Cancer Man and Pisces Woman Compatibility
This is an old fashioned type of relationship where a lady can be a lady and a man can be a man. A high degree of unspoken sensitivity between the two means that each is a save haven for the other. Cancer is soothing to Pisces’ nerves, and Pisces is good at ministering to Cancer. When they get together, you can almost hear the sigh of relief.
How to Attract a Pisces Woman as a Cancer Man:
Pisces lives in a different world from the other eleven signs. Imagine, if you will, trying to catch a fish with your bare hands. To get anywhere with a Pisces, you need to be willing to sneak up on them with a magic net, similar to catching a mermaid. The snare can be a fantasy, a yearning, or a promise — the more subtle the better. It is an excellent opportunity to speak the language of flowers. Begin with something simple like violets and graduate eventually to a full dozen red roses. Let that do the talking for you.
How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Pisces Woman:
A Cancer man is a leader and strategist, so it is best that you make little feminine noises that attract his attention and then let him take charge. He will love that you are not a modern woman. If you bake or cook well and have an opportunity, you should leave some of that around the area. The way to his heart is through his stomach. Also indicate that you are fascinated by his career and allude to helping him with it. Cancers are shy, but they are hell bent on career success because money represents security to them. You’ve got to take his advancement seriously.
Degree of Romance:
There is a high degree of romance with this combination. Cancer and Pisces are very soothing to one another and have the advantage of not needing to put everything into words. The Cancer man may find he is able to relax with this lady more than he imagined possible, while the Pisces woman has someone to handle the problems she has with compassion and competence.
Degree of Passion:
These are two water signs. So while passion is absent, still waters run deep. This is a couple that can lie awake in bed at night talking for hours about sweet little nothings.
Degree of Friendship:
These two can go hand in hand through life never questioning their need to be together. They are bonded, which is a higher connection than loyalty. Their natural intimacy greatly enhances their liaison because they can trust each other. The Cancer man may surprise himself by confiding in her things he never told anyone else. All his secret insecurities are safe with the Pisces lady.
Degree of Marriage:
This is a good combination for marriage provided the Pisces woman can focus enough on the details of homemaking. The Cancer man is crazy about his home and is probably a little bit picky about routines, decorum, menus, etc. Pisces often couldn’t care less.
Progression of Relationship:
This relationship has a beautiful rhythm. If you have ever been handled by a Cancer man, you’ll know what I mean. He has a way of pushing things forward without seeming to be pushing at all. He is a master of the art of management. If a Pisces lady is lucky enough to catch his eye, she should just do what she does best – relax. He’ll take care of the rest.
Sex:
For the neurotic Cancer man, this could be one of the best sexual combinations. The Pisces woman has a way of letting him slip out of his shell and reveal his vulnerable side, making him feel comfortable enough to relax during sex. Otherwise he may be a little bit insecure because of his deep fear of rejection. Pisces can reject someone and he won’t even know it, so he doesn’t have a lot to fear here.
When It’s Over:
When this is over, the Cancer man will take a firm hand. He will explain in a fatherly and parental way that not all relationships can last forever. He will consul the Pisces woman for a moderate period of time and then move on incontrovertibly, as he should for he knows it is important to get on with life. His own tendency to cling to the past is so pronounced that he becomes a master at showing others how not to do that.
Our Rating: 7/10
yes, what you say is true. i am pisces, had a long distance relationship w/cancer man. I felt very close to him when we were together,but we met rarely, he was moody, could dissappear and them write again. I still love him, but… it’sover.
I’m a pisces woman, I’ve only been attracted to men that i’m compatiable with. My high school sweet heart was a taurus which relationship lasted 10 years. A Cap. man lasted 13 years. However now with a Cancer man I truly hope this is the last long lasting relationship I will have because it was unexpected.
I think you’re onto something!!
Your so right. Iam a pisces woman I have a male friend and he’s a cancer. I can talk to him for hours and never get bored. And he knows how to treat me when we out we get along great
It’s a great combinationkk, no doubt about it!!
i am pisces and my bf is cancer,but we never been close to eachother bcoz of distance misunderstanding.i always feel he love me the most but suddenly he left me still don’t know why?plz help me
yes its really true.i have a cancerian bf now and i think we’re truly love each other.we have same like and dislike and when we’re together we are sooo happy even just talking in long hrs..i love him co’z he’s so sweet in action and words..
Sweet!
This is pretty accurate. Met a pisces and we could talk for hours about anything or nothing at all. Long distance though, so it was hard to get together. Fell in love without ever touching one another, and when we finally did it was relaxed and right. Now, I get the feeling she’s moved on. Maybe it’s me, but she used to find any reason to call me or text me. Now, I only get to hear her voice if I pick up the phone. I’ve never been involved with a pisces before, so I have nothing to compare her behavior to. Is this how a pisces ends a relationship (i.e. by never really ending it, but just sort of swimming away)?
I am a pisces. I swim away!
I am a Pisces lady. And want this cancer man. But!!! We can’t seem to get together. It seems he never shows me any signs that he wants me but I feel he does want me because the chemistry between us us thru the roof! I’m also way too old fashioned to make the first move or even show him that I’m interested and am also scared of rejection.. Any advice?? Is he not making any moves because he’s also afraid of rejection??
He may be shy. Give him time to figure out how he feels.
OMG ALICE ! THIS IS THE EXACT STORY WITH ME TOO !
I am a Pisces/cancer lady and he’s a cancer/cancer (like 100%) cancer man. I am french and i lived my whole life in Lyon. I met my best friend is 7th grade and Often, i would come over to her house. My Best friend has a brother and that’s the guy i’m talking about … I fell in love with him (I usually do not like anyone, im really picky). I was always really shy when he was around, and i was being soooo shy that he found out without anyone telling him . But i was a kid back then … . When i was 14, i had to leave France to go live in Canada. After 3 years, i came to visit my best friend and of course he was here too. And it’s like, he was surprised of how grown up i was. He’s been trying to talk to me , to get to know me better , it seemed. And he was always laughing at my jokes, teasing me a lot, and staring at me too. I could tell there was something going on, but i just didn’t trust myself enough to believe, i thought it was just in my head (because i wasnt sure). And i kept asking my bff, (cause she knows my feelings about him) but she didn’t know either. Before leaving, I told hugged him and i told him to write to each other or send e-mails and he said yes. So when i went back in Canada, i waited for him to message me but he never did so i send him a message and i waited for him to reply but he never did. A week later i called my best friends and i told her to say hi to her family for me,and when she did , her brother was like :Oh is that EMILIE? TELL HER I SEND HER KISSES”. I was just like .. wth ? What does it mean ….does he love me or not … ( I am so confused)
Could you help me please ??
Sorry if it’s a little bit confusing, i was writing really fast. 🙂
its absolutely true, i am a Pisces woman,madly in love with a Cancer man but we r into a long distance relationship….one thing which is not written here is that cancer men share a very peculiar relationship with there mothers.either they r mummy”s boy or they r dead against their mother(never dare to comment on this relationship)….but in both the cases its just not like any other relation…..its my personal experience hope it will help u to know your cancer man better….
