Taurus Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility
Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs so there is a lot of loyalty and staying power. Taurus brings out the more conservative side of Aquarius which in ancient astrology was ruled by the arch-reactive planet Saturn. The attraction is one of substance and brilliance. Opposites attract. Taurus sees in Aquarius a reason to live. Aquarius sees in Taurus a grounding foundation, a safe place to hang out. After all, it gets trippy being out there in the cosmos all the time. These two speak different languages than the rest of us but are fiercely loyal to one another based largely on how safe Taurus makes Aquarius feel. Aquarians can feel very exposed because they don’t naturally focus on the day-to-day concerns in life. Aquarius, on the other hand, keeps Taurus from getting too stuck in the mud, as her mantra is always, “Look! Look up at the stars!” When they learn to work together as a team they make the maximum amount of realistic progress possible. That’s no small claim to fame. Aquarius may have very brilliant insight into what Taurus wants to accomplish. Bess Truman may well have been the reason Harry is so highly regarded. Aquarians always know how to build networks to accomplish what would be impossibly hard alone, the Taurus way.
How to Attract a Taurus Man as an Aquarian Woman:
You probably have to make it happen because you’re looking in two different directions. He’s looking down at the ground and you’re looking up at the sky. You have to connect the dots for him, like notice his rut, I mean path, and plant yourself in front of him regularly until you become part of his known universe.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Taurus Man:
Let’s begin by admitting that, where courtship is concerned, you like the woman to do the heavy lifting. Isn’t that precisely why you’re attracted to this super competent Wonder Woman who knows what she wants and how to get it? You’re the perfect match. She’s as bold as you are shy. In fact you’re probably answering her ad on match.com in another window while browsing the astrology sites. Aquarians love the internet so you’ve found the perfect way to meet and likely the perfect partner. With her, if she likes you, she’ll do it all. What you need to do is just hit the ball back over the net. Be your sure, steady, tortoise-wins-the-race, reliable self. That’s what she’s looking for in a man. She can handle all the rest herself. What a relief. One hint that’s important, though. Don’t be too frugal on your dates. You’ve got to contribute some energy, too, and it works for you to contribute energy in the form of money.
Degree of Romance:
Neither sign is particularly interested in or impressed by romance. She expects you to protect her but otherwise it’s more likely to be “business as usual”, as you tend to create a down-to-earth, practical working arrangement for getting things done. That’s what you each value.
Degree of Passion:
Aquarius’ detachment brings out Taurus’ lustful nature. Taurus grounds Aquarius’ fantasies.
Degree of Friendship:
These two can be faithful and committed friends. Especially for a shared vision, Aquarius provides the inspiration. Taurus provides the perspiration. They communicate very well together which helps keep the bond of friendship working naturally in their favor.
Degree of Marriage:
These two make a very positive marriage because they are both likely to share somewhat conservative values and are willing to work hard for what they want. One of the most reliable partnerships, neither is inclined to be very restless or to look outside the marriage for unfulfilled needs. Their expectations about marriage tend to be very realistic which is a big plus.
Progression of Relationship:
Taurus is quite predictable about progressing the relationship and Aquarius likes to follow the rules as well. Aquarius will make it happen.
Sex:
Sex is enormously fulfilling and a major component of their relationship. Taurus is, as always, a steady provider, where Aquarius always has a few tricks up her sleeve. Her complete lack of inhibition helps him explore whole new worlds while his steadiness gives her great comfort.
When It’s Over:
This relationship will have a very bitter ending as both are inclined to invest heavily and to feel like they failed at some enormous undertaking. Possessions become bones of contention. Words fail. They can no longer comfort one another.
Our Rating: 9/10
What do you think of this match? Who is your favorite famous Taurus/Aquarius couple? Share your thoughts in the comment below.
I was just wondering why the Taurus man & Aquarius woman relationship works so much better than the Taurus woman & Aquarius man relationship? Does gender really make that much of a difference when it comes to our signs? Thanks.
Yes, gender makes a terrific difference.
I hear that taurus man and aquairus woman is not competible, is that true??
people say that taurus man good match for virgo and capricorn. but, Now I am falling in love with aquarius woman 🙁
Ahhhh..I am an Aquarian girl with a Taurus man. It is a very difficult relationship..most times i think about running away. I don’ know, to each his own. But I probably would not date another Taurus man. We are opposite. I am an optimist, he is a pessimists. I live for the moment, he has to plan it ahhhhhhh….
i agree 100% with #4 comment Iam going threw the same thing..when this is ova i will neva go back to a Taurus!
I’m an aquarius girl and I have an invisible sign that says : All Taurus men line here !! I’ve had been with 3 guys born April 24 .. one on the 25th and just in general have an abundance of Taurus male and females around me. My daughter’s moon sign is even in Taurus. The main difference in those guys were the moon placements and other planetary placements. I swore off Taurus men the last time but once again I have met another and they just keep getting better and better each time. LOL. Maybe I’m a glutton for punishment but I have the best experiences with them and for the most part it ends well and I always learn something from it. I would say the main lesson I’ve learned from Taurus men is PATIENCE with my impulsive a$$!
Well, I have met my true love… and she’s an aquarius to my Taurus. She is a realist/cautionist, to my optimist…
Communication is amazing, we are both able to live in the moment…
Just goes to show that the stars go way deeper than just the 12 signs..
Tokyo, if you love her, bloody well go for it and don’t listen to a bunch of strangers!
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OMG………….. I totally agree. I too am in a relationship with a taurus man nearly four years and some times feel like running away from it.It hasbeen finished on 2 other occassions in the past( I always end it) and always seem to find nyself coming back for more punishment! Why???? Love perhaps?
On the other hand our sexual relationship was fantastic for the first year but now I try to put it off as much as I can.
Past relationships I was always drawn to Libra men and got on quiet well with them.
If it was to finish today……….. I can hold my hand up and say” that I would never date a Tauren Man EVER AGAIN!
Our Airy fairy ways of thinking often has him puzzled and for that reason I dont think we can conect for that matter.
YOu are not alone girls!
XJ
I am a Aquarius woman in love with a taurus man. We are totally meant for eachother; may be because we were friends first than lover. Plus he’s handsome and I’m cute(wink wink) I think u have to both want the same thing out of a relationship no matter who or what a person’s sign is. Dnt let this astrology “crap” get in the way of seeking out a relationship…look at what that person wants and how he\she makes u feel! I LOVE YOU ALEX!!!!-we plan to get married…trust me it works we been together for some time now plus we live together. Things couldn’t get any better between us!!
I’m an aqua-woman and my man is a taurus. Though we are attracted to each other very much, it is indeed difficult relationship, yeah we r too different – but there is one very common thing- STUBBORNNESS!!
sometimes i think aquarians r even more stubborn than taurus! LOL
I am an aquarius female Jan. 29 dating a taurus male may 17…and we r young im 23 he’s 22…we have a lot in common as far as our backgrounds & job, but omg i wanna strangle him every 2 weeks. I feel he is secretive and guarded or im too nosy and just don’t trust men. I feel he is one minded, n naive. Never owns up to anything. I swear he is scared of me sometimes. And when I call him selfish he says that is how he is with his mom…after this i would date a mature more honest taurus male…i can honestly say i stay for the sex
@In Distress
It isn’t a good match, as you are finding out but at least the sex is good.
My ex is a taurus and i must say it was the most annoying needy man i have ever been with. I pretty much did whatever i wanted in that relationship, either i took him as a fool or he pretended to be a fool. I did all the planning and the thinking in the relationship. The only thing that kept me around was that he was very kind and honest.
I’m a Taurean and for some strange reason I think I’m a Aquarian most of the time. Is that because they have the same bad traits or something? or What type of Taurus would I be?
It’s good at first and you think as an Aquarius woman, that you can put up or make up for the taurus’ constant negativity and rut, then realize later that no you can’t. That this relationship is actually draining u of your positivity and life. It’s horrible. The marriage with a Taurus is a solid one, don’t get me wrong. He is loyal, loving, and steady as can be. But, be ready to be hindered bec u will be. Forget about going out having fun or envisioning anything. He will destroy it for you. It’s kind of sad.
I’m an aquarius lady and I have been interested in a particular taurus man for a while now. He was or is also interested in me but neither of us have gone to make the first move. He said he just wasn’t sure if I’m interested in him.. He’s now in a relationship with a pisces female who I think smothers him. Do I make a move or wait for them to break-up? Hmm..
I’ve been dating my taurus for a few months now and I absolutely adore him! We first started out as partners wanting to achieve a certain goal together in a competitive sport of ours. So we automatically had that feeling of mutual respect and appreciation for each other when we first met. So far, our relationship is exactly as you say!! It’s amazing! I just don’t see how we could or would ever split up. Our personalities complement each other so well. He’s very sweet and down-to-earth and that’s what I love about him. I am also very modest, traditional, reserved (very much like he is), and also very family oriented (which is what I think he appreciates about me most of all). We have practically the same exact work ethic and believe that the only way to get things done is through hard work and determination along with a positive and optimistic outlook. And that’s exactly what we admire and appreciate about each other! We’re simply the best of friends and nothing can make us break apart! A Taurus is the only guy for me. I love him!
