Virgo Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility
Virgo is the sign of the bachelor and the virgin. By “virgin” we don’t mean anything technical, but rather a woman who does not revolve around a man. Virgo men are natural bachelors. They don’t seem to be lonely. They enjoy the peace, quiet, and order that come with living alone and foregoing the messy and cacophonous joys of “married with children.” It does happen sometimes, but basically these two individuals are solo players and it’s not likely they will team up together.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Virgo Man:
You should impress the Virgo woman with your reliability and integrity, which she will find very refreshing and is something you have in common. It will help if you can be a bit extravagant with your choice of an evening out because most people never think of her that way. If you’re not on time, she will be annoyed and upset. Please have your car detailed and running well. Keep the conversation crudity-free and hold the onions. This is one of the most refined ladies in the zodiac. She will not appreciate offensive language, inappropriate sexual innuendos, or other forms of bad manners. We know you’re up to it, Virgo. This lady deserves the full package of niceties of which you are capable. And above all, don’t waste her time. I realize this is a little cryptic so you’ll have to figure out what she means by that.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Virgo Woman:
By all means bring all your Virgo freakiness to the table. Be the clean, organized, detailed, and dutiful perfectionist you really are. Go ahead and comment on how poor the service is or the speck on the silverware in the restaurant he takes you to. It will only make the Virgo man love you more. Oh, and strongly imply that the way you keep house those things would never happen. If you can take a sly shot at his sister or mother, he will secretly applaud your discriminating faculties. And by all means, his father and brother are fair game as well. Virgos are born critics, and it’s not just nit-picking when the two of them get together. You can appreciate the truth in each other’s viewpoint.
Degree of Romance:
This relationship will certainly follow the recommended guidelines after the Virgo woman loses complete control on the first date.
Degree of Passion:
None to zero.
Degree of Friendship:
These two have so much in common, their viewpoint on the world is so similar, and their tolerance for others so low, that they may be each other’s only friend. Virgos do not normally seek or need the approval of others, but it’s nice to have the concurrence that comes with like-mindedness. When two Virgos get together they have an affinity for each other that is incomprehensible to other people. It has something to do with life in the Ivory Tower. There is something very pure there.
Degree of Marriage:
Virgo male and Virgo female is one of those relationships where they tend to live together rather than marry. It will likely involve two discrete individuals who have their lives in good working order and simply want to share compatible areas of interest without any drama. The years may go by without making it formal, but the bond is real.
Progression of Relationship:
The relationship between a Virgo man and a Virgo woman will progress in an orderly fashion — of course. Everything will be done properly, in due time, and according to Hoyle. Each person knows the rules and loves to follow them, so the process of courtship is a thing of joy in and of itself. Here are two people who are willing to accept “enough is enough.” They have no need to gild the lily. Things will settle down to a routine fairly quickly if they decide to become partners, and they will relish the predictability of it all. It’s so efficient to eliminate variables. Be still my beating heart.
Sex:
Some of our sexiest and favorite movie stars are Virgos — Marlene Dietrich, Sophia Loren, Fred Astaire, Sean Connery, Tommy Lee Jones, Charlie Sheen, Keanu Reeves, and Beyonce Knowles — which should give you an idea of what goes on behind closed doors when two sexy Virgos let their hair down. It’s an exclusive club, but if you gain entry, you’ll know what all the excitement is about. Part of the charge is being chosen. These people are highly selective about their sexual partners — and everything else. Disease is a bit of an issue, but let’s not raise your blood pressure at the moment.
When It’s Over:
When it’s over, they’ll wonder what the fuss was all about, and why “other people” (mere mortals) have trouble breaking up decently. What’s up with that?
spot on. Went out with a virgo girl. 9 times out of ten we would call each other just to see how the other was doing even though we both knew we liked each other. Romance? none! but neither one of us cared about that anyway . so if you do like one, play the game and go for it as even though it didnt work we didnt hurt each other
Thanks, Dan.That’s good advice.
i DATED A VIRGO GIRL MANY YEARS AGO BEING A VIRGO MALE MYSELF. WE WERE IN LOVE BY THE SECOND WEEK. THERE WAS A LOT OF PASSION AND MUCH LOVE INVOLVED. WHEN WE BROKE UP THERE WERE SOME TEARS ON HER END AND MAYBE AN ARGUMENT OR TWO BUT WE GOT OVER THAT AND WE ARE STILL FRIENDS TO THIS DAY. WE ALWAYS CHECK UP ON EACH OTHER FROM TIME TO TIME.
Sweet.
Im not sure about the Zero passion bit..
when we are around the vibes are intense..is that different from passion?..although we argue like hell, and leave each other too exahusted from the heated debate that we hate to see each other again..once our eyes meet and all the chemistry just works and my heart beats so fast..I do see it on his face too..
I dated a Virgo man, we are alike but have differences but outlook on life compares to be awesome, he just wasnt ready to settle down or make up his mine!
Degree of Passion: None to zero.
hahaha check!
but everything is totally true, and in bed we were animals. hard to believe, after seeing us in dainty married interaction, which of course degraded into a kind and polite divorce after several years. we can still hold a conversation and worry about each other’s well-being, but without passion, my Scorpio Jupiter was having none of it.
No problem with passion here!
I am a Virgo woman dating a Virgo man, and the passion is amazing. It may be due to his having Cancer ascendant and me having Taurs ascendant, but whichever, it is fantastic. I have never felt so completely understood in all my life. We have such common goals and intellectual compatibility, refined tastes – those things in themselves feed into sexual and romantic passion!! I never thought I would be compatible with someone of my own sign but whew! It’s a winner with this one.
iam a virgo woman and have been with my virgo man for nine years we have two children and r getting married in seven weeks we the best of friends and understand one an other perfect we fight like cat and dog coz we both like to be right but the sex is fantastic we r always on the same page and feel safe enough to try new things he is my soul mate love at first sight the perfect 10/10
I am a virgo woman and I have been with my virgo man 3 years and man its the most intense love i have ever felt. And its so true we are eachother’s only real friend..we see the world the same way and fight here and there but soon as we make up in the bedroom its all fireworks.. I love em and he gets on my nerves but I’d have it no other way….