I talk about the special relationship Cancer men and woman have with their mothers under the general sign descriptions. It’s true!
Here’s the story:
I used to have this cancer friend from school who was going out with this very pretty pisces girl.
They started sometime in 2007 and then he moved to North Dakota in 2008
I never really thought much about her or payed any attention because he was my friend’s girl and I respected that.
So now that he’s gone, I noticed that they still talk and what not.
I know she visited him and he was visiting her but I didn’t know that they were still into each other until I saw them kiss.
I live in a town in orange county and here we all get along with one another and know each other due to school.
I’m a taurus and that pisces girl whom I am now crushing on (Violet) has a brother who I’ve known since freshman year.
I had no idea he was Violet’s brother until Violet and the cancer she was with (chase) had a kickback at their garage.
Violet’s brother (Alex) is a taurus so he and I get along perfectly well.
But now here in the present time, I still hangout with Alex because I’ll stop by and have a beer or two after work with him and my friends.
We’ll just hangout in the garage and watch tv and what not.
Violet hangs out with us
That’s how I’ve grown to like her.
She is so sweet and caring and I admire that.
This one time I had to leave my moped at their house because I was really drunk.
The next day I go back and retrieve my moped.
Its broken and I am now stranded.
Suddenly, Violet pulls up and tries to help me solve the issue because she has a moped herself!
There was nothing that could be done so she makes time to drive me home.
She was headed to work but saved me even though she could have been late…
She was there for me and sacrificed time out of her day to take me home which totally took me by surprise.
I like surprises.
My attraction to her was a surprise all in all.
But anyways…
She is a stone cold fox.
I think about her when I’m in and out of her presence.
She kinda seems lonely because I see her car in the driveway every time I go over.
I’ll know when she’s home because of her car and the light in her room.
I don’t want her to be lonely
She deserves to go out and have a good time instead of just staying home all the time.
Maybe that’s what she likes, idk..
I’m just surprised.
She is so pretty and she seems to not mind chilling out at home.
I like doing that too.
And its hard finding girls who just wanna chill out and enjoy coziness.
Back to the problem:
I know they still talk and what not.
I’m not sure if they’re still boyfriend and girlfriend but I can kind of feel it.
Please help me.
What’s a relationship if there is no kissing or touching involved?
Pisces are very affectionate and passionate.
I used to go out with two of them in different times of my life
But what can I do?
Should I tell her how I feel about her?
I wanna take her out on a date.
see what happens.
I wish this wasn’t happening but I can’t help myself.
Can you help me win her?
Should I even win her over?
What do you think?
Is this a bad idea???
What would you say or do if you were in this position?
I’m falling for her.
I’m dating a Cancer male. His Moon, Sun, and Ascendant are in Cancer.
I am 87% Pisces (Mercury, Jupiter, and 2nd House). My 7th house (house of marriage) is in Cancer. I have been in the longest relationships with Men with moon or more in Cancer.
Now, this Cancer and I have been dating for 5 weeks. He took me along last weekend to Orlando. It was dreamy.
I met him at a karaoke bar. We had both been regulars for a year and a half. Never spoke to one another. Caught him lookin at me longingly once – in a not wanting to look at me way. January he slowly starts entering my circle of conversation. I find his presence unsettling. He does it a few times more but, I always walked away as something else catches my attention.
So, one day he just boldly starts talking to me at the bar. Comes up from behind, startles me. Very direct communication, consuming all my attention and holding it strongly. I’m amazed at the directness – touches my hair, keeps touching my leg, etc.
Talked for three or four hours. Keeps telling m that I am so intelligent. How lucky he is to find an intelligent woman. He even sings a song that illustrates a point he is making to me about men being predatory and when they find a woman who seems unattainable, they will sneak up on her. I’m a dreamy pisces always in my own world. I am snuck up on often. He’s coming on strong. Tells me I am the only woman he has ever approached in his life. I tell him I have never and will never approach a man; it’s how I was raised. So, I am overwhelmed and am debating whether to leave while have a smoke break.
I come back in to say bye. We just start kissing and gently and barely holding each other at the waste.
Now, in Orlando he constantly makes references to the future. The next we’ll do this, the next time bring this, etc. He treats me well and we have the most peacefully, decadently sweet slow gentle time.
We do not talk on the phone-always in person. I learned a long time ago that men do not like to talk on the phone unless they have to. We see each other three nights a week and one of those nights I sleep over.
He’s in the military so, he may get orders anytime. I am a DoD Civil servant and I can live anywhere where there is a military prescence.
I think we know we are sole mates. He does the most intimate, gentle and orginial things in bed. He’s on bipolar meds (I think the triple Cancer has alot to do with it) and sleeps alot. We talk about intimate intellectual, psychological, and emotional matters. My immediate family has a history of various mental illnesses so, no problem.
I’m Pisces woman, in love with Cancer man…
To make matter worse we are related, he is aware of my feeling towards him as i have made it clear to him. What i don’t understand is the fact that his not doing anything about it…his so relaxed.
There’s so much chemistry between us it’s amazing. A day doesn’t pass by without me thinking of him…I think I’m in love
He invited me to his place, is this one of his ways to show his feelings and yet why can’t he just admit how he feels about me? It’s long over dew
Pls help!
@Refiloe You didn’t say how long it’s been but obviously you are rushing him!
I am 100% Picean and my man is more like 1000% Cancer. What a challenge because in most relationships I have been in I have been accused of being the deepest ocean…Now I have met my match. I love him and we are deeply connected, but he is quite possibly the most GUARDED person I have ever met. Splish…splash!
Very accurate….I was with a pisces lady for almost two years on and off (about a year on and another year in limbo) and it seemed like love at first sight while it lasted but she finally swam away once and for all, bored by my traditionalism and willingness to simply be content, not to mention distrust and disapproval in my (at the time) hedonistic and flirtatious ways (which I imagine come more from my heavy leo influences than cancer).
Anyway, very right about how to catch a pisces. I wrote her a sonnet and put it on facebook but didn’t directly say it was about her (although it was kind of obvious if you read it)….worked like a charm. At least, that’s how I got her close enough to begin the actual courting process. It took me a long time to convince her I was actually interested, for some reason.
Also right about how to attract a cancer as a pisces. I nearly jizzed my pants when I learned she could cook. XD And just being as feminine as possible and letting us quietly lead is very good advice.
Bad part about this relationship is the possibility of either drowning in each other or the cancer will bore the pisces away/the pisces will try to remove the cancer from his comfort zone.
I’m a 100% Piscean girl and I’ve recently met a Cancer guy. So far we have only met ca. 3 times in the past weeks (he is a friend of one my friends’s friend :D) and we seem to get along really well. We have a lot in common and even when we are silently next to each other, it just feels right. 🙂
The only problem – for me – is that I’m 27 and he’s 7 years younger. I know it’s a big age difference and it bothers me, but I can’t help myself liking this guy.
