Aries Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility
The Virgo man may be intriguing to the Aries lady at first blush since he presents such a challenge, but this relationship is fraught with difficulties. Just because something is a challenge doesn’t mean it’s worth pursuing.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as an Aries Woman:
Virgo men are so sensitive and basically very shy that you may not be able to attract one unless you make the first move. Herein lies the rub because Virgo men are incredible flirts. You may be throwing yourself at him, and he is just bouncing you around like a play thing to stroke his ego. If you get beyond the beginning stages of interest, try to resist castrating him which will be hard because he will play hard to get. Be neat, clean, and punctual (LOL). Try not to be as blunt as you normally are about finances, his hairstyle, the car he doesn’t drive, your ex-boyfriends, etc. You’ll have to tone your personality down so much you will begin to wonder why you are even trying with this guy.
How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Virgo Man:
Getting an Aries in your life is something that happens to you. You’ll notice that most people talk about “getting mixed up” with a ram. If your number is up, she’ll appear, and you’ll have to figure out what to do about it.
Degree of Romance:
This relationship will promise great romance but it will never deliver. Virgos are in love with their daily routine and the details of their lives. It is an accumulation of precise, exquisite small things that bring them the greatest delight. You know as well as I do there is nothing small about an Aries. The ram is liable to do a cannon ball into the hot tub and be blamed for making waves.
Degree of Passion:
This relationship may be very passionate to start with, but the more Virgo focuses on housework and the other minutae when Aries would rather take a roll in the hay, the quicker passion diminishes to a weak flame crying for help.
Degree of Friendship:
There is an outside chance for friendship if both are healthy and sports oriented. This is possible because Aries loves to be active and “do things” and Virgos pride themselves on being fit. Since all Virgos are bachelors at heart, they usually have the afternoon free to go cycling.
Degree of Marriage:
We find this a slim chance for marriage. But one Aries-Virgo scenario that might work is a lady ram with an exceptional amount of energy and a Virgo man so weak that she needs to take over a lot of his territory. That could be a win-win for both.
Progression of Relationship:
This relationship progresses in fits and starts. Aries lights the match to the flame, then Virgo lets the flame go out. Ram strikes another match, etc. It may take you a while to figure out what is going on, but don’t confuse busyness with progress. Many Virgos are absolutely committed to themselves and their tidy lives which are usually in excellent working order. Deep down inside they are not interested in upsetting the status-quo or introducing any disruptive elements like demanding girlfriends or needy wives.
Sex:
Sex can be pretty intoxicating, although it is not to be confused with a whole relationship. It would be exciting because Virgo helps to focus Aries’ drive. (This may also translate into career success.) Eventually, though, the ram may get very tired of the whole thing when Virgo insists on changing the sheets, showering before and after, and avoiding certain acts considered too messy. There is a certain quality of aliveness and spontaneity lacking here.
When It’s Over:
At the end, Aries will push and push for resolution, and Virgo will pussy-foot to one side or the other until the ram virtually bursts with frustration. Aries, you might have to complete this relationship by yourself, but then you’re used to doing everything for both of you. Since when did you need someone’s permission to kick butt and haul ass? Virgo, it may take you longer than you you anticipated to get over this one.
I find a lot of this to be true. Your descriptions are uncanny. I, an Aries, have already done all the chasing and heavy lifting, and I’m afraid I do have to tone down my personality. Still, there is something irresistibly charming about Virgo men. They’re yummy!
this descibes my relationship with my virgo guy all too well.. creepy!! 🙂
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Very true
I found it very close to my life.well done
I found it very close to my life..good job
Well I am a Virgo man, and have met a wonderful Aries woman, we are sooooo attracted to one another, and although some of the personality traits are correct, I think the universe brings people together for a reason 🙂 I am very optimistic and intuitive about my new found love, I can definitely see a bright future ahead of us , remember there is always an exception to the rule 🙂 also, does me being very close to the cusp of Virgo-Libra make a difference? My birthday is September 20th 🙂
Irrelevant description in my case. I am an Aries firey female in a relationship with a toned Virgo male. It’s been 5 years already and is all fire and love. He calms me down, I spur him to action. I borrowed some traits of his character, learnt how to plan, he took some of mine. He does the stuff around the house and garden and loves it. I contribute more on the financial side. There are tensions, though we need those to sort problems out. This is a perfect complementary match if you are not stuck in your ways, if you are open-minded, willing to learn new skills from your other half and control your life. Simples.
@Seabiscuit
This combination works well if Virgo can abide by role reversal (Aries girls always wear the pants).
I just started seeing a Virgo man. I am an Aries female. I will agree on the cleanness. And neatness of the Virgo man, but I too, like everything neat and in order. Over the years, I’ve learned to tone down my personality and I try to think before I just do.
