Aquarius Man and Pisces Woman Compatibility
These two can be as happy as can be together, like two stars in a universe of galaxies. The worlds they inhabit — mentally and psychically — are so vast and cosmic it actually becomes self-defeating to talk about them. They both understand the necessity of focusing on other aspects of reality in a don’t-go-there sort of way. They will appreciate a small world that they build together because it is safe and reliable and mundane in the very best sense of the word. Think of the relief of the galactic traveler when he finally finds a place to hang his hat and call it home. They do not deny the existence of other realities; they just appreciate not having to deal with it when they are together. The problem is that Aquarius is cerebral and Pisces is soulful. This works in a young couple for a first marriage. It becomes more problematical later in life. It can push both of them in to a new center of unified integrity, but that is rare. They just are doomed to worship at separate altars.
How to Attract a Pisces Woman as a Aquarius Man:
Throw stars in her eyes — you’re famous for that (Rhett Butler was played by Aquarian Clark Gable). An Aquarian can appear to be the most romantic man on earth. It’s just an act, but then the world is a stage, so who’s complaining?
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Pisces Woman:
Pisces, you have universal appeal — you contain all 12 signs in one. You can call on any sign or combination of signs to conjure a lover. In this case, it will help to fantasize about the man you’re interested in because he will pick that up on a vibrational plane and respond by drawing closer to you in reality. You are, in other words, fishing in the subconscious. You are choosing the bait and the hook. Aquarian bait is cerebral, expansive, shocking, cosmic, liberating or evolutionary. Dangle some of that in front of him. Wear silver earrings and something electrifying blue.
Degree of Romance:
This can be one of the most unbelievably romantic relationships in the zodiac. It is like spreading a net of stars across the dark night sky. Everything is silvery and shiny, alluring and seductive, full of visionary promise and delight. It is like the maidens in Arabic paradise, or like a cool drink of water on a hot day. What is promised is soul fulfillment and visionary expanse of consciousness all at the same time. It is truly an out-of-body experience that will put you in a state of altered consciousness, begging for more.
Degree of Passion:
This combination is a little too elusive to be called “passionate.” Each one is slipping out of range of the other, in a beautiful astral dance. When they never collide, there is no passion -only yearning and promise. Passion is the heat of a summer day, a high-noon experience. These two dwell between twilight and dawn, basking in the moonlight in the Milky Way.
Degree of Friendship:
They are a little amorphous to be friendly but there is a certain altruistic detachment that could be characterized as such.
Degree of Marriage:
This can really work as a marriage. Two astral travelers lost in time and space with the rhythm of the ocean between them like a gi-normous heartbeat.
Progression of Relationship:
This relationship is a bit like herding cats. No telling what’s going to happen next, but there’s one big Okay Zone.
Sex:
Sex is going to take on some extraordinary dimensions in this relationship. For one thing it will become the primary means of communication, even more than music or math. It’s almost like the invention of a different species — hard to describe, but on the evolutionary edge for the two people participating.
When It’s Over:
It’s like the vector in chaos theory. Pisces keeps sucking Aquarius back in, him crying desperately the whole time, “Please release me, let me go.” It really never ends. It’s like a star that’s been dying out there for 20 billion years. God help you both.
Our Rating: A mathematical fractal
So true! My ex-husband and I were the epitome of this . . . we are still friends . . . and yes, it never really ends. We will always be friends. And the older we got, the less our marriage worked. . . but the sex -not so much – he was so cerebral.
I can only imagine how beautiful it was. How blessed you were! Thank you for your feedback.
My parents have been like this for 20 years. of course, there is conflict, but they love each other so much that they are capable of getting over it.
to this day my dad gives my mom different colours of roses every month… i dont think that passion that they had 20 years ago ever died down.
This is me and my husband…our life is like scenes from a movie…either magical and surreal, or miserable….really no middle ground. We are obsessed with eachother, but sometimes just can’t stand eachother…keeps things interesting…there’s no lack of excitement, and the make-up sex is out of this world. I recommend an aquarius-pisces relationship…just be prepared for extremes. It works for us, cuz we hate being bored more than anything!
Hi!! This is Erol and me in moon signs. Ditto that last comment. Things are never dull and we’re best friends. What fun we have! 🙂 thanks for your continuing insights!
You are truly blessed.
I’ve been seeing a swimmer girl (ironic) since this summer, and all of this fits ina scary fashon since I’m the epitome of Aquarian male, and she by far is rediculously picean weather or not she realizes it. It worries me mildly for the future, HOWEVER, everything has been worth it, and if she gets the chance and we have the time, we will last as long as possible, once these outisde issues are out of the way, I think that this “dying star” will be more like a supermassive black hole where we hate eachother, or a supernova where we outshine the rest of the stars around us!
