Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility
There are about five people present in this relationship. It’s a box inside an enigma inside a mystery. The trouble is that it’s hard to catch everybody at home at the same time. It’s definitely a costume party, which remains a party as long as no one has to take their mask off.
How to Attract to a Gemini Woman as a Scorpio Man:
Have you ever tried to squish an ant at a picnic? You know the way you have to chase it with your eyes and hands at the same time? That is what it is like trapping the beautiful Gemini creature who is as alluring as a butterfly. Long periods of intense waiting and watching must be followed by deft acts and deeds. This lady, one of the most desirable in the zodiac, is as hard to pin down as quicksilver, her mercurial ruler, which is exactly what you need to lighten you up in the right way. Besides, the fascination is undeniable.
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Gemini Woman:
Gemini women hardly need advice on how to catch a man, or at least catch his eye. There is something about you like a worm on the end of a hook that lures the big fish. Scorpio, being a deep creature, is utterly fascinated by your superficiality and allure. The more mercurial you can be, the better, even to the point of being purposely irresponsible about small and inconsequential things – be a little bit late, be hard to catch on the phone, say “I’ll get back to you” a lot, be willing to disappear. All your beautiful words and verbal ability mean absolutely nothing to him, but he will be transfixed by the sound of your voice.
Degree of Romance:
This can be an incredibly romantic combination. No one knows the act of flirtation like a Gemini, and Scorpio is the perfect instrument to play to. The Gemini woman can never ever be possessed by the Scorpio man (despite his deepest desire), and she will find the intensity of his intentions inconsequential and humorous. It is the stuff great operas are written about. The potential for Scorpio’s suffering is immense.
Degree of Passion:
There is a tremendous degree of passion possible, but unfortunately it is one-sided. Geminis don’t digest passion well. It is never their first choice on the menu. Scorpios live for passion. Is this a good mix?
Degree of Friendship:
Oddly enough this pair can give each other a merry chase intellectually and they can entertain each other endlessly with a running commentary on the foibles of human nature. They make great traveling companions on the journey of life. Her wit complements his perceptiveness for some great “aha” moments. This couple will enjoy talking about other people immensely and trying to dissect their motives.
Degree of Marriage:
This couple has the downside of sticking together through thick and thin to the point of real pain and absurdity. There may be a constant diet of betrayal, painful and unnecessary confrontations, ridicule, sarcasm, and vendetta, and yet the relationship endures. This is not the best recipe for mental health.
Progression of Relationship:
You know how you stare at the chess board at the beginning of the game trying to figure out what your strategy is? Figure two people doing that at the same time and then changing their strategy in response to the other person’s every move. The possibility of mind games is absolutely boggling and this may take the place of an erotic connection.
Sex:
For the restless mind, sex can be an outlet for ingenuity and cleverness. When you combine a restless mind with a subterranean urge to discover the deepest, darkest motives in order to control the other person, you have a very interesting range of experiences being worked out through sexuality. This is one combination that may be very “studied” in its approach to sex. Hardly anything either one does is unpremeditated, although for completely different reasons.
When It’s Over:
The Gemini butterfly will flutter away to another flower in someone else’s garden, leaving the Scorpio to plumb the depths of his soul alone. While Geminis take a lot of knocks for being shallow, her superficial nature can keep this break up from going off the deep end.
I’m with a Scorpio guy 3 years and we are getting married next year!
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Thanks for the positive feedback, Deb.
im a gemini female and have been with my scorpio man for almost 4 years. we have a beautiful little aries daughter together. things def. stay passionate with us. the two things we do most is fight and make up!! it makes for great sex.
I dated an Gemini for 3 years and we recently broke up. This is NOT a good relationship at all. This article talks about how it is not good for mental health and this is very true.
I am a Scorpio man and my girlfriend was just not the right fit for me. I am successful and wanted the best while she spent her time worry about pointless stuff.
We had so many issues and from the day one I knew this was not going to work but she would not let go of me. If you want the truth, first hand, I am telling you, do NOT go for a Gemini woman if you are a Scorpio.
My dad is a scorpio and my mom is a gemini , but they are a really good match .
I am a gemini woman and am dating a scorpio man. I am the one who is emotionally deep and loyal; not him. I am the one who wants a private homelife and he is the social butterfly. He is very secretive though and, like I read on another site, has also been caught flirting online. He will go to sites where hooking up is the main idea (it’s quite obvious from the website’s name) and yet claims he has a problem with porn. Really?
One minute he’s crying to me b/c he hurt my feelings and the very next, he tells me I can leave and that he doesn’t need anybody.
I’m about to loose it with him. I only have so much patience.
hmmm. this is to #6 I am also a Gemini female and I am sorry but if she was not waht you wanted then why did you atke the time to look up gemini and scorpio relationship there is obviously something that you miss about her if there is please let us all know because I am interested in my scorpiro man.
Funny,i am totally gemini and i have a scorpio dad and we really get along together better than my leo mom. Seriously, we have a lot of common. Including his secretive habit.
@ #6
I am a Scorpio male and am dating a Gemini woman, and I have to say I completely agree with you. I too feel we are totally on different pages, and when I was in the stage of the honeymoon period she was worrying about the smallest things and being ultra critical.
we’re still together and are working on our issues, but the relationship just doesn’t feel anywhere near right. It’s such a shame as I really do love her, but as you said, I don’t think she wants to let me go but she also doesn’t want to commit as deeply as I need in order to be happy.
