Cancer Woman and Pisces Man Compatibility
Pisces and Cancer make a beautiful combination. These are some of the most romantic couples we know. They are both water signs and connect through a feeling vibration, making words unnecessary. There is an unspoken bond that keeps them together through sorrow, pain, and ecstasy. One caveat: if gone bad, there can be drug problems due to the escapism they bring out in one another.
How to Attract a Cancer Woman as a Pisces Man:
It should be very easy to move into her magnetic force field. You’ve got everything it takes to win her with your sensitivity and psychic attunement. You will probably speak her favorite lines or appear at the door with her favorite accoutrement intuitively. Don’t overthink it. Pisces is pretty much able to read anybody and no one would welcome that more than a Cancer who will interpret it as intimacy and closeness.
How to Attract a Pisces Man as a Cancer Woman:
Cancer is a cardinal sign which means you’ve got natural leadership ability and the energy to launch a project. Should you decide that that Pisces man over there is the one for you, go into strategic mode and come up with a plan. Shy and feminine as you are, you always get what you want when you strategize. Some of the more welcome traits that you can exhibit are cooking, cleaning up his messes, straightening out the details of his life, making sure his clothes are pressed and ready to wear, and organizing his kitchen. He would be grateful for your help in any of his areas, and you can do it without being pushy.
Degree of Romance:
The degree of romance between these two is high. There is an over the top sensitivity to the niceties and subtleties of courtship. Both partners will enjoy an old fashioned wooing and may prolong the consummation. This gives them both time to enjoy every moment and express the sentiments in which they are each so interested. There will likely be many pledges of undying love and loyalty. An instinctive trust between the two leads to intimacy. Neither has much to hide from the other.
Degree of Passion:
If the Cancer woman wants passion, she can easily bring it out in the Pisces man, a shape shifter willing to do anything to please his partner. Chances are that she’s more interested in cooking and fussing over him at home, though, and prefers the kitchen to the bedroom.
Degree of Friendship:
This is a very kind, patient combination. They would be inclined to help each other even many years after a breakup. This is not out of loyalty but because of the bond that is created. Their caring for one another is instinctual.
Degree of Marriage:
This is a good possibility for marriage provided neither one is drug or alcohol dependent. Both want to be soothed and have a peaceful home life. Cancer will either make a lot of money to pay for a nice house or opt out of a career altogether. Once they settled down, money management and accomplishing tasks that they’ve promised to one another will be major issues.
Progression of Relationship:
There is one thing to be careful of with Cancer women. If you date them twice, they expect you to marry them. There is nothing Pisces can do about this tendency but to be as honest as possible about his intentions. The conundrum here is that most Pisces men are not emotionally monogamous. Because of this dynamic the relationship will probably move along in an uneven fashion. Cancer will push the expectation of marriage while Pisces tries to slow it down and keep things in the moment. An eventual collision is clear from the beginning. If the relationship survives that initial crisis, it is likely to be very strong.
Sex:
Sex between these two is like making beautiful music together. There is an instinctive knowing of how to please one another and an equal understanding that sex is much, much more than a physical act. These two are likely to stage their sexual intimacy in a beautiful, romantic setting and savor foreplay as much as consummation. This is a couple inclined to snuggle for a long time afterwards.
When It’s Over:
It is so sad when this relationship ends. Neither sign ever wants anything to be over. Pisces can just disappear one day, but it is better if Cancer comes to her senses and draws a line. She is a decision maker, he the procrastinator. After they part, each will be left with beautiful memories. He swims away with the tide, but she’ll yearn for his return.
Our Rating: 5/10
Pisces always have baggage and are usually “one relationship behind”, still pining over some “lost love” when they meet their next great love. It’s still a good combination. You can be sincere and understanding.
Hi, I’m a cancer woman (2nd Decan Scorpio / ascendent in Taurus) and was in a relationship with a pisces man (1st Decan) for about 2 months and our connection was just unbelievable – nothing less than described here. Unfortunatelly, we just broke-up on Monday 11/01 as he said he needs space to put his life in order (He is going through a very hard time in his personal life, divorce + business didn’t work out) – He has being extremely emotional and I guess a bit depressed as well. He said likes me too much to make me go with him through all this mess in his life. He didn’t want to say goodbye for good, he said he wants to keep in touch as friends and meet up to talkwhen our emotions are not so all over the place. I said him not to worry – I understand his needs and will respect his decision. I said him to take his time and sort out himself and that it is always good to talk as friends. I said, Thank you and he appreciates it.
Although, I am more than willing to give him time away my heart aches so much and I have been rethinking all our moments together and trying to see where I was wrong – I know I had 2 or 3 ‘stupid’ breakdowns during our time together and now it is consuming me…
Do you think he will come back to me for good?
Yes, I do think he’ll come back. Meantime, make up your mind to treat him better.
Do most of all Cancer women reminisce & wait for a Pisces man after a painful(emotional) break-up? If so, do you know what the percentile would be?
Thank you much appreciated.
further info:
Me(Pisces male)
Fiancée(Cancer female)
@Keoni
About 100% I think!
Pisces man asked me (Cancer woman) out, I panicked, but did go out with him had a wonderful time, great connection on all fronts, but now he is silent, should I give him time or move on?
I am a pisces male, and have been in a relationship with a pisces female for a couple of years, My partner has two cancer friends who are women and there is just this imense powerful attraction that pulls me towards them, I just allways want to be with and around either one of them! is this normal and what does it mean?
The feeling is so hard to explain! is it fate/destiny if i ended up with one of them?
@Jm Beware the mesmerizing and hypnotic Piscean. Therefore, having said that … give him a REASONABLE amount of time and then move on.
@Dane It is the result of the water vibration and probably some past life connections as well.
i am a cancer female and was in a relationship with a pisces male for about 5 months. It was really wonderful but i was confused a little bit early on so i didnt give it my all and held back a little. My pisces told me that he needed some space to take care of himself but he still wanted me to be in his life. He did have some things to work out so i understood. Ive been a big part of his life still and hes been a large part of mine. My feelings grew this whole time we havent been together and im no longer confused but now he says he is and doesnt want to ruin things because he isnt ready to be back in any relationships. tomorrow marks the year mark of the time hes taken for myself. I dont know what to do because i cant see myself with any other person. Neither of us have dated other people in this time.
Well, Pisces male here!
I was in a 4 year relationship with a Crab female, and we had a bad break-up. She wanted to get married to me, but her dad didn’t like me at all. She also had this bad habit of trying to transform me into something that I wasn’t. Trying to change my religion around, move me closer to her parents, and stuff like that. These squabbles were really the only issues we faced as a couple, but evidently they were too much for her to deal with.
Anyway, she married this capricorn idiot on the rebound and ran 1200 miles away from her friends and family because of the capricorn’s job requirements. This is extremely bizarre given that she was super-close to her parents and family.
Anyway, while I don’t suspect that she loves me anymore, I am going to move on with my life. I was holding out hope that she would break off the marriage to this creep, but she went through with it. She barely knew the guy when she married him, as they were only together for less than a year.
What do you Crab women think about this situation?
I am talking to another crab now who I would classify as my girlfriend, but I hate dragging her into my mental-emotional problems over the last crab since my ex hurt me so badly with this rebound marriage.
@jj
@bella
Beware the mesmerizing and illusive Pisces! He won’t come back but he won’t let you go so you’ll have to do it yourself.
i am pisces yh and i knw 1 thing for fact. its so hard to make freinnship with cancer girls. i always tries to talk to some cancer girls i know and never work they just blank u completly.
dont know will i get a cancer girl or scorpio in ma life.