I’m a Virgo woman dating a Virgo man and have never felt like this with anyone on an adult level!! We have the same cars, value the same things in life, love excitement and stability. Although its only been 6 weeks I knew I loved him since date 2! Glad to be alive to experience this gift- hope it works and lasts! I asked to experience being in love and I am-he’s a great guy and a real catch!
My husband and I are Virgos. We have been inseparable from the start of our relationship. In my opinion, that article was correct, minus the most obvious common misconception about Virgos and their “Passion” levels. My husband is an alternative energy scientist and I own a business as a web developer. On the surface, we may seem professional or aloof to others; and many times this is misinterpreted among the general public to mean that we are too responsible or restrictive to venture into what-may-seem-like depravity. However, with a compatible partner, that sexual pair make break the Bell curve for off-the-charts love sparks.
i, been a virgo woman, have a relaionship of 2 years with a virgo man n it has been the best, we struggle to have a relationship in the beginning but after resolving the problems we were prepare to settle down.. he makes me feel so love, even tho. we argue since we always want to be right n critique eachother but for the best.. at the end in my opinion i believe tht if u r really in love with someone no matter the sign, one will put up everything to make it work. on the other hand im vey happy with the man i have chosen to b part of me.
First of all I love all these comments. Puts the compatibility content into real world perspective. Secondly, I’m a Virgo man, and just have to say that most of this is true, except for a few things…without going into what is and isn’t true (since you don’t even know me), a lot really depends on one’s experiences in relationships, as well experiences with parents and how you were raised. My Mom died when I was 12 and that really has affected my relationships with women….I think to the point of not making me a typical Virgo in a relationship.
virgo and virgo what was written is true…u do fight alot because you guys are the same in every way, virgos stand their ground sometimes and they like to let others know that the have their own views too, so when u got both like that you guys argue and dont get anything resolved right away, but as soon as one smiles at you then the other one smiles back and the fight can be over right away,,.im virgo my mans virgo its beenn 2 years, i love him so much, we are both clean and organized.so i have no problem there.
Wow, I love reading these comments. As a Virgo woman, I’ve never wanted to date anyone that was a Virgo, but maybe I should take a closer look at this Virgo guy I’m just getting to know. Maybe my past undesirable relationships were meant not to work out…someone more like myself was coming along. OR, maybe no one else can stand us…lol. Thanks for sharing your stories!
Virgo-Virgo friendship is AWESOME. we have so much in common so we really get along so well. romance? i hope it’ll blossom next month. i doubt it though, but i’m still hoping.
Am confused a bit. :S
The last time I read this article for a friend I am PRETTY sure the rating was 4/10!!! And no I don’t drink. God, so so so confused now.
I have been seeing my virgo man for over3 years I love hom so much but he is a terrible player and very cold hearted not once have I gotyen a gift and it’s always I’m hungry please stop and get me something to eat another thing he used yo like hearing me say I love you up until last week he said let’s just be friends can’t we.
WOW!! This information made me laugh out loud..Infact I laughed so hard that I honestly could not catch my breath..Now I can assure you that Virgo~Virgo relations are definitely not lacking in any area. You see virgos are very methodical, and they don’t miss a thing. Yes we may be a little practical from time to time but you need to know that their is definitely fire in our private lifes and the love that we have for one another is so unlike anything I have ever been a part of or even witnessed. It has rocked me to the depths of my soul. It is kinda ironic in a way as we don’t think about whats in store for us as a couple as Dave and I live in the moment and only for today. As none of us are assured a tomorrow.. So live a little…..Ciddy
i date i a virgo man as a a virgo woman i like that he acts just like me n were very romantic and honest
Im interested in a virgo male and im a virgo female..We are the best of friends.. Not ever in my LIFE (so far) have I been able to find a male friend to be so compatible on too many levels…I truly ADORE this man…BUT yes there is a but, he can be very open and then very distant..always tells me to stop searching for love and that it will come..yet he has given me gifts that he knew I needed or wanted…we have dinner every now and again..he has cooked for me..and I for him..he finishes my meals and if he orders foods he’ll save one his sides for me..he often text out of the blue if he’s having an issue…i could go on and on…i just dont know what to think….is he interested or just being a GREAT friend…he does say that when the right person comes he’ll know and he will let them know..but i say the same..but yet hoping he would go ahea and say …lets just be together…i either need help on reading his hidden gestures or help with reeling him in..he’s a tough cookie..and i dont want to lose his friendship or an improper assumption..SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!
@ just me
If I might throw in my two cents your relation sounds like Great Friendship to me. Not Love, just plain friendship. Though I must say when a person really starts falling for someone they hardly bother listening to what others has to say.
If just the way he looks at you doesn’t burn you, it ain’t love.
Thanks! not what I wanted to hear, but it helped a lot..too bad he’ll miss out on a good girl..My guard will be SKY HIGH now…thanks Enigma!
@ just me
ur welcome, I don’t feel I’ve done anything constructive here, lol.
A bit of insight about this pairing analyzing three different Virgo-Virgo couples that I’ve known. They all had a very strong INITIAL friendship. Zero romance. And below zero passion. The plain vanilla friendship in all three cases was mistaken as love by Virgo girls and it ruined their lives. The lady Virgos were all so trusting and devoted. There was an unreal innocence in them. But all three girls were used, taken advantage of by their Virgo males. Cheated upon and lied and abused like u can’t believe! Scary stuff.
Anyway, I’ll never understand why this pairing got 10/10. To me its nothing more than 3/10 that too for the friendship which starts good between them but never lasts.
Maybe my country is ruled by different set of planets, lol.
Also I can understand about your guard being up. Better safe than sorry. If its love it will find a way to your heart somehow. Wish u luck stranger friend.
