Libra Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times: no one can control an Aquarius man but a Libra woman. Both are air signs with a somewhat detached view of life that is complementary. But the real reason a Libra woman can manipulate an Aquarius man is because there is a conservative side to Aquarius, a la Ronald Reagan. Saturn was the sign’s ancient ruler. An Aquarius man can be very attracted to a Libra woman because she can be an asset to his career and social standing. He may be painfully aware of his lack of social skills and he knows a Libra woman will come in very handy.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as an Aquarius Man:
Don’t come on too strong — or too weak. The symbol for Libra is the scales. They like the middle ground. You should be neither too cold, nor too ardent; neither too fast nor too slow; neither too trendy nor too old-fashioned. If this sounds too hard, get out now. The fact is that you attract a Libra into your life to become better balanced, and it’s probably worth it to try and rise to the occasion. If you veer a little bit too far in one direction and then correct, she will be very understanding. It’s not as hard as it seems to win her heart.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Libra Woman:
Libra has the reputation of being a superficial romantic, and while there is some truth to that, many Libra women are astute politicians, great strategists, and natural business partners. This is the side that you should put forward if you’re interested in attracting Mr. Intellectual. Many Aquarians, delightful as they are, get stuck in outer space and need someone to play Loop-de-Loop with them. In other words, it’s your job to connect the dots in the social world so he has some way of relating to others. This means that you need to be tolerant of his dating skills, rudimentary though they may be. Some Aquarians may not be the most polished, but they are not game players, and if he’s interested in you at all, you should probably feel quite honored.
Degree of Romance:
I’m sure the Aquarians aren’t even reading this section, so I’ll address Ms. Libra directly: You can train your Aquarius man quite easily. He is very amenable to suggestion and does not object to specific commands for your pleasure. In other words, if you have thought things over — as you are wont to do — and you have decided that a pearl necklace is what you would like for Christmas, and that it is within the realm of possibilities for him to buy you one, go ahead and suggest it. You might even mention a specific one that you saw in XXX store. Surprisingly enough, he will be grateful for this information, and probably run right out and do it. That’s as much romance as you’ll get.
Degree of Passion:
Aquarians can be surprisingly passionate, precisely because they make a point of being so dispassionate. You will find this amusing, Libra, because of the power it gives you over him. Use that power wisely because of the tendency that you have to create immediate payback karma.
Degree of Friendship:
These two can be absolutely best friends. There is a graciousness and mutual respect between them that is very special. Long after other couples have settled into familiarity and even civility, these two will be extending lovely courtesies to one another as far into the future as you can see. Libra really brings out the gentleman in the Aquarian and Aquarius has found a lady worthy of his affection, which he does not give freely. A large part of the plus side of their friendship is that they understand each other’s need for space.
Degree of Marriage:
This is an excellent choice for marriage. Both parties are logical, level-headed, and able to submit. They share a common viewpoint and are likely to enjoy the same general lifestyle. Libra is always willing to compromise, and Aquarius extends a lot of freedom in the partnership. They score high in conflict-resolution skills, which is an essential ingredient in a good long-term relationship. Aquarius encourages Libra not to keep score or hold grudges, which is also a plus.
Progression of Relationship:
Things progress logically between the two air signs. Since both need space, they are not likely to see each other more than once a week to begin with. The courtship will be courteous and respectful. The relationship is likely to move forward in mutually agreed upon increments with minimal friction. Libra discourages the kind of stalking behavior that Aquarians are capable of. Things go smoothly and logically toward a conclusion that is mutually agreeable.
Sex:
Sex is an important part of a relationship between these two, but equally important are lifestyle choices, viewpoints, and common goals. This makes for a balanced relationship that enhances the sexuality between them. Furthermore, they are likely to agree on how often they have sex, thereby minimizing the negotiating that some couples endure. Libra is famous for the accoutrements of love. For example, she may introduce the Kama Sutra, for which he will be very grateful because he’ll try anything once. The beginning and ending of their love making is likely to be as polite and mannerly as the other areas of their life together, each being very solicitous of the other’s well-being.
When It’s Over:
Aquarius has the upper hand when it comes to the relationship as a whole. He will not be inclined to end something once he has submitted to it. Aquarius is fixed sign and these men seldom stray. However, if he gets a “higher calling,” like a pat on the shoulder from his ruler, Uranus, he will out the door like greased lightning never to be enveloped again. No one knows for sure what comes over an Aquarian, but you know they do march to a distant drummer. Like it or not, when the dance is over, it’s time to go home. Libra may talk him into staying around for a little while longer, but it won’t last. This is one man who will give an ex-partner everything just to be free.
hahahhahhahahahha funny because its so true
IF you dated an Aquarian, you must have a great sense of humor!
I have been with a few Libra women, I do agree that there is definitely a mutual respect there, but there are huge problems between them too. I tell them to you very logically. First of all, Libras are very bound by social rules, whereas auarians really break any rules they confront, soon or later we get REALLY bored with libras and they find us unconsiderate. Also, aquarians tend to be much smarter than Libras, and view libra’s diplomatic white lies as huge turn-offs. Moreover, Libras generally are unable to make quick, efficent decisions as opposed to aquariuans. This is a significant issue here because soon or later, aquarians regard libras as a very weak creature (also because libras are not as determine as aquarian and they can become addicts to anything easily) and as it is well known that aquarians can not tolerate weak creatures for long, therefore they leave libras permanently and they appreciate this decision. These data are based on my real observations from aqua-libra couples in NHS relationship departments.
I must diaggree with you about Libra women, we are not all the same, I do not make quick decisions for very good reasons. I am a manager it has helped me to see that making quick decisions sometimes without thinking things through will cost you in the long run. I can make them if needed, but not always necessary, be careful what you say, my Aqua man and I do just fine together.
I can certainly see your point. Well put by the astute Aqua Man. What is NHS (excuse my density)?
it is SO true!!!!!!!!!!!
i mean, i am with my Aquarius man 4 years now and it happened just like written here!
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o.m.g. this is so true i am a libra women-all i date is aquarius men-the stalking part…lol,
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haha i am loving how all of this is so true, i am dating an aqua man and love his company 🙂 he makes me laugh so much. But it bums me out how he doesnt pay enough attention to me as i’d like, but he throws his little suprises here and there and has a cute way of showing his affection for me..Its true though he does need his own space which i dont mind, as i do need my own also.
i am a Scorpio Women who had a 2 year ( just about) relationship with an Aqua man who has a child with a Libra women who is just plain nuts and is the reason why we are no longer together. I have talked to “my” Aqua man about the ex many times as they had an on again off again relationship for 7 years. He said that he has tried to date other women and move on but the Libra women talked him into staying and has broken up more than one of his relationships NOT including the one he has with me. She trapped him with the son they have together, he didn’t want to go through with it but she did. And now every second he is with someone else she phones and tells him that he cannot see his son if he is with someone else. He can’t afford court but makes a little over the req. for legal aide so this is what he has to deal with.
