Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility
This is one of the late-great combinations!! You read it first here. This pair is absolute magic following none of the usual newspaper Sun sign trivia. An enormous amount of respect and a common viewpoint is at the core of this relationship. It will be easy for these two to court, marry, and set up housekeeping. There is an almost seamless energy that makes it a pleasure being in each other’s company. You would almost call it love at first sight.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as an Aquarius Man:
If you are attracted to a Virgo woman, you already respect her for the many fine qualities you have noticed. She, like you, is not a game player. She could care less what her friends are doing, what they think about her or about you for that matter. It’s amazing how much tension this releases from the mating process. You will feel a great sense of relief as she naturally gives you the space you need. She is hardly the type to bother you with texting during the day; she undoubtedly has business of her own to take care of, or is relaxing and enjoying her own company. You will find so much to respect in this woman. The Virgo woman’s calm, cool collectedness is genuine. This is much to your relief because you have been fooled so often before. This is a lady worth working for.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Virgo Woman:
Use your innate persistence to put yourself in the path of the Aquarius man. You can see through him right away so you know that his busyness is a cover up for not having very many friends and no social life to speak of. His work is his whole world and knowing that, all you need do is stand outside and knock politely on the door. You’ll notice no one else is there, and this puts you at a tremendous advantage in attracting the Aquarius man.
Degree of Romance:
If Aquarius is going to be romantic with anyone, it will be with dear gentle Virgo. She has a way of bringing it out in him because she is so uniquely patient and undemanding. He is likely to see what a prize she is and knock himself out to the best of his abilities to make her his own.
Degree of Passion:
As with romance, the Virgo woman is likely to squeeze every ounce of passion out of the Aquarius man. This guy is not nearly as detached as he appears to be, but she knows that already. The fact that she assuages his loneliness makes him open up in a way that he never has before. This is a relationship where passion increases as the years go by and that is a very lovely thing. If you give fire a place to burn in, it can turn into a mighty conflagration.
Degree of Friendship:
A Virgo woman and Aquarius man can be very fine friends indeed, and they are likely to be each other’s only true friend, as well. Both signs are interested in quality, not quantity and they both have very high standards and ideals which few other people can meet.
Degree of Marriage:
This is one of the best marriage combinations there is. They can easily pull together as a team as their ability to communicate with each other is usually superb (they kind of speak each other’s language). They have quite similar values, and their lifestyle choices are probably similar, too. This relationship can be an all-consuming marriage where the couple binds together and shuts out the rest of the world in positive ways. They can become the closest of friends and confidants, contribute much to the community, be an asset wherever they find themselves in life, and create a delightful home conducive to raising healthy children. Virgo woman and Aquarius man can be pretty close to “a marriage made in heaven.”
Progression of Relationship:
This guy doesn’t play games. If an Aquarius man is interested in, he will make it known, and he will take the time to cue in to his interest’s desires for the kind of relationship she wants and the speed at which his beloved wants want to travel. He will take the time to find out about her so that he can comply with her unstated as well as stated wishes. They are both known to be good communicators and the relationship will give evidence to the importance of that skill in relationship-building. They are likely to clear the air in a fair and justifiable way so that the union stays intact.
Sex:
This is one relationship where sex is likely to come at the right time — after all the other chakras are aligned. Sex between these two becomes a precious form of communication, never emotionally exhausting or physically demanding. They may be relating in a way that we all will be one day, there is such fairness and consideration apparent in the negotiations. Both these signs are somewhat androgynous which adds to the intellectual pleasure of coupling — because there are four different ways to do it.
When It’s Over:
This one is likely to last a lifetime, but if it must end, they will probably be on the same page — as always. It is simply time to turn to a new chapter, and that, dear friend, means laying the past gently to rest. No need for hard feelings. It just is what it is.
Our Rating: 10/10
As a virgo woman who’s had two long-term relationships with aquarian men (I’m now married to an aquarius), I’d say this is right on — extremely accurate and (as you know) very different from what is typically written about virgo/aquarius matches. The only phrases that did not ring true for my aquarian men were “his work is his whole world” — in my men’s cases, it’s more that there is something (fill in the blank) — for one of mine it was music/theatre, for the other it’s family/golf — that is their passion, that is their whole world, though for my aquarians it hasn’t actually been their work. To the contrary, especially compared to me, they have a very healthy, distant relationship to work, enjoying it for what it is while they’re there, yet seeing it clearly for what it is — a way to make money, not an aspect of their “sense of self” or even a major part of their worlds. Also, “his busyness is a coverup for not having many friends and no social life to speak of” — both aquarians I’ve been involved with were the two most social people I have ever encountered, with very active social lives, yet once I got to know them I realized that they had an abundance of aquaintances with whom they spend a lot of time in their “passions” but few, if any, close friends… until I came along, of course. ; ) Thank you for this updated version of the virgo/aquarian couple!
YEs, it’s a better waya to put it … his “thing”, “cause”, “avocation”, etc. will always be greater! Thanks for the first hand confirmation on the rest of the information, Jo Anne.
This IS encouraging to say the least. I have begun a courtship with Virgo women and so far what I have read appears to be accurate about me as 49 year old aquarius man. I am not into sports but like to have projects to work on that I am good at.
Makes sense! I think you’re on the right track.
I am a Virgo and started dating an AQUARIUS man but even though I liked him so much and there was passion he was a bit cold for me and a workoholic. I decided to end that relationship. Now he wants to be friends.
Later on, I found my perfect match in a LEO Man. I am so much happier!! Everything I want in a man.
This is REALLY spot on and accurate. I have dated women from all 12 signs of zodiac. this relationship is the best for both aqua and virgo.I also add that Aqua-Virgo couple are a winner on anything they engage in because: aquarians have saturn on their back which give them practicality and earthy strength, coupled with virgo’s practicality. on the other hand both signs have a sharp mind, virgo having mercury gives them reall intelect combined with aqua uranus. it is so wrong that aquarian get along with gemini, because as opposed to virgos, geminis are not practical and jump from one thing to another. However, Aquarians are practical and deep, therefore view geminis as SHALLOW people, yet view virgos as proficient and competent individuals. These two signs also develop spiritually together. I do not still know why but virgoes are really alike aquarians even though aquarians have reincarnated in the previous 10 signs and virgos only have reincarnated in the previous 5 signs.
Excellent feedback but please check your astrology paaradigm. Some Aries have completed the wheel and have come back to serve whereas some Pisces are completing their first round. It is possible to meet some exalted Aries, Taurus and Gemini, etc. and some fallen Caps Aquamen and fish. Please try Linda Goodmans’s “Sun SIgns” for more info on this wheel matter.
NHS is National Health Service in UK. I work there as I am doing my doctorate in clinical psychology. So, when I see any patient either in a relationship department or other mental health problems, I quickly look at their date of birth and then their family background and their upbringing. This is why I have seen and talked to hundreds of people from different signs and analyse them deeply as they tell about all aspects of their life to their therapist.
You mention I should check my astrology paradigm, i am very busy with my work and cant read Goldman’s book, but am very curious to know about mine briefly if you could tell me please Im born on 28 Jan 1981.
How can you relate this astrology wheel that you said to other aspects of chart which are the main features to say how old a soul is? For instance, my south moon node
is in Aquarius and my moon is Scorpio. How can combine with my sun sign to say how old, evolved is my spirit?
I’ve trained with the BOTA (Builders of the Adytum) Mystery School, Madame Blavatsky, Order of the Golden Dawn and other hermetic groups. I can tell you are a very old soul, come back to help. You are “off the wheel” and now vounteering to reincarnate. It may not be that way at all with another AquaMan. One way to tell is how you use that Scorpio Moon. A younger soul would use it to get revenge, etc. You are going to be a fabulous astrologer knowing as much as you do so young but then you have mastered it in past lives.
Here’s your nodal description:
North Node in Leo/South Node in Aquarius
The traditional interpretation of Dragon’s Head in Leo is the ability to realize one’s desires. It also connotes good taste and a liking for the finer things in life. The Dragon’s Tail in Aquarius indicates someone who is easily lied to and has trouble discriminating. It may foretell infidelity on the part of the individual or his/her partner.
You incarnated in this lifetime to learn the value of creating a life for yourself. Once you set sail for a certain course, little can stop you. You are determined and are capable of great fortitude. Begin your journey and others may follow you, for you have strong leadership ability. It is not uncommon for someone with this nodal position to live a rags to riches story, such as those in the novels of Horatio Alger who shares this nodal placement. Lee Iacocca, Arthur Ashe, Ingrid Betancourt, and M.C. Hammer are all real life examples of natives with North Node in Leo who embody this energy.