Thanks again Enigma or mysterious if I may say..ha!ha! Your explaining of possibly falling in love is a “bit” harsh..haha there are relationships that work..its just a matter of rather youre with the right partner..(depends on the two partys that are involved and if they are WILLING to ALLOW things TO work and COME together and yet not be afraid or making yourself believe well what if i could be with this person or if i should be with that person..most times when relationships dont work often one or the other isnt fully grown and doesnt know what they want) In my case my friend doesnt really know exactly what it is that he wants but fail to realize he gives out mixed messages of what he would like to have..sorry im venting..hahaha as for me having my guard high is to avoid me getting hurt again..im very picky about what I want and to not get it is a disappointment…simply because I dont want everything just things I feel would help or complete me…However I do agree with having an UNREAL innocence. Its drives me crazy that im so pure haha… and again youre right..love will find its way to me and thanks for the luck…MYSTERIOUS FRIEND…or Enigma if i may say……wink
oh another thing…think ill stay clear of my virgo friend unless he needs me..its the only way to give me time to turn off my feelings….bad thing is once they’re turned off, you can’t turn them back on….I then set up a mental blockage to prevent myself to feel….a strickly friend is EXACTLY what he’ll get….hope it doesnt cause any damage tee he he he he!!!!! but with him being a virgo I SERIOUSLY doubt that he’ll care!!!
oh yea..ive been friends before with a virgo male and it lasted for 20 years he love me to the extreme until he died..they only reason it became nothing more was because of me…I wasnt ready for commitment.guess what goes around comes around because thats where I am…i am deeply in love with a friend that is everything I love and a few of what I dislike ..equally out to be PERFECT yet he isnt ready for commitement and when \he is IM SURE it wont be with me…heart breaking to admit….ahh..but its the truth and the truth hurts..its even sadder because once my friend died i shut myself out from the world for about 3 years until now..yet to realize im setting myself up to be hurt again..think ill go back to being a loner and having zero friends..atleast ill be to blame for hurting myself and not giving anyone else the option to do so
I am a Virgo Woman and I have been with a Virgo Man for 5 months!!We knew each other much earlier as friends and started off dating for a short period of time and got together.He is a mirror reflection of me.Our likes and dislikes are the same.He is a perfectionist so am I.We both are heavy critics.We find fault with each other all the time.This leads us to fight EVERYDAY!!!We have tons of fights b’cos we are always finding fault with each other.Both of us are also overtly possessive over each other.We both don’t like each other talking to the opposite sex.This leads to another big eruption between us all the times due to the jealousy that sparks up.Our possessive and critical nature has lead to our r/s to break off many times within a short period of 5 months.But every time we choose to split, we end up with each other within a few hours or a day b’cos the love between us two Virgos is so intense.We both are very deep and die hard lovers and one thing I can say is our love is very strongly established and this leads us to always fall back on each other all the time.We both also make very wonderful friends and in times when we need emotional support, we both can always rely and fall back on each other..Our emotional bond and attachment is very strong and this always holds us back together no matter how horrible our fights becomes.Both our communication level is TOO AMAZING.I would rate it 5 stars.We both can go on talking and talking for hours without getting sick and tired of each other.We can converse about any issues,topics,our pasts,present and future and still have a lot to talk about.We have gone on talking for more than 24 hours and the only thing that would cause us to stop is our parents or b’cos we are too tired from communicating.Both of us have TOO many things in common from preferences to our ideologies it makes it so easy to plan anything.Our ideal outing or marriage life and everything is the same.Both of us share the same vision of our future and marriage and we always look forward to it and always talk about it.Our ideal date is not watching movie or doing any activity but just being in each other’s arms and looking into each other’s eyes.The love between two Virgos, or rather in my r/s is very PURE and GENUINE and it’s the most amazing love EVER.Our physical intimacy hits the top notch.We both are very compatible even in our intimacy.Both of us are slow and sensual and our expression of our passion is very erotic and beautiful.It only expresses love and affection and sometimes we wend up tearing b’cos the love is too intense.The only thing that stops us from proceeding to love making is b’cos we’re not married or we can even stretch to such an extent.We both love wrapping our arms around each other and just enjoying the silence.I must say Virgo-Virgo is an everlasting r/s b’cos both of us believe in long term r/s and we are very particular about being loyal and devoted to one another.And although MY Virgo man can be really painful and hurtful with his critics, his undying love and deep passion is something that can make up for all the hurts and pain and it’s worthit.We sometimes have our differences such as he’s very particular about being organized,clealiness and that everything is in place whereas I’m a very messy and untidy person.A Virgo man is VERY caring and affectionate and will never fail to be there to catch his woman and make sure he puts a smile on her face.I would rate Virgo Virgo compatibility 10/10 provided both can curb their critical nature.Although it’s only a 5 month r/s, the experiences and the many things both of us have gone through makes it seem like a 5 year r/s.Although for now when we are distanced, we maybe always finding fault and quarreling, once we’re together when we meet, we’ll be too preoccupied with each other, nothing else matters but showing love to each other,laughing with each other and cuddling.Love you always Teddy,forever and beyond!!! <3
I like reading these personal stories because it puts
compatibility out into the real world.
A lot has to do with experiences in past relationships,
the environment the person had grew up with, the people they dealt with in a daily basis, meaning
parents, friends and relatives.
To just me: he virgo guy may be a little interested in
you, depending on the level of friendship that you two
have. If you have gotten closer, he might just want
to be friends with you, he was just being a true friend.
Nothing more than that.
It’s odd that he cooked for her, is very attentive to her,
gives her presents without being her birthday and
sometimes does nice things for her without being
asked.
It’s not common that a guy cooks for a woman,
specially if she’s only his friend.
But, if you’re not that close yet, or even if you’re close
friends, he could be a little attracted to you, but
he won’t show overt gestures about it until he knows
what he wants, what he feels, where he stands and
gets to know you better. Until he’s sure you are
the one he really likes.
Just be observant and pay attention to what he does
and what he says.
But don’t get your hopes up yet. Not until he
let his true feelings or intentions show.