When he and I were dating , we laughed ALL the time, he did sweet things for me like run me baths, rub my feet after a long day, and wrote little funny/sweet notes and all the rest. The sex was amazing in which it was different every time, we had sooo much of it he couldn’t keep his hands off me for too long, he told me things he never told others as well even though he has loved before. He had told me many times that I made him feel things he has never felt with any women that he has loved in the past. And when I moved out of his place because the ex girlfriend was denying him his son because he was with me , he told me ( crying) that ” your the best” I said at what? He then looked at me with tears in his eyes and said ” at everything , no one will ever top you” He has also since sent me a letter which I have repsonded to but haven’t heard anything back since and its been about 2 months. I don’t want to be with him again because there was way too much drama , even for me a Scorpio! But I said I wanted to be his friend and gave him my new number, no call yet after 2 months , oh well.
So , Aqua/libra may work …. but I have to say that Aqua /Scorpio is something that is much much more.
Heh everything seems so true from this. Well scorpio watch out because aqua men are keen on making ANYBODY feel that way. I mean you don’t even know what he might have been saying to the libra gal to keep her along.
I’m a libra from experience and yea i do make mistakes and we do irritate eachother, but who doesn’t in a normal healthy relationship?
Out of all the men who come at me and the men i’ve dated, i feel natrually balanced to this person the most. Yea i do admit i tried to keep him along but let me see if someone can answer this for me
How do you break off a relationship to a aqua man where you’ve been absolutely faithful to them, but they were with somebody else the whole time??
Is it really fair to say that libras are at fault when i’ve tried to move on, but intstead they trap me into thinkng that i’m their number one when they might tell 20 women(exaggerating) that they’re speacial and number one too?
I’ve come to realize we are a great match, not much to complain about except that aqua men are a bit selfish and that they create more problems to march to their own drummer
But it is ture that we are great friends and that i do tend to connect the dots for my partner because they get too lost
And to say that were nuts: DAMN SKIPPY I”M NUTS LADY SCORPIO!!! AND I DON”T GIVE A F**** ABOUT BEING PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!
i do get jealous at times but that’s only when aqua man cries wolf like he needs me and doesn’t let me live my life in peace and i’ve thought about having a kid with my aqua man but he won’t let me, yet i’ve thought about it because i love him so much that i don’t need a damn relationship to prove it. And yea i think i’d probably do the same not letting him see the kid while he’s with someone else because i might be jealous, but it’s because i’m protective as a libra. If i don’t trust somebody and their nature, no way in hell are they going to be around my kid raising them any old way they want. F**** no!!!!
I’m engaged to an Aqua and I’m a Libra.
What I notice with in an Aqua they find it hard to express there feelings! especially if there is something bothering them.
I first guess how he feels! to him! and soon when I say the right word that makes him feel that way. He opens up to. With romance! he likes to tell how he feels with poems! which I’m fine with that. I see how he loves me through his actions which is fine with me.
When we do have arguments sometimes he will go in another room have his own space in time I will come in and say sorry and he say sorry and its fine all over again.
Also Aquas like too! burn two ends of the candles! and he gets over terid! sometimes! so I have to force this little guy! to relaxed and get some sleep! and after that he says! You are right! I feel so much better.
IN LOVE FOREVER-
i just met my Aquarius male. right away i was infatuated with him. and he seems to be with me as well, i loved the “and if he’s interested in you at all, you should probably feel quite honored.” part, because i do feel quite honored, it makes me feel that way for some reason. lol thank you for giving me good feeling about this.
@brie_libra
I’m very happy fo r you. Thi s should be a good relationship.
am a female libran, and all guys i’ve been serious with are aquarians..there’s always a physical attraction followed by deep friendship..which lands in a love relationship. yes, aquarius are very funny people in my life, i laugh a lot with them. yes i feel hurt when i dont get enough attention but it’s compensated with the nice words and actions they make..beauty is wot attracts aquarians..so the more sexy u r, the more intellectual u appear, n the nicer u dress ACCORDING TO THEIR WAYS, the better chance u hav at havin a lasting relationship..always, aquarians are loners, they like to be alone when someone bugs them…so better stay silent, watch ur mouth and dont stress any matter with them…they do hav a mind of their own, but librans hav a great power over aquarians, so all the best…libra-aquarius rocks, coz it’s mostly the passionate physical intimacy which clicks n holds them together..+ the faithful friendship and nice company that librans are for aquarians…
cheers!!
I was with an Aquarius who was overly loving at first; then without warning was overly detached. He stopped opening up to me unless it was a forced situation, i can definetly agree that they love the outside world then their immediate loved one’s, their unromantic, detached, selfish, arrogant and have too much pride. I will never be with an aquarius man again…he broke my heart. Cancer woman
Yeah i feel your pain cancer woman! I know how delicate and too much emotions we have. I’m a scorpio. You have to keep it safe try just being close to water elements. Pisces, cancer and scorpio. Only then we can interact emotionally, interactively and mentally. Air signs are abit to shallow for me, they come and go. But they’re quite smart actually
As an aquaian man I would have to say not a of us men are Alike cause I give my woman alot of attention as a should and we have an outstanding relationship we have been together for 5 years an I could not be any happier
Libra women think the Aquarius man is playing mind games,but he is not.You ran into him where alot of people are and then started dating.He spends time with you to get to know you.If he stands you up on dates it’s just that he’s nervous about being all alone with you and does not want to make a fool of himself in front of you(it’s not that he’s not interested in you).He really likes you,so he wants to impress you.He may even show up just to cancel your date or say something came up and ask you out on another date(This does not mean on every date he will stand you up or cancle).Now he’s been with you for maybe two or three weeks and you are falling in love with him.But he disappears. Your thinking(What the F,where did he go?(he didn’t even call me like he said he would)well all his friends,best friends,and family were thiking the same thing when he disappeared for the two or three weeks he’s been with you.He left them all alone for you now he needs to spend time with them.Your thinking(I knew he wasn’t interested in me or he’s cheating on me & worse match ever!)NOT!