Can Cancer guys ever fall for older women? Do you think it might ever work out despite of the age difference thing?
You rang?
I am a cancer man.. successful, work-a-holic.. I do notice that i am a bit more grounded to senses and personality, where as rationality is a strength to grow as cancer, will get you far, since cancer has a subjective nature.. yet annoyed sometimes with my mother (aries), but will protect and serve if need be.. Quite passive, yet passionate. Grown to not fear silly things..
Yet, a crushed shell that’s been re-built with titanium.
I see we’re getting alot of mixed responses about a cancer and how to read them.. well this depends on many things, such as the mother, and how he treats them is usually how he treats his loved one’s.. Also, how bad he’s had his heart broken/fixed. How long has he given his heart to another women rather than his mother? IF he doesn’t have a mother, he has someone he remains loyal to.. otherwise, he feels no purpose in life.
the reason the cancer hasn’t called you back is because you’re not around marketing yourself to him.. the only way to bait the cancer from his cave is to figure out how to get him out of it… if he comes out he will make a new better one with you, or buy it for you.. Otherwise, he will be faithful to his original cave where many usually do try to bait him out of.. Showing open mindedness to cancer’s reasoning and his passion’s (we have them, but we may be too busy to be doing them ensuring security) will go a long way with a cancer, as cancer’s decision will usually be one that was thought out in every single way and inside out.. You may want to question his insecurities and help balance them out, a good result will gain cancer upmost loyalty, as long as they’re kept in private BTW..
If you’re in a hospital, then he thinks you fell off the face of the earth.. and you’re clearly not capable to providing what he needs while you’re in there, and the same when you get back.. He;s busy, trust me.. The only thing to do is to show that you are new and improved and now able to be on his level, otherwise, you will not be worth it for the cancer, who can turn on a whim due to 1 simple occurance that has overwhelmed his sensitivity to that particular issue.. Unless you have earned his loyalty previously.
One more thing, cancer’s hate attention, so if you love it, it will leave cancer confused and more-so neglected.
Cancer’s taste for cheap humor is sour.. Anything cheap, from the heart..Is quickly noticed by cancer and spit on (in his head). Cancer only likes attention if the crowd loves him or if he knows the crowd will love him for it. Otherwise, cancer usually doesn’t make stupid attempts to gain attention (like aries).
Me, as being a cancer, with other signs…
I have noticed that many of my friends, connected and long lived are Virgo, Capricorn and Aries (maybe becuz i’m used to them)
Good friends, usually intrigued by me, but some signs i feel too intense for..
LEO, Aquarius, Libra, Gemini (Air Signs,… So shallow, but so desired sometimes for their passiveness and sociability.. water is Air with Substance…)
Scorpio/Cancer can share certain experiences that aren’t usually shared with others.. on another level, usually involving craziness.. but really piss me off with there selfishness and heartless pricks.
I do feel an at home with a pisces or scorpio though.. it’s like being on a same frequency.
Pisces really give off the vibe if their interested, but sometimes cancer can easily scare them away or bore them away, if they’re not ready for pisces quick witts.. It’s more like an oh well, they were too quick, they’ll probably swim by again another day when i’m ready for it.
Taurus are usually on the jock and lie to me just to be around me and smother me.. I hate it sometimes but admire the attempt.
Cancer women I find extremely attractive, just how they carry themselves and how they are so selfless and so about you.. I always expect what I would do and I’m always correct or make it correct.. It’s sort of a good match, but eventually can get boring intellectually, as cancer’s are not usually on the social tip.. unless they need or it feels appropriate to be..
Anyways, to get a cancer is to constantly put yourself around them, and in most cases you can see if they’re interested from the way they look at you.. Or what they do indirectly.. You have to make yourself part of cancer’s environment if you want them to be comfortable with them approaching you. If they aren’t accepting you in their environment, then they are not interested or they picked up on your desperateness. I dont like any women too desperate, it’s a turn off.. also , be lady like or go kiss a cow.. do not gross out cancer in the beginning, it will never happen.
To keep a cancer.. do much for him, and make him do other things (if he isn’t already as a reflection of yours) to balance it out if he gets out of focus.. there should always be a proper balance with this sign, as it is 69 yin yang. extreme of each angle.. Be humble, goofy, funny, weird, loving, private, intimate.. If you scratch the shell of a cancer (at least), they may not ever deal with ever again. Sometimes cancer expects and feels obligated to things, where he has done things and expects return, as any person would.. However, when these expectations are not met, may leave cancer easily dissapointed, without you knowing.. if it evolves to you knowing, then it will come out in a harsh way most likely. The thing is, cancer is so dynamic, there is so many things they think about before they react and will definitely base it’s next decision on what has occured in the past, especially with the same person.
Its not an easy task to be with a cancer, as they cannot be controlled.. Sometimes you gotta get your floaters on and just ride the wave. When it all settles, it will be a beatiful resort like tropic awaiting your stay.
@Ash You were in the hospital for 1-1/2 years and didn’t tell him. Of course he moved on!!
okay, I’m a teenage Pisces girl (& venus in Pisces) . I had met this Cancer guy (& venus in cancer) who has been my neighbor at my vacation home for as long as we had been there. (over 16 years?) His mom and my mom were friends, and his older brother was friends with my older brothers. Oddly enough, we had never met each other until June ’10. He is three years older than me, but when we met he didnt know that, (im tall and very mature for my age). We hung out one night in the street from like 5pm to midnight. Him, his friend, me, and my friend. I didnt think much of it except that it seemed like we would be good friends. A couple days later, I was back at my home, about 1.5 hrs away, because school wasnt over yet, a couple weeks to go. I had texted & called him every day from the day after the night we hung out. I learned he was A LOT sweeter than the funny jock guy I originally thought he was. One day in the middle of a conversation, he told me, (via text), “your just amazing”. Now we call each other Mr. & Ms. Amazing. He calls me: beautiful, sweet, nice, precious, gorgeous, cute, adorable, & says im like a princess. When we hang out in the street, im always with a friend, so he wont say any of that in person, which is that fear of confrontation in cancer. But he will put his arms around me, hold me close, put his hands on my waist, and hit on me. He’s always there for me, and vise versa. I know it seems like a perfect romance situation.. that we should be dating… but there’s one slight problem, he has a long-distance girlfriend, who is 2 years older than him, 5 years older than me. I knew about her the entire time. She lives in Jacksonville, FL & We are in south florida. But everytime he talks about her, there is never a good story. When she calls him, he tells me to be quiet because she’s the jealous type. And when she’s on the phone he’ll mouth “b*tch” and give the phone the finger. When I confronted him about this he said that they have moments when the hate and love each other. But thats probably bullsh*t. She’s also an Aries, & venus in Aries. They have been together for over a year. & even shared their ‘first time’ together. So, is he not sure who he likes more? or is he just afraid to let her go? or am i wasting my time falling head over heels for him? Please answer.!
i am a pisces woman, and now is dating a cancer man.
i have to say that the relationship is great.
i never felt this happy before in a relationship.
and you know what? he ask me to marry him.
i’m just so happy, feels like the happiest moment
of my life.