I was wondering, how does Chinese astrology fits into all of this? Is it a completely different thing? In my case, it says that the monkey (which is me) is an ok match for the ox (my taurus boyfriend), but I should watch out because we are the complete opposite in everything! However, my personality doesn’t entirely fit the monkey’s personality overall.. So already that tells me not to 100% believe everything I read about this. I do enjoy reading about this type of stuff though, whether I believe it or don’t. There always this feeling with me of asking “What if?” all the time though. I guess that’s just the aquarius in me.. Always wanting to learn more about the stars. Ha, so that’s what got me interested..
I have been very attracted to a Aquarian girl. Everything was all made of solid gold in the beginning and I as a Taurus stared planning my life with her, dreaming about marriage and a home with her. The dream crashed when slowly by slowly I started knowing her more and more. the thing that irritated me about her was that she did not “feel” others. She had a “Venus in Aquarius” which is very incompatible with my Venus in Taurus. but we do have still a lot of affection, but surely no romantic feelings for each other.
TRUE STORY….
If your like me an aquarius you read into all of this sites to understand your taurus man. DONT!!!
When I first met my ex taurus he was wonderful, a true gentle man and he made me feel safe and like a princess…The truth is that’s what attracts us to Taurus men the way they make us feel… But i was nieve and I read this sites and believed that I was not fit for a Taurus…that Taurus men where dull, the relationship would go no where, and he would become possesive, Which were true but superficial points, and did not compare to the positives qualities.
I dumped my Taurus, believing a SAG, or a LIBRA were my soul mates.
I’ve dated every sign, every type more then once and I realized that love goes deeper then your sign.
It took me losing my Taurus to realize that nothings perfect, and sometimes us Aqua girls though we hate to admit it have to be a little more grounded in our ideals, and learn to just let go of the superficials. If a man like the Taurus is with, hun hold on to him and trust me the relationship will be deep, you’ll feel emotions you never knew how to express, you’ll feel safe (we hate being judged) with him you’ll never be judged if he loves you, you can call him anytime and spill your heart out and hell always be there to listen, and give advice, to comfort and protect you and push you to be your best.
At least that’s how my Taurus ex sorry exs were.
No sign is the best, no relationship is perfect this site was great at explaining the positive in an aqua and bull’s relationship. LISTEN TO YOUR HEART, dont be persuaded by these sites. Taurus men are amazing.
Taurus men cant be dragged out of a rut kicking and screaming. You have to make him think it is his idea and he will come along more than willingly!
i agree that listening to your heart is the HONEST way instead of some “ideal” because that’s what Aquarian women’s downfall is about: stupid ideals when they should be ideals left up in the sky. Leave it for the birds. Use it for making movies NOT the physical world. If any aquarian woman wants a grounded man, be prepared to be very happy because he’ll give you freedom as well as helping you shed off those balloon in the sky thoughts. Stubbornness and opinionated men are such a turn on.
im an aquarius female and my boyfriend is an taurus male, and we fight constantly. we’ve been together for almost 5 years, but we fight all the time, its very difficult to get along
Aqua girl….falling in love with a taurus male…he is what I need..keeps me grounded and guessing…very much a challenge…im used to being in control…well i have met my match…and i love it (hate it..lol)…because it makes me feel like a woman…and his touch!! OMG…he grabbed my thigh and i almost went krazy…he has magic fingers…haha…and his kisses are sweeter than nectar…Lawd help me…but he is so mysterious..and keeps me at bay…this guy definetly knows the game well…and i have been played like a fiddle…and panting after him like a loyal doggie! LOL…but i love it
it is very true that when they show up and are with you…it is like heaven…but when he needs his space..he takes it..i have gone 3 weeks without a peep from my future boy-toy and then (Voila) he appears out of almost thin air…first apologizing …then carrying on as if nothing happened…and im like O__0 im then mad for all of two seconds…then falling back in love again…haha…he is very quiet/ shy but smart…I constantly try to communicate with him at least once a week or every two weeks…to keep me on his mind..which in his own words..he has said there is not a day that goes by when he doesnt think of me…he lives 4 hours away…we met July 2010…i want to be his gf so bad…but he is taking his time…it drives me nuts..bcuz i am quite impulsive..but it is good for me..he teaches me patience…anything worth having is worth waiting for IMO…he experienced a bad breakup 2 yrs ago with a woman who used him, mistreated him , cheated, and he gave her everything, so his bad relationship from the past has caused him to step lightly when it comes to me…i know he really likes me..but in so many words..he told me that he hasnt dated for real since that incident with her..and he is afraid to be close again…but he doesnt want to lose me because he know telling me to move on would be a mistake that he would regret (his words)…so understanding the taurus nature…i will be patient..he is everything i could ever wish for in a man..i just wish I could have been with him before that she-devil came along and made it hard for me! Oh well…according to our conversations i believe a relationship is on the horizon…and I am willing to wait for him…and i dont care what anyone has to say about it…lol…so aqua girls..if you are digging a taurus or any guy for that matter…go for it…in relationships we all have to make compromises for it to work…if the person is worth it…stick it out….
Oh an one more thing to let you girls know….when a taurus his MIA a lot of the times (if he likes you) he isnt just idle with his time or playing games…actually he is analyzing YOU…he removes himself from the situation to clear his head and critically think about you the pros/cons and if this (YOU) is a situation that he wants to attach himself to…they dont like change..and if you are a new person in their life…guess what?? that means CHANGE…so he is going to move slow…but if he deems you worth it…once he makes that dreaded change (lol) to include you in his life….well you figured it out….i think i see land from this sea of ups and downs…LOL
LAND HO!
i love taurus men 🙁 *sob* I want one of my own!! but our paths cross at the worst times!!! I fell in love with a taurus guy a few years back but I couldn’t commit YET because I got scared!! He lived so far away and he wanted to PAY for everything: for his trip to Europe and make me his companion. He totally respected and loved me deep down but I kept shrugging it off and made excuses because I’m SO scared!! And I felt he loved me more than I loved him. But I was loyal and still love him. He moved on finally and found someone else, with similar traits to me: A sagittarius girl. He got so angry with me because I avoided his love advances and his need to be with me that he deleted me out of his life. But eventually he came back, but this time, he’s with that other girl. But he says I’m very beautiful still. Then, recently I fell in love with another Taurus man: he’s everything I want, and more! Much more than the first one. But he’s always flirting and flirting with every girl too. He’s SO SMART and so DECISIVE and stubborn: things that turn me on! I love a guy who is stubborn and decisive and above intellgience. It makes me admire them and it’s true about Aquarians: If we don’t think you’re on par with our intellect or at least ABOVE that, forget it!!! With this current taurus guy….I think I shall just love him from afar. 🙁
Well guess what, ive been with my taurus man for over 3 years now. I have a deep-rooted respect for him: for his ethic, for his cleverness in material things, for his reliability. However, he is a bull: u push him – won’t move, pull him – won’t move, try to reason with him – don’t move. U ask why: he answers because he told u so, this is how he is. Of course i won’t give up too.
I could’ve left him plenty of times. I can’t, i won’t. He makes me crazy but it is only with him that i can experience a certain bliss: a bliss u find after weighing up pros and cons, when u finally realize there’s no point in trying to change who he is, so u just accept that u r the manifestation of the same energy… but these moments of bliss must always come at the price of countless moments of desperation and fight…
I feel that were we separate we would probably be happier… oh but only if we havent met… now, we r together, this is the only way it is. This relationship is a karmic one. It is not easy, it takes the patience of a saint (well, two actually) but experiencing this union teaches u a human lesson that no other sign would’ve been able to teach u…
Haha. This old match. I’m an Aquarius woman and I have dated a Taurus man. What a game that was. Two years of back and forth.
We’d be in love one minute and hated each other the next! People around us were so confused because we would be bad mouthing each other in public screaming at the top of our lungs, then two weeks later we were back together and completely head over heels.
“I just was scared because I care so much.” – He would say. What garbage. But I knew he was full of it and I didn’t care.
We’d break up, date other people & get dumped, then we suddenly loved each other again. We became each others comfort zone.
Unfortunately that is still going on to this day! I found someone I loved, a Gemini, and didn’t speak to my Taurus for a year and a hlaf. Now that I’m single again he’s back. We don;t love each other at all and we respect each other to just be all about sex. It seems we will be each others fall backs forever.