From what I have read when an Aquarius guy becomes aloof and distant,he’s begining to love you.Also that an Aquarius guy will never lie to you if he truely loves you.He’s not the type that wears his heart on his shoulder.He can’t believe that he loves you,because he fears love.To him fallig in love with a woman will take his freedom away.His freedom is to be with his friends,buddy’s,and pals to have fun going to the movies and the mall and his favorite a party where they can make more friends.At first Libra(girl) you were just one of his many friends but after you two talked and laughed for a three weeks and say 4 days.He disappears,his heart starts telling him in his mind that he loves you.He returns and(your in love with him) excited to see each other(both hiding your love).You both show you love each rather then saying it,because you want the other to say it first.One of you will but not right away.You might start dating and Libra(girl) will slip and say,”I love you” when Aquarius(guy) kisses you for the first time on a date.
This is very confusing to me.I mean the websites say that Aquarius and Libra are the best match and match made in heaven. But then they talk about all the problems they can have in a relationship like their not.I would like to be with an Aquarius but then sometimes websites turn around and say Gemini is the best math for Aquarius.So I look up Gemini girl and Aquarius guy and they say that Gemini are tied with Libra for Aquarius love match.What kind of shit is that. You can’t have to signs as your love match.If two signs of the same element(air & air) are a love match then doesn’t that mean two fire signs,two earth signs, and two water signs are a love match?If so,then what about the other 4 remaining signs,because there are 3 signs of each element.I read bad comments about libra and Aquarius and good ones too.I read bad comments about Gemini and Aquarius but on some websites more bad ones than Libra and Aquarius.
I have just started to date an aqua man and we were getting along quite well. I’ve smiled the most I have in a very long time. When we talk the conversation is always suited with laughter. I feel extremely comfortable around him as if we’ve known eachother for a much longer time. Every now and then it feels like I’ve got an elementary school crush (the connection is ginuine)..although, sometimes he seems detached and I begin to wonder (as librans typically do) if hes really into me, but before my mind wonders off into thinking for too long he always does something unexpected and expresses himself and how he truly feels-without words. Between the 2, I feel a sense of simplicity and friendship more than anything.
Lets just say that I’m very in love with my aqua man… We’ve known each other since we were in elementary, we were friends for many years, Hes my boyfriend now , he’s excellent, and I wouldnt change a hair on him.
I have to say reading all the comments some are true and some aren’t. i’m libra and my aqua man, we met online, fell in love and he proposed after 7mos. we never agrue, yes its true not so romantic but he shows me he loves me in different ways, it takes some getting used to and can be hard. but he is loyal, sweet, caring and i can’t wait to marry him. being a hopless romantic i write poetry, give him affection and love. and it works. he’s my soulmate
while on a trip to his country i met my aquarian man. first everything was so natural, everything he did was the perfectly balanced for just getting to know each other. after just a week i could tell that something was very different with this man. before i left i wrote him a letter before i left telling him i would be back because i knew that this was something bigger than i could fight. a few months passed with minimal contact. but then we picked right back up where we’d left off. it was like nothing changed, except for both of us. but the odd thing was that, though we hadn’t talked in a while we both changed in the same ways. after a few weeks we became official. but very soon before this i was totally head over heels, but i was skeptical i didnt want to just through myself out there. then he said you know i might more than miss you. and we both knew what that meant. it was glorious.
now we’ve been together for 6 months and honestly i’ve never been happier. we go through alot but he is always there. he doesnt always mind my emotions in fact he says he embraces them to help him become better. i do feel that i dont really receive enough attention but when i get it he says the perfect things. we are both very open and talk about literally everything. sometimes i wish he could read my mind or even attempt to. but i’ve learned just to be straight up which is something he truly appreciates. i know that he is very committed, which means alot to me. but its also difficult because since we share so much, he holds such a big part of me that when we argue, or even just when he forgets to call i jump to worst possible conclusion. i find all in all we are a very good match, and i believe we can move mountains if we have to.
absoloutely true….each nd everything!!!
I’m a libra girl and have started dating (on-line) an aqua guy 3 weeks so far. (I used to be married to an aqua male for 10 years and it’s so true about them in the “when it’s over” section)…
Anyway, early days yet but so far so good. . . I do hope things develope further because this guy is making me smile more than any guy has in quite a while :-D!! . . .He’s a little aloof but I guess thats to be expected in the beginning stages of dating anyways.
Any advice for a Libra gal early stages dating an Aqua guy would be most appreciated!!
I really enjoyed reading this information, very accurate and well written. I have just started seeing an aqua man and he’s really lovely and sweet. Hope it goes well!! 🙂
I started seeing a aquarius man thanks to my friend and his brother and I never smiled or laughed so much. Everything so far seems so true being a li bra. The convoy. We have are like we have known each other for forever. We told each other we would teach each other… me showing him how to relax he is always doing something but makes time for me and him showing me to try new things just have fun with life. I have noticed the whole not giving me attention (just me being a li bra) but I just told him I like to have attention. I have never been with aquarius and wow I been missing out. he always just stares at me and tells me how beautiful I am and he always says” I just like you way to much and I don’t know why”. I think he knows why but he is just being shy with his words and doesn’t want to hurt but the same goes for me also. Wish me luck I’m really feeling this aquarius man 😀 any words of wisdom would be great!
I have been chatting to an aquarius guy for a few months now. When I saw his pic i was instantly attracted and we started chatting on msn. There was an instant connection and we both told each other, there was no holding back the feeling! We talked about a lot of personal issues and at one point he backed off which I was gutted about, maybe he had shared too much and been too open about his hurt and heartbreak from his ex wife with someone he didnt know? Well I gave him space as I had the gut feeling he needed it and we have recently started chatting again and it’s how it was before and even better. He remembers every detail that I have told him. We have talked on the phone twice now, 2 hours and tonight 3 hours. If I had a tick box he would have filled all of them. I feel like I have come home. we laugh, we talk about our feelings, he is very expressive about his emotions and how sensitive he is, he is so very sweet and attentive, he makes me want to cry. We are meeting up in a couple of weeks! I am 37 and I think I have finally found my soulmate.
Well.. I must say that just about everything written here desrcibe me(libra) and my bf(Aquariuas) to a T.. We both get all the space we need as he works out of town for 10 days at a time. However, I have read alot of the comments about other Aquarian men not being very affectionate.. well i must have the one in a million.. as he is very very affecionate with me.. I love it!!! I really couldnt get over just how well this describes us….
He is ALWAYS holding my hand, arm around my shoulders/ waist. rubing my back, etc.. but he alsoknow that i am pretty stressed out, and that I find it rather relaxing when laying in bed and he rubs my back. I met my bf on line, and right from the start it was an instant attraction. He is a littel oder(im 32, and he is 40) I think what is really helping us with our relationship is the fact that we have both been married before and that we both have kids, so when we are talking about things going on in our lives, we can really relate to each other. He really makes me happy and makes me feel complete. We have only been dating for about a month, and I am hoping that I have finally found my true soulmate!!
