Gemini Man and Scorpio Woman Compatibility
This couple is full of surprises, some of them scary, and some of them really scary. They each wear a mask like a Halloween costume, and they love to jump out and go “Boo!” Both these signs are used to hiding behind layers that obfuscate who they really are. Scorpio manipulates everything, and Gemini must monkey around with everything. It is literally impossible for either of them to come straight at an object, but they understand that about each other. Can you imagine the circumlocution and posturing necessary to accomplish anything? Each one of them is like a double agent trying to figure out what kind of double agent the other one is and oddly enough, they don’t take it at all seriously. If you get right down to it, each of them would say it’s crazy to be very open with anybody else.
How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Scorpio Woman:
Feel free to do something sexy to catch his attention but then you’ll have to back it up with some intelligent conversation. Stay away from manipulation because you’ve met your match. If you monkey around too much with the relationship, it will definitely backfire.
How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as a Gemini Man:
Most Scorpio women are interested in any man in sight because they love the power of their sexual allure. Watch what you say very carefully. In some cases you can be somewhat crude, but you better err on the side of prudence. If she starts talking about sex first, feel free to build on the conversation. Sex isn’t all she’s interested in, but it’s pretty much what attracts her to a guy, so it’s best if you have some confidence in yourself on that score. You are not playing with an amateur.
Degree of Romance:
It is eroticism that’s likely to occur, not romance. Gemini is a very curious and willing sexual partner and Scorpio can take him where he’s always wanted to go.
Degree of Passion:
Unfortunately the passion in this relationship may be the tumultuous emotions of Scorpio when she feels betrayed or slighted. Ms. Scorpio is famous for her rage and vindictiveness. Do not mess with her, Monkey Man. You’re likely to lose your tail. And another thing, Gemini, we know how much you love to mess around, but you have no idea the dark forces that will be unleashed if you mess around on this lady. At the very least, she will personally key your brand new Lexus. What happens after that will make that look good. No really.
Degree of Friendship:
Are you kidding? Friends don’t key friend’s cars.
Degree of Marriage:
No piece of paper can possibly bind these two together more than the games they play. My advice is don’t even go there unless you are willing to play nine innings of hard ball. Gemini, whatever little tricks you have up your sleeve, you might find your arm in the alley back behind your house. On the other hand, if you decide to straighten up and fly right, this is the sort of women that will make a righteous man out of you.
Progression of Relationship:
Gemini, do not mess around with her on any level. If you prize your kneecaps, get down on them and stay there. It is best to give this woman what she wants — and act like you like it. By the way, there is no place for your Evil Twin in this relationship. And why is that? Because your Evil Twin is unbelievably naïve (I hate to be the one to tell you).
Sex:
In case you were wondering if it was worth it to go through all this stuff, yes, the sex will make it worth it. The only trouble is, if you’re not faithful, Gemini, it may be the last sex you ever have. There’s something about having sex with a Scorpio woman that makes you want to have more sex, period, but if you step outside this relationship, it will be your last.
When It’s Over:
This could be one of the biggest messes imaginable. There are so many entanglements, vendettas, justifications, rationalizations, over-stepped boundaries, and poorly-digested words, that it will take years to clean up the debris. In your own way, neither one of you ever lets go of anything, and god knows, you both know how to nurse a grudge. Gemini is not normally vindictive, but is very fond of having the last word, and Scorpio will never let that happen.
Our Rating: 5/10
What do you think of this match? Who is your favorite famous Gemini/Scorpio couple? Share your thoughts in the comment below.
Wow 50/50! Is that a typo or is this relationship that great?
It’s totally tongue-in-cheek which only these two will really understand. You can’t rate a relationship which has so many people in it!! (That’s tongue-in-cheek, too.)
Gemini men are easy,going, fun, and strong. They are also very sociable…scorpio is more introverted. they can however balance eachother out if the scorpio advocates freedom, and lacks sufficient jealousy. gemini man gets so bored, he will unbury his shit and make a castle out of….a woman.
I can totalling relate to this reading. My gemini man is driving me crazy and i am currently planning my revenge after his unfaithfulness over xmas period. The passion is there in the bedroom but outside it we seem to always be at each others throats. He never seems to know his own mind and cant commit to anything whereas i want to know where we are going – is there a future for us or is he just a waste of space. We have fought for five years and at times it has got as nasty as it can get but we always have fun making up eventually.
@Helen
I think you said it yourself … “Can’t commit to anything …”
I am a Gemini man who dated a Scorpio woman. It was THE WORST relationship we both ever had! We had much respect for each others, but could never ever see eye to eye. I say yes, she says no, and vice-versa. The breakup was the worst for each one of us. It was tiring, heavy, and painful. She is a deep introvert and I am the total opposite. She is bossy and controlling and I am easy going. We tried hard and for about a year, but could never move forward. If we manage to have our good times, right after came the fighting and misunderstanding that made us forget the good time we had. Sorry, it was such a bad experience for both of us that I would suggest to others to take it easy and try to be friends first. There is something in the Scorpio woman that intensely attracts her to a Gemini man but it is short-lived.
