Sagittarius Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility
These two signs are both interested in the big picture, a future, and a world full of possibilities. Chances are their lives have already been very different from most. The Sagittarius man and Aquarius woman will have fun comparing notes and may both actually feel a little bored by the conventional. They will tend to talk about non-personal topics such as history, evolution, bio-genetics, nuclear energy, and all things green.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Sagittarius Man:
Start with a provocative question. Be direct and fluent. If you’re not a good conversationalist about the FUTURE – not your future, dummy, the planet’s future – get out while the getting’s good. You have a preference for history, evolution and quoting Shakespeare. She could care less about anything that doesn’t involve outer space, the HoloDek or Mission Impossible for Humanity. She’s living two generations in the future unless she’s a space alien who came back from the future to help. Try to act like a human being in need of help (hilarious because you’re so arrogant). Try to shock her if you can. Brush up on the latest “issues”: Green is so over. Educating girls in Afghanistan and micro lending are in. Dress like you don’t give a s—- about what anyone else thinks. Take her to fancy restaurant and wear one o those tails Tshirts. Don’t be too friendly with the help. Insist on splitting the tab. Don’t quote Shakespeare. He’s dead.
How to Attract a Sagittarius Man as an Aquarius Woman. You’ll have to cross his path because he won’t be looking for you. Women just “happen” to him. Be super talkative – not about yourself or, God forbid, your life which he will consider “oh, no, potentially problematical” — but about everyone and everything else in the room, passing by, etc. Do your usual “we’re just friends’ routine and then amp it up to “we’re best friends”. That will keep him happy because he doesn’t like to get “involved”. A relationship is just a way to get laid. Laugh a lot during sex. Act like you’re enjoying yourself but be inconsistent in putting out.
Degree of Romance:
Romance is neither likely nor of value between these two.
Degree of Passion:
The Aquarius woman is always hiding some passion, while the Sagittarius man is likely to turn the passion in the direction of love of life or a humanitarian cause. Both signs have trouble reducing passion to the personal arena. They don’t do it well.
Degree of Friendship:
Both Aquarius and Sagittarius are rather footloose and fancy-free. They both profess a belief in friendship but truth-to-tell, when the going gets tough, they’re off at a meeting to change the world. Neither one likes dealing with personal problems, particularly not the chronic problems such as money, kids, careers, and growing old. They can be good buddies to do things with, but if a friend in need is a friend indeed, nobody needs friends like this.
Degree of Marriage:
Aquarius female and Sagittarius male is not a good match for a conventional marriage. For one thing, the gender roles are bent. Both signs are yang, bachelors at heart, and focus on things beyond the personal home. If these signs wind up having children, they will still consider the community at large to be more important than their own progeny. Both signs need a lot of private time and space for the kind of deep thinking and contemplation for which they are noted. In Aquarius woman and Sagittarius man, you have a scientist and philosopher who require quiet study time and the companionship of other adults for stimulation and sanity.
Progression of Relationship:
Considering the fact that these two may share common time together for long periods before calling it “dating,” the progression of the relationship is not linear. It relies on an inner ripening that comes about slowly and naturally, if at all. Both parties should be comfortable with that because it is unconventional.
Sex:
A common disinterest in sex may keep the Sagittarius man and Aquarius woman together. Both Sagittarius and Aquarius are detached and cerebral. These two may be more inclined to express their erotic feelings in generalized kindness or consideration rather than overt sexuality.
When It’s Over:
They will both probably deny that they were ever in the relationship for real. Aquarius and Sagittarius both find it much easier to deal with love in the abstract, so if love fails, it could not have been love in the first place. That is the loophole … and the trap door.
Our Rating: 5/10
And the most famous Sag-Aqua duo: Brad Pitt and Jennifer Anniston! And me and my ex-husband! ((shutter)) ~Ingrid
@admin Thanks, I’ll add them.
Pffft…I know one Sagittarius man who turned coward when things got bad, made up all kinds of excuses, and had another woman on the side.
I know 2 Sagittarius men in particular both have and had a wife both cheated and now i still together (I fill for security reasons other just got divorced.
26 years together as as a Sag male, with my life lover aqaurius wife we have been married 21 years.
The key is trust and love, see everyone else for who they are, there can only be one.
Fire and Water = opposites attract!
There is plenty of wood for the fire but only one star sign can cool Sag fire.
@ Peter.