In the past, you had many friends, but friendship will only weaken you in this lifetime. When you need them most, none will be found, for you are here to learn to be an individual and independent. Avoid any tendency to feel sorry for yourself when others “abandon” you. Some famous Leo North Noders who found themselves abandon or outcast by peers are Janis Joplin, Bobby Fischer, Malcolm X, and Lenny Bruce, all of whom went on to considerable accomplishment. Your path is life is to become goal-oriented, and the universe will support you in developing inner strength.
Deep down inside you need to see life moving along a certain path with an intended destination. When others don’t fall into lockstep with your march, you find them difficult to tolerate. You will no doubt spend much time alone. You may even be a hermit at one or more points in your life.
You will find happiness by dedicating yourself to higher principles. Your soul craves dignity, which service to humanity can bring. Once you put yourself to work helping the brotherhood of man, you will more easily resolve the familiar conflicts that made your early adulthood difficult. While you spent too much time achieving things for others in the past, you are here to create for yourself in this lifetime, yet you must still serve the world in some way.
Confidence is another key concept for you. In previous incarnations you dissipated your energies on social engagements and utopian causes, you should now dedicate yourself to using all your creative energy to achieving some great goal for the good of mankind. This means living in a time continuum of past, present, future. Resist the temptation to daydream of what could be. Dare to be bold and individualistic today and you will surely “win.” Shyness is not for you.
If you spend your time involved in other people’s messes, are egotistical or ruthless, spiteful of other’s successes, or tend to shock people without real cause, you have yet to balance your energy. While you are here to be an individual, you are not here to be a rebel or a dictator. You will bring out the best in yourself by meditating on what your values are, then determining how best to channel your considerable talents towards furthering them. Finally, you must achieve these within the context of society. While you are an individual, you are not here to turn your back on others. You may even believe strongly in equality and egalitarian principles in the abstract. You will find as you age, however, that Orwell was right: some are more equal than others.
Your birth right is to claim credit for your considerable achievements. Be flamboyant in accomplishing tasks. Cultivate your individual personality. Others will notice your magnetic presence. Take leadership positions when they are offered to you. Do not be afraid to organize the world around you, for you are here to create a stable life yourself and others, and to be recognized for your efforts.
Hi Nancy, I am very glad to come across a positive page about Aquarius and Virgos together.. And it’s very right on 🙂
Hope to hear more ab out it or find some positive websites on it
Hey GIRL, thanks for stopping by the site. Aquarius and Virgo is a wonderful combination. Enjoy!
Many thanks dear Nancy, You are completely right about me being a hermit at some point of my life, however, thats what my soul craves (being a hermit permanetly) and therefore i find it difficult to help others as most people fall into lockstep with my march and consequently i cannot tolerate them. This is becoming more as i age and i am worried about this.
I have many accidents and health issuses in my chart (donot know why i have chosen that much health-related problems if i am an old soul out of the wheel ??)
Anyhow Nancy, Im going to have a major heart surgery sometimes around March or April, however I need your opinion about the time of my surgery ; Is Pisces a good period for a heart surgery OR Aries? I know Leo is not a good period as it governs the heart. Also my surgeon is a Pisces.
Hey, i’m glad you wrote this, i am a virgo and i am fairly typical of my sign, although alot more fun ( I like to think!!) and i have been drawn to aquarians all my life. I have 2 best friends who are both aquarians and i have been out with a fair few too. Each and everyone of them it has been an instant attraction, as soon as i started talking to them. They are the only people whoever “got me” straight away. I think personally this is a great combination, a meeting of the minds like no other, but what i will say is be careful of stubborness, i think this is the downfall of both virgo and aquarius.
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Yes, absolutely! It’s one of the magic combinations.
Hi Nancy,
I like astrology a lot and i always interested to know more about it. I really would like to know about my soul like how old is it and other thing ? my Birthday is 24/08/1982. my moon is Scorpio , my Ascendant is Virgo and South node is Capricorn.
Thank you.
Dear Nancy, This is encouraging to say the least. I have begun a courtship with Virgo women and so far what I have read appears to be accurate about me as 31 year old aquarius man.I believe this two signs are the most compatible star signs.
i think AQUA man are the most jealous man in the world.they are so selfish and strange people. im not agree with what you say. i met few Aqua man and all of them were the same.!!!! very controlling. they make me feel sick,Seriously.
Im not agree with what you say. I think they are most jealous man in the world. very selfish,controlling and strange people. I met few Aqua men and they all werer the same. they really make me feel sick,seriously.
I just wanna say thank you bc it seems like everything I read they always say this love match is not gonna happen or won’t work, just very negative. I’m a virgo female and Ive been attracted to aquarius’ all my life…this just gives me a little more hope in making the relationship work. I kno that horoscopes arent everything but its nice when they can give you good motivation for a relationship.
Hi Nancy,
Im a 53 year old ,aqua man..I was a maths lecturer for 20 years but retired my self 2 years ago after i lost my wife. she was virgo and was the most lovable,faithful,kindest and spiritual person that i ever met. since she died my life completely changed and I feel like i lost half of my brain and heart.any way, i have a question for my son,he is 28 year old,Aqua and he met a Cancer girl recently. she seems nice and quite girl but Id like to ask you what do you think about them?are they compatible for each other?
look forward to hearing from you
Hellon Nancy,
Im 53 year old aqua men.was a maths lecture for 20 years.retired my self 2 years ago after i lost my wife. she was a Virgo and was the most lovable,faithful, spiritual and kindest person that i ever met.since she died my life completely changed.is like i lost half of my sprit and heart.
any way, i have a 27 aqua son and he met a cancer girl few months ago.she seems nice and a bit quite.I’d like to ask you what do you think about this two signs? and are they compatible for each other?
many thanks
Bob
this is so true about this two sign; I had a short relationship with a Gemini girl years ago.In the beginning, it was a bit fun. but after 2 months I realized she has not got a strong mind, very poor personality. We’re both super jealous types–because we both had so many friends, it seemed like we never had time for each other. my lovely wife now is a Virgo and I can say surly she is definitely was the one foe me as a aqua men.she is my other half. we’ve been married 5 years and we have a happy&successful life tegether.perfect communication, great friendship and our sex life is just wonderful..never emotionally exhausting.
thanks for this updated version of the virgo/aquarian couple!
Wow! This was right on! Im a virgo woman and I am currently in a relationship with an aquarius man. Things between us couldn’t be better! Im glad to have found this. All other compatibilty charts say otherwise when it comes to virgos and aquarius’s.
Yes, this is a great combinatiton. Tanks for stopping by the site and please tell a f riend.
I just commented to my new friend that an old Virgo-Aquarian relationship I was in was one where we could make the rest of the world disappear for a time. I have never experienced that with any other sign and I think you made that connection in your analysis. I am an Aquarian male and my new friend is a Virgo woman…:-)
Wow finally some good things about this combination… Everywhere I go here all the negative and how it won’t work but this really gives me hope… I am interested in this Virgo girl and she is super shy and seems like shes playing hard to get but I’m really trying to be as patient as possible. I’m planning on getting her a bouquet of roses for V-day:)
@Grant
So t rue!
@Aquarius man
It’s true …… it’s ok … just enjoy! Tell me how VDay goes.
Whoa I just looked up my Moon sign and its Virgo the same as her sun sign so is that good?
That’s excellent.
Virgo’s don’t date a leo
LOL but you don’t say why!!!!
@Aquarius Man
Yes, when the Sun of one is the Moon of the other, it is very beneficial. Also check out my section on this website about MON SIGNS.
I am in love with a man who is capricorn-acquarius cusp. i am capricorn-sagittarius cusp. can you tell me about this match??
thanks so much
hi nancy, i’m an aquarian guy with a loving virgo girlfriend.. its indeed encouraging to know how many couples are of the signs of aquarius and virgos around here.. its indeed one of the best couple.. and i love my girlfriend to bits.. thanks for sharing these valuable information to the world 😀
I’m a Sun Virgo, Moon Aries and Ascendant Aquarius.
He’s a Sun Aquarius, Moon Gemini and Ascendant Capricorn.
I had a crush on him for months but I pretended and hid it. We were really open with each other and would tell our problems/secrets, we’re like best friends. About two weeks ago, he told me that he loves me and that he was hiding it. I was surprised and I told him I was doing the same too. It’s been less than 2 weeks but he’s talking about future, marriage, kids, family and everything.
I was just dreaming about it before and he says he was doing that too. It’s all happening really fast and to be honest, I am so happy.