“That one I love who is incapable of ill will, and returns love for hatred. Living beyond the reach of I and mind, and of pain and pleasure, full of mercy, contented, self-controlled, with all his heart and all his mind given to Me — with such a one I am in love.”
depressing. how true this is.
Well I have to say this. The Signs that I’m supposed to be compatible with, it never lasts. I’m an Aries with a Cap rising and moon in Cancer and my new male friend is a Virgo. And, so far he’s a great guy, very cool and calm and that’s what I like about him. I’ve dated, leo, sag, gemini, libra, and aquarius and after a while, they all started to boring me to tears but, I’ve remained friends with them all except the Aries (too jealous and stalker…ish) and The Gemini (Gemini’s are way to on the surface for me, they never want to have serious convo and they shirk from anything serious including their own lives) . But, the virgo keeps it interesting I’d have to say….very interesting….
that is so true. It exactly happened to me. Aries girl with Virgo guy did not work! even the ending, just like you said!
as for me and my virgo man,we seem to be in a boxing ring.he is all that is above,obessed with cleaness and focused but me on the other hand is impulsive and impatient.we keep breaking up and getting back together. ilove him so much and i think he loves me too,it is just that we dont know a better way to get along.we want to marry each other but we keep fighting.is there any chance that we share the same future?
I was in a relationship with an aries woman and it was not good for either of us. It was constantly a mental boxing ring. I totally agree with the writings by author of this website. Of course there may always be an exception to the rule, but in the main, it didn’t work for me. You will know it in your heart whether you think it will work or are you happy to continue to put up with the bickering in order to chase the elusive result of happiness. For me, She was too fiery and I felt that things always had to be her way. There were lots of arguments, tried counselling but in the end, it just didn’t work.
I just want to say this,….I have known a virgo for all my life. Went to school with him,(I’m an Aries),and never knew he felt the way he felt about me. Now,..here’s the thing,..years passed after we graduated high school,he went to the military,I got married,he came looking for me,found out I was married, he left,he got married,and years later we discovered each other on facebook. We got in touch with each and he mentioned how he felt,..I said what I felt,and it was mutual on the both of our parts. We found we had some much in common.I seriously desire this man.And neither one of us are married now. It’s just that I blew up at him over his aloofness,and disillusioned him I guess,…and he said things to cause this,…yet it went to friendship quickly….he said,…yet,….he called me anyways to tell me he was in love with me,….but how?…We have not seen each other since high school! He’s 50,and I am ?(Lol!!) Anyways we are still talking,but I have learned that he really cares,and so now I understand,and what he goes through,and he gets his space. As long as I get mine. Eventhough I haven’t seen him yet,…I get a serious craving for his attention. He calls me when I don’t call him,or text. That’s cool,cause I text him accordingly,and with inspirational words at that. Look I want him,and when he said Let’s just ne friends I took it as what he said,and I do not push anything anymore. If he wants me,..he’ll say it. I can take it or leave it! nothing negative about what I just wrote. It’s just facts!
The last time I spoke with him,it was brief,and there were text but that’s brief too. So I, the who,who I am,will talk to him when he decides to talk. Nothing more! Now,..I also know me so well,.until if he shows he is not truly interested in me,…I can be an ice cube!
I am a virgo male, 51 years old, keep myself in good shape, very clean as far as hygene goes, my house is clean but I’m not a neat freak. I have a lot of the virgo traits, but like to think I’m a little easier going than the usual virgo. I was just in a short relationship with an areis woman. She ended it to go back with a man she had been seeing for a couple of years, they had been apart for about six months. I don’t know what his sign he is. Anyway, we live in a small town just 5 or 10 minutes away from a larege city. She has an identical twin sister, and I would see them in the local pub from time to time, and I always thought she was so beautiful, I still do. We would chat maybe flirt a little, I thought she was so intriging. One evening last summer we had a moment alone, she told me that she thought I was very sexy. I was floored, I have never thought about myself that way. At the same time I was very flattered. Nothing happened and we would always share glances with each other but that was it until a month and a half ago. We got together and it was great, the banter was there, the intamicy was fantastic. I always wanted to leave her satisfied, and she always said she was. we had a great social life, or sometimes we would just cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie. we would talk about ex’s and as far as I was concerned she was done with her ex boyfriend. She would tell me about things he did to her, how he would go with his buddies and not include her. I never saw her at the pub with him so I wasn’t aware she had a boyfriend. He started texting her a few weeks ago and I waasn’t threatend at all , she seemed very into me we spent a lot of time together, her choice, I didn’t want to preassure her. So he starts texting her and calling and leaving notes on her car, crap like that. She ignored it, eventually she confronted him and said her piece, told she had met someone and to leave her alone. But he never quit, his mom told him to go and fight for her, he is 48 years old, sounds like a pussy to me. She went back to him, even after the shity way he treated her. I was crushed, on her birthday I baked her a cake we had a big party at my place, it was a great time. She told me all the time she was so happy, all her friends were happy for her and I honestly think she was. We were having great sex, lots of it, our raport was great, her sister and husband liked me, her friends liked me, but she still went back to this guy. I want her back in my life so bad, so I’m asking the ladies out there for any advice, I just finished baking her some brownies, she has a bit of a sweet tooth, I am going to take them to her with a letter I wrote her. I really want her back because I know this guy is going to start the crap as soon as he is comfortable. Her sister is very dissapointed as well as her husband, they couldn’t stand the guy. None of her friends could either. I would appreciate any advice.