Aquarius is an air sign not water.. Fire & Air – a even better match 🙂
>’There is plenty of wood for the fire but only one star sign can cool Sag fire’ <– 😀 Remember fire needs air to even light up in the 1st place…
All the best to u!!
david Carradine and Barbara hershey were very famous in the 70s as a dynamic duo and destructive relationship.
Some of this is true, but most is not. What IS true is the lack-of-romance thing. Neither my husband nor I are particularly cuddly people, and neither of us are into the whole candle-lit dinner, rose-petals-on-the-bed thing. We don’t really do public displays of affection, either. More than once, one of our friends have asked if the marriage was going okay, because they don’t ever really see us being affectionate with one another.
The non-linear dating thing is true, too. We were living together for a couple of months before we started officially “dating,” and found out we were pregnant two weeks after we did the whole I-love-ou thing. We chose not to get married while I was pregnant, because neither of us saw a need to. We didn’t get married until she was 3 years old.
But the notion that the community at large is more important than our kid is just laughable. She’s freaking awesome and we both love being parents.
And a disinterest in sex? Really? I’ve actually never heard this before, on any other compatibility site or astrologer. Aquarius is all about the unconventional, and that translates into the bedroom. And Sag, the fiery archer, is all about the chase and can actually be difficult for a lot of signs to keep up with. Every air/fire combination is great in the bedroom, and Aquarius/Sagittarius is no exception. Our sex life is through the roof, and there are very few limits or inhibitions with either of us. I always feel sorry for my best girlfriends (Cancer, Virgo, and Capricorn), who have such boring (or in one case, nonexistent) sex lives with their husbands, either because they’re not willing to experiment, or their husbands aren’t.
We’re also fine with talking about the heavier subjects, and hashing out problems. This is another thing that surprises me about this site. Aquarius’ energy is intellectual, and Sag can keep the Aquarius focused long enough to actually solve a problem before jumping to the next one. With his focus and her creativity, there’s nothing they can’t solve if they put their minds to it and are motivated enough to work through it. It’s not always easy, because the part about both energies being yang is true, but it’s much easier than trying to talk about heavier things with a Cancer man, who might as well be living on a different planet.
Every other site I’ve seen, and every astrologer I’ve spoken to will give an Aquarius/Sagittarius combo a rating between 7 and 9 out of 10. And my relationship with my husband is definitely closer to the 9 than the 7.
How do you respond when the object of love fails with disappointments? Yes we want to give others the benefit of the doubt by trusting their good intentions, but it gets more complicated once the frustration and impatience sets in; not all that easy for it melt away.
I’d have to say a lot of the above is wrong. Jen really took the words right out of my mind. She touched on all the right things and compmetely distinguished the wrong ones! Your moon and venus sign is very important, not just your sun sign. Do compatabilities on those. For example I am an Aquarius with a Sag moon and venus in Capricorn, my boyfriend is a Sag with a Scorpio moon and venus in Scorpio – he is extremely intense and borderline psychotic lol. But I am in love and “Such is Life!” I compared lunar Scorpio with lunar Sag and seen how we matched up. This is your best bet. Astrocafe will give you your natal chart for free so you can find what your sign your planets are in. I’m extremely romantic and although I like my space – I use my my Aquariun creativity in the romance department as soon as I feel I can trust. Both my Sag male and myself have an animal like magnetism together in the bed – Air definitely FEEDS fire and turns it into a burning frenzy. I honestly feel that my Sag is the best I’ve ever had because the spiritual and emotional bond is out of this world. He peers into my soul and I allow it. I think Sag and Aquarius are awesome. Sag men are so arrogant but Aquarius is usually intelligent and full of confidence and sarcasm so it can work out. We’re both crazy so one can only hope that there is no cheating or most likely we will both bleed. Lol Good luck and always check the compatability of other planets/houses/apects/rising signs.
hi Nancy!
i found the best Sagittarius man/Aquarius woman pairing that was long lasting over 30-40 years marriage until his death.
She’s still acting, she’s around 75 years old, Blythe Danner (that’s Gwen Paltrow’s mother)
and her long term husband Bruce Paltrow. It’s one of my favourite couples, next to Sophia Loren (Virgo/Aqua moon) with Carli Ponti (Sagittarius/Capricorn moon)
Thank you! I’ll make that addition. Great couple!
i think because Blythe Danner has Pisces venus/Capricorn mars/Capricorn moon. lol And Bruce Danner has libra venus/Gemini mars/Scorpio moon.
which is why they loved staying married.
I dont really see many Sagittarius man with Aquarius women that last that long because of what you wrote, they are too yang. But Blythe danner’s chart is very ying while Bruce was more yang.