I also have extreme issues adjusting to the way she is so variable, it throws me off and makes me feel really insecure. I am consistent and definitely require the same in order to know where I stand.
The sex is the best i’ve ever had though!
good luck to all, I really hope that love conquers all-you can definitely make things work with commitment from two people but it’s definitely not an easy union with these two signs.
i was recently dumped by a scorpio male he said he felt no connection he felt i wasnt the one because he isnt in love with me yet.. we were dating about amonth and a half and knew each other about 4 months before (we are coworkers) i am so confused because he said he wanted us to fall in love together which sounds like a fairy tale to me but at the same time i feel like maybe we could have if we had gotten to know each other better, he seems so convinced and now i am hurt i am a gemini committment is important to me and i was trying we never argued and got along pretty well i do not understand it i miss him terribly but refuse to contact him as he told me he wants space and wants to be friends….i dont get what i did wrong he will be 41 next week i am 33
I had many relations with them and as a gemini, im telling you they are hard to be understood, they re hiding too much, and wen doesnt want to come back, its a sign than never loved you, just want some fun. SCORPIOS er fun lovers, often they cheat for fun and they tell you beutiful lies. In the other hand if they are serious, they may get jealous on you, missunderst. the light-happy way of gemini, they get so possesive that its impossib. to get away, even after broke-up, they tend coming back to gemini, which it means they still got feeling for.
Stop being so insecure scorpio man, and gemini women will get let worried about”meaninful things’ u may think.Ones you underst the diff things can go supegood between you!
You think Gemini is a critical woman, try capricorn!
Can you please make one for the cusp?
I am a gemini women and my husband is a scorpio man. We are newlyweds. We have been married for only 4 months and things are great. My husband is the total opposite of me; he is very focus and determined. Everything he does, he includes passion in it. ( the sex is powerful). He does say sometimes I worry about silly stuff, however in my mind it’s not silly; its important. My Scorpio loves to have a clean home but thinks cleaning the home is a silly thing to worry about. Okay, this does not make any sense…lol. He makes me laugh, honestly this is just an example because we never argue nor fight. I just clean the home (OCD) and he does all the outside up keep. We make the best of friends because we view things from two different sides of the spectrum. I honestly feel some of the astrology traits are correct but as for if one sign is more compatible with the other; I don’t agree. I feel everyone has flaws and there will be certain things you have to put up with. Because a good friend of mine is a Pisces and her “ex” husband is a Scorpio they only lasted for 2 months, now the Pisces is married to a Leo and they have been married for 3 years. It’s all about the love and respect you have for one another. My Scorpio husband is the man of his castle and he makes all final decisions, however he “always” askes for my opinion because he states ” we’re in this together, were a team”. Fyi: i have been together with my husband since high school and I am 28 yrs old. All ppl are different. Plus, I do think looking at your moon sign helps as well. My moon sign is a Pisces and his moon sign is a Libra.
I think this is absolutely fascinating. I’m a gemini and 6 years ago a scorpio man approached me and asked me to go on a date with him. He said we actually worked together at the same place, but I had never noticed him before. I was pretty social, and only remembered those that really stood out. He was so charming that day he approached me and it left a huge impression on me. I had a boyfriend at the time, but a few months later I broke it off and called that Scorpio. We had the best conversations and would talk for hours. I fell for him very quickly, but he ended up breaking it off after a month because we lived in two different cities. I was absolutely crushed, but I just figured he was too stupid to know how amazing I was and so I moved on. A couple of years later we ended up working at the same place again, and he immediately apologized for our past, regretted ending things between us, and said he still wanted to be friends. We both were in serious relationships, so it seemed ok. I forgave him, when I normally wouldn’t allow someone who hurt me so badly back into my life. With him though, I could tell he was sincere in his apology. Fast forward to today. I am married to a wonderful Cancer man, and the Scorpio is currently single. We are still friends but now we are dangerously close. He has confessed that he has always loved me. We talk all the time, and he never keeps secrets from me, even when I wish he would! He thinks I’m beautiful, funny, and he regrets every day that he let me get away. We don’t usually fight, but sometimes he will hurt my feelings and I’ll have to explain to him why, even though he really doesn’t understand. He says he loves the sound of my voice, and he also thinks I worry about ridiculous things, even though they are important to me. I’ve never had sex with this man, nor will I, but I believe it would be fantastic, because he is so sexually driven, and he really does care about me. I consider him my best friend, and even though he does seem, stubbon, selfish, and rude at times. His loyalty, honesty, and humor outweigh all the bad. If I ever did divorce the one I’m with (not likely) I would definitely give this Scorpio man another chance. I can already see what our downfalls would be, but I’m very good at communicating in a loving way, and he loves me enough to listen. This Scorpio will always fascinate me, because he seems so mysterious, despite all the secrets he gives away, and he always has me laughing, fidigity, entertained, and wanting more. Plus he makes me feel so damn sexy, which is kind of nice when you’re off the market.
As a true-blue Scorpio, i’ve been with three Gemini women all my life. One lasted three years, the next equally beautiful and talented for twelve years (broke up two months ago) and the current one i’ve been seeing for more than three weeks now and looks like a keeper.
What is it with Gemini women?!