Still waiting for a reply from any aries ladies out there for any advice. Give it to me straight, no BS. Is it true that once you have captured an aries heart it’s yours forever? Because he seems to have a hold on hers, and it is killing me. I feel like I should just sit back and wait, but don’t want to waste my time. He is such a dick, could it be the money? He makes good money, so do I but am supporting an ex wife and don’t have the disposable income he does. She doesn’t seem like the type but you just never know.
@maurice
according to my experiences it is true, if you captured an aries heart it is yours forever, but don’t forget that we are (often) free spirits and need some drama and excitement in our lives. And we can also give our hearts away to multiple partners (I don’t necessarily mean sexually, but on a spiritual basis). I doubt she is with him for the money. I think he presents a challenge to her and she’s in for it. She wants to win, would be my guess.
I’d say show your strong interest in her, throw her a bait but don’t come off as agressive and she might think twice about not dating you again.
Thank you for your advice Sasha, I really do appreciate it. I knew she was danger when we first got together, after two years of flirting.lol I told her that the first night we spent together. Funny thing though, that night, a stranger at the local pub came up to the two of us and told us we should be together, just out of the blue. He said that he could see how we looked at each other, and our body language. I believe he was sent to us, sounds kind of wierd, I know, but I have faith in the universe. If it was meant to be it will and if not it won’t. I think I know what I was supposed to learn from her, and I would like to get the chance to tell her and thank her for it, but I don’t know if that will ever happen. We were very natural in our passion for each other, and it was very good, and I don’t mean just sexually, although that was very good too, but in our beliefs and views. I won’t ever forget her, but I will forget about her. I have discovered a few things about myself in the last month or so, and I like the things I have come to realize about myself. We should never stop searching, a mans worth can not be found in the material world, but what exists in his heart and his actions, I have always known that, it just seems to have come more to my attention lately. She called me her beautiful man, I never really understood why, but as it turns out she was right. Keep our hearts open.
He told me that he loves me but not in love with me. Said he’s not ready for me. Blablabla LOTS OF PUSSYFOOTIN. i guess its over now. he was on the cusp of libra. I think he’ll regret it. at least i hope he will.
Thats too bad aries girl. That was not the case for me, I was in love and loved her. I’m sure he will, but only if he could really see inside you. My aries was perfect for me.
a virgo man was my first love n then there was the never ending and long string of libras 🙁 Just met another virgo…..seems realy great calls me alot, im gonna give it a try..
I need attention and you gotta have patience, he takes the time to truly know the details of my life, realy like him.
@ariesgirl
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Same here! At the end, it came down to me giving my virgo man an ultimatum (which he thought was unfair). Either your with me or your not and I’m gone. So what he said in return is that he had feelings for me, he loved me but he wasn’t in love with me and that he wasn’t ready for what I wanted from him. Such a virgo thing to say. I’m totally with you! Our stories couldn’t be more similar.
But on my previous note, leaving my virgo was insanely hard. There is something about him that keeps me wanting more from him. Maybe it’s the challenge? Our sexual connection? The fact that he knows me without me ever having to say anything to him? Idk, but if it’s true that once you have an aries heart, you have it forever…then I’d have to say that my virgo will always have a tiny piece of it.