I LOVED my Pisces woman..she was wise and deep..as was I..
But she just became to MUCH.
I had to end it,but it was worth wile..
and YES,we are friends..from a DISTANCE..:)
I have been perusing your site, it’s very interesting indeed. I have been thinking about this person (Aquarius man) for some time. Interestingly enough, the note on how to attract the Aqua guy pretty sums it up for me. I tend to have recurring dreams in where he appears. We have a deep connection in many ways, we have had amorous liaisons. However, he is across the pond. I would love to rekindle again. but when I have dreams he tends to make contact via e-mail or in some form another. Any other tips on how to lure the Aquarius man in?? 🙂
@ A.Man….if you loved her so much and it was so worthwhile why did you have to end it? And, why friends from a distance? Interested to know…
OMG..what Lucy said is very similar for me…if i dream about him, i run into him or he contacts me..and it freaks me out at times..so i dont know if it my crazy intuition picking up on him or if im calling him(as the article says we can)..lmao..idk…we are soooo stuck in a cycle..its frustrating.
I learned so much from my Aquarian! Namely, detachment! Which for a Pisces, is a really good thing to learn! Now that the relationship is over, I am happy. It was many many years of struggle and pain, mostly for me. He could easily ignore problems and ignore me…and I would go flip-flopping after him, waiting patiently for the right time to bring something up, which was…never. LOL. Anyway, sex was awesome but there was NO emotional intimacy here (may be due to factors other than his aquarian-ness). Sex was also made extra hot because it was always me trying to “win” him, “reach” him, in some way puncture that shell which is really just a cool aquarian mist, nothing to be pierced, just insubstantial, ephemeral mist to be waved away…there was nothing solid there.
We were friends at first, and the friendship and depth at which I came to know him were part of the reason we broke up and re-united, but ultimately, I was too much for him, he was not enough for me, and we were just too different.
I would have liked to have remained friends, but he did the Aquarian “you never existed” dance and never calls, writes, or seems to think about me (or I would know it). This is a very cold and detached Aquarius male I was dealing with (but oh was he handsome and responsible…honey for the out-there Pisces in me who loves and admires structure) and it ended up hurting me a lot. But in the end, I am so much better for it. I integrated many of the lessons from Aquarius…my emotions are so much the better balanced for having loved passionately at the feet of a god who was completely uninterested in my devotional acts…
I just got out of a year long relationship with an Aquarian….We fell deeply in love and had more fun the last year than with anyone else. We got along very well, never fought the entire time about anything. However, even though we had so much fun together, and were good friends, we never told eachother about our past, about our dreams or secrets. I got the feeling he really didn’t care. It was hot and wonderful for most of the year, but after that, I realized we weren’t soul mates, we both lead two separate lives and never really connected our dreams or future together. After an entire year, he still doesn’t know anything about my first marriage, my childrens birth or younger years, my high school days, my family, etc., and it’s not like I don’t like talking…just always got the feeling after I started talking, he didn’t want to hear about anything. He at first seemed very romantic and very giving, but after a while, I could see he was selfish and very bottled up. He never told me about himself, even if I asked, things like dreams or fears or secrets…just basic things. Sex was wonderful, the best ever. But it was mostly just that – sex, not really love making. And, no it still doesn’t seem over…he keeps calling, texting and trying, and because he’s so nice, it’s difficult for me to tell him to get lost. I can’t seem to put my finger on any one specific thing he did wrong, just never seemed to spiritually connect. He was an only child and lived with his parents at the age of 30 as well, so this contributed to his selfishness too. I don’t regret the relationship, it’s what I needed at the time, but it was going nowhere.
Wow….I have never read such an accurate description of our relationship. Truly amazing. I will re read this over and over to help me get through our break up, which is occurring just exactly as described. Thank you.
@marjolane
Thanks for the feedback. Please tell a friend.
That whole thing was right on point. I didn’t realize how special she was until it was over. I still feel her fish or rather dance with me with her subconscious. We experienced the highest of highs and somehow ere able to keep evolving that. She is in me and I’m in her, like we had a semi-rebirth with part of each others essences.
you wrote,
“It’s like the vector in chaos theory. Pisces keeps sucking Aquarius back in, him crying desperately the whole time, “Please release me, let me go.” It really never ends. It’s like a star that’s been dying out there for 20 billion years. God help you both.”
She is now married with a kid, this pregnancy happened 2 months after we broke up. What am I supposed to do, I mean really? This is ridiculous, madeness, I don’t want this, but I miss her every single day. She predicted what will happen later in life, now I’m even more confused.