@dada Thanks for the corroborating testimonial!
I am currently in a relationship with a Gemini man and let me tell you fellow scorpios don’t do it. As the article stated gemini’s like to “monkey around” and scorpios don’t find that amusing at all. And, the “evil twin” has appeared more times than I can count. The things that us scorpios like to do is figure our partners out so we can try to manipulate them to our advantage and being a scorpio and not knowing which “twin” you are getting today makes it hard for us to try to manipulate a gemini. The only good thing about our relationship is the sex but I can find that elsewhere.
I’m a scorpio woman who had a 5 year relationship with a gemini man. We broke up and got back together every other season. Everything written here holds true. The sex kept us together, everything outside the bedroom lacked passion. I found decisions he made lacked logic. At the end what finally did it for me was he didn’t take our relationship seriously and I felt slighted. Scorpio/Gemini = epic fail
@Laura
All I can say is “wow”. Not all Scorpios are that manipulative.
totally agree – “can’t commit to anything” LOL! I went on a date with a Gemini for a month or so and cut it off right after knowing that he’s the type of “can’t commit” guy :P…He seemed quite playful right from the beginning which in a way almost appeared to be romantic but then I figured out it’s just the way he is…playful for, perhaps, ever! Not a Scorp’s type for sure as we want something deep and meaningful, a kind of connection that body-soul-mind all enjoy.
i am not dating a gemini. however, we are just sex buddies and the bedroom is really exciting. the conversations we have before the sex is great also. he says he’s not ready for a relationship and i see he likes to have his space. my father is a gemini so i can kinda deal with them. my patience is a little more tolerable for them. however, my feeling for him i will not tell becasue i dont want to loose the sex. but we already disscuss that if we stop with the sex we still would be great friends becasue we started out that way.
well, as a scorpio woman seeing a gemini man, i can without hesitation say the sex is fantastic. we dated in college and it ended very badly (DUH) but we have reconnected now. i actually am holding out a bit of hope this time because the relationship is long distance. i can’t get jealous if i am not there all the time…i am not smothering him or trying to control him…i always ask about his day…and we have more in common now than we did before. i am not looking for marriage this go round (and neither is he) so hopefully we can make it work. i am reading all sorts of articles about scorpio/gemini matches and taking every word to heart!! if it works this time, great…if not, i refuse to let my heart get broken again.
I don’t know what to make of all of this. You make it sound as if there really is no chance for this to work. I am a gemini male and I’m in the early dating stages with a gemini female. Being a gemini, I fell for her very quickly. It was almost like love at first sight. But there are some gemini aspects that don’t hold true for me. I’ve never cheated on a partner. The thought never even crossed my mind. Once I’m in a comitted relationship, I have eyes only for her. I’m also not really that extroverted. I am somewhat quiet, which seems to be conflicting with her because she is also quiet. Our conversations via email or aim are always far more interesting than our in person conversations or phone conversations. What advice would you give a guy like me to be able to better entertain and enjoy conversation with my scorpio girl?
hey nancy … r u really sure dat a marriage between a gemini man and a scorpio woman cannot work out ?? I mean me and my gf are planning to marry … Although we fight a lot bt v really love each other … sumhw v manage to make up aftr every fyt … v guys r different frm each other in some aspects .. i mean lyk der r certain things which i dont lyk bt she lyks n dn der r certain thins which she lyks n i dont lyk …
I would lyk to know ur point of view …
I am an older 32 scorpio woman and my man is a younger 24 year old Gemini man. It will be hard but we are making it work~
I am a Scorpio woman who met a very intense Gemini man…. and I must say, scorpio women… if you meet a gemini man…. Do not walk. RUN the other way!!!!!! I read these comment things when I had first met him and I was worried by all the negative comments, and let me say… YOU SHOULD BE TOO. It seems too good to be true at first, the intensity is hard to pass up for us passionate scorpio women. You think you have met someone you can finally be yourself with, that understands your excitement and passion for life… But I PROMISE YOU, you haven’t! Dating a Gemini man will leave you depressed, alone and fat.
Gemini men have split personality and they lie about how they feel all the time.
I dated a Gemini male for 7 months. I ended up feeling guilty a lot because he is very good hearted, generous, and freedom loving. There is where his power comes from. I felt like an insecure unwanted tick sometimes. If a Scorpio woman dates a Gemini becareful not to get caught up with fights. As fun loving as Geminis are they can fire the deepest slashing insults/observations which we Scorps don’t like. As light hearted as they appear their minds sense everything that lies in the depths of ourselves. They just really dont talk about that. I know I hurt him too but hey. No feelings hurt is always better. Specially for me.