I am a cancer woman and 2 months ago a pisces man came into my work. We both felt and instant connection and he was the one to pursue me. I played it cool for a little bit, then we talked about how much we liked one another. He then ignored me for a week. He then told me at that this point in his life and career he does not have time to take the next step with anyone. I go on saying I was not asking for that just good company (but that would have been awesome too). Things were mended for a while. We had planned on a date recently and he stood me up and have not heard from him since. What was he thinking? I have no idea, I just know that I am completely hurt because of our strong connection. He was the best match for me that I have found yet, but obviously not ideal. I deleted his number but I am still looking for some closure. Can anyone help to explain why this happened?
@ Fishy
Oh boy oh boy. I knew it. I am a Cancer girl myself, just ended up a fling with a Pisces man, and also had a relationship with a Capricorn (in the past). I am sorry to tell you but you’ve dragged yourself into a HUGE mess. you basically pushed your girlfriend and pulled her and string her around until she couldn’t take it no more and ran away…with a Cap who was just waiting for her with his arms wide open.
U know what i think? i think you both can have the drama you’re so yearning for, IF you go after her. Do you still love her? Have you ever told her you loved her, straight into her face? Have you ever done anything impressive for her? Pisces men are so undecided and slippery that a Cancer woman, who is playful and sexually open will just not get the certainty of love and mutually shared feelings…and will step back. That’s what I did with my Pisces.
This is what i believe as a Cancer girl, with all my honesty. Pisces men are just too much to take because they are too flirtatious, too uncommitted, too playful…and it ends up hurting us. She went for a Cap which is the best choice for marriage, maybe this is what she had set in mind. I don’t want to get married for now, for example, but it’s because i am too young (23). maybe later..so i can’t say why the marriage choice, but i definitely understand the Cap one- he made it clear he wanted her and you hesitated. There you go.
If you’re interested in a Crabby girl then go for it, she’s a different person than your ex and you’d still have those wonderful traits that make us water signs connect so well-intuition, passion, sensitivity, jealousy, possessiveness…etc.
as a Cancer woman, I agree very much with all the statements above EXCEPT the one that states Cancer would be happier in the kitchen than a bedroom lol. I love to cook but my favorite activities are in but not limited to the bedroom =)
@Loindsay
I’m sorry that happened. The Fish are elusive. They just disappear. Have you stared at a fish tank recently? Whooooosh they’re gone!
I am a cancer woman married to a pisces man.I am 46 years,we never had a good relationship.Our characters are entirely different.he is lazy and jealous
he daily uses bad and wounding words 20 years i had lost everything
one of my very best friends. I had to leave the state for education and career purposes, but he was truly a great friend, and great sex. We worked hard and partied harder together.
His friends got tired of me being attached to his hip. LOL. I love football and basketball so I got first dibs on tix. My friends thought it strange the he and I would go clubbing; dancing with others without jealousy issues. We truly enjoyed each other’s company and were best friends
By the way I’m the Cancer and I left. He was the Pisces and chased, even traveled to convince me to come back. Independence dictated that I earn and shore up my own bank accounts, not just marry into money provided by some white knight.
Crabby Girl,
I am not certain as to why I should have any regrets given the latest developments in this rather bizarre chapter of my life.
As stated, one of the primary reasons I never asked her to marry me is because I was not willing to throw my religious identity into the trash. She pulled a “bait and switch” on me when we first started dating. She actually told me that a girl should consider the guy’s religion when they plan on getting married. Without ever attending any of the Catholic classes that my church had to offer, she then turned the tables on me by trying to get me to go to her Protestant church. Initially, I felt strange about this sudden change of behavior. It was also hard for me to get along with her in 2007 since I drove to her home on 2 separate holiday occasions to be with her. I drove into town for her birthday, and took her home to her parents for Thanksgiving. She gave me no holiday time with my own family that same year, and was rude and disrespectful to my family when my grandpa died that December.
2008 was topsy-turvy, as my friend was suffering from alcoholism and other emotional problems, so I was trying to help him get through his situation. If he had killed himself, I would have never forgiven myself for standing idly by as it happened. She got jealous of my attempts to spend time with my friend, and secretly started dating that controlling/manipulative VULTURE that she married.
Darn right, this capricorn is a VULTURE. A scavenger of human misery who preyed upon her emotional vulnerability like only a buzzard can. The worthless bastard is a pathological liar, controller, manipulator and tyrant who has scared her mother nearly to death with his behavior.
No, I am not making this up. He literally took advantage of her mental-emotional instability and has a psychological control over her that is comparable to Stalin’s over the Russian people. He has isolated her some 1200 miles away from her friends and family, and they live in one of the most dangerous cities in the USA.
I will grant you that it’s difficult to stop loving a human being, but what pisses me off is that she was so darn obstinate with me, yet a total pushover with this darn tyrant.
How can a person be happy in a marriage if they must destroy their families in the process?
A family, mind you, that is worried about her falling prey to a dangerous man.
If anything, she should have postponed her knee-jerk reaction marriage and thought things through as her mother asked her to.
Instead, she lashed out at everyone in her entire family and practically ran down the aisle with a pair of cross-country shoes on.
Can anyone here tell me how this type of person would have been psychologically healthy for me to get married to?
Nancy,
Why are you holding an Orwellian attitude toward my posts?
What on earth do you mean by that?
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I was in a very interesting relationship with a Pisces man. I was coming out of a marriage and he apparently liked me for a long time. We started hanging out more. We kisses and mainly cuddled. I felt lots of pressure from him in the first month to meet my kids and their dad, whom I am good friends with. I was not against that, but I needed adequate time to get to know him just the two of us. He was so wishy washy that it was hard for me to even figure out when would be a good time for him to meet the family (me and my kids dad are very successful co-parents). Pisces man never minded that and even encouraged our friendship. Once he saw that he would have to wait and just be patient while I get to know him, he started backing off. This after he told me he was in love with me and that he would be patient and wait for me, he was not in a rush to go anywhere. But then in an instant, he would tell me he needed us to only be friends and nothing else. It was so weird because his body language was so telling of his deep feeling for me. But he also talked himself into thinking that he wasnt good enough for me and then jumped into another relationship with another girl. This was the strangest, and one of the most painful relationship encounters I even experienced. They say that pisces and cancers are a great match, but I keep hearing stories similar to mine and now I wonder if it is even worth it if the cancer lady inevitably gets left with the pieces of her own heart to pick up and just memories of a seemingly perfect guy who swam away just a quickly as he came.
i just got out of a 2 yr relationship with a gemini/cancer cusp and have a 1yr old with him….
one of his good friends is a pisces and me and him have a strong connection, he has always told me he doesnt like me many times but his body lanuage says different when we’re around each other…he has asked me to stop talking to him eventhough we used to have hour long conversations. And my ex has told him that he loves me and always will…
could it be that he doesnt want to talk to me because he’s a loyal friend?? the thing is i love talkin to him he told me that i can thandle bein his friend cuz i start thinking that he likes me. I miss him so so so much and i need to just move on but its so hard…
i think that this pairing of cancer woman and pisces man is a lot higher than a 5 out of 10, maybe you should change it. everywhere else ive seen has rated this pair much higher than you have.and im experiencing this relationship myself and its definetly higher than a 5
My bf said that our relationship is ideal we share a soulmate bond on many levels. Hed cradles me publicly shower me with affection & emotion and I support and guide his direction. Love between us makes evryone look! I think its 9 out of 10 close to the 10
The love is very outstanding satisfy and soul-mate
Evryone’s personal experience is different.
I am something short of a nervous breakdown since my Cancer ex and I split up and she got married to a Capricorn on the rebound.
Her mother has indicated that he is a real jerk to her, but there is nothing I can really do here.
Why did she do this!?
Argh!!!!
Thanks for listening, Nancy.