I read a few others (descriptions) and this is the most accurate, the others didn’t fit.
this is ironically hilarious,
Wow! This is really freaking me out! I got out of a 4 year relationship with a Taurus and i’m now happily married to an aquarian man and we have a beautiful daughter together. We are young newlyweds and this kind of feedback is not something I wanted to find out, but i’m really supersticious and now im scared I love him sooo much though im jut going to give it my best and fight for it to last till the end! hopefully i’m one of the spared few who can last =/
After being in bad marriage w/virgo for over 10 yrs– I was jarred awake by this amazing brilliant aquarian man. He doesnt even know my name, but he has changed my life. I woke up and stood up and Im making the right chnges. Since the 1st time I saw him, I cant stop thinking about him- & whenI think how I want to see him…he’s there at every turn, on the elevator, or we pass thru doors at same time. Crazy. I dont think I’ll ever say anything but Ill aways send love/luck thru universe for him.
i’m currently in a relationship with a virgo male who i love alot, but his constant cynicism and critisicm has become too much for me to take.. i recently met an aquarian male, and we just connect so deeply it blows me away… nothing has happened yet as we live quite a distance from each other, but we speak everyday and what’s wonderful is while he is an aquarian male down to the core, he’s also soulful and spiritual and understands me so perfectly. my moon and rising are both in sag, so i don’t think i’d become too much for him as most of the time i manage to keep my emotions pretty grounded, although i’m falling deeper in love with my aquarian everyday and i just want to disappear off the face off the earth with him.. quite a predicament.
wow….i just started a blossoming breathtaking relationship with my knight in shining armor. As an emotional pisces relationships have not been a strong point in my life but with this man i feel anything is possible. I definitely agree with us feeling like we dropped off the face of the earth into our own private fantasy. We haven’d had a disagreement we talk everything out. Our first date we shared so many stories about our past,dreams, aspirations and life in general I felt I knew him for years. He even inspired me to write again (which any pisces knows art is our refuge) I have been reading so much astrology about our compatibility that I just stopped because it placed negative thoughts in my mind i didnt want to subconciously make come true. I really believe we are apart of that few that will succeed because his last relationship was with a pisces (so he knows what he is getting into emotionally) and my last relationship was with a detached, manipulative cheating scorpio so I understand a man needs space to be him because my ex had more than enough free time to break my heart. I love your post….it was on point…
god iam very confused and really scared. from the last 2 iam ina relationship with an aquarious man. it was love at first site, initially it was heaven we thought that we so much alike n made for each other n now sometimes cant take each other, on every sec v used to cry n fight , there is 0 understanding n now after 2 yrs v have realised that v r so different. still we want to live together n wake up every morning with a thought may be any magic will bring the understanding between us…….. its painful god help us
we both really love each other a lot n do a lot of things for each other but everytime something bad happens n instead of enjoying our day we used to cry n fight,,,,,
plz help we really want to live wid each other ,,, v still cant imagine our lives wid some other person,,,,,,,,,
a fractal..is that good or bad chance? confused
Reading all of this is really freaking me out. I was in a relationship w/ an Aquarius for almost 5 years. We were both young, though, so who knows if it could have ever worked out for longer. He would very detached at times and that killed me more than anything. Our connection was super intense, almost too much to handle at times. He always had this was of pushing me away & then pulling me back in. The first year was bliss–he was very sweet, shy at first, but so loveable then it all took a turn for the worse and we went through those extreme highs and lows. When it was good it was amazing and when it was bad it was a complete, miserable mess! I finally ended things, much to my own surprise (didn’t know I had it in me) & even more to my surprise he “chased” after me..wrote me a 10-page love letter, trying to win me back but I didn’t want to take the bait right away–I told him I needed time (I was scared to death he’d just turn around & make me go through the hell of getting “over him” all over again). It ended badly. Very badly. He took his life but I SWEAR he still tries to connect through my dreams as crazy as it all sounds. I will wake up and seriously sink into a depression because for a few moments after waking up I believe the dream was my reality and then I wake up all of the way & realize it was only a dream. I don’t even know what to think about it all but it’s mind-boggling how true this zodiac stuff is!
I’ve read this article a few times now and I’m still not quite sure if a fractal is a good or bad thing…it sounds as though it relates to fractions…which in my opinion would be a terrible rating if that’s the case lol
@ Gaby
I was wondering the same since long. Nancy made two comments above about “You are truly blessed” makes me think maybe she meant it to be a GOOD rating.
It is sort of confusing. If it is good, how good is it? More than 10/10? Ah! Another mystery of life.
ohhhh my gosh, YES.
I was on and off with an Aquarius man for almost 2 years. He brought me head over heels with his charm (only for me to find out that he’d used the same charm on my sister in the same night he’d met and used it on me!) That night was the beginning of my curse – I was lovestruck for him!