I have been seeing a gemini man for over a year and it is by far the most intense sexual relationship I’ve ever had. I am in my late 40s, he’s early 40s. We are total opposites in almost every way, and I adore his playful, outgoing nature while he tends to feed off my quiet, deep nature. So far we have accepted our differences, and seem to compliment each other very well. Could be that we are older and are so intensely drawn to one another. Our disagreements are also intense as I am so passionate, but the making up is powerful. It is crucial that we spent time apart doing our own thing, but when we are together I know without a doubt that I the center of his universe, and I try to do the same. The differences are there, we know it, and I can say from my experience that you can make this match work, but it takes work and understanding.
I’m a scorpio woman && ive been dating a gemini man for the past couple of months. When we met, I was in a relationship, but we became good friends. When the relationship i had at that time ended, he was there for me, and still is. He’s the most stunning, smart and sweet guy I have ever met. We had some tough times at the beginning, but we worked it out. We always have a wonderful time together and I really don’t think he is a jerk, as every Gemini man is said to be. He does take things seriously and is very loving and understanding. I can be jealous and manipulative at times but only when they give me a reason to. My guy has never given me a reason to feel jealous, we each give each other our own space.
We both know that we aren’t very compatible according to our zodiac signs && you know what he said?..”Lets prove them wrong” 🙂 && that’s what we’ve been doing..
MY GEMINI MAN IS NOT EASY GOING AND FUN. I AM.. HE’S AWEFUL & STILL HELPING HIM TO HAVE FUN. ITS BEEN A HARD 28 YEARS. IM THE FUN OUT GOING PEOPLE PERSON & DEEP HEARTED & HE IS BUT HE’S GOT THAT OTHER SIDE OF COLD & HARD & ANOTHER PERSON LIKE THE SPLIT PERSONALITY. AT HOME HE’S FINE BUT OUT HE DON’T KNOW HOW TO TREAT HIS LADY & I DO. 😉 BUT WE MADE IT THIS LONG SO WE MUST DESERVE AN AWARD WHEN WE R NOT REALLY COMPATABLE. SO MUST BE LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY. LOL!
WE DON’T EVER SEE EYE TO EYE EITHER ALOT & HE’S FAR FROM A CHEAT, HE’S THIS PERFECT MAN TO HIM, BUT PUSHED ME AWAY TO CHEAT CUZ I WAS DONE SO MANY TIMES. & HE WAS VERY FORGIVING AND BLAMED HIMSELF & BEGS ME BK. MY GEMINI MAN IS NOT EASY GOING AND FUN. I AM.. HE’S AWEFUL & STILL HELPING HIM TO HAVE FUN. ITS BEEN A HARD 28 YEARS. IM THE FUN OUT GOING PEOPLE PERSON & DEEP HEARTED & HE IS BUT HE’S GOT THAT OTHER SIDE OF COLD & HARD & ANOTHER PERSON LIKE THE SPLIT PERSONALITY. AT HOME HE’S FINE BUT OUT HE DON’T KNOW HOW TO TREAT HIS LADY & I DO. BUT WE MADE IT THIS LONG SO WE MUST DESERVE AN AWARD WHEN WE R NOT REALLY COMPATABLE. SO MUST BE LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY. LOL!
I just stumbled upon this site and suprised how uncanily true some of these traits are in combatibility. I was married to a gemini man but very early on i knew he was no soul mate, we got on great as friend but as partners it was going from one extreme to the other either getting on really well or on the verge of a break up, completely exhausting. There was no emotional understanding or support. Then there the trust issue. Compatibility is very poor with these 2 signs.
The Gemini marriage and divorce statistics provide some surprises. While it would be expected that the preferred marriage partner would be another Gemini due to shared interests and common lifestyle choices, Gemini men are also inclined to stay with Tauruses and Scorpios, which are theoretically incompatible signs
Read more at Suite101: Marriage and Divorce for Gemini: Romantic Compatibility with Other Astrology Signs http://astrological-sun-signs.suite101.com/article.cfm/marriage_and_divorce_for_gemini#ixzz0xH7QXsm7
I have been with my gemini man now for 5 years im now 21, he 29, I tend to travel a lot so we’re ok at the moment, but honestly it is tiring, and most people cant hack it, but my perspective is this, you can be any sign have the base of a personality but then, after that you are who you are by the past youve lived, each experience has molded your way of thinking, thinking those thoughts that was learnt by past experiences, so really you cant only rely on what the signs say, yes it can shed some light on how a person is, get to know the base of them but after that, theyre unique in they’re own way. Im a scorpio, i had a 2 year relationship before my gemini man, who was my first love, he was a pisces, which is one of the most compatible signs to a scorpio, he did do what i wanted, he did worship the ground I walked on. but me being me…I got bored. The human mind can not get any satisfaction, we’re always looking for that temporarial high, we want what we cant have. Which is why my gemini man is so perfect for me, he keeps me on my toes, and I keep him on his, the description of the above is true, I like to toy with his reactions and emotions, and he if on a good day will ignore me and just go with everything i say which i hate, or stand up and give me a bit of my own medicine, which I love… which is when I will look down at my shoes and say I love you baby, then try and get it on, but hes still got the hard-man act on, and not give in, but again me being me, so persistent, he cant resist.. thats when I smile to myself and feel ive won.