So I’m a pices guy and I’m dating a cancer woman. Sometimes I feel like she’s pushing me away or I’m not getting enough attention from her or she’s mad at me. When she hugs or kisses me its like time itself stops from the instant our lips touch to the instant they seperate. But I feel there’s a problem we don’t really talk much and I have difficulty choosing the subject that will keep her interested. When were alone this is when we talk a lot but I’m very shy and I’m not very experience on how to make this happen how do I get her attention or get her to hideaway with me untill its time for us to part. When she’s happy I feel it when she’s sad I also feel it but I’m not sure if she senses my feelings is there something I can do to find out? The only time I get to see her is when were at school when I try to hang out with her outside of school she usually ignores me. Why is this? How do I get through to her and get her to talk to me or when I want to talk to her how do I do it what do I say what subjects do I keep away from? I kinda need help with this because she’s killing me on the inside when she acts like this
closure at last….wooooooooooohooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!
Hi. I’m a Pisces girl & am married to a Cancer man. My first love and high school sweetheart was an Aquarius…our connection/bond was undeniable and very deep, but our relationship was full of heated drama and was overall very intense–like we were both literally crazy over each other.
I am married to a Cancer man & we also have a child together, but all of it came very suddenly and we’re still rather young in our 20’s. I have this male friend I have been attracted to for some time but the timing was never right because I have always been in a relationship since I was 14. I don’t even really know what it is about him but I still have this “crush” & don’t feel very good about it internally (I keep thinking ‘I’m married. I can’t be having crushes on other people. It’s not okay.) The thing that intrigues me, though is that he is also an Aquarius so I’m wondering why is it that I am so attracted to the Aquarius? I also deeply love my husband (the Cancer) & our love & relationship really follows your compatibility article, almost to a T.
Am I better off living with those “what ifs” and just keep my head & heart focused on my marriage to the Cancer man? Or would I find true happiness w/ the Aquarius? Is indecisiveness a Piscean quality because it is a rather strong trait of mine..
Look Elle I know exactly what you are talking about.. I am an aquarius woman madly in love with my pisces man.. and yes I agree there is an extremely spellbound attraction between these 2 signs!! but however you are married and a marriage requires a sacrifice and there is a child involved. There are some choices in life that we make that cannot be broken just because..however you must try first and if for any reason it just doesnt work.. why live miserable and unhappy right? Well i have never believed in those compatibility reports very often..because it says that an aquarius woman should never marry a pisces man because we will live our lives fighting but very deeply in love..I believe a relationship should be based in many things..first there should be an attraction physically,spiritually and mentally and yes this is very intense between aquarius n pisces..but however this doesnt necesarily mean you are not to try the relationship you are in now..work through it and try your best! and most important put GOD in your relationship ang go from there..
Well…i am a pisces woman to the core…and i love a cancer man, we fell in love while chatting online and were crazy for each other.. I still have very strong feelings for him and i somehow feel that he still loves me very much too.. But does not say it.. I dont know what to do? I believe.. we live only once and i wanna live with him.. God help me…
There is this very sweet Cancer girl I like. She is very caring and loving. She likes me very much too and I feel the deepest concerned emotions coming out for her when I talk to her. I so want to hug her and protect her from this big bad world. She too wraps me up with her tender love and care, and I listen to her occasional concerns with sincere loving attention. However due to some circumstances we cannot be together and that hurts me a lot. Just saying it …. :’( .. wish some things could be possible …
I’m a pisces woman..been crushin and love sick over a cancer guy for the longest even tho we barely kick it anymore. He really is success/money motivated and super masculine and cares about things being scheduled…while I could careless. We had our problems but I miss how safe I felt in his arms..everything always felt taken care of and it was like an escape from my problems. Oh..your also write about me being super feminine and him liking to take charge and we never spoke much…we mostly never needed too. 🙁 I miss him sooooooo much but it’s one of those things where if you love something let it go and if it comes back…you’ll know.
@#30…omg! I just had chills.. it’s like I could’ve wrote that myself!!!! You just described me and the dude I’m talking about’s problems to a tea except I’m a pisces girl and he’s a cancer guy…so maybe zodiac do dictate these things! 🙁 I feel u man!!!
I never believed in the zodiac until i met a cancer.
i’m a pisces. i have never in my life felt like something fit so perfectly. and everything i read is spot on about us and our compatibility.
one thing though. i live far away. and where he lives, he has two (yes two) girls he is involved with. when we are together, it’s great. when we are apart, i know where he is. and i am fine with that because i can justify the distance… after all, i have my flings here too. but he’s my favorite. and i convince myself that i am probably his, but we are just so far away..
BUT. considering the whole zodiac thing – his first girl is a scorpio. and the second in another pisces.
so should i just give it up? am i fooling myself?
i think him and the scorpio have had a long past that is probably nearly over. the other pisces is significantly younger and more problematic.
what to do….
i swing back and forth between giving him my all and shutting him off entirely.
Im a pisces and I have a long distance relationship with a cancer man. we send eachother messages on facebook and i he told me once he was planning on moving to this place…i didnt know what that place was like until i looked it up on the internet and it looked so peacefull and i said to him that i love that place and asked him what the reason was that he wanted to move…
but he responded with the words” dont worry too much about it, everything will be ok” I feel like hes holding something back from me. like he has done something bad and he wants to run away….he could of just told me why, but maybe hes scared that it will scare me off but i know i can handle anything, i guess…
so how do it let him show that he can trust me??? will he ever open up about it? or does he rather talk about it face to face?
I’m a Cancer and there was a Pisces girl I had met in my class a semester ago. She’s very energetic, feminine, and easygoing. I felt a great vibe between us – even at times when we were silent. We balanced each other out. I’m more reserved, calm, and cool while she’s outgoing and extremely passionate about things. Unfortunately, she had just gotten out of a previous relationship and isn’t ready to move onto to someone new yet.
We’ll see what happens.
I’m a Pisces woman.. I have dared all my incompatible. Signs.. Ugh!! I have just come into contact with a cancer.. He’s actually a client of mine! He’s adorable sweet sensitive and sexy as hell… I’m naturally lovey and clingy but I’m trying not to be because I don’t want to scare him away.. But I want him so bad!!!!! I have been engaged and have a daughter .. He was married and has twin boys… But his marriage was recent:( this is why I dont want to push it.. I don’t know how to do this.. I’m afraid also after failed relationships that we both have our guard up! So how is this supposed to get anywhere if were both afraid? He’s just so beautiful!!! 🙂 🙂
I’m a Pisces girl, and I am full of cancers in my life. About three of my best friends(two female, one male)- all great friendships. However i recently started talking to a male cancer, we knew each other for a while but never really hung out. He asked me to hang out on my birthday and it was fun, instant connection. after we finally met we hung out for about a week or so straight and all good times, but the past few days i hit him up he hasnt gotten back to me. Yet i see him talking to his friends online about things i brought up to him and we discussed which is weird. I feel as if i dont know what he wants or is thinking, hes so mysterious and random which makes me nervous as to making progress. I’m always the one to ask to hang out & text him and whatnot, & i hate it. I dont know if he is trying to push me away or what his deal is?