Sorry about what I said earlier!
I noticed your forum replyes on many website sources. Maybe you didnt love her enough? or was too uncommitted?
I’m in love with a Pisces man for the first time in my life – I’m almost 40. The connection is so strong and so natural, and yet, he comes and goes so quickly that I’m often left swinging in the wind until he decides to come back. It causes me so much anxiety and frustration when he leaves me hanging…is it really worth it?
i really love a pisces man. he dint like me nor love me..all he did was fooling me around tht one day he would love me!!
we had all our best time’s as well as th most bad time’s!
he used to abuse me nd let me down!!
nd asked me to go away from his life!!
but i alway’s cared for him nd loved him..inspite of he telling tht way..just hoping tht he’ll come back one day!!
but finally he say’s he found some one for himself..nd asked me go away completely out of his life. he also told..he would not think or even come back to me in th near future..th fact is i love him more than i could..i do even today..will he comeback to me?? cos i really loved him.nd he’s my life..
im worth only him…thr’s not a single day..wer i dint thnk about him. i would wish to lay my future in his hand’s!!
i would all so wish him to come back..with love nd not with force!!
he’s my first man nd he’s most precious to me!!
please help me out!!
i dont mind waiting for him for life time!!
help me out..
Mr Fish
You probably didnt show her how much you loved her, did you try to talk her out of marrying that cappy man? did you tell that you LOVE her? did you discuss the religion thing with her?
its very unlikely that she would leave you knowing that you love her as much as you do
I’m a Cancer and I met a Pisces guy: It was instant chemistry, nothing like it before!
I get what you are saying: he was like a little boy lost…Had this side to him that only I ever got to see, he was incredibly romantic, affectionate and emotional and I adored that about him. I wanted to take care of him and fix all his problems. I wanted to see inside his mind.
Our relationship was great, but he had one big problem: commitment. He’d leave me hanging and be flirting with other girls constantly though he insisted I was the only one for him…IDK, like a lot of water signs I just get very jealous because I KNOW there are much prettier girls out there than me, and I always thought he would leave me for one of them.
Pisces can be incredbily loyal, but some of them are slippery and never want to commit because they ‘have too much love to give’…They can’t understand the bond that say, a Cancer or Scorpio has they want to be your one and only.
I guess I just picked one who wasn’t right for me =/
canbe a match made in heaven on earth
perfect union soulmate if a man makes a move and woman does her role in shielding directig.
perfect if a man makes a move and woman does her role in shielding directig.
Nancy are you in a relatiosnhip with a scorpion man? Marrried to one? For one thing Im sure Pisces women and men r very different !
NO.
I am a Cancer woman…who just ended a 5+ year relationship with a Pisces. Loyalty was never a question and neither was the genuine Love we shared. Over time, our SEXUAL connection and the passion just wasn’t there anymore. Partly lost on MY part because it was hard to see him as a reliable partner for the future. Getting him to make a decision was like pulling teeth!!! I have to agree…once we settled in the relationship, money management and reaching goals became a huge issue!!! As a Cancer woman, we have to feel confident and trust our partner or back in the shell we go!!!
One statement that gave me a revelation “Cancer would be happier in the kitchen than a bedroom” toward the end of our relationship this was TOTALLY TRUE!!!
He wants to reconcile….but I can’t trust his slippery ways!! Is it really possible for a Pisces to change??? Can they become assertive and realize the difference between a DREAM and REALITY??
Any thoughts???
Nancy,
I just wanted to bring a little hope to those who wonder about a Pisces Man (Me) and a Cancer Woman. I have been patiently waiting for who I would’ve called the true “Love Of My Life”… She has had some things that she was dealing with from a past relationship as well as her parents who were leary of their daughter being hurt again.
We from the very first day that we met were drawn to each other and for me I could sense that this woman above any other I have been with could love me in all the ways I needed. Things have never been easy thru the past 7 months except for one huge thing. It has always been easy to love each other.
So, some of you may be wondering… what has happened and where is the relationship going? Well, I am proud to say that thru all of the hard moments and deep conversations, we are just as in love and feel our love grow more and more each day.
For those of you wondering how we have kept things so close and loving… Well, the most important thing has been our communication. Even when things were the hardest, we always communicated what we were feeling. I have always wanted to understand her and she has tried to do the same.
I can honestly say without any doubt, this woman is “Perfect” for me… So, I will just leave everyone with this one thought… I have the same birthdate as Johnny Cash and she has the same as June… Amazingly, we are alot alike as couples.
I wish everyone the happiness they deserve and hope you all find your own special someone.
And to you Nancy, Thank You for giving us a look at what we had to look forward to. Because it was at lunch one day where we looked at our compatibility print out from this site and began to laugh and get excited about our future together.
Im a Cancer woman and when I was 13 I was in a relationship with a Pisces man. We were kids soooo in love. But our relationship ended when I moved away to Florida with my parents. He was so heartbroken, he wanted us to run away together, but I couldnt. He started dating other females, playing the hell out of them, only wanting sex. When I came back to NEWYORK for Christmas the same year that I moved, he didn’t want to be with me because he says “he didn’t want to hurt me” since he, at the time, was talking to SEVERAL girls. So years passed by…. we were in and out of contact…. he joined the Army, got married, no kids…. Now im living at his mothers house, hes in the process of getting a divorce, and we’re going to be together again, Finally! Our love has never died. Over the years we’ve both been with other people but we were always still in love with eachother, which is why our relationships with other people never worked out.
Since we were kids, im the ONLY female that his mother ever liked, mind you, he’s 25 and I am 24 now <3
hiya. Im a cancer female, and i love this picses man to bits. He gets really happy to c me. I havnt told him anything, nd neither has he. I love him so much, and it seems like theres a bond between us and i cant move on. How can i get to know that he loves me. I dont want to say anything to him. Hes a friend of a friend.
Nancy…. Is it really possible for a Pisces to change??? Can they become assertive and realize the difference between a DREAM and REALITY??
Communication with Picses man is SOOOO difficult!! They are almost, just as sensitive as we are!! My Picses man had more mood swings than I did. I belive he feed off my emotions at times…if I was angry…he was angry…happy…he was happy….sad…he was sad. I’m sure it would be easier with a partner that lift’s you and brings out the best instead of going with the flow.
I’m a Cancer female. My husband of 2 years is a Pisces. From day one, we had a strong connection. We love and trust each other imensely and have a great time just being together. Words aren’t always necessary, although I do melt when he is expressive. (He’s affectionate, hard working, and treats me like a queen, but he’s not the most expressive guy when it comes to flowery words! lol)
At first, I thought he might be too passive for me, but something kept pulling me in. With time, I came to see that he is NOT passive; he just considers the feelings of others. He speaks up when he has to (and boy does he!) and he’s very responsible. Basically, he gets the job done and he’s just the best husband ever. So perceptive and GOOD. Funny. Caring. Understanding. Handsome too!
The first day we met he asked me, “Where have you been all of my life?” I felt the same way.
Great combo!!
@Moon Goddess You sure nailed the downside, girl!
@Smokie It sounds like you bring out the very best in one another. Good luck and stay happy!