That scorpio women fell for the bs that’s y u were the best and he let you go lol stop it he back with baby mama telling her the same as he had done for the past seven yrs get a clue. U were the best but he has not called in two month and u gave him the new number lol well he will be back…….best thing.
Met an Aqua guy online a few days ago and immediatly felt attracted to him. We could make each other laugh and my mind was never far from him. He came to see me at the spur of the moment last night and took me a to a late-night movie. He was constantly touching me softly although his words didnt seem to show he was all that interested. Today, he hasn’t called me and only texted me about once although he did kiss me repeatedly at the door when he dropped me off. I’m abit confused as to what he’s thinking but I have a feeling he just doesn’t know what to think or how to act. I’m going to do my best to take it slow with him and build a close-ness before letting him get TOO close
Kitty – Don’t be so paranoid, he text you instead of calling, that’s ok. He doesn’t want to be come accross as too keen.
So did he end up caling? good Luck
excuse me but why would a libra be able to change and keep up with an acquarius? libra women are also scared of commitment, from my point of view, so how could she hold him down? wouldnt be better if they were more opposites?/ just a question!
LIBRA!!
Aquarius guy here…..
You can never know what running in her “venus-ruled-brain”….jst when you think shez mad at ya…you get pissed–then she finds a way of coming back to you; she’s the “war maker” & the “peace maker” at the same time; she feels embarrased @ u knowing she’s head-over heels 4 u; she cld even say a sexy sweet comment in a txt sms 2 u–then in a minute withdraw it–like it was a mistake; these “daughter’s of Eve” are another “Holy Grail puzzle” to fix—-but who can fix “nature”?….NO–BODY!! As Aquarius–i’ve learnt to accept IT All about LIBRA—“the Good—the Bad—& the Ugly”
I just recently came out of a 7 yr relationship with a Scorpio. Its was a rollercoaster, to say the least. I felt a lot of detachment from life because of his controlling sign. Not even a week after the split, it was actually 2 days, I was with my one and only girl friend and stopped in this shop where the only AQUA MAN I’ve ever met, worked. We hit it off immediately…not even two days later, i found a reason, stopped in, and to my pleasant surprise, he asked me out. Just coming out of a rough divorce with his wife, we found common ground in having “space” and found it very interesting how fast we both moved after such dramatic exits from previous lifestyles. its been three weeks now, we see each other 3 or 4 times a week, every time as best as the first. Finding a friend and companion and also the depth connection Ive always lacked, is and has been the best thing for my life. I was a young girl when I started my previous relationship and my aqua man has been there and helped me make up my ever so indecisive mind, without saying what to do, which I hate, let me make my own decision but help with that too….typical Libra..the freedom and respect is incomparable to any relationship Ive been in, seen or heard about, something of the movies. After reading what has been said and the article before, my eyes have already seen so much thats been written here. I have, over the last three weeks, maintained my direction of independence and have been asking for the company of aqua man from time to time. I know now that this has probably been the best move Ive made since leaving the Scorpio. From here, the only direction is onwards and the only emotional ride, up and up. Even the friend I have to confide in aqua man is worth the effort to keep him around. Coming from one person who has found and known for a long time, to have no problem across the board with cutting ties and living with no long term close friends, this a person I will know for the rest of my life regardless of relationship status. If could have one wish, and this is a big deal because it has just changed from the 1 wish I had for 10 yrs, its that everyone had the ability to have and feel what its like to have the best friend, lover, and individuality needed to maintain an awesome life partner. So all those memories of friends come and pass, there will be always, for me, my one known aqua man to share them with and reminisce.
I feel in love with my Aqua man instantly… on the first date I knew he was going to have my heart. As described in this article, he always had problems expressing his emotions, but will always do sweet things for me, like fix my door knob, cook for me. They tend to be very attentive and true gentlemen. I love that about him. He’s very sweet, caring and full of compliments all the time. He makes my heart melt and I feel like school girl in love… I’m a 34 year old woman. We dated for 6 months and we broke up. A year has gone by since our breakup and he’s come back around professing he love for me… after all this time. The connection is strong and real… it’s very spiritual and something I’ve never felt before. I am still madly in love with him and think he’s the one. We are in contact and slowly making things work again. I would not trade him for any other man!
I love my Aquarian with all my heart.
As a Libran I get impulsive with my temper/accusations and take him for granted sometimes but he’s the one that brings me back down and makes me love him more and more. We have just passed our year of knowing one another and I have no complaints with my old man (He’s only 21) – We want to get married and have heated fights and make up sessions for the rest of our lives <3 As long as I get chocolates from him, I'm happy. Aquarian men love attention, esp female companionship but we learn to love them for it. They have immense loyalty towards their partners (My dads an aquarian) and they really do unexpected things that make you go "awww" 🙂 I've told my mom this and there's just no other way to describe it: You know when you walk into that store and you see that huggable white summer dress… You can walk to the shoes and look at the sunglasses but you can just see yourself going back to get the dress (It's like you can envision it in your wardrobe already) Well that's how I know. It's this sixth sense that I'm going to marry this man. I'm a definite hopeless romantic BUT how can I resist this lame ass who's always willing to work with me. We share a great respect. Problems we have are that we're never on the same page about most things. In fights we are both always on the defense until we take space and come back stronger. There's an important thing Aquarian men hate – generalising. So don't compare your humanitarian with other Aqua men, "where there's a will, there's a way". Aqua men don't favour religion but the two in my life are extremely spiritual in their own way. I have my 'caveman' and I also wouldn't trade him for any other star. Relationships are about finding someone that wants to be selfless with you. It's a maturity and boy are you lucky when you find it and the timing is right! <3 KKB 4 WPG
i met a aqua man online and we have been talking for about 4 weeks now, im 26 and he is 37 so there is a big age gap….although we have only been talking for four weeks we have instantly clicked in a way i didnt feel possible and have mirrored intersts, im totally in oar of him, he texts me every day to say morning, but i can also relate to the space as a few days will pass and nothing, he makes me smile like nobody has before and although we havent met yet im very excited about where its heading. he has said about meeting for a drink but didnt confirm when or where and left it very open by saying we would sort something out soon? if any aqua man has any tips then please share. but i totally agree libra and aqua have some really strange instant connection, i get butterfly every tie i hear from him and we have alot in common.