Me also being me, so bloody emotional, and worry about things I dont need to worry about, is gratfull to have him by my side, although people look at us and just dont understand why im with him as im a half japanese half english model and he physically is the average spanish guy, emotionally hes my rock, I wouldnt know what to do without him, when im with him, I dont care about anything i would normally worry about. I always say to him… ‘oh well if we break up it doesnt matter anyway as we’ll never get on so its nothing new’. lol, drives him mad. we always used to say from the day we met when I was 16 and he was 24, that we are imperfectly perfect for each other, after all ..like the old saying goes…the sweet isnt so sweet without the sour…
Carpe Diem, is what I say to you people, live the moment, take each step as it comes, go with the flo, life is too short to live the same day twice. And to always being protective of not getting hurt? this is life people, my life is a rollercoaster, you need to go down if you want to shoot right up. How will you get the silver lining, if you never let it cloud over ? a bad experience is always better than no experience at all, ( i mean on relationships) and if it does go bad, just think you either learn your lesson, get to know a little more about yourself or cry… only once though and get it out of your system, cos then after.. its old news, no point in crying over spilt milk. And move on, walk away a better, frugel person with a little twinkle in your eye from what youve just experienced, like you know a secret, because to be honest in the book of life, it is. Your little secret, a chapter in your book, which you will one day share to someone else who holds theyre own which turns into a storytelling conversation, and before you know it, your both fighting over who can speak first, and who listens… youll figure out life between the pair of you whoever you are….im talking in general here…like I said before you are who you are by the past youve lived, the more experiences youve lived, more people you can relate too, opens your horizons a little dont you think?
And as you can guess when i get all philosophical like this my bf thinks im talking out of my ar***. Hes a realist, analysis everything untill he comes to a conclusion which endears him to me, whereas patience is a virtue i do not posess and I tend to skip along through things, picking up on only things which interest me and that are more deep dark and emotional. whereas hes more facts which bores me.
I am posessive, whats mine is mine, but hes so used to that now, that on the days im social and chatty to everyone and just want him to go and do the same, he thinks i dont love him anymore and keeps saying ive changed….BLESS HIM!!!
Yes he has the two sides to him, but theres also many different sides to me ( like 4 or 5 LOL) Im like a big mix of things, and he knows just how to handle me whatever the day however im feeling. I thrive on our ups and downs, love him hate him. the passion. like Tango. my favorite dance. . .
This was absolutely brilliant. Was on & off with a gemini for three years, and this is EXACTLY it. Made me laugh, thank you for putting this up!
i dont understand but i dont fit the description of a gemini.where they flutter from person to person, im a loner and dont care to date.where they love to be the life of the party, i hate big crowds.where they are all giddy and happy, i dont give attention to just anyone.im very untrusting of others and i dont do what i dont feel.also, im hypersensitive.im completely in love with a scorpio girl.i get all the tests and i will do them till im on the floor crawling.i am up for the challenges of the heart.im in love.this is the first person ive met who takes love seriously and almost fairytale like.i love it.i love her.right now things are tricky.shes in a program and they found out we were seeing eachother.so shes banned from me.she has a short time till she graduates.she told me a few things make me wonder if shes lying and blowing me off.i just dont know.i asked her if he were seperated and she said no.she said i should focus on things i need to do for myself.she said she needs to focus on what she needs to do.she also did say in 3 months from now we could be together for a short time or forever.part of me is heartbroken and the other part wants to trust her.i mean, she was the one who chased me for a long while.i fall in love and then this has to hit me.its hard for me to trust but ill do it if the right person comes along.i cried for a week.i dont know what all this means.its a tricky situation….
im still going to stick it out.i am having issues cause the girl that ratted us out likes me and wont back off.its making things harder and depressing me.i cant really even talk to her cause shes banned from me.i also snapped at her.she said hi to me and i replied “i thought you cant talk to me”.she said shes allowed to say hi.i dont know what to believe.btw we both are girls.i think that changes the dynamics.anyhow, im heartbroken but i understand she needs to do what she has to do.i supported that through this.i gave her a ring that says love waits.i wanted to wait and support her bettering herself.
p.s how do i know if she loves me or if shes over me? we talked but the convo had holes in it.im confused.i guess im just reaching for something and it may never be there.i may be subjected to a brokenheart.i hope not.i really do love her.
hi ppl… i m gamini, and i m in love with scorpio girl , there is many porbs btwn us because she is very open minded and talks with all the boys i know she talks just as a frd or class met but i feel jealous. but i really love her too much and she says she also love me but i think she dont love me much as i do. i m always thinking about her all day and night but she always busy at her home and with her frnds (girls) and family , i want to marry her but she is scars about her parents because our caste are not same. i really love her and its true .
