Libra Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

This cerebral pair actually exists in an ivory tower of their own creation.  Each likes to keep reality other people’s problem and nature at arm’s length, preferring concepts and intimate objects to ponder.  Basically they have an intellectual approach to life, and they are sometimes accused of confusing talking about things with actually doing them.  It may be hard for other people to understand, but to each other, they are good companions.  They may be especially good at problem-solving because they leave the emotions out of the formula.  Neither of them takes things personally nor does either one procrastinate.  And both of these people manage to be smart without a great deal of psychological complexity.  The relationship is almost sterile in its avoidance of power issues.  Think of Dr. Spock and Dr. Spock having a cup of tea together.  What’s not to like?

How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Libra Man:

For heaven’s sake go up and talk to her.  You have the wit, charm, and social skills to sweep this fascinating lady off her feet.  She is bound to be surrounded by admirers because of her electrifying aura.  Things just are more exciting wherever she is, but she really loves one-on-one and you can hold your own in a conversation.  You are the cardinal sign, she is the fixed sign, so although she acts extremely independent and even arrogant, just know that you are in control.  Use your diplomatic skills to smooth out her rough edges and she will trot along behind you like a baby duck.  She sometimes gets herself a lot more exposure than she wants and will be secretly thrilled to have a protector.

How to Attract a Libra Man as an Aquarius Woman:

Well, to be blunt, you’re gonna’ have to make up his mind for him.  Set your will on getting this man and then sit back and let things take their course.  You, dear Aquarius woman, are the sign blessed with clairvoyance and the ability to creatively visualize whatever you want.  Program this guy into your holodeck and wait for him to manifest in your arms.  It’s a kind of mind control.  You know what I mean.  After all, who is more irresistible than the Aquarius woman?  This man is a safe bet for you because he will never feel threatened by all your friends.  He has as many as you do, probably more.

Degree of Romance:

Romance will tend to be intellectualized, as is everything else between these two.  The emphasis will be on telling the other person how you feel, or at least how you think you feel — if you know what I mean.  Each person is a careful listener and you can together build a reality out of words, an iron-clad reality of trust and companionship.  Libra will call it romantic.  Aquarius will tend to brush aside all things given this label,  but I think it’s even better than that.  They really do see the world through the same eyes.

Degree of Passion:

What’s that?  LOL.  Seriously, Aquarius gets passionate about causes — sometimes, but not really.  And Libra has no use for the contrivance at all.  If you ask him he will tell you that the world would be better off without passion — and he is half right.

Degree of Friendship:

These two are everybody’s best friend and each other’s best friend, too.  From the day they meet, they will be surrounded by a chorus of admirers and advice seekers, and their lives and houses will be filled to overflowing with friends, family, relatives, and friends waiting to happen.  These two know no strangers and as long as relations are kept at arm’s length, even a little bit polite or stilted, everything is just hunky-dory.  Both signs elevate friendship to an art.  They are really the friendship exemplars of the zodiac.

Degree of Marriage:

Each will find in the other something that they can’t find anywhere else.  The relationship can be solid as platinum.  Having found what they are looking for, neither is inclined to look further.  They are both idealists, but they will begin to idealize one another, after the fact.  It is the reverse of what usually happens.  Isn’t that marvelous?  It’s because of their mutual inclination to rationalize.  For example, each starts to think, Why would I be married to this person if they weren’t the most unusual, attractive, charming, and exceptional person in the world?  Oh!  Then that’s what they must be.

Progression of Relationship:

This is the kind of courtship that movies are mad about — trendy, hip, cool.  Think of any movie you’ve ever seen with Hugh grant in it.  Or Cary Grant for that matter.  You have two highly intelligent creatures mating with each other, which is a fascinating proposition.  Libra will provide the structure and accountability, where Aquarius will provide the surprises and excitement.  The chemistry between the two is bound to leap across the room, restaurant, or theater.  They will attract attention wherever they go.

Sex:

This is the most friendly sex in the zodiac.  This pair is so genuinely fond of each other that the lousy companions of jealousy, ego and lust are mercifully absent from their courtship.  There is a willingness to be fresh and “clean” in love-making.  Think about if you really did want to have sex with your best friend.  A lot of people say that, but these two people are really doing that.  It boggles the mind, doesn’t it?

When It’s Over:

It would be such a shame for this relationship to end.  If it does, it’s because each will detach from the other, keeping it friendly but living more and more in their own world.  They will never wish to harm one another or cause pain because they are best friends.

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