the things she “makes” him do. He may also pretend to be shocked and disapproving of her boldness. Don’t buy it! He’ll enjoy finally getting out of his head and showing some healthy animal instincts.
When It’s Over:
This could end very badly when all of a sudden you see nothing but differences. She ends it with fire; he with ice.