I am a scorpio female and I am in a relationship with a Taurus male….yet I find myself attracted to a Gemini male. We are just friends, yet I know he had interests to date me. I played it cool, because I am in a long-term commitement to a Taurus and I love him. The initial deisre and yearning have passed, I believe, we have fun and having him as a friend, an attractive friend makes life fresh, exciting and interesting. At some level I find that not getting intimate with a gemini male can keep things alot more engaging.
I soo agree with you. I believe that everyone may have certain qualities based on their sign, but one’s past experiences is what mold us in to the people we have become and will continue to change us depending on our experiences. Everyone learns different lesson depending on their experiences. I have been with a gemini man for a about a few months and he is absolutely amazing. At first we would fight a lot, but we always made up and in the end we knew we still loved each other. However, he is very stubborn at times and wants to do what he feels at the moment and he will do it without thinking twice which may get him into a lot of trouble. I know this from experience. My gemini man got in trouble and got sent to jail and he said after what happened he thought that I a scorpio woman was going to leave him and that he was really scared because he really loves me and says he has never met anyone like me and he thought I would be mad at him. However, I was not mad just a little but no really because I was mostly worried so he is really surprised that I am still with him. He is so sweet now and says that he will change and I know he will because something inside me tells me he will because there is so much love between us. He really is sorry for what happened and always tells me and says he learned his lesson and that he shouldve listen to me cause it is not worth it to be in jail. He says that all his friends in jail say that he is lucky to have such a faithful woman and that I am a keeper and he said he knows that and that he is going to ever let me go. He even asked me to marry him which was a huge surprise because at first he said he wouldnt get married so when he asked me it was a complete shock to. I said yes so we plan to get married. I love him so much and he loves me. Yes at first we had our differences, but this terrible experience has really helped our relationship because if we didnt go through such a bad experience we would still be like before and always fighting for little things, yet still love each other, but now we realize that what we have is truly amazing and we are so happy that we found each other. I just think that he would start fights with me because he knew I wouldnt leave him and always listened to him, but after this he realized he acted wrong and said he will never do it again. I am sad he got sent to jail, but at the same time happy because this experience has made us so strong. I never felt so loved in my life. I have been with other signs that the zodiac says I am compatible with, but they always ended up badly so I think it depends a lot on how people grew up and their past experiences, morals, values, etc… that makes people what they are not some predictions based on astrology. Yes they have some insight into what we are, but we ourselves become who we are from our life experiences. Every mistake we make teaches us a lesson and we either decide to ignore it or learn from it. Everyone is different and unique in their own way.
And yes my gemini man is very outgoing and loves to socialize and mess around and I am quiet and prefer to be at home. However I am starting to like going out more because thanks to him I am not so quiet anymore. I feel more open to people and more comfortable interacting with others because of him. However, it says us scorpios are quiet, but I have read in other astrology websites the opposite that scorpios are very outgoing so what does that tell you. And yes I used to be extremely jealous. I was once with a capricorn man but my jealousy ruined our relationship and after this I realized that if I did not change I would not ever be able to be in a good relationship so that loss really changed me. I am still jealous, but I can control my jealousy and have learned to trust my partner so that past experience really changed me. And yes I have also been manipulative and again I had a bad experience because of it and learned from and will not longer us manipulation because it will ruin a truly wonderful thing. All I can say is that we have become who we are from the experiences we have lived and we will continue to become different people based on our future experiences which can be for good or bad, but every experience will mold us into something much worse or better. It all depends on how will you want to see it and if you care about me a better person or are just dont care.
Oh and sorry I got so interested in this topic that I just wrote what I felt and just typed everything I felt which made this so long and caused me to make some typos, but I think you get what I’m trying to say.
So do you think with hard work a Gemini man and scorpio women will make it, I am a scorpio women and I loving a Gemini man. We went to middle school together and we lost touch for alot of years. Now we found each other again and I seem to love him even more and he saids he’s still in love with me… but he acts distant sometimes, the scorp in me wants to move on and teach him a lesson, that you don’t play with a good thing….but I love him and I’m trying to be patient.
If there is something genuine between 2 ppl and you want to build on that, shouldn’t there be a point at which the fantasies-combined -with-some-reality stop and one comes to grips with reality? reality hardly fazes me out as a scorp female. and I find it hard to manipulate situations or people. The gem man on the other hand can get quite confusing in his attempts to monkey around or is it just his way of communicating? Either way, time and effort that could possibly be spent understanding issues (among lots of other pleasant things) and whether we can deal with them or not is simply not an area we have traversed yet. Or have we? 🙁
I jus ended a 1 year relationship with my gemini guy cause he never had any time for me I love him so much it hurts to let him go I do try i really do but i cant let him go i know he does not get my love for him but its too deep to even explain
im jus so caught up feel like a fool 🙁
I wouldn’t say many words,I would just say that I love HER even SHE hurt me but I still love HER but SHE betrayed with me.All gemini men are not same and I really hate the gemini characteristics noticed by the astrology.I’m a gemini but I see the most of the bad characteristics of gemini are in my scorpio lady,not in me ! I feel jealous and I don’t talk with females much and I still do love my scorpio lady from heart.but SHE likes so many men around HER and to flirt with them ! I asked HER not to do those so I became HER enemy ! then SHE betrayed with me and loves another guy.is this the real scorpio nature ?
