Leo Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
Sparks and chemistry abound in this hot wired, tense and exciting combination of heart, mind and will. The attraction (if it happens) is instantaneous. The lioness is dumbstruck with how different he is, how daring, how he just does whatever he wants and doesn’t seem to care what others think. She loves a challenge and her subconscious reaction is this: “All men are attracted to me but this one is different He seems so strong. Wonder if I can bend him to my will?” On his part, he lives for shocks and thrills. It’s hard to resist the experience of being stalked by a BIG game hunter.
How to Attract a Leo Woman as an Aquarius Man:
This is one of those easy “either she does or she doesn’t” kind of things. There’s not likely to be any middle ground. This lady knows her own mind and likes to choose rather than be chosen. You can hang out and be friends but she’ll likely let you know what’s up in a matter of a few encounters. Your sometimes insufferable conceit is definitely a plus in surreptitiously courting the Queen’s favor. Rhett Butler was played in the movie “Gone with the Wind” by Aquarian Clark Gable. Buy this movie and study his techniques carefully. Especially the scene early on where he’s hiding on the couch and sits up and shocks the drama queen, Miss Scarlett O’Hara. Be full of such surprises, deliver the shock treatment and never, EVER quiver when the lioness roars.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Leo woman:
You love a challenge and being the opposite sign from Aquarius, you innately know what to do. Put on your queenly air of feigned indifference and parade it past him a few times.
Degree of Romance:
This is the one combination where a friendship can suddenly turn to love; then, when passion is spent, it will revert back to friendship. If you’re deeply into the mating game, you won’t want to remember that the passion always dies, but, dear reader, and especially dear Leo reader, it does and, that being the case. friendship is a great foundation for a lasting marriage partnership. WORD: The definition of friendship, according to Michael Lutin, is someone who, when they hear you slept with someone else, just laughs. Lady Lioness, read that sentence over a few times. You may possess his heart but never his will. This Aquarian creature is always his own man.
Degree of Passion:
There is a high degree of passion during courtship and if there isn’t, Leo will stage it. Mr. Detached Aquarian, read that sentence over several times and make sure you can live with it. Not every Aquarian is cut out to play the leading man. It can make costly inroads into your “I did it my way” territory.
Degree of Friendship:
The possibility for friendship could be fantastic which would suit Aquarius just fine because he can avoid all that sticky stuff. It’s just that it won’t suit the Leo woman. She doesn’t want male friends. She wants romantic enthrallment, admirers or loyal subjects. It’s a power thing.
Degree of Marriage:
Depending on the degree of maturity and desire for conventionality that can be summoned up, this is not a bad combination.
Progression of Relationship:
The relationship starts suddenly and gets very intense right away. Then it can quickly become a contest of wills. The lioness will demand attention and worship while the Aquarian keeps trying to slip out and get some space. One relationship skill they really have in common is a great sense of humor. With a generous application of self deprecating willingness to laugh at themselves, both of these signs are pretty quick to clear the air, kiss and makeup.
Sex:
Sex can be fantastic and the secret glue. Neither sign particular enjoys the “missionary position only” approach. Aquarius has a treasure chest of shocking suggestions which may or may not be agreed to by the Leo but, whether she goes along with it or not, she will definitely appreciate the nerve she thinks it took for him to suggest such a thing.
When It’s Over:
When it’s over it will end on a dime – he will evaporate into thin after a few protestations about enduring friendship. She will likely resent the time she “wasted” on him and never want to hear from him again. “Poof! Banished from the Queendom!” His response? Space, at last!”
This is very accurate, but I would rate it 5 /10. Having a few relationships with Leos and seeing many aqua/leo relationships. They are operating on a different level from each other, Leos are purely physical and have no sense of spiritual and my enormous effort to introduce spirituality into their lives has always failed. No offence to any Leos, but after analysing them carefully I have concluded that their souls are too unevolved and do not have capability to grasp metaphysical knowledge at all.
The question that has always occured to me about aquariuns is that why they are born with this extreme interest and innate astrological knowledge?
Has it got to do anything with their previous incarnations?
We don’t generalize soul growth by sun sign. Any level soul may chose any sign to accomplish its mission. Lisz Greene writes in “The Astrology of Fate” about the very deep spirituality of Leos.
Spirituality may be defined and expressed in many different ways, not all like the Aquarian way but equally legitimate.
Aquarians are ruled by Uranus, the planet that also rules astrology. It is their natural language. Previous incarnations vary according to individual soul and can’t be generalized by sign.
For a glimpse of an individual’s “past lives”, consider the Moon and the South Moon Node in their chart. Martin Shulman writes in detail about this in “Karmic Astrology”.
Thanks for stopping by the site and for your thoughtful comments. Perhaps, since you have chosen physical type Leos more than once, you wanted to learn something about physicality. In every relationship, we are both learning and teaching. Make no mistake about that.
i am an aquarian – pisces cusp with a greater tendency to be aquarian. can fully identify the space bit. being married to a leo, i find that the success depends on the maturity of the couple and how well they age in the marriage.
i happen to be a leo women and i disagree with that stement that leos are not spritural i am a very spritual person and open in all different tyoes of faiths so that statment is very untrue , i am afraid u have probably not met or got in deep enough to know a true one, we are very open minded people. and being in a leo aquarius relationship can be very up and down. but exciting , but at the end of the day its always exciting a new everyday..
what if the Leo Women has a moon in Pisces and the Aquarian Man has a moon n Taurus.. How compatible would those two people be?
NOt very. The Moons are square.
Do they still have a chance at a relationship?
how accurate are biorythms compared to astrology? because our physical rates 99% and emotional rates 99% and the mental is 98%.. overall it is 99% compatible.. But according to western astrology we are not compatible. In chinese astrology we are. He is a monkey and i am a dragon.
To be honest.. I am nothing at all like my zodaic sign leo. I am not physical at all.. i am more spiritual than anything.. I can’t get along with fire signs at all. I can tolerate Aries but only as friends not in relationships. I get along with water and air signs. Most of my friends are Aquarian, Libra and Taurus.
ps; Other leos drive me crazy!!
Im Aquarius sun Aries moon.
and I love leo women,but never dated one..
after this report,doesn’t sound like it would be a match anyway.lmao.