If you’re up for studying it in greater depth, you may want to look at your decanates. This is the influencing sign within your element based on which of the 3 10-day blocks of the sign you’re in. An easy way to calculate it is just to know that the 1st decanate is your own sign, the physical aspect, the 2nd is the next on the wheel in your element, the mental aspect & the third is the last same element sign, the spiritual aspect.
I am with a Scorpio and I am a Gemini woman we both get along well and understand each others point of views. He is very jealous and can be controlling at times he say its because he loves me and hates when men try their own luck. I can say one thing i dont like is the way he becomes uncomfortable when we are around a attractive woman. It makes me feel that he has a urge to look or glance her way. I really hope we work out but something inside makes me feel we wont..I love him very much but i dont know..
We may have a roving eye at times, but rest assured for the most part, our hearts remain loyal. Try teasing him about it, & that should snap him out of it.
Im a gemini girl and i just got dumped by my scorpio boyfriend. I know that our relationship was very special and that there was absolutely nothing wrong. Two weeks after our 1st year anniversary as boyfriend and girlfriend, he decided to not be in a relationship and that he did not love me anymore. I know him and thats not him. His parents did this because as everyone knows a baby boy will always be “a mommies boy”. His parents told him that he was not ready for a relationship because of his studies which is pre-medicine. How can that be? I love him so much and he is avoiding me. I can’t stop thinking about him. Eventhough he has broken my heart, im still willing to forgive him if we get back together.
oooooooo sorry for you girl 🙁
Dear Gemini girl,
Sometimes it’s not about the signs so much but about the differences between men and women. You could be more mature than him, you could be getting more emotionally attached than he is (and this I would say is because you are a woman, not a Gemini).
As you probably know if you think about it reasonably – is that him listening to his parents about how he should live is too much. What is attractive about that? Even in an 18 yr old guy I would despise such lameness. Maybe he will grow up or might miss you at some point – whatever you do, no matter how much you want to, don’t jump right back into it. If you want him, or any man to stick around and be interested, just live your own life, focus on yourself and your career and passions. Focus on yourself and I can’t stress this enough. The rest is all just little games of playing hard to get and strategic approach.
Im a Scorpio male,48 and have dated most signs except leo aries gemini ,had most succsess with vigo woman
I have a 47 year old gemini lady very interested in dating me,but i have never liked the male or female geminis i have met in lifes journeys,cold and two faced for my liking,i dont trust them,right or wrong thats how i perciece them,.
This lady is attractive driven sucsessful and coming on to me in a way that has raised flags in what her intentions are,my intuition is telling me dont get involved,but friends say go for it u have nothing to loose.?
I am working class not driven easy come easy go attatude to life,so i feel her advances are for my body and bed,i still have boxers type build for my age that was training i done for years,
Gemini advise would be most welcome,thanks.
To Darren ….trust your intuition. i don’t know why enough people don’t trust their gut and rationalize and end up sorry. scorpio intuition is quite reliable. i’m a gem and my best gf is a scorp and has great instingsts. i wish i had some of that myself.
Gemini for ur money or goody in any chance…
To Darren, I would say trust your intuition too. Although she is an older, more mature Gemini, we Gemini women are fickle all our lives, even after we marry a great guy we still wonder about the grass on the other side of the fence. She probably has a genuine interest in you but her ‘genuineness’ is here today, gone tomorrow. You are much more serious person than she is. Scorpio is sexy and if you think she wants to get you in bed, I would say you’re probably right. Don’t do it unless you well know what you’re walking into. She might be hard to resist even though you know all this though – there seems to be some kind of invisible draw between the two signs that neither can resist although both might end up regretting. 🙁 Good luck to you.
She said she is on the cusp of cancer so does that make her any less a gemini,
And why do scorpio men attrached so many virgo woman,.
I know of a disproportionate number of couple of this combo, particularly Gemini woman-Scorpio man. Don’t know what it is but Scorpios seem to go ga-ga after Geminis. Perhaps they find them elusive and a challenge, but it is ridiculous how many marriages, both long and short term, I know with this combo. Much more than supposedly good Scorpio – Pisces.
I should not be to hard on the gems,
sagitarious,Capricorns,Pisces,-are very flighty woman
Great while the goings good,
But will run off with your mates,or run back to ex flames,
and pisces-so caring generous loving,but can be so spitefull when moody or out played, very bitter if they think they have been double crossed,right or wrong,
what are aries and leo woman like and aquas as well.?.
I am a Scorpio man and just started dating a Gemini woman a week and a half ago. We knew each other about a month before we started dating. We are already engaged! WTF!? lol. I have never moved this fast with any person that I’ve dated… Honestly it makes me very nervous, especially after seeing some of the negative feedback about Scorpio/Gemini compatibility and the comments on here. But me being the loyal and passionate Scorpio that I am, I will not give up on this relationship until I see for a fact it can’t work. The two of us are different in some ways…yes, BUT we both have great communication abilities which makes it easier to understand each other and not get too frustrated with one another. And we have a lot in common as well. Yes Geminis need their freedom…I only get to see her half of every week because she goes on long trips for her work and I am willing to except this because I love her. Also, I enjoy freedom too(I’ve got a Leo moon). I love the way we play and flirt one second and then it goes to having a deep conversation the next… and then back to flirting again. It’s so fun! We never seem to run out of stimulation with each other! Oh and the sex is OUTSTANDING!!!! We connect on such a POWERFUL level of physical attraction…it baffles me! I think maturity plays the BIGGEST part in whether or not a Scorpio and Gemini relationship works…
Anyway, Congrats to all the newly weds! and goodluck to all who are struggling!