Not a good match at all. He’s a jerk. lol
@Paul.awww i’m sorry that there are some aqua women who aren’t responsible to love you enough. Just what you said that she paries and drinks already indicates her inability to keep a relationship lasting. There are plenty of aquarius women that are very responsible but beware, there are also ones who party and dont care. At least you guys had great sex. 5-6 x a day for 3 years? damn that’s nice!!
the internet dating was her rebellious way of saying i’ll do what i want. Aquas are notorious for doing the opposite.
@Shika, i love your contribution on this. it is a rare combination but it works fora responsbile couple. two fixed signs are always powre struggles. 🙁
Dated 4 taurus men and the relationship always ends the same, with me wanting more. They seem always seem so interested at first, then pull away. The first one stole my heart, then left me when i needed him the most, then pops up almost 2 yrs later as if nothing happened and I wasn’t supposed to be mad. I dont know y i went back to him but it ended with me not even saying bye and him avoiding me because he wasnt ready to be with me and I had to move. Ive never been with someone who made me feel so real…ever! The sex was on a level that cant be recreated with anyone and im still love him..im a typical aqaurius female who doesnt want kids but if they were by him, id do it in a second.Sometimes when i think about him it still hurts. I tried dating other guys, found out they were taurus too but they all do the same thing..practically stalk me in the beginning then leave me hanging..i dont get it but i dont think i will be dating any of them n the future..not if i can help it
I am a Taurus man and dated an Aquarius woman at first she seemed to be caring and nice we had sex every time I saw her then it started to diminish even in sex I was putting the effort in and it became boring, I did everything for her and showed a lot of interest in her, her work, her family and supported her through times when she was ill and respected her wishes I gave her the space she needed. However I soon came to realise I was the one putting all the effort into our relationship the Aquarius women I have dated much like this one have all been selfish moody and unappreciative and I would never go back to it
paul wasnt someone called rachel was it by any chance bitches mate uncaring up their arse dickheads dont deserve you mate you can find much better
I am an Aquarious woman married to a Tauraus male for over 15 years…and yes, we grow to learn and love on our own, especially when we have out-grown the tauraus man. Not intentially, we are just different people and look at life differently, no offense at all. I know we are great business partners, and love to build our families up for positivity, but as a whole person/together, there is limited togetherness, for we have different views of life. I know that my love and insight on life surpasses his and this is why we have parted, and I know he feels the same.
I was in a relationship with a Taurian man, we brokeup at least temporarily till we can be together.. We’re having certain obstacles now, can’t wait for them to go away. All your comments gave me insight on why he’s acting the way he does right now, and I feel better reading them… He promised me the moon and the stars then decided to breakup in an overnight… “look me up when the obstacles are gone” he said. It totally drove me mad because of all his promises and vows
@Just_Shira: I agree we’re attracted to how they make us feel. I’ve never felt this way before.
@Shika: Always disappearing and coming back sent me mixed signals, but I know he’s thinking about me and about “us”… It only shows he’s serious. And oh about going idle.. It made me nervous and thinking he doesn’t like me or bored, then he gives the most pleasant surprises after a few minutes of silence 😉
@Paul: Acqu women are known to be of 2 extremes.. too bad you’d met the wild extreme. The other one is totally devoted. LOL, sometimes I have to make effort to keep myself from being needy.. Good luck next time, and not all of them are like your Ex.
My taurus guy is unlike some of the comments here, he’s creative, innovative and looking at the sky (metaphorically that is) I love him and hope I haven’t lost him. Wish me luck xx I need the blessings of the stars!
I’ve always been attracted to taurus guys. Since college. My taurus guy who I met recently is very supportive. He’s reliable and very calm and soothing. He’s great even when I get all in a tizzy. Like recently someone was kind to me and it overwhelmed me so much. Why was he so kind? That was so good of him he didn’t need to do that. It was so unexpected! I was in tears 🙂 …yeah it does that to me in spite of my cool aqua self that you usually see. It makes me believe in the goodness of humanity. That there’s still hope. My taurus was fine with it and waited for the ‘vapors to evaporate’ and told me it was my good karma coming back to me. I so love him!
Alisha, you guys sound like the best match of Taurus and Aquarius. Good luck with your relationship.
Reading all these comments and stories has been really interesting and really enlightening.
I met my Taurus guy over 2 years ago and am very much playing the long game ’til we’re both get to a place where we can be together. We’ve both been in relationships and in love with other people in those 2 years, but when we’re single we always find each other, like there’s some kind of homing device fitted to us. We’ve both been single for the last 6 months and, although he has moved 2 hours away for work now, our relationship is blossoming. But patience is definitely the name of the game with this boy!
What @Aqua says about Taurus boys “going idle” is so very true. The first few times my Taurus “shut down” (as he puts it) I talked through it, trying to cajole him into putting his feelings into words, and giving him suggestions about what he might be feeling. I don’t think he could even hear me! I’ve realised that he only shuts down when he doesn’t have any words. It’s terrifying, especially when it’s about our relationship/friendship, but I’ve learnt that if I just trust that he will share the words with me when he’s found them, the silences become far more bearable and are often followed by “the most pleasant of surprises”.
My Taurus is my grounding force: no emotional outburst is too dramatic to calm me down from; no loss of direction is too disorientating to guide me out of; no crisis of identity is too complete to show me myself in. He is my intellectual equal – not an accolade I bestow often! – and my rational-thinking superior – again a rarity – and this combination makes him someone who is both willing and capable of looking after me. And that is SUCH a relief!
He is also reserved and careful with his emotions, which means that we are distinctly NOT in a relationship yet. This is torture for me sometimes! The sex is awesome, but is on hold for the time being, which is driving me crazy, but reading some of the things on here I am beginning to understand that I haven’t fully respected our differing attitudes towards sex in the past. I suppose rather than being annoyed that I’m not getting what I want right now I should be honoured that he felt a strong enough connection with me that he ever wanted to have sex with me in the first place!
Whatever the stars predict I am in this for the long haul, because I have never felt as free to be completely myself and indulge in all my whims and I have never felt as totally looked after and grounded in ANY relationship I’ve had before. And he tells me that he has never met anyone as tolerant of his bullishness, or as patient with his emotional reluctance – in short I make him feel safe to be himself. We compliment each other perfectly. And, yeah, he might be stubborn and reclusive on occasion, but I wouldn’t trade him! 🙂
I had to laugh when I read this article. I met my taurus husband on match.com. We dated for 10 months before we got engaged. And then we were engaged for 2 1/2 years before we married. My husband is the most logical, patient, brillant and humorous man I have ever had the joy of meeting. We fit mentally, physically and spirtiually together. I must say most sites depict that our match will end up in ahot mess. However, I have never met a more communicative and loyal man in my life. I truly love being his wife and am looking foreard to our life together.
I am an aquarian married to a taurean guy for 9 years. I think the relationship is good as long as I consent to what he says. When I started having my own opinion, its a cold marriage now. I feel taurean guys treat their partner as littel kids, always wanting them to listen to them, follow them. They are better fathers than husbands.
i am an aquarius and im dating a taurus man. when we first started dating things were bad we argued all the tiem caus i was stuborn and he was being a smart azz. we broke up like 3 weeks after we stared dating. week kept in contact for some while then a year later he told me that he loved me and tahta he could never stop thinkin about. even for that year we were brokin up and i felt the same towards him. we jus got back together a few months ago and things are goin great. we decided that insead of jus yellin and being our smart azz self that if we go mad we would calm down first then try to talk it over. for us its jus a BIG communications issue that were takin slowly. we still argue sometimes but who dosent. all i know is that i love him with all my heart and that once we found out wat the problem was we decided to work together to fix it. sometimes i feel like ruunin away but its only because im scared of the love i feel towards him.we arent the most perfect couple but we work and dame well if u ask me. i would change dating a taurus guy wif anyother sign because we work. and it because we want it to work. he provides me wif everything i need and thats not much but its great jus the way it is. he can be a challenge some times but i like challenges and i want it to stay the way it is. neatherr of us have chaged who we are we jus found a better way to be/ do us. and i love every second of it.
sorry for some of the miss spelling
I am a Taurus man and I may get fixed with an Aquarian women. Well, did I not find my love?? well I did so many times.. but never made it together.. nothing really went wrong.. but just.. that things were looking apart and ways parted..
i dated 2 Geminis 3 Taureans .. a very limited range.. well.. with taurean women, things were always sweet and she was beautiful and I really had her face in my head most of the times.. we think alike.. gave each other support.. we were slow to reach a conclusion.. as we were fond of doing analyses.. and often got lost in them.. but then i loved getting lost in the moment coz we started thinking alike and loved the conversation.. never had fights.. may be very temporarily..
With Gemini.. hmm.. good experience.. always got the attention.. treated as the best man anyday.. constantly reminded of how wonderful person I was.. it did make me happy.. they did not demand too much either.. What more did I want?? well somehow I couldn’t commit equal attention.. there was some link that missed. Couldn’t connect so emotionally.. And yes like typical taurean I gave advices and suggestions.. one took them like a child, never fought and the other always hit me back, saying “i dont want ur advice”, and yeah her arrogance and my stubborness invited fights. Still cudnt figure why it did not work..