What do u suggest nancy?
@hkj I have not found biorhythms to be very accurate but give it a try. There are exceptions to every rule.
@A-Man Try following your instincts first and then check it out astrologically. It doesn’t work the other way around.
i am a leo woman myself. the part about how when it ends with an aquarius that it ends on a dime is extremely true. the only thing about that is some how after three years we’ve managed to end up back in each other’s lives. it’s like no matter what we do something draws us back to each other. any ideas why?
Opposites attract!
I am a Leo woman.. At the moment thinking about a relationship with an aquarius man.. We were great friends then he told me he had a crush on me.. So at the moment we don’t have a label on us.. But i’m curious. Is it worth the shot.. We have a good connection and can talk about anything and get along quit well.. Though sometimes it seems like something is bothering him he always has a way with words and tells it straight up.. And tells me he wants to be with me.. I just have a paranoid side.. So should I still go for it Nancy?
I think this is accurate for the most part. I agree with kotakitty…i am with an aquarius man and no matter what we always end up back together. I have often asked myself what it is, why its so hard for me to let him go. I wouldn’t say that we are opposites though, we are similar in many ways, even though astrologically we are opposites.
@Kotakitty I’m a leo woman too and I want to also know why after a few years apart the Aquarius comes back and is just ready for the relationship again. Although he said he wasnt coming back, I’m scared he might after a few years of “space”.
I used to think my ex (Aquarius) was weird and mean and rude but now that we have broken up a few times and I’ve been researching how Aquarians are, I understand. My ex really does value his independence, like all men do but it seems like Aquarian men value it a bit more. Opposites really do attract which is weird because Leo and Aquarius are total opposites and it takes a huge deal of compromise. Sometimes my ex would hurt my feeling because he didnt want to be bothered with me anymore but now that I’m getting the understanding…. that’s just how he is in nature.
I am a Leo woman who is extremely attracted to a Aquarius man. I feel like we have been dancing around each other for a long time. Sometimes I feel an undeniable pull and other times I feel like he is waving a carrot in front of me and silently observing to see if and how I am going to take it. Aquarius are not stupid men, and are very aware of how they effect other people. I don’t like to jump through hoops or ambiguity. I try to stay detached but the pull is too great. What to do??? What to do??? Because I feel like if I walk away then I will miss out on something fantastic.
I’m a Leo woman. I’ve had encounters with Aquarius men, and I always either really like them or really dislike them. They can have INCREDIBLE egos, bigger than the men of any other sign, in my opinion. And when they lay the truth out on you, they manage to deliver it with such apathy, that it hurts to hear, even when it’s not about you. Aquarius men can be experts in that field. Even with my Aquarius moon, I still am wary about these guys.
I m a leo sun rising in libra venus and moon in cancer I had few boyfriend in acquarian i think they a glue never live and boring but i do like they always adore me, full me with compliments presents attention, but they never want to end the relatioship. About space i m the one want space acquarian men dont give me space they take me evrywhere and want to be with me always jelouse over the top, ask question dont like me even hae frieds no is a big no fr me.
im a leo woman n im on here cus im so sick n tired of going back and forth with my aquarius ex…its a never ending cycle n after all the things n hurt hes put me thru not to mention not having any conscience at all..i still reminisce about the good things about him n how hes my compliment..the things i dont do he does..when im with him i turn any and every guy down because im just that satisfied…it seems we’re perfect for each othernbut idk how to put an end to it..! he wont stop calling until he gets my attention n always finds a way to come back into my life and i feel so stupid everytime but its worth the good times we have until it happens all over again..do i keep taking him back or just let it go!? if so how!?!?
i am a leo woman also and i am in a relationship with an aqurian man and i have been in one before i think the hard part is he dont cheris me enfo see as a leo i think i need alot of attention and lots of compliments and also the sex is great and i think i love the challange for the most part he is so different to me really were great as friends so we kinda friends and still togather i like it this way cuse he is honest with me and i dont have no worries or anything to sneak up on me cuase he tells me everything and he treats me like a queen
I am a leo woman dating an aquarius male…it has taken some getting use to. And most of what was said above is true. He is a bit detached but passionate. I never feel judged and I love that. He is a great listener. Feel like I have had to fight through…he does not trip on me at all like most men do; its not at all obvious if he does. He likes me though so I go with that instead of trying to act like the usual leo fluffing my fur to get attention; Doesn’t really work here. But we knew from the moment we met that we wanted to date which was pretty cool. I just try to be the intelligent, humorous me that I am and enjoy the ride. It’s important to give space to breathe here and I have had to learn that..not easy but I love it. I’m use to being a bit clingy and that works for most, not the aquarius. So we have fun together…we enjoy our friends without worry. It’s been 15 months for us and our relationship keeps getting better and better.
I am a Leo woman and have been in a relationship with an Aquarius man for 10 years now. The relationship started with me hunting him, he was very attractive to me, more than I thought, but they do like their space as I did become a little clingy, he did not like that. He has cheated on me many of times even with a girl who I thought was my friend. Aquarius men are very naive, they act as if they do not care when really THEY DO!!! Its just an act. Over the years things have changed due to me flipping the tables on him after he cheated on me so much. He has realized that he can lose me and what that will do to him. We sleep in two separate areas, me in the room and him in our den and I’m thinking its a good idea because it gives us both our own space. I have learned to not be all over him all the time, and now he bugs me for attention. When my attention is on other things, he gets an attitude, but I just give him sex and then he goes back into his own little world again. He hasn’t cheated on me for a while, he is very afraid to. He seems to be very afraid of my reaction to the choices he makes, and yet he claims he’s happy and could not see himself with someone else. I do notice that he is very easily influenced, by everyone else other than me. I cannot change his mind, but others can.
I meant to say he was attracted to me in the beginning, stalking me a little even, trying to follow me when he saw me.
Hi I am a leo with libra moon and pieces ascendant I care very much for an aquarius man who stalks me and then when he sees me he ignores me. Both of us are shy but when I have made the effort he does not take me up yet he follows me around. This sounds very childish but he is handsome and gentle and adorable he drives me nuts please help.
hi Annie–be careful; Aquarius men are commitment-phobes and can play that ‘shy’ game for years. they love to play the prima donna. Good luck; hope I’m wrong and your case works out differently. my suggestion? go for tough love.