@Marie…
Our stories are completely the same. It makes me feel good but then sad. I FINALLY gave him the ultimatum a few days ago. We live in different states now and that is his excuse for not wanting to make us official… even though we call and text everyday. I’ve got too much Pisces in my chart and I feel that I’ve given a lot more to him emotionally than I’ve received. So I told him that if he realizes he’s in love with me, to contact me, otherwise it’ll have to wait until I’m not in love with him. Its been a long few days and I just want him to call 🙁
I would have to say its the fact that he knows me without me ever having to explain myself. we are great friends. and i think he really sees my soul.
also more of what he said is that he’s too young to commit for the rest of his life. we are both young and neither of us are very stable right now (i have 3 planets in pisces and he has LOTS of fire in his chart). i completely understand where he’s coming from and thats why i waited.. pretty patiently… for so many months.
one last note, yes the sexual connection is great. even topped scorpio for me
Well, the question is, how does a Virgo guy give space to an Aries woman? I whole heartedly agree with the statement above that she will light the flame, and the Virgo will let it go out. BUT I have to say that I’ve never met a woman like this one that I seem to understand at some deep level. She doesn’t even have to say anything, I just GET her. We didn’t talk for about two months until I messaged her and told her that I missed her. In fact, the time that we were away, almost all I could think about (relationship wise) was seeing her again. I’ve dated other women, different signs, and yet something about her keeps me coming back. I can’t write this off as a momentary infatuation, I think I’m in love with her. We had such passion when we were together. Open to comments from above from the Aries women for input.
@Virgo guy,
Give us some background information if you want some advice!
Why didn’t you guys talk for two months? Did she give you the ultimatum the same way I gave my virgo guy?? Which by the way.. it didn’t last very long, I decided to start talking to him after like a week and a half. He’s too much of a good friend…. I don’t care THAT much if he can’t say he’s in love with me
Virgo male here, recently met an aries that i felt strongly attracted to the first night we hung out. She sparked the flame for sure and we have a lot in common, we talked for hours and i couldnt get enough. she stayed the night (didnt go for sex though it was available to me) i didnt want to ruin things. My emotions for her are incredible but i feel like i have come on too strong in the past couple weeks and need to repair this. maybe im analyzing too much about her texts that i cant even respond the way i want to. I think i blew it but i dont want to believe that and i dont want her to judge me. It seems im letting the flame die out but thats the last thing im trying to do.. i cant help but to be thinking about her 24/7 ive never had a connection as well as this.. being unable to date anyone for atleast 3 years because i see too many flaws. I just cant seem to woo her without coming on too strong. Do i give her space? she has me all torn up and i cant help but to want to talk to her everyday i know im thinking way too much for my own good. id appreciate advice from any aries woman or virgo guy that can help. im only 20 if that helps
@aries girl,
She friended me on FB initially. I wasn’t interested at first because, well, didn’t know anything about her except that I found her incredibly attractive. Once we started talking, we had all of these crazy similarities. Things about her that you could not deny. A recent grandparent that died at the same age and the same month. We both love writing, music, art. You know, just to give you an example, she flew down and when we met, we had both cut one of our fingers and had placed bandages on the last digit. Not to get all hippy freak on anyone but I haven’t cut or worn a bandage on a finger in years and when I met her for the first time, right away I noticed this bandage on her. You know, if there is a higher being out there, you have to wonder if its some joke he (or she) is playing on us…
Anyway, we connected almost immediately (not physically) just mentally, and while yes, we were attracted to each other in just about every sense of the word, when we met we became too comfortable with each other. Thats my take. I snapped at her over something so stupid and I think she was really hurt by it. I didn’t know how to recover, what to say or how to convey to her that I made a mistake and it had more to do with me than anything she had done.
The description by Nancy above states how our relationship or whatever you want to call it is progressing – starts and stops. I mean, I don’t how to say it any other way but I straight up love this girl. And I’m not one to go about saying this lightly.
And to answer your question, I don’t know why we stopped talking…I think both of us realized we didn’t know how to pursue the relationship at that point in time. We both are super focused on our careers and she just got into grad school. All I want is to support her and be there for her as long as I can until we CAN do something about these feelings…to tell you the truth, Aries girl, your situation sounds almost identical to the one I’m going through. Especially with you two living several states away! You know, I’d love to just travel with her and go places and just be free with her since we connect on so many different levels. Just felt like I could really talk to her for hours on end. How many people do you meet like that every day…
Can I just say that I love being an Aries? All of these traits that this and everyone else talks about I just love the fact that I have them!!! I have been in a relationship with a Cancer for about five years and let me tell you it has been rough. I always want to go out and have fun and he doesn’t like doing any of that and just wants to stay at home and be together. I’ve read that Aries and Cancer do NOT mix whatsoever and I just find it a little difficult to believe. But that the same time I can definitely tell.
I just started talking with a Virgo guy and.. Wow. We work together and I swear I instantly wanted him and to be with him RIGHT when I saw him for the first time. What is it about the Virgo guys?? He constantly wants things to be one sided and never wants to be surprised. He always has to know what I want or want to do or anything like that. There is just something about him that leaves me wanting more every time I see, think, hear him.. What do I do about this? OMG!