I can’t describe the relationship, as it was so chaotic and twisted and, in reality, just-so-not-meant-to be but we kept running back to eachother. But this article puts it into words perfectly.
The bit on sex was on point…in so many words that I can’t describe. But as you said, the main form of communication. Not in a way that was unhealthy or as though we were using eachother for sex, it was just…how it was.
And what Naomi said was the same as my relationship.
It was either at an all time high or an all time low. I was either crying myself to sleep at night or falling asleep with butterflies in my stomach.
I just ended a 7 month relationship w/ a 32 year old Aqua. Im a Pisces. Try as I might, I could never tell if this man wanted me for real or not. He blew hot and cold and disappeared alot. I tried to understand his ways as I felt a spiritual connection w/ him, but he wouldnt even meet me half way. Everything always his way, or no way. The final straw was when he didnt show up to my bday party. All of my friends were there and he said he was coming, on his way even! And didnt feel the need to offer an explanation or apology. That showed me he didnt care. And if by some miracle he did; he sure had a funny way of showing it. I dont regret ending it, but I feel silly for missing him even a little.
I dated a guy for at least 5 or 6 months. WE hitted pretty hard and I was surprised that he said “I love you” so fast. I was head over heels for him but he was selfish and imature. we were planning on going to college together. He ofcourse disappeared from my life and we ended up going to different universities. I never stopped loving him although I thought I did. We reconnected about a year ago but we have not talked at all since. The time we saw each other we picked it up as if nothing had happened.
I am thinking of reconnecting but I am not sure if I should? I really miss him!
im a pisces women dating an older by 12 yrs aquarius man i was dating hisd brother for three yrs and they would talk about him he s was in jail before he got out i dreamed about him i know we were going to meet and connect me and his brother didnt have a good relationship when i meet him it was like wow i just know he was the one i even tried not to like him because of the situation but i couldnt stop thinking about him he asked me to marry him even though it has not been that long and even though i said i would never get married i said yes and i mean it he also gets along with my kids
i’m dating an aquarian 30 and i’m a pisces 24 .. we’re so good together till now … he wants to marry me.. he feels am the one for him… i feel that too … i feel so safe with him .. i feel magical things with him i didnt feel before.. i hope i can know how to manage those negative things u mentioned.. as i know he;s a very moody person.. and he feels upset.. he is soooo upset. he is a carefree person and so flexible and respecting me which makes me feel so happy. freedom is with him.. but i dont know if i’, too much for him or not.. cuz i feel we’re on the same track for eachother.. dont know if he can be bored or change his mind after sometime about how emotional i might be !!
I’m a Pisces woman who married an Aquarian man almost three years ago. I find this compatibility rating to be quite interesting! We have had many us & downs and I almost ended it a year ago, but then decided to give it one more try. It does at times feel sort of like being two stars drifting around in the night sky…but not always connecting somehow on a deeper cosmic level. It can be contented and cozy, which is a safe feeling for both of us. On the other hand, there are often different needs expressed which don’t mesh that well since one wants to be romantic (him) and the other (me) wants to be left alone. I feel that I am a true romantic type of woman too, yet I don’t like the overly affectionate/clingy stuff either, when not in the mood. I need my space and he does not, so that leads to problematic coexistance often. I think he is sweet and gentle, so those are good qualities…until he blows up over something that I think isn’t worth even getting mad about. I get mad too though, and tried to work on myself to not over react to him for every little thing. The rating given for this relationship worries me, and I am pretty sure she meant it as a fractal being less than #1, so that kind of is depressing to me. Wow…it can still work out though, but I can tell you Pisces ladies with an Aquarian man to prepare for a lot of work and time to smooth the ruffles and wrinkles. Bring a steam iron! Maybe I should be with a different signed man, but I am not sure right now what I want, other than to keep working at it with the hubby. There’s always hope if you believe in it…
hi, im an aquarius guy. all you’re saying are all diffrent from me. in fact im with a pisces girl for almost a year now, she’s totally insane. she doesnt care for me, for what i feel, the time, the togetherness. she likes to go with friends rather than being with me. at first she is the best, as time goes by, she becme cold. she is not thinking for our relationship. she is just thingking for her own good, for her own happiness not seeing im badly hurt. yes, she is seductive, she is great in bed. that’s all i can say
so im a pisces ((woman)) and ive been dating this aquarian guy for 4 months now…and in the begining of us meeting, we were inseprable but now that we are stayin together it seems as though we barely see each other except for sex??:((… i mean i stay at home n go to school n do all the domestic work with my kids n all and yes he provides and protects and profess that im his but everytime i try and connect with him deeper about us he seems uninterested…im lacking his emotional support and i reallly need that in any relationship…recently ive been over looking this becuz we are still new to each other and he’s also younger than me there’s a 4yr diff…but idk for how long…??i dont want to patiently wait for something that is doomed to happen:((
I am an aquarian who split with an Piscean woman after 7 years.. The best part of our relationship was sex.. It was so natural and exciting that our relationship sustained just on sex.. But poles apart emotionally…For me, it was always spur of the moment (not necessarily the right thing to do). But for her, she could ponder over something for ages without deciding.. Always a person in dream than in reality… I wanted commitment but she was not sure…It is very easy for an aquarian to take a piscean for granted as she has the capacity to suck it in.. And it is very easy to please a piscean if you can say a few sweet things..Not the least materialistic.. But to know a piscean mind its impossible…She broke off wit me last month and is getting married to another guy…least expected…Its difficult but not impossible to get over if you believe that it woudve been difficult even if it had worked out..!