I am a Gemini Female, and I met my Scorpio Male back in 2001. We went to school together, He was in my class. He was the new kid, so I noticed him and one day went up to talk to him. We still talk to this day… However, After that year of being in the same high school… he moved out of state. We would see each other on and off during winter/summer break. This has been going on for years. Up until recently…. I moved to be with him. Now that we were together he changed completely as a person. I mean no affection, no love. We would have sex alot though. If he wasn’t on his xbox, he was on his phone, if it wasnt his phone it was the computer, if it wasnt the computer it was sleeping. I mean, he ignored me – never took me anywhere. Anniversary…. What is that? He changed…. or maybe this is really how he is … I just never have been around him long enough to see this. However, the first couple years after we met he wanted to be around me and talk to me all the time. Now, I can barely get him to look at me and laugh with me. I am very hurt over this. I dont understand it, Is this a Moody Scorpio game he is playing to “CONTROL” me and my emotions? If anybody has ANY advice please… feel free to give me some. I am Hurt. I love him deeply. I thought he was my soul mate……………………. 🙁
I just ended a 9 yr long distant relationship with a Scorpio Male who is 12 years younger than me. It was partly my fault. Of course no cheating on my part just his in the begining but I forgave and took him back. Ever since then I have been an emotional roller coaster during our relationship I couldn’t trust I was afraid he would do it again.Its been a working progress but up until this year. He has been manipulative emotionaly and so have I. We fight then we make up. I also hang up on him so I don’t say anything regretful he becomes vengeful. I ignore his calls cause he doesn’t answer mine. I broke up with him saying its over soo many times because the long distance was getting to me and him not answering my calls made me suspicious. So finally he kept calling till he was blue in the face everyday I just ignored it. He sent me flowers on Valentines Day and he called I ignored it and said just move on its over. I was angery and upset cause he wouldn’t answer my calls..I also was tired of the long distance. I took all my frustrations out on him.
I thought he would try back like he normally did but he didn’t. He change his status on fb to single. That’s when I knew I pushed to far. I called and called he ignored me. I called his work several times he had his coworkers lie for him saying he wasn’t there. I talked to his bf he said he had been crying his eyes out for me. I called his work back finally he spoke to me and said move on it gets easier with time..just like I said to him in a text. I said to him I’m soo sorry I didn’t know it affected him that way and why I did what I did but it wasn’t right. I was blinded by my own fears and hurt that I didn’t realize I was doing that. I don’t ever want to make anyone cry especially the ones I love He wasn’t hearing me. I beg an pleaded for him to try to work things out. He said he needed time. Then he contrridicted himself. And said move on. I said tell me its over then don’t leave me hanging he couldn’t. He said just moveon so then I said so its over is that what your saying he said no I just need time meanwhile move on. I’m confused. We have always fought but we make up. This time I don’t think so. Inspite of our dysfunctional relationship we both love each other soo much. He texted me and said he didn’t hate me he is just hurt he has moved on and so should I . I asked him since I gave you a second chance when you cheated I asking for one he denied me. I want him back.. Scorpios once they’re hurt I was told forget it your dead to them is this true?
They forgive but never forget,
Relationships to them are purley sexual,visual,lustfull
They understand that nothing lasts for ever and that most people move on when the relationship reaches the frank sonartra moment,to quote frank.
when the yelling and swearing starts baby its all over,and this has proved to be correct as a harbinger that a relationship has run on to the rocks and fast sinking.
If you have a history of many many relationships that end pretty much the same way,and you are around 40 t0 50 years old,then its time to realise you will be happyer being on your own,
And waiting to fill that void is God,
A love no woman can ever offer you be honest out there some times the flame must go out for good in a persons personnell life.
Dont punish yourself let go and realy live for once as a true individual -love is for suckers in the end.
Ok Grace ,Gemini woman :o) I read all the above and still want to meet you.
James, Scorpio to the bone, lol.
im a genimi woman i think scorpio men like the way we make them feel sexually they cant get enough of it thats what they love about us no other sign makes them feel the way we do
bloody scorps can u change signs
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I’m a Scorpio male, and I’ve been dating my Gemini girl for a little over a month. From the start we immediately clicked. We both want the same things from our relationship, we both are extremely passionate about the other (surprisingly she isn’t as emotionally detached from the relationship as you would think), and if we do have any issues, they’re minor and we’re very good at talking through them. I feel like I could marry my Gemini one day. :3
Don’t lose heart fellow Scorpions! There’s hope for this match.
lol that great. and im still a senior in high school and ive having my own little affair with a scorpio boy and so far sounds right on the money
I agree with this article. I think Geminis and Scorpios are obsessed with each other. I recently got involved with a Scorpio and it’s everything this article described…mind games galore, on both sides. All we do is react to each other. When it’s good, nothing can compare. But right now, it’s awful, because in true Scorpio fashion he stopped speaking to me two days ago (I’m not even sure why), and me being a Gemini will not call him back or allow him to bend me to his will. Weird part is, the sex is CRAZY… he takes me to where I have never been… and I him. This relationship is filled with pleasure AND pain. Geminis and Scorpios are probably the hardest signs in the zodiac to understand; we like people who can capture our minds and keep our attention and that’s not always easy to find. But it comes with a price, because like the article said, this combination is not the best recipe for mental health!