Nancy, I am currently talkin to an Aqua man right now and I wanted to kno if you could give me a little insight as to what to expect from him. Thank you.
Him
Sun-aqua, Moon in Gemini, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio
Me
Sun-leo, Moon in Pisces, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Scorpio.
a leo girl dated an aquarius boy and yes all the “opposites attract” space, understanding to be not too clingy and not to be possessive and all the compatibility and the magic between the two are alllllll true!
oh and im my rising is gemini, moon in gemini and sun in leo. him still dont know @what time he was born. anyways.. hes now chasing and into this taurus girl.
Nancy, i have a question, which do you think is more compatible for an aquarian boy? me (leo girl with gemini in rising and moon) or taurus ? i know its too superficial to state something but im just a little curious
(however we came to a conclusion of same beliefs and agreement that if were meant to be, well find a way of getting back again. everything is up to God, we just need to do good and have positive and reverse affirmation.)
Taurus woman, been with an Aquarius man almost a year. Knew each other 2 months and he wanted me to move in, I did. Out relationship was awesome until and Ex girlfriend starting making comments to make me distrust him. At first he back me, after a while he just said ignore it all the time pulling away from me. We did argue about that alot, but not about us really. He had made a statement in two argments “just get out of my house”, to come back a say don’t leave. This last argument he told me to get out, I did, and only three weeks after talking about getting married. It has been three weeks he is ignoring me, tells me he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore, see me anymore and doesn’t love me anymore. I asked him if he was seeing someone, hesitated but answered “matter of fact I am and I don’t ahve to answer to you”. Not sure if he is or just saying all of these things to hurt me, and will he come back.
@Taurus, LC
No he is not, move on I know is difficult. If he comes back it wont be this year. If he realy loved you he would not lie and say He doesnt love you anymore- way that i know he means it. They do love but lose interest the moment they see real you.
Im an Aquarius guy and I was in a relationship with a leo woman, first off let me tell you we were very attracted to each other from day one but honestly im a little turned off by how vain and shallow Leos tend to be, furthermore they always want to be in control and dominating. Steer clear my fellow aquarians, your princess is in another castle.
Im a Leo woman and i was in a relationship with an Aquarius man, i can tell you they are the most cold hearted people i ever met. He had no feelings and was way to independent to be in a relationship. This match is not recommended……..
@ Arthur – hey man you funny! I like that ‘your princess is in another castle.’ but remember, not every Leo is created equal — some are more evolved than others 🙂
Let me start by saying I have been married to a Leo for 12 years and have been together for 17 years. We have 2 kids that are preteens and I love them to death. They are the best thing that happened in this marriage!! As for the rest, I can tell you it has been a bit rocky!!
It started out with a lot of fire and passion!! We constantly showed each other love and affection. I would do anything for her and we would spend quality time with each other. I thought this was the perfect union!! I could not have been happier!! I was in heaven!! Bed manners were always fun and exciting, never a dull moment between us. Then, about 5 years ago, she began to change and maybe I did. The first recollection I have of the change was when we took a group trip to go to river tubing. We had floated the river for several hours and had lots of fun! At the end of the day, we went to the house we were renting for the weekend to shower before going into town to shop and eat dinner. We loaded up in our vehicle and headed to town. We arrived and found a nice little shopping area to spend some time. After getting out of the car, she noticed a stain on her khaki colored shorts!! It was a terrible stain! I offered to drive us back to the house so she could change clothes as any person would do. Instead of accepting the offer, she commenced to yell and scream at me at the top of her voice!!! I was in shock as well as the friends that accompanied us!!! Being an aquarius, I tried to resolve the issue. All her response was that it was my fault!! I had no idea what I did wrong, but she was so loud that all passerbys knew it was my fault. One lady felt so bad that she offered her bleach pen to remove the stain and my wife accepted that. So, the rest of the day and night was, needless to say, just plain terrible!! I tried to figure out what I did wrong and everytime I tried to talk to her, she would just get more angry at me!! I was at a loss!!! I am not the violent type and have never hit or abused anyone!!! I did not know what to do nor did my friends!! It took my wife a few days to calm down and to this day, I still don’t know what I did wrong nor did I receive any kind of apology!!
That was the start of it all. Since that day, I regularly get into trouble for whatever reason she sees fit. At least that is how I view it. I try to smooth the situation over and talk to her, but it rarely does any good. In her mind, she is always right and I never meet her expectations. I have just learned to accept fault for whatever reason so an argument does not ensue.
I am a faithful person who has committed to stay married to her as my vows indicate. It hurts to do it at times and I know this has made me a little calloused in the heart department. She says she loves me, but I feel she is in love with the thought of me, meaning someone by her side staying faithful. So from an aquarius point of view, it does not work well. Be prepared to be submissive to the Leo for it to work for her.
Now, to news of a different sort. I have been employed at my current job for a little over a year. There is, of course, a woman that works there. She is a Gemini and she has opened my eyes and my heart. We can talk about anything and everything. It is so nice to be able to do this again!! She listens to me and I listen to her and we just understand each other. NO, we have not had an affair. We are coworkers and we only talk at work. She has similar issues with here spouse so I think that is another reason we understand each other. I will say this, If this were another time and or place, I would not let her get away!! I have never been able to talk to any woman like the way we talk, it is so relaxing and comfortable!!
I did not mean to drag on so long, but I had to get it off my chest!!!
dear Waterboy– Your story touched me…have you ever thought of going to couples therapy with your Leo wife? Is it possible that she is having an affair and that is why she’s being so short-tempered with you?
Not sure what age you are, but it seems that life is too short to endure a marriage that has become unfulfilling. I hope you confront her about getting help with the marriage & that she is responsive.
I wish you luck.