Loved reading this… Thnks 🙂 im a single pisces tht always goes back toher aguaruis male friend our connection attraction most likely,is so strong but I feel we both dont know what we want from each other
This is something else. I been into astrology for as long as i could remember and reading this page is tripping me out. Im a Piscean female just got into a relationship with a Aquarian Male and its been unbelievable almost too good to be true. I hope this time around will be good. Any feedback Piscean Women on what i should look out on. And hes 8 years older.
I have been seeing an aquarian male for about 2 months. I am 5 years older. It was an instant attraction. The passion is amazing. The diffence I see on here and the way he is…he tells me everything. We have talked about every part of our lives. He even has told me about something that happened in his life that was devistating to him. He has told me things he wasn’t He shares details of his day with me. He’ll call me and tell me his schedule for the day…even though I know I won’t remember half of it, I appreciate it. We work for different companies, but on the same property. I walk with my friends every morning and he makes a point of being out there every day to see me. He usually initiates the contact. He looks forward to our time together…whether it’s our friday lunch or a date as much as I do. Sometimes I think he does even more than me. We have a place we go Friday afternoons and he refers to it as our place and our table. Whenever we are parting, he always asks when he will see me again. I give him his space. He gives me mine. We have a lot in common. Our pasts seems to be very similar. We understand each other. He doesn’t express his feelings verbally but I know there is a lot of things going on inside of him. His actions and expressions say a lot. I think he is actually sensitive and have seen him react in a way that appeared he got his feelings hurt by something someone said. I am independent and have my time to dream. He has time to do his thing. Funny thing is one day I was wearing a blue top and silver dangling earrings. He was staring at my earrings and said how much he liked them. He compliments me on my clothes and shoes all the time…especially the shoes. I have to admit, he is very very into me. I know it’s new but I am very happy and surprised about this union.
Thats how it is in the beginning, as a Pisces woman, my guard was always up (i know how gullible I can be). Its like as soon as you drop that guard, its total confusion. I dont know if its a game , challenge, for them(Aquarians men) . have faith, be patient and enjoy the ride! Hopefully, if you do get swept up he’s grown enough to play the game! Still trying to figure out if fractal is good or bad??
description is true, but confusion is great between partners.
i still love my man, he left me few years ago and now he wants me back, he is married, its wrong for me but i still feel something is still left to be said or done…….Pisces woman are indeed gullible but very wise, warm hear-ted, who prefers honesty. While Aquarian man thinks his women can be double faced……….just more maturity and trust is needed, soul mate sign…
Everyone, thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I’m Piscean woman and it is wonderfully inspiring to hear your stories! Thank you again x
I often dream about my Aquarian man… It has been ten years since we were together… we were so young and each others first loves i believe… Both living two totally different lives as i have moved country, every time i return home the love is like Hancock , I feel so weak knowing he is somewhere near and as much as I am weak I love the elusive feeling of my daydreams the more i think about him and what we could be… two totally different lives consist of new partners though when we happen to see each other i can feel that oh so deadly flame so strong and its funny because this explains that the flames still burn because i cant let the poor bugger go Lol… i never will either and he knows it, i would never cross the line though i know he is safe where he is, he may not be happy but he is safe…. I will never forget the way he made me feel with or without words… that detachment was perfect for me as time alone is as bliss as being with this strong beautiful dreamy Aquarian <3 like me I bet he believes in the energy planes and life goes on x needless to say I am with a hot head Aries who loves me pregnant in the summer barefoot in the winter as that saying goes… avoid such disaster and stay with your aqua boy..he'd most likely keep you young forever xx
I’m an Aqua man and met the most beautiful woman I have ever seen about a year ago, Pisces of course. She was married at that stage and is currently going through a divorce from an Aries man. There is something massively enchanting and soulful about this goddess. The way she moves, her slight awkwardness, her hair, her lips…god she is beautiful. I see us getting together, making the most amazing love and she becoming my best friend (important to us Aqua’s) – In no specific order. I touched her leg yesterday and i felt electricity between us. I send her a message saying I like her, she replied she liked me too. Is however in a place where she has a lot of work to do in terms of the divorce and of course I know this. Just cannot feel a massive attraction to her. Time will sort this all out and I look forward to the day that we are together, know it will be forever.