But, I’m still wondering if this could really work or if it’s just all “talk”. I know his birthday, time. Is there some way I can figure it out?
Hi, I’m an aquarian and i’ve been with a virgo girl for 5+ years now. we are somewhat the best of friends. this is so true. aquarians and virgoans are a great pair.
for the long term we’ve been together, we’ve developed great partnership. i’ve learnt a lot from her (about anything in life) and same with her. most of the time we have different point of views but it doesnt grow us apart. communication makes us closer and closer.
yep, virgo’s can be very critical and mean with words. they dont use emotions in an argument. in my experience, my virgo doesnt mean what she said most of the time (but most of the things she said is true), she doesnt want to hurt me but she wants me to feel in her shoes. if we have an argument. 😉
i so love my virgo! 🙂
Hey there,
I am a virgo woman who has been attracted to many aqua men so far… I do believe that all what is written up there is SO TRUE… virgo/ aqua combination is awesome… and i always felt bad about what is written in astro book n sites about this combination… i have always felt the spark between me and the aqua man… and things didn’t work for reasons that have nothing to do with us… and after breaking up we became close friends…
and now i have met an aqua man too… he is just sooooooooooo into me… i really hope things work this time coz i really like him…
So thank u for stating that these two signs are positively into each other.
Yes, absolutely the greatest~Starfish! Go for it!
It is such a pleasure to read this positive and so on point post. I am a Virgo woman who is extremly intigued and infatuated with and Aqua male. Our chemistry is off the charts and we a very healthy spiritual connection. The only disappointment I find is our uncontrollable distance from each other. We are both in different states. sometimes I wonder if I’m wasting my time due to the whole distance thing but then at other times I feel content & give him his space while I enjoy mine. I don’t know if things will ever be more and although I do yearn for more at times I am happy to have met such a wonderful, unique, and intriguing gentelman.
I’m so happy for you Follow your heart!
this is so true and correct.i’m vigor and my fiance is aquarius.he’s the best thing that has ever happened to me.we love and understand each other.i love this
I’m Virgo and Waw, Finally I found hope I’m Crazy about an Aquarius Men. We dated exactly one year a ago an abruptly he didn’t wanted to be with me after 5 dates. And now is around again. I love him I have waited for this moment but I’m so scared of being hurt again.
I’m Virgo and Waw, Finally I found hope I’m Crazy about an Aquarius Men. We dated exactly one year a ago an abruptly he didn’t wanted to be with me after 5 dates. And now is around again. I love him I have waited for this moment but I’m so scared of being hurt again.
What should I do?
Thank very much nancy, reading this gave me a lot of confidence, am an acquire n attracted to a Virgo and want to build long term relationship.
As a Virgo woman with an Aquarian man for the past 13 years, I found this article truly refreshing, since many others I’ve read paint a grim picture. I especially find that we balance each other in several areas… such as I keep him grounded yet he keeps me from taking things too seriously. We also definitely have that whole “marriage made in Heaven” thing down pat, and we have only grown closer as the years have passed. And I totally believe he decided I was the one when he realized that I could “see through his busyness.” We also have pretty well “shut out the rest of the world” in good ways, as your article states, since we have turned out to be best friends who rarely spend more than 10 hours apart and feel like the other is really all either of us needs to be happy and complete. Thanks for the encouragement!
Virgo woman and Aquarian man – compatible – this is a joke yeah I am Virgo and have been married to an aquarian for 11 years. In no way do we see eye to eye. If you like conflict then yes marry an Aquarian but they DO NOT get on with Virgos and it is not a match made in heaven. We have a child who is a VIrgo. Guess what the Aquarian irritates the Virgochild no end, Virgos are very patient people but Aquarians drives them to despair, there is no communication whatsoever.
I have been married in the past to a Taurus and a Libran both of these were fine, I have been on dates with Gemini and Virgo – absolutely fine, but Aquarian forget it.
i have been married to my aquarius man for 15yrs and might i say that this depiction of the relationship is bang on!! my marriage is very sound and we are best fiends, respect each other and make great parents. i am independent and he gives me that, but when i need him, he’s right there to catch me and is 110% devoted to me and our family. you are right about a lot of aquaintances, but very few if no close friends. Our daughter is a virgo also and she and daddy get along harmoniously!!! Daddy and daughter are like the cat’s meow. Our son is a cancer and as they do butt heads sometimes, my cancer son holds the upmost respect for dad and is totally dedicated to me (mom) . We are pretty darn lucky and i feel like we can accomplish great things and our children are extremely smart to boot!! we totally match our individual personal traits as well; myself, hubby, and kids. THANKS FOR THE REASSURANCE
how does a virgo woman “stand outside and knock politely on the door” for an aquarian man to notice her?
@veronica By showing your intelligence as soon as there is an opportunity. In other words, be yourself!
ok…I have been trying to create opportunities out there while acting myself and he does respond and it been great. I want to really get to know him as a friend. I think he’s a nice guy and I admire all the hard work he does. I think that’s why he intrigues me. I want to know him more. It’s just now harder to create opportunities to meet. I think he’s worth the time I’m putting to get to know him but I need to know he’s going to meet me half way. Does he want to get to know me? It is rare that I go to someone I’m just starting a friendship and be honest about how I feel about it but I want to approach him about my wishes on wanting to get to know him and become good friends. Is this wrong? Something inside of me is telling me to do so because I think the friendship we could have will be worth the effort. I can be patient. I’m not asking for anything but friendship. I’m prepared for him to say no, not interested in developing a friendship. I’ll at least know where we are going? I’ve done this only one other time in my life…with a Virgo man…
I am a virgo and I lost contact w/ my aquarian high school sweetheart, now that we are reunited it is a match made in heaven. I have a man who loves and respects me and doesn’t play games and far as being detached – that’s a myth. We bring out the freak in each other.
I’m a virgo 22 and the guy I like is an aquarius 20. We met online and clicked right off the bat. We been online and phone buddies for the last 2 years and had just recently met in person this last saturday. We share an undeniable attraction. The only thing I don’t really know where we stand with each other. How can I tell which way he is interested and or how I can pick his mind apart? Thank you! =)
Iam a virgo woman who has been with this virgo man for years. Our sex life is out of this world and before we got together we were great friends in college. He chased me for a year and I loved every minute of it. That is my best friend… they say aquarius and virgos are not compatible but I know first hand its not true!
U an a single mom and have not dated in over 10 years. I started dating again about 4 years ago. I dated almost every sign. I am currently in a relationship with an aquarius and I have found my other half. I have never been so comfortable, relaxed and serene with anyone. Sex is phenominal. I found my soul mate.
i am a virgo woman who likes a aquarius man and he likes me too but the only thing is that iam in a relationship with an scoripo man and that is a hrd combination cause iam having problems with my scoripo man but i only know a little bit about this aquarius man but i like his vibe and he likes mine i need advice if any body can help contact me at [email protected] or just leave a comment
I have been dating a aqua man for alomst a year now. I must say, he was a big challenge but it was all worth it. I am so in love with this fella as he is me. As time progresses, everything in our relationship gets better. I truley appreciate all that he is and love everything about him. I find him very intriguing and have never met anyone like him. We havent been together for a long time but already we have accomplished great things together. He is my love, my best friend…..My prayers have been answered…
I have met my Match 🙂
Thanks for providing such accurate information about virgo woman and aqua man.
Spot on
nancy i have a question for you iam dating a scoripo man but i like this aquarius man i am a virgo woman so how does this work waht can i do he likes me as well but they are both tempermental i need your help please
Hi Nancy, I’ve commented here before but thought I might send an update: my Virgo Lady and I got married last month! All is so good too. This relationship gets better as it ages as we both gain understanding into each other and ourselves. New realms are being reached together as neither one of us has been to before with others. I wanted to add that my Lady has been in relationships with other Aquarians in the past but that held no depth. Can you comment on the “evolved Aquarius” and “evolved Virgo” as opposed to the unevolved equivalents? I have known what I think of as “unevolved Virgo’s” who exhibit many of the negatives of the sign and I know many Aq’s who exhibit few of the good qualities of the sign. I would suggest that your analysis of the Aq-Virgo match is based on the evolved versions of these two signs, as the match is not so good with the “young ones”. Do you agree or have I got it wrong in your opinion? Perhaps this can explain the prevailing attitude that these two dont typically match…
So im dating an Aquarius man, I really dont know where we stand, My story is different from all you ladies, Me and him bump heads ALOT! I dunno if its insecurity, trust issue? maybe i feel this way cause when we first started dating i caught him texing other girls.. He swears he loves me and only me but how can i believe him after what hes done to me.. I NEED ADVICE PLEASE.
funny story about my opinion on all this…i always read that aquarius and virgo’s weren’t made for one another. My X was an aquarius and it was constant fighting and everythin ended up really bad. My new and current bf is also an aquarius but hes the complete opposite of my X and this entire article seems to express it perfectly! i couldn’t be happier! as for my fellow friend Bridget…that was my X leave it! my X cried to me how much he loved me and he wouldn’t do anythin to hurt me…all LIES
I met my Aqua guy 3 months ago, instant click. i think we are yes the evolved sort and know how to appreciate eachother. I am a fussy virgo but he can bring out the best in me. He’s already asked me to marry him and I am even considering it, but i also think it is a case of opposites attract. Good luck all you out there and ask any questions as i like to help.