I am a Pisces girl went on a few this with this Cancer guy. I am getting mix signals and I just want to know if that guy is interested in me. We went on the third date and he kissed me on my lips real quick and went for our next date. After that he did not call/text or check in anymore and I did not too. I am traditional and wants the guy to call/text first. (typical Pisces) Is he waiting for me to call him or is he just taking his time to analyze if this will work? Or is he unsure, hence don’t know how to react?
We comfortable around each other and conversation is always fun and easy.
Help !
im a 15 year old cancerian boy who just got out of a 5 month relationship with a pisces i try not to cope with the break up but everytime im ready to let go sombody always brings her up to my face and i become mad at the world i want to let this go amediately because i have been coping with this break up everysince it even happen she already let me go im trying to do the same to her so we both can better life
This is intersting. My two best male friends are both Pisces (one being on the Aries cusp).
As far as Pisces women go, I usually get along with them just as well although I have yet to establish a romantic connection with the chaotic fish. Seeing how Pisces is a mutable sign, I can never really know the true feelings of a Pisces woman outwardly (I think Sag is the only mutable sign that would give Cancer an obvious hint). Overall, the converstations I have with them beat any that I’ve had with the sociable air signs. I think it usually takes a while for a Cancer-Pisces connection to happen as both signs hide their emotions.
It’s interesting to see how different, yet similar, Cancer interacts with the water sings.. In my experience with Pisces a lot of talking goes on – a connection could be there but it’s hard to pin down, with another Cancer it’s intermittent between talking and silence – each hiding their feelings under a shell, whereas with Scorpio conversation is stagnant at best but the connection is intensely felt between both parties.
PS – CancerMan, your comment was spot on and cracked me up (my mother is an Aries too, so I exactly know what you mean).
Well for me i am a cancer man and i am seeing a pisces woman. So let me tell you how we got to this point:
Well first of all i was a jr in high school when i first met this pisces woman and we had the same feelings for each other as we do now.But when i was a senior in high school and graduated i lost touch with her for almost 7 years and we never told each other how we felt and come to find out we were scared to reveal our feelings to each other in high school when i lost touch with her i never had a chance to let her know that i was in love with her back then. Fast forward to March 24th, 2011 i finally caught back up to her as just normal friends at first because she was dating someone else and come to find out the guy broke up with her because he felt as if things were not going to work out. Of course as the gentleman i am i came to her as just her friend even during april and i would talk to her daily on facebook and when the tornadoes where we lived i was there to comfort her on the phone again as just her friend and we talked about them after they happened on April 27th and i got her to settle down about them. So on April 29 i told her how i feel about her and at first she just wanted to be friends and so i being the nice gentleman i am agreed to be just friends still. Then on May 1st i reassured her that we were just friends while she decided who she wants to be with later that i would always be here for her and and then she asked me if i wanted to be more then just friends and i asked her i thought she just wanted to be just friends and then that’s when she told me that she wants to be more then just friends.So again as the gentleman i am i told her that we could be more then just friends and that i want to start out by being her best friend and we went to a relay for life at our courthouse and met up there with her and her parents since we both don’t drive we live with our parents still and they like each other and each of us too. I also started going to church with her in mid may and then we made a promise that we would wear our class rings and stuff like that on may 26th from here on out and i have been going to church every wednesday and sunday nights as well. We have been talking on the phone most every day since we first went to the relay for life too. Even tho we both agree that we will be boyfriend and girlfriend later after like 3 months or so I consider her my best friend as well as lover and even when i was in high school with her i always felt this way about her and she feels the same way.
We are also taking this a day at a time too.Even tho i talk with her every day as my best friend we are head over heels in love with one another too so you know too.
The moral to this long but true story is this:
If you have someone who you loved in school wheither it was k through say 6th or even in jr high or like me and you get that second chance to reveal your true feelings for a man or woman in my case then don’t pass it up swallow your pride and let your true feelings for your special someone show and even if you don’t have to reassure the one you love that you love them do so any way. You might be suprised how they take it if they love you just as much.My Pisces lady was even going to come see me at work last night too but we were busy and i did not see her where i was working from. But she did try to come and see me. I have already made plans to go to where she works and eat with her when she gets off of work to eat with her at the same place where she works on Saturday too.
So if you have a pisces man in your life cancer ladies show him that you love him and please be ladylike about it.Other Cancer men if you too are in love with another pisces lady then make her happy too.I sure know that i have found the lady who makes me happy and i don’t go by Zodiac signs alone either. This Pisces lady and myself have so much in common that it is not even a funny thing between us either too.
So have a good day and please show your man or woman that you love them and want to be with them no matter if you take my route and start as best friends or rush things a bit.For me i love this lady to death and i see myself with her for as long as we live that’s why i am making this a long term relationship even if just as best friends first too. So think about your feelings and then express them people don’t let it come to never even if it is later. Better later then never as they say.Good night now all.
I am a cancer man a i recently met a pices woman online. Now this is a long distance relationship we connected almost instantly. Each of us almost reading into each others words and feelings. So much in common that it seemed impossible to forge such a stron bond so quickly. We keep in touch by messenger and email sending each other letters and exchanging photos. We are looking forward to the day when we will be united. I have never found such a srong bond in connecting with a woman on the other side of the world before in all my life.
So true on the sex thing I never felt this way before when me and my girlfriend had sex I fell in love with her almost as if we made love
im a pisces, i was raised by a cancer mom, my best friend of 11 years is a cancer, and now my boyfriend is a cancer. i know how to deal with these spoiled, cold hearted, never wrong people. and i love them all. a cancer man does not see his faults, somewhat like the sneaky pisces. He was awesome in the beginning, then i did a couple things that hurt his heart, (not cheating) and he now treats me like sh*T. doesnt talk to me, rarely has sex, calls me bad names, and yes i know everyone is raised different, maybe this guy has mental problems, but my boyfriend, my sister’s abusive husband whos 20 yrs older than her, George bush, OJ simpson, ALL CANCER MEN. NEED I SAY MORE????
Cp Im a pisces as well and I so feel you on a cancer man, My child father is a cancer and everything you’ve meantion is so true. I love him to death but as you stated about hurting them(not cheating) they do tend to turn on you quick… I have a habit of keeping things to myself cause Im ashamed of what sum make think including him, he took that so offensivly so he used that against me so much saying how he feels im cheating cause I would’nt express myself fully as he has, He is very temper he swears Im playing him or trying to get over on him some kind of way. the bad name calling I’ve been there to but as us pisces are we escape when we feel the need to get away so me I left him!!
i m a 22,cancerian boy,,i love pisces ,,i want to be in love with pisces [email protected]
I’m pisces n i dated a cancer guy once n broke up cuz i got kinda insecure bout d relationship. Well, lets jus say he was a total ‘kiss n tell’ cuz he spent a whole year tellin evry1 bout d stuff we did, how bitchy i was n all that post break up ish! So i guess i’d agree that they dont let go easily.