This is spot on. I am a Gemini woman who dated a Scorpio man for over two years. He was the first guy I ever loved but the whole relationship was a big mind game from the beginning. We were insantley drawn to one another but I made him play the waiting game for about two months while I did my own thing. Once I realized I was in love with him though, we quickly became a couple. Scorpios and Gems have a roller coaster relationship. It’s good when it’s good and very bad when it’s bad. Also, don’t be fooled, scorpios can be very secretive and almost sneaky about things. Don’t assume you know everything about them because you don’t. Although there was a lot of love there, we split and I am now dating someone else. Me and my scorpio have managed to stay friends though which I think is a better relationship for these two signs!
No there is nothing like that at all a scorpian man and a gemini woman can really live happily if both compromise a bit. A gemini has to be loyal and a scorpian less strict for gemini’s freedom and that’s it.
I’am in love with this gemini girl. I dont know abt hr. We flirt a lot with eachothr but after sometime it goes off. She is very charming n attractive. I become very jealous whn she is wid sumone coz although doesnt show any interest in him but they wud always take the chance. For me she is my stress booster. Things that she say , i never take them seriously, but i like talking to her. She loves spending time wid me. She understnds me. She was born on 19 of june. So wht i feel is dat she traits of both gemini and cancer. That goes well wid me.
i’ve bin with my scopio bf fa 8 months n due to me lying to im an then confess we broke up but wi still talk n im alway assking mi to do things fa im. i miss im so much. y is he always telliig mi to bill wen eva mi try fi express myself to im?
Ok, so I’m a taurus and my ex-boyfriend is a scorpio, he is now dating a gemini woman but we have come back into each other’s lives (we have been on and off for the last 8 yrs but have always remained friends no matter what). I can tell that he really loves this gemini girl but I know that he also cares about me too. They now live together (she moved in with him) but he doesn’t want to leave me alone. He keeps trying to get me to have sex with him and told me that if I get pregnant by him then he is leaving her alone…he sounds so confused and that is usually not like him. He has been to my house a couple of times without her knowing about it and things have gotten hot and heavy, but I wouldn’t go all the way with him…even though he was trying his best. As a taurus woman this is not like me (I always treat others as I would want to be treated and my golden rule is to never do to anyone else…especially another woman, what I wouldn’t want done to me and I have never talked to another woman’s man), I really want to be his friend but our sexual chemistry is ridiculously Amazing and he can’t keep his hands off of me…we have never done anything with each other when one or both of us were in a relationship but now for some reason with this girl, he is trying his hardest to be with me. He will be 45 next month, I’m 30 and the girl is 21. Advice from any scorpio males would be greatly appreciated, thank you
my daughter mother is a gemini im a scopio..our relationship was so over the top anytime we came to a stop thats when the arguments came i was very loyal to her.. I know what she was thinking before she told me and how she was feeling i can read people very good but I wasnt very good in articulate at it and she brings the passinate out of me which i love..we broke up but we had more good times then bad times..
I am a gemini woman and ive been seeing a scorpio man for a month now, I think this is so true, he gets jealous easy hes possesive but he is passionate and affectionate he has a dark side though there is chemistry, I like to have freedom I love change and excitement I dont like commitment but he wants me to commit I am quite lighthearted and he is emotionally deep and he shows this I am deep too but never show it on the surface incase its percieved as weakness. I found this v intresting.
I think this is very true, well some parts. I’ve recently started talking to a Scorpio male Ames I am really interested in him. I can already see that he is very jealousbut also very romantic
Hey there, /i a just coming out of an almost 7 year relationship with a scorpio man. How I wish I had read up on our compatability before going into it – it has been such a roller coaster with more downs than ups and now that I have read he personality traits I agree that Gemini and Scorpio are not compatable
Scorpion man will break your heart and manipulate you they willl act as if they are sad when they cheat but only acting so they can Win you.. Stay away Geminis they have a dark and dark side that the happy times won’t be worth it!!!
i was on a conversation wth a scorpion man for months who is 10yrs elder to me and i had the best time of my life with him…. he was damn caring, honest, devoted… but one day he suddenly comes up with “you are such a kid” and stopped the conversation there, thinking nothing, even when i told him tht i love him, he said he is not the right person 4 me….and now he is dating a scorpion female…. i still don’t understand what that whole time was about
^ ditto.
I don’t think scorpio men generally think us gemini females care since we are a bit ‘eccentric’. But I do believe that they are amazing lovers and this match will work if they let each other be themselves. Its a challenging yet worthwhile combo.
I’m a Gemini female who’s in love with a Scorpio man and we do differ but for some reason he won’t walk away and its scary cause I don’t know how long I’m gonna feel like this. I like to be free and he’s clingy
My husband (Scorpio man) and I (Gemini woman) have been together for 12 years. We have been married for 11 years and my husband holds on to every negative thing its crazy. He repeats events but the truth is distorted to make myself out to be a victim. I’m running out of things to do to make this works. He doesn’t want to end the marriage, but I do. I’m tired of his controlling and angry ways.