Not until he talks to you, until he lets you know
clearly.
Keep doing your thing. keep your daily routine.
Keep living you life. And still be his friend and
only his friends without saying anything to him.
Enjoy his friendship.
But keep your guard up. Be cautious.
It’s wise and with common sense to keep your
guard up and be always cautious.
Don’t let your worries get in the way of your
friendship.
Live life. Enjoy life. With caution of course.
It’s better to enjoy the friendship, not worry about if
the friendship is going to become more than that.
If he is the right guy for you, and you’re meant
to be together, it will happen on its own.
Don’t search for love, when it comes to you, you’ll know.
I say it all the time. Because it’s true.
When it does don’t turn your back on it if he’s the
right guy, or person for you (this goes to everyone).
If that guy is really interested in you, believe me,
he’ll let you know in a direct way, in a unmistakable way
that gets the point across.
And it’s true. I’ve dated a virgo man, did not worked out,
not because there wasn’t any passion.
The passion was there, and it was big.
The relationship was intense and lasted for several
years.
There is flame, there is great passion between two
virgos. The feeling is unique.
But, when a man loses his interest, it could be that
someone else might be in the picture.
It is a personal choice if a man decides to cheat
and walk out.
Like I said, it has to do with his upbringing, people
close to him or her and previous relationships.
But the essence, the core of the virgos, their views,
outlook on life, tastes, preferences, gestures,
intellectual side and other stuff are the same
between virgos.
What changes are the upbringing, experiences, the
ascendant, and the people that surround virgos.
At the moment I’m friends with two virgo males,
they they are nice guys. Nothing romantic is going on
between them and me, because one of them is married,
although I met him when he was single, years ago,
and before he met his wife.
He was attracted to me, I liked him as a friend.
I could have like him as a man, but things got in the
way. It wasn’t meant to be with him.
Regarding my other virgo male friend, he’s cool.
I’ve known him for a little while. But he’s got a
girlfriend, so we’re just being plain friends.
To be completely honest with you, I liked him
from the moment we met. Sparks flew.
He likes me as well, but he’s still not sure.
And I know he’s not in love with me, so I keep
a safe distance.
But, I don’t follow up on it, don’t pay attention to it,
because he’s got a girlfriend.
So we’re just friends, nothing else going on.
And he makes a cool friend. And I could use
a friend like him, who shares many things with me
other people don’t. It’s cool.
I get along great with my male virgo friends.
We are still friends. No problems there.
I don’t let myself get carried away easily.
I just don’t let myself get carried away by feelings.
He has to be the right guy for me, and he has to
be really compatible with me, he musn’t have a
girlfriend or any commitmment with anyone,
or seeing anyone and be really interested in me,
like me for who I am, and accept me for who I am.
I’m highly selective.
Having an opposite for a romantic partner, from an
opposite zodiac sign is a complete pain for a virgo.
In the beginning everything is pretty, but as time
goes by it get worse, pretty ugly, up to the point of
unbearable.
That doesn’t really work for us virgos.
It doesn’t really work out to be with an opposite
zodiac sign. Not in the real world. It’s a total
nightmare.
Who can understand you better than someone who
is just like you and me? No one else I tell ya.
When it doesn’t work out between two virgos is because
one of you, or the two of you let other things get
in the way of the relationship.
You let other things come between you.
Otherwise, two virgos make the perfect match.
Is a match made in heaven.
The bond and connection is real, the passion
is real, it burns like no one else knows, the love
is real, is big and great, the feeling is amazing,
unique, the attraction, the excitement, the emotion,
the chemistry is there and is pretty powerful,
a huge blast. It’s pretty sensational, awesome.
It’s just unique.
Only another virgo who is like you in many ways or
is complete and totally like you in everything, like
looking in the mirror, two virgos that are alike
in personality is perfect.
Two virgos are really the perfect match.
It’t true that with the right partner everything is
easier. There will be some bickering, some quarreling.
But if you’re right for each other, there is love
between you and a true connection and understanding,
a true and real compatibility, it will last.
If it’s real, genuine and you’re meant to be together,
don’t let it slip away.
I can honestly say that it’s true, opposites attract, but
being, have a partner, or a friend who is just like
you, another virgo, is absolutely great.
It doesn’t compare to other people.
Another virgo can be another virgo’s real friend.
That is valuable, is pretty amazing. It’s unique.
Something I wouldn’t trade for anything.
It’s great to have a virgo friend.
And it is great to be able to have a virgo boyfriend,
a male virgo partner. It’s pretty incredible.
Everbody can choose who to be with.
Everybody can choose their partner and who to love.
I don’t agree with other people who say the heart
wants what the heart wants and you cannot control
your heart. It’s not true.
Everybody has feelings, we’re humans.
But we can choose who to be with, who to love,
who is the right partner for ourselves.
We can choose who to put those feelings on.
We can choose our mate.
Everybody has the right to choose for themselves.
Sometimes people get stuck with someone who
isn’t good for them. Sometimes people are stubborn
and don’t want to see reality.
It’s good to be selective.
It’s a good thing to choose your mate, to choose
who to be with and who not to be with.
And have a better life and relationship.
People don’t have to settle to just anyone.
People can select the right partner for themselves.
It’s just a matter of having the right compatible partner.
One thing I’m not is being silly.
I wrote the real truth. It’s obvious there are people
in the world who like to cause trouble and make
a big deal out of nothing.
I can only say my former virgo boyfriend wants to
come back, he wants to get back together.
Didn’t see that one coming. But he does want to get
back together with me.
I won’t give out details and my decision, they’re
private. But it’s like I said, there is great intense
passion, the feeling is unique between two virgos.
There are emotions between two virgos.
It’s pretty big, strong, intense and deep between
two virgos.
Two virgos are really the perfect match. A match made
in heaven.
It is just a matter of having the right compatible
partner.
Just because it hasn’t happened to you, doesn’t mean
it hasn’t happened to anyone and it doesn’t mean
it doesn’t exist.
I will not stoop to your level and will not engage
in a horrible, senseless and stupid fight.