Just cannot help feel massive attraction to her.*
well let me say that i am an Aquarius Man……I went through heck never knowing what deception lies around the corner with my EX GF….the Pieces. ONLY her friends and family knew well in advance that her intentions were to leave me time after time and again. She had no clue about how to spend money unless it was for making other people impressed…..car / furnishings etc….and then be just as broke as can be…..saying the Lord would get her thru till payday…..In reality the Lord told her not to spend so feverishly but she didn’t listen…LOL…and the mental disguise of …./ And the prude in the bed room didn’t want to give OS….but man she let me get my fill without reciprocation…..like yeh good night and thanks baby… and very little sex drive towards me…..her hang ups…too many to list here…..LET ME SAY thank God there is now i have been dating a Scorpio woman that’s very receptive and loves to be the initiator in the bed room…. she loves everything about pleasing HER MAN!……..and there is no hidden agenda and deception with my Scorpio…Thankfully….I am ahead of the love game by reading about Scorpios on sites like this one….They affirm my belief system in astrology signs, much of which is very applicable.
I am 24 year old Pisces woman. I fell in love with an Aquarius man at the tender age of 21. I was recently divorced from a loving but Crazy Gemini. When I met my Aqua man, the attraction was instant. I remember smiling at him from across the room. He asked for my number that night and I said no. Only b/c I’d taken shots with the birthday girl/best friend. I saw him again that night while we were eating and sobering up. Again he asked for my number and I said yes. All it took was one conversation in person a week later and we were hooked on each other. I saw him everyday. He would even hang out with me at my job. I was an EMT on 12 hour nightshifts. We’d talk for hours. A year later he got orders to Korea. We decided we didn’t want to do the long distance relationship so we broke things off. Well that didn’t last long. We talked every night for about 3 months and then out of the blue he needed space. Me being the caring Pisces that I am, I gave him just that. Bad idea. We stopped talking and eventually found rebounds. I got out of the military and moved to Florida. My first week here he contacts me to apologize for everything. I accept. And after small talk he tells me he has returned to the states and will be stationed in Florida. I never would have imagined that 2 years later he’d be living only 30 minutes away from my home. My job is only 10 minutes from his home. 🙂 of course we messed around. But he did the whole Aqua thing, walls were up sky high, refused to open up emotionally and now he didn’t want to commit. So I waited around a few months and he never budged. Fixed signs. The sex was beyond amazing and very intimate. He gave me a lot of his time. But only in his home. I got fed up with feeling so detached. So I decided to move on. Apart of me knows that we’re connected in a way that is hard to fathom logically. And no matter how much it hurts to let go he will always hold a special place in my heart and I in his. He told me that he did not want a relationship right now but the thought of losing me sends chills through his body. And that
I just say these words to myself every time I think about waiting again. “People do what they do, when they do it, based on who they are and the information they have at the time.” We all love differently. You don’t get to decided how someone loves you or treats you. You can only chose how you participate in what they have to offer. And who knows, maybe we’ll meet again in the future when he’s ready. But for now, I’ll live my own Piscean dream without sacrificing myself. Love will find me again. Always has.
I find that sometimes we blindly navigate our emotions through a series of rigid tailspins and often times not fully capable of comprehending such processes in our natural state of mind.
You find that you meet someone, you realize that that there is a intense connection/attraction, you find that you become so scared and flustered that you sometimes often times than not push people away from you unintentionally or not, and then when you realize its sometimes too late and then there comes a time when the universe intercepts that before it reaches a Stage 5 Condition and then that force to push inexplicably becomes this huge pull factor so strong, its alarming.
And so when the universe analyzes all these occurrences and knows you really want to open up but you’re not sure how or where to begin because you fear been rejected or fear been mortified, and fear the fears of all fears, it creates this medium, a medium that allows you to be yourself without the feeling of been judged, without been ridiculed, without been subjected to apprehension and you feel at peace each time you let a little bit of you die by letting out bits by bits and then you begin the rebirth each layer at a time.
By this time the universe formulates this idea containing various conceptual elements to include both the positives and the negatives and made sure ALL were laid out – and certainly it was, because sooner or later it was bound to be brought to fruition for the one to whom it may concern and offcourse it found the concerned and place her right there infront of it all to grasp….and without a doubt the universe knew this was what would make this bond stronger, to cement this connection firmly in place withstanding all negative forces come what may.
