Taurus Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
I guess it is possible for any two people to get together on some basis, but this is a wild stretch of the astrological imagination. Taurus is so conservative and Aquarius is so out there it is hard to conceive of these two having a single thing in common except their stubbornness. Furthermore, Taurus is interested in money and material well-being while Aquarius could care less as long as he has an ideal that he can dedicate his life to.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Taurus Woman:
Show your intelligence and detach from the personal. Focus instead on the issues that surround him. You are probably going to meet him as a member of a group working for a positive goal for the community, so take advantage of those circumstances to create conversation. Aquarius is fanatically loyal, so you should believe in his cause or at least be willing to learn more about it. If you don’t think you can commit to it, you’d better leave him alone.
How to Attract a Taurus Woman as an Aquarius Man:
If you are interested in a Taurus lady who has her own finances, you have a good shot of wooing her with your glamorous lifestyle. She spends a lot of time doing simple things like housework, gardening, sewing, paying the bills, cooking, and shaving her legs. Your causes and vast network of interesting “friends” can really be attractive to her if she’s got a stable life of her own she can always go back to. Be respectful of her needs and take the time to explain things to her carefully and you should find that she is willing to join you on some exciting adventures.
Degree of Romance:
It is hard to be romantic with an Aquarius because he puts the value on friendship. When he refers to her as “best friend” the lady bull may not understand the complement fully. This man is not into flowers, candy, handholding or special feelings. All Aquarians seem to have a time-space issue where they crowd as much as they possibly can into each hour of every day. She has got to be prepared to get up early and go to bed late if you want to keep up with this dynamo. Of course, this leaves little or no time for romance, which he will consider a complete and utter waste of time.
Degree of Passion:
Both these signs are capable of intense focus which passes for passion; however, it will be toward, in the case of Taurus, material possessions, and in the case of Aquarius, The Cause. They can lead two separate lives if they get to know each other well enough, and it will be very helpful if Taurus shows some passion for his projects.
Degree of Friendship:
This is one sign combination that can have a high degree of genuine friendship (which Aquarians value above everything else). He has a humanitarian streak and code of honor that insists he devote himself to the well-being of his fellow traveling companions on the planet. She will have to extend herself a little. It will help if she can hook up with some people in his network (again, to show support for his cause). Tauruses are not unfriendly but the act of extending herself is not necessarily natural.
Degree of Marriage:
These two could stick out a miserable situation for a long, long time because each one is too stubborn to admit they have made a mistake. Please look outside yourself for comment as necessary as to the appropriateness of your liaison. In some cases, the façade of a marriage is maintained while Aquarius vacates the premises at every possible occasion and gives Taurus the money to furnish and provide for the home. Tauruses can withstand a lot of loneliness.
Progression of Relationship:
This relationship has a lot of pushing and shoving in a psychic sense. Each is bossy and thinks they know how to make progress. Taurus is possessive, and she has a long list of activities and even duties that she expects the Aquarian to do, whereas Aquarius is always interested in closure so he can move on to other things. If he is interested in her, he may try to rope and tie the lady bull so he can get back to the rest of the rodeo.
Sex:
Taurus wonders how you can have sex outside your body, where Aquarius invented virtual sex long before the Internet came around. It’s not that Aquarians believe in fantasies, but they are capable of communing with the others in a sort of Vulcan mind merge. The energy connection is satisfying to the Aquarian and substitutes nicely for two bodies meeting. Naturally, this is not going to go over well with the Taurus at all, but then she is perfectly capable of satisfying herself if it comes to that.
When It’s Over:
Most of the fireworks inherent in this combination will come at the end. Taurus has a spectacular temper and Aquarians are able to stomp off on a dime. The willfulness of each sign makes compromise difficult and explosions inevitable. Taurus may think she owns the Aquarian, which is a disaster waiting to happen since you can’t control an Aquarian whatsoever. Any Aquarian worth his salt knows that all he has to do is leave to assert his famous independence. I have an image of a magician handing an empty hat to a bystander who shakes his head saying, “Where did he go? Where did he go?”
Ya that is one thing that is SO WRONG about what it says for Aquarius’s… I love giving girls flowers, candy, holding hands ect and am very in touch with my emotions as well 🙂
But I also do love my alone time too…
I am so in love with an Aquarius men. I admire their creativity, artistic ways, intelligence, and their abilities to think outside the box.
As a Taurus woman, I am also very artisitc, creative, a humanitarian, intelligent, and think outside the box. I think they only focused on one aspect of Taurus women. We are natural homebodies…TRUE!…but we are extremely open-minded, especially when we are in love! We would support the cause of a loved one because we are naturally built that way!
I’d like to hear what the ladies who have dated Aqua Men have to say.
This is so true – I am a bull lady married to an aqua man and we are fighting continuously yet we wont quit this marriage?? I do think that we are close to the end of the line though, we cannot say any good to each other any more – its been 5 years of draining the life out of me …. although we had our great moments – we fought the whole time about everything, I was miserable right through my pregnancy, my wedding day and buying our first home together – tears and fights – and I still have love in my heart for him – I feel like he just do not understand me?!?!?!?!
You are stubborn, aren’t you? Well, that’s what keeps some marriages together but it’s hard to witness and the kid … an Afrikan proverb, “When elephants fight it is the grass that suffers.”
I attract many Aqua men. This has been as a result to my committment to many humanitarian causes. As for Taurus women, we are generous souls. We’re not as materialistic as people think we are. We value ‘quality’ not ‘quantity.’ We are more likely to be attracted to men who are less pretentious, genuine, compassionate, and artistic (keep in mind, we are signs of Venus). Men who flaunt their cash who possess empty souls hold no place for a Taurus woman…..
I find Aqua men to be wonderful people. ‘Real’ people to be exact. Taurus women prefer honesty, rather than perfection. We’re not Virgos! Aqua men are very real, honest, and down-to-earth people. Why did the author assume the pairing was going to be “hell on earth?”
As for posession, a Taurus woman values her own independence. I doubt our time will be utilized clipping the wings of an Aqua!
Taurus is lots of wonderful things but generous is not one of them. Taurus invented the bumper sticker, “Ass. Gas. Or grass.”
As Linda Goodman put it so well, “No one stays for free at the Taurus Motel.” My Taurus sister took in a destitute 60+ relative, got her a job and charged her rent. You are describing some other influences, not Taurus.
i am a taurean female with an aqaurian male. god he has been hurt in the past by a capricorn lady adulterous etc.. betrayed his trust. he is cautious. i came into his life only 8months after his seperation .i think i mistook need for affection at the time. as time has gone by, he is more confident in life but with me sometimes i feel like the furniture, not as giving as before, blows hot and cold..the whole belonging to each other is alien to him any kind of emotional conversation about intimacy is a no no… he cant cope with it. goes into a silent panic.. but then i have times when we are intimate he totally lets go. being a taurean i am the tactile patient loving being that he has come to adore. but to say those loving words to me …well it never happens we are into our relationship a year and a half on now. and i am slowly losing confidence in my sesuality as well as our commitment to each other and doubt his real feeling for me, only because he never tells me….arrgggghhhh!!!!!! i get so frustrated because for once after a lenthy divorce myself i feel great feeling for this guy, that slowly slowy will ruin us.
I too am a taurus female with an aquarian male, i do say that when i first got to know him he was standoff-ish and pretty private about every aspect of himself.I got to know him, but from a distance. You could almost say I didnt care, but the difference was that i wasnt going to put my head or heart into someone that wasnt ready to deal with it.After a few months I saw him change, for the better. He opened up to me and began asking for me to be around him more often, which of course i was happy to do. He gives compliments, buys me flowers…everything you could want when it comes to romance.In the summary the author states how aquarius does sex differently, almost without emotion.Not at all in this case, he is nowhere near detached from whats going on and i have never wondered if his mind was somewhere else. Im actually quite surprised how much he likes to take care of me. I became pregnant, we werent ready for that but not once did he make me feel like i should not have our child. He accepted it, and for a man who wasnt ready, handled it so much better than i hoped. So this reading may point out some aquarians, but i dont believe its right down to a “T”
Romance: Myself and my Gods gift to me Taurus have the romance without question. Being an Aq myself I also disagree because I cannot keep my hands off my baby and love showing her I’m romantic.
Passion: There is passion and tons of it, at times though it seems as if it may not be enough for the bull of mine.
Friendship: She is my best friend and we connect on every level! She does like to make our place a home and has a keen eye for good stuff. I tend to become to distracted for her taste though.
Marriage: I do plan on marrying, even though she is really stubborn as a bull. I myself am extremely stubborn and this does create some “fun times explaining our points of view” but I would not trade it for anything. Yeah I see how this can ruin a relationship and “who knows why” but I compromise…. Its so hard to abandon my point (which I may still feel is valid) and for the betterment of my relationship give in. I know its hard but sometimes you need to work on your own traits/faults (even when you feel you dont need to) for your blessing to work. Because that is really what you have is a blessed experience with someone who gets the “real” you.
Progression: She is bossy…..Lets just say she keeps me busy…..I do agree on closing to move on to the next thing… that is so me!