I too am in a relationship with an aquarious man and it is a match made perfectly! We talk about everything! The sex is mindboggling! He shares with me and protects me, I have never felt so. So so complete!
Dear Nancy,
Need your help. I am an Aquarius man. Few days ago i met a Virgo girl. She has already said yes to my marriage proposal and even her parents are ok. it was love at first sight and have never experienced anything like this. am going to marry her. pls advise if every thing will be fine for us. My date of birth is 17 February 1986 and hers is 03 September 1985.
Thank you for all the support! take care.
LOL Avinaash
Hi,
i m virgo of 26 aug 1982,i got married 1 year before with aquarus man of 25 jan 1982.I really feel it ideal relationship.We both loved each other very much n feel pleasure with one another.But due to bad intentions of my father in law towards me,now i want divorce.we have a little child.We both r too sad but no other way.what u will say
This gave me so much hope , I’m a virgo TEEN with an aquarius boyfriend, it feels like our relationship couldn’t be any more challenging , but we grow as the years go by, I don’t want to turn a new page either , we both put a lot of work and this , we love each other , I’m wise enough to realise when a man is good enough to be my husband in the future , I love him =)
(: Its true.
I am a August Virgo Woman, and my Boyfriend is an Aqua man. We’ve been dating for about a year and a half & we swear it was love at first sight. Its like some kinda instant connection that happens. I’ve never felt it before. We both think outside of the box, have the weirdest humor, and like our space. Basically if you can both respect each other when they need their space (both signs relitevely do their own thing from time to time) it’ll work out. Both of us are thinkers (he more dreamy, I more practical) so when we take our ‘me’ time it works out and when we come back after a day its FIRE all over again. i love it. I believe he’s my other half, we just melt together. When we love, we love. When were apart, were apart. It just works. At first, we had a bumpy start because we had to learn that were similar and cant be treated like past relationships and to just respect. But once we realized it.. everything else seemed soo much more effortless. He’s my best friend.. & whats better than being able to love your best friend?!
I’m a Virgo woman and like many of you I’ve read that virgo and aquarius aren’t a great match. However, a friend that I’ve know for years (who happens to be an aquarius) just became the best thing that’s ever happened to me. It was love at first sight and I could never see myself without him. So, kudos to this.
This is so true 🙂 i first met my Aquarius Man in 2008 & it was just an instant connection . we had lost contact with each other for awhile but always kept coming back . but now we been goin out for a year & i’m at my happiest 🙂
This is so true i first met my Aquarius Man in 2008 & it was just an instant connection . we had lost contact with each other for awhile but always kept coming back . but now we been goin out for a year & i’m at my happiest 🙂
I am a Virgo and my man is an Aquarius. Everything this article said is word for word the relationship we have. He completes me in every way possible, he is dedicated and I have never felt so loved by anyone else as my Aquarius. The sex is phenomenal, we both can’t get enough of it or each other for that fact. We have spend every day together since we have been together and I still feel like there is not enough time in the day that I can be with him. He is amazing, he’s my beat friend and is always there for me. Our love and friendship grows stronger every day.I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with him!
Truly this is a match made in heaven and love at first sight for sure, he is my soul mate… I virgo, He Aquarius = the sparks flying. However we do have plenty of life challenges, but we deal with them headon and it has made our union stronger forshure. I love this man till death do us part. in which we will tie the knot on feb 4t his birthday after 1 year of knowing one another thank you !!!
Wow, this is what I needed to hear. I am an Aqua man and I am held over heels for a Virgo woman. She hasn’t come around yet, completely…She at times seems like she likes me and at other times is resistant, inhibited, why is that? I love this woman so much and would do anything for her.
Oh my. Thanks for all the comments. I really feel relived. I’m a virgo woman and began dating an aqua man for I guess 7 months. I didn’t see it coming. We knew each other through mutual interests but one day we just kind of gelled and became intrigued and with no fuss at all, we were just friends and it just keeps growing that it’s mind boggling. Comfortable like an house robe but crazy exciting and scary all at the same time. I have no idea how this will progress but I refuse to let go because there something about this combo that’s magic. Who knew….
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@SeanLeo. Virgo women play hard to get, even when they are taken. It’s a shy thing. They get too excited to be around you they feel they need to calm down. When they are the most detached, that’s when they are truly feeling you. Virgo woman.
@Jzzybme So true. I am a virgo and I act the same way. It is def a shy thing. I am usually the shyest around guys I really like. My boyfriend use to ask me all of the time why I never run and hug him when he arrives at my house. It always takes me about an hour to warm up to him. It’s like he is new or something. It is def a shy thing.
@Seanleo she likes you. We love hard so sometimes our thoughts take over and we feel “needy” or too “sensitive. So our brain tells us to calm down and think rationally. This usually results in no phone calls, visits, etc. It comes in cycles but if you just keep showing her that you are here to stay..she will stop with the internal emotional battle and give in to you. It is just her way of protecting herself. As Virgos, we feel like no one can love us as much as we love ourselves. You are not up against other men… you are up against her! We take very good care of ourselves. Those standards are sometimes seen as unrealistic. But those are our standards…and we are willing to be single for as long as it takes to find someone to match our love for ourselves or better. The best thing you can do is keep loving her. You will see a change I promise. 🙂
Thanks for the feedback. I hope what you guys are saying is true. I want to believe it and it does confirm what I feel in my heart. I just want her to know that as an aquarius male and who I am as a person I truly want to be everything she wants & needs. I want to give her a better life and all the love she can needs. My love for this woman is so strong, there isn’t any other woman that compares to her. Our situation is tough because she has kids and is older than me but this doesn’t affect the way I feel, not at all. I understand what you are saying about her protecting herself, I get it. But, I’ve been hurt too, by a younger virgo…crushed. That’s why I don’t open up to this new woman in my life about my feelings, I’m afraid she’ll close up and close me off like it happened before. She knows that I have a “thing” for her but she doesn’t know that I am in love with her. You Virgos are tough women to fall for but I know it can and will be well worth it.
aqua men are so complex in a lovely way! *smiles*
I had read that Aquarius and Virgo was not the best combination, so I was concerned when I met my Aquarius man almost a year ago but my instincts told me I had met my soul mate and I’ve never been happier. The description of this relationship is right on.
How did you determine that this match works so perfectly when most say it is not very favorable?
I meet a Aquarius man last summer out of the blue, I was in a bar and he kept looking I wasn’t instantly attrated at first but we got talking and meet up on a couple of occassions as friends, but then on our third meeting something just clicked i carn’t explain it, just so at ease with him like no-one before, i’m 35 and he is 40 so i guess we are evolved, he lives in another country..unfortunately but travels extensively it’s the nature of his job a musician, we keep in touch and we will be meeting up very soon again i don’t know if this can go anywhere but after reading all the comments regarding virgo and aquarius pairing i think I will be missing out on a amazing thing if i don’t see how things go. I have read other sites about this pairing all negative but my intuition tells me different, I have never dated an aquariaus before but think it could be beautiful thing. Good luck to all you people out there that have truely found the one, it is true about virgos we do look for what is real and wont settle for anything less, no bullshit keep it real.
I meet a Aquarius man last summer out of the blue, I was in a bar and he kept looking I wasn’t instantly attrated at first but we got talking and meet up on a couple of occassions as friends, but then on our third meeting something just clicked i carn’t explain it, just so at ease with him like no-one before, i’m 35 and he is 40 so i guess we are evolved, he lives in another country..unfortunately but travels extensively it’s the nature of his job a musician, we keep in touch and we will be meeting up very soon again i don’t know if this can go anywhere but after reading all the comments regarding virgo and aquarius pairing i think I will be missing out on a amazing thing if i don’t see how things go. I have read other sites about this pairing all negative but my intuition tells me different, I have never dated an aquariaus before but think it could be beautiful thing. Good luck to all you people out there that have truly found the one, it is true about virgos we do look for what is real and wont settle for anything less, no bullshit keep it real.