As a Gemini woman I have found that my Scorpio man brings out passion in me and makes me lose interest in my freedom. He has learned not to hold me back but honestly I find him so fascinating that I don’t want to leave. Frankly disagree with parts of this article. You can make it work if you really Love one another.
There are a few points on which I have to disagree, as a Gemini woman particularly with respect to the statement below:
“When It’s Over: The Gemini butterfly will flutter away to another flower in someone else’s garden, leaving the Scorpio to plumb the depths of his soul alone.”
I personaly would never dream of doing such a thing to the person I’m planning to spend the rest of my life with who himself is a Scorpio. His gentle, kind, sweet tempered and selfless nature alone would not permit me to do such a thing, and even with those reduced which I highly doubt they would be the effection I have for him would stand to prevent it. As for compatibility,
“Degree of Marriage: This couple has the downside of sticking together through thick and thin to the point of real pain and absurdity. There may be a constant diet of betrayal, painful and unnecessary confrontations, ridicule, sarcasm, and vendetta, and yet the relationship endures. This is not the best recipe for mental health.”
Pardon my language but, that is complete and utter BULLSHIT.
There’s so much more I can say on this but I believe I’ve made my point.
I am a proud Gemini who has a lot of experience with Scorpios in general. This can be a great combination when you’re willing to change and compromise a LOT for the other person, but otherwise it’s literally a relationship from hell.
To start off, my mom is a full blown Scorpio woman and we NEVER got along when I was living in her house. She was WAY too emotional for me and cocky and competitive and if something didn’t go her way she literally went ballistic. Don’t tell anything you don’t want revealed later to a Scorpio because man or woman THEY WILL HOLD IT AGAINST YOU. When working on business matters or talking about finances or passions in life, though, we were on the same page. The same level of intellect is there but if something does not go their way or if they feel threatened they will definitely lash out. My mother was also married to a Gemini man and his need of freedom was too much for her and their relationship ended after he was unfaithful and she was, probably, kind of crazy. Scorpios want to feel wanted 24/7 and us geminis NEED freedom and diversity in our lives. Rather than going out, she always wanted to stay in: we would stay in for weeks at a time. Scorpios will lash out if you suggest otherwise.
I also talked to a Scorpio male for some time and we were texting from November of one year to June of the next year and got pretty much NO WHERE. Their communication styles are so different than us and as a Gemini I felt the need to constantly keep the conversation going but don’t do that. They’ll have short answers but just answer short as well and they’ll keep coming back with more questions for you as they’re curious individuals. Although Scorpio men and women are loving and devoted, they can reach a level of psychotic in my book and don’t provide the excitement we geminis oh so crave, and I’m pretty aware of what every astrological sign is capable of.
I don’t usually write on these websites but as a Gemini warning another Gemini, please be careful with this relationship. They lash out and aren’t as spontaneous as we would hope and although sagittarius’ are listed as our opposites, I feel that Scorpios are the absolute LEAST like us.
I have found that my best matches are aquarius’, libras (weirdly all of my best girl friends have been libras), Aries, Leo’s (sometimes), and surprisingly cancers. Scorpios are just totally different and can be unbearable. Best of luck!
I married one and dated 3 or 4 Scorpions. At first it’s exciting. Then it gets boring. Then exciting. Then I end the rollercoaster ride. There’s another Scorpion on the prowl.
…this Gemini is in need of some excitement, mentally and sexually. I’m ready to roll.
I’m a 21 year old man (almost 100% scorpio) and I recently broke up with my (ex)girlfriend who is a gemini. In fact it was yesterday. She’s 19.
We met this summer by the end of July and things were amazing. She’s always had a dream of becoming a doctor and by the end of august, she was approved to a medical program in another City to become a doctor. I takes approx. 1h with train to go between the cities. At the time she moved there, things were amazing and both of us were really sorry and she said that she would apply for the medical program in our city so that she could move back by the end of the year (a couple of monhts later). That was the plan. As we are both students, we were not able to see eachother that much during the first couple of weeks. She was supposed to come back on the weekends to get together. By the first weekend, she became sick, and we decided it would be best not to see each other in order for me not to get sick aswell. So we met the following weekend (2 weeks after she moved). We had been skyping and texting each other a lot during this time. We got together that weekend and things got back to normal for a day or two, and it was once more amazing. The she left again and I went back to take care of my buisness. We would see eachother the next weekend. That was the plan. At this point, I hadn’t got any clue of what was lying ahead. I’m glad I didn’t knew what was coming to be honest.
So the days rolled by, an we were gonna se eachother the next weekend. However, during the week, she got sick again. This time very sick. We talked and she said that there were just so much stress and that she didn’t knew how to handle it. It is reasonable to expect a lot of stress if you are a young girl that’s moving to another city for the first time and also attending a medical program. She said she had been crying alot and that she didn’t know how to handle the stress. We talked alot I tried to be supportive. After that weekend, she did not get better. When the next weekend came, she told me that she still didn’t feel good enough to come back. So we continued talking and skyping. So three weeks after seeing eachother the last time (when things were as amazing), we finally got to se eachother. However, something was not right. I could tell by the first night (friday) that she wasn’t like normally would be. I thought that it depended on the stress and the fact that she still was a bit ill. The following day (saturday), we went to the movies with her sister and her boyfriend (really good friends of both of us). However, all of us three could tell that something was serioulsy wrong. me and my girl got home at about 01.00 am and we grabed something to eat quickly and went to bed. I started to cuddle with her but I could feel the something was wrong. It had been all weekend. So I asked her to say whats on her mind and tell me everything. She explained there was so much stress and the she did not know how to handle it all. And she started crying. She told me the she felt like we were slowly being pulled away from eachother. I agreed, i had felt it to, but I still had very strong feelings for here. She told me that she were not sure of how we were gonna make our relationship work. I tried with all my heart to find out the thruth and she revealed a very important fact that need to be highlighted.