Thanks Tropic. I have considered going to therapy to try and find the issue we may have. But she is uncooperative. She is very reluctant to seek outside help as she feels all is well. I have tried time and time again to just have heart to heart conversations with her, but when I mention anything of how she make me feel when she acts aggresively towards me, she gets mad and the aggression starts again. I am, btw, 39 years old, she is 35. My son, who is a teenager has stepped in on occasion in my defense and let me tell you, it breaks my heart to see this!!! He should not have to do this for anyone. He does not like to see any type of disagreement between my wife and I. I only hope he nor my daughter get emotional scars from this like I have. I feel that my job now is to keep the peace in the family and whatever cost until my kids get older and can move on. Once that time comes, then my wife and I can work it out or we can separate. I will say this, the scars she have inflicted upon me are very thick and calloused. It will be hard to mend them. I do truly love my wife and as long as I keep the peace, all is well, but it does not take much to “set her off”.
The more my coworker and I talk, the more we find out we have in common. It is so scary to me at this point!!! I get so nervous when I think about the similarities!! I think I am really liking this girl. I am not sure she feels the same way, but we sure connect on a level I never knew existed. We think alike, have the same beliefs, love to listen to music all the time, have the same morals, etc.!!! I could go on!! If you truly believe the zodiac charts, we would make a great couple. I could see that even before reading them. Words can not describe how she makes me feel about myself and about her. I don’t want to have an affair of any kind but it sure is hard to fight these feelings!! If you have never met a person that knows you better than you know yourself, you will be in a treat when it happens. I have been told things happen for a reason and maybe this is one of them. I have prayed for a solution for me and my wife, and maybe this is the solution. I don’t know!! I just try to take it one day at a time.
Comment to waterboy…
Please try to work out you and your wife situation. Prayer and staying away from temptation. That would be the first step.
Now to add I’m Leo woman was in a relationship with a Aquarius man for 7 years, things were good but like other have mentioned. He was emotionally distance and rude at times. I can be sensitive and definitely in the beginning stages of our relationship things were tense when it came to communicating. Over time things got better except him wanting his space which later turned into his wandering ways. Those ways are what put our 7 years and 6 month engagement on the back burner. We called the wedding off broke up and didn’t see each other for 2 years. I completely thought our relationship was dead. I still do and have always loved him. The chemistry and the security with him was oh so real. In the last few months just like others we have re connected and for some reason it still works. Of course alot harder than before , but anything in life worth having is worth fighting for. I’m rooting for mine to work out. He’s the only man thats had my heart and held it still.
Hi Jetblackmood
I can completely understand what your saying. I’m a leo woman also and i was with and an Aquarius man for 9 years. We were about to get married when we split up. I am also very sensitive and when i was down he used to walk away instead of being there for me. Its about getting through the good and bad times. This would drive us apart and make me feel very hurt. He also used to give me the cold shoulder for very petty reasons. We parted due to a lot of arguments, i wanted to work through our differences but he gave up. I still love him very much too but he doesn’t want any contact so i live in hope.
Waterboy – i suggest you give your wife time, its not worth giving up on marriage. I’m sure she is going through a stressful time too -talking to her calmly might work. Also i suggest you treat her and bring her on holiday or long weekend away to a nice hotel -(relaxed environment) just the two of you and take it from there..
I do want to work it out with my wife. Please do not misunderstand me. I will continue to try any and all means possible. I am a romatic at heart!! As I stated before, I am faithful to her and will not leave her side. I know there is the Gemini I speak of and she and I agree that we would not leave our spouses for the sake of the vows we took. She and I are loyal to that moral.
When my wife and I are at peace, it is wonderful and I love it. I try my hardest at this time to learn to relove her the way we used to love each other. But for one reason or another, our differences of opinions get in the way. Even though we truly have very little in common, she is a loyal partner.
She has told me on several occasions that we have so very little in common and we should just separate and get it over with. I take this as a joke and try to move on. I wish I could get her to talk about it, but it usually erupts in anger towards me.
There could be underlying childhood issues that cause her emotional bouts. She was abused as a child. She only has told me very limited information about it and I tend to not push it. I know this had to be traumatic on her and I have asked her to seek professional help. Of course, that gets nowhere. I do wish we could work out our differences and get on with our lives, either together or separate. I prefer together but I don’t really know if she wants it anymore. She does seem to resent me for whatever reason, but she is my first true love, so I tend to always forgive her.
Hi Waterboy,
It sounds complicated. She may need to talk all that through with you and both of ye decide. True love is never enough to keep things happy in a relationship unfortunately. Having little in common is never good.
I think being able to talk to one another is extremely important in any relationship. The Aquarius man i was with was not a talker and i am. Its healthy to discuss worries, issues etc. Hope things get better for you.
dear Waterboy-
building on what ‘Leo’ said–it does seem complicated. If there is no dialogue, it will be so difficult to move forward. Ask for God’s help, and when in doubt, I’ve found Psalm 35 to be particularly helpful. In my opinion, the Gemini is a friend to guide you through this–I respect & support your decision not to pursue a romance there … seems that that would only bring more misery in the end for everyone.
Maybe when the kids are a bit older you’ll have the chance to separate. But I’d also say to remember that you shouldn’t have to be the sacrificial lamb for anyone…it is not worth it to just be someone’s punching bag. you are still young & so is she; it seems that you have somehow become her ‘enabler’ –there is no reason for you to put up with emotional abuse. in some cases this abuse could be more harmful for your children to witness–than if you put your foot down & said, ‘I need for you to get help,’ and stick to that. If your kids just continually see you being treated as a victim, that just perpetuates the cycle of abuse. you are still young & so is she. maybe you will be loving her more by insisting that she get psychological counseling. maybe you could separate while she works on her issues. maybe the whole family could go… Obviously I don’t know all the details. I will say a prayer for you– keep us posted –
Leo, believe it or not, I love to talk! We used to talk all the time. Being an air sign, I talked about my dreams and fantasies all the time with her. She would tell me her desires too. It was smooth sailing for many years! Life could not get any better! She now mostly talks of how the kids don’t listen, believe me about the kids, they listen very well or they take get some of her wrath. She will talk about how some friends cheating or backstabbing this person or another. This is where we enventually run into a spark to an argument. She wants me to side with her on “Drama” issues and the fact is that I do not subscribe to “Drama”. I have explained on several occasions that I don’t want to deal with other’s issues unless they affected me or my family directly. I will listen, but not favor on side or the other. But she does not listen or hear me say this. So when I don’t give the response she desires, the fire erupts. At that point, I will do whatever to put the fire out even if it is against what I believe. Peace in the house is what I desire. The long conversations that we used to have about really nothing are gone. She does not listen when I talk about them. It is rather sad and depressing. I love her, but I don’t think she loves me anymore.