Sex: “Naturally, this is not going to go over well with the Taurus at all” Yeah its good but apparently not good enough…… always some critiqueing
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I am a Taurus woman and I’ve had an experience with an Aquarius man. I agree. It is very hard, and I’m on the verge of giving up already. I don’t think we understand each other, and we have different ideals. I wanted something stable and secure, but he couldn’t give that to me at all. He is so, so, so independent and detached. So… it’s not working out. Taurus women out there, unless you REALLY like your Aquarius man and have TREMENDOUS amount of patience (I am patient, but I’m also practical. I won’t bother myself with something which is almost a guaranteed fail), then I personally won’t recommend this sort of pairings. We deserve better, really. Unless, of course, if your pairing is one of those rare, miraculous wonders which actually do work out well (it’s skewed and not so realistic to base relationships completely on astrology after all), in which case, I am happy for you.
I am under the sun sign of Taurus, Iam in a relationship with a Aquarius man, but i can just get along with his behavior he say one thing and later change.
hi it jean again last imput march…
how are things now ? we are nearly 18 months in..mmm he has started to open up and said the three loving dreaded words (texted of course) he has started to realise that yes, I am a very tactile taurean woman who enjoys sex and lots of it, but he can’t keep up really,… it is still a relationship based on freindship, and i think it will always be, but i am starting to relax a bit more and enjoy the whole not too intense relationship, because I have my share of that as with the passion also comes the heart ache of continually trying to outwit each other.. its not like that with my Aqaurian man, its calm…. which is good/real…I am also starting to understand his body language more, the gentle touch or noticing him watching me… it does feel good…. lets see how it goes… i’ll let you know…
So, I am an Aqua Male dating a Taurus Female and it seems like we have reversed roles. I am the one who wants commitment and she is the one who wants to have space, take things very slow, and get to know eachother better. We have great conversations most of the time about work, family, and other random topics. Most of our arguments are about trust because I’ve been hurt really bad in the past. I hate not being around her and space is really hard for me. I am in love with her and her son and can definately see myself spending the rest of our lives together. She has told me the same but says we need to move slowly. I guess I’m waiting on the title of “boyfriend and girlfriend” and she would like to say we are exclusively dating. I am an extremely sexual person, which I guess is odd for aquarians and her and I are very open and passionate in the bedroom. I too, can’t keep my hands off my bull! She is everything I could ever want in a woman and makes me feel like no other woman ever could. We are 4 months into our relationship and even though it’s not easy because we are both stubborn, I think we will make it because we have become open books to one another and the communication and compromise is there. If it feels right explore it. If you know it’s right then commit to it. Much respect to all!
hey guys.im a Taurus women &i thought i was inlove with this aquarian man .at first,i was attracted to his wealth and charm & his touch of glamour. i thought ah yea what a releif security!i also felt like we had a secure honesty between us.But he drifts.to me a drifter is not interested. i sincerily think that they dont know how to talk about their feelings sincerily.i feel like they dont know what they want.i mean i could feel the love flowing through him but a close relationship is not what they want.they are insensitive and they dont care about peoples feelings.so how can i expect romance from someone who doesn’t care about my feelings.its like going out with a wall its like theres no onethere.i like loyalty i like to know he’s never gonna leave or go anywhere i like someone who can talk to me about his feelings, that’s when i’llk now we’re really close and we have a relationship.to me Aquarians are like robots they ask a lot of empty shallow questions they dont like to have deep relationships.i can’t handle too much superficial crap.They take more than they give.they like to confuse people.without opennes and addmitting when your wrong you can’t grow.they never tell the truth & they are never wrong.In all honesty they are very complicated unreliable and messed up.
its like your just an accessary to them.i dont think they are really that deep.they’re also liers they lie their way through life they don’t have the courage to be confrantational in a nice way they dont have patience for anyone’s feelings.
i feel its hard to make any deep involvement with them
I totally agree with Sally. I am too a taurus woman and I dated this aquarian man. At first, I thought he was perfect, handsome, wealthy,famous, like nice things as I am. He wasn’t affectionate but he came so strong when we first met, always want to get together all the time, sending me gifts, promise our future together etc etc …….then he disappeared…. I let him go…he came back and started it once again. I was madly in love with him again… he went away…. my heart broke into little pieces…..then he came back again and so on and so on. Stay away from this A-hole sign.
WARNING!!! TO ALL WOMEN CONSIDERING A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN AQUARIAN MAN… ENTER AT YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL RISK! IF YOU DON’T KNOW JESUS, YOU WILL NEED HIM IF YOU DECIDE TO ENTER IN. AND IF YOU ENTER IN, YOU WILL REMEMBER THIS POST. GO IN PEACE, NOT IN PIECES.
I too have a same experience. I met this aqua guy. Like him instantly. He approached me. Said he like me. Love me. Etc etc and then disappeared. two years has been tellin me tat he love me. Says wants to marry me. But when it comes to commitment runs away. Say i don wanna talk etc etc. Then shows up in a month or two to do the same shit. This time i seriously told him to go away. I don even pick his cal. But he does not understand. Im sick of him. He has the nerve to tell me about his girlfriends along with sayin he loves me. Limit.
Hi, I’m an Aquarian man and would like to address the destructive criticism posted by saying ALL Aquarian men aren’t bad. Just as no one person is perfect, not a single soul under one particular zodiac sign is perfect either. We are all flawed and were all created flawed, and as far as I’m concerned will parish the earth flawed, correcting our flaws. One thing ALL people must understand is that everyday is a learning experience. There shouldn’t be a single day that goes by where there isn’t a lesson being learned(where there’s a lesson to be taught, there’s a lesson to be learned). Last but not least, briefly, I want to talk on the subject of submission. Both the Aquarian and Taurean are fixed signs, which means they are obstinate in their own ways and both signs find it arduous to compromise and submit. No offense, but there are times when the woman must submit to her man, since the man is the head of the household. Giving credit to the woman, she is the neck of the household, and if the neck is broken, the head cannot move.
Everything here is true true true, hit it dead on the nail about the men and women
So I left comment # 15 last time I posted on here. After 7 and a 1/2 months of taking care of this Tauren woman and her child it seemed like we were on the same page. Communicating, making plans to move in together, and even talked about her having another child. She had told me she had got rid of all these guys numbers she used to have because she was ready to be fully commited to me. Well I came home one day from work and she had a new phone call from someone named Paul. When I checked her texts she had texted one to him stating, I will get a babysitter so I can see you on Saturday. She told me he was just a friend she had met at work and that she was going out with him and a few co-workers. Of course I wanted to believe her but I didn’t. I came home last Wednesday to find her and another man in my bed. It didn’t end pretty. She still tries to text me but I won’t reply. If your an Aquarius Man please beware of a relationship with a Tauren Woman. I’m not saying that Tauren women are bad I’m just saying they are not good with Aquarius men. Or at least not in my situation. Good luck to you all.
ohh… i am sorry what happened to you, Larry but thanks for sharing your story… ‘Cos i am having similar problems with my Aqua bf..i do have a lot of guy friends but they are actually just work mates. For me, there is only one man in the world, my bf, who i only trust and rest of others are just people..
whenever i visit his place, my friends call me and my bf become unaturally energetic or very quite for rest of the day. But he never asked me who that was and why they called me…He seems very careful with his words and questions when he is with me, becos i think he knows the power of language. Unfortuntely, i don’t usually talk too much about my things unless he asks me, and he is the same, so Our communications seems not working well at the moment. Neither of us really open our mind and try to talk bout the problem which is sad..
But i do love him, My bf is very honest and detached with emotions onc he comes up with an opinion, and that is what i totally like about him.
it is true i pushed him away and stay distanced in the beginning, but man…. taurian girls are slow starter and long lasting lovers. our feelings do not have on nd off buttons, things endlessly continue and grow. Do push us harder constantly and repeat them for us so we can convince with the relationship.
BTW i do not want my Bf changed by me, i do not want to chnge myself for him too quickly. But i want to support and follow him and respect his originality, energetic and active nature,
@Larry: Man, I feel for ya! It happened to me too w/ a bull **** woman…
except it was her karate instructor! I was paying for classes for her and they would “stay late and work on their forms”. We are still married as Nancy states above in the article, but the flip is we both admitted we were wrong. I was mean and did drive her away… but I don’t think the punishment fit the crime.
We separated for 2 years, I had custody of our boy, then age 7… and when I returned this year, she had informed me that she slept with 9 guys when I was away!!!!! I finally got it out of her that it was actually 10 guys. I will not place her into a class of other Taurean females, but I will say that this one is so selfish and mean, I would swear she’s a snake on the chinese zodi! but nope, an ox over there, so I have 2 stubborn animals to put up with! I am still with her for our son, I do love her and we are friends, but I don’t think I can ever be as loyal to her as I once was. (Year of the dog, for me). So that is saying a lot. I haven’t cheated on her, but she said she owes me, so she would let me if I desired… but I am a big chicken! I don’t think I could go through with it. Best wishes to us Larry!