Rafael, couldn’t agree with you more (except the reclusive, stuck up, moral nazi’s part…c’mon man). But I will have to repeat this a million times because I definitely think its true: “Here is something they don’t tell you about Aries and Virgo, they change each other. I looked my ex up she adapted my work ethic and self protective discrimination, I adopted her free spirit and appreciation for my existence.” I have to say that this happened to me as I saw myself through her and even our language started changing to mimic each other. I don’t know if this was conscious or not but it worked out well. We also seem to get over arguments (if we argue at all) really easily. I have to say I’ve never met anyone like her before. AMAZING!
So I have to say that I am the ultimate Aries woman with Leo Rising and Aries Moon. Yes a triple fire sign LOL…I know I know. Anyway I have a story that much relates to what I am hearing on here. Sooo I went to school with a Virgo man since 9th grade. Had the biggest crush on him my whole life. Of course I was the ugly duckling but he was always kind to me when the other boys picked on me. However, I am now 31 and we still ran with the same crowds when we went out. I ran into him last summer (2010) and he took my number said we would go out….which never ended up happening. He was so shy he couldnt tell me how he felt, which was super annoying might I add! Now all these years later I am spokesmodel (who knew from all those awkward childhood days) and I moved out of the state about 5 months ago and then out of nowhere this Virgo sends me messages on Facebook finally admitting he really likes me alot and still wants to go out….Next thing I know my cell phone is blowing up with texts. Now he is planning a trip out to see me, all kinds of romantic talk out of him. He knows I moved away to another state….So why did he take that long? Why is it I have to be in another state before he finally comes to terms with it….ANNOYING!!!!!
hey yall, i seen all these comments and agree with everyone aries an virgos are the most beautiful couple ever!!!!
i love my virgo me and him go together like mac n cheese of course i had to iniciatite(sp) our beautiful encounter,,,we seen each other at this gas station n he jus kept staring until i waved and did the little phone signal wit my hands then he came and asked for my number,,,ahhhh so magical…..lol
Aries female in love with a Virgo man. Our beginning was kind of shady but there was always something about him… that “always wanting more” feeling was definitely there…
I was his best guy friend’s gf. When we broke up, my ex and my Virgo also had a falling out. We never really had a convo until then, but our attraction for each other was so insanely explosive. I was JUST about to tell him how I felt when he told me he found his old middle school crush on Myspace and this chick is SMOKING. A prettier version of Rihanna, if you can imagine. I let him do what he felt he needed. They were together for six years and I was there the whole way. Their problems escalated and she sent him to jail on some bull $#!t charges. Six months later, he gets out and says he wants to be with me since he’s had time to think. Then he breaks it off to “get himself together”, as he has to complete classes, probation, parole, and manage to get a job in the process.
I feel I’m being taken advantage of and all I want him to say is that we’re a couple! I do what feels like EVERYTHING but he claims that’s not true. I love him so much. I’ve PUSHED AND PUSHED for a resolution and he keeps pussyfooting the issue!
Today we had the fight that this article talks about. I’ve had enough. But he will ALWAYS have at least a piece of my heart. I’m hoping we will be able to be friends (w/o benefits, although the sex is phenomenal) in the future. As for right now, I just feel like if you don’t want me, then jump to that side of the fence! Why do I have to be the one to do this?! I cried at the truth that this article spoke.
Ahh where to begin.. I have known this Virgo fella since 9th grade, he has always loved me, he would always stare constantley but never really talk to me (in person), him and I have been friends going on eight years now and have kept in contact this whole time. Just until recently I have started to have feelings of more than liking him as my buddy. I really like what Rafeal said ” She could have 20 guys at her disposal at anytime but she chose you. Don’t take it lightly.” So very true! Long story short, He use to text me all the time came on hot and heavy at first (well always has), told me he has liked me since 9th grade, I have let him know how I feel, he sends me the most confusing mixed messages ever, I find it to be annoying as can be, I rather someone be honest and straight foward with me, blunt is the word, not shy and dissappear. After I showed that I would be interested and would like to start something, he disappears and stops talking, he asked me if I would ever consider dating him and I said yes I defaintly would consider that! NOW nothing, won’t return texts, won’t write me at all, we got into a little fight and he deleted me off of his facebook (which was sad because we have always been friends) Just so confused and have no idea where to go from here, I’ve stopped texting because I feel like I have tried, I refuse to beg or try any longer, I’ve done my part, I let him know how I feel, NOW the balls in his court, any virgo guys out there with any insight on what to do!? The feeling I have for him is so undiscribable! AHH!