This is the end of this topic.
I have a problem. I am a Virgo woman. I’m married to a Capricorn. We have been together for 5 yrs but only married for 1. I ran into an old friend. He is a Virgo male. We talk everyday, flirt, even got together once. He’s all I think about from the time I get up until I go to bed. I know he’s thinking the same because I have tested him. LOL I have just never felt this way with someone. We are so alike it’s scary and the passion….I can feel it between us and we are miles apart. Please HELP!
Hello Confused, to be totally honest, even without knowing u I would say forget the Virgo. I have NEVER seen a happily together Virgo-Virgo couple. All I seen is they start as wow and end with Virgo man cheating on the Virgo lady.
As for your Virgo man giving u kinda attention and all. Well, who won’t? You are a Virgo woman after all. Nancy says, “Virgo women are the catch of the Zodiac.”
Good luck to u, keep us posted.
LOL Thanks Enigma!
I dated a virgo guy a couple years ago. The connection and similarities was crazy. We liked each other and passion was there, but there were so many other things involved that we just couldn’t make it. But we were completely honest with each other, and I wanted his friendship. I’m sure he wanted the friendship as well. We definitely bickered, but my feelings were extremely hurt when he accused me of stealing something that belonged to him. I tried to show him that I’m not like that, but in the end I drove away. He texted me months later, but by then I had forgotten his number and asked “who is this?” I think that made him step back a little. He answered and I just greeted him the same. It is true. In the end I think we tried to figure out what all the fuss was about. I would like our friendship back, but I don’t even know how to get a hold of him anymore. Life goes on, however.
To confuse: Excuse me for speaking my mind about
your dilemma, but, forget the virgo guy.
You ran into him too late. You are already married to
someone else. You’re practicly a newly wed.
Capricorns aren’t bad mates either. In fact, you two can
make a good team.
Give your marriage a fair shot.
If your weren’t married or in the process of a divorce
and then that would happen, I’d say go for it.
But that it’s just not the case.
Don’t go looking for trouble. Forget about the virgo man.
It can’t be. You can have a fulfilling, a good married
life with a capricorn man, that is if your husband is a good
man. If he is a good man, if he is good to you, then you have a good mate, a good partner and be happy with
what you’ve got.
Think about it carefully, don’t do something you might
regret later.
To: abc
I understand girl that virgo men are slow to take action
sometimes. It took months for that virgo man to text you.
Oftentimes it takes a virgo man a lot of time to come
around and come back to the person he wronged him.
It may take him years to come back.
But if he feels something for that woman, he will come
back eventually.
I understand what he did hurt you deeply, and when
he realized the mistake he made he texted you.
But unfotunately it was late. You forgot about him.
The way you answered him was cold because you were
still hurt.
Well, it happens. That’s life.
The thing is, if you still wanted a friendship with the guy,
you should have kept his contact information.
Not gotten rid of his phone number so quickly.
Been more open with him about the issue and let him
know that despite everything you still wanted to be
friends with him, and ask him for time to heal.
And not have been completely aloof with the virgo man.
He understood you wanted nothing to do with him and
walked away.
If by any miracle u ever encounter him again, don’t loose
his contact information again, don’t delete it again,
just don’t loose it. Don’t push him away. And try to be friends again, but it wouldn’t be easy I tell ya.
Anyway, don’t be bump about it, it wasn’t meant to be.
That’s life. It’s called: “living”.
It was an experience and you learned from that experience.
Life is a constant learning process.
Be glad you had a not so horrible experience with a virgo man, be glad you had that experience with a virgo man and that you learned from it.
It’s good you moved on. Life goes on.
Keep living life joyfully. Things will get better.
I wish all of you great things in life. Take care you all.
To all virgo women:
Don’t be afraid or nervous of the connection and similarities
with a virgo man, enjoy it. Enjoy sharing the same
interests, mentality, outlook on life, personal
preferences with someone.
The same goes for virgo men.
Don’t spoil it. Let it grow. Let it flow. Let it happen.
Be happy about it.
It doesn’t happen too often that two virgos get together.
If it does, Have a blast with it. Enjoy having a zodiac sign twin.
Enjoy the fact that there is someone just like you in regards
of personality, of your spirit, your very soul.
Enjoy having someone who can finally may be able
to understand you completely.
Someone who know who u are and shares the same stuff
as u do.
Enjoy sharing the same stuff with someone that u don’t
share with anybody else.
Enjoy having someone who can accept u for who u are.
Someone who is just like you.
Someone who can understand you like nobody else can.
If you have that person, enjoy it. BE HAPPY!
God bless.
I’m a Virgo and with my Virgo man now nearly 3 years. I love and adore him. He is the most loyal, faithful, strong, understanding, compassionate man I have ever known. He makes me feel safe and loved. I have some problems with my dad (hes an alcoholic and being in the same room as him makes me so angry) but my Virgo man knows exactly how to calm me down. When I’m angry I go quiet for about ten minutes until were alone in the car and then it all comes out and he lets me vent for awhile and complain and then he’ll put his arms around me and I feel like finally someone understands me coz it feels like no one else does… We listen to each other, we give each other advice, we make each other laugh. Hes not just my soul mate- hes my best friend too and we really do have fun together. Hes patient and romantic in bed which I love but there’s plenty of passion there too especially when we have the house to ourselves. were young- im 21 hes 22. but it just feels so right. we are house hunting now coz i gotta get away from my dad. he brings out the worst in me and makes me incredibly moody but my Virgo man brings out the best. don’t get me wrong its not always perfect. we’ve had our disagreements and debates but nothing serious and we went through a phase where i was bored and craving excitement and we talked about it. then he took me away for the weekend and we’ve been going out more and doing more since 🙂 its a really good match. i dont no what id do without him. The only problem I can see right now is that were both stuck in a place we dont want to be. we both want a better job, better money so we can start building our life but well have to be patient as were young and theres a huge recession on right now.. 10/10 for Virgo Virgo love
just another thing to add-even tho were both Virgos-were very different in a lot of ways. we look good together. im not vein or big headed but i make an effort to look my best everyday and he doesn’t need to coz he just looks like a god all the time anyway he takes my breath away.. but we really dont have much in common. I want an intellectual career working as a psychologist/ HR manager etc. hes a tradesman. I love books-he hates reading, i love site seeing-he tolerates it for my sake. I love the arts-theatre, opera etc-he thinks its a joke but im forcing him to go with me next month 😀 but we mesh so well together. we have the same taste in food and we both like shopping, we get on well with each others friends/family. we like the same films/programmes. we are both into working out walking/the gym/eating healthy. and we both love each other more than life itself <3
I am a virgo man in a relationship with a virgo lady. I think it is useful to be open with each other and then to research opinions like those express here. When we have an understanding of ourselves, then move forward to prevent missteps. Such approach could only happened between V-V, not other signs.