And now I am being fixed with this Aquarian woman, and I never had an aquarian experience… please enlighten me… Taurean men with aquarian xperience, aquarian women with taurean xperience and Gorgeous aquarian women. Thanks. 🙂
I’m a 19-year-old Aqua girl, born a day later and I would have been a Pisces, though. The Taurus guy I have my eye on isn’t always my main focus, I must admit, but for whatever reason I continuously gain interest in him again. The traits that I dislike about him are how boring he is at times, and how traditional (which I guess to me are the same thing, lol). He also seems overly jealous when I show others the slightest bit of attention. It’s so annoying and very immature. On the bright side, however, he’s incredibly sweet, especially with animals. He also loves art as much as I do, breaks through to me when I push the world away, & is sooo hawt 😉 lol. It’s definitely a love/hate sort of relationship… still deciding on whether or not I should kick him or kiss him.
I am an aquarian woman, who fell in love with a Taurus man. He was so intelligent, so deep, humorous, sarcastic and sharp. We bared our souls to each other. I told him things about me that I had never told any other man, not even my ex-husband. He was so affectionate, loving, treated me like a Queen. All I wanted to do was to understand him, to touch him, to love him. He even asked me to marry him. This was just one day after he told me he would never marry again, and that is what I said to him. I never said no or yes he never gave me the chance. A day later he did a 180 on me and told me he never wanted to see me again. That was 4 months ago and have not heard a work from him since. My heart has been broken by a Taurus man. There is not a day that goes by that he is far from my thoughts or heart. I would have given him the world if possible, but he pushed me away. I will never know what I did to him to make him dispise and hate me. He will always have a special place in my heart. This Aquarius woman will always miss him.
Well, if someone says they never want to see you again, It makes one feel like they are. And if this “scenario” doesn’t mean he hates me then what does it mean? I have been totally screwed up and blown away since it all went down. If someone had of told me a month before it happened that he would do this, I would have never believed them.
No, I think it is safe to say, he never loved me.
You know, I would like to get some Taurus male feedback and insight on this. What do you guys think?
hmm.. here is a taurean feedback. I am just trying to put myself in his shoes and thinking what sort of thing would make me do something like this. And I think I can evaluate this with my experience.
Yes of course there is this possibility that I never love the woman(gemini). But I enjoy the company. You know the way that makes you really comfortable with someone yet not having the “romantic” factor. I have had similar incidence where the woman was crazily in love with me, and I enjoyed her company. I mean she was way too cheesy with me. I was a fool to not understand her ways.. and was happy to have her around. Well, she never told me her feelings. I sort of had an idea that she loved me but then I challenged my own inferences and told myself.. “she is just being good to you, don’t think too much”. And finally when she proposed me one day. I was feeling guilty of having known for this day to come and yet avoiding it thinking it would never come. Well, I said a “no”. We are still great friends talk once a while cause we no longer stay in the same city.
Another possibility would be that I may get so much in love with someone that the best thing for both of us would be to stay away. I had a girl friend(taurean) when i was a teenager. I am 30 now. We were so much in love with each other, And things were going perfect, and we had decided to get married when the time was right. I agree we were young and did not realize outside the small love world we made around us. Things were going fine when suddenly one day she cried and told me that her folks want her to get married to someone soon and live her own life. She wanted me to support her and get married in few days. I looked at the situation and told myself.. “buddy you aren’t even capable of earning a good living, how will you feed her and feed yourself?? do you want see her go through the hardship and not have a quality life. She may live with you in a barn, coz she loves you, but is that what you want??” And the answer was “no”. I thought she would be much better off with the other guy who was well-off and was a good person too. So I refused and moved away and never spoke to her. Until after 8 years I gave her a surprise visit and make sure she had a good happy life. Had a beautiful house. And i was so happy to see her happy with a lovely kid in her arms with an expensive toy in his hands. The kid could have been mine and i thought.. “would she be so happy if she was with me.. coz i am still fighting to earn a good living to have such beautiful house and buy an expensive toy for my kid.. ” And i am still a bachelor.
hope this helps Lynn. Just wanted to share my experience. Your guy may have had other reasons, but I am taurean and I think the reason could be something similar. You may take a different perspective and find out what was the reason.
Atma. thanks for your feedback. See that some of what you said could have been a possibility in this relationship. He certainly acted in love for some time. I am not much of an actor and it is hard for me to understand why someone would pretend to love another person. Anyway, your Taurus veiwpoint helped.
P.S. Atma, if you are half as wonderful as my ex-Taurus man was, there is a very lucky girl out there,, maybe already in your life. He was such a beautiful, wonderful man.
I agree.. i may have made some wrong decisions … but its not that I did it in spontaneity .. i tried to understand my situation at that time and did what felt the best for both of us… and i perfectly agree that true love can withstand any barrier….but barriers isnt what i wanted my love to live with.,. it would give me more pain to see my love suffer coz i am not a good provider… i can provide her the love… well i really dont know if it was the right thing but luckily god gave her a happy life, and i know she was a strong woman and i am really happy for her happiness.. coz what i believe in love is… whatever happens.. i only and only want to see my love happy and comfortable… if i am not able to do it, i still want her happy someway… and it is also true that… i would hav cursed myself if she was in a worse situation… but god is great and gives me the sign to this day that may be i did the right thing.. (to convince myself..)
I can tell you one another important thing …. i dont hav a love yet.. but as a taurean… i hav set my mind on one thing… that, whoever i fall in love with, the woman i marry.. will be the one i will love more everyday until i die… she will be my wife and she deserves to be adored and pampered and loved… coz she is only mine and i will cherish her… forever… taureans love the idea of getting committed forever… they like romance and mushy stuff.. but if things dont happen as expected… they break and get frustrated… but if things go well… they woud do anything to make it stronger. I know that really doesnt make a lot of sense.. but it is that way, may be with different levels within taureans..
There ya go atma. You r already on the right road. If you love her and make her your wife, cherishing, pampering and showing affection will keep the fire burning, but make sure she gives the same back to you, b/c you deserve it, too!!
here is a question for all the Aquarian honey bunnies…
what/how/when do u want a Taurean to do for you?? expectations..??
Treat you, adore you, talk with you, work with you, love you, fight with you, stay silent and be patient with you, stand you, sleep with u ;), enjoy with u, …
when do you want the taurean to just shut you up with ur nonsense and irritation … with the most passionate kiss.. and when do you want to slap across ur man… when he aint speaking to you…
in short stay forever with u….
comments plzz
atma, My ex-Taurean man had a knack for talking and making me laugh. He viewed things on a slightly offset fashion, that I got. I could make a goofy off the wall comment and instead of him looking at me like a dog at a new bowl, he would snap back with something just as zany or more. He was always telling me how wonderful I was,.sending me romantic txts thru out the day. He would cook wonderful meals for me and enjoyed doing it, he gave me long romantic massages and told me how beautiful he thought I was.
We talked about everything, we had no secrets, or so I thought. We dated a little over 2 months before we became intimate. He was wonderful there too, so wanted to please me, took his time, never hurry up the football game is coming on. He held my hand and hugged me just because. He did so many little insignificant things that meant so much to me. He was a little moody at times and that was the only time I would get frustrated with him, b/c he would tend to shut me out. Anyway, b/c of all those things and ways that he treated me, it made me want to treat him the same way back and I fell in love with him. It is over now and that’s the only time I have wanted to kick his ass, b/c there was never a reason given to me. We never fought, we had disagreements but would talk them thru.
He was intelligent, and very deep thinking, generous, loving, affectionate, looked at me like I was the only thing he saw. We had alot of activities that we enjoyed along with just lying on the couch watching TV and doing nothing. There was never any pressure.
I miss him to this very day. I am sure there are some Aquarian women out there who do not like some of the things that I like, sometimes zodiac signs can be deceiving. My Tauean man and I connected on a higher level than just the physical, to the point that it scared me just a little. I am sure that one day I will meet someone and move on, but I will never forget him and how wonderful he was.
Hoped this helped somewhat.
tx lynn… it was wonderful to read ur wonderful experience… reminds me of some past memories. sacrificing was like a cutting my heart into two pieces. people move on.. but u right lynn somethings simply wont fade from ur head n heart.
oh my gosh. i am attracted to this Aquarius female! she is… not your normal girl. shes outgoing and deviates from the norm a little. i really like that. i don’t like generic people too much. i want someone who is willing to think outside the box like my self. if not at least LOOK outside the box. my radical ideas on chi, spiritual advancement and chi really seem to intrigue her. people say that makes me a little eccentric but luckly for me she digs it! its almost shocking how perfect i think we would be together!!!!