Well i think Aquarian men like i am need space. For us to like a woman she should be mysterious and not to easy to get. Aquarian men prize their women .. so it should be real hard for them to get the women they love. the more mysterious and difficult you are to get the more interesting it becomes. I love this libran girl and she is damn mysterious and quiet. she never returns my call but always replies to my email. i feel nice but am really scared to talk to her on the togetherness issue.. i m gonna propose her tonite .. lets see what happens.. i do love her..
and one more thing.. i personally think Aquarians are very committed, humorous and lovely human beings..
I dated an Aqua for about 2yrs! We started off nice and slow, we became good friends..even best friends. We did everything together, spent every available time together. If i wanted to do something he was the only one i wanted to do it with n vice versa. Then we fall in love, that was fast passionate and sweet. We couldn’t get enough of each other. The sex was mind blowing and the romance equally sweet. This was my fantasy relationship and i felt i was living in a dream. Until our differences got the better of us, i need space too so i also understood when my Aqua needed space, but his disappearing acts became old and annoying. When something was wrong i began to hate his keep it inside attitude, where i’d prefer to talk about it, deal with it and move on. I won’t generalize this with all Aquas but my Aqua man lied through his teeth and kept on lying and us Libras hate liars with a passion. So after putting up and trying hard to fix and work on the relationship with the liar and disappearing act i ended it. It was one of the best relationships i was ever in and also the worst! Libras need alot of love and attention and spacey Aqua doesn’t get, Libras attract ppl like bees to honey, so if you’re not giving her, she will move on and find someone else who will.
I have known Libra/Aqua combos that work perfectly…and my bestfriend is another Aqua guy and i love him so much n he loves me too and we get along quiet well. However best friends we will be!! that’s all
i agree that aqua-libra combos are great…but i have to agree with aquaman..libra are just too needy and tell the lamest white lies(they are chronic liars) which they actually think as smart as we are we will fall for them!and as even kimberly pointed out will easily move on to the next honey pot when things don’t go her way..aquas cannot stand such neediness and ultimate betrayal so i think thats really where the problem is.We aquas like to know that the person we are with is loyal to us and will stick through no matter what(idealists we are).I think too many libras behave like daddys girls so they never really get that they are in a rship with equal input.Other than that…in the event that the two can sort out these differences i think its actually the most fulfilling rship out there among the zodiac signs!
Eleanor Roosevelt and John Travolta?
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Interesting, I’ve had a few dates with a cancer woman. The best conversations, times, romanced her, a real gentleman. She gave the right hints, I gave mine, intentions were clear. This went on for several months. Then all of a sudden, she just disapeared. Work in same building, but I’m not the one anymore. Seems like the perfect example of the bad Aqua-Cancer relationship. It’s extremely puzzling after the (somewhat) pain leaves.
I’m also an Aqua Man…
And hoping that my Libra Woman and I will be forever…
Thank you… wonderful facts…
I’m thankful to hear those words from different people…
God Bless to ALL of those people who’s with their Aqua Man and Libra Woman!
^^,
Aqua man here….I’m married,my Libra love is married.End of story….:o(
Im wondering what this “power” is that libran women have over Aqua men? What does this look like in action?
I often feel like he is much more a mystery than I am to him?
He is like no other I have met. and the connection is crazy.
I just cant ever tell if hes into me.. although he is very affectionate and pays ATTENTION!! I never have to say the same thing twice!!! He pays attention to the little things and makes me laugh! and I will take that over big bouquets of flowers any day!!!!
He just never SAYS how he feels. I feel like I have to decode it sometimes.
I really don’t like that someone said libras tell White lies…ugh! Anyway I am a loving,kind,sweet,caring,affectionate,sexual Libra…..I am seeing an aquarius guy and he does hide his feelings…we are taking it very slow…..very slow because he was hurt in the past by women,sooo we will see what becomes of us.
Ok.Ok.. me and my aquar have been together for a lil over two years we have a one year son… we been living together basically since we started our relationship I’m now 23 he’s 24 (with birthdays to come)! At first I was extremely needy I thought that things was suppose to go my way only (like they have in past relationships) I always had to feel like I was a part of any and everything that he was a part off I didn’t understand his need of space..my aquar is more of a social person he hangs out alot while I’m more of a home person I’ll go out occasionally.. my aquar is very affectionate but only when I have giving up the hope of wanting him to be 😉 he make me feel like I’m the best thing in the world or when I’m in a insecure mood its like he try to figure out y I’m even in his world.. if I complain once and its for a good reason it usually never happens again after he get over his attitude of me calling it out (I’ve learned to word things just for him though).. DOWNSIDE: me and him split for a few months because he “cheated” in the process had another child (I found out the day the baby was born.. another story) but in those months I realized not only his mistakes but mines also I realized that having my family was more important then my hurt or even the thought and feeling of someone else having it..now that he’s back home which been about 2 months we are doing GREAT I feel very important! yet sometimes my thoughts are I don’t know if he’s really sorry and doing better or if he just learned to play it better!! because he’s detached by nature and dont allow me to ask my 100 question that I think to ask daily idk 🙂 but I do know While he is trying I’m trying to try as well so that it will be no regrets on my behalf he didn’t have to come back and I didn’t have to let him you know ?! I know I really do love him and KNOW that he loves me to rebuilding trust will be my biggest mountain to overcome I just hope that when I do he there and be there the right way.
i am also a libra and we have a 4 month old baby. hes such an ass and i found out not so long ago that hes gay.
i am an aquarius and am in a very F***t up relationship, she wants to marry im not so sure” her reason is always “we already have a kid” 😕 i live with her at her parents house $$$ problems but we are trying!!!! at least we say we are. We really dont have any1 but eachother but all we can is fight. I do love her but forgiveness is a mutherF***. i Love are lil girl and dream of one day moveing some where far with her and my daughter. I wish one day we can fix things and actually be a family “Hopeing and Praying J&O”
@??? libra woman is wise and visionary. praying for u 2b a family. amen.