Tropic of Cap, I know you are right. I just have to somehow get her to seek the help she needs. If she doesn’t, the outcome will not be good. It’s like a double edge sword, it could cut on any side and it will hurt. Thanks for the prayer. I pray every night for guidance. Maybe that is why the Gemini came along. I don’t know for sure if this is the case, but she sure understands what I am going through and I understand what she is dealing with. Right now, she means a lot to me and I would hate to lose the friendship we have.
sorry to hear that, its very difficult for you. I can understand the drama your talking about. Its her way of testing you to see your reaction to things. By being passive it shows you dont have interest in her issues which are important to her. I know from my experience with my ex. There were issues that i wanted to discuss and he didnt want to know which caused even more problems between us. Id give anything to get back with him as i love him but we just could not live together without disagreeing on everything.. I gave him all my trust and love but it wasnt enough.
as a leo and knowing many of my leo friends stories, i do believe leos are very big hearted and loving, temperament for us only lasts for a very short time. it is erruptive, but its always only for a very short period. We forgive and move on from the problem as long as our partners learn from those frictions, as we learn too..
maybe you should let somebody like a psychiatrist to help her, dont tell her that s/he is a psychiatrist, let her just talk it out as friends to her. ask them to get close to GOD
as a matter of fact, everything can be solved, in His hand. HAVE TRUST,..
separation is the most hated allowed thing for God.. bcs He will never give us obstacles we cannot survive from.
you also go close to Him, pray…. be patient… pray… be patient. be veeery soft to her, speak from your heart.. believe. believe. believe in Him that every sacrifices you make in The Name of Him, will be rewarded as much or better.
I BELIEVE THAT. best prayers for you and your wife, the woman you love will go back and better with YOUR LOVE.
nothing beats leo-aqua love you know…
as for the gemini colleague, please dont be too close to her bcs youre letting yourself triggered to her, you are letting the romance in by going out just the two of you guys alone. by staying too in touch with her youre just making more regrets you shouldnt have… thats just not solutive, gentle man..
BEST PRAYERS! ALWAYS BELIEVE! The very least, *and its still very worth the fight*, youll be paid in heaven, peace..and serenity.. with the better her + persons you actually have deep care for…
so, keep going on the right track.:)
please pray for my aqua and me too;) having just a hard time here, too, … still believing tho the five senses no longer receive stimuli from him. bcs i believe if i purely love him bcs of God, someday.. somewhere,.. with big heart, our love will be as strong, revived, and better, stronger, than before… aamiin… <3
@Waterboy
I feel for u. I have been reading ur story & I felt touched and sympathetic at the same time. U need help and I think u need Out Now!!! This marriage is draining u physically more especially Emotionally (thing that I am so afraid of).
Aquarius is a fixed sign and fixed signs resist change, just like ur Leo. I am sure all that fire was very interesting and intriguing at first plus she was loyal, good lover and bossy sometimes & u didn’t mind, somehow u gave in thinking maybe it is u who is missing something regarding emotions. Plus there were 2 beautiful kids whom u adored. Then u thought u need to change and be as faithful as she is and marry her and be a good father to your kids.
I know one thing about opposite signs though very interesting at first is very draining in the long run. I am Libra myself & I once had a relationship with Aries- am sure u understand what I am talking about(luckily never married to him).
Now I am dating Aquaman (Feb 12) and he is going to marry Leowoman (July 25), he was very scared to tell me I assured him that he can continue with it as I do not have a problem at all plus they have 2 kids together. He was cheating her with me but I didn’t know then. Deep down I believe he must do this because if he doesn’t he will keep on wondering & I truly want him to be happy.
And when I read ur story it sounded more like his & they haven’t married yet. Always fighting & I know that the love & attraction between them is there. What I know is that he is the most responsible person I have ever known & I do not want to deny him this opportunity.
@DA
“”separation is the most hated allowed thing for God.. bcs He will never give us obstacles we cannot survive from””
I totally disagree with this statement not that I disagree with God but not all marriages are meant to last they are just good for that time until karma says no – that is why there is a divorce. Marriage is no longer a lifetime commitment as it should be there are reasons why people get married this days, and the very same reasons might separate them.
In terms of obstacles….yes some can be survived but not everything is worth fighting for especially if it doesn’t make u happy anymore.
Aquarians are sooo cool..outside the box thinking !!my partner is Aquarius sun,moon,mercury,venus im a leo sag moon..yep like all couples you have ups and downs ..but i love space,no jealousy /possesiveness…he lets me be ME !!!
How many men want to change you …i’m happy ..together 15 years nor cheated ..:)))
Tess – I agree with the space and no jealousy/possessiveness etc but us Leo woman love lots of love and affection and like a guy to show a lot of love and attention. Aquarius men are the opposite. Very cold characters. Don’t show any feelings and you don’t know where you stand. A lot of hard work. Glad you are happy -15years wow!!
Well… its a very interesting conversation above.
Im a leo girl and now i’m with Aquarius male. What i experience from aquarian is they are very sensitive and take everything very serious. He cant stand any distance between their loved one. And aquarians are very demanding and they are trustworthy.
So far, we’ve gone so good and the relationship that leo-aquarian have is very deep and real..
Your opposite sign is the one that will teach you the most. Some can learn, but most will be irritated. I’m a Leo/Virgo and Aquarius men have been very influential in my life. They drive me crazy, but I’m drawn to them.
waterboy, i want to hear more about your situation! If you see this please tell us what happened with you and your wife? I’m hoping for a happy ending to this.
I am a Leo in a 6 months relationship with an Aqaurius man, i cannot believe the connection we have compared to all my other relationships i have had in the past.
Its strange to see on all the websites i have came across about leos and aqaurius’s because it usually says they start off as friends, me and my man did and I never even saw it coming!! when it happens, it happens.
i have learnt so much from him and we both feel there is a connection within each other, like in a way like a brotherly sisterly relationship but obviously as partners, i cant really describe it too well.