Taurus, your Aquarian girl is drawn to that “higher plane” of thinking that you possess b/c for her there is something more out there that goes beyond the physical realm. Oh, don’t get me wrong, she enjoys the physical but it will depress her if she stays in the physical for too long… She has to wander beyond to be fulfilled and if sounds as if she thinks you are perfect to wander with. Tip: Never belittle her or make fun of her desires to seek the spirtual side of life, cherish it and and know that is part of who she is. Good luck.
Good point Lynn. Spiritualism embraces thinking. Thought for a good, more for the other than you, can bring harmony. Compatibility is a product of head not heart. All said, if each can play the same game, you strike love.
Tx for the insight.
Well, here I am again, missing my Taurus man. Thinking one day he will at least make some contact with me. I miss him so much. He will never know how much. It is like a piece of my very soul has been ripped away.
I have been dating on and off and I catch my self comparing them to my ex-taurus….I know that is not fair,,,but they all are so regular. My guy was a cut above, so engaging and interesting. I find myself bored with all the others. I think of him so much through out the day and don’t know how to stop. Curse you Taurus men. Why do you have to be so wonderful.
Aquarian woman with the older Taurus man: he is well grounded and very sensuous. He is devoted and know what a girls whats and needs. He is the rock I never had. I am a spiritual sexual inspiration to his well grounded desires. I missed him whenever he is not around. He constantly comments how beautiful I am from head to toe. He is not the a very attractive person. However, he is talented and attractive in other ways. My body quenches for his touch and when I will feel him next. He has the softest hands that I have ever felt and he seems to be intridgue with my sexual out and over the edge sexual desires.
Signed
Never had a lot like this before.
Erica, your description sounds so familiar, hope he isn’t my ex. If he is, congrats for stealing him away, you are a lucky woman. I too desired my Taurean’s touch, to feel him next to me, his scent. This Aquarius girl has lost many tears over this one and still is.
Advice is what I need: I would love to hear some input from anyone that is willing to give it. my story is long but to understand my situation I think I should start from the most important points. Have been talking to a man with the birthday of May 28th. i read the Taurus sign and the Gemini sign, Taurus fits this man to a T. We have been talking for 5 months now. He has been divorced for 5 years and has had no relationship with anyone else sinse his divorce. He has a 20 year old son and a 10 year old son (different mothers). His youngest son is his world. Both live with him. At first we spent a few days a month together. Now I am lucky if I get to see him once a month. He says he always wants to b friends first and dont want things to go bad between us. He said he wants to take things slow. His 10 year old just loves me to death. When we r together his son has said many times it is just like a family when we r together. The divorce ended because he found out his ex wife was gay. This I am sure has been very hard for the man I am talking to as well as the little boy. Our relationship is based on texting. He works afternoons and I work days. It seems that themore I ask to spend time with him the longer it is before I c him. The more I try to talk to him the more he avoids me. If i make no attempt to speak with him… he comes back at me hard. he will text me more.. I just dont understand his way of thinking. what is it that he wants. Ihave ask him a number of times if he wantsme to step away and he tells me no not at all. he is always saying he is just so busy. Can anyone explain to me what it is this taurus/gemini wants or does not want?
Thanks for your time
Been married to my Taurus man for over 6 years now and we are a wonderful, dedicated match. He is the domestic rock upon which my whole world rests. I always challenge his mind and romance him in new ways to keep him interested. And his mind is as sharp as they come and the way he thinks about things is so different from me that it always surprises me when he says something so insightful, so true and I didn’t see it coming!
We trust each other with anything and everything, and we’ve found the balance between my need for independence/eccentricity and his need for security/routine. He is very possessive and jealous sometimes, and in my experience, this is just one of those areas where the Aquarian woman has to yield in order for happiness to flourish. The Taurus man needs to know that he is wanted as much as he wants you, and that means making the sacrifice sometimes to do as he asks — like, cut ties with that ex boyfriend who you’ve been friends with for years but it makes him uneasy (I know, asking an Aquarian to lose a friend is like asking them to cut off an arm!). For me, it’s worth the trade, to have such a devoted husband, patient and loving father to my son, and the most incredible sex life imagineable.
Pamper him with backrubs and good food, and you’ve got yourself a protector, a chivalrous gentleman, and best friend for life!
@ flora
a smile in my love’s face is all what makes me happy..
whether she is happy with me or with someone else..
for some it is hard to realize that..
yes its equally painful for me as well, but i can treasure only one
the one who is always smiling with me.
WELL IM A AQUARIUS FEMALE AND IM WITH A TAURUS..IMEAN HE IS JUST EVERYTHING I ALWAYS WANTED WE HAVE BEEN KNOIN EACHOTHA FOR A WHILE NOW BUT BEEN DATING 1 MONTH AND WE BUMO OUR HEADS BUT I SWEAR I LOVE HIM HE TOLD ME HE LOVE ME B4 WE GOT TO A MONTH I JUS WONDER WHAT WILL THIS RELATION BE LIKE HOW WILL THE SEX BE.? AND DO WE HAVE WHAT WE BOTH NEED
taurus really needs to loosen their purse strings and they are so lazy…Other than that it was ok. I mean comon you need to get your a.. moving if you going to have a livelihood. Somehow they dont grow up in a sense moving from job to job and no hassles statying home if need be.
Taurus here, 33, she is 23. I really love this aqua girl (fits her to a t) ha, but with that said, I’ve had to find counsel. I have been mostly infatuated and in love with Virgos they are mostly the ones I have adored and cherished. But this Aqua girl I am getting to know, I feel she may outshine them all, but I am in the middle of a great transition in my life. I am on a path that I am not wavering from, no matter what. It has led me on the greatest discoveries I have made in my entire life. But it also precludes me from any sort of relationship (have been celibate for 7 years, difficult but I have done so for my innermost predilections and beliefs), although I do want to keep her in my life. The gist I get, the vibe I get is that she feels the same as I do in terms of attraction and feeling. Maybe I am wrong but usually right in spotting mutual attraction…I just want to be forthright with her but can find no way to express this with her. I have been too forthright in my previous relationships and I now realize tact is something I have sorely lacked my whole life. What would be the right thing to say to keep her as a friend always?
I’m a Taurean Male and was with my Aquarius female for only months, but can honestly say it was one of (if not thee) best relationships I’ve ever been lucky enough to have been in. I am completely honest when I say that I would absolutely still be with her at this very moment if she wasn’t so immature and selfish. In the beginning I knew she was immature, she gave me a wedgie before we really became friends on the first night we had hung out together. She thought that was funny and I knew she needed a laugh due to what she was going through so I didn’t even care. The first night we went out as a couple was at a show where she proceeded to hand out her number to another guy because she thought he was too drunk to drive, and offered him a place to stay (her house!) for the night to sleep it off. She invited me in but I layed her into bed because I knew she had too much to drink as she was talking to quite a few other guys and getting free drinks all night( I didn’t find this out until after the night was over). I didn’t take her out to hang out with my friends again after that because I felt embarrassed. She knew it, and she even apologized and I understood. I chalked it up to Aquarius’ uncanny ability to be social with everyone and her/their need to flourish in such a setting. These girls will not be held back in any way, so if your contemplating having any sort of relationship with an Aquarius then keep that in mind. I knew it coming into this and even told her that we would most likely be better as simply friends. I never once wanted to hold her back but I could feel it between us that it might get to a point some time in the future that she would pursue more than I could give her. Which was fine, I knew it would eventually happen so when it did only a short time ago, I wasn’t confused or angry or even frustrated because I saw it coming. What DID confuse and frustrate me is that Aquarius females want it all, at least mine did. We had such unimaginable potential, from my perspective anyways. I was able to connect with her for only a few random moments as I think she was afraid to let me into her own world. I couldn’t truly love someone who needs to keep me at bay and out of their comfort zone, which again I saw ‘friends’ being a better option due to this. I don’t know, and I can’t imagine all Aquarius females are like this but I know she’s been hurt in the past, we all have. How we choose to learn and keep moving from those lessons is completely up to us. The truth is, I could never completely establish myself with her. God knows I wanted that to happen more than anything else in the world, but it just wasn’t going to no matter how hard I tried or what angle I approached it from. There is a feeling you get when you are with someone that you know is on the other side of a conversation, and it’s been labeled ‘chemistry’. I saw there could be more ‘chemistry’ there than anyone else I’d ever been with, but 99% of the words I’d said had gone unnoticed, not replied to, blatantly ignored and completely over her head.
As I’m reading these comments others have left for us all, I’m noticing the word ‘superficial’ coming up on more than just one occasion. That means I’m not alone when I say my Aquarius female had lived on this superficial place for maybe too long to be able to catch the direct and sometimes in-direct idea’s of what I had held so high for our future together. Communication was poor. I’d brought it up so many times it seemed useless to keep playing my broken record. Our inability to convey our feelings to each other left us in a weird zone that I’d never been to before. How I can love someone so much but not be understood by her? She would say the same thing although I believe I understood her possibly better than she understood herself. She always said ‘actions speak louder than words’. She was right, her actions spoke volumes and I understood more about her every time I would catch her doing something selfish I would hesitate.