I am a typical libran recently fall for an aquarius man, he is good-looking, charming, gentle, caring from the very beginning…I was not immediately attracted to him, but then really developed strong feeling for him…we genuinely like each other…he asked me whether want to live together , told me he loves me…misses me all the time…so then (cannot believe I really fall for that) I probably made a mistaking by asking for more of his time…since then, he changed into a different person, started with longer and longer breaks, coming back pretending nothing happened, and being cold saying things really hurtful, something like “not willing to see you” “we probably shouldn’t see each other” etc! I first thought it was my fault, now i realized that I did nothing wrong…he just scared of his own feelings! I haven’t heard from him for a while again…no mails, no calls, I don’t know what to do, because I don’t know what he really feel about me now, So I didn’t contact him either. I am kind of giving up right now. it always takes me a long time to really warm up to a person, now i have no faith in him, and feel that I can never trust him again. I really liked him, still do, just have really hard time to deal with the cold behavior, none of my friends behave that way. I am still wondering whether I should initiate the communication or just let him hide in his little world wondering what to do next??? Any suggestions?
well, well, don’t really care anymore! if like those astrologist said these ppl like to play games, i don’t have time for such B***S*T, I love my life and there are so many fun things to do and to explore still! so when he started to communicate again…I had just made up of my mind to let it go!
yes, libran ladies, we r beautiful, we are loved, we can have anything we want, we do not need someone to mess up our mind! afterall, they are just bunch of kids, never grow up, no one has the responsibility to cope with their childish behavior. right?!
iam libra woman and my hasband is aquarius what is our future
@so_confused_maybe_shouldn’t_have:
My opinion is definitely subjective. So, treat it that way.
What you described above is how most typical aquarians behave when confronted with potential intimate relationships. Comparing them to your friends (like you did) is in itself a futile practice for obvious reasons. I would suggest you let him go and move on. If he is interested in you, he should come back for you.
“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours; if they don’t, they never were.” – Richard Bach
As a Libra woman married to an Aquarius man for many years, I was amused to read of the couples similarly matched. The one about Eleanor Roosevelt and John Travolta really cracked me up. Editor, maybe you’d like to change that one… 😉
Being both air signs, it’s a good match. The third air sign, Gemini, can’t be always be trusted romantically (in my experience) although they make great friends – I’ve had wonderful Gemini girfriends/buddies. Since Libra is under Venus, I can’t imagine a better air sign pair than Libra woman and Aquarius man. Unbeatable!
I disagree. Too much emphasis is placed on them being air signs. Air sign men require balance or otherwise they are ethereal. I am a fire sign and aquarians prefer innate strength and grace. Saggittarians can be just as gracious if not more, plus we are better in bed.
I’m truly amazed by the comments i found here about Libra women and Aquarius men. It’s seems that there is a really special and unique connection between these two signs.
I’m a 31 years old single aqua man looking for this special person too. If you are a Libra woman looking for an aqua feel free to let me a message at jsebdurand@hotmail(dot)fr
i’m a libra woman and i’ve been dating a aqua man for about 7months , honestly, he’s the reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally faithful one in the relationship and i’m the one who wants the free space…..he is sometimes annoyed by some things i do with my male buddies but we talk about it so it’s fine,
also, HE taught ME to be romantic..and i’m the woman in the relationship..and the libra!
but anyway most of this is so true, i was shocked! when i read it it was as if it was a detailed description of how our relationship goes, oh and he’s an amazing kisser 😉 — and i wont talk about the rest..
i’m so glad i met him.
I have been married to my aqua man for 5 years. What this article says is completely true! Its just like us!
I am a libra woman and im in love with a aqua man. Its been 3 years we’re dating and it feels like every new day he loves me even more. I am sooooo in love with him.
Libra woman who just met her first Aquarius man…instant attraction between the both of us…he was immediately showing off as soon as I smiled at him, talking with his friends, being funny. What’s great about him is, he’s an old-soul, very wise and mature for his age, which is a rare find for me. At the same time he has his goofy side and it’s so cute and sexy. ^_^ His swag is off the charts, but it’s more confidence than ego showing through, and that’s very attractive. He’s a great communicator, he wears his heart on his sleeve, and he wants a real long term (wifey) relationship. I’m very excited to see where this might lead. I’ve been jonesin’ for love lately, and he could be it. ^_^
I am a libra woman who was dating an aquarius man for 2 years, we broke up because of distance but it’s been 10 years after and we still keep intouch. The 2 signs make good friends as well as lovers.
I am a libra woman in a relationship with an aquarius man. The second we met it seemed like we were the only two people in the room. He was amazingly attentive, affectionate and just totally smitten with me. Until our first disagreement. I should’ve let it fall apart then because if it couldn’t survive that little hiccup, it wasn’t really worth it. He seems to really enjoy holding back on affection, especially when he knows I want it most. Things that important to me (I’m talking about my thoughts, feelings, insecurities, and self-worth) are totally unimportant to him. If I am shown any intrest from him, its only to be included (on the fringe) of whatever he’s doing. I am never the focus of his time and I’ve learned not to ask because he will just reject me more and it hurts so much. I feel very stupid and unloved by him and I wish to God I’d never moved in with him. I don’t know how someone I’m way too good for and is lucky to have me gets me to beg for crumbs of attention. BUT….
He is the second aquarius I have dated in a row. My previous aqua-man was a wonderful, caring man who made it a point to show me how amazing I was. We fit this description to a “T”, even down to how we only saw each other occasionally at first, and it just seemed to grow on its own. Libras, be careful of jaded, insecure Aqauarians…they don’t grow out of their past hurts easily and will make you pay for their own insecurities!
I love reading (and re-reading) the comments people post on here. 🙂
First and foremost, you can’t expect your relationship to be picture perfect just because astrology says the signs are compatible–relationships take time and effort from both parties. If there isn’t understanding and communication between the Libra and Aquarius, of course there will be friction.
I have been with my Aquarius boyfriend for a little over 1 year, and lemme tell ya, he is indeed the best thing to ever happen to me. He’s the complete package-complete gentleman, intellectual, and his way of thinking just dazzles me. As a Libra woman I love people who can make me think outside of the box and amaze me with their words and he does just that. He is very expressive, romantic, and loving which is very hard to find in men nowadays.
I know astrology says Aquarians find it hard to commit and needs plenty space, but my Aquarius is quite the opposite-he sees himself with me for years to come, and most of the time it is I who actually requires space and Me time.
With all things being said, Aquarius man is indeed the best match for Libra women. Nothing is ever forced and everything just flows naturally. Oh yeah… and the sex is an AMAZING, all-consuming, intricate, mind-blowing experience!
Also, I have dated a Gemini in the past and from my experience they are the biggest cheaters out there! Perhaps it’s the “twins” and two-facedness that is related to that sign. Those suckers will look you straight in the eye and lie! Thankfully, my search for the perfect man for me is over.