@42 little lady Aries. First of all relax and take a deep breath. I know you Aries woman think and act according to energies but your Virgo fella thinks and acts differently. He has the feeling that you are all over him now so he backs off a bit. As I understand you showed your love and you had an argument. To Virgo this argument blocks what he feels about you and the only one who can fix this is you. Try not to be overwhelming but try to have a relaxed conversation together. Talk about what happened and how he feels about it. Whatever you do, don’t push for resolutions or quick outcome as he has to find out what he did wrong (Virgo always criticizes himself before he has a clear and honest answer, so this is far slower than you act and react).
Hope I have been a little bit of help to you.
@42 little lady Aries. First relax, I understand exactly what happened. With them you just keep your mouth shut, you don’t say a single thing. The less you say the more they tell. He is afraid he might change his mind and you are already head over heels in love with him. They are not all that sure of themselves so boosting the ego is a must. Say you are sorry for the fight (who cares if you are), you never meant to disrespect him, promise to never ever repeat your mistake(and you should mean it because they don’t forget anything, but then again they appreciate everything) and regardless of what happens, you think it’s a real pity to end such a long friendship. White once and let him be. They need their processing time and it’s so very important not to pressure him. Whenever he provokes you, just ignore it. Say something like that’s nice… whatever, just don’t speak your mind before you come to the point that he trusts you. He has wanted you for many years, and now you respond… it just doesn’t seem right. They don’t trust easily; it takes such a long time to earn their trust. But then, things become beautiful. You have to be patient, and whenever you feel like shouting and killing him, talk to a friend but never to him. You have to tell him he upset you, and you tell him why, but it has to be calm. They adore women who know what they want. Just be yourself. Don’t forget, mixed messages mean he needs time.
If you manage to get things back on track, whenever you want attention, ask him very very politely if he would be willing to give you an advice on something. Give an opinion on a topic and ask him what he thinks. Then sit back and smile in yourself :)))
In their defense, they are wonderful lovers and give in completely, it just takes time to get them into bed:)))
Good luck
@44 an Aries lady involved with a Virgo man
“In their defense, they are wonderful lovers and give in completely, it just takes time to get them into bed:)))”
Not if they have scorpio rising 😉
25 Aries woman writes,
i am madly in love wid this virgo guy.. never felt so deeply in love before.BUt unfortunately ur right. My social, helpful and tomboyish nature is not digested by him. My life has turned out to be a hell after seeing him for ten months now.. we were about to get married but wid time i realize if my life is such shithole wid him now as a girlfriend , so as a wife i mite have to strangle myself..wats the difficult part is to end this.. i need help some one guide me..i love him so much at the same time i realize its impossible to live with him.. i tried everythin possible. changed everythin abt myself..so much that i dont even recognize myself.. plz help..
It blows my mind to read these comments! I met my Virgo man a feww months ago, dating website, and the first time I saw him (an didn’t recognize him right away) I WANTED him. I was elated when I found out he was the one I was suppose to meet! We took to eachother quickly and just like the other stories, he seemed to get me without me having to tell him anything. The passion is intense and I crave this man something terrible. When we ‘fight’ it’s over and forgotten quickly (@ least on my end) and he is so tender and sweet with me, especially when I get fiesty. I’ve never felt this way about someone and honestly, it scares me!!! Reading these comments is helping me understand his ways a bit better and I’ve taken some helpful tips in order to ‘tone it down’ I’m keeping my fingers crossed. Thanks everyone for sharing
I am a Virgo. I got on to one of the dating sites after a very rocky separation and divorce (3 yrs). I hadn’t considered dating while that was going on because of my children. Anyway, I met this woman and we started chatting online. We started hitting it off and kept telling each other we need to just go out and meet and see where it goes from there. We went out and had a blast. Enjoyed being together and wanted to see more of each other. After our third date, she was concerned that she would hurt my feelings and didn’t want that to happen because she really liked me. She said her old boyfriend came back into her life and she still had feelings for him even though he was a jerk, but enjoyed being around and talking to me. I told her no worries, she has to follow what her heart is telling her. We haven’t seen much of each other, but we text, call or chat online for hours in the evenings every day. She has a son and i even get to chat with him and joke around. She knows how I feel about her and she tells me she really likes me to. It has pretty much turned into just a friendship, but I want so much more with her. I am a protector by nature and she feels safe around me. I just don’t want to lose that friendship because she has made me feel so alive. If anyone can give me and idea how to pull the trigger so that I can change the friendship into more i would appreciate it.
It’s so funny reading all these comments, because it looks like there’s a serious trend of the “love at first sight” vibe that was exactly what I had with my Virgo man (Aries woman). As soon as we locked eyes on each other I knew he was the one. He is the only one I had ever let take the reins and not question or try to control or be the leader. He views us as equals, and I trust him with every decision he makes. The only man I have ever been in love with who I would blindly follow to the ends of the earth. My Virgo is THE perfect balance to my restless, uncontrollable flame. He grounds me and I take us flying. We’re perfect together.