She felt like the overall impression she had got during our relationship, was that I did not care enough for her.
This killed me. I started crying uncontrollably because I knew that I did in fact care for her, but she insisted that we were too different to be together. That night was the worst night of my life. I litterally cried the whole night beside her because I knew that this would be our final night together. She would not give me a chance to improve myself, as I was feeling willing to sacrifce all to be with here.
The following morning we talked for hours and eat breakfast at approx. 12am. I was devastated. She was not crying. Maybe becuase she had already been crying the past couple of weeks. That’s probably the reason why she got sick.
What upsets the most me is the fact the she never explained to me in the first place how she felt, and how she wanted me to show her more that i care for her. If she would have told me this earlier, I would have done everything in my power to show her my feelings. But she decided to tell me this before she had already made up her mind.
She has explained that when she had been with me, she had been feeling like she hadn’t got any response or confirmation from me, that I truly had feeling for her. She explain that all the time she felt more and more torn and the she evetually felt worthless.
When I heard that, It destroyed me. It felt like a blade slicing through my stomach. It made me realize how bad of a boyfriend I had been. But at the same time, I had only been myself. If I were to change, then she would not love me for who I am. i did have feelings for her, I’m just not that good at showing them.
However when the cards were dropped and She wanted to breakup, I felt like I really was not ready for it. She broke my heart. What I did not know was that I had been breaking her heart all the time. So right now, I don’t feel very well. She had always been treating me perfectly, and right now I feel like I have made a huge misstake, and I feel incredibly sad. The last time I saw here before the break up was when things were amazing, and I had been longing to get together ever since.
It was yesterday that we woke up together for the last time, eat breakfast and said goodbye. When we said goodbye, she started crying, but not to the extent that I had been crying. I cried the whole day.
So today (break up took place yesterday) I just wanted to share my experience as a scorpio man getting together with a gemini woman. Don’t make the same misstake I did. Show your partner how important she is for you. Make sure that she feels loved. I thought that she was feeling loved due to the way she was treating me and the way she behaved when we were together. I turns out she was holding back her emotions because she was afraid to hurt me. This eventually lead to the break up. I told her in the early stages of the relationship that if you ever feel like something is wrong, let me know so that we can work those things out. She never gave me a clear indication that something in fact was wrong. She had in fact been giving me small hints like jokingly saying “you’re so hard to read” etc. but not to an extent that I actually realized how she felt.
However I think that, in the end, we were in fact very different. And I do believe that sooner or later, it would have ended. Maybe this contributed to my feelings not being expressed properly. But right I feel like this wasn’t the right time to break yp, especially for me. But what can I do? I just gotta keep going forward, without thinking about us, even though I still feel willing to try again.
I just hope that no one ever have to go through what I am going through. Knowing it’s over because of you, unintentinally, broke you partners heart, is overwhelming.
i still married with scorpio man and am gemini, almost 2years , like HELL! everyday only arguing stupid stuff , i was run away from home 2 times , i cant handle my self anymore everytime we fight i explain my feeling and i have my own solution while HE NEVER HAVE ANY ONE and then he feel like i blaming him actually i just wanna solved the problem to be better for us but he start WHY U MARRIED ME THAN? WHY U STAY WITH ME THAN ? this words make me insane sure i get really mad on him ” WTF U SAYING??? ” if u cant acceped me why dont u go away from me ! and i said ” oh u kicked me out , oke than i go away ” and he start to crying and said dont leave me please dont leave me …. I THOUGH THAT SCORPIO MAN NEVER THINKING BEFORE THEY SPEAKING ! am so fed up … he make me depressed , i lose my self i am not the same person , am not easy like before am easy to get angry am easy to cry .. THATS NOT ME! i lose my passion for life everyday .. i try to build my self again but alwaysed crushed on him … this is WASTE ME TIME lot… yeah i lose my baby when i pregnant 2 month u know what he said to me U GET DAMNED BECAUSE U LEAVE ME … ” wtf why dont u blamed ur self because u kicked me n hurt me and am run away from home and i lose my pregnancy … CAN U IMAGINE WHAT KIND OF MAN THAT I MARRIGE . am on deep depression i dont know what should i do , yeah but am gemini woman who always STRONG and want to be BETTER n BETTER.. i think i lose my self … i dont know who i am
These are not all true, in my experience. I am a Gemini woman dating (for the past 4 years) a scorpio man. Our characteristics are a lot like what is outlined above. He is amazing though, he NEVER holds me back and encourages me to go out and have a “girls night” hell, he will even drop us off and pick us up so we can all drink.
I am very free spirited and move around a lot (mentally), he grounds me and my thoughts, he lets me know when I’m being to eccentric or my thoughts are getting to a crazy level. He holds my thoughts and I together like no one has before.
When I first met him he was a hard man, he was very secretive and hidden with his feelings. I showed him what love was and what it felt like to truly be loved and he opened up to me. Things he would NEVER do, he’ll do with me because he wants me to be happy.