This is to the people that are assuming that all aquarian guys are the same and that all taurus chicks are the same.
U guys are thick on the head. dumb.. So u are telling me that every aquarious men is a dick and every taurus chick is stuburn… a cheater … idk. Well I am a taurus and while i do believe a little bit of the horoscope crap u cannot say that all the people under a certain horoscope are gonna all be an exact certain way. It’s like saying all black man have a big dick. or all asians have a small one. DO not categorize people because of their horoscope. I am in love with an aquarious men… and I really do think that one has to work in a relationship and see where things take them. Do not go into a relationship with someone expecting the worse… or u will get the worse. change ur attitude. Do not categorize. when someone u love hurts u… it has nothing to do with their horoscope. stop looking for excuses on why that person was a cheater or a dick or detached. It was only a person not a whole “class” of persons.
To Larry, i feel sorry for you, but i don’t think what happened to u will happen to everyone of us. Its very Odd for an aquarian male to go on commitment easily.
To Yvonne, yes ur definitely right..
I am a lady bull and my bf is an aqua man. our relationship is running until now, its more than 2 years already.. i couldn’t care less until when will our relationship last. the important thing is i love him and he loves me.
during the first part of our relationship, he’s very close to me, we only need a paper for us to be married. He has his best friends but he managed to turn his back from them coz of me. He trusts me everything, including his passwords here :), but still I have the Bull within me, wanting to rule everything on him – I want to take in charge. He is the most caring person i have ever met, and i never found any guy who loves me like this.
Lately he’s having problems with financial matters and with his family forcing him to marry another woman, but he refuse, and in the same time, i have been too possesive of him coz im always gettin jealous with his friends. I know he will not give-in to that forced-marriage, coz he (as an aquarian) doesn’t like to be manipulated.
With all these problems, he demanded space, he went away to wonderland.
Lately i realize my mistakes- i am truly a bull, and somehow i am trying to understand his nature as an aquarian… he is a very unique person. He hides himself, but i know what and how hes thinking. He refuse to marry another woman – not because of me, but because he doesn’t want to lose his freedom (which all aquarians wants).
As a bull, I have been very emotional lately, and i want to go back to the usual routine of our relationship (bull hates change). But he refuse (aqua wants change), still he wants space. He sometimes call me out of the blue and tells me, he misses me so much with a crying voice.. Last 3 weeks we meet again, (it has been 2 months i didn’t see him), when i saw him, before sitting beside me, he quickly hugged me tight and give kisses to my head and put my head on his heart. I know he is true…
I-as a Bull- i’m jealous, & possesive. He as an Aquarian – not showing too much emotions. Before, the Bull thought Aqua doesn’t love her and that he’s playing on the Bull. The Bull got frustrated, she went crazy, became more possessive… Then aqua feels his freedom was threatened, he demanded space and he became icy cold.
But the Bull has the longest patience… and she understands.
My aqua man is an ugly guy, he is broke, too much debts, he shocks me with his ugly attitude, his family are close minded and all he cares about are his group of friends. So lucky will be the girl who will marry her lol 😀
Despite of this, i love him so much.. and because of that, i will try to overcome my weakness as a taurean female, and i will give him freedom and support. As a Bull im holding to my ground, I believe we can make it. My aqua man is so unstable as water, and he needs me – a Stabilized Bull – to lean upon.
For now, I’m so much in control with my emotions.. and much wiser than before. I respect him because i love him.
I’m back! I do agree that everyone’s relationships and situations are different. Much respect to all on this site. I finally gave in and answered her phone. After a very long discussion of why what happened, happened. I decided to give it another shot because I am still in love with her and her child. We still have our misunderstandings and arguements but we now have moved in together and things seem to be going in the right direction. I think if we can get through this type of mess we can get through anything. With all the arguing and make up sex I don’t think we’ll ever get bored. LOL! I’ll keep you all updated. Happy Holidays!
I am a Taurus and I have dated to Aqua Men. I am currently dating an Aqua Man. He is the most passionate, thoughtful, kind guy I have dated thus far. More passionate and nurturing than the Cancer Man I dated. He is attentive and we have some of the deepest conversations. I have done my own chart and some of you need to do so, to find out what other signs make up who you are. My moon sign and my rising sign are both Leo. So I believe he brings out the Leo energy in me, especially when we are having sex. He is a passionate lover, we kiss and make out for long periods of time, and he just knows a Woman’s body. We have never had one argument. We debate and have good discussions but they never end on bad terms. We were friends first so maybe that was a factor, I am not sure, but for the most part this data isn’t true. This Aqua Man is so into pleasing me. When I am at his home, he caters to me, makes me food, brings me things to drink, he is on point. He also likes to cuddle and is very affectionate. I have had my fair share of lovers in the zodiac and he by far pleases me the ultimate best. I think I do the same too. My only concern with him and the other Aqua Man is that they are not big spenders. They’re not gift givers and that makes me sad, because as a Taurus Woman I liked to be wined and dined and flowers for my Birthday or just to remind me that I am special is what makes me melt.
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Hi, I’m a Aqua woman who has been on and off with a Taurus male for the past 4 years or so. We have great sexual chemistry and when together things are great but when apart all we do is fight. He pulls away alot and goes into hiding and that makes me think he is with someone else. We broke away for two years and we have recently been talking again and be are back to these games as I call it. I’m having a hard letting him go as I have fallen in love with him. I know we can make it work but he is just so stubborn at times. I don’t help matters as when he pushes me away I tend to go off and do things to piss him off. Our issue is that we need to sit and talk it out but when together he shows his affection sexually. What do I do?
I’m dating an Aquarian male and it is war. I mean he’s stubborn, he’s a very annoying teaser and gets pissed quite often. He’s not into little romance like holding hands and stuff and I hate that cause I can’t really tell what he feels for me. On the good side he’s fun to be with and funny.
I’ve been in relationships with the Pisces men and Taurus men. But never been intimate with the Aquarian man. My intimate relationship with the Aquarian man is so difficult. He is stubborn, an annoying teaser, gets pissed quite easy and he dosen’t show love and affection. I hate that because I don’t know what he feels for me. He’s not a gift person and I also hate that cause I’m a Taurus woman who really appreciates gifts.
I’m TAURUS WOMAN AND I’M NOTHING LIKE THAT AT ALL YOU RAN ACROSS THE ONE OF THE BAD ONES!Type your comment here
I’m a Taurus woman in love with an Aquarius man. We were matched on a compatibility dating site 🙂 That was a year ago. For most of that year we have just been friends. I didn’t understand him at all, I thought he was hard and cold. We were always able to communicate well on a friend level though. Then one day……things just began to change. Suddenly my feeling s for him were very intense. Slow and steady has been both of our middle names 🙂 When I asked him why he hung around, he answered, he knew I was special and was just waiting. My Aqua man is very emotional!!! He wears his heart on his sleeve, if you take the time to actually look for it. His patience amazes me and his passion leaves me breathless. Far from being detached, he worries just like the rest of us, he just does it in a much more private and controlled way than a firey taurus. Yes he is stubborn, but boy so am I. I can generally see his point of view and when he makes sense I back down and vice versa. He says that it is our differences that balance us out, and I agree. While i’m firery, he’s patient. When I drift off he brings me back. When he has no concept of saving money and putting some away for a rainy day, I take control but still give him a bit of slack so he doesn’t feel hemmed in. I do believe this match can work. AS LONG as you are both always open to communicate. Being a bossy Taurus I demand communication, being a private Aqua, it scares him silly, but somehow we manage to meet in the middle, and he is slowly learning that speaking intimatley about ones feelings is not such a scary thing……and often ends up having side benefits 🙂
I’ve had my heart broken by a totally astrologically compatible capricorn, and also by a cancer. I’ve come to realise its the individual that makes a partnership work not a compatible star sign. Its not choosing the right partner, its being the right partner 🙂
My boyfriend of 4 years in Aquerius and he is soo super romantic and loving always and I mean ALWAYS it’s wonderful I wouldn’t have it any other way I agree Taurus girls secretly love being smothered with affection. I definitely have the “power” in the relationship but it works perfectly that way because although I tend to make all the major desitions in private he spoils me with love affection lovely dinners and sometimes lovely gifts (that I choose cos he has no clue what my taste is even after 4 years). Yes Taurus are a little more materialistic then Aquerius men but that’s a good thing because they keep it in perspective and it forces Taurus to be less greedy and hold back on SHOPPING (I do love it) that, because she notices her behaviour more infont of the not fussed Aquerius man. We make a true companionship and a very heathy balenced relationship and moste importantly friendship. P.s. Fedelity is very key to a Taurus in love trust is abserlutly nessosarry for any sign to live with or be loved by a one. I’m very lucky that my man makes me feel like the moste beautiful women in the world every day. I wish that for all my fellow Taurus chicas x
Also I’m the year of the Rabbit and he is the year of the Pig and according to it they are moste comparable and live in harmony together and I would strongly agree on that. Although it says Sheep is my sole mate and irronicly a sheep is also his sole mate so we shall be avoiding sheep at all costs to avoid us running away from eachother with SHEEP! 😉 patience is a massively good quality in an Aquerius man when it comes to us Quick tempered Taurus. I just lose it completely sometimes about something and he deals with me so well he just let’s me get it all out and we soon make up. Nothing worse then someone fighting back just as hard because I don’t know about the rest of you but if I think im right I KNOW I am and there is no stopping me if you fight back.