When there is complete openness there, the rest will follow – passion, caring for each other, sex plays. Considerateness will always be present.
If your virgo man is not prepared for openness, then please hold off, or look some around.
Other signs may just do it. We think and then do. Sometimes our thoughts don’t gel, because of where we came from.
I cherish my relationship with my virgo lady. Never dull and often very inspiring. I won’t use the word “love” because it means differently to others.
There were times when I felt deeply for her and sensed that she felt the same way. It was magical just to hold and hug and cuddle gently. Saying her name….
I’m honestly happy for you guys. Two thumbs up!
God bless all of you Virgos and no Virgos out there.
Thank you Nancy Fenn for giving us Virgos the
opportunity to express ourselves on you website.
God bless you always.
I wanna thank all Virgos like me that stated their
honest opinion. God bless you as well forever.
Your input was valuable and well received.
Thank you all.
Degree of Romance: This relationship will certainly follow the recommended guidelines after the Virgo woman loses complete control on the first date.
Absolutely true. The Virgo girl I dated did exactly this. Neat, Tidy, organized first date. After dinner we took a walk around a nearby park, which she did not expect. Then I kissed her and she just kinda stood there for a bit dumbstruck.
Ultimately it was fun while it lasted, with a nice, orderly breakup at the end. Fact is we still talk on occasion.
I’m 24 years old. I’ve been in a relationship with my virgo man for 4 months. In such a short time I have never experienced love on this level in my life. I’m young and I thought I had been in love before, but this is truly special.
We have a lot in common as far as views and morals. We share most of the same interests. I’ve heard dating someone of the same sign as you is like looking in the mirror. I can definitely agree with that. We are not exactly the same, obviously. We do argue a bit about stupid things and get over it very quickly. Virgos are easily frustrated when things aren’t exactly what they want or expect. However, as far as relationships go, I’ve never been so in love. I’ve never felt completed by another human. Yes, I know. 4 months is not a long time. But we’ve formed such a strong bond within 2 weeks. We were complete strangers before our first date. And I disagree on the lack of passion. We are very passionate.
Virgo relationships are so strong whether it’s a romance or a friendship. my best friend is also a Virgo male.
WOW!! All this Virgo stuff is AWSOME! tehehe Almost 3 months ago I “met” the most wonderful Godly man on the “CHRIST~ian” Dating Site eHarmony (ya I KNOW what you’re thinking here) I “was” too this is something that I NEVER believed could possible…We live approximately 4,000 miles apart and every since our “1st meeting” on line we have talked on the phone every single day for 3~4 hours *DAILY* (no kidding) + numerous cards and letters in the mail ~and~ always about 10~15 emails to each other daily…We are BOTH Virgo’s and I myself have never dated another Virgo cuz I thought maybe I wouldn’t be able to stand one! Boy, was I ever wrong!!
We’ve been planning a MONTH long “travel trip” together going to many very exciting places!! Seems we can’t get enuf of each other…If this is so INTENSE so far I can only imagine what it will be in “real life” when we meet in 22 days!!! I know that this all sounds so crazy to you but its really happening 😉 and I/We could not be happier!! Yes, we share photos all the time by the internet and by the USPS, we know what each of us look like…We have so MUCH in common in every single way its just totally blows BOTH of our minds! I feel like he is right here by my side WOW!
We eat the same foods with 1 exception! He eats meat and I am a Vegetarian other than that we eat the same kind of cereal, listen to the same music Artists, the same T.V. shows, are favorite colours are the same (I know this to be true) because we BOTH are in the process of selling one of our homes in different states and the pics of our homes are all over the internet and in each one we have the EXACT same colours thru out our homes the SAME decore, right down to the IDENTICAL pieces of Art and furnishings!!
I’ve always KNOWN that the BEST way to come to know another person is to take a LONG road trip with NO tunes/music NO t.v. etc “just 2 people” getting to know one another WITHOUT any distractions. Oh! And with NO cell phones and NO computers (however I will have my cell in my suitcase) I am NOT totally stupid!! tehe
I believe that a big part of our being able to communicate so well with one another is that we BOTH have suffered deep loses..My husband went to be with Jesus 2 years ago ~and~ his wife just 1 year ago…
We BOTH know in our hearts that God has brought us together and that “He” is guiding us in our new adventure!
We will also be visiting Reno and I have this “strange feeling inside of me” that we will be “eloping”!! Yes! 😉 We are both so excited that we can hardly stand ourselves..
We BOTH are looking forward to the most WONDERFUL Godly future TOGETHER that God WILL provide for US!
I MUST tell you something else!!
My Virgo man is 81 years YOUNG and I am 66 years YOUNG!! We are both very physically active (he works out DAILY) at the gym too! I am so ATTRACTED this man’s HEART as he is with mine 😉 When God *IS* in the picture you KNOW when “things” are RIGHT!
Pilamaya (Thank You) for listening to my/our story and PLEZ keep us in “prayer” for our upcoming future together!!
His name is Dale ~and~ mine is Bevie..