Is it true, that you need to be practically perfect to win over the virgo woman?
wow this is so dead on. i’m a virgo and dated an aquarius for two and a half years. we broke up almost two years ago but we are still very close friends and have a lot of sexual/flirty tension. we have both been in serious relationships since our break up, but both admit we have never had the amazing connection with those people as we did with each other. we brought out the best in each other, along with the worst. he was very possessive and jealous and he would get so frustrated with my aloof attitude. when we fought i always kept my cool like a true virgo and that drove him crazy because he so badly wanted a reaction out of me. the relationship we have still confuses me to this day. i can’t get enough of him but he still dives me nuts at the same time and i know he feels the same way about me. we know each other through and through and still have an immense love and respect for each other. who knows, the way we keep finding our way back to each other after two years, we’ll probably end up married.
Wow I’m a virgo and have an aqua boyfriend..hmm our relationship is great, but we have no sexual connection:(.
I’m a Virgo women dated an aqua male….the sexual connection was great….the sex was the best I ever had….but when I broke it off he was a sycophantic omg.
So, I’ve been coming back this forum periodically, reading posts about the Aqua Virgo relationship and posting about my own woman I am interested in. I am an Aquarius male and am in love with with an older Virgo woman. I can only imagine how amazing it would be to actually be in a relationship and spend all my time with this gentle, beautiful woman.
I haven’t gone into details but I actually met this woman through a program I am in and she could lose her job if we dated or were intimate. On the one hand, she has kids so putting her job in jeopardy would be uncool on my end. On the other hand, my heart is with her. She has walls up with me but I somewhat think that it to protect her job. I know she truly cares about me but we’re in this situation where there is a lot of gray area. My heart wants nothing more in life than to be her knight in shining armor but it’s not our time, I guess. Loving her, even just inside of me, felt so right and natural I almost don’t even want to give up this attachment, these feelings. But unfortunately our scenario isn’t pro-us. I know in my heart there is a deep connection there almost like we were together in a past life.
I’m at the point now where I have to start protecting myself from getting hurt and sadly enough, as much as I love her, let her go.
I’m a Virgo young lady and I’m starting to fall for an Aquarius guy. I’m 24, he’s 25 and so mature for his age. We have been friends for about a year now, and in that time we didn’t talk that frequently. It wasn’t until earlier this year that we started to talk more and more, and I began liking him more and more. He’s the sweetest, kindest, sexiest guy I’ve ever known, but I never really know what’s going on in his head. We talk/text for hours about everything and nothing at all. The other night we were texting each other and he actually flirted with me and I flirted back, but felt like maybe I was too forward, so I retreated. He assured me that it wasn’t a big deal, but I just hope I didn’t scare him off with my shameless flirting. We’ve always just been friends with one another, and even though I do like him and would like to see where things could go, I don’t want to be too aggressive with him and push him away. Its just impossible to know if he likes me the way I like him.
This is my parent’s combination. But it is not exactly what you would call “a match made in heaven.” Mom is always concentrated on the smaller picture & isn’t very open-minded as much as dad- she gets very jealous, too.. He, on the other hand, is very supportive of her, is an optimist, & loves to look at the bigger picture in life.. it’s like a game to him- mentally (a true aquarian lol)! Their personalities sort of clash a lot this way, which drive each other crazy! However, despite this, they do somehow manage to get along, nonetheless.. just minus the romance factor. From what I’ve observed from my parents, this isn’t really the best match at all. But then again, this is only one couple. From what I’ve read from everyone else’s comments, this is an excellent match.. just not for my parents… lol
I am a virgo f w/ an aqua m/ we’ve been together for 5 years (living together for 1) I’ve never gotten along better w/ anyone in my life. we hardly ever disagree. only complaint: he’s not the most passionate guy, not very romantic. this can sometimes make me feel a little bored…BUT I always feel at peace and safe when we are together, like if i have a stressful day and see him i know everything will be okay 🙂
I am a virgo woman born 8-30-70 and I am in love with an aquarius man born 1-25-71.We have been doing this thing with each other since 10-08 going on three years now and I cant imagine my life without him.I know he is my best friend and I am his and with lots of love and patience well we are just fine. I am truly happy and him being in my life has a lot to do with it.I wouldn’t change one thing about him and the way he is honestly even if I could.I love his quirky ways and by us respecting our differences we really work and remain just fine in spite of life’s challenges and trials and tribulations.I have to keep things new for him but yet at the same time keep things the same and he is happy and he has to keep things the same for me but at the same time new and I am happy .Sounds crazy but that’s just us and it works.I think its the challenge of doing just that,that keeps us coming back and staying in each other lives. Good luck to whoever else is in this virgo-aquarius thing because to me that reading above is on the money and I have never read and astrological compatibility report so accurate and true it sounds like they know us.LOLl! anyway thanks for writing it.I needed to read that today!
This is crazy, never done anything like this but here goes, I am a aqua guy, 24, head over heels over a 25 yr old Virgo girl. I just want to know how special she is and would love to get to know her, I have no idea how to proceed though, don wanna act too cocky at the same time I don’t know how to impress her. I want to tell her how I feel but I am afraid it might come off as creepy as just knows me but not well enough.
How do you get to know an Virgo girl better? What would I have to do…I am stuck at small talk 🙁
Hopefully, this is true! Cause on other sites I read this match is very bad. There is only mental connection. The guy i am dating and love is an aquarius! He is a definte aquarian, every aquarius trait matches him so well! Though he wants sex pretty fast! Hopefully our relationship is long-lasting and beautiful!
This is absolutely True.No matter what other sites says,every word written here is true..i am an aquarian and my love is a virgo! We have a long term relationship and our love life is the most adventurous and beautiful thing there is!
Yeah , I agree whatever stated is absolute true
@headoverheels….Just be naturally confident. Do what comes naturally to have fun and get closer. the way you know. just watch if she is telling or looking something otherwise. i am a dance teacher and i dance with each student. i do leading and show how great dance is when you do it right. of course they have to learn themself and have own style in future. good luck friend don’t worry you sound like very good person very concerned.
I am a Virgo woman dating a younger Aquarius man and I am glad to hear what has been written here. I was ready to throw in the towel. I am a very Virgo female and can be quite anxious and worry about why he has not called me instead of just giving him his space. He has just told me he wants to slow things down a bit and that has made me so scared because I took that as him wanting to end the relationship. I want to be able to handle his request without going psycho. Any advice?
I’m a virgo who has been with my aqua guy for a year. This has been a fufilling experience for me. My aquaman tells me he likes that I’m smart, and our sex life is incredible!!! I don’t like when he pulls aways from me though. And he can be super critical or say harsh things..I guess as a virgo I can too though. We take it 1 day at a time. He doesn’t like it much when I pull away from him either. We just seem to work very well. So I’m curious.. would you agree that mental stimulation and great sex are two of the predominate things we need to be happy?
By we I mean virgos and aqua’s.
Nancy, I’ve read all your articles and the description for ‘Degree of Passion’ in this particular one carries the best line anyone would want to hear about them. Very nicely worded.
This is what am talking about:
“This is a relationship where passion increases as the years go by and that is a very lovely thing. If you give fire a place to burn in, it can turn into a mighty conflagration.”
The couples who experience this in their ONE lifetime are truly blessed because usually (and unfortunately) its the other way round for most. And me NOT commenting upon any particular zodiac signs here.
Great work. Keep it up Nancy.
i think a gemini wriote this and i hope this is true because i just got into a relationship witha virgo and i hope its worth it i dont understand why this isnt a good match on the chart
I hope this is true im a virgo dating a aqua I heard this pair isn’t a gud one sometimes me and my boyfriend fight but the relationship is a strong one we get along so well were like friends and lovers and it is true sex is great with a aqua man lol
I’m a virgo woman jus recently started dating an aquarius man and was raised by a father huz an aquarius also.. Even before I knew his star sign etc I saw many similarities between them!this article best describes my boyfriend I don’t know how to feel seeing that he’s planned our lives so much its like I’m jus a missing puzzle, nonetheless I fear because we the total opposite he’s quite shy conserved and I’m very bubbly and outgoing ands very highly sexualy!! But hopefully we have long lasting relationships.. I just wish the intermedation could end
#scared confused virgo woman
A wonderful job. Super helpful infoamrtion.