I love my Cancer girlfriend. Her Moon sign is Scorpion. I’m Pisces Sun and my moon sign is Cancer…
Water sign should stick together, right? ^^
I’m a Cancer female and dated a Pisces male for a year. At the very beginning this man mesmorized me…I felt instantly attracted to him like no other before. However, I did get the notion that he would be hard to hold on to. It gave me a nervous feeling in the pit of my stomach and I couldn’t decide whether it was because I liked him so much or I’d discover he was a commitmentphobe. Well, after a great year together, in which he so fervently displayed his affection, communication, etc. I found him on the dating website Plenty of Fish (how’s that for irony)? We all know that Cancer females can’t handle that kind of thing, we demand true and honest and above all, loyal mates. So, it ended. But, like someone posted earlier…I long for his return. I don’t think I’ll feel the magic that I felt with him with anyone else. I would have done anything for him. Also, I think since he’s a follower, two of his friends were major players and they kept whispering in his ear about not settling down. When I hugged him goodbye I just felt we both were making a major mistake, but only he can be the one to make the decision to come back and stay. I don’t think there is a 100% compatibility with anyone but certainly, there are certain signs that do relate better to each other. I know for sure, after testing the waters with the incompatible signs of Gemini, Aquarius and Aries that the compatibility charts are right on. Horrible results with those men! Anyway, peace to all and may everyone find the love they so deserve!!
I’m a Cancer woman who was with one of those drug dependent Pisces for 3 years. It was a physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive relationship. I definitely played the enabler. Very codependent relationship. It was weird- We were like the best of friends joined at the hip, but the worst of enemies who would say the foulest things to each other. Luckily, I got out of that relationship and its vicious cycle, but even 6 years later I regret spending so much time on someone so emotional and unable to cope with the realities of life. Now that I’m an adult, I want a relationship with someone who makes me laugh, someone I can travel and see the world with. A friend. Passion and romance can end in flames. If you’re a Cancer, be cautious of a Pisces male. Two emotional people don’t work- There needs to be a solid part of the equation. Taurus is good. Capricorn is a good match once he has reached his career goals. Leo could be perfect. Gemini: good friends, bad relationship.
Oh and from my experiences, Pisces men have trouble being faithful. FROM MY EXPERIENCE, they are followers. They are easily influenced. If they’re friends are sleeping around with skanks, then they’ll do it too. I dated a few Pisces after that first relationship, and it was always the same: very fast, instant love connection. Want to spend every moment together. And then the fighting begins. And there’s issues with honesty on their end.
Im a cancer woman scorpio decane leo rising excellent match with pisces and can be better with scorpio
Im a cancer woman scorpio decante leo rising excellent match with pisces and better with scorpio…
Pisces Man here, and I have read all of the posts to date regarding the Pisces male with a Cancer female. And I am interested in knowing your opinions on how to have a successful relationship with a Cancer woman. I am interested in one currently and would like to know how to proceed. I have never dated a Cancer and it seems a shame after reading some the posts about the wonderful connection between these two signs. The various signs that I have dated have left a lot to be desired. Either there is a strong sexual connection or a strong friendship type of connection. I have never had both. I feel that this is something that I really need and was hoping to find it by dating a fellow water sign. As you may know there is trouble with the Scorpio – Pisces relationship so that leaves Cancer. The woman I have met seems AWESOME!! She fits several of the things I am looking for but I don’t want to make the same mistakes so many other man-fishes have made in your stories. Please help me NOT make these same mistakes…
Hi Dustin,
I’m a cancer woman and to answer your question, just be yourself. A cancer woman can always tell on a subconscious level as to whether or not someone is playing games or being genuine. Listen to her and dont judge her. Fuel her imagination with lots of sexual/sensual inuendos… connect with her on a spiritual level. Be kind and smile a lot as she is quickly receptive to those around her. Your smile will make her smile. Be reliable… say what you mean and mean what you say. Be careful though, sometimes cancer women can be EXTREMELY moody and during these times its best to be supportive and let her be rather than poke at her… although very loving, she is very feisty and tough when need be… she has no problems sticking up for herself and defending those she loves. Sexually, she will satisfy you in ways you never thought imaginable…. stuff you dream of…. and she is very loyal to who she lets in her heart. Hope this helps. If any more questions, do ask.
So I am a cancer woman and I have been dating a pisces man on and off for a little over two years! I must admit we have had a rocky relationship but I love him soo much! Crazy thing is i knew he was something special when i first layed eyes on him and he was not even my type! But 4 years later we were together! It’s so on and off with us! One day we could be the best of friends and the next he gets upset and dissapears for awhile. It’s crazy because he pisses me off just as well as I do him and don’t get me wrong I do be wanting to just walk away from him but I never do! I love him to much to leave. Whenever we break up it’s his call and whenever we get back together it’s his call! He don’t express hisself at all!! I’m always telling him how much I love him and miss him but when I ask do he miss me sometimes he say yes or he’ll say no or say he don’t feel like talking bout it! We both have been hurting each other with all the silly games we play and lies we tell to each other but now I’m ready to stop playing! I don’t want to lose him! I want to be with him forever but I’m scared to keep telling him! As a cancer woman I already love hard but he’s the only man I can’t see myself living without! It’s like he’s my drug that I can’t be without! No man has ever had me like this before! He can be really nice, sweet and romantic at times and then theres times where he really hurt me and acts as if he could care less! But I always tell myself if he didn’t care he wouldn’t keep coming back! Right?
Hi Keisha, he keeps leaving and coming back because he knows you will put up with it. Try not letting him back… be serious… you’ll see how quickly he changes his tune.
Thanks Tania ! Maybe your right! He has seem to get really comfortable with knowing that I’m always going to be there. Back in my mind I kind of figured that’s what I should do but I don’t know I guess I was so afraid that he wouldn’t come back but I’m worth more than just him coming back and forth whenever its suitable for him. Thank you for the advice
Keisha, take it from me, Ive been in your shoes. It wasnt until i distanced myself from him that he tried stepping up to the plate… it wasnt until I hurt him that he truly realized what he lost. Your relationship will never change unless something changes. Best of luck… beleive me I know how hard it is, but you really have no other choice, unless you are comfortable with where you are at now, which obviously you are not or else you wouldnt be writing this post. Be strong… distance yourself, do things to make you happy and dont let him be a factor in any of the decisions you make. See how he feels.
I’m a Pisces Woman (Lesbian) and I long to be with a Cancer Woman. I have read up on Cancer women excessively and they sound like the perfect mate. For some weird reason, I long to be with a Cancer woman, someone that understands me, is there for me and a fem. woman I can connect with on so many different levels. I hope I meet her some day
I am pisces man. I went through all the post. I saw that some posts mentioned that piscean men are follower. That is completely wrong. This behaviour is only because we think that other person might feel bad, that we agree to do the same but not always. Most piscean man know when to come out of dream world and when they do, there is no one who can lead them or stop them.
sooooooooo sweet photo …………. guess u are same as photo 😉
i know im a taurus but george washington and chuck norris are pisces and my bf is a pisces too so this guy is right
im soo sad my bf can do sooo much better than me =(
@moon goddess
I am in a relationship with a Pisces man and trust me, it was not easy in the beginning. A lot of ups and downs. I started reading a bit about pisces men and saw that my man was indeed going through some of the same stuff. But in the end I’m so glad that I waited for him. Wasn’t easy that’s for sure.
It’s very possible for a pisces man to be assertive and aggressive. From what I know these can be the best partners. Pisces is the last sign of the zodiac, so it has all of the qualities of the signs that come before it. The problem with the pisces (man in this case) is that not all of these qualities will present themselves at once (they like to keep them hidden), it’s gradual. That’s why many pisces men start to come into their own after the age of 30. It’s a progression. All they need is a little time. If a (cancer) woman is patient enough (and we sometimes don’t have much of it which is our downside) and supportive enough to give him this time, they will be rewarded with the best partner/husband. If you come across a pisces man who is aware of this, try not to let go so quickly. And if someone says that pisces lie, don’t put too much emphasis on it. From my experience, a pisces will tell a lie here and there, but 95% of the time it’s about something small. Pisces are very loyal, so if they start talking about big things (marrige, their career, children) BELIEVE THEM! Being honest is part of their loyalty.