Maybe thats just ur sister all i ever do is give and im far from greedy i try to be as good to ppl as possible
Hi ladies and guys….
It is all realy so scary things about this relationship you all have shared…. I recently met a Taurus girl and I really like her….we talk but she does not open up and because of her stubborness when i ask her a question it is like bound that she is not going to reply that…. I do everything i can to please her but i really don`t know where we are heading to, how can a Taurus lady not even value the words of someone when that person is talking to her? but I am sure that i will regret alot if we get separated in the future.
Aqua man here. Just putting in my 2 cents since i am currently with a cute bull woman, my big cotton candy, FLUFFBALL. she may be thinking to write or not to write that is the question 🙂 …….with apologies to Shakespeare. when she sees that you are genuine she will probably respond. Ya know we aqua guys can get a little theoretical…. analytical. I know it feels terrible when someone does not respond 😉
Well I have to go with the negative, although I wish it were otherwise. I was talking to this Aqua male, thought he was a gift from heaven. He was totally different from the other guys I’ve spoken to, which was why I was crazy about him. Well, that was until he up and disappeared. Regardless of the fact that it might be normal for this sign to have their space (a lot of it apparently), I feel that’s a really inconsiderate thing to do, especially since it nearly broke my heart. But I’m happy for all those women who were able to keep theirs aqua, they really are something special.
I am an aquarius man. Well, only 14. I’m dating a Taurus girl, we haven’t been dating for too long, but so far it’s going great! Most of those stuff ’bout Aquarians are somewhat true. Not completely though.
those famous couples are all separated. i do think that scorpio and taurus are just from a whole different planet of values, characters, and visions with aquarius. i do think the difference that can work out is his opposite attractant: Leo… bcos the deeper basic values and needs are the same, the differences is in their different wants (termed as “egos”). with understanding and deflating ego, its just an excellent match. taurus and scorpio’s basic values are just very different with aquarius and leo… thats my opinion based on my experience too
I’am a latina taurus 21 soon to be 21 may 10!!!!!! my black aquarius 24 who iam in love with. we are going 3 yrs strong now! we have the most craziest arguments!!! we call each other names sometimes it can get ugly we put each other thru alot. when he disappeared for 2 or 3 days i trashed his room! when he thought i was cheatin wen i wasnt he took my purse and dump my things in the metro station!! we disrespected each other. but really at the end we talk and understand mo about. he gives me flowers and just spoils me like crazy buys me shoes jeans and perfumes!!!! for xmas he got me ps3 bundle with the move!!! since we are more mature we talk it out more and understand more of each other. one thing i dislike is he is kinda secretive of his cell he was never like that in the beginning.Now since he got the android it changed but once in a blue moon i do ask can u sho me ur tex and contacts and well i dont find anythin and this helps me to trust him more and stop askin for his cell phone. I got no problem showin him my cell. the only problem is just our communication uhhh it just needs a lil improvement. i love him to death i do anythin for him and he feels the same way. we gonna get ying and yang tatts of dragons. We feel like we cant live w/o each other. i need him cuz he has some strengths i need and he needs me cuz of the strengths he needs. we do learn alot from each other and improve ourselves because we challenge each other. next thing u kno we both give in. i wanna be married to this man in the future but he fears marriage. thats natural cuz even tho i do wanna marry im kinda scared is a big step! he is funny,weird, honest, and his room is messy lol. i help him on tryn to organize his life specially his room lol. idk what keeps me on loving him i guess cuz his love for me. yes i can agree he sometimes doesnt express himself but im patient sometimes lol. one thing he hates is when im sad so thats when he tries to express. WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT ME? i am warm hearted, crazy when it comes to havin sex, spontaneous, affectionate, loving, patient, understanding, good listener, organize, very smart, gorgeous, bossy, clingy,jealous, possesive.stubborn! yet he still is in love with me. one thing i dont try to understand how can u call me bossy when u ask me to decide for you lol so he cant call me bossy! he says he needs help with this and this and then he calls me bossy. i told him how iam. When it comes to you baby iam a lioness wuteva is mine is mine! sorry i dont like sharing specially when it comes to my man. What i need to work is giving him space is kinda hard because at times i feel like he with another girl cuz he can be a flirt but he says no he isnt. but iam tryn iam just in the process of workin on giving him more space cuz i really dont want him thinkin im clingy. you can say we crazy but we are in love lol we are besfriends too. the other we had a big fight of this trust issue we had an intense argument! he told me to leave and i sad fine!! but as soon as i was bout to leave. i felt like i coudnt i wanted to cry my back was turn to him. and he said my name i turn and i see he also has tears in his eyes tryn to hold it in. WHAT DO I NEED TO DO OR SAY TO PROVE I LOVE YOU AND ONLY YOU I ONLY WANT YOU NO ONE ELSE I CANT SEE MYSELF WITH NO ONE ELSE BUT U. right there in then we begin to talk our feeling for one another and got thru it. every we learn from each other and love each other. i try not to believe that we not compatible of what the horoscope says. i think we are in in some ways but we enjoy doin diff things together.
i mean to say 22 years old lol
they r great friends to have and cute too alot like a sagitarius
Not all Taurus woman care about the whole money thing you talk about here. I am on the cusp of Aries and Taurus and my husband is a Capricorn. It works out really well actually. There are differences I am more impatient and stubborn and he is patient and just as stubborn as me lol
Be prepared to be emotionally drained. I’m a Taurus female and I met this Aquarius male about 3 years ago. He was super smart, sexy, charming, and such a sweetheart. We went out occasionally and then after about 6 months, he disappeared on me…we didn’t talk for about 6 more months, and he finally resurfaced and apologized for the disappearance. We then decided to have sex, and I’ve never experienced such unemotional/detached love making in my life, until I had my encounter with this Aquarius. He continues to stress to me how much he hates relationships, and how he hates titles, etc. And it just sucks because if he wasn’t such an unemotional asshole, he’d be the perfect mate =( but I can’t wait around to find out. 3 years is a long enough time to know whether you want to be serious with a person or not, and he should have taken notice of that by now. I’m over it.
Aquarius men and taurus women celebrities hook-ups:
1.Raine Maida (Our Lady Peace) and Chantal Kreviazuk
2.Robbie Williams and Ayda Field
3.Michael Hutchence and Paula Yates
4.Uma Thurman and Arpad Busson
Im tau lady datin’ aqua man,’hell break loose’, terrible relationship ive ever been in.i dont knw how 2 break up with him.we only get along under the sheets.everytime when we meet,he dont bother 2 give me a hug or kiss me,we only kiss when we having sex and is freakin’ me out,and we never fight,unbelievable’isnt it but terrible
I’m a taurus woman and I’m talking to an aquarius man. We have always hung out with his friends around. Then just recently We hung out once by ourselves. However, he was playing a video game the whole time online. He kept using phrases such as, “this is all for you”, “I wanna get to know YOU”, and used the term “best friend”. He said he enjoys our time together….
During our time apart, he rarely ever texts me. I feel like our relationship is of convienence. I suppose he spends most of his free time playing that stupid videoo game. SO I downloaded the gameso I can play with him. lol
iddk, I guess I’m just totally damaged and don’t want to be led on is all. I like him a lot and he says he likes me but isn’t looking for anything, but me being a taurus, I like relationships and only do things if I know the relationship is going somewhere. so, I guess time will only tell and I’m not good at just going with the flow of things. I like everything when I want it. idk what to do……
@ angel “I want everything when I want it” that right there is why I can’t stand Tauruses, they’re so damn stubborn
This thing summed up my marriage. I am a Taurus women while my husband is an Aquarius. We are both too stubborn to end the marriage, even though it is physically killing us (slowly).
I feel that i am opposite when it comes to what the author says about commitment and being touchy feely as i love to cuddle and hold hands etc. I am chivalristic and enjoy pampering her, cooking for her, taking her places going out to dinner etc. I want a relationship with her and have been willing to work on things with her as we have had very similar and very different upbringings at the same time…
I am an Aquarius male and have been talking to a Taurus women for the past 3 months. Our relationship, which has not ever been made official, has been like that of a roller coaster with amazing highs and a few low’s. We have been intimate a few times and spend a lot of time together, almost everyday it seems since we met over the summer.
Our age has played a part in a negative way I feel in that I am 7 years older than her & we are both under 30. She was raised with a strong religious background & is very traditional. She admitted at one point in time, that she was attached to me but slowly has been sheltering herself away, emotionally, over the past 3 weeks. I wonder if I have become too attached to her over the few months and am scaring her away by communicating with her too much via texts and phone calls. She does not ignore me and answers when I call.