Im with a virgo man.. and just loving it so far. but I pay attention to his mood swings to knowwhen he is upset.. loving him. r the sex is so satisfying.
Im with a Virgo man … im an Aries. This whole thing describes us down to the sudden mood swings and how I don’t like dealing with them -_- . Yes although, we share a great love an outstanding passion for each other, there are days we have to work at it.
@Bryan.
Firstly, I’d like to apologize for my very poor English. I’m an Aries woman from Italy, I hope you understand.
I think she really likes you and enjoys your company. The problem is, she is an Aries (and maybe still a little bit immature emotionally) – and she still prefers the challenge, passion, drama and all the uncertainty of the chase (her old boyfriend) over the security, certainty and the grounded personality of a man (you). She indeed values a man like you and doesn’t want to lose you, and I’m not saying you can’t give her enough passion, but that’s different here: you seem stable and constant, she knows you want her and you already give her a lot of attention, so it can be considered a “conquered battle”. Yes, all that “masculine personality” talk… we really act and work like that. The more fire/air in her chart, the worse.
Aries women really love the challenge, unfortunately. If only we could settle down easier, I’m sure we would be so much happier, fulfilled and finally able to enjoy a great relationship with a man that really appreciates and respects us for who we are. I’m lucky I could see that and I’ve never been happier in my life… 5 years with my Virgo man, married for 4. 🙂
Aries women are sometimes spoiled, selfish… but we are also innocent. We are honest, passionate, spontaneous – but we aren’t too emotionally deep, so we can get confused often. Keep being gentle to her, but don’t be too much complacent. Don’t respond every time she calls, but be sure to answer soon. Let her take the time to appreciate you for the prize you are, and she will come back to you soon, I hope.
Good luck! 😉
What happened? I was really looking forward to read this awesome connection between the Virgo guy and the Aries girl. It looked very understanding and promising. Did any of them ask you to remove it? Damn, should have read it when it was available.
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I am/was involved with an Aries woman, I truly WANT to stay involved with her because she is AMAZING and I honestly believe we CAN make a beautiful relationship only if she gives me another chance at proving to her that SHE is the woman that I want to be with. I never cheated on her or anything like that, I’m not a boring guy, I definitely can be as spontaneous as she wants me to be. I’m a Virgo man and yes I can be too much of a perfectionist in grooming and cleanliness but that is how I’ve always been as a kid. She says she doesn’t know whether she wants me or not but says she wants me sometimes. I have never in my life wanted a woman as much as I want her! I am a very handsome guy, fly as f#$k to be exact, and am capable of finding a woman but “HER”….? she is not just any woman to ME. If my nature has hurt her feelings then I sincerely apologize for that. We started off very PASSIONATE but according things changed and I don’t really know how to take that. WE both have major rust issues because of our past experiences and relationships. However, I STILL see a fire between us that will turn into a raging wild fire if both of us would let our guards down!
i’m a VIRGO MAN, i married with an ARIES WOMAN because she is pregnant, i’m regretting everyday of my life right now.
No man, she will come around after birth, my virgo man must have felt that way too when I was preggies we didn’t see eye to eye about anything. He annoyed me, I annoyed him. Hang in there when junior is here it will get better. Also try to be supportive during this period, you don’t wanna miss out on the baby growth… It’s can be fun nd bring you closer. Love her more now, she needs you, inspite of what she says to you… Trust me half the time she is just mumbling, don’t take it to heart because she doesn’t mean some of the thi g’s she says! Good luck.