I hope this helps. The biggest thing is to be patient. I think it’s true that pisces are the “good people” and the “givers” of the zodiac. They can be dreamy and laid back at times, but when the start to swim upstream take notice because it’s usually the last segment in their “evolution” ; )
I am a piscean male too and luckily i love a cancer girl.
I absolutely agree with #19 by pisces man on February 12th, 2011 ,
Ladies, beware of the Pisces men saying what you are saying is not true. You know EXACTLY what you are going through. You have seen them in Follow mode for months maybe years. Most Pisces men will listen and follow what friends and family say before you. They will do all those wonderful things you want and yet in a blink of an eye go follow dumb behind friends and family even against their own instincts. They are mostly confused, the fish wants to go upstream and downstream too. I’ve been in the car and watch at the frustration in knowing which direction to take. Time after time. And the deception is ridiculous. Ladies the phrase, you can do bad all by yourself, was written for these looney tunes. Sure you love him, but you have to love yourself more. Move on, there are 11 other zodiac signs out there…give them a chance… don’t wait for the wandering Pisces to come back. Move on, and move on quickly before he does return. Every person comes with their set of issues, but this last house of the zodiac has piles and piles of them….and will not reveal them to you….don’t let the two guys who posted fool you, they may be exceptions to the rule, because exceptions do exist….or they may not be able to admit who they are. Just MOVE ON…it can be very rewarding. Truly.
I have been dealing on and off with a pisces man for about 8 years. For me the first night we got together, I thought I would be with him for the rest of my life. And have thought that Very thought about a million times after. We are really good 2gether. Then something happens and we don’t speak for months or even a year. It only takes for us to have one conversation and I’m back in love. I wish that he would realize that it is not another person on this EARTH better for him, outside of me. Being that more than likely he won’t realize it, I’m done with him. I’m tired of not meeting men, because he might love me.
wow. you really nailed the end of the relationship and the progression of it.
This site has helped me understand a lot about pisces/cancer relationships… All in all I just think being with a pisces man is really difficult. You have to be emotionally strong with a great self esteem to even be in it and staying in it is a whole other story… Its been almost a year now seens I ended things with my pisces but there’s not a day that goes by I don’t wish things were otherwise. And though I’ve moved on and met great people,I secretly long for the day he returns..
Recently an old high school crush I hadn’t seen for 10 years contacted me through a social network. I’m currently in a relationship (of 3 years) with a Taurus guy which hasn’t been going so well, we both agree there’s a lot of love there, but no spark left. He will be moving across country for his career in the coming months and I plan on staying where I am to finish school. The crush, a Pisces, gives me butterflies and there is an incredible connection, like no other I’ve felt. We both live back in our hometown but have not met up since I am in a relationship. Strictly platonic phone and e-mail conversations so far, but I can’t stop thinking about the guy! He has made it clear he is interested in pursuing something with me if/when I become single. Reading this article and comments have given me some insight as to what a relationship might be like with him, sounds like I’ll need to move slowly and cautiously with this one. Need to protect my fragile Cancerian heart first! I’m not one to jump from one relationship to another but I’m not one to completely say no to what may be a good thing either. Thanks for the advice all!
To all Pisces men… Honestly I dont believe in these charts very well from my experience.. I am a Pisces male happily married with an Aquarius woman for 15 yrs and have 5 beautiful children. My two previous relationships were Cancer/Scorpio women.. I would say Cancer woman are beutiful people but us too is too emotional, sensitive and drama.. Scorpios well watch out they wont let you go and super jealous women. I honestly believe that too many people follow a crowd just because someone reads a prediction. I would say always go with someone who lacks what you have and vise versa cuz you learn from each other! It,all depends on you! Same for cancers you need someone emotionally strong and umpredictable so you can learn from each other.. Remember a relationship you lay yourlife down for each other and learn from one another now thats true Love… I am in love with my Aqua and wont change her for anyone! Yes it was quite challenging and never boring but I love it! Good Luck everyone! Nothing aqainst all signs but these charts are really not All true like they say.. God can do better.
Also to All Cancer women you will get hurt with a Pisces male too emotional and drama relationship… It just happened to a dear friend of ours.. But we have two other couples of ours who one othem is Cancer/Aquarius and Pisces/Aquarius happily married! They both had to make adjustments but learned from each other. They complement each other very well.. And by the way these other signs are not cold hearted like they say at all!
I am a Cancer female who was also involved wih a pisces man. I actually met this man on “Plentyofish”..a dating website. I was immediately interested with this man because of the caption he had listed on his web page which stated, he had everything but noone to share it with. I begin to communicate with this man, he was a offshore oilman…he and I became very close via the phone…after a year of long distance phone conversations…this gentleman decided to come and see me, the attraction and chemistry was unbelievable, we became even closer than we were…well I wish I could continue on with a wonderful story but, I can’t…I discovered this man lived a “double life”…he told me he had no children, which I fould out he actually had (2)…he was a liar…I mean he was dangerous, he’s a habitual weed smoker…he eventually lost his job, he worked off and on when he could pass a drug test…I then found out…he constantly surf’s the online dating websites looking for other women to live with, his caption reads….” He ready to settle down”…He used me for money, he convinced me to help him rent a car in which he stole the car and drove it to another city…I was left with the charges, Please beware of this man…he goes by the name of “Tony Bass” He is “Dangerous”: He is currently on “Plentyofish” website and Blackpeople meet…..He is a liar and a cheater..I don’t long for this man’s return, I’m actually “Afraid”!
Im understand and kno suggesting u all on checking ur own birthchart and decans u were born in. it matters connectiion. I foundout this website which helped me heaps in friendships and relationships get alongs. http://www.astrology.com.au & good luck!!!!
I am on the Cancer/Leo cusp, and I am currently seeing a Pisces man. Since he emobides all of the zodiac signs and I’m on a fire/water cusp, I have a feeling things could get wild! I will say that I have never been treated so special and precious. He makes me amazing dinners, is an amazing (!!!) lover, constantly tells me I’m beautiful and is generally very sweet. However, I can see the negative aspects of Pisces in him. He is still very close with his exes, and has a lot of lady friends that he sees frequently. This worries me, as it said above that Pisces are not always “emotionally monogamous.” He did admit that he is a sucker for beautiful women. This is a whirlwind romance, but I’m not sure how long-lasting it will be. As a Cancer/Leo, I’m not certain if this is bound to work out, but it’s amazing in the meantime.
jOHNNY CA$H AND JUNE CARTER CA$H ARE A PISCES MALE CANCER WOMAN COUPLE
hi nancy, would you please explain the downsides of a cancer/pisces relationship fully? because you seem to consider pisces/scorpio highly compatible, and yet they are all water signs and so have some similar characteristics- what do you consider the difference between the dynamics of cancer/pisces and scorpio/pisces? (as an aside, wouldn’t pisces monogamy issues anger the scorpio? or is the connection so great pisces doesn’t feel the need to look for more?)
also, other sites seem to consider cancer/pisces highly compatible, which i disagree with, and i was wondering why you do as well. 🙂
she is cancer. i am pisces. i like her and i told her about my feelings for her. she told me that she is not interested in dating or seeing anybody. what do i do to get her.