She has had a rough past, Ex’s who were abusive, and I feel she is outlandish at times and secretive about who she spends her time with when we are not together. I do not have a problem with any of this as I know it is healthy to have your own life and friends but understand it must be hard for her to overcome her past when it comes to trust and relationships given her most recent breakup.
I try very hard not to wonder who she is texting or hanging out with when i go to work, which is not that hard when I think about how much time she spends with me when she could easily ignore me and not answer my calls when i call her as she is extremely beautiful and people are always looking at her when we are out in public. I know she gets “hit” on quite often on a daily basis.
She has told me that she is torn between having a relationship and not having one as I have certain qualities that she loves but at the same time, as mentioned before, we are in different stages of our lives, me being 7 years older than her and both under 30. I fel age is just a number as we get older but she is still in college and enjoys partying with randoms and what not. I have been there, done that so to speak. I sometimes feel as if she has only been hanging out with me because she likes to make me happy and does not want to disappoint but then again maybe I am just over thinking. I have gone out of my way many times to try to make her happy and I know she enjoys the time and memories we have made together.
I want this relationship to work and have done what I can to please her but sometimes I feel as if our relationship may never become official or that we may just end up friends in the end given her past and time needed to come back around. Even though she has separated her self emotionally over the past 3 weeks, we still spend time together almost everyday which tells me, she still wants sometime out of this… no?
as i write this at work.. she texts me and its 1am.. she was going out with friends partying tonight… coincidence?? IDK you tell me…
~Matt
the aquarious i know… well he cheated on me and his current gf with each other. i know is hard to understand… but with all my life experience what i can say is that the few aquarious i have had the plesure of meeting are assholes till they turn 25 or so… i mean… they are inmature and all they want is sex… well maybe that is guys in general.lol. although it took me 4years to get to know him… and get over him…now i can say… that even though i am not 100 percent over him… i am really close to getting over him… and all this aquarious boy turned out to b was the biggest mistake in my life. I hope he and his gf all the happiness… and hopefully i dont bump into him in the future… bc to this day… i still hate him and love him… i hate his betrayal… i hate… everything that has to do with him. I know this is not related at all to what people are saying in this horoscope thing right now… but i just needed to get this out… to feel better.
I am a taurus woman and I married aquarius man . From what I read aquarians are suppose to be loyal and commited. I dont think this is true cuz my aquarius husband cheated on me continously and even while I was pregnant ! With diff women . Even got another girl preganat while he had a preganat wife already. Anyways I am a single mother now even thoufh legally we are still married he hasnt shown he hasnt come around for me or his son its going on two yeRs and he still being a dirtbag out there cheating and lying sad but true
Call me crazy but I do not fully agree with this. I am a Taurus woman and I am dating an Aquarius man and our relationship is great. He truly is my bestfriend and I could not have asked for anyone better. Out of all the relationships I’ve been in this is by far the best one yet. I have dated man who are “supposedly compatible” to me and I was miserable in that relationship. Until I met the man I am dating now and I honestly know why it never worked out with anyone else. Of course like any relationship we have our differences but I would not call it something that we are both to stubborn about to admit we are wrong or break up. I just call that not giving up on your relationship so easy and working through your problems. Our three biggest thing are communication, respect, and honesty. I believe without those you cant have a relationship, of course with trust added in there but that is a given. You also can not based your relationship off of all these zodiac signs and readings because love is love and what the heart wants is what the heart wants. It shouldn’t matter what some people say on a website is should matter what you say and how you feel. I love my Aquarius man and we happen to be the worst compatibly couple if that made sense lol. But the point I am trying to make is we are proof that these two signs can date and be great together. Hope everyone just finds true love one day no matter who they are suppose to be compatible with but because they truly love that person.
I’m a Taurus woman and I’m talking to a Aquarius man. At times he annoys and harasses me but I think it’s just because he really loves me. And partly because I feel as if he’s lonely and he just wants companionship. He told me he’s been hurt and he wants something real and that will last.I don’t really know how to feel about him. I guess he’s just growing on me. I mean sometimes I like him but that’s only when I haven’t talked to him. I guess I’m just compatible with his actions thus far and it’s almost like I expect it. So when I don’t get a gm text or gn text I feel abandoned. Idk I hope that made sense. But on the other hand our relationship is more like on the lines of him wanting to be with me more then the other way around. Like he complains to me about not spending enough time together and not talking enough. And I’m more like we don’t have to talk and be together all the time. I mean he’s super clingy towards me. And plus he’s 26 and I’m 19 so we share difference in maturity. Like he wants marriage and kids and I don’t really care to much for that right now. Like I just want to have fun and enjoy my youth. But sometimes I don’t feel like he has trust for me because he’s been hurt so many times. He is always accusing me of being with other guys. Smh we’ve been talking for 3 weeks and it’s this crazy so I don’t know what to do and really where to go with this relationship????
Had three Aquarian bfs in my life. They are attracted to me only when I acted like a player. When I show my true self they got shock. Aquarians love cheeky mind but when I fall in love I become too heavy….. I sometimes feel myself as heavy and emotional ball bag as well. I get so nervous and worried when I am dating because I think that If I speak too much it might bore the hell out of the other person. It is so stressful and hard to have good time when I am with someone I like. All my Aquarian friends are great; I treat them like a business partners. They try to hang out with me more but I push them away as I do not want to be closer. These men are sweet, soft like feather, makes fireworks around you but my instinct always say ” Peter Pan is from wonderland”. Even If I really want them, I rather keep them as my peter pans, the beautiful spirits, dancing togather in the fireworks once in a while.
I have been in a relationship with an Aquarius man for over 19 years, within the first few months he showed signs of his wondering eye, he would often leave me to go talk to his “girl” friends, he was always constantly surrounded by women who he claimed were just friends. More on that issue later. First and foremost, Aquarian men make great friends but you should never go beyond that, in a friendship there is give and take, and Aquarian men will give and give and take very little (in return) when they are in a friendship. However in a relationship they do the opposite; they take and take and give back very little, you end of feeling really depleted and exhausted having to deal with all of their problems and drama which they constantly surround themselves with. The little bit of affection and attention they do end up giving you in a relationship helps to maintain the status-quo but there is no great love story or passion to be had. They are not soul-mates and can not be in sync with what you want our of life or who you are as a person, you end up feeling very alone and isolated even when you both are in the same room. One thing that is at the heart of the problem is that as a Taurus woman you will want stable, honest, faithful and good people to surround herself with, however an Aquarian man is the opposite, he will actually seek out the most broken, the most unstable, the most crazy, the people who constantly create and crave conflict, the people with low self-esteem and who are usually the misfits; who don’t understand how to interact with normal society or act with normal behaviors. These people are the ones who no matter what refuse to be stable adults because they would rather act like children and call themselves “unique” and “special” they are usually the parasites of society getting financial support from family members or living with a lot of debt to maintain the illusion that all their crazy behavior actually pays off. These are the people the Aquarian man want to help, to fix, to support, these people make the Aquarian man feel needed and loved. So if you are a stable, hardworking, emotionally stable Taurus woman then expect that you will be lonely because your Aquarius man needs a project, he wants to be fixer, he wants to go out and share his knowledge and expertise on everything, and even if he can’t help he wants to be there for “emotional” support. It could be your birthday, it could be Christmas day, a child’s birthday, it can be your 10th year Anniversary, his phone is always turned on to the highest ringer volume, he will refuse to turn it off, he will take that phone call, and he will leave you if someone asks for his “help” even though they have other friends, he will feel the need to respond and he will jump into action. Even in the middle of lovemaking, he will leave you to go and help a “friend” and if you protest, fight or argue then expect that he will shut down and refuse to talk to you or be nice to you for the next couple of days until you apologize for not letting him go and help a friend.