And both knows neither wants to let go, but doesn’t want to force merger either and so just as both feels like its the end of a brief encounter, the universe is prompted once again and so it begin its course this time bringing the other party to come to the know of what the other has been struggling with that has caused things to feel like it was at a stand still but little did either know what God’s plan was. And so every single detail becomes open, as though someone intentionally made sure that door stayed open – though to him he probably never even realized he had that door open so wide not just for anyone to walk in though but for the one who was suppose to, who kept searching for him days on end ( yes I would be online all the time as though I was really looking for something that I really wasn’t sure what I was looking for or why I kept looking and then when I found it, the search was over, literally) and couldn’t figure out just where he had wandered to, then walking towards a title-less book which would infact peaked an interest in wanting to know whats inside, then reading and understanding each chapter moment at a time.
And you then feel as though under no natural circumstances would you have even gotten so up close and personal to someone’s soul without even been in their physical presence ( though I am under the strong believe that maybe it would never have gotten past hello, or past small talks, if it wasn’t for the universe precise calculations)…..and that’s something I do not take very lightly….its a big deal for me!
This is like living with someone without actually been there, feels like you know them in and out, feels like you know they’ll be the best person they can, but never in a million years would you ever have imagined getting to know exactly so much without vagueness…. that says ALOT without him saying much of anything in the flesh, but the universe has made sure that everything was said that needed to be said at the time it saw fit and that everything would be heard that needed to be heard only when the time was right and so be it….and everyday I’m still learning so much more about who this person really is, their out of the blue mood swings and it doesn’t matter because you understand where those are coming from and wants them to know it will all be OK….seriously it will be!
If nothing else, I am extremely delighted the way this is all unfolding and coming together and especially the time it has taken and thank you so much for never ever rushing it prematurely….priceless!!
Hear me now, there is someone who LOVES YOU that will never ever leave, who will be there ALWAYS because they want to be, unconditionally and because you are worth loving in every sense of the word,…..but promise that you will be there forever and know with that you will get all of me, all my love, all my everything – only and only if you promise me you will never let go or leave but will be here until the end of time, because I promise I will never leave your side and its okay because I trust that you will without a doubt be the best man that you can be…. I’m trusting my heart in your hands and hope you will do the same. All the love you need is right here – believe that…..promise!!
I know you do and you know I do too…here to stay (L)
I’m not sure I agree with this. I’m a Pisces woman and have dated 3 different Aquarian men and they were all way too detached for me. Very self motivated. Romance? What was that? It was non-existent and I am a woman who thrives on romance. They were all very cheap penny pinchers. Because they were in their always in their heads, they felt anything they did was fine and excusable, even if it was hurtful. They all loooooved female attention which can be a turn off to a woman looking for loyal monogamy. And UGH!!! Sex with them was more like a chore than something to look forward to. The 1st one was just a bad sex partner. I mean, nothing about his sex was good. The 2nd one was more into porno style sex. No intimate connection at all. It was like I was there alone or more of a sexual prop for him to get off on but there was no intimacy at all. The 3rd one was hit or miss. I take that back. Out of all of the times we had sex, it was only good twice. But he was so disconnected, he didn’t even like to get completely unaddressed to have sex. I was like WTH? He didn’t like to give oral sex and he didn’t like kissing. For me, no kissing is a no no. We kissed in the beginning, then he just stopped. So it went down hill from there. The one thing that the say about Aquarius men that is so true is that they are not emotional but can be affectionate. Like, with these 3, they all loved to spoon and cuddle but you never knew what they were thinking and feeling. Also, when we stopped dating, it was an easy amicable separation. There no begging for anyone to stay. It was no boo hoo falling emotional drama at all. Each one, we agreed that it just wasn’t going to work. With the 2nd one, we actually went out for drinks after our talk LoL. And to this very day, I’m still cool with all them. The first one is like a brother to me now and the 3rd one is one of my best friends. The 2nd one, he has a girlfriend now so I don’t really communicate with him but when we see each other, it’s all good. So, my resolve is, Pisces women and Aquarius men make great friends but they are too detached emotionally for us emotional Pisces.
Well Im a Pisces female who went out with an Aquarius male. The first while was brilliant. I have a lot of air In my chart so I get his need for space Im very freedom loving to !
Anyway I got pregnant by him. I had been on birth control but had been on medication which Interfered with this which the doctor did not tell me) when I found out It was the most horrendous day of my life I didn’t tell him right away because I wasn’t sure how to tell him and thought for ages about how to. He FREAKED when I told him. I thought fine he needs to get his head together didn’t hear from him for a MONTH. I gave him his space but It put me through the ringer, I was so scared I didn’t know how I stood with him.