I’m a pisces and I’ve been having great sex with a cancer for the past month, we told each other our relationship was just gonna be sexual but now I’m having feelings for him and I’m not sure how he feels. He so kind and gentle and as a pisces I fall in love as quick as the trees change leaves what to do? what to do?
I am a pieces female. So far all I have read about campatability between a pieces woman and a pieces man has deemed correct.
I met a man in passing, while I was actually talking to another man at a social event. He and I made eye contact, a moment I have never remembered so vividly with anyone else. We ended up talking and after saying goodbye he quickly ran back and asked for my number. One of the first things we learned about each other was that I was a pisces and he was a cancer. 🙂 We knew our signs somehow were a match, and that was our first common ground.
Weeks went by before we saw each other again. But once we saw each other, the same spark from when we made eye contact flared up strong again. We talked for hours. Played pool. It was such a strong connection… Then we kissed and it flew from there. Chemistry was AMAZING! I almost got lost in it. You know how us pisces are! But we are also wise, and know when to step back. Our intuition reads well.
This cancer man has invited me in his life, his social circly, and his environment. We have hung out a few times. And the chemistry is there, but he is definitely guarded, and I know he is testing the water. (Haha excuse my pun)
I am already so crazy about him I have to watch myself as to not come off to strong or desperate. I have never dated a cancer before. But I can tell that he does not want me to pick him apart, and to figure him out right away.
So far, the most improtant thing I have noticed with him his is desperate need for space, but also needs to know I am near. I am no push over, I do not like to feel like I am bending over backwards for someone. But for once it doesnt feel like I have too, it more feels like a thing for respect to him. And I find great pleasure in it.
He will silently go out of his way to do small acts for me, and I feel like it balances out his needs with mine. I don’t want to feel smothered either. And he is so intriguing because I really don’t know waht he is going to do next, but it doesn’t feel intimidating. No matter how unpredictable he is, it never feels out of hand.
I am still getting to know him but it is the most comfortable chemistry I have had with a sign before.
After readign so many negative responses with you pisces women in horrible cancer relationships… stop being a weak pisces! If you are in a bad relationship get out of there. Cancer or not- why take the heat? We are born lovers, and its around every corner. All you have to do is swim away. You’re a great catch and someoen else will be there to see it.
Id on’t know what will happen with this cancer man. But I am determined to find out. If it turns sour, so be it. At least I got the ultimate experience.
I am a pisces woman, married to cancer man for so long . i love him so much and either he is same with me… but lately she fall for a aquarious woman and we broke a part but still i love him and i need him in my life.. do you think can i still win him back? we have 3 children everythin you described about cancer man and pisces woman are correct. please do help and advice me.
I’m a pieces woman who has recently realized her undying love for her male cancer friend of 20 years. We have been very close friends for so long, even shared many, many intimate times together. He has been there for me through all my ups and downs in life, helping me up, dusting me off and always letting me know I deserved better. The last few years, during my current rocky relationship, he has kept a very close eye on me from a very safe distance. He still has been there for me whenever I reach out to him, even if it is to hold me in his arms while I cry, whispering that it will be okay. I now realize how much I love him and truly need him in my life…forever, by my side. Do you think he has waited for me to realize this, or have I lost my chance at happiness? I just told him the other day that I loved him and he smiled and said “right back at you.” What do I do?
I just went out with a cancer man I fell for him at first sight we both did, He told me how much he cared for me and I opened up and told him the same. The two weeks were wonderful I wanted him so bad and he couldn’t keep his hands off me. One morning he sent me a text stating he was up since 4:45 am he tossed and turned all night . He said the negative emotions are too familiar too soon and he didn’t want to talk to me at that time he stated not the reason he was texting me just wanted me to know of his experience. I have not talked to him since no phone calls nothing. what to do it has been a week and a day today. I think he didn’t want a relationship or what is the problem I have never had anyone to hold me and make me feel the way he did.
Im a pisces woman and i was wiv a cancer boy fro 2 years we broke up but was still close now 2 years later were still very very close and sort of seeing eachother again we have a connection and just talk 4 hours and hours evrythin said above is sooo true <3
This past summer I had an unexpected fling with a Pisces friend of mind. We started off as pretty good friends and would talk for hours upon hours about anything and everything. I honestly just wanted to be friends because I felt more platonic love towards her but we ended up crossing the line, which she didn’t mind as she doesn’t really do relationships. We ended up eventually going our separate ways and once the fish swam away, my shell hardened up.
I guess the real moral of the story is to never cross the line if you only feel a platonic connection. However, I think this is a good romantic combination if that sort of chemistry is there.
I a piscean dated a cancerian for 4 years and lost my self in it…. he was so sweet earlier that i thot he is the one.. then as the relationship progressed he became distant… we had a long distance relationship.. he would see me only once a month.. i craved and craved for his presence in my life.. finally i called it off… i am hurt no doubt he was one of my greatest loves. but my needs and wants also need to be respected. i was always the last one on his priorities.I dnt know whether i will find someone who might be as caring and as sweet as him but i am ready to take chance… Tired of being love starved.. Guys please dnt read all this astrology shit it makes no sense in real life.. the cancerian sister/ex and friend i know are comepletely different people than what is described in these sites.. All you pisceans who read this please dnt be fooled.. i was.. so please understand this is all bull shit.. 10/10 rating is garbage!!!
Well there’s guy,he’s a cancer and I’m a Pisces. He began to show interest in me last school year for months on end. He is absolutely gorgeous and its hard to believe he was attracted to me.I doubted myself on several occasions because I was so insecure,but now he has gone on to college and now has a girlfriend.And it hurts because I still like him and wonder since he liked me for so long will he still show interest in me or react when he sees me. I feel the reason he was attracted to me was because I am a Pisces and he is a Cancer.