It is hard and you do bump head sometime but the love and passion that is held between us is so spiritually overwhelming. I have never met another person that I connect with on so many different levels, sexually, spiritually and emotionally.
I would go through the obstacles and challenges a million more times to have the connection that I have with my amazing Scorpio man. It can work if you both are willing to compromise, and the result is unimaginable!!!
thank you Katlynn for your positive and articulate reply. I have deep love for my scorpio and believe things will be alright. He has tendencies like you describe yours was in the beginning. Thank you again I need the hope!
Katlynn
, agree. I am gemini (woman) married to a scorpio man. We met in high school my freshman year to my senior year, I broke his heart. No. I crushed it. 25 yrs later he contacted me, we started talking again. The first time we saw each other, all of time and earth stood still. Everything you said above is true for us. He learned and I learned during those 25 yrs. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been and he as well. It can work and have an amazing life together that everybody searches for. A once in a lifetime love.
I’m a scorpio. I’m a mellow guy, there isn’t much that makes me angry and if anything, I tend to laugh it off. I’ve never thought of myself as a jealous person either, who am I to expect someone to completely give up all of their time just for me, or to always only find me attractive with so many other lovely people in the world? I wouldn’t want to be the recipient of that entitled state of jealousy either. I’m merely happy to be along for the ride. Ha I’m a pretty weird scorpio I guess. I’ve started seeing a Gemini girl, our relationship is new. She’s a lot of fun to be around. I can’t help but feel like I’m just a bore to her but she continues to want to spend more time with me. Her friend has told me that she’s really quite into me. I’m not really sure how I feel about her. I’m kind of worried that I’m merely her next novelty item, but then I stop and ask myself if I’m just being overly analytical. She makes me wish I was more light-hearted. I admire her for that as I see how that influence can help me lighten up. Generally I’ve always been pretty happy-go-lucky for a scorpio though, and maybe this attracts her a bit. At the end of the day, I can’t help but think that I haven’t got what she really wants, but then, I don’t even know what that is… And yet there’s something about her that keeps me coming back as well. I guess, it’s all up in the air.
Scorpio man here; I just love my Gemini friend and don’t, I mean, never want to hurt her…She sez she’s in love with an Aries guy, but will spend the whole day with me, She’s intelligent, kind, Witty and smart, and I love every single bit of her…She would say she hates me in a good way, and I really dnt knw what to think…she would tell me a lot of secret personal things, and I sure do try to demisify her any conflicting, hurting or difficult feelings, at least I think I do cos after the talks she gets some of the happiest I’ve seen her, don’t want to get my hopes up, though…recently, she got drunk with friends at a party(held at my place), which I had to close down before any drunkiness could surface, however I let her sleep it off at my place instead of taking her home cos I felt she was too drunk to walk home, though a trekable distance, cos of her repute in the area. Though in her drunkiness she did repeat her saying of “she really hates me in a good way cos she loves me too much to hate me in a bad way”, however I feel it was jst the alcohol speaking or she basically means loves me as a friend or brother..I had never seen her get this drunk (ofcos im totaly not offended by this cos i believe stoping her from drinking and having fun wouldn’t reveal the dangers of drinking, however, her getting to a safe limit uin a controlled environment will reveal a deeper understanding of herself and limits) but since this limit hasn’t really happened before and I did encourage her to embrace her dual natures cos i feel it’s the best way to find a good balance btw both, which resulted me not being firm enogh to jst stop her entirely from drinking at the party, coupled with the fact that she says she doesnt really love me as she has boyfriend she really loves; I feel I should let her go cos I’m not only a bad influence, I’m also just a distraction…reading all this Scorpio-Germini incompatibility, and reading some of this pair relationship experiences of eventually the Scorpio star becoming less caring unlike the beginning of the relationship, I’m scared I’d stop loving her as much if I stay on and she does eventually likes me….Please I need advice…I honestly will really appreciate it, cos though, I’ve had oda sparks with other stars in the past which might actually seem better if compared, I honestly really feel very strongly for her and don’t want to live with out her. What should I do please?
Gemini woman here dated Scorpio man – 16 years ago. It’s been sixteen years since we broke up and my heart still hasn’t fully healed. I don’t think his has either. The above description – describes us to a tee. Our relationship was fun and intense but complete chaos. We were both very, very young and I think that was our problem. We were immature. I wish we have both read up on our zodiac signs to better understand each other. We were so into each other – it was truly intoxicating. We only dated for 5 months but continued on and off for two years of simple mind games. I agree with what’s said above – the relationship has the potential of going off the edge. Ours did. I wish we could have made it work but the Game beat us both out. Left us heartbroken. We are both now married to other people and I hope we never cross paths again out of fear of feeling ‘regret’ overcoming our hearts. Regretting not being able to figure each other out before our time ran out.
I am an acquaintance of a Scorpio man while I was And high school . Being blind I think I opened up in emotional side to him . That saying he was very compassionate towards me and always treated me nicely . Maybe I’ll Meet him again? If I do I hope we could be friends or more because he really respected my position in life . Any help ?
I’m a Gemini female really feeling my male Scorpio neighbor. Outta of no where he just became so sexy to me and irresistible lol. Never been with one in past. I really believe he and I. Will hit it off very well! Especially in the bed. Can’t wait!