Taureans pull away and that’s true about me as well, I pulled away and thought twice about seriously investing myself into this relationship when I saw this same girl that I’d been in love with stay out late and drink when her young children were at home sleeping. I tried to convey how irresponsible and immature this was and I wasn’t direct with this approach, but should I have to be? I’m stubborn yes, so I proceeded to be direct and tell her, but these conversations as well as others seemed to go in one ear and right out the other. Nothing it seemed had a way of sticking, we could never build the foundation. An idea that I’d had in the very beginning of this had faded. It left me nearly broken, even now I still think about what could have been and how it could have gone different.
What I wrote above may come off as a bit judgmental. I’ll admit to this much, that I’m not the greatest partner. I’m lazy, I procrastinate, But I know how to get the job done. I have the ability to understand things beyond even my own levels of experience, as I’m sure most/some other taureans can also do. Maybe that’s truly what Aquarius holds in such high regard, their unorthodox ways are understood by us and possibly by nobody else. I saw clearly the what, the how, and the why of this girl. I could see her coming home from work to our house, and I’d be there for her and know exactly what to say and how to say it to make her feel better if she’d had a bad day. I would know exactly how she was feeling at all times and was there for her, and I truly wanted to be there for her more than anything else. This was (or so i thought) possibly the last girl I was ever going to want to be with as I mentioned before. I told a friend that I still love this girl, and that if she wasn’t so selfish and such an axxxxxe, then I would absolutely still be with her. He said that I should tell her that, and see what happens. I can’t understand how or why that would change anything though.
Response to comments:
@Thia; I lol’d when I read that your the only one that can deal with his bullishness, I remember telling her that before.
@Paul, I know the feeling Bro! So sorry to hear things went that way. I don’t know that she didn’t care, she was there in the first place. Maybe it was just for the sex? Or maybe she just didn’t know how to care, who knows.
@Aquagirl, Yea, Aquarius girls will do what they want, when they want it, and if they don’t get their way then oh wow, you have a whole new set of issues to deal with now. Which leads me to ‘Soya’s comment’ of Taureans making better fathers than husbands. Well maybe that’s because when Aquarius girls don’t get their way, then they (maybe not all Aquarius girls) turn into little children and don’t know what to do. Well here comes the authoritative Taurus who knows how to handle such situations! Sound familiar to any of you? Yes we make great fathers because we know how. At least I do, and I’ve always been told I will make a great dad if/when I have children of my own. Some of your outbursts just seem funny and puzzling to us, so we/I know not to take it seriously. It’s like a children’s outburst, I know you’ll be over it within minutes so why fuss and argue over it?
@Ms Peaches; i think your correct on the ‘limited togetherness’. Views and perspectives are completely different, and if any of you have found the balance that’s necessary to sustain this relationship then I have nothing but the best wishes to send you. I wish we could do the same, and things were different on my side.
@Jenn; I’m really happy for you both, for real!
@la Porcha; I had the same feelings, no matter how messed up things seemed to be I still wouldn’t of traded it for anything. I was ‘in’ no matter what!
Priscilla :
taurus really needs to loosen their purse strings and they are so lazy…Other than that it was ok. I mean comon you need to get your a.. moving if you going to have a livelihood. Somehow they dont grow up in a sense moving from job to job and no hassles statying home if need be.
Your absolutely right, we DO! There’s something I do, and it’s an analytical approach to literally everything to an extent that it takes up so much time to make a single decision that by the time the decision has been made by us, we/I have already lost the chance it seems. Taureans theme should be ‘Better late than never’.
ZOEY :
WELL IM A AQUARIUS FEMALE AND IM WITH A TAURUS..IMEAN HE IS JUST EVERYTHING I ALWAYS WANTED WE HAVE BEEN KNOIN EACHOTHA FOR A WHILE NOW BUT BEEN DATING 1 MONTH AND WE BUMO OUR HEADS BUT I SWEAR I LOVE HIM HE TOLD ME HE LOVE ME B4 WE GOT TO A MONTH I JUS WONDER WHAT WILL THIS RELATION BE LIKE HOW WILL THE SEX BE.? AND DO WE HAVE WHAT WE BOTH NEED
Nobody can answer ‘if we both have it or not’ or ‘how good the sex will be’ but both of you. I would stop asking and try it out
lost and confused :
Advice is what I need: I would love to hear some input from anyone that is willing to give it. my story is long but to understand my situation I think I should start from the most important points. Have been talking to a man with the birthday of May 28th. i read the Taurus sign and the Gemini sign, Taurus fits this man to a T. We have been talking for 5 months now. He has been divorced for 5 years and has had no relationship with anyone else sinse his divorce. He has a 20 year old son and a 10 year old son (different mothers). His youngest son is his world. Both live with him. At first we spent a few days a month together. Now I am lucky if I get to see him once a month. He says he always wants to b friends first and dont want things to go bad between us. He said he wants to take things slow. His 10 year old just loves me to death. When we r together his son has said many times it is just like a family when we r together. The divorce ended because he found out his ex wife was gay. This I am sure has been very hard for the man I am talking to as well as the little boy. Our relationship is based on texting. He works afternoons and I work days. It seems that themore I ask to spend time with him the longer it is before I c him. The more I try to talk to him the more he avoids me. If i make no attempt to speak with him… he comes back at me hard. he will text me more.. I just dont understand his way of thinking. what is it that he wants. Ihave ask him a number of times if he wantsme to step away and he tells me no not at all. he is always saying he is just so busy. Can anyone explain to me what it is this taurus/gemini wants or does not want?
Thanks for your time
Sounds familiar. We go slow, even after that fact that things have progressed we still want to go slow. In my original post here I made things sound much much worse than they really were. I’m sure I confused some of you reading this when I combined ‘I’d still be with her’ and then laying out every negative aspect of what happened. This might relate to your post because he may or may not be thinking of what bad might come out of the situation, and he’s got 2 kids to worry about as well and how they might feel if things should go south.
By going slow in my experience; it worked well in the very beginning because I had no expectations, and I don’t know if she even looked at me as a possibility. In my opinion I don’t think she did because she gave me a wedgie the first night lol. I just wanted to be cool, and I saw she was going through a tremendous amount of stress and already having a mutual friend who had given me a heads up on that, so I wanted to be there for her. I’ll admit I was extremely attracted to her already, but I knew how to let that go first seeing as I didn’t think she was into me at all on that kind of level. She wanted to be friends as well so it was great. I got to know her more and more and as each day went by I realized how just ‘cool’ this girl really was. I didn’t stand a chance. I was in no way nearly as cool as she was. I was in no way as fun, outgoing, and charismatic as she was. There was absolutely no way I could get her. This girl was a rock star, some of her family called her that. I believe it to be true. I think in every sense of the word, from the personality, the outgoing traits, the ability to talk to anyone and put a smile on their face, and the dress code that they follow pertains exactly to this girl. Everybody loves a rock star. They entertain us, they lift our spirits, they give us energy, they don’t care what you say or do because they already know their own path and there’s nothing you can do to stop them, in short there is more spirit inside of them than most. Well I happened to fall in love with this rock star. I remember kissing her for the first time, it felt so incredibly natural. My gut instinct of meeting her thinking that there was no possible way I stood any sort of chance that I had already come to terms with was apparently wrong. Everything was fluent in the beginning. It just flowed and there was nothing else I wanted to do, or anybody else I wanted to be with. It didn’t matter though, and that’s what hurt the most. She did everything, even if I told her no, even if I didn’t want her to spend money on lunch she still would. Even if I told her not to drive us out somewhere she still would. Even when I was sick as a dog and didn’t want to see anybody in the world she still came. Even when I was sickest on my birthday she still came, with a home made ice cream birthday cake. Her children even made me a card. I didn’t deserve this. Because no matter what she did, or how amazing she was, I was still wondering if I was really what she wanted. You know that analytical frame of mind that Taureans are said to have? Well it just so happens that I’ve got it. I remember driving back from her house (I was always staying later than I should because I would lose track of everything else in the world when I was with this girl) and started thinking that I could really be with her forever. I thought about it more, and about her past and what she had chosen to do with her life prior to me, and I wondered if I could sustain her? Was it selfish of me to think of it like that? To some it may, who am I to choose for the both of us something like that? She is a rock star at heart, who am I to deserve someone this incredible? That same rock star attitude that draws me to her starts to push me away slowly. This happened when I saw some things really start to develop but with that thought of long-term in the back of my mind, I had to be sure. I needed to be sure that this was the girl for me, but when my attempt to slow things down only escalated things to go faster, I didn’t know what else to do. I know I made some mistakes, I know that I was always honest with her though, with every single thought that popped into my head that pertained to both of us, and I think I should have held some of those things in. Not all, but maybe just some of them.