If you think this is great and you really want a “good” guy who is really “loyal” to his friends and family, keep one thing in mind, this one thing that will drive you absolutely crazy for the entire time you are with an Aquarian man, the people who he calls “friends” and “family” are never friends to him. He is sacrificing time with you, time to build up your relationship, time to build your love, your life together is often on hold, for people who would not return the favors they receive so easily from him. They are never loyal to him, they don’t treat him with respect, they don’t value his attention, they are takers and that’s all they do is take from him. The people who claim that Aquarian men are great in a relationship, are usually the nut bags who create conflict and drama on a constant basis in their lives, they need constant saving, they are the takers not the givers in society. For example, these people often get into fights with family members, friends, people at work(assuming they have a job), they are always going out, they can never stay home(because home is just too boring for them), their house is always under construction or is in disarray, they live “high on the hog” or are always trying to keep up with their neighbors or friends who are wealthier than they are. These people are blood suckers, time suckers, energy drainers and drama queens. Then to replenish a sense of balance back into his life; to input some sense of normalcy and kindness, an Aquarian man will seek out the comfort and attention from you; a Taurus woman. So when those blood suckers are done draining his energy, he will seek you out and be nice to you because now it’s up to you to be there for him; to make sure his life is in order; cooking his food, cleaning the house, doing laundry, taking care of the kids, paying his bills etc. However when you want or rather need to be taken care of, when it’s time for him to listen to your problems, to make sure you are happy, guess what? He is gone again! He has what he needs to go out an help another one of his so-called “friends/family” and you are left alone waiting for his sorry ass, hoping that he will actually spend time caring about what is going on in your life. And when he does give you the time of day, it is only because he isn’t being pulled away by someone else; he has nothing better to do, so he will be like okay I guess I can help you because no one else wants me right now. I am being dead serious, this is how an Aquarian mind works. He goes from person to person, he can never sit still. And the only reason he is with you is because he is using you to solve his problems; maintain the house, cooking, pay bills etc, so he will play nice and pretend to be your friend but he isn’t really. He is not being there with you because he wants to be, he is there because he gets something back or he has no where else he has to be. If you don’t create drama for him or create problems for him to solve, then guess what? He becomes your blood sucker, your energy drainer. He brings other people’s problems into your relationship, he will be moody, non-responsive, unhappy, he will refuse to talk to you because his family is sad so he can’t enjoy life. There is no equal give and take in this union, he can be trained to do his laundry if you say no because he needs it for work or to go out and be friends, but it isn’t because you two are sharing the work load. He is quite comfortable with you doing Everything. If you ask him to do something and he doesn’t want to do it because he is reading his favorite blog or watching a show(which he can pause) he will give you attitude and the silent treatment because he will see it as you are ruining his day. He literally wants you to be the 1950s wife who does the cooking, cleaning, kids, groceries, everything…while he sits in front of the screen and relaxes. The only caveat is if he sees you are in pain or you complain long enough he will help but it is never constant, you can’t rely on him. He is absent-minded and honestly after a while you just end up doing it yourself, it’s easier that way and you won’t have to deal with his mood swings.
That’s another thing, he is often so moody that the slightest thing will set him off; if your voice is raised, if you are annoyed, if you are having a bad day and he feels that he is being criticized, like somehow you are blaming him for your bad day, when in all honesty you are just venting. An Aquarian man is very temperamental (erratic) meaning every interaction has to be on his level, if he is calm then you have to be calm, if he is mad you can’t be more mad or he will just walk out and leave. He wants interaction only on his terms, however with his friends he puts up with all kinds of bullshit but with you he has to be shown respect and courtesy at all times. I am being dead serious, his friends and family members can disrespect him time after time, they can treat him like dirt and he will have nothing but nice things to say about them, he will love them and be there for them, he will be their doormat. However if you “disrespect” him once (call him an idiot for leaving you alone on your birthday) then he will start seeing you differently and not want to be with you until you apologize to him for making him feel bad.
Also, there is no meeting of minds. An Aquarian man will go out of his way to disagree with anything and everything you have to say. In the beginning of the relationship when he is on his best behavior he doesn’t show his true personality as being stubborn, judgmental, egotistical, vain, self-obsessed and argumentative. Instead he comes across as being kind, easy-going, non-judgmental, giving and generous. He is very deceptive and only shows you the best because honestly he wants to you to like him. In the beginning years of the relationship you will think you are really lucky to find such a wonderful and sensitive man who loves his family and is truly good on the inside. When problems arise he promises to change his ways and begs for forgiveness. If he did something wrong to hurt you then he is sorry and he won’t do it again and of-course he does it again and you forgive him because he has a way with words. He says things like I love you so much, you are my life, I am sorry, I have never been in love before I am learning. You as the Taurus woman are so trusting and are always willing to give 2nd, 3rd, 4th chances because you are so kind hearted and good (possibly naive to the ways of men) that you forgive him because he seems really geniune; he will actually cry in front of you and beg forgiveness. However when you live with an Aquarian man only then do you see the true person. You see the demanding nature where you have to cook and clean the house for him and for his friends so they can come over. Even though they just spent all week together having lunch, talking on the phone, now you have to be the good wife and cook and entertain his friends and family when all you want to do is re-charge your batteries in the safety and comfort of your home. You honestly start feeling like his live-in servant. You don’t want to have sex with him because you get to see how unstable, moody, disrespectful, vain, egotistical, judgmental and argumentative he truly is. But by the time you finally realize no more talking or arguing can fix this relationship, when he stops showing his nice side all together and their is more bitterness than happiness, when you want out, you realize that you are now old, with kids, have just given the best years of your life to a man who doesn’t respect you and what you do for him. And you get mad at yourself because deep in your heart you knew you should not have forgiven him when he left you the second time to go be with someone else because he is such a “good” person and that is what good people do. You get angry at yourself and then you accept your faith, you realize that you are in this mess because you believed all of his LIES: of him wanting to change, of him being truly and deeply in love with you, of you being his best friend, and of being his one and only true love. You wake up from the stupor of you believing his bullshit because you have a very logical mind as a Taurus woman and the inconsistencies can’t be explained away and you can’t hide from it anymore, you made the Biggest mistake of you life: being with an Aquarian man. And even if you have a good day, all he needs is to get a phone call and he is gone, he has no loyalty and no devotion and in essence no love for you, he can’t because he is tied to other people who he considers his family and his friends. He is not tied to you. Reason, logic, loyalty, true love does not come in play when it comes to his family or his friends because he wants to be the best son, the best sibling, the best friend, the best co-worker etc. and being the best husband and father are usually the last things on his very long list. As a Taurus woman we only have a select few people who have earned our love and respect but for an Aquarian man, everyone becomes his friend and everyone deserves his loyalty, time and attention if they want it.
Lastly an Aquarian man is extremely vain. He wears a mask of being a good person, so in the public, he is seen as a hero. He likes that description and works very hard to maintain his outside fake personality, only when you live with him do you see that he is flawed, sensitive, moody and he has to be constantly entertained. In the middle of watching a tv show, he will be on the phone reading news or texting. Every beep the phone makes he rushes to see what is happening, even while driving if the phone is ringing he wants to pick it up and I’m like you can call them back later, he gets grumpy, moody and refuses to hold a conversation with me until after he has responded to the call, only then will he be sort of okay again. His says it “might be important” and my thing is: it’s illegal, dangerous and it is never important. He is in constant fear that one day he will miss that all important call. I truly believe in his head he thinks he is some type of superhero who answers the call and who comes to everyone’s rescue. When dating him, I never saw any of this hero saving mentality or any of his personality flaws, he kept it well hidden and was usually on his best behavior trying to impress me and the little fights we would have I could forgive because I honestly thought he wanted to change. Now that we live together, I see he doesn’t want to change. He just wants me to sit around and wait for him. He sees me as holding him back from being there for his family and friends. I am left doing everything while he gets to go out and enjoy life. He wants to save the people who he “loves” or who he considers a friend and sometimes that includes me and other times (many other times) it doesn’t. In addition to all our other problems, I never feel that he gets me. He always has to keep busy doing something. One thing that is totally true is that as a Taurus woman I am firmly grounded to reality and as an Aquarian man his head is always in the clouds. He likes to live in a world of fantasy: these people who he considers friends and family who do nothing for him, who disrespect him, who ignores him, who uses him for what he can give to them: money, time, his work expertise, he lives in a bubble where he thinks they care for him, even when time and time again they are mean and selfish. He is really like the wind he goes wherever he wants and gets mad if you hold him back from doing what he wants, when he wants. And as a Taurus woman I am like a tree providing shelter, shade, food to others, I am loyal, grounded, real; what you see is what you get. He was not real, he has been a huge disappointment to my life and now I am stuck here because like the tree I have put in roots and have built my life up on this hill where his wind blows. The reason I wrote all of this today is to save one Taurus woman from making the same mistake I did years ago. I had read above that someone said it’s been great dating my Aquarian man, he is so different than other people they were “suppose” to be a compatible sign with, all I want to say is do not fall for that fake persona. Do not get lured into a relationship with an Aquarian man, they are not being themselves, do not get stuck like I did, do no think you can change them, they will never change, do not think that it is nice that they are so loyal to their friends and family, that is going to bite you in the ass when you are home alone with the kids and he off saving other people. An Aquarian man cannot be happy, he will always be distracted by someone else, he is drawn to drama and conflict. An Aquarian man likes to think of himself as a fixer, as a judge, as a source of knowledge so he will always stick his nose in other people’s business. He cannot and will not ever let people go, he has a low self esteem and has to be included in every thing. He needs and seeks the approval and validation from other people such as friends, family and co-workers. He is not sure of himself and is not confident, he is usually faking it. An Aquarian man is usually introverted, shy, moody, grumpy, extremely volatile with an explosive anger, their fake persona that they have crafted over the years, comes off as confident, self-assured, logical, nice, friendly, approachable and in control. You only see the real Aquarian when you live with them. Their parents, siblings, friends they all think he is the greatest person, they have never seen the real him, he has never shown them who he really is, he always gives them the best. As a Taurus woman it usually takes a lot to rile us up but when we do, watch out, then we want to make back up however with an Aquarian male, it takes Very Little to make him angry and he Stays angry for a very long time, he does not want to make back up. He just wants to leave. My point is don’t be fooled into falling for an Aquarian man, don’t have kids with him or you will be stuck, live with him for a year or two without kids or even pets and you will see the true man surface, no one can pretend all the time, you need to live with them in order to see them for who they really are because Aquarians are highly deceptive and cunning.