Now I can’t hope,but I still love HER and living with deep pain in heart about 2 years. (don’t wanna involved with any else cause I love HER).
i dont know if i speak for myself or for all geminis or for some, but i can say i can RELATE to both the positive and negative aspects of being a gemini. the difference is knowing ur weakspots and gradually working to better urself on it. even if you cant fully rid your self of the so called gemini “burdens” atleast u know its a fault and somthing is better than nothing. as for the gemini male scorpio female, sit and listen to her if you really love her then trust me shes going to be everything you ever wanted plus more and a basket of fruits. but if you know deep down that your not going to honestly appreciate her then its best to stay friends shes also the best at that. 2 scorpio girls that ive had the pleasure of knowing in my life have permanently branded respect on me for them and all scorpio girls alike. if you let this girl take driver seat and take turns trust me sheel take you to the most incredible beautiful places you ll ever know , even if she looks shes going to crash.
Wow, this is exactly like Blair and Chuck from “Gossip Girl”!
I’m a 22 year old scorpio woman and my bf is a 20 year old gemini man. I must say that the comments are very interesting and intriguing. I especially looked at the comments made by the male gemini. I admit that we have had our ups and our downs…but the rollercoaster is one hell of a ride! We both love each other unconditionally and that fact alone made us want to change our negative aspects that we both brought to the relationship….my possessiveness, control issues, and trust issues created a barrier between us in the early part of our relationship. I didn’t really let my guard down but because of the love we have he stayed and really helped me let the bad experiences I had with relationships go.(My first love was a gemini and it ended horribly so I gave my current bf a very hard time) Eventually he broke down the barriers one by one and he told me that I taught him patience. When we get along we really do compliment each other very well. When we are at a social gathering we definitely stand out (because we are so passionately in love)..but we love the attention. I love my gemini man! He is confident, strong, intelligent, creative, and he adores me. He tells me so everyday. If you are a male gemini looking to win a female scorpio’s love….don’t be afraid to compromise if she sees that you are willing to make things work she will let you into her world and be generous with her love and her passion. Peace and blessings to all scorpio/gemini relationships!
I always say it is based on your chart and not just your sun sign. So you should not say, ‘I’m Scorpio so wont get on with a Gemini’ because you may have things in your birth chart that are compatible with each other. That said, the sun sign always rules. Scorpio are too over powering for Gemini, and Gemini too fickle for Scorpio for it too last. Yes the bedroom is superb, but that is not everything. Scorpio detest the other side of Gemini and the way in which Gemini can read Scorpio’s mind with ease. TIP: Ignore the other twin of Gemini when he appears; leave him alone and he will go away a lot quicker. Remember, Mr Gemini does not even know why he had to appear either and also wants him to go away. The more attention you pay his Twin, the longer he will stay. Although hard to do, give him some space and leave him to his own thoughts. Mr Gemini will soon reappear and charm you all over again.
sometimes they never appear……… 🙁
Now what happens when these two come together?
Gemini is an Air Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. It’s all water and air coming together to form a storm, a tsunami perhaps! I’m going out with a Gemini man for few months and our relationship is like a roller coaster! There are so many differences between us. He likes to talk, very flirtatious, can be superficial, inconsistency and he likes to DEBATE and he has to win most of our arguments. Me on the hand, I dislike chit chat, I’m not chatty like him and I don’t really do small talk, he can adapt with everybody and I’m not, I’m quiet, very reserved and private. Sometimes I think I cannot really understand him because of his fickle minded and he can appear uncaring. When we go out, he likes to look/analyse everything (I mean every single thing) and everyone around him but me! When we are with closest friends, I noticed that he loves the attention and he likes to be the centre of attraction while I’m comfortable (or not) sitting right beside him. I think Gemini man is very much a mental sign, requires a lot of mental stimulus and very little of an emotional nature. Talking bout this Scorpio-Gemini signs, I feel too much Water dampening Gemini’s enthusiasm.. and too much Air can stir up the Water and create rough sailing for the relationship.