Either way, this led to the end of the relationship. Truth of the matter is that there are a number of reasons that her and myself should not be together. My selfishness was more than her selfishness though, she had little bits of superficial selfishness, whereas mine ended any bit of possibilities of what could have been between us. There’s a saying, you can’t truly help anyone until you can help yourself first. And that’s my selfish reason for being single right now ultimately. I honestly don’t think about any little/big negative thing she did during our small amount of time together, because I loved her too much to let any of it bother me, and maybe that’s what made her so comfortable. And vice/versa, because no matter what dumb words came out of my mouth, she didn’t let anything get to her. And there’s something in there that made me comfortable too.
Things are different now between us, I’ll say here that I still think about how it would be if things were different, but I’d never say it to her. I know things wouldn’t be different though, as much as I can think good now, away from the situation and from a different perspective, I don’t think it can work. At least right now. Being friends now, I still can’t wait to make fun of her for something stupid though, she still manages to brighten my day up a little no matter what she says or how she says it, just talking to her works for me for now. And I hope that never goes away. At the same time nothing lasts forever, so I try and stay busy and try not to read too much into it. Just like in the beginning when things came easy and we could laugh at each other without thinking a single other thought but just having fun.
I dated a Taurus for a few months. I was drawn to the touchy huggy feely stuff. You either want something or you don’t. I never understood his push pull game. He was sure he knew me better than I knew myself but that made me really mad. The last thing on the planet I want to hear was “Oh you will be fine” when everything is going wrong. But he always told me that. I can deal with not understanding most things and just going with it but I really feel like he always played up his feelings and completly disreguarded mine. I tried to make things work but I didn’t understand him, and overall I didn’t like the way he made me feel. I guess I was craving the connection we had in the begining and I had a picture in my mind of what he could have been for me and how things could have played out and I really wanted that. I do wish I could stop seeing what i want to see and learn to see what is really right in front of me. I was iffy about getting into a relationship at this stressful time in my life and I don’t regret that I did it. Even thuogh it didn’t end well I did gain from the experience. I do regret letting myself get that close to someone though. I wish nothing but the best for my Taurus guy and hope he finds someone better suited for him in the future.
As for me I hope to find a guy one day that will ground me a little, much like a taurus could. I would want someone who wouldn’t question every single thing and just go with it though. Life is not that serious. Live a little.
… theres this taurus guy that i know likes me, but i dont like him back… 🙁 i dont avoid his texts or anything like that, i reply… he remembers things i told him a month ago wich is nice… but idk… i like him as a friend?
I thought the Aquarian was(when With Leo ) a Rebel Witout a cause How can she now “like to follow the rules?”” Confused ??
Please help me understand my Aqua girlfriend… she’s 23 single mom and I’m 34 who’s really in love with her. I look really young though.
So we’ve been together for about 5 months. In the beginning she was very attached to me. She would always talk to me at night. She would text me sweet stuff, etc. She would always meet me at my place. We’ve been intimate in most occasions.
But these past few weeks, I’ve been feeling that she’s detached and I’m feeling taken for granted. Sometimes, she won’t even bother to reply to my texts. When I call her, most of the time no answer and would take hours to call me back. When she say, she’ll call me, she does not.
I might have a clue on why she’s acting differently lately. She thinks I don’t trust her. She can’t blame me. If she said she will meet or call me, I would be waiting. And if you don’t show up or call me, I would be worrying.
Sometimes, I feel that she’s lying about small stuffs to avoid hurting me.
And another big thing that bothers me. I don’t know where she lives. She said, she had a history with a stalker and that she’s afraid. So I’m just patiently waiting.
Our relationship is slowly progressing. She recently invited me to a family party so I’ve already met her parents. Her parents know we’re dating. But she introduced me only as friends to others.
We still talk almost everyday. She still say she loves me. It’s just that I’m confused. I’m really trying to understand her and compromise.
Does she really still loves me?
I appreciate any Aquarian views. What should I do?
hm, to me it sounds likeshes a bit cautious around you and may not trust you wholey. she also might think that she was too attached at first, and now is giving yu your space, or trying to make you chase after her a bit. some of ur texts may seem insugnificant or annoying to her, so she might just brush them aside. then again, she might look at the texts hours after you sent them and think that its too late for her to reply. the same thing goes for the calls, she could just be buisy. idk y she would lie, but i do too occasionaly.
im guessing that she doent trust that if u break up, u wont be going to her house in some sort of revenge. she also may be embarrased to tell her friends about boyfriends and such(they could make it a big deal around her)
shes gunna be detached, she dosent want to bug you. id say she still loves you. if i date someone, im commited to them. if i dont like em, im still friendly.
if i loved them, but lost interest, i hide in my shell, run away at the sight of them, and lose all contact with em :-! but eventually ill start talking to them. the whole avoiding them kinda hurts their feelings tho :-/ oops
this is my personal views of what i would be thinking if i was her, sorry if it doesnt help.
@aquariette
Thank you. Well she is actually mad at me. She thinks that I am not sincere, that all I care about is myself. There were 3 incidents in the past 10 days that we had an argument about me wanting her to meet me. It was not that I was pushing her to meet me… but I guess she felt that I don’t care of what she’s saying. She felt I care more about getting what I want. That is probably why she’s changed in the past few weeks.
We haven’t talked for the last 2 days. She said we’ll talk on the 3rd day. The last time we talked, she said she’s getting uncomfortable with me. I’m thinking that she’s about to break up with me.
I really love her. But I guess I can’t do anything if she doesn’t love me anymore. I am really trying to work hard in this relationship even though I don’t understand some of the aquarian ways… I just wish she works with me.
Any advise on how to make our relationship work? How should I deal with an aquarian girlfriend? Do you think she’s about to break up with me?
I am an Aquarius woman who went on vacation and two days before leaving, I inquired about my first love Taurus (29 years ago) and found out that he was in the country. I got his number and he came over the next day. I think he is the cutest man ever. I really really love him and he said he never stopped thinking about me. He surprised me and came to take me to the airport and give me a ring. Ever since I’ve returned from my vacation, I can’t stop thinking about him and he even talked about marriage and having a child together.
I’ve had two failed marriages which I think was based on me thinking of my first and he was married once but it lasted for 3 months.
Do you think this is a good idea to marry him?
@aquariette
My aquarius girlfriend is now not talking to me. She said she’ll talk to me in person but she did not. I am giving her time and space right now. But I am really hurt. I don’t know where our relationship stands now.
All she said is she made up her mind and we will talk in person. I don’t know if she just don’t have the guts to dump me. Or if she’s not sure she what she wants.
Should I just let her go and assume that we’re over? It’s been a week. And I am losing sleep.
OMG i met a Taurus boy once and he was such an a hole I was like Next…….
In response to Michael: Wow it sounds like you really loved this aqua girl, too bad communication between you guys didn’t seem to work at all! Or that she didn’t seem to listen to you. Idk I’m an aqua myself and it’s true of aqua girls that we are not always completely aware of our partner’s feelings. But it sounds as if you, on several occasions, tried to explain to her how immature you thought she was acting and that she was causing you pain. I cannot understand how she didn’t take this seriously. Being a little “out there” is maybe an aqua thing but at the same time aquas are pretty sensitive creatures, at least I am, and someone telling me such things, I would have seriously started to review my behaviour towards this person.
Not all aquas are that superficial, you know. And really, if you don’t fully agree with you bull, well you can tell him how you look at things and then you both try to find some middle ground, this is usually how things work in a relationship…
Communication, communication, communication….
Peace & love
I AM AN AQUARIUS CHICK!
IM CURRENTLY DATING A TAURUS HUNK FOR MORE THAN 5 LONG YEARS..
HE DIDNT COURT ME OR ANYTHING..
HE WAS STRAIGHT-FORWARD..
FRANK.. AND VERY CONFIDENT WHEN HE ASKED ME TO BE HIS GURL..
HE JUST ASKED ME 3 QUESTIONS:
1. DO YOU HAVE A BF? I SAID NO.
2. DO YOU LIKE ME? I SAID YEAH. (I THOUGHT HE WAS PLAYING GAMES SO I JUST SAID “YEAH!”)
3. SO, YOU’RE MY GURL NOW? I SAID, SURE! (HAHA! SO FUNNY! I REALLY THOUGHT HE WAS JUST SOBBER!)
THEN THATS THE TIME WE STARTED DATING..
WE’VE BEEN ON AND OFF BEFORE..
HE KEEPS COMING BACK..
THEN AFTER PLAYING GAMES,
HE BECAME SERIOUS..
HE BECAME POSSESIVE OF ME..
HE TREATS ME LIKE A PRINCESS..
HE COOKS FOR ME..
HE EVEN PUT THE FOOD ON MY PLATE..
(EVERY SINGLE TIME!)