As Taurus women we are kind, giving, loving, devoted, trusting and are the most loyal people, after close to 20 years of being with this Aquarian man I can honestly say we have had some good times not great (never great) but we have had the worst of times, real bad times where he refused to listen to reason, we have gone into debt because of him, we have lived in bad areas, have had to be unhappy for a very long time because of his poor decisions and constant fighting, he has broken up and threaten to abandon me and the kids when I was extremely ill. I will admit, I like the fake person he pretends to be, that is the person I fell in love with, I see that person maybe twice a week if other people and work doesn’t stress him out, he can’t handle stress, usually he takes it out on me, like why can’t I do more to make his life easier. I can’t change my life or my circumstances and I have learned to ignore all the bad and only focus on the good, I have had to in order to not go insane living with this man. His coldness and lack of empathy still astounds me to this day, given the fact that the moment someone else has a problem he is ready to rush in an save them but I have realized it’s because he wants their respect and approval and he knows that I am stuck here with him and I will never cheat or abandon him. I am truly committed even though he is not. So all I can say is don’t be fooled by an Aquarian man, look beyond his fake personality because what you see is definitely Not what you are going to get. If you are willing to give up huge parts of yourself and your sanity then maybe you can survive the way I have, taking it day by day and by trying very hard to not get into arguments; letting a lot of things go, then it can work but that is a huge price to pay and you will be lonely in the end because he just doesn’t understand you and he can’t relate to you on your level. Everything ends up being a conflict because the two of you just don’t fit, he is used to being fake and you are used to being real, he wants to be everyone savior and you want to built a life and a family together, you want him home he wants to go out, at the core, you two are different and your differences will rip you apart. Constant conflict and strife are inevitable in this pairing, don’t suffer through it, even when you think it is better, he has usually been lying and hiding things behind your back. These two signs are completely opposite and incompatible. I truly feel the only times when we are truly happy is when I am being what he wants and he is pretending to be what I want. And that is no way to live unless you have to. And hopefully you won’t have to, get out while you still can. Find someone who is truly worth your devotion, love, time, trust, compassion and loyalty. Don’t waste one moment of your energy trying to make a relationship work when the foundation is built on sand.
So true 🙂
@lisa smith – you sound like you suffer with strong delusions of grandeur, he is not wrong for being the way he is, you are wrong for believing that he needs to be how you want him to be. sounds like youre very conceited and single-track minded like most tauran women and just want everything to go your way. i can see why he wants to get away at every possible chance – i would too just from reading your comment because i can tell you are a pessemistic debbie downer who likes to nag and complain – which also very strong taurus women traits when they arent being treated like disney princesses. welcome to the real world.
This isn’t always true! There are many Aquarius men that are totally romantic. And in many cases, this combination works well. Take the late Aquarius, Wayne Allwine, the voice of Mickey Mouse. He was married 3 times and had 4 children! Then in 1986, he met and fell in love with Taurus Russi Taylor, the voice of Minnie Mouse. They married in 1991, and remained inseparable for years, up to his death in 2009.
Another example I can think of is Aquarius playwright Andrew Upton. He married the famous Taurus actress, Cate Blanchett, in 1997 (my birth year), and they’ve been inseparable since! You see, this combination stands a chance at happening, as long as there’s effort put into it.
Hmmmmm, that Lisa Smith sure dished it all out, left nothing for the faculty of forming new ideas, some things sounds pretty not far from the truth, others I cant agree or disagree on because I have never lived with nor had a relationship with an Aqua before, but be that as it may, been a Fearless Scorpion, that does not terrify me in the least, so if he will turn into a kleptomania after living together or marriage whichever comes first…let him prove Ms. Lisa Smith wrong, I will give him the benefit of the doubt, it don’t matter.
At some point in a persons life they do realize that selfishness does no good to oneself and certainly realizes that an irritating behavior does not win them any points either, and there really comes a point when people really want to enjoy the benefits of been in a truly devoted, faithful and committed relationship and will do all the can to keep the union strong and happy and alive. So I am not going to judge a person based on someones else experience, mark you I wont be naive and gullible either but I think everyone deserves a fair chance, how they demonstrate will make or break whatever is. And that’s why it is very important to get to know someone before deciding on forever, but I heard that Aqua men are Gamophobic and that they find all the excuses in the book to delay ever getting married IF they feel you are not the one, AGAIN I have no proof of that…hehehee – But I also hear that once they find you to be the special one that captures their heart, you get the most loving, caring, devoted, romantic, fantastic, bombastic lover…AGAIN I have no proof of that either hehehe! What I do know is that all they really need is for someone to love them and accept them just the way they are.
To each his own, maybe Taurus/Aqua aren’t that compatible – hey they got a 2/10 rating – Idk- BUT it all narrows down to UNDERSTANDING & COMMUNICATION and in order to understand a person, communication is vital.
Sorry Lisa, better luck next time girl!.
Lisa, Lisa, Lisa…….wow……THANK YOU soooo much for the eye-opener. You know? I’ve been feeling this Aquarius dude for a while. My intuition regarding him, his character, and his energies had already honed in on so many of the things you mentioned in your post, even in his attempts to be vague with me and dodge certain questions. I believe you. THANK YOU SO MUCH for helping save me from a mistake of a marriage.
@Lisa Smith- Do you happen to live on the West Coast? Does the Aquarius man’s name start with a “J”?
No Enlightened, there is a commodity called Pre-Maritial Counseling , those flaws are nothing short of what a few sessions can do to adjust…..in addition, in my opinion nothing worth having comes easily, takes alot of time, effort, patience and nourishing to achieve the goal or results you really need.
I have a question for you, if you dont mind please…Do you believe that people can/do change – ok maybe I should rephrase that because change covers a much wider spectrum, so maybe I should say: Do you believe that people are capable of having or showing a sensible and much needed practical approach of what can be achieved or expected by making a well grounded compromise on the actual challenges in order to make a marriage work?, if yes or no, elaborate please!
Hahahah look who is telling someone to sleep.
My experience with a male Aquarius is crazy been friends for about 4 years the last past year in a half has been emotional rollercoaster ride for the both of us. He asked me twice for a title relationships and I declined both times. However my ex (Pisces) violent threats was the reason for my decision. However the Aquarius male and I female Taurus continue to have a sexually relationship as well as a genuinely friendship. The sex is amazing. It is getting to a point where we both are wanting more than what we have so far. We don’t always text or talk everyday I’m sure he would love for me to call every day but I don’t. My time is very valuable I work, have class, kids so texting is convenient for me. He does has a large number of female friend. Which I don’t mind because I do also have a few male friends that are purely platonic. I think out of our short comings the glue for us is our friendship and plus the sex is like a cherry on top of friendship between us. I enjoy my time spent away and together
@Lisa Smith: Wow the person you described sounds exactly like an Aquarius male in his fifties with the initials J.S. who happens to be married for about 28 years and works at the DWP…..hmmm. He frequents a skating rink every Thursday in California and has been flirting dangerously with one or more of the female skaters there despite his sporting a gold wedding bad. At one point in late January 2016 he brought his wife (possibly you?) to the skating rink only in an failed attempt to make one of the female skaters he flirts with jealous. He wears dark colors in a miserable attempt to go undetected in his wrongdoing.
He is very possessive, seeks to control (ha! even though he is already married), is cold, moody, fake, a “good actor”, is egotistic, jealous, and has a dark energy about him. He is vague, and is careful in his choice of words in attempts to control the mind and emotions of another, in a failed attempt to paint a “good boy” image.
This past Thursday (yesterday) he quietly and passive aggressively stormed out of the skating rink at the end of the skating session because one of the female skaters he flirts the most with was getting so much attention from other male skaters, without walking her to her car like he normally does.
Lisa whether or not the person I just described is your husband I encourage you to muster the mental and emotional strength to leave this man once and for all. Everything (which I’m quite sure isn’t everything) you outlined points to a miserable, cold, controlling, selfish, toxic, and unhealthy marriage for you emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. He is entirely toooo old to be emotionally and mentally unstable. Don’t feel compelled to stay in the “marriage” /”relationship” just because 30 people/family members come to visit your home for the holidays. Don’t feel compelled to stay in this pony show with him just because you’ve become “comfortable” or because the two of you share the same friends, or because you are married to his family and don’t want to be criticized by them or your friends.
At this point it’s all a pony show, it’s not authentic joy, love, and respect. You’re still being neglected physically, mentally, and emotionally and are selling yourself short. It’s not too late. You have more of a support system than you may realize. If you don’t feel like you have a strong enough support system to leave him where he stands then consider this post your support system. He does not respect you. You are stronger than you think!
@ Lisa Smith . . . I don’t think the problem is the Aqua sign here . . Your ex-man sounds like a psychopath narcissist. You describe my 22yr marriage to a tee . . But he was a Leo.
I am with an Aquarius now.
Sure . . I know it’s a mismatch and I’m scared to give my all in case i get hurt (me = Taurus).