Best of wishes,
A Lucky Libra
im a libra, aquarians sound great! so now im on the look out, now that i am free from my ex Gemini, lying, mummy, loving ex.
dont date a gemini what ever you do!!! they are childish, cheats that are always having tantrums and easily move on because they are weak.
tru gemini’s r idiots 😉
Can anyone tell my what you think about a libra women which is me 🙂 and a cancer man ?
help me out pepole just trying to see if your info was matching my relationship drama
Can someone tell me because im a Libra Girl and My boyfriend is a Aquarius.. I ask him when could we kiss cuz we never had our first kiss before soo he was like when the time is right. I was like.. WHAT? So he is kind of boring. HE sometimes doesn’t like to be touched and he is kind of boring and I love him what should I do?
its just the sound of her voice…makes me feel so good 🙂
she’s sometimes stubborn lets say super stubborn thats the only thing i hate about her and she doesn’t care what im saying its like she ignores me but when we talk about the issues everything is quite normal..
well i was hurt in the past and i thought of not to loving any other girl cuz it was so hard for me to forget my X and cuz of too much thinking i lost my sleep and appetite and and it was so hard to forget her i started smoking at night just to relax so i could sleep for a while so yeah things went like that
and thats when i met this girl (libra) she was like hmmm she knows what im thinking and gave me ideas on how to overcome my situation i was really happy and felt so relaxed talking to her
another thing about this sign is they hide things, they dont like to share
unless they think u are someone whome they can trust,they dont like to be forced,they want everything smoothly just like us aqua’s
sometimes she makes me angry but i dont like to fight with her cuz i love her and dont want to hurt her so i just be silent and she knows that when im silent somethings wrong
its true we have a mysterious connection between us we both have that ability finding out whats wrong with our partner and i have to say this, she always tells me i scare her which i have no idea of but i think im too excited about her and she needs some space but still i dont know what makes her to be scared of me :/ …any help guys it would be so greatful
but i know i love her this much…lol
and i will marry her insha allah 🙂
This relationship match is great but Libra Woman and Virgo Man is better. I agree through my past relationship experiences. Still good though.
Im an Aquarius, with a Libra girl. Yeah we have our arguments, mostly because I mishear somethin nd because of this she doesn’t think I listen it pay attention to her at times but im willing to swallow mu pride nd admit I messed up (which I never do cuz im always right) . And with me at work all the time we both talk about how we can’t see each other that often nd hate it. So I got her her two favorite things to kinda say “bare with me, I love you” we have a lot of the same point of views. She likes to feel all loved but ill admit im a lil emotional detached because I trust few, but care about many nd I wanna do something big for humanity I love helpin people. We’re both stubborn but willing to submit to each other nf I hate how we could have a disagreement about something nd she ALWAYS seems to win. Im not used to this at all! She can actually keep up with me on an intellectual level. other girls where too easy for me to figure out nd we ended up goin nowhere guess I got bored which I tend to do a lot cuz when somethins solved I lose interest I guess. But she’s a challenge nd I love challenges so I guess you could say I love her. Holy hell nd she has the cutest smile I’ve ever seen! So I think up stuff to send her like:
“Not that I get upset cuz of jealousy when other guys call you “beautiful”. It’s because beautiful is just your smile alone. So I hope you show the world the true meaning of the word beauty when you read this. In short I hope u smile(: ”
Or
“After thinkin up all those words for “beautiful”, I realize not a single word could even begin to describe how priceless, special, nd wonderful you are to me. So I decided to use my brain nd simply squeezed two together “Loveyou”. I dare you to find THAT im a thesaurus ha!”
… I got a soft side nd hate it!!! Lol why??
Nd we both love music haha me hiphop nd r&b she like the same but country too… -__-
Many typos oh im tired haha
I see an Aquarius Male regularly. I won’t say date (in our 4 mos acquaintance we’ve been on only one date) because it has never felt like a courtship. Its as if he has always been there in my life. Now, I don’t mean that in a romantic sense. We just mesh well. He never prods me too hard or demands too much from me, and I don’t from him. We meet up, snuggle, watch tv, talk a little, sleep and then move on. I like to call him my ‘stay at home & cuddle” fake relationship (I don’t have ‘real’ ones anymore…those get excessively complicated and draining). We don’t spend much time together, and though he expressed a desire for something more (which I knocked down) he doesn’t come off as push about it. Overall, this Aquarius male seems content with whatever (which is why I maintain interactions with him) happens and I find that in itself soothing. I don’t see this ‘thing’ going anywhere, because we seem to alike in the areas that I need balanced out in myself, but for the time being, I can see us keeping this up for a while. And I’m pretty sure when it ends we will be able to maintain in touch and be friendly with one another.
I keep many different men who fulfill different needs for me. In my experience with males of other signs and Libra females, I have boiled it down to this: Aquarius Males: Fun, Light and Comfortable. Scorpio Males – excellent for intense conversations, and mind blowing sex. Capricorn Males: Like having a 2nd Father but one who doesn’t spoil his little girl (I hope that doesn’t come off too pervy) Virgo Males – If I ever commit again, it will most likely be to a Virgo. Romance, but with a level head. And just the right amount of upper hand for a whimsical Libra.
I am a Libra and considered myself old. 50 something. I met my Aquarius husband 3 years ago and we finally got married. We were classmates in 6th grades and again saw each other during our school reunion. We are so in love and sex is out of this world. We both can’t believed that at this age of ours, we can be this happy. We both respect each others desires and we both fulfills each others dreams. Since we started at this old age, we promised to each other that we will be together until the time comes. My Aquarius husband can’t keep his hands off me and treats me like a goddess. And he is the MAN for me. Thank you Lord. Peace and love to you all. 🙂
Libras!!! I love Aqua. & Aqua truly love us no matter if they show it:-) or not 🙁 If they don’t its hurting them cause they think about us Daiillyy but it’s their pride of being hurt! Libras I have dated Aquarius. My best relationship in my life was Aqua Jan 24. I still love him:) He’s married to another Libra woman now. So there you can see how they love us.:) I dated Jan 25th one who was a workaholic, immature with 10 inches of hard BB d$&!:-) Ooohh we love fuckin So much that I was scared that if we moved in together along with his Daughter she will always here us and I was afraid of becoming pregnant. We didn’t work at the end. Dated another Aquarius Feb 7th meet him online. I miiiss his ass! He was 35 Yes he Was ALL MAN! hunnie. Masculine but gentle to me:) Yes I teased him. I knew if we so happen to do the Sex, He would light my ass up
Libra 21 continued….Also his heart was broken by who? Another Libra… So I wanted him to trust me. I lost contact and even tried to search for him but no luck:-( every time I hear Vivian Green Forever song It reminds me of him talking to me on that Stormy night
Now My Aqua now is Feb 13 He loves me! Bought me a car spoil me just all hunni. But unfortunately he’s not that Atrractive to me anymore and his penis is small and sex is not all that. Although he wants to please me… Now he wants us to move in together I’m kinda with it but I know I will cheat… He’s my good friend/ boyfriend whenever I say.lol So there you have it. Libra please take notes & just woman up. Even we he goes on his disappearing acts? Let em… It’s gonna hurt temporary but let me. Keep silent. It’s gonna hit him that “Wow she never even bother to call or text me” Yep.. Don’t dissapear on the one you love and who loves you Aquarius. Let his ass know he’s wrong for that. I so love these Men. I have a feeling I will marry Aqua Taur Leo Aries Virg Sag. But Aqua 1st hope I helped ladies. Takes notes and Take Care. Aquarius & Libras!