I am a Virgo woman dated an Aquarius man for 9-10 years. It was love at first sight(we were both each others first love) and everything was great. We did have minor arguments here and there but we were like best friends, soul mates and everything to each other. I don’t know what happened in my relationship he never broke up the relationship just ended. Last few years especially we had bonded more than ever talked day and night. I think it could be cultural reasons as well we are both Indian. I am born and raised in the US and he imigrated about 10 years ago, we fell in love with each other 2 days after he imigrated to the US. His family was not approving of the relationship they wanted him to have an arranged marriage(basically marry girl they choose). He is now with the girl his parents want him married to but she is still in India. He tells me he does love me and I don’t understand he had no choice. Last time he came to visit me his heart was beating so fast and he couldn’t look me in the eye and he looked depressed too but the words that came out of his mouth were very harsh. He had never disrespected me before so it was a big shock to me. He tells me he will be there for me in every step of life except marriage. I couldn’t control my emotions and spent 2-3 months crying to him it seems to have pushed him away because he doesn’t like to see me cry. When I show emotion he isn’t sensitive and say’s hurtful things. He lied so much towards the end of the relationship and I haven’t had him budge. I truly feel he loves me but am not sure how to get him to communicate with me again. I love him with all my heart and still wait for him everyday I am not sure what happened any advice from anyone will be appreciated. I have so many questions such as will he come back? How can he all of a sudden be o.k. not talking to me? Does he miss me? Also, I still believe he loves me is this good or bad after all the harsh things he said to me? I just hope my relationship get’s saved somehow because we truly are soul mate’s.
Dear Nancy, once again a generalization of people and their relationships.. Seriously people are you aware there are over 6 billion human beings on the planet and obviously some people will fall into this generalization of two people and their signs.. Wake up. All kind of signs have these types of relationships, not just Aquarius Men and Virgo woman. I’m an Aquarius man and dated a Virgo woman and some parts you mention are accurate, Nancy, but that is expected in any relationship. But in many things you are very wrong.. Again relationships are not about “SIGNS AND HOROSCOPES” People, it is how we CHOOSE to act and live with each other and how we treat each other no matter what sign we are.. In the end it is always up to us how to act in any relationship. So if any of you have true love for someone and that someone loves you – Both of you will be great through the good and bad in life… No sign or horoscope will decide that for you. Ps.. My Virgo woman and I do have love for each other and have a great bond and friendship… but it was not easy between us – we had our challenges as do many people. That is life and what we make of it.. Not astrology. And mind you I believe in astrology and the common unique connections it has with every human being. But this is just silly folks. Sorry for the bold, long comment. Nancy, you can do better than this. Cheers to all!
I’m finally writing, motivated by JP’s comment, i somehow got pulled to it, nothing to do with virgo women, though i do believe virgos to be some of the most solid genuine people who will always be there for you before themselves, but maybe im saying that becuase my mom is a virgo, im aquarius man. I was with ine virgo girl and it was great but not my ideal because our friendship changed after we hooked up.
ANYWAY, i must elaborate on JPs comment. Im 26 years old and have studied astrology since before i knew it existed. So here it is in simple terms. We are born with personality gifts handed down from the sex of the planets at the time o our birth. When we are young we use these characteristics by intuition, all owing us to move and grow through life. As we get older we start gaining control over our lifes and stop riding on the natural forces of nature (i.e. Astrology) when we gain control of our lives, astrology becomes less of an influence and more of a tool and we can do what we want rather than what the stars and planets want. So long story short, this is a great relationship ma ual for teens but adults should be able to control their own lives without hoping the planets will do it cor them
Ps NANCY you are the finest astrologist since Linda Goodman. You are very appreciated and i would love to love you 😉 what’s your sign? (dont worry im not actually hitting on you, i just want you to know that i probably would if i met you) im aqaurius with gemin! moon, aquraius rising, and venus in pisces. Whos my soulmate nancy???? 😀
just when i thought me virgo and my aquarius man was not getting along and seemed so distant i felt really emotional…and we clicked on this website and read this it opened up my eyes to see how powerful our relationship really is!!!!Sitting here feeling really blessed thank you Most High!!
@ Jp… Im gonna have to disagree with ya here.. to an extent this stuff is so true, at least in my life… For the life of my I cannot figure out cancers, and Scorpios, they’re just so reserved and we don’t get along well. Have a lot of tarus guy friends but cant stand tarus girls. Im an aquarious. Some of my best friends are Geminis, Aries, Libras and im just recently starting to like this Virgo girl and I’ve only known her a few days.
I hope this is true because I am Aquarius and for some reason I’ve been attracting virgos lately and every other writing about our companionship has been negative….. The cool thing is, is that these girls approached me and made the first move haha
Other websites are very negative when it comes to these two signs. I am a Virgo woman and my partner is an Aquarius male. The love is definitely there. Even after 3 years of not seeing each other and losing contact we reunited a year ago and it was like we were never apart. We connect on a spiritual level which is the most important part for the both of us so everything else becomes easy. Please don’t read too much into those other websites because Virgos and Aquariuses tend to be in each others lives forever.
im a virgo woman and dating a aqua man.my bf is the best.its soo true.at 1st wen i read abt it in on other sites i was scard 2 loose him but nw i knw iwe will make it work.he is my 1st love and it was love at 1st site.i just no that no matter what happens i just love him with all my heart and life
I’m proud to say that for anybody with any doubt for this relationship, I must say is terribly wrong! I mean, there are still going to be down-fall relationships with the virgo woman and aquarius man, but I am a virgo woman with a aquarius man (for 5 years) sampling the perfect relationship. The first day we’ve met, he’s only shown his desire for me and I immediately thought of him like a brother. We’ve connected in a way we never did with anybody else. He saw things in me that nobody else did and approached with admiration. He is no longer the person I’ve met 7 years ago because of ME. And praise the Lord that he met me! It totally saved the both of us since at the time we both had technically fallen rock bottom, found eachother there and teamed up to climb out of the hole to take on the world together. Seriously! We cheat by being best friends while being lovers.
i’m a virgo woman whose soulmate is an aquarius man since i met him 20 years ago when we were young and innocent, he had to marry someone else but now after 10 years we found each other again and when we speak or see each other its like the time never passed- i am at peace with him, it feels like a piece that was missing is put back in place and he loves to talk to me and have me listen to his problems and his dreams. it doesnt matter if we can’t be physical because we connect on a spiritual level and we know we will always be together mentally and spiritually for ever.
Hi, I agree with the other post that the other websites are so negative. I am an Aquarius female who has been married to a male Virgo for 6 years. Like any relationship every thing isn’t always peaches and cream but we make a wonderful team. We understand that we both have ambitions and give each other the space needed to get things done. However, my Virgo thinks that I think to far ahead, which I have learned to keep those thoughts to myself. The great thing is that we do balance each other as I have taken some of his ways and he has taken mine.
Hey all! I must say that this is the first website as well that I have read that didn’t say anything negative about this pairing. In my case, it is a little different though. I am an aquarius woman currently dating a virgo woman. This month makes it 4 months since we started dating. She has told me that she likes me a lot and is not dating/seeing anyone else, she feels very comfortable around me and can be herself. SHe mentioned that it was weird to her (why? i dont know lol). I am a very easy going and open minded aquarius and do not judge people at all (until they rub me the wrong way). I really do like her as well and i’m pretty sure she knows it because i always make an effort to contact her and make plans to see her (which isn’t as often as i’d like being that she is very busy pursuing her ambitions). I would like to take things to the next level and be in an official relationship with her but I feel that I have to go at her pace. I dont want to scare her away if i bring up the whole relationship talk. Now my question is, do virgo’s usually wait for the other to bring up such topics to talk about? is 4 months too soon to try and be in a relationship with them? I’ve been having thoughts of throwing in the towel as well and moving on with my life but I just cant seem to do it. I am very attracted to this virgo girl mentally and physically so I have not given up yet. feedback would be great! thanks guys 🙂
Wow!.. I want to say that I am very amazed and feel such a sense of fulfillment and REASSURANCE after I read this. I am a Virgo woman, and I recently got into a relationship with a Aquarius man 2 months ago. We’ve been dating for a total of 4 months, and when we first met it was like INSTANT chemistry. Me and him got lost in our own world, and each others eyes. It was such a beautiful thing, it’s like we took each others breath away. Anyways, I’ve always been very superstitious And at first was somewhat disapointed to find out he was an Aquarius because, as we all know there is nothing but negative feedback on Virgo’s and Aquarians compatibility. Initially, I was just gonna cut him loose because of that. But then I thought hold on, this feels so right. This man has everything I’ve been looking for and knocks me off my feet. I started to ignore the whole zodiac comparability thing, because every time I would read into it( still does) it just crushes my hopes, makes me sad, and makes me
Question our compatibility. Anyways, I just want to say Thank you to the person who wrote this. This is so accurate, and also encouraging!. I was thrilled and it made my heart smile when I read this. In my personal Virgo – Aquarian experience I find this to be very true!.. Me and my Aquarian man have many things in common. I see so much potential, and there is so much passion, attentiveness, adventurous, happiness, an amazing sense of humor in the air. It just feels so right. I’ve never felt like this before, and I hope and look forward to many years with this Aquarius Man I’m falling for. Thank you, so much for your encouraging words of wisdom and accurate compatibility reading. You really lifted my spirit and I have so much more to look forward to.