But he has persued me enough for me to give him another chance . . He’s tardy and untidy and a few other niggles . . But he is gentlemanly and polite and (so far) very loyal. I have seen much much worse out there from ‘compatible’ signs . . . So I’m going to try harder and put my horns away as much as I can.
I honestly think your guy was a narcissist . . And this can happen with any sign.
All the best guys x
Hi am a Taurus in love this Aquarius guy we on Jun 21 we where happy together going out every day chatting all night suddenly he just stop texting and calling I try o find out what was going on he just he is no interested in the relationship that we can only be friends and nothing else . H
Thanks a million and ten hundred times @Lisa Smith, really do appreciate the account of all your experiences, it has really been an enlightened eye opener on all the things I refuse to and will never compromise on and even if it means not to ever pursue or attempt to fullfil a dream of a relationship let alone marriage with an Aqua Man then so be it.
end of lent today…..END OF STORY forever!
p.s. – To everyone out there looking for real love, there is no such thing, they are all a bunch a liars, cheaters, users and genuine assholes, save your heart the trouble and torture and be your own happy place.
Love & Light folks, take care and be good to yourself always; no one can do that for you.
I have read soooooooo many readings for my Aquarius man =-)
I’ve dated 3 and didn’t know until I fell in love with my last one and realized the similarities. He made me realize why it didn’t work with the rest & why I couldn’t knock this attraction to Aquarius.
I’ve never commented but I have a response to a lot of those heart broken and confused. Especially to Lisa and the one Aquarius man that commented. I want to be someone’s resilience to keep pushing or others strength to let go.
The biggest hurdles for the Taurus woman/ Aquarius man relationship is communication and understanding. These signs are both FIXED!!!!!!! In astrology, a fixed sign is very sure of themselves, very stubborn, and also extremely loyal (Scorpios, Leos, Taurus, Aquarius). These signs are hard to sway. Their word is bond. But from the signs I named, I attract those in my life the most. I also keep the around the longest because of their natural self-confidence…
Now, I used to be the bitter Taurus woman who would blame him for everything wrong in our relationship but still stay to complain -___- I obviously was delusional. So much to the point that I realized my delusion. I would always look up Taurus readings, Taurus Aquarius readings, but never Aquarius readings. I would always point out his flaw or mistake but would overlook my own. As a Taurus, I can be extremely self-absorbed and forget everything if it doesn’t pertain or fit into my life like I want it to and that was my biggest downfall.
Three things everyone reading this has to understand:
1. ASTROLOGY IS NOT GOD!!!!!
2. Your faults are not what makes you special, they are what you need to work on the hardest.
3. No one is the same & no one is perfect.
Astrology gives excuses to the people who say well this is who I am and I can’t change that!!! And my Taurus ass loved anything excusing my flaws: my stubbornness, my loudness, my temper, my logic/practical approach to everything, my laziness, etc.
AQUARIUS & TAURUS ARE THE EXACT SAME PERSON!!!! Do not let this astrology shit fool you. We are polar opposites meaning we are the exact same just on opposite sides of the extreme. The north & South Pole, ying, & yang, summer& winter (literally), wind & earth. Seemingly things that wouldn’t need/know the other but two things that work in harmony/ on the same chord. HEAR ME OUT. I’m stubborn, l know it all, in a lighthouse for my friends & family (meaning I bring them together & give the best advice), I’m creative & fun, I love talking, in very intellectual and so is my Aquarius.
“Just because someone doesn’t love like you, doesn’t mean they don’t love.”
My Aries mother helped me put this all into perspective. I shared his flaws with her just for her to tell me an exact time I was just like him. He’s too aloof, too on the run, too into friends, too quiet, too moody. But I’m too practical, too much in my home, emotionally shut off from friends, too talkative sometimes, and sometimes it seems as if I have no emotions. Then I thought, aren’t I moody? Don’t I love my friends? Don’t I love being a hoe and talking to multiple people (Taurus don’t deny it!)? Anyways, I realized that was me on the inside. Only my mother knew this but I was mad at him for openly being the person I was on the inside. I faulted him because he was transparent to the world when I hid from the world.
Understanding someone could change everything. Understand what they long for and desire will help you with your relationship. When I began to research Aquarius men, I realized I had been doing it all wrong. I would explode when he does the same thing over and over but I would get mad if he completely walked away. But I was wrong. I was wrong in thinking like a Taurus instead of a human being. I’m extremely keen on my surrounds and pick up on most things in the physical (senses). But he wasn’t as keen to my signs of me not liking something. Instead of being a human being and expressing to him what I didn’t like when he first did it, I thought it was common sense when he had no clue. I realized that he would leave because he felt more alone and even more misunderstood that he couldn’t deal with trying to fix what was wrong. Especially with me acting like a bull.
The Aquarius man is one hard to understand but one worth understanding. They definitely believe in true love but are extremely aloof. So what usually happens is they fall in love in a week and get their feelings hurt. They will continue the relationship secretly trying to get you back for something you probably don’t remember or will keep a chip on their shoulder. Ex: I’m a slow and steady Taurus when my boyfriend fell in love with me and I rejected him 2xs. After 8 months in the SITUATIONSHIP I was upset that we weren’t in a relationship. We talked and he finally made it official but not before I admitted I was wrong and that I shouldn’t have kept him waiting. Now even though he believes in true love, he won’t be a fool to love. Because he gets hurt so easily, he knows that he must keep going so he in turn has “no time” for emotion. And that’s not wrong to be like that. I had to start understanding. He runs away because he knows people won’t understand his feelings or will think he is over exaggerating when really that’s how he feels. That explains the aloof nature and the walk up and leave attitude.
AQUARIUS ARE ATTRACTED TO TAURUS BECAUSE WE UNDERSTAND THEM IN SILENCE. And that’s what they prefer. But you have to get that Aquarius to talk & open up. They can’t open up if Taurus continues to only see the flaws of other people & snaps on people when they don’t know what happened in the first place. As a Taurus, you are your Aquarius’ safe haven, the logic guru, the gushy lover that doesn’t make it feel gushy. Embrace your powers (patience) and this could turn out amazing. The Aquarius is the Taurus’ safe haven too, IF WE LET THEM. As soon as I start understanding and communicating with my Aquarius, I saw the most amazing side to him. He was my safe haven, my opposition when I’m always right, my get up and move when all I want to do is be lazy, my shoulder to cry on when I guilt myself into a corner. I had to realize that differences weren’t bad. I just hated being wrong.
AND TO LISA: (and any other Taurus guilting their Aquarius for being them)
BE REAL WITH YOURSELF! Is it his fault your life is in shambles or yours? A Taurus is loyal to a fault. We will literally let people use and walk over us just because it feels comfortable, because we don’t like change, because we don’t like being wrong about our decisions. The second I put my pride to the side and said hey I made a mistake, was the second I realized my life SHOULD NOT BE A RELATIONSHIP. My Aquarius made me realize that life goes on, even if you’re sad and heart broken. I had broken his heart millions of times just to prove a point and he always came back. And it was stupid because breaking his heart broke my own but my point had to be made -__- He did something that was wrong and I took my friendship and love. This made him value it more and realize I’m not like the rest of the zodiac that likes to play games. A Taurus can take a long time deciding something but once the decision is made, it’s made for life. I would say hey I can’t do this anymore, but still hang with him, still fuck him and get mad…… But that loyal Taurus stuff fucked me up. Because the Aquarius is a friend to the Taurus. The Taurus in turn has to be a friend to the Aquarius. Why stay in a relationship if you are unhappy & then blame it on someone else? It hurts Taurus to turn away from people they love but sometimes a punk fake is necessary (a fake pulling back just to see someone’s reaction). I was forcing a marriage like relationship on a 22 yr. old rapper. He didn’t let me go but let me in his world. We changed each other. I helped him understand that having hoes isn’t where it’s at and he helped me realized life has to go on. When I was feeling lazy and unmotivated I had to remember life goes on. When he was meeting groupies at the studio he had to realize the stable life Taurus provides will not stand for a 3rd party. So we make each other better. I had to learn that a friendship was more important than a relationship. The friendship is always going to last even when our relationship was rocky. And because I understood that, he changed his ways. Now our relationship is not rocky. He understands my need to know what he’s doing just like I understand his need for excitement. `
Being with my Aquarius on and off for two years, we’ve both realized that life is better together. We’ve trumped so many strongholds together that I couldn’t imagine falling in love with any other person or sign. At first, we didn’t understand each other but we did understand that we loved each other and that never faded. TAURUS- DO NOT RUIN SOMETHING GOOD! I almost did. We sometimes think that because someone doesn’t run after us that they don’t love us. But if both partners are worth having why did I run away in the first place. THE AQUARIUS IS THE ONE SIGN THAT TAURUS DOES NOT HAVE TO FAKE FOR. They understand you and most importantly, you understand them. You both long for each other. But Taurus are too in their heads. I was too concerned with people never seeing a single emotion that I had hid them all from the one person I needed to see them. He felt alone, cold, and that I was very distant. And he was right. Taurus has a way of distancing people because we know they wouldn’t understand. Your Aquarius does. Love them & they’ll love back 10xs harder.