I also think that what the article says is true. I have been with my Aquarius for over four years now, constantly unsure if he cares for me or not. Sometimes he gets so detached, always one foot out of the relationship, that I am almost sure that it is over for us, but then, very unexpectedly, he says or does something, which proves that he does care for me. Now we are both on Erasmus programme, thousands of kilometers away without a way to even visit each other and it is driving me crazy. In an ideal case I would like to hear that he loves me and cares for me and will not leave me several times a day, but as typical Aquarius, he will not do that and it is kind of frustrating being so far away from each other and being unsure of what he feels. The worst part is that I am a very jealous and possessive Leo and with 50 days apart already and 50 more to go, I am constantly afraid he will cheat on me, because sex is an important part of our relationship, one that keep us together in the hardest moments (there is a Leo woman on his dormitory and if the thing about constant attraction and sexual drive towards each other is true, I have really nothing to fight her off with from this distance) Some horoscopes say that Aquarius men are very faithful and almost never cheat, but many of you said their Aquarius cheated on you, so I really don´t know what to think and expect. Sometimes I almost feel like he wishes I would just break up with him so that he can go and explore the new, interesting girls around him, but as I feel deeply for him, I can´t really do that…we promised we will try our best not to break up because of this time apart, but sometimes I feel that I am just a burden to him…
Hi xxx
I feel for you and know what you are going through. I was with an Aquarius man for 6 years and he was the exact same. Very detached and never fully committed to me. I felt very deeply for him that i couldn’t break up with him either. Like you said – strong attraction and sexual drive. I’m very jealous and possessive and this was what used to drive us apart and cause a lot of arguments. He was not good at sharing his feelings and kept his emotions hidden. I have a fiery temper and in the end he broke up with me. I lost the best thing that ever happened to me. My advice to you is to not put yourself down as a burden to him, your far from it. I’m sure he feels the exact same for you, but like Aquarian men, they don’t show their feelings much. I would hold out until you both are reunited again and things will be so much better. You both have a future to look forward to. Wish you the best. 🙂
Dear xxx, your guy is a liar and cheater, he is holding on because he likes the sex. That is it. It’s a new adventure for him, a little rendezvous for him so when he leaves his girl that he is actually committed too for a weekend, he will come be with you. It’s not a real relationship it a fantasy for you and him. That’s it. Wake up and get out. He will not ever be with just you or any one person. His is a liar and a cheater. Pray on it. GOD will show you what you were trying Not to see. His kind is beneath you Leo women let that peasant man go. Leo women are Queens and should be treated as such,if they don’t see the royalty and loyalty of your character, dont let the mud miss up your $1,200 shoes. Many blessing to you. And all women that may read this that are not Leo’s you are a Queen too and we have to be treated as such or we will never get the respect we desever.
I am a leo woman my husband a Aquarius male. I have never met someone I have been so crazy about in my life. I feel like our worlds revolve around. Each other and I can’t stand being without him. Sometimes though we argue about the most petty things and it drives us nuts. I finally just started to realize it is not worth it to do that to each other. I believe he his more than just my best friend he is my soul mate. I know he needs his space but sometimes I give it at the wrong time. He wants to be close when I think he is trying to rest and I go do something else and it drives him nuts. I have grown to understand him I thnk a lot better, but there is still so much to work on. I have never truly enjoyed any of relationships before this one. We have been together for 4 years married for 2. I never want anyone else and have no desires to meet anyone else because of our connection. I truly believe every one of our disputes can worked out with a disscussion even though I can be his hot tempered wife that gets on his nerves we can take a break and rehash the conversation with civility is what I noticed. If u have the fight once, take some time think about it then come back with a clear mind and a softer heart.
I’ve just recently starting “talking” I guess you could say? Maybe “courting?” an Aquarius man, and I’m a Leo woman. We’re not an official couple yet, but we’ve known each other for years and always considered the other a friend. This just happened out of nowhere, just as I’ve read most everyone else say lol I think it’s crazy. But I also believe there’s a real connection. We both like our space sometimes, and to be together other times. The odd thing is that I’ve read everyone saying that Leo is jealous and possessive and Aquarius always has one foot out of the relationship, looking to run, and doesn’t share his feelings. That’s not entirely the case with us. I’m a Leo, and I’ll admit that I can get jealous, I usually don’t show nor mention it. He’s an Aquarius, and although I’ve noticed he doesn’t blow up my phone or annoy me with constantly needing me there, he shares his feelings pretty well for a guy recently. He’s been telling me that thinks we might have a real connection and we talk about things. We’re really getting to know each other on a deeper level, and it’s incredible. We do spend a lot of time together though. But if the other has plans or needs space, all is well. There was once where he wanted space and I kept buggin him to come out anyway, and I felt bad for doing so, but he eventually did on his own time, and thanked me for making him.
We’re already learning from each other and we’re not even a couple yet. But I’m pretty sure it’s inevitable at this point. But we’re both cautious, and strangely enough, I’m the one mainly putting it off, and I’M the Leo. But only because there’s extenuating circumstances preventing it at the moment. (And we’re both single, so neither is cheating.)
Reading these things has actually been helpful. I was kinda just reading them as a joke to show him later, but they’re so true and relavent.
My point for writing this: it all makes sense, and seems legit, but there are exceptions sometimes. If you’re looking into your relationship reading this, think of your partner. Just because someone on the Internet said they might be a cheater or looking for a way out, doesn’t mean it’s the case in your situation. Talk it out. This is the happiest I’ve ever been around a guy, and we’re not even dating yet! So, thank you for this post and the comments. Super helpful and eye-opening. (:
Sorry for writing a book lol
I’ve just started dating an Aquarius n He is The sweetest man I’ve been with in a long time we talk we laugh and our connection is out of this world. We spend all our free time with each other n when He leaves He really wants to sty n I want him to sty. he’s a really good man n I’m falling for him
Run for your life Leo sisters! The Aquarius man is a cruel & insecure jerkoff and he will never make you feel like #1!!! Only Libra women can put up with their shit because they are more submissive than a self-sufficient Lioness. We (Leo) women need men that can appreciate our hearts and that believe in love. Most Aquarians don’t even believe in the notion of Love because they are incapable of loving! I have attracted and been attracted to lots of Aquarians and they all have ruined my (love) life! I even put my pride aside and bent over backwards for these unpleasant & selfish jerks. I had the patience, I gave them freedom & space, even tried open relationships, never attached any damn strings, never spoke about my feelings (to not scare them away), yet they’ve managed to hurt me!! They are also huge liars and master manipulators and they aren’t “that” smart either!!!! I know some of you must be reading this and saying that it will not happen to them, but trust me, i use to think the same until it happened over and over again!!!