God Bless ALL of you reading this and I pray that ALL of you will FIND the “love of your life” just as WE have…
Ya know EVERY single time we talk (which is almost none stop except for when we PRAY together each evening for 1 and 1/2 hours (SERIOUSLY) before bedtime…Amazing Simply Amazing…We KNOW that God IS in this with us and THAT is what makes it PERFECT because even if him and I do make mistakes (and ALL humans do) we KNOW that God DOESN’T make mistakes…
Again Pilamaya ~and~ May God Bless Each ~and~ Every One Of You…
Blessings from Bevie in ALASKA
P.S. F.Y.I. Dale is the one paying for this ENTIRE adventure (I know that some of you may have been wondering about this)!! He IS so far a TOTAL gentleman!
Most of this is true.. i met this virgo guy 6 months ago who even shares my birthday.. he is very neat.. and i have no idea why we virgo women are considered tidy in anyway! Neither me..nor my other 10 virgo mates are tidy..Sex for us is romance.. we spend time kissing each other and its more of making love.. yes we both are critical but it seems that he is not in love with me but selfishly takes evrything i give.. so honestly.. i have this figured out.. that virgo men are different.. espclly wen it comes to values.. You may end up loving him and giving him everythg.. and he will walk away with all of it..leaving you heart broken.. As a virgo woman.. i have learnt they speak the truth.. and if he ever says he wont be with you..it means he wont.. playing hard to get wont help either.. so make sure you dont end up like me.. if you are reading this.
This is all truth what they say about vergo man and woman i can’t say for anyone else but i can for myself.my boyfriend is a vergo and i am a vergo,we share the same month,year and age but not the same date,the way i feel about him i have never felt this way about any other man before,we have our differences but we know how to work around them,its like we were made forr each other,i thank god for him everyday
Its not really a comment i have been dating a virgo man for 3 months he is 48 im a virgo woman 53 we seem to get on great many similar traits sense of humour outlook on life but one flaw is our realationship is not complete we have plenty of foreplay i cant keep my hands off him but i wonder what is wrong with me that he cant share with me what he shared with other women im worried i will cheat I LOVE HIM plz help xx
Here’s a little soul-searching exercise I’d like to suggest which should be able to give some clarity (sometimes when we get our emotions out of our head and on paper its better) and is a good way of making us discover all the amazing things we deserve and are missing out on if we dont let go and stop procrastinating….Getting clarity often times increase the awareness needed to do something about the issues that lingers within.
You’ll need 4 sheets of paper
1.Determine and write down that ultimate desired goal
2. Write down a list of all your fears that are holding you hostage
3. Make a list of all the actions you need to take to overcome each fear
4. Finally, call this last list – ‘Stuff I make up in my Head’,(lol) stuff like comparing a past relationship with a prospective one.
If you find that you have been making unfair comparisons, write down all the destructive traits of the former partner and the positives which you’ve observed in that of the prospective partner (basically just the ways the prospective is different), rationally review the list which should then help you to stop assuming that the future has to be like the past.
Thing is once we stop confusing imagination with reality, we are sure to see a positive breakthrough much sooner than denying ourself the peace we so desire.
Start challenging your own fears rather than to be accepting them.
Relax, close your eyes and imagine feeling strongly secured around your partner, this will absolutely train your brain to know that whatever happens here, everything will be okay, insecure people tend to look for signs of things that doesn’t work, so we need to start looking for signs of what does, and stop seeing problems where none exist….doing this will no doubt get you and your partner feeling positive towards the future and each other. Yes there will be difficulties but keeping focused is what is good. Infact if you’ve been treated badly, lied to and cheated on, feeling insecure is a natural response but dont let that overshadow your happiness.
A good relationship is definitely possible and absolutely there for you to enjoy and grow with your partner, share resources and develop healthy ways which is a precious thing to have and really experience.
So just learn to relax and enjoy your partner, try adapting a new laidback attitude which makes it easier for the love to naturally and abundantly blossom…. Remeber you already have the top soil prepared 😉 <3
Happy Sunday!
"je t'aime pour toujours"
For any Libra woman whose in love with a Virgo man, I don’t blame yah. I’ve been attracted to mostly Virgo men in my life. I didn’t even know their sign until “after”. Their strength is what attracts us Libra women. They seem to be well put together almost to “perfect” to believe. As a Libra women that is usually the picture guy for our dream life. People fail to recognize that Libra women want “perfection” too. Virgo men can give a woman that. The problem is, they move like a darn turtle. They act like they have trust issues and want “you” to prove yourselves to them. Libra women already know we are a catch. We are loyal and worthy once you hook us. The problem is, Virgo men don’t see that. They should be trying to catch us instead of waiting for us to catch them. They have the game backwards. Sadly that’s why it’s hard to figure them out.
I am a Virgo woman, I am a bit…picky, fussy, choosy, all that stuff that some of you are aware of. and when I am in love, I m passionate, faithfull, loyal, but never try to fool with me. Ok, I met a Virgo man on a dating website, and we had many similarities. To start with, we were born on the same day, different year, but same weekday. when we met, was like…well I could barely breath, we could feel each other very well. As the days passed by, he started analysing…well virgos do analyse, think a lot, critique. And then, he just stepped back, since then, it s been difficult to get him back, unless I make him mad, which I did, not very good experience, for a Virgo woman’s point of view. It hurts too much, coz I still love him. He thinks I do not. how can I prove I do? yes, he seems pretty insecure, coz he kept saying that I did not like him, when he felt I did. It is not that I am desperate for a man, I can have any man I want, but it seems that the ones I reall y want/love just goes away. Do I scare them off?