We met up In a cafe and he said I was pinning him down and keeping stuff from him I wasn’t I only told him because my conscious wouldn’t allow me to hide It and I had worried for ages how to tell him. This got me really upset I ran away from him at the cafe HE WAS NOT GOING TO SEE ME CRY. He text saying well talk when you are not blubbering. I sent a very nasty text a few days later to which he responded with he will support me but only for the child’s sake but would never want to work things out. I was furious at this. There Is only so much In a relationship someone can compromise he wasn’t prepared to work things out with me saw It as a hassle, wanted me to do everything on his terms. It was horrible enough was enough there was only so much that can be on one persons terms, he was not the only one who was feeling tied down and scared I happily gave him his space but he did not consider the ringer he was putting me through.
Eventually I wrote him a letter explaining all the above to him and how just sticking around for the sake of a child would be a knife In my heart. A child decides to be born with two parents loving It not one sticking around to say look you managed to tie me down bitch Im doing my sense of duty.
So I told him please think about and call me I cannot wait around for ever for you to think things through I want to get on with my life. Anyway Im so ashamed but I had an abortion I told him eventually enough was enough I have me to think about I will wait but not forever. I called him the morning of It and he was shocked told me I had cut him out of my life. I truly didn’t want to but it was the only way for me to move forward.
He showed up drunk at the clinic when I was just about to have It and got taken away by the police. I have never heard from him until one night when I ran Into him when I was having lunch with my friends and It was like my heart had been stabbed It brought back all my sorrow and regret.
From experience, I’ve learned that in order to be with an Aquarian male you must have a lot of patience, and us being pisceans we do. . . But at the same time we need to learn how to play mind games with them. Not to the extent of cheating or lying to them. But make them believe we have other things to do than just worry about them, or wonder what he feels. You know, we pisceans will put him first before a lot of things because we do sacrifice a lot for love. The way I’ve learned to deal with aqua boy is by having fun with him when we’re together. Obviously he likes me cause he comes around. And when he needs his space, trust me, I feel neglected. I want to call him every hour to see what he’s doing or to just tell him that I miss him. But I don’t. Its so hard. Instead I call a couple of my girlfriends to cry to them, or go watch a movie or go shopping for shoes, I try to keep myself busy. I used to call and cry to my aqurian because I wanted to know what he felt fo r me. He never gave me a straight answer. It seemed to me that I was pushing him away. So I stopped telling him what I felt for him. What I realized was, that if you do give him his space, they tend to come around more. One night I decided to do what he would do to me. When he called me I didn’t answer. I was dying to answer my phone. He called me atleast 6x in a roll and still no answer. After that there was a knock at my door and what do you know, it was him. I simply told him that my phone was on silent and hadn’t realized that he had called. Ha! It worked. When we’re together we have great conversation, and (I know he doesn’t mean to) he may say things that I would take offensive being the emotional Pisces that I am, now I laugh it off with him. I’ve learned to talk just like him. We (pisces) have to learn how to be their friends first. He’s now more open to talk to me and I listen. The sex has always been great. I always take the initiative to choose where to go out, whether its out for drinks, shoot pool, dancing lessons or heck camping at the last minute! He’s always willing. At night I hug my pillow instead (sometimes, cause I love to be all over him) and its only so that I don’t smother him while hugging him so tight,lol. When he goes on his time off of me break or whatever you wanna call it, I take advantage of my time and do chores or catch up with friends. When I tell him I love him, I tell him that I know he loves me too but is to chicken to admit it. He laughs and kisses me. I noticed that when I don’t question him, he tells me more. I love him so much and want him to be exactly the way I dreamt a man should be with his lady. But reality is he’s an AQUARIUS. Everytime I look at him, I wanna kiss him and hug him and tell him how much I love him, but I hold back some. Try not to be so emotional (I think that’s one of our defects.) Holding emotions back a little has brought him closer to me. Its worked out this way for me and hope it will work out for each one of you.
I love you girl for this thank you for understanding us(Aquarius) . By the way I am madly in love with my Pisces guy and He loves me even More.
I miss the Aquarius man unblievably so much. Cant seem to explain why the thought of him makes me so weak.
Oh love and emotions, please stop making a fool of me….because there really is nothing left to hold on to.
The distance is echoing… 18.4065089,-77.11073277777777
Awwwwwed by this love affair💞
Could I please have a moment before I go?
Somehow I cant forget, he was just like a dream come true—it was divine; now every single thing reminds me….the point of it all….. I LOVEd Him..
Was it all that easy to put all your feelings a side? So since there is no more you and me, best I let you go so I can be free, I don’t know if I want to face this yet again (seven is completion). no matter how hard it is, I have to let go because I’m falling….. falling out of love! My God….Chris this hurts!☹️