For over 6 years, I went to various forums and praised the Aquarius man and how they were supposed to be Leo’s best match. I was so god damn WRONG! I feel so stupid for wasting that much time & energy on these bastards! I was totally insane for thinking so highly of Aquarius men.
Also, you only see Leos going after Aquarians and not the other way around. Just look how many posts here starts with “I’m a Leo woman…” — how many Aquarians have been posting, here lately, hu? Compare it to the other forums, you will see that Aquarians are interested in any other sign, BUT leo. It’s sounds one-sided most of the time. That is because the AQUARIUS MAN DOES NOT CARE FOR LEO WOMAN, ONLY THE LEO WOMAN CARES FOR THE AQUARIUS MAN! We don’t match, that’s the tough true and we need to wake up and smell the coffee. A relationship / attraction should be equal on both sides. This is just painful!
Honestly, go for a Capricorn, at least they praise Leo women and they are strong, stoic and faithful, they are the better version of Aquarius. Add all the good traits of Aquarius coming from Saturn MINUS the perverted & filthy traits from Uranus and there you go, you got yourself a sexy & handsome Capricorn man! That’s why Capricorn man > Aquarius man
Stay Away from Aquarius men! Stay away!
Hello :9 my Gullible lions..We tend to jus use leos since they find us most fascinating, i really dont now y but they do, hold up 1 minute let me think yeah i c y they lov Us so much cause there to 2 nieve lol to cee through 2 the truth…I rathr b with a sag or aries libra n gem lol least they stand there dame ground lolmfafo n dont suckfocate us all tha dame time, well im bout to catch a flight with my 4th wife whom i dont luv.Now i ce y Bobby Brown cheated an used tht whitney houston bytch im glad thats over..By the way sorry im drunk its my bros bday so my spelling is off.well im bout to fly off again with my new wife whom i wont b wit long since im still married to a leo good luck u stupid leos, plus im gay n attrctiv wit aids but they dont care she dont know it yet lol..they take us anywayz
I jus love using leos as my stepping stool k so sorry u lions but the truth does hurt so deal with it.And yes im still married to a leo tht i hate use abuse every chance i get to n i luv it..shes not even my type fat n pretty but not pretty to me n she nows it but gullible azz niecey dont care, i never would take her anywhere but she still want n after all i put her through i wouldnt b with me man..God y me lol..Grow up n stop suckn up its 2015 dumbass who do tht..plus i look like seal gross i hate me so i hate u more for liking me
The comments on this blog post have me ROLLING. I am laughing so hard right now…
I’m a Libra, Leo Rising woman. I’m in a situation with a man who exudes Aquarius-ness, and it’s just not my business. Moving on. Need someone to recognize a Queen and show her the respect she deserves! Am I right ya’ll or am I right!
Aqua men are users they have no concept of love. The ex bf kept me around for 7 years on and off. Wasted my life on this man. When they use u up they will cheat but will still keep u around for their fun and LIE about everything. i like my fire signs like aries which is the best match or even the sag who is also a playful jerk but at least honest or other leo man
I am a leo woman In a relationship with an aquarius man for 3 years. At the beginning it was wild and full of passion. Now it is dull and we just feel like friends. My need for attention and affection annoys him, and his detachedness from emotion and cold manipulative ways drive me crazy. I wish I wasnt this way because I love him very much and I have not changed. I feel at this point I am just a burden to him. I wish he would show we how much he cares. :*(
HI,I am an aquarius man and to be frank,i have a leo friend whom i have fallen for already. she is practically the best thing that has happened to me. some aquarius may be users,but trust me not all of us are. i have asked her out and though she pretends not to care,she really gets jealous when she sees me with female friends. I am not very expressive,trust me, but i do that a lot lately. Guess its the power of Leo woman.
To all Aquarius Leo couple out there,hold on and love one another cus its so nice loving a leo woman.
I am a leo women i felt in love last summer with a aquarius man leo rising .First time in my life i have expirience so pure conection .He first was atracted by me .Passion was imidiate from both sides,but he hide from me that he had broken up with his aquarian girl one night before,i didnt mind i folow us a leo queen i didnt felt frighten i go straight to the challnged ,,i folow the bliss called Love.then the summer comes in the end 3 month allmost in heaven it was then the time for both of us to reorganize the practical things for a stable realitionsheep,he suggest to rent o home together and he would come to leave in my town.I went first and start to arrange the things such apartment etc..he never came he never took the callnge.After one winter alone trying to forget him i coudnt this summer i return in the place he live to see that i didnt looze him.He show me a called face ,a supper ego coverstation like he is the best in Town,he had a great winter. In the full moon we make love it was unreststale.for both then after that emidiatly he told me he is going to his girl.he was again made uo with the aquarian ex girlfriend..I let the islind ..i let my dignity Aquarian man ..hmm a challlnge for leo women shure but i dont think they deserve our brave soul.I am still healling my soul and trying to let go..
Aquarius always runs away from a lioness.
Lionnes>> Libra woman (Scorpio Rising Sun) is never submissive, she is unlike lioness real queen. She’s just not arrogant like a lioness: D
Now how can I not fall in love with him, honestly, how do I convince myself otherwise, he is such a sweetheart, he makes me feel so appreciated and wanted and just everything….just everything. He sent me the most heartwarming email today reassuring me that he does care and that he does see a possibly of us been more than what we are now…he feels like the friend I truly never had – we can talk about anything, laugh about everything and get crazy in our little world and then laugh about it some more, He keeps me so grounded, he makes me feel like everything will be okay, makes me feel like nothing will ever ruin this fantasy….and I believe in him.