I’m a Pisces woman who after being in a 4-year long marriage realized it wasn’t ever going to work because it was long distance. After deciding to file a divorce, sharing news with my family & other close people in my life including my sisters father-in-law. Without thinking twice (my filter forever out of order) I said next time I’ll be smart & go for an older man that’s kids are grown & won’t have to worry about custody move orders. 2 weeks later I got a message asking if I’s ever considered dating an older man. I was shocked, reading & re-reading it with my mouth open. This was from my sisters father-in-law…25 years older than me & a cancer man. I’d never dated an older man or a cancer man. He was charming, daring & very attractive. We had flirted & talked easily in the months prior to this question at various get togethers, so a part of me was curious. We knew people in both our lives would be less than pleased, so we had a few secret rendezvous. It was exciting, exhilarating & I was quickly taken to realms I had never attained in other relationship. Over the next 3 months, we spent all the time we could together. We no longer tried to hide the fact we were together. I found out he was struggling with alcohol after things began to dwindle sexually. He began telling me we should just be friends. He said he didn’t want to hold me back from meeting a man that could fulfill all my needs. I didn’t want to accept that! Everyone has a right to love & loved through good times & bad times. I refused to be dismissed. I continued to spend the same amount of time with him as I had, but soon realized I may have thought my caring companionship, admiration, encouragement, cooking, cleaning, flirting & general piscean sweetness would ignite the dwindling coals of our once smoldering hot whirlwind of amazingly fun exploration. But…I was soon disappointed & hurt that my efforts weren’t even acknowledged or given a modicum of care one way or another. I went from adored goddess whose satisfaction was the upmost priority to the old toy you pull out to play with when you’re feeling sad, upset or a little nostalgic. I’m the type that gives multiple chances & truly sees the diamond in the rough…I’d like to say never again…but there is an undeniable magnetism that draws me to him & keeps me wondering what if?!?
I’m a Pisces woman. After 25 years of marriage that ended in 2012, I found this sensitive, kind, romantic man. I didn’t have to look far bc he was from my hometown and we grew up together. Needless to say I recently moved back to my hometown. “Home is where the heart is”
I’m a piscean female that’s be seeing a cancer male for about six years on and off I never really intentionally for him to fall in love with me.. part of me couldn’t commit cuz some of the things mention in other comments. But as I set back and really think if I was jus honest from the jump he wouldn’t be hownding me so much. He can make me feel so angry at tymes by consent nit picking. And some of the things he say is like really dude can we drop it but I see know he’s here to help me face my problems n express my feelings. He never did anything to hurt me I was the one pushing him away. Scared that if I give him all of me he well leave. But as of today June 2015 he still loves me and miss me I now be believe him cuz if he was gonna leave he would have been left five years ago. So now I’m claiming wats mine.
I’m a Pisces women and I’ve been married with a cancer men for 15 years. He was my high school sweet heart and was the first guy I have ever been with (sexually). I’m proud to say that unlike all these negative things people have been saying about Cancer men, my husband has never disrespected me in anyway, and has remained the same loving and caring man that I fell in with 18 years ago. Even though in the past I used to be a little “bitch” to him and treated him however I wanted, he never once decided to leave me or call me names like I used too, back in high school. One time I decided to end everything with him when we were dating. I was tired of his clinginess and always being on my back about everything so we broke up for awhile then we got back together at first he was a mejor asshole! Because like I said before through out our dating I was a complete bitch but I decided to change; and I told him that if he wouldn’t change his actions I was going to leave him, then BOOM! Like magic he completely changed. He was an asshole as in he wouldn’t care about anything and he would do whatever he wanted but with communication we both worked out our differences. I guess it just depends on the type of men they are. I’m truly happy to say that I’m still madly, and crazy about my cancer man.
okay so I am a 16 year old Pisces dating a 17 year old cancer man and I only feel in love with him sometimes and , always treats me well but I treat him like shit n I get sensitive ASF but cancer men are romantic , sexy , sweet , nice and we’ve been dating 6 months now I’m so in love with him n he’s in love with me he talks about having kids a family he said he haven’t had sex since he got with me but I think he’s lying to me I think he’s cheating like when he’s at school he calls me and then he be like aye BAE it’s this girl talking about you or talking about me is he trying me to see will I do something about it ? he made me jealous because he was like its this girl she has pretty brown eyes n other stuff I just don’t know Ima childish Pisces I get in my feelings if I love you I will be loyal ASF and we are sensitive
Cancer men are very sensitive and you must keep on showing them what next,they take time to think,but hey are perfectionist.Im a pisces dating Cancer man and i whish i can see all the good staff i heard about them .Thanx
My ex wife is a pisces…total cray bitch if you ask me..in the beginning when our paths crossed it was sooo effin awesome it was as though a higher power had bought us together.but what turned out a a 7 year horror show..hate that cunt..
i found out she was a cheater(have her lusty+ fuckface fotos for poof)…you now the kind a says 1 thng does somethin else..total maleficient betch..i only got along with her brother hated and was hated by every one else…her so called friends..her cuzzins etc..
her parents were cool though
it was misery right from the start..i called her up to get her email…i wanted to make it happen..i was humiliated and called despo and what not..some cuntt said it was a booty call..my mom told me to be careful and focus on findin myself and not some soulmate so shit lyk dat…that pisces cunt was a total fucker,,,now she move on
as if its nothin!!found her replacement man..or whateva..fuckin betch…
no pain in ma azz or nethin..lulz..don care if she move on or sumthin..i wanta ev1 to b happy…i am only askin thos cuntt an otha ashols, are you also doin the same shyt to her current “true other half” also??are you pulling ur shyt from youz anus an trowing on him also??so give me reason why u do to me?whot rong am do to you?
levae it bro..my motha told me..u live once..better live with love in heart every day..sumtyms life is giving too much guano..you calmly take that guano and plant trees :)..my motha and notmy pisces betch brotha (LOL) xerox copies bro..aquas..but imma keep only one in my lyf in this lyftym 😉
Let it go bro, jus let it go, stop beating up urself like that, not worth ur time n energy! Go and nourish that tree you have planted and set urself free.
How do you — set urself free ??
Okay, first lets look at how we keep ourselves confined by allowing entry but no exit…..Truth be told, we sometimes underestimate how much of an engrossing effect our emotions have on us and our otherwise rational logic and nature. Often times we try to numb and distract ourselves for as long as we can until it becomes ineveitably obvious that we lead ourselves to believe that absolutely nothing we do will make us feel ok again…..even if we are able to cover up our emotional restlessness, the negative feelings still remain unmoved and we become resentful even to our own well being, deriving a negative sense of self-esteem and self worth based on how people treat us, usually in a bad situation, and then we suffer and go into a deep state of depression (from the past) and anxiety (towards the future) and this isn’t really a gender issue persay but a human condition.
But once we are at Peace (we are in the present). So to free yourself; crash back to earth and deal with the resentment of your own peace head on, thing is, once we stop licking our our wounds and stop revisting the pain from the past, the feeling of tranquility and calm will set in.
Evaluate yourself, do you like who you’ve become, that the never ending emotional distraught has brought you to this place…and if the answer is NO then its time to dispel all negative misconceptions that has mucked up your existence, almost like taking off a Bandaid – one motion – and thats OFF! , so pretty much in the same regard, set yourself free and LIVE!
Happy Sunday 🙂
Sorry Adam, but had to stop someone from crossing his limits.
i actually had a similar experience…where they was this ‘connection’…but it was a toxic one..i had to undergo extensive psychic healing and therapy to cut that empathic bond..a specialist told me that after 7 years…new soul energies manifest within each individual and they dont tend to be soulmates ne more…process is called rebirth..interesting stuff..
Extensive physic healing and therapy???? Elaborate on that process for me please.