To #36 This is the plain honest truth… If you do a deep study on personalities the only reason why they say they are compatible with each other is really bcuz they only do a surface study.. But every single person I know including my self are with our incompatible signs and are truly in Love! Does that mean we didnt have issues? Absolutely Not! But that mystery that lies behind being attracted to the opposite of you is really because that other persona has what you lack and vice versa…. I used to believe in these reports or try to find that ” compatible ” Sign and for some reason I could never fall in love with that one… One day I just stopped looking at these sites as my source and soon a beautiful Lady came into my life and swept me off my feet and guess what?? My incompatible sign apparently (Aquarius)… But ever since then we have been together then! Happily married and passionate sex! And she is the most amazing woman I have ever met in my life! She is affectionate, loving, romantic, not glingy which I like my space as well and the Most amazing sex ever experienced! Been married 15 yrs!…. What I am trying to say is reading these readings you wont find that perfect soulmate! Just let it be! & You could very well experience the same thing! It may Not be easy at first but it will be All worth it! Usually is that sign infront of you or behind you…. There has only beed a few sites that me and my wife can identify that is us! But the other signs is a bunch of nonsense! Good luck and dont stress looking for your compatible sign! Just go with the flow and who know like I said you may end up with your incompatible sign!
Sorry I meant to say the other sites is a bunch of nonsense….i apologize for my typo.
Also to # 38 Dont stress it! Maybe is Not meant to be… I suggest as well to stop searching for your compatible sign… And just find that Lady you connect off hand! And last thing if u happend to connect with your incompatible sign.. Dont sweat it! Use your differences as an opportunity to learn from each other and grow in your relationship!
Ugh… this is scary. I started dating a pisces man about a month ago and although things have been going well I feel the need to be cautious with him. I don’t know how committed he is and after reading some of these comments I feel like I should take a step back. He says we’re a step above friends with benefits but I do wonder if he is looking elsewhere or not emotionally committed to me the way I am to him. I don’t know what to do… in need of advice.
makes me proud to b a pices man !!!! lykd all d posts bt wud lyk add nt all pisceans r extravagant spenders………ur spending habbits r usually determined by ur upbringing …………..bt xcept dis everthng thng is rght !!!!! i was in a relation for 6 yrs she meant the world bt didnt wrk …………..n lately i met dis cancer gal who sweeps me off frm my feet……instant connection n very hapieee wid it !!!!
I’m a cancer girl and my first love was a sagitarius, we were together for 2 yrs and it was very emotionally draining for me, after being broken up for a few years I started dating a pisces and we got along great for a while, very compatible but I missed my ex so much that he was all I could think about so I dumped him and he still won’t talk to me to this day. Then I dated another pisces man and wow what a magnetizing connection! Great sex, great spiritual connection but he couldn’t stay faithful and I broke it off. He won’t leave me alone, he keeps coming back and asking to be with me again, from my experiences the attraction is AMAZING but they lie a lot and will look at other girls. I notice I am very attracted to scorpio men but I have yet to date one. I fantasize about being with a scorpio man. I miss my pisces 🙁 but I just don’t think he is going to change.
Pisces here.. I have a history with Gemini women, for some reason we are strangely attracted to them, but its a major clash. I long for a Cancerian woman, even when I was with the Gemini, I couldn’t stop thinking about what a relationship would be like with a Cancer woman. My heart and mind would never float away again if I were ever lucky enough to be with a Cancer woman
To Jax… I hate to say this man but all these reports are not what they seem.. I was in a relationship with cancer women 3 of them.. They are great women but not for me too predictable and too structured…. I know what you mean about Geminis… But Pieces are also drawn to Aquarian women there is something about these women! I have been with my wife for 15 yrs and its Perfect and amazing exactly what Pisces man needs. You just need to not stick or believe all these reports cuz you will go insane trying to find that cancer woman! Try something different! Good luck!
piscesinlove; http://www.astrology.com.au im a cancer woman; it this sounds like u didnt find the the right woman for you; it doesnt mean everyones personal experiences r same as yours; or different it; depends on ur birthcharts and;;;;especially risings; decans time & i know this as i have had and got connection explosion with right pisces; my the best bf was a pisces born on 9th march; he is a cancer decane im a scorpion; best connection ever;
im a cancer woman had got 2- pisces men & can tell you from 1-10th of march pisces r the best; have cancer element after got scorpio; cancers 1-12 july got scorpio later got pisces hope this helps especially to jx;;;;;soulmate
im happy for ur aquarious pair match but the better compatibilie one is still cancer/scorpio/pisces; in my opinion; goodluck to all of you and im in love with pisces;;;;;
yes sensitive; & emotional strong & loving;. truthfully with the right pisces guy born in those dates;;;;;not taking advantage with;
does he know tht you like him. i like a cancer lady and i think it’s about time to tell her. I just dnt want to mess up our friendship, especially if she doesn’t like me back. Type your comment here
does he know that you like him? I like a cancer lady and i think it’s about time let her know. i just don
‘t want to mess up our friendship, especially if she doesn’t like me.
This Relationship is a 10/10, as long as the Cancer girl gives “respect+care” to the Pisces child (LOL)
First of all, this is a very good forum.Secondly, my utmost request to all the lovely Cancerian women: Love us for who we are.
Cancerians are the finest and most feminine of all, and dream of every Pisces.And, destiny brings these together.
I am in love with 3 cancer girls at the moment(LOL) I haven’t told anyone(Cuz I dont know which one to tell).All are most girly and perfect for me.I am in 4th Yr, the girls are in 1st yr,2nd yr and 3rd yr(LOL).
Once I asked a pen from the 2nd yr girl and thence started our talks.She has a bf but always tells me “to propose her”.her intuition is superb,she knows what’s on my mind.
Problem with her:: She loves her family more than me, when she goes home,she becomes crabby and says like “dont call me, I want to spend time with my family and I am happy”.As soon as she returns from home,she calls me numerous times a day saying sorry,wishes me Good Morning Sir(now she began to call me “yaar”), msgs me love .
We even had a pseudo breakup when she confronted me on phone asking why I like her, and I (reflexively) backed off,got irritated and then told her “Ok , then, you love your bf and stay away,better for both of us”.I didnt talk to her,and 2 days later she wrote” kamal hai, meri yaad bhi nahi aati yaar?” “YOU DONT MISS ME? I MISS YOU DEAR LOVE” and, I called her,she laughed hysterically and was very happy and now we talk.
This is the most magnetic relationship.The moon would never be able to resist the call of the Mermaid,that music is really lonely, the moonlight would sparkle in the waters.Its a truth that Pisces is unstable and wishy washy,but now I think that this girl who “talks to me” is better than the other two much much prettier and richer and talented girls whom I have never talked to.And yes, to woo a Pisces man,stuff his stomach with food.He would guide you from kitchen to bedroom in no time.
One thing…Scorpio sucks.Stay away from that poisonous animal.Not suitable for either Pisces or Cancer.If any P or C is in relationship with a scorpio(which seems perfect at first,but later shows its true colors), then try on cancer: You would bless me for this advice.Hey Cancer girls, I love you all.Forgive us fishes for only swimming near you and not saying anything, but use your intuition to read our hearts.Be our “the only one”, we really are fed up of “idhar udhar bhatakte aur mooh maarte hue” desultory relationships.Scorpio can’t and shouldn’t be trusted.If scorpio is habitual to drugs or alcohol, he might destroy himself and you too.I have changed myself(evolved) so as to shun away all and every scorpio as I have realized what they really are.Cancerians might sometimes be irritable(Thanks to the phases of moon, not actually their fault), but beyond that is the Pisces’ dream girl which he thinks about 24 hours a day, wants to settle with.
Keep this thread going,and if someone would like more insight, might contact me at [email protected]
One more thing…..We Pisces love to be needed.make sure you need us more than other girls(That’s the reason for the seemingly cheating Pisces).Remember that the Pisces will always return to his lady love,but, sometimes other girls who need his love might catch that fish,though may be unable to hold the slippery fish which only the cancer girl can keep with her love and devotion.I love Cancer girls,their devotion,care,and food!!Just hold on and have patience,the fish will propose you at the slightest hint of you needing him and loving him.My Promise
ABHI ^ i loved what u wrote serously… LOL i am a cancer girl… and truly agree upon whatever u said!! love my pisces guy ALOT… our understanding level is beyond this world 🙂
scorpios like abhi ^ said are really really nice at the beginning but they show their acual colors later!! so BEWARE :p
P.S. Cancer-Pisces are made for each other <3 !!!