HEY I AM AN ARIES WOMAN AND I AM IN LOVE WITH MY VIRGO MAN THE RATING THAT YOU GAVE US IS TRUE BC I FEEL LIKE I AM IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ALL BY MYSELF BUT HE DOES THINGS THAT MAKES ME NOT TRUST HIM LIKE I BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE TELLS ME THINGS BUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO MAKING ME NUMBER ONE IN HIS LIFE I AM LAST I DONT KNOW IF HE LOVES ME LIKE HE SAY HE DOES BC WE HAVE NOT SEEN EACH OTHER IN A MONTH WHEN WE ARGUE I DONT HEAR FROM HIM FOR DAYS THEN HE WILL TEXT ME TO SEE IF I RESPOND BU ITS MAINLY ME WHO ARGUE BC I DONT TRUST HIM I BREAK UP WITH HIM JUST ABOUT EVERY SINGLE DAY OR BEFORE HE TELLS ME WHAT WAS THE REASON FOR WHY HE COULDN’T COME SEE ME I ADMIT WE ARE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE RAISED DIFFERENT HE IS INDEPENDENT I AM DEPENDENT I AM A LITTLE NEEDY AND I WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIM BUT I HAVE ALWAYS FELT LIKE IF A MAN LOVES YOU NOTHING WILL STOP HIM FROM BEING WITH YOU I GIVE UP ON THIS RELATIONSHIP BC OF WHAT WE HAVE PUT EACH OTHER THROUGH BUT HE ALWAYS CALLS AND LEAVS TONS OF VOICE MESSAGES AND TEXT MESSAGES EXPLAINING WHY I SHOULDNT GIVE UP ON HIM OR THIS RELATIONSHIP I DONT KNOW IF HE IS JUST SELLING ME A DREAM OR IF THIS GOING TO BE A REALITY BC WE HAVE ONLY BEEN DATING FOR SIX MONTHS AND IT FEELS LIKE WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOREVER HE SAYS THAT I MAKE HIM HAPPY BUT HE IS NOT MAKING ME HAPPY I DONT KNOW IF I AM WASTING MY TIME OR SHOULD I BELIEVE HIM AND JUST GO WITH MY HEART OR JUST MOVE ON I LOVE HIM AND I FEEL LIKE WHY WOULD HE BE TRYING SO HARD TO KEEP ME AROUND WHEN HE COULD JUST LET ME GO I MEAN WOMEN APPROACH HIM ALL THE TIME AND HE COULD HAVE THEM BUT HE SAYS HE WANTS ME BUT THE QUESTION THAT I ASK IS SIMPLE WHAT MAKES CJ HAPPY AND TO BE HONEST ITS NOT HIM BUT IF ANYONE HAS ANY ADVICE I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT
I’m a Aries woman who just got out of a year in a half relationship with a Virgo man. This describes us to the tee. When it was good it was good but when it was bad it was bad. We clashed so much. But he was like a best friend we did everything together. But I don’t think I’ll ever try to date one intimately again but we can be cool.
Every relationship is different. I’ve been in three virgo relationships and all three was different. They all had their pros and cons.
Every relationship is differen. Ive been in three virgo rrelationships and all three was different. They all have their pros and cons.
Every aries virgo relationships differs. Ive been in three virgo relationships and all were different and each had its pros and cons.
I’m an Aries woman and I just got out of a relationship with the Virgo I am 3 months pregnant and he cheated. Reading this does describe our relationship but he crazy because he won’t leave me alone. The ending is correct it will take him a while to get over me…..
STOP…..will you just stop with the mail spoofing, I’m serious!!, Ill…..come clean with me or I’m done….
God I so wanted this to be real…and really had faith in there being an us.
That was just way below low, you know what you’ve always wanted to go, here is your perfect opportunity 😐
Other stuff, those any other stuff, pharmaceutical distribution or overdose, I could have digested, this…sorry I dont want to be involved in that kind of shit, not especially the way you thought you were trying to set me up (and I tell folks all the time, never underestimate my abilities and for finding out what I want to know, and never to mistake my silence for ignorance or my calmness for acceptance) …..maybe its me and am misunderstanding the intentions and if I am then fine….if not then, I guess not!!
Still will always hold that place in my heart of the only one who ever was able to make me feel so happy and smiling for no reason but just because….. Now 🙁
I am an aries woman in a relationship with a virgo man and this kinda describes him one min he is sweet and attentive the nxt he is cold and jst withdraws into his she’ll which is vry annoying sometimes I dnt even knw wat to do…..I need help
I think this is silly.. Remember when it comes to astrology it’s broken down to the time frame when your born.
Weather your match or not and even though to say. If your both wanting the same thing in the long run and both work together and understand one another then hopefully it can work.
My boyfriend is Virgo and I’m Aries women. Despite that I always I’ve come across other star signs who were meant to be my match and I can sit there and Scratch my head? Thinking I don’t know why I even bothered. Never did I think I would ever be in a relationship with a Virgo. But I love him as he does offer love in our relationship and makes me feel loved ❤️ And I treat him with the same respect. He can be tidy but not straight on it, he actually can be lazy and after sex ? Please lol he rather pass out and go to sleep then jump in the shower to wash himself . I think positive towards our relationship just knowing he’s my present and future x
I don’t believe all that malarkey about virgo men being so fussy, I am virgo and I can adapt to any woman if it’s got a chance of happiness, you’re too generally speaking about virgos, I don’t have to be that kind of virgo, it’s about mind over matter, if she is willing then we both work at it, it’s not just one or the other, it’s teamwork, have a great day!!!
Age and experience will always make the difference, you have to communicate, it’s not rocket science, you find middle ground by caring about her and treating her with respect, what goes around comes around, unless there’s to much selfishness I can make it work, also women are different in different countries, Ukrainian women, Chinese women, Russian women, Greek women, there’s no one recipe for all Aries women!