I dated an Aquarius guy when I was much younger and I will admit this, of all the guys that I have ever dated, he is by far my best ever. He is sensitive, loving, intelligent and pays attention to every detail. He always complimented what I wore, noticed when I had made a slight change to my hair and he always made me feel comfortable in my own skin. He made me feel like a million dollars and I found solace in his arms. Aquarians are, to my opinion, the best matches for Libra women. We did have our problems, but I can honestly not remember a time where he bruised or even said something to intentionally hurt me <3
What Ads said on Oct 5th 2011 sums up what’s going on with my Aqua male friend. I’m a Libra woman. He’s been hurt alot and he’s so detached from his feelings and brushes off my feelings. He thinks I’m too sexual and emotional and shames me for it. He really hurt me. It’s like he doesn’t care at all through his actions but his words are affirming and destructive at the same time. I’m the last on his list, it seems, but he says he sees me in his future. I’m very sad. I thought he might be the one, finally.
it’s perfect, you Libras can have them (Aquarius men)
Good riddance to the rest of us!
I m Libra together with my Aquarius man and He s the Best what Ever comes to me in my life.
Libras are the best there is… Aries are too, but libras are the best… We complement each other, unlike the aries that complete us… My best relationship has been with a libra, we were on for 4 years until she started seeing another aqua man… I still wonder why, but im happier this way… Would love to have a libra woman as a buddy, for now…
I’ve been with my Aquarius man for over 3 years now and it has been absolute Hell! Physical abuse started by him only 3 months into the relationship. He is only “happy” with me when I behave and look like the woman he has always imagined for himself. His moods are incredibly yo-yo like and he quite possibly might need medication at this point. (Or maybe that is just me being too generous…) He criticizes CONSTANTLY and yes, he is quite honest but often painfully so in his approach to it. He is socially retarded and refuses to look to me and/or allow me to lead in this area.
I am Libra. He is Aquarius. A fateful encounter. Perfect relationship !! (I Was Born to Love You )
I’m an Aqua (m) 37, I’ve been married to a Taurus (w) for about 11 years. I’ll keep it short. Just met a Libra and WTF! I feel so electrically charged when we are near each other. I’ve never cheated on my wife before, but when I’m around this libra we both just want to rip each other apart sexually. After 11 years my Taurus is lazy and not into spicing up our sex life. I’m terrified the next time I’m alone with the libra, we are going to f our brains out.
I’ve gone so long with out cheating, it’s almost a game. Lol.
I met an Aquaman fifteen months ago, I seriously had not idea he would end up being this very important to me.
He says he wants to talk then sent me this message during meditation, but I am having a hard time processing, there is some amount of blockage, the measage is not been transmitted clearly, not sure why, but I do sense the uncertainty and doubts …. https://youtu.be/fV4DiAyExN0
Hello all Libra girls 🙂 I’m an Aquarius man… I met this Libra girl about five months ago or six (we, the Aquarius, are not good at remembering dates you know that’s your job :p).
Anyway, I Initiated the conversation with her randomly, we never met before until that moment, but BOOM It was Instant chemistry! I kept teasing her playfully and making jokes about her nose piercing she played along with my cockiness, at first I was really seeking friendship with her, I didn’t find her my type of girls at first as I was always comparing her to my Gemini ex, but day by day I started feeling love coming and leaving It was unsteady, she always criticized me for being mysterious and not telling much about my emotions, I told her “believe me I SUCK AT THOSE THINGS! YOU WON’T LIKE THAT SIDE OF ME!” so mainly we aqua guys aren’t cold but somehow very ashamed of our emotions and afraid of getting rejected.
So one day she was there for me (it was on Valentines Day, which I told her don’t expect me to do anything on this day, and always was laughing at her romanticism but believe me when we do so It’s just DENIAL!) so It was then when I totally fell for her and I was sure this time of my feelings… that was after 4 months of meeting her, we used to fight a lot, I got distant when we did and she was the one that almost always made up with me, and I really appreciated it, and was one more reason to make me fall for her beside her great femininity, the problem Is whenever we guys fall In love we become so defensive and afraid to lose It, which we eventually do, so here comes the frustration that leads to abusive behavior (not physically abusive) but the little stalkings, so I stalked her online under a false profile and get to know that she didn’t feel anything for me, she only considered me as a friend, although she gave me ALL the signs that she felt something and always gave me h ints that she was attracted.
Moreover I realized that there was someone else In her life that she never told me about he’s a Cancer, she met him at work, but they weren’t together anymore but I understood that she still have feelings for him, so when I got all the info, I couldn’t bear the guilt and revealed who I really was and told her that I loved her (I know, I know) then It was the rage! she didn’t want to listen nor understand (Libras sense of JUSTICE) and once again my love was rejected as I feared which will anchor my solitude and emotional detachment more, she became very cold and hung up the phone while I was trying to explain and didn’t answer my calls or turn them back.
so It was then when I decided to let go, I sent her a farewell email, and nothing happened after that till she called me after a month but I didn’t answer, just sent a text with just a “?” In It afterward, she didn’t reply and nothing happened after that. I still pass by her and totally Ignore her as If we never knew each other before, believe me It hurts me more than anything, but it’s my choice, I still love her till this very moment.
I’ve been with other girls recently but I still want her back, I wont make the move, my pride was hurt more than anything when she told me “you aren’t the MAN I thought you were” that was what hurt me most, I wish her my best In life, she is so special to me, I will always love her from afar…
You are the same with my aquarius man wve been together for 9yrs,, yes its not sometimes we the librans are playing dumb ( hard to get ) she may be quit in a mood of being frustrated of u for playing her but that doesnt mean she’s not into you! Try to convince her all the time libras live someone who always pursue her.. let down your egos! She might listen u again
I must diaggree with you about Libra women, we are not all the same, I do not make quick decisions for very good reasons. I am a manager it has helped me to see that making quick decisions sometimes without thinking things through will cost you in the long run. I can make them if needed, but not always necessary, be careful what you say, my Aqua man and I do just fine together.