Sagittarius Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

These two signs are both interested in the big picture, the future, and a world full of possibilities.  Chances are their lives have already been very different from most.  The Aquarius man and Sagittarius woman will have fun comparing notes and may both actually feel a little bored by the conventional.  They will tend to talk about non-personal topics such as history, evolution, bio-genetics, nuclear energy, and all things green.

How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman as an Aquarius Man:

It will be easy enough to attract the attention of a Sagittarius woman, but the trouble comes when you have to convince her that your intentions are more than friendship.  The two of you may pal around quite a while before you get up your nerve.  Friendship is religion to you, but remember that to most people it is less important than romantic love and that is what the Sagittarius woman is looking for from you.  You can enhance her feelings of romance by planning your dates in a conventionally romantic setting.  (Since you may not know what that is, here it is — ask a friend.)  It’s tricky to turn the relationship from best buddies to life partners, and you can’t count on her to help you.  You must make up your own mind and change your behavior accordingly.  If in doubt, brush up on The Rules.  It won’t kill you to be conventional for a prize like this.

Degree of Romance:

Romance is neither likely nor of value between these two.

Degree of Passion:

The Aquarius man is always hiding some passion, while the Sagittarius woman is likely to turn the passion in the direction of love of life or a humanitarian cause.  Both signs have trouble reducing passion to the personal arena.  They don’t do it well.

Degree of Friendship:

Both Aquarius and Sagittarius are rather footloose and fancy-free.  They both profess a belief in friendship but truth-to-tell, when the going gets tough, they’re off at a meeting to change the world.  Neither one likes dealing with personal problems, particularly not the chronic problems such as money, kids, careers, or growing old.  They can be good buddies to do things with, but if a friend in need is a friend indeed, nobody needs friends like this.

Degree of Marriage:

Aquarius man and Sagittarius woman is not a good match for a conventional marriage.  For one thing, the gender roles are bent.  Both signs are yang, bachelors at heart, and focus on things beyond the personal home.  If these signs wind up having children, they will still consider the community at large to be more important than their own progeny.  Both signs need a lot of private time and space for the kind of deep thinking and contemplation for which they are noted.  In Aquarius man and Sagittarius woman, you have a philosopher and a  scientist with the requirements of quiet study time and the companionship of other adults being requisite.

Progression of Relationship:

Considering the fact that these two may share common time together for long periods before calling it “dating,” the progression of the relationship is not linear  It relies on an inner ripening that comes about slowly and naturally, if at all.  Both parties should be comfortable with that because it is unconventional.

Sex:

A common disinterest in sex may keep the Sagittarius woman and Aquarius man together.  Both Sagittarius and Aquarius are detached and cerebral.  These two may be more inclined to express their erotic feelings in generalized kindness or consideration rather than overt sexuality.

When It’s Over:

They will both probably deny that they were ever in it.  Aquarius and Sagittarius both find it much easier to deal with love in the abstract, so if love fails, it could not have been love in the first place.  That is the loophole … and the trap door.

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