I may not know whats the perfect gift to get him for his birthday (LOL), I may not know if he likes to sleep with his socks on, I may not know if he snores when he sleeps – heck I may not even know for sure if he even sleeps at all (LOL), but I want to know, I want to know all these things, I want to know about his childhood, I want to know what keeps him up at nights, I want to know how much certain little things means to him and what makes him angry…..discovering each other a bit at a time.
Is it real? Yes. Is it rare? Yes. Will it last? No way to tell, but if we remain loyal to each other, and co-conspire against outside forces! Yes. What does it feel like? Like the most exciting, scariest, exhilarating, nerviest, frightening, happiest moment of your life all rolled into one. Please, please don’t let it end…
I met my Aquarius man at a Renaissance Faire. We immediately had a connection. He’s like a magnet to me, I can’t stay away even if I tried. He’s so amazing, I can’t imagine living without him. We haven’t even fought at all, which I’m grateful for. He’s like me in so many ways. We think alike, act alike. We finish each others sentences, we know what the other person is thinking. It’s like we’ve known each other for years, instead of days. He’s my Aquarius and I love him dearly, I would never give him up for anything or anyone. I hope to stay with him for long-term, no matter what. :^)
Like I said, immediately, we were like magnets to each other. We always want to be with each other, at all times. It’s almost like he lives in my house already! :^)
Amazing man, sexy as hell (mentally and physically), and quite the social butterfly. 🙂 I love him with all my heart.
Going through my leads of interested registered prospective clients and whose name pop up on the second page in blue ink, mark you; everyone else wrote their information with the black ink pen I provided next to the clipboard, I dont even remember meeting this person or saw when they wrote and where did they get a blue pen from, why they wanted their name to stand out on my sheet to have written it in a different color ink……oh boy I just love this….keep it up whoever is doing this… Luv luv luv it!!
There is no escaping this ever, I am convinced, if no other time, I am now. Flight Attendants – prepare for landing, the wait is about over!!
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dear leo girls
why aquarius ? when you can get a scorpio guy, nothing in this world compares to a scorpio, is the best everything, i dont care about aquarians, i dont care , ja ja
leo girls
why aquarians? i mean, when you can get a scorpio guy, nothing is better than a scorpio guy, nothing in this world,
aquarians are smart, so what about it?, i don t care
Hello fellow Leo ladies….Think Harley Quinn and the Joker, when you think of this crazy-insane-passionate-sex induced love match of conquest between wills…Nothing more.
P.S. whatever you do, prior to the relationship? Don’t have sex with him……for a long time…..
I am a Aquarius man currently courting a leo woman and let me tell ya, she turns me on. Theres such a strong attraction between us that i believe we both feel. She’s actually dated other Aquarius men in the past, and her best friend is and Aquarius. After reading several post from leo women on here Im starting to notice something. Yes, we Aquarius carry similar qualities but we are all individuals…..thats what we’re all about. Each man, sign, and person evolves differently. I’ve put my pride aside and shown her the real me, I pride myself on it. All relationships MUST be built on solid ground, not sand. Meaning that you MUST start out as friends first, you both must take time to learn each other…no matter the sign. Even tho theres passion, theres no need to rush into things. Leo and Aquarians have a bad habit of rushing into things…not me. Even tho Id love to stuff my face in between her legs ever morning I know that time will come. Aquarius, take your time brother, she’ll feel you soon enough. Communication is the KEY to ANY relationship. Keep exploring each others mind and tapping into the other person to develop and strong union. My last gf was a gemini and we all know how much they adore attention without needing it. If you truly love someone you’ll do whatever it takes to keep the partnership. All men and even some women fall into routine, and trust me, a real woman will let you know when she’s bored….no woman likes to be with a boring man. The zodiacs gives us a broad overview but only you can determine the outcome based on your actions……a little effort can go a long way. PEACE and LOVE
Aquarius man falling hard for a Leo woman. Sorry for the nightmares I read about Aquarius men. I’m gonna give this woman my all. She is so romantic and I enjoy every second of it. She wants to upgrade my entire wardrobe, and I’m no bum but she wants me to dress more mature. as long as she doesn’t turn me into a Carlton Banks, or some pointdexter looking dude. Naturally I’m like no, but honestly I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make her happy. I think regardless of a sign, two people have to be tolerant of each other’s needs and wants. Bottom line.
Leo female aquarius man.
He knows how to love me and by far the only person to let my guards down, he hasn’t give up on me and he loves me so much, for the first time someone actually loves me more than I love them lol.
It’s a good match but takes a lot of work and understanding… Aquarians are really sensitive
We all have our negatives about us but you gotta go through bad times to appreciate the good, it can’t always be great and rosey. I hope he never cheats on me I’d be devastated but so far so good.
I’ve been with my Leo for 20 years and were still in love with eachother.
I love my queen.
I love the relationship examples. I must admit.. George Burns and Gracie Allen were balanced and it was a wonderful, beautiful, blissful marriage and example of how a healthy Leo Sun Woman can be every single thing an Aquarian Sun Man needs. There was never a dull moment, in fantastic and hilarious ways.
My heart still hurts for Whitney and Bobby Brown. The biggest imbalance here was the drug use and him trying to take a firm stand in his sobriety. Had she been able to kick the habit, there wouldn’t have been all the craziness.
Burt Reynolds is too fyne to have dealt with that vain bitch, Loni Anderson, for so long. Loni was the absolute worst of the three, from my perspective. Whitney had that habit long before she met Bobby. Loni is vain, excessive, and obnoxious. The traits people expect to see in Leos. She simply put just wasn’t a good person to Burt.
Thankfully, I use these comparisons for Venus, Moon, and Mercury; so I don’t think much of the imbalances. It helps to have an idea of the Sun-based examples because having a Cap Sun at 360th Harmonic allows there to be more color than just the description written above. My Aquarius Moon is strong with my Juno conjunct it, keeping my Leo Venus much more stable and balanced so I don’t become a Loni.. ..her character disgusts me more than the poofy blonde hair and barely-there career. Burt never stopped working as an Actor. He needs much more respect and credit for his contributions to society, as well as that marriage. Too bad he couldn’t refuse to pay the alimony. That bitch needed a lesson in humility, BIG TIME.