Hello, I’m a Virgo woman and I met a Virgo man at work about a year ago. We started dating back in august and everything seemed perfect. He said he didn’t want to have a title with me (boyfriend/girlfriend) But he acted as if he was my boyfriend (wine and dine, staying over, taking me out) so everything was great for about 2 months I was really into him and i’m pretty sure he was into me, also. But than he got some really bad news and he completly shut himself out. the texting/hanging out stopped for over a month. I know virgos well so I gave him all the space he wanted and tried to be supportive from the side lines. at work, he’d tell me it wasn’t me, he was just going through sometime bad. He seemed apologetic, he even went as far as kissing me in private at work. But I started getting edgy with him ignoring my texts…i was worried about him, and missing him terribly. I sent him a text one day and it was ignored…no suprise…so I sent him a not so nice text aft er that and…suprisingly…he text back, calling me self centered and dramatic. He said since we didn’t have a title than I didn’t have the right to get upset with him not texting/hanging out with me. I guess you can say we ‘broke’ up at that point. for the next two weeks after that I didn’t try to communicate with him, even though I missed him and was upset about our argument. at work we just acted like nothing was wrong, being polite and conversing about work related subjects. I started missing him to the point I actually got the guts to ask him out for coffee to talk about ‘us’. at first he didn’t give me a straight answer, he just tiptoed around the question. but by the end of the conversation he agreed to meet and talk to me. that was a week ago and he never answered the text I sent to him. ugh! I’m so frustrated! I want this guy back but i’m unsure how to go about doing it…I’m trying not to seem desperate or needy but this situation is making me unhappy
Carolyn the best advice I can give you is to just walk away and move on. I too was in that very same situation with a Virgo man, and I am a Virgo woman. He didn’t want the title and he told me this in the beginning but I ignored it. He is a great, respectful and very humble man, he treated me like his girl, even moved in with me and I was there for him helping him very supportive, then we got into one argument he left me and never came back. Then everything went downhill from there, he wants to be single and he’s said that from day 1 I met him. I did everything i could to get him to move back in but no he denied me every time. But of course still wanted to see me and have sex. So finally i’ve decided to BLOCK him without any explanation and walk away and leave him completely alone because a man that wants you. You wont have to chase him or beg him to love you back or want to be with you! because he is going to be there! Let him go leave him alone. In the beginning its hard to let go but its gets better. Don’t ever settle or sell yourself short!
The biggest problem women face nowadays, no matter the zodiac sign, is jumping into bed before marriage. Girlfriends, don’t sell yourself short, who wants to buy a cow if he can milk for free? I am a Virgo married to a Virgo man, 13 years now. Oh, but was he slow in disclosing his feelings for me, although it was clear as day he cared. So I didn’t let him turn into my tyrant. I set the rules, and if he didn’t like it, he was welcome to walk away. No such thing for me as boyfriend who enjoys the privileges of a husband, keep your distance, dude, till I see a ring on my finger. It was a long battles of wills, but I truly enjoyed it, in the end, he cracked up and asked for my hand in marriage, and sure enough, after the wedding got everything he has been craving for. It is the way ALL men are, not just Virgoes. Do not jump into their beds and drag them into yours before he makes a commitment. Simple enough, and you will see how amazingly simple relationship will turn out to be.
I’m an Aquarius woman who dated a Gemini man for about 10 months, and in many ways it was just as great as the stars predicted it would be. However, my having a Scorpio rising dominate many areas of my personality was not exactly favorable. At first everything seemed ideal. We both seemed to have so much in common we both thought it seemed meant to be. We spent every moment we could together laughing, cooking, and having the most amazing sex. After several months had passed things were not quite so pleasurable. I felt he had a wandering eye, it tore me apart inside. There seemed to always be a fight between us about something, if it wasn’t my suspicions about his ‘flirting’ it was what to watch on netflix. He was unable to grasp the fact that to me, flirting is nearly as bad as cheating. Gemini flirting aside, I know he was faithful to me. He was the sweetest partner I’ve had, he pampered me, listened to me, and also pushed me to go out and try new things and helped me enjoy every bit of life.
This being said, my jealousy still ate at me all the time. The thought of his fliracious ways made me sick to my stomach. Images of him chatting it up with the girls at work as I’m sure he did are making my chest ache as I type this. I began to feel unable to look at him the same way as I once had. The worst thing was on some level it seemed he was entertained by this! He upset and tease me, but it would usually quickly escalate to a full on fight with tears and then he would chastise me for getting so worked up. I knew for months it was not going to work out long term, I think and I think he knew also. So one day as we were laying on my bed together I proposed the idea of taking a break to get some time away from each other to which he gladly agreed. I felt that there were no hard feelings, we agreed to a week of not hanging out together. So when we were almost done with the week long break I decided to go on a short camping trip with a former Sagitarius flame who was also just an old friend of mine, that I had always had strong feelings for. My Gemini man even sensed my feelings for the Sag when he met him and was quite jealous of him. Well needless to say my Sagitarius man was not my Geminis biggest fan either.
So during this short camping trip my Sag woo-ed me like he always had and then some. Telling me how my Gemini wasn’t cool enough for me, how if he loved me he would be with me at that moment not allowing me to be off with someone else. Along seranading me and telling me all kinds of sweet things. All of this made me feel like I didn’t need my Gemini anymore and that he was just using and abusing me, so with my Sagitarius right there I called my Gemini and left him a voicemail telling him how it was over and I wish he hadn’t wasted my time. It crushed my Gemini, he tried not to show it too much but I could see it and in a few days after seeing my Sagitarius travel off as they often do, I tried to recconect with my Gemini several times. But I had hurt him too much and he wouldn’t take me back.
Months and months past and I heard nothing from my Gemini assuming he was done forever I took a trip with my Sagitarius. When me and Sag got back to town he ran into my Gemini and talked about the trip. What do you know my Gemini texted me out of the blue the next morning telling me how it had gone on too long and he missed me.
That was back in august that we started talking again and we still do now and then when he texts me or I text him, and I have never felt love for anyone like I did for him. However I don’t know if I can ever make him feel the way about me that he used to and it breaks my heart 🙁
Take it with a grain of salt. Hey honey life is too short .What comes around goes around. Like Steve Harvey’s Book “Think like a Man, Act like A Women”. Men are capable of 3 things and 3 things only they profess, provide and protect. They are not emotional creatures and neither should you be. Things don’t go well with either of these guys just be open to meeting someone new. Next time try to save the emotional part for last enjoy!