@ Aquadisiac— We Virgo’s like to play hard to get once in a while and alsO have a tendency to have others try to read our minds. If this Virgo is telling you she’s only seeing you and her interest is only in you she probably really does mean it. 4 months is not to early to get into a relationship. If the feeling is right, and you are head over heels for this girl, then the feeling probably is mutual. Both virgos and Aquariuses are very picky and don’t settle for just anything. Therefore, if this Virgo has stuck around this long, and made you feel the way you do there is no question she might just feel the same way for you. Us Virgo’s have a lot of pride, and I’m pretty sure she’s just waiting on you to make that move. It’ll make he feel very special when you ask her. Virgo’s also have a HUGE fear rejection, so I think she’s waiting for you to make the call on that. I say you have nothing to loose, go for it, and let us know how it all worked for you hun. I’m sure she really likes you, don’t worry. If she didn’t she would of stopped dating you a long time ago. Virgo’s don’t stick around if they aren’t interested, and you will definitely know if they
Aren’t. GOOD LUCK!. 😉
@Mars-
I truly appreciate your response to my post 🙂
Here’s an update on my situation, I honestly don’t know how to feel at this point…
This past Saturday I picked her up to go grab drinks and dinner and just have a casual, chill, night. I wanted to bring up the subject of taking things further but I had kept my attention on her the whole time she was talking. She’s a lil chatterbox haha its kinda cute :p She would just talk about her future plans and such and I would give some feedback (we usually have great conversations in person). I didn’t get a chance to bring up the topic but afterwards we sat by the water to relax some more. Now keep in mind I did not bring up anything the whole night in regards to our dating situation or relationship stuff. She started talking about classes and how she wants to focus on that (she is in grad school), then she flat out said “I don’t want to be in a relationship right now, I can’t do it with all thats goinngg on school etc..” My heart literally dropped when she said that. I had no response, lots of things were running through my head that I couldn’t get a word out. I’m terrible at expressing any of my emotions verbally, its not my forte at all. The only response I could give her is telling her that I don’t want to lose her. She said that I won’t lose her, then hugged me tightly.
I don’t know what to think anymore, why would she date me for this long and not want anything more than that? Was she testing me to see how I would react? ugh, I’m just so confused on what to do now..I don’t want to give up but whats the point in trying anymore if she doesn’t want to take it to the next level? Her telling me that just came out of no where…I have never pressured her into anything nor have i EVER brought up the topic of making things official…feedback would be great once again..thanks!
I’m also a virgo woman dating an aquarian man he is in a abusive relationship,but he says he wants to be with me,i am just overwhelmed by fear,i wish i could trust him,i love him with all my heart,most of what was said is so true he gives me love but i;m just afraid…
All that is said is true.I’m Virgo woman with aquarian man.We’ve been dating For 4 Yrs and even proposed marriage which I accepteD bt we Never set a date …….Last year he became very secretive and start avoiding my calls……..he also started insulting me very badly and said the most vile things to me that no man ever did..He always accused me of cheating on him,bt for 3yrs I invested and made the most contributions to this relationship and he wanted to domInate ..the love was there but he just made emPty ProMises and I ffinally realised that our relationsHip have hit rock bottom I was trying but he gave Me no suPport ………Mine was jst a one sided aFfair ….. But he don’t want to quit And won’t leave me alone ……….With all respect I thInk aquas are control Freaks and I’m one virgO who hate controlling ppl
I have been involved with anaqua man for the past few months. To say the relationship is magical and almost unbelievable is really a loss for words to describe how wonderful it is. Thank God we are able to communicate as we do, and we are both at a more mature state of mind. I’m 43 and he is 48.
I”m a virgo lady and he is an aquarius man.
Upon first meeting this guy at work, he seemed like a real crowd pleaser: full of positive energy and making friends with everyone easily. Naturally, me being the shy virgo that I can be, I remained polite, calm, and collected around everyone. It takes a while for me to open to people and be my goofy, eccentric self. After a few days and persistent attention from him I noticed I couldn’t remain cool and collective, I became nervous but didn’t want him to see that because I didn’t think he would consider me, as well as I don’t want to ruin a workplace with a fling. I hate flings! But he kept persisting by coming over to where I was and making small talk and asking a lot of questions. He seems so genuine, but the way he smiles and looks at me, I just can’t ignore him. And it seems he can’t ignore me either cause one day while i was eating my lunch i caught him staring at me, then quickly looked away while blushing. So cute! I really wanted to say ‘hey sweety stop staring come on over here’ but didn’t. I think he read my mind cause he did come by to say basic small chat stuff.
Another day at lunch after i had sat down, i focused on my lunch but felt him looking over between customers, so I gave him my ‘hey sexy’ smile and stared at him. He came right over and was one big smile and we talked for quite a while and then he mentioned that i could stay and talk more. But being worry-wort virgo, I worried about getting back to work. ( i was late getting back to work, OOPS. but I fall into him and loose track of time every time)
I feel a certain commonality between us, for example the whole ‘pushing to far’ with the emotions like saying hey i like you lets go out, and giving the time we both need, but then i am sucked back into him like i can’t get enough. I also feel when he needs space or when i’m giving him too much attention. It feels like a dance, like I’m mesmerized by him. I have to admit i’m falling for him fast and i am afraid that there is the possibility that he is just being his normal self of being a crowd pleaser.
Normally when I like someone i want them to make the first move and tell me that they like me, but as i already said i feel that he doesn’t need to cause his actions are already saying everything. When we do talk i feel so comfortable with him that after i say something I want to FacePalm! cause i think OHCRAP that was too honest but i end up blushing. I’ve made the first move by adding him on a Social Network and OMG i was so nervous about it but then thought ‘WTH if he doesn’t accept the request its ok, we can still chat at work.’ He did accept the request and holy cow we have a lot more in common than i originally thought…
Idk if this is normal but i have this overwhelming feeling of peace when i’m around him like i can stop worrying about everything and just relax. Like i don’t care about his age, his height, his hair, if he’s chubby or skinny or what SIGN he is; i just care that he’s there at work and we get to talk more. Then when were not working on the same days i feel, not depressed but more of empty and i can’t eat. All i can think about is this aqua guy! But i still don’t know if it is a mutual understanding.
I often wish we had met and been friends before but i also feel we already have…
My Aqua & I met on a dating site. Went on the best first date ever (for me anyway). He was a total gentleman, sweet, great listener, and the conversation just flowed. I was only going to see him for half an hr because I had plans right after but we hungout for an entire hr and then some.
Best first date ever, he still texts me daily and wants to see me (I keep putting it off because I’m focusing on studying for finals) but yeah so far so good!
Will keep you all posted 🙂
Also, PS. He said I made him nervous because of my intelligence and beauty awww 🙂 I’m pretty sure this Aqua man is head over heels and well I find that very endearing.. I think I may like him alot too!
I feel so bad for avoiding his texts but mama’s gotta study! I can tell he’s a keeper though 🙂
Good luck to everyone!
I’m a Virgo women happily married to a Aquarius man!! We have been together for 11years married for 3 of them!! It was a trust roller coaster at first for both of us, but once you figure out to communicate correctly the bond is unblieveable!! The longer were together the more the love grows and our bond and communciation is like our own personally language we are truly one another’s soulmates!! My advice be patience Virgo women let him be himself he knows what he has that’s why he keeps coming back!! The love will grow and remember while your looking for trust so is he, he just wants to feel it in a best friend way!! Good luck and go with love!!
I m virgo gal 22 years old..he is an aqua 22 years old…all stories look so familier to me…bcz we have been through all this….he is my first n only boyfriend..3 n half years ago he became my frnd…then he hurt me alot…then after 1 year i hurt him …now after all this we r best frnd again…i love his nature…he is not so clingy…actually i can say i m not in love with him like i used to but i care for him alot…at the same time he also care fo me…when i m sad he caught me and then he talk with me to become happy…i m in hostal now so he know that i m away from my home..and he do care fo me….he said that he loves my soul…intelligence…i m lil bit nervous type…and he is not…i talk alot alot..i complain alot alot…but he will only listen me with big heart…i feel like i have someone who bear my nonsense..fullishness with that much love..