From my previous relationship(only 1), all I can say is that Pisces will magnetically draw another Pisces.This one girl had the same DOB as mine(I came to know only much later), it was a quick start.Fireworks.but,we parted gracefully,and mostly its as if both are sacrificing to an extreme degree such that both loose individuality.Relationship didnt lasted too long,though I still misses her.Cant help it.
Cancerians ,on the other hand,sometimes slow to start with,but…”Till Death Do Us Apart”…Cancer girls are unnecessarily and way too shy.They know that we (Pisces) want them right from the first eye contact,but they often hold back in the beginning.This Pair is the best!! forget about the rest.
In fact,of all the sun-sign pairs,LOVE is known only to this pair.All other pairs(Fire,Air,Earth are either only too sensual,or romantic,or stable,but not a balanced one).And yes, water can have magical effect upon the Airy ones also, though fleetingly and only initial.
Pisces should avoid Aquarius,disastrous pair.Should stay away from Virgo(Opposites attract,but gotta fall),everything that Virgo needs is provided by Pisces,and cup will soon empty with the fish not receiving anything in return..gotta run!!
Forgive me Scorps….you are way too cunning for us .We gotta help as many as we can,for that we need to avoid rusting away our scales in a bid to protect ourselves from your poison.I know many Scorps reading this will be hexing me,but that’s the way you are, that’s the way we are.You also are way too “friendly” with others that it seems like “disloyalty splashed straight at our faces”.Have had enough from girls as well as male friends.
PISCES-CANCER <3 REALLY MAD(E) FOR EACH OTHER.GOD BLESS US FOREVER.WE GONNA SAIL WITH OUR SOULMATES IN THE BLESSED STREAM OF ETERNITY.
Pisces here.. dated a Gemini woman and it was hell on earth. She literally brought out the worst in me. I’m surprised I didn’t cheat on her, but then again its not my nature. However, CANCER WOMEN is the woman my heart longs to be with. I would treat her like the Queen she is, tell her 20 times a day she’s beautiful, shower her with compliments, affection and of course sweet little sentimental gifts like singing her a song, bringing her flower etc. Cancer women are the HARDEST to win over I find.
but other than that– Cancers seem like a great catch
Hey Pisces men! You guys are way to involved and lead by watch compatibility signs say! Get a clue! You decide your destiny! Not a chart! Check out Aquarius! I am with One and wouldnt change her for the World! Dont live life based on others!
The truth is that Pisces men can find no better partner than a Pisces girl.
Pisces girl is like a princess,a complete woman,and a Pisces girl knows how to keep her man satisfied.
Pisces + Pisces = Heaven 😀 😀
I’m a cancer teen and a pisces boy said that he liked me over facebook, I was so happy but then I began to question everything (does he really likes me?, does that mean we’re going out?, did someone hack his account?, etc.) we barely even see each other at school and I have no idea what to do.
Geez, I read all this n I too go thru bouts of him leaving..n when he does he wants to return only to find me further away , then he clings on to dear life..frustrating to love a Pisces man…I am cancer…now after seperation .I received a Valentines day card from a friend who wants more ..he retrieved this n is now more bite into me .now he won’t let go but thinks I’ve been n it trustworthy… it’s not fair that he leaves for a break n when I want to he thinks I’m looking for someone else..it’s time for me to come to my senses
I’m so confused. I’ve been researching and researching. I’m a Cancer girl and I swear, the Pisces guy I like likes me back (EVERYONE I know who has seen us together has commented on our obvious attraction). Even my family likes this guy, and they never like or approve of anyone! But, whenever I give him hints that I like him, he gets shy.He makes excuses for having to leave and I don’t hear from him for WEEKS afterwards. Am I doing something wrong? Misreading the cues that he likes me? (Flirtatious looks, smiles, utmost concern for my welfare, asking to hang out, talking to me for hours)… I just wish I knew what to do!
Moon Maiden crushing on a seemingly cold Fish
Katarina, as a Pisces male I really want to apologize. It may just be me, but my current wife spent a LONG time making passes at me and trying to give me hints. I didn’t get a single one of them! Looking back, as she explains them to me, they’re almost incredibly obvious! We’re high school sweethearts, and there were times where the “hint” would be as blatant as “So, are you going to the dance? I don’t have anyone to go with, but if someone asked me to go I might go”… My response: “Yeah, I’m probably not going either, since I don’t have anyone to go with.”
The other thing you need to understand is that, depending on the Pisces, we can be very shy and passive. Not just to the point of yielding to the wishes and desires of everyone around us, but to the point that we stray away from people simply because we don’t want to blow an opportunity (which is ironic). For instance, I was deathly afraid to ask my wife (then good-friend) to go out, and I would reserve myself and occasionally avoid her because I was so nervous that I may blow something and lose her desire for me.
It’s silly, but it’s true.
I’m a widowed cancerian lady 61yrs old. He is a widower. Pisces man, 73yrs old. I am crazy about this guy. So if he just keeps on hinting and doesn’t do something about it soon he can go away and stay away.
Well I’m not 100% agree… What I agree is the progress in relationship. If you watch celebrity stories, Justin Bieber n Selena Gomez. I hate this couple but their story is worth to be heard and commenting about. Yes, when you dated cancer woman twice they expect a marriage soon and that is what happen with them. SelGom want JB to pop out the question while JB not. Pisces man will always remember cancer woman but he could get every girl he wants with his smooth way of wooing the girls. Cancer woman is too drama queen and that personality makes me dislike them (sorry).
I prefer Pisces Man with Capricorn Woman….
I met a Cancer woman online almost 2 months ago. I have never felt so strong about someone before, and I have been married for 13 years previously. Our personal situations don’t allow us to get together often but we have been in communication everyday. I really believe there is a genuine connection and compatibility between us and have high hopes for a serious relationship. But…. some of the Cancer traits I have read about are holding her back right now. She had a bad relationship in the past and still seems to be unsure of being over that (was just over 3 years ago) and she is a single mom and very devoted to her child – which is what I admire about her most. Yet, she always says she is excited to see me and still seems genuinely interested still after 2 months.
I would not have been so patient with anyone else and would have gave up, but I have an unexplainable feeling about her. My plan is to be patient and get to know her as well as I can and hope she eventually opens her heart and lets go of her fears. Would this be a good approach….. like to hear from a Cancer woman who may have had similar circumstances!
I am a water babe Cancer woman and let me tell you, that was the best approach you could have ever executed, I think you did well, but can I tell you, its not that she was not over her past, given she has been out of that bad relationship, yet for so long, but she was busy taking care of “HER” and healing herself, plus I think she hadn’t met the person worth dedicating her time and energy on just yet, I’m sure there were other possible suitors, but none piqued her interest much BUT you my friend seemed like you nailed it right of the bat when she found you, because us Cancer gals are very picky and you say after 2 months she was still interested given the circumstances you mentioned, that says alot about you…..
You connected with her, and she connected with you too. As a Cancer woman, if you continue to woo her & win her heart, you’ll definitely will get her eventually. Because once we choose someone, the right one, it’s a special moment. We are so loyal it’s insane, so faithful it’s incomparable, so lovable & caring, you’ll feel like the luckiest man on earth if you get to have a Cancer woman in your life. Trust me 🙂
Pisces Man & Cancer Woman is an awesome relationship if both try to be as honest and mature as possible! I’d say 9/10.