HE MAKE SURE IM SAFE,AT ALL TIMES!
HE IS SWEET..
VERY SWEET..
I DONT FIND HIM ROMANTIC..
BUT HE WRITES LOVE LETTERS TO ME..
HE GIVES ME HUG..
KISSES.. EVEN WHILE WE WALK, HE KISSES ME..
HE’S GONNA TREAT YOU LIKE A BABY..
I MEAN, HE’S REALLY GONNA BE THERE WHENEVER YOU NEED HIM..
HE WILL DO ANYTHING THAT YOU WANT..
EVEN THE MOST SIMPLE THINGS..
HE NEVER COMPLAINS WHENEVER I ASK HIM TO GET WATER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT..
TURN-OFF THE LIGHTS EVEN WHEN HIS SO TIRED AND LAZY TO GET UP (HE’LL STILL DO IT..)
HE DOESNT MIND WHEN I CHANGE THE CHANNEL TO THE MOST BORING SHOW..
HE DOESNT MIND WHEN I ASK HIM CARRY MY LITTLE CUTE PINK CLUTCH!
I NEVER WENT HOME ALL BY MYSELF, WHY?
HE ALWAYS WAIT FOR ME BY THE DOOR EVERY AFTER CLASS AND MAKES SURE THAT WE GO HOME TOGETHER..(WHEN I WAS STILL IN COLLEGE)..
WHEN I WAS WORKING,
WHEN HE CANT PICK ME UP,
HE ALWAYS MAKE SURE THAT I GO HOME HAPPY..
I MEAN, THE FOOD IS READY..
I HAVE NOTHING TO THINK ABOUT WHEN I GO HOME..
HE PROTECTS ME AGAINST ANYONE..
HE MAKES SURE THAT NO ONE WILL HURT ME IN ANY KIND OF WAY..
WHEN HE IS UP TO SOMETHING HE WILL REALLY DO IT..
WHEN HE TELLS YOU SOMETHING, OR PROMISE YOU SOMETHING, HE WILL DO IT..
BUT THERE ARE ALSO ROUGH TIMES..
AS AN AQUARIAN, I LOVE MY FREEDOM..
BUT AS A TAUREAN, HE IS POSSESSIVE AND JEALOUS..
THE ONLY REASON WHY WE FIGHT IS HIS JEALOUSY.
HE JEALOUS EVERYTIME.
WHEN I SAY EVERYTIME IT MEANS ALWAYS!
WHEN I TALK TO OTHER GUYS, EVEN TO SOMEONE WHO IS GAY.. HE IS JEALOUS..
WHEN I TALK TO A GURL,
HE THINKS SHE’S A LESBIAN..
HE WANTS ME TO BE “HIS ONE AND ONLY!”
THATS SWEET..
BUT HE THINKS IM HIS PROPERTY..
WHEN WE FIGHT,
HE REALLY MAKES SURE THAT IM HURT..
YOU WILL HEAR THE WORDS YOU NEVER WANT TO HEAR..
YOU WILL FEEL THE PAIN YOU NEVER EVEN IMAGINE THAT HE CAN DO..
HE IS A BULL.
HE OUTRAGE WHEN HE IS MAD. TRULLY MAD.
I FEEL SCARED WHEN HE IS MAD AT ME
BECAUSE I KNOW,
AND IM EXPECTING HIM TO BE VERY VERBAL AND PHYSICAL TO ME..
I FEEL ABUSED WHEN WE FIGHT.
I CANT FIGHT BACK BECAUSE I KNOW IT WILL ONLY WORSTEN THE SITUATION..
THATS THE ONLY THING THAT I WANT TO WARN YOU IF YOU WANT TO DATE A TAURUS GUY..
THEY CAN BE THE SWEETEST, MOST RELIABLE GUY IN THE WORLD THAT YOU WILL MEET..
BUT
HE CAN ALSO BE THE WORST MAN WHO WILL BREAK YOU HEART AND SOUL..
I LOVE HIM SO MUCH THATS WHY WE ARE STILL TOGETHER..
BUT I KNOW, IF I CANT CHANGE HIM..
WE WILL ONLY END TO BE “SOMEONE I USED TO KNOW..”
Hey aqua chick have u thought of anything, which will help him in changing ????????????
I’m an Aquarius(female) and I’m with a Taurus(male) and he has literally knocked my exs out the window. It’s only been a couple months and he’s already got ME hooked. Since the day we first meet our eyes connected and the conversation was extremely exciting and strange. And when he asked me to be his girl after me breaking up with my ex(stubborn Aries :/), I was happy and willing. Which is blasphemy considering my recent encounters with incompatible men and my issues with trust. But he makes me talk and blurt out everything on my mind in an instant. An I don’t mean my normal Aquarius tactic where as I am normally blunt and say my opinion but he just brings out the “mushy” side in me that I never knew existed.
He’s funny, caring, adorable, and stubborn as hell and I just love it! He’s everything I can ever need in a man without even trying. And his possessiveness only heightens my sexual passion for him. Oh yeah and the intercourse is basically AMAZING. He was my first, and let me tell you… It was a billion times better than I expected. Normally your first time should be awkward and just painful. Well, he changed my views when he made it both entertaining and basically enjoyable. He had me smiling from the start to finish… Making it a memorable experience…
But even with all his “great” qualities… I’m still worried whether I should let him sweep me off my feet completely. He’s very well known at school by most of the female student population and he’s pretty introvert when it comes to talking about himself… I don’t know if I should keep going with no worries or keep a watchful eye… Help please…
So I met this great Taurus man about 10 years ago. We lived in different states, so when he come to town we would hang out. The sex was good and that was pretty much it. I personally never felt he was into me that much so I never really pursued him. We lost touch for the last 10 years and he finds me again. He said that he thought about me a lot and has tried to find me on several occasions. Also, he told me such sweet things and that I had left an impression on him. Weird because I never felt that from him at all back then. So yeah, we talked one time for a couple hours the other night with some great conversation. Haven’t heard from him in 2 days. What gives? I can’t tell what he wants or why he contacted me again. He’s still so handsome and gave me butterflies. damn it. 😉
Amal Amaddin and Georg Clooney (aquarius woman and taurus man)
also, Elizabeth Banks and her long term partner and husband.Max Handelman.
okay… so i was just wondering ive been dating this taurus guy for about a year and 2 months. He is basically everything in the article that it says he is or does. and everything that @AQUA CHICK has said is totally true. but one question:Do most taurus men cheat like in general? especially on aquarian women? and how do you know? pls help I want this relationshp to last a life time bc I love him with all of my heart.
The Tauras man was the only man I’ve ever truly fell in love with, he was able to ground me. He’s a very intelligent man, a great provider and a traditional man that believes the man should provide and the woman should stay at home. I loved him for him beautiful and intellectual mind. He’s a great lover, but a traditional lover where as love making was confined to the bed. I’m an Aquarius woman and I believe love making should be done everywhere as long as no one sees us. We had a great relationship, great sex multiple times a day. He was a planner and I was a free spirit. He would plan our vacation and I was a free spirit meaning I didn’t plan vacations, I would just get up and go. Normally, in a relationship I have my guard up, but with the Taurus man that made me feel so secure, mentally and physically(mind, body and soul) I took down my guards. Our relationship end because of his infidel. This man will always have a piece of my heart because I was able to experience true love.
Through reading all this im still with my Tarius,we been through heaven and hell together, i am still curious if we will end up together
I seek to find a variety of moments that will illustrate my craving of making deep and meaningful connections but it started feeling like I was wasting time. That intrinsic desire to feel connected started dying amid all the distinct moments, the surrounding demonstrations seemed null and no longer felt like a journey of heading home, the need to explore deeper in the soul got shallow, it didn’t feel there was any evolving or adapting that would keep me plugged in, was more of a vast and empty canvas that forever kept stretching into eternity.
The issues also brought among the most crucial non-conforming values that were uncompromisable. I think it might have been lifes lesson in patience and endurance, I mean; it was enamoring in a desolate was, inspiring fear but still been gentle, could say maybe that contrast between strength and vulnerability.
Simon Lekhuleni
I think you are very wrong !! Maybe because no one ever genuinely love you for who you are , I meet my ex- husband when I was 22 years old he was 19 years old we felt in love like we were the only people living in this earth when we meet he didn’t have a job I was working as a Midwife he moved in to my flat within a week I work and pay bills on my own I never even see or realised that was wrong we got married after two years we meet we stay married for 25 years afte 23 years of marriage we had a beautiful son look just like him he still didn’t work then but I never question him why or even talk about it he studied and got a degree but never look for a job ,so money is nothing to some women in this World he works hard now and earn a lot of money I stay at home with our son he worship the ground me and his son we walk on we still laugh like we are together we take our son to holidays do shopping go for meals travel around the world but we are no long together . We just both fall out of love nothing else !! so next time tou open your mouth you must know that you have not meet all women in this Earth