Rebirth is truly essential for spiritual growth..old patterns that are no longer useful are let go and you emerge as a new person. It is painful, tragic, uplifting and empowering all at once…Old bonds are broken to make way for the new..It is for the better my friend..The cycle must begin for there us no delaying or postponing it. ..what has to happen will happen..Always remember, nothing lasts forever..Find true beauty in the transience of life and you’l learn to live life forever..
Bye bye my friend.
Don’t worry. Time heals everything. I promise.
I beg to differ….if it does, why is it that the longer time passes, is the more it hurts? I know why, Its because one keeps picking on the wounds.
You know what heals everything, peace….peace with the past so it doesnt spoil your present, all time really does is that it replace memories, you never really get over it, but you do get to the point where it doesnt bother you so much anymore.
Once you start creating new memories, you know you’re getting to that point. I Promise.
Me, scared to and extent – yes, but I do hope I’ll be able to get beyond that, I find it especially hard to trust again but I hope come 2016, I’ll be able to let my guards down and allow a potential life partner I’ve been observing for some time now (then again thats if he wants to take to that next level), the opportunity of restoring my faith in that regard…and I pray he wouldn’t disappoint or let me down, but ever remain loyal, honest and faithful, then without a doubt, I do see myself sharing the rest of my life with him….already I’m deeply inlove with him and it scares me because I DO fear getting my heart ripped….a relationship with love and loyality, I’ll take that….(wow cant believe I actually said all that out loud*deep-breath-deep*)
I’m 52 years old I’m a Pisces. I’ve been having an affair with a Cancer man, who’s 36 years old. We are both married, and of course not happy at home. I know I should feel guilty, but my husband shows me no love, and we’ve been married for 26 yrs. This affair lasted almost 5 years. He was our handy man, and working at the house. He was here for 3 months. During that time I became attracted to him. When he finished the job, I couldn’t bare seeing him leave. His last day, we drank wine, and I made a pass at him. I tripped over the rug and fell into his arms. We kissed. That’s when it started.
During these 4 years I tried to break it off, because he said from the beginning that we could not fall in love. I would try to break it off he would say “I’ll never find anyone like you, at least we have our memories”. He never listened and would keep calling, and I gave in because I really didn’t want to call it off.
Finally I found the words to say. I told him that Rick and I were happy. It was a lie because I love him. I knew it wouldn’t work because of the age difference. I broke it off in Feb., and he told me in April he was getting a divorce. Then in May he started seeing someone and moved right in with her. Tell me what’s going on here, I also need to know how I can get over him. I don’t think he can afford to live alone, and she does have a good job. I don’t know if he’s in love with her or not, or she with him.
Im a Pisces girl and have been wit my Cancer man for about 5 years. It has been a very turbulent relationship from the start. Both of us are very insecure, possesive, stubborn and have big mouths when in heated arguements. We have both cheated in the past due insecurity and it is a constant subject of our arguements . But nothing has ever kept us apart for long. I am his first love. And he is my ideal everything I need in a man. Alpha male aggressive in control. He is 6ft2 im 5ft tiny. That my femininity and innocence with a firey feisty attitude (aries moon) is what attrated him . I feel like he knows me better than I do. The sex is out of this world and has been from day one. We blew each other away the first time we slept together. It was more than sex it was one of the most amazing experiences of my life, and I was a promiscuous Pisces girl before I met him so that says a lot. after 5 years is still as passionate as ever. We are both massively attracted to one another he is the love of my life. Makes me feel protected, beautiful and very loved. We argue constantly but always because we both want to reassure and be reassured we are still loved by one another always. He is my soul mate and I am his. We have broken up numerous times over the year’s. I am the one to walk away when I cant put up with his mood’s or sometimes overbearing love. He will not let it happen and gives me space then comes back to win me over again. It keeps us fresh I think. Thank god he’s persistant and patient and understands how sensitive I am.. Im lucky to have him. Not too mention he is absolutely gorgeous, tall dark and strikingly hansome. Typical of the Cancer male appearence we hear so much about. I am a typical dramatic Pisces girl waiting to be swept off her feet and saved and he is my strong knight in shining armour Cancer man ready to do that a thousand time’s over to show me just how special and loved I am. I love you my babe x.
well there is this Pisces woman who is my neighbor and I am a Cancer man. one night we talked for a while and it was amazing how much we have in common, as far as life experience goes. one of the things she talked about really made me sad, because her experience reminds me of my own.
then she told me this is why she is not interested in starting a new relationship with anyone just yet, because she is afraid to get close to anyone, this mirrors my own problem.
well the next day we were hanging out with friends, and one of our mutual friends decides to invite this other guy over, I guess to hook her up, but she doesn’t really like him like that. so it kind of made it uncomfortable for me.
i also offered to get her something from the carry out since she cant really afford to splurge and she refused.
but yet she wants to do things for me which I would feel guilty about. she even folds my clothes.
however when im alone with her she is very shy or distant. and its not like I just want to get in her pants, but I want to really connect mentally, I just have not told her yet.
well, yesterday I was really kind of low, because I miss my family and they are far away, and she asked me if I was ok, and I said no, but she left instead of talking to me ( I would have told her why, but I guess she is not ready for anything too heavy)
so today I know this guy was probably over to visit and hang out with her and another friend of ours, and who knows what he tried to convince her to do, I know if he was too fast it would probably have upset her at this point, and I don’t want to see anyone just use her. and yes im a little jealous and don’t like the fact that this other friend is putting pressure on her like that, I kind of get the feeling it has to do with the fact that this other friend wanted me at one time, but I never went after it. so that’s a whole other dynamic.
everything she told me she values is the same thing I value. we even have almost the same life story, its weird, but im so afraid to admit how I feel since I know she needs time to mend from her last relationship.
today I didn’t even get to talk to her, she was in her place but I didn’t even knock, its too late anyway.
should I keep my distance?
should I just tell her?
she keeps dropping little hints about things that are obviously meant to draw my attention, but then acts completely the opposite. on the one hand subtly welcoming and on the other she acts as if im strange.
at this point im really not sure what to do.
Im an Pisces women talking to an Cancer man . We Never Actually Meet Eye To Eye Yet but on the phone it seems like the perfect couple . Me and him schedule dates with each other but its either he’s with his friend’s and doesn’t have time .Pisces women Cancer Man ,has to much Pride and if he sees that losing his friend to chill with the person he knows he like is getting in the way he’s going to have a lot of lie’s and excuses. an Pisces women like I doesn’t like excuses and lie’s but only for you to keep it 100% with her so she doesn’t waste her time focus on something that’s just full of excuse’s Cancer man are Known for being strong and if staying with there cool friend’s is being strong their going to stick with it . well Ive stop calling him and decided we just should remain as friend’s But now he doesn’t want to be friend’s he cant resist being that with me NOW HE WANTS TO SCEDULE DATES. Should I Talk Back With Him Or Just Stick To The Friends. I Believe Sometimes You Don’t Know What You Got Until You Lose It.