I dont know where we r going in this relation but i want to be his frnd forever..
I m typical virgo n he is typical aqua..
I just met an Aquarius man about 5 months ago, I blew him off initially because he seemed to be arrogant and controlling and as a Virgo woman, I hate that. I eventually changed my number and a few weeks ago he sent me a message on Facebook. I agreed to meet with him, after I explained to him that his approach is what drove me away. He was very sincere and asked if I could give him a fair chance and if we could start over. I must say since we have been talking again, he has really swept me off my feet. he is very affectionate and manly, although I can still sense this possessive controlling thing about him, but in a protective way. I am glad i agreed to give him another chance. So far so good. He has already told me I will be his wife and he makes it a habit to see me every day almost. I play it cool, but he has me very interested. Of course, i wont tell him that yet. He thinks that it is so amazing that he cannot figure me out, and I love it. 🙂 And I let him do all the calling and texting, I never go out of my way to see him first. I don’t think he is use to this being that he is very tall and handsome, he has women falling all over him, but i just ignore that and treat him like I would treat anyone else. It’s not on purpose, but i think he loves that mystery about me. He said he is never letting me go and says I am so beautiful and perfect for him!!! I guess we’ll see…. Hoping for the best!!!!
Well I’m an Aquarius man and I have a Virgo woman but I feel like I’m on the virge of losing her what should I do?
Now what happened why you do feel you are about to lose her? Something must have happened, you would have to share that information in order for anyone to give feedback?
Well, the last Aqua relationship went south after a few months lol. On my part because he lacked the qualities I want in a Long term partner, he was ready to be in a relationship and I did not want to lead him on so we ended things. He was very hurt and I truly hope he finds someone who loves him as much as he loves her.
I am now just talking to another Aqua and our intellectual connection is fire!!! Lol, more to come!
I’m a Virgo and have a dysfunctional and weird yet passionate romance with an Aquarius man. When we first met (in September 2014), we both weren’t interested in having a relationship, but something magical happened. We always had great conversations about various topics, shared the same moral foundations and there was just this unspoken connection between us.
He courted me for two months and then he asked for us to be in a committed relationship. Things were going great for four months, built the best friendship, we fell in love, finally became intimate, went on great dates… and then be just went cold on me. He would call less and I wouldn’t see him as often. I couldn’t figure out why and he wasn’t explaining himself. So, in true Virgo fashion, I shutdown and cut him off (instead of expressing how hurt I was because I’d rather play in traffic than admit I’m vulnerable).
He kept trying to call or text saying he love and missed me, but I’d ignore him. Then one day I decided to respond and it was like nothing had ever happened. We talked about how we felt about the pseudo breakup and were right back in love and things were fine. Then three months later, he started becoming more detached again so instead of flipping out I just gave him some space. Sure enough a week of spaced out calls here and there, he came right back to himself again. I’m not sure if all Aqua men are this hot and cold because he’s the only one I’ve ever been with. I will say it’s really frustrating and a lot of work, but as much as I complain that he’s emotionally detached, at times… I’ve never loved anyone as much as I love him.
I can’t say that he’s “the one” after a year and a half because I can’t deal with him being so inconsistent, at times. But deep down inside I really hope he is. Right now, I’m just trying to show him that I’m not trying to smother him and he can still maintain his own identity in our relationship (because I think him going cold has to do with him thinking he’s losing his freedom somehow). So far we haven’t had any real issues. *fingers crossed*
im a Virgo woman who recently met a wonderful Aquarius man. Our first date was magical as we talked all night about everything and anything on the beach. We have such a strong connection and when I first met him I swear it was love at first site. Interesting enough my ex was an Aquarius but he was an asshole and really arrogant .. The sex was amazing and that’s unfortunately the only thing that kept us together. Hoping the second time around with my aqua guy is successful.
u not alone we all are broken in some way or the other
I just reconnected with my Aquarius. He is several years younger than me and we were more like brother and sister, when we first met. Then after years of being friends, we became intimate after a trip out of town. He expressed to me that he had desires for me, for a long time. At first, things seemed to be going great. He told me that he loved me. Not long after that, he started pulling away. It caused a huge breakup and afterwards, we didn’t speak for over a year. Then he emailed me with a song, that described how happy he was and that he was about to become a father!!
After I told him how I felt, he asked to see me and said how much he had missed me, although it all seemed based on the incredible sex, we had. Eight months after the baby was born, he recently texted me to ask how I was and to tell me that he and the mother, weren’t working out. He came to see me and told me that he never stopped missing me. He told me that he loves me and that I am the best, he’s ever had. Ever since, we have been seeing each other but I can’t help feeling like he’ll go back to being detached. I told him I wouldn’t stand for things being the way that they were before. I love him deeply and this interpretation of the Virgo Aquarius, is the most encouraging one, I have ever read. Thank You, for the glimmer of hope 🙂
I fell crazy inlove with an Aquaman, it was like a storybook romance with twist of adventure, passion and sincerity, but something happened, the pain from it was devasting and it hurt me all the way to the core, something so disappointing that I had to detach myself from him completely, spiritually disconnecting my heart, my soul and my emotions went tumbling down severely, he since expressed how sorry he is for what he did, but he still hasn’t confronted me face to face to say why he did it and everything else that he is really sorry for.
We then decided to not see each other anymore because he wants to have a twitter situationship and I want to go live on Facebook except for in a real life committed relationship where we can get super crazier with each other, because we were so good together and had so much fun in our own little world madly inlove with each other as if we were each others addiction. So I suppose its rehab time for us both now and hope we will make it on our own without having to revert to the drug we found in each other or maybe not.
dont agree with this, aqua and virgo can be friends but more on that is not good. be friend only with aqua if you want relationship with them pls dont be serious virgo just play wise with them and use them if no worth trash it. bec wen we fall in love and get serious and blinded by an aqua we can only be hurt i tell you we are completely looser in the end. set your bounderies virgo aqua need space and no worth for our service we deserve better
It been 6months and i have to say i am Very Happy.. For Right Now This Has Been a TRUTH for me as well! Virgo Women + Aquarius Man
Best Relationship Evermm
I love my virgo..and my jaan sona love u forever
I’m a Virgo female crushing real hard on an Aquarius
He’d show signs that he likes me from time to time
But I keep ignoring him….it’s been 4 years now since we ‘be been crushing on each other but can’t find the right time to express our feelings. Should I approach him or wait for him to make the first move?
Girl, approach him. It’s sexy to them when you can say how you feel or what you want to say. Speak your mind.
Next time you see him, just walk straight up to him and kiss him, dont care where you are or who is there or even what he is doing or who is looking, wrap your arms aroud him, kiss him and tell him you love him (but only if you mean it)….tell him, maybe thats what will put the apple on the pie!
I have an Aquarius man and I’m a virgo woman. We used to be like best friends/lovers then he was forced to go away for 10yrs and since he came back he is different. Closed off, selfish, hot and cold. He went
What should I do?? I don’t know what we are doing anymore but he isn’t willing to let go and I don’t want to but I need communication to be happy.
back off virgo plssssss, aquarians are not good for you. dont stress and be miserable your self virgo, ive known many aquarians for years…. if ever aqua shows signs that he is falling or obsessed with you please ignore it. dont be a fool, better to prevent from sin, wrong doing and hatred than to no cure disastrous relationshp ever. open your eyes virgo….im right
Hmmmm very interesting im a aquarius some people thinks so differnt abt aquarius man but ladies let me tell u the truth we need attenccion love and the most important key is Respect if you dont have the time solo back off we r real good wen it comes to love a woman we give more than 100% lol just think abt it but is how we R….we r humans lol
Ive been married to my aquarian man for 9 years hes the coldest infuriating self obsessed person ever but kindness comes when i least expect it, hes cold but kind, callous yet loving, cruel but forgiving. How can you not adore his faults. Im a virgo woman september 8th hes 2nd of feb. Love isnt abundant in words but actions .love him adore him hes a proud man but stand your ground. I have lots of faults im im argumentative and he hates that i get the higher ground . yayyyyy
I was also born on Sept. 8th and was married to an Aquarius man for 12 years. But we divorced. Later, read that we are not compatible. He was bipolar, and had PTSD, which contributed to the constant conflict. But if you can make it work, good for you. Goes to show the horoscopes are not absolute, but I had a lot of your same observations. Wishing you the best.
So so sooo accurate for me and the love of my life my aquarius man.