I AM absolutely not sure as to what it is that’s happening today with me at all, that why I’m feeling so emotionally faint, I am usually very optimistic but not sure why I’m been affected by all these untamed swings of emotions. I think my abilities for understanding something instinctively without the need for much conscious reasoning might be the cause of this uproar, and I don’t like when my mind acts this way, even if I try to control my thoughts, if its any truth at all to it, my mind will be hell bent on dwelling on it until there is clarity, God I hope this feeling or that situation goes away soon, whichever is causing this….but I am damn sure something and or someone is the cause of this imbalance I’m currently experiencing…..maybe I ought just leave this alone!!!
These horrible Pisces men will come into Cancer woman’s life and make her feel like the only woman in the world but guess what they treat all the other 11 signs the same way lol..They know how to catch and hook a cancerian then leave her to dry and die out of the water.If you have been burnt by conniving Pisces man before you will not fall for any Pisces again same with a Gemini man but that’s for another page lol.For me the relationship with Pisces never last because I’m so blunt and disrespectful at times which Pisces never appreciated (roll eyes).Very sensitive man who loves whining and falls into depressions which he wanted me to join him into for a good pity party I guess.Well l always avoided emotional confrontations at all costs to the point of leaving him for several days to deal with his emotions then come back.Im cancerian and therefore emotional too but I never show it no matter what.I can make unemotional decisions on the outside while inside I’m crying like a baby.Must be my Capricorn moon and libra rising I don’t know.
To conclude I would like to say to Cancerian women who would take this advice these men are not your soul mates.No soul mate of yours will ever leave you for no reason and disappear only to reappear when you are moving on.That surely ain’t love or affection.Just because someone is as sensitive as you are does not mean they will understand you.You need a man who is less emotional than you to balance you out.A man who is strong enough to resist temptation to cheat because we as cancerians want to be with those as loyal as we are.Try a Leo man or Sagittarius man.The Pisces man cannot be faithful try you may to change him but you will fail.Well the choice is yours.Let them go be with Aquarian women because they tend to more compatible with them than us.The Aquarian woman will not accept any cheating of any kind and Pisces man will be kept in line otherwise he might be kicked to the curb if dares cheat lol.
Ima cancer I don’t think just because I went out with someone twice ” oh he’ll marry me” that’s nonsense anyways my current bf is also a cancer like me:) we’re so in live????❤?
U just want love HOW HARD IS THAT PEOPLE??? I don’t trust any other signs tbh but I’ll try.
I am a Cancer woman who was with a Pisces man years ago. It was both the most wonderful and worst relationship of my life. Its ending still haunts me. He was so kind, intense, sweet, fascinating and thoughtful. I could go on and on about his good qualities. He was always there for me and made me feel like I actually mattered. No one else touched my life like he did. It was like he could see my soul. We were connected on the deepest possible level. We had a long-distance relationship for quite awhile. We both lived for the calls, letters and visits. Eventually we moved in together, and it was so amazing. I couldn’t have imagined a more perfect existence. Then we had arguments, and he seemed so dissatisfied with me. Suddenly it seemed like I was completely flawed and hopeless in his opinion. One day I came home from work to have him tell me a girl “friend” from work had stopped by. Soon after, he taped a poem to the wall with a love note at the bottom from the same girl. Again, she was supposedly just a friend. I was hurt beyond my wildest dreams (and naturally insulted as well that he thought I would really believe that. I was young and naive, but I am a smart person!) Finally, he moved out. We stayed in contact for awhile, but it was very painful, for my part. I spent every night after work literally crying myself to sleep. Then I tried dating someone else to try to stop the hurt (and allowed it to be this Scorpio guy who I knew immediately was bad news) and it was horrible on many levels. If I hadn’t done that, maybe he would have come back. But he was with someone, so why should I have been the one to sit at home while he did whatever he wanted? And why didn’t he just break up with me if he wasn’t happy? I don’t understand cheating. I shouldn’t feel guilty because he’s the one who cheated. I also kept trying to change in the ways he said I needed to. Well, I got over him eventually, but I still miss him on a very deep level that I won’t usually admit even to myself. He was my best friend and the only person I’ve ever been that close to. Even now I just always feel like a part of me is missing!
im a Cancer woman I was in a relationship with a Pisces man for a little over a year. we met twice, the first time when I was 16 he gave me a ride home asked for my number and I never got a call from him again… A year later we met again but this time I was pregnant (by a Gemini) and I decided to get HIS number instead.
we talked over the phone for a while I told him my age and he decided that he still wanted to talk to me. days went by and we talked for hours. it felt like I had really found someone I wanted to be with.. but I wasn’t single. my Gemini and I eventually went our separate ways him to jail and I to my new found Pisces love. Him (Pisces) although older than me had no kids but he loved children and always wanted one of his own, while I was pregnant we spent so much time together he would lay his head on my stomach and talk to my daughter. Everything was so wonderful…..
Our problems came up when I would start to call him and he wouldn’t answer or claim he didn’t get my call. I didn’t get upset the first few times but soon it began to be every other time I called him. soon it was times I wasn’t able to see him for a week. he would be out of town with his friends or his favorite excuse would be because of my age. my family didn’t know how old he was} so the depression and loneliness started to creep in. I started to think that he was cheating but Me being a Cancer I Never asked him because I didn’t want to know and be hurt, but I did believe in an eye for an eye cheated on him after five months of being together.
eventually he started being around me more once I had my daughter and graduated, soon I would be turning 18 and then we could spend more time together. we went back to how it was before, again we were inseparable. I never cheated on him again, but once again things went from good to bad to worse.
my Pisces man had started growing suspicious of me cheating when I had found myself a job he started going through my phone checking txt messages and call logs.. he even checked my voice-mail to see who had been leaving me messages!!!! {but that I didn’t find out until the end } I felt like every move I made was the wrong move. if I went to go take a shower he would ask if I was washing up from having sex with someone else, if my boss called my phone he would ask if I was sleeping with him. I had started to feel like I was walking on eggshells. every conversation we had turned into an argument over who I was sleeping with; when I wasn’t cheating on him with anyone. I wanted to break up with him so many times but my heart wouldn’t let me I really wanted to be with him but the arguing had begun to take a toll on me…
we were arguing one day about a guy trying to talk to me while I was coming from the gas station. I was talking to my Pisces man on the phone when the guy tried to talk to me I told the stranger I wasn’t interested and kept on my way but the guy was persistent and kept on trying. my Pisces hears the guy in the background and starts going crazy questioning me as to who he was and why did I even say anything to him, I had finally come to my breaking point and broke up with him.
Im a true Cancer at heart and I will NEVER be over him because I loved him so much but I couldn’t take the crazy possessiveness of the Pisces man. {and I came to find out he cheated on me more than once}
I dislike Pisces because they are never stable.Im talking to one Pisces I met a few months ago.His mood swings are a total turnoff for me argh.We can be having a great chat on the phone and I’m throwing a lot of funny jokes to cheer him up then the next hour after that he sends me texts that hint that he wants to end his life.An hour after sending me the suicidal threats he posts inspirational pictures on social media.When I ask why he threatens suicide so often trying to understand the real reason he refuses to tell me.How do l help someone who doesn’t want help?I feel like he is broken person trying to destroy me and my happiness to build himself.I have made a decision to breakup with him because I’m not willing to go down that emotional rabbit hole with him.We will remain friends tho no doubt about it but I will limit contact with him coz he is such a derby downer.I don’t get along with my Pisces cousin as well because of her derby downer tendancies.If you are a cancer woman who loves to be happy plz keep away.There is not enough glue to hold this relationship anyway.Pisces are very watery and confused people who can’t handle life when it gets tough.Thats one trait I can’t accept about them.