It’s ok to feel like you can’t understand him sometimes WhoIsScorpion? Express that feeling to him in words. And trust me just because he isn’t verbal about analyzing you..he really is! He’s trying to learn you…figure you out. Try noticing the things that he likes favorite food, favorite thing to do, it doesn’t matter…and then surpise his intellect by offering to do some of those things. He will be pleasantly surprised! Also if you feel like you can’t talk to him directly, take some time and write him a long passionate letter expressing how you feel. he will appreciate it. And that in turn will make discussing how you really feel just that much easier……let me know how things go…good luck
wow! i read all your comment but its hurt to believe. Im a gemini man dating a scorpion lady for 2 year, our relationship is full of fun thought we never had sex.honestly, We were both a bit flirty when we firstly met but, somehow we fall in love..! We are palnning to get married very soon. we share all our dreams ”hope God will help us making our dream come true”
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I am in afresh relationship with a gemini man. We started as friends asn were very open with each other about people we were seeing. Now that we have committed to each other I was worried that his unfaithful ways would haunt me but he has completely given up on those women and only is focused on me. He is so much fun to be around and he is always reinventing himself. His energy is what drew me into him. I can really see myself falling in love with this one…
I m in a good friendship with a Scorpio girl. We may be in love too. I m gemini. Hope this will help me too enrich our relation. I need more help. Plz any exp. positive good wisher help me– my id is [email protected] , byee
Im a Scorpio girl and he is a Gemini.. We have been in love for ever!! We just seem to know deep down inside that we are two of a kind. He always plays mind games, while I try and figure them out, once I figure that one out, then its another one on the way.. We love each other and I believe it will be a foreverlove thats whats important, we even decided to get saved, Its almost like the feeling of 1st love, we still got alot of work to do, but one thing is for sure, only death will separate us!
I have dated two Gemini men and they are my favorites. I find them endlessly fascinating, like a kaleidescope; like a multi-faceted crystal that keeps spinning before my eyes and never makes the same impression twice. I am easily bored, especially with men, as I find them to be quite predictable and tiresome, and I get annoyed with their shallow, ridiculous demands. But with a Gemini, I am constantly stimulated intellectually, and never, ever bored. I also like that they don’t pin me down; they accept me as a bold, sexy woman; they are never threatened no matter how I choose to express myself; I don’t have to watch what I say because they don’t have that annoying fragile male ego, and they love challenging, stimulating encounters. I have never found that with any other astrological sign. Geminis do tend to be hypercritical, but that’s just because they demand the best in themselves, and expect the same from the lucky girl deemed worthy enough to be their lady.
No. just no. Biggest mistake ever. I actually read somewhere that more Scorpios marry Geminis than marrying any other signs – how on earth do they let this happen?! I know we are all about conquering things…but I have never been so uncomfortable and insecure in my life…complete waste of time. NIGHTMARE! (I even tried dating one more to see if it wasn’t just a one-off…and this time…I almost needed therapy!)
My first and only love is a Gemini. I dated him for 3years but i messed up and it ended. I am madly inlove with him. We’ve been seperated for almost 6months now but theres still the connection. Dont know how il ever get over this.. I love my Gemini.
hi evryone!!!
i seem to b falling n love with a gemini guy….and im a scorpio girl…. on reading ta abv cmments..im n a dilema wether i should cmmit r not…help me….
This post is great and excitingly accurate! At the end of the day, it can work, but it’ll take a LOT of effort, compromise and communication. Been with my Gemini man for 7yrs.
@anon…is there a good communication habit between the two of you? look at Valeries post she be so wise.
…This one is a real messup.idk how i even got into this one. it just happenened.lmao.
hey guys (: i love reading these posts because they are so interesting. i have been dating my gemini man for 2 months and he said i love you before i instantly said it back. But then i decided that love just can’t happen after only 2 months of being together so i took it back and he understood. But i can’t think of any other word to describe how i feel. I am obviously a scorpio girl with all typical characteristics. jealousy definitely being one. and he doesn’t mind. I can’t help but feel like I’m denying myself the right to love someone the way i know i do. Why?? Please help
Got to know many things about a Scorpio and a Gemini couple but the thing that really matters is love i am a scorpion girl and he is Mr. Gemini and there is everything in our love, passion, faith, trust as the each time we meet it seems to be the first time excitement, every night i spend with him feels like the first night craziness…….. but all we have to say is we love each other and even death cannot take out the love from our hearts towards each other……..
hi m mr.gemini and my girlfrng is ms.scorpio i want tyo marry with him but somebody say is not possible gemini and scorpio married life. they say u have mryutushadatak yog so dont marry with her. please give me solution..
Jus met my Gemini…i am sceptical. But everytime I see him, I feel easy going. He makes me so comfortable and wanted. Dont know where its heading, but I will put forth effort and try. Complications and all. He makes me feel hopeful, like I have something to look forward to. 🙂
So I am a Scorpio Woman, who dated but never loved the Gemini guy. He was there for my entertainment and my need to conquer. I did kind of like him but my heart is with another man. Anywho, I found him in bed with another girl and we broke up, he was so EVIL when it happened. Then a week later I found out I was pregnant by him and now he has disappeared. I saw his car parked outside of a black angus and badly wanted to slash his tires.
OMG im a cancer and he is a Gemini and it was soooooooooooooooooo BAD.I have never felt more bad about myself than I did with him. 🙁
why does it say 50/50? lmao… and also gemini and libra are the best! not scorpio! libra and gemini are match made in heaven
I’m a scorp and he is a gem we have been off n on going on 4 years this month n I must say that it has been a deep long testful 4 years but I must say we love each other deeply n no each other well n have a over all strong connect of love, partners, n friendship which is worth the trails n tribulations…… so hang in there if your heart n mind says it’s worth it.
I notice a lot of negative feed back on these relationships, and it seems to scare a lot of people. I’m a scorpio woman in a GREAT relationship with my gemini man. any man can be a cheater, not just a gemini, mine, clearly only has eyes for me. he’s not very open about feelings, but a lot of men aren’t. i have STRONG scorpio traits, and he has some, Gemini traits (he’s loud, and can be quite fun, and obnoxious lol) but all in all we have a wonderful relationship, 3 years strong, with nothing but honesty.
I am a true scorpio in and out of love with gemini since I was 19 and he was 26 ….I am 36 and his 44.. we are compatiable but that damn twin surfaces all the time with another agenda…I honestly luv him and always will but I love me more…he can be selfish, arrogant, underminding, flirtatous, chauvanistic…these are traits that all gemini men possess..so if u can’t deal run away, especially when he states he loves u
Well Im a Gemini , and i really fell in love with my x girlfriend a scorpio girl but its too much she fucked up the relationship by cheating then thats when i said f it and cheated on her 5 times as much. Sex is fun theres always alot of sex between the 2 especialy the gemini man we horny as hell lol. but scorpio women like to be in charge and that doesnt work with a gemini these 2 together can be really scary especially when the scorpio women brings out the evil twin of the gemini man .
In The beginning u might think shes the 1 for you and u might even think “hey” im gonna marry this girl but once ur together for to long and have spent alot of time with each other it hardly works out. Good word of advice take ur time getting to knoe the scorpio women dont rush it cus it could backfire and next thing u know uve just entered ur worst nightmare
After my divorce, I dated a Gemini. it was like he was my kryptonite. The way we would fight over any small thing was horrible, but the making up and the amazing times we had together was my addiction. Neither of us ever wanted to admit our jealousy. When it would seem that he is no longer interested, another guy’s gaze in my direction was all it took for his rage to have me and make me his. It was games back and forth but I always anticipated his next move. I knew exactly what his reactions would be to any game that we unknowingly played. When we had an honest and emotional moment one day, he said his life is black and white but I am his grey area that he doesn’t want, but he can’t shake me. That was the most exciting time of my life. We were given the nicknames: Chuck Bass and Blaire Waldorf (Gossip Girl). I’ve blocked him from my phone and have no contact, but when we bump into each other and decide to have a drink it’s like nothing has changed. It takes all of me to walk away from him and not leave with him. I smile for days after I’ve seen him. His best friend has told me that the same happens to my Gemini when he sees me.
Currently. I’m in a 3year off and on with my Gemini man…. he possesses. All of the Gemini traits but I love him inside and out he’s my best friend my lover my everything since the beginning. It’s Ben long distance and I like it honestly I’ve gotten to know him for him determinants Scorpio trait of being lured to men by sexual attractions in the beginning. It was just sexual with pictures n naughty text but now we never talk about stuff like that its just on a emotional level. We plan to be together soon once I graduate that is, currently I’m a junior. In high school. I plan to marry this man tho I love him like I’ve never loved before. I do not know what it is about him but I’m highly attracted yes he’s cheated and myself as well and at a point we have seen other people completely but we always come”home” as he says… home being with each other. The spark Yu feel as a scorpion a gemini. Man is breath taking he makes Yu feel beautiful and loved and excepted he is just wonder full it’s so hard to explain but not all feminist are the same and my fellow Scorpio woman son the tempted to giveup when things get difficult to stay and work for each other makes life all worth while.
7 months since I’ve been dating a Gemini man, first time as I usually run from them. My Mr. Gemini is so charming, intelligent, interesting and loving. At first he was mean to me, I was too sensitive, for some reason everything he did hyrt my feelings, I was so used to having my way. We are in love. He gives me strength, hope and enjoyment. He keeps me laughing, I enjoy looking at him.
Im in love with a Gemini man and I am a Scorpio woman of course. Ive known mine for over 5 yrs and everything that I’ve read about our bond is true… even the comments LOL! Very grateful for this! However my Gemini man is currently mad at me for something I forgave him for in the past… and even though I feel like he is gonna forgive me I don’t know If I should show him that I care that h is mad at me … or just give him space? really need help with this one! As a Scorpio women I can be pushy impatient and impulsive seeking revenge sooooooo im kinda biting my nails right now lol please hel[
Yes,the above comments are true,I’m also in love with a Gemini man & he is as hot as hell,we are in a distant relationship ,its on & off & everytime we meet it always feels like the first time,the sex is wow,he satisfies my scorpio appetite,he always make me weak @ first but when I get in the mood of things I take over the whole session & he let’s me have it my way for a while then he will show me what he’s made of,I love my Gemini man cause there’s something about him that I can never get my finger on..
After reading above, I had to share this. I am a gemini man and I met a Scorpio lady when I was 25. She was nearby my age but she was way more matured than girls of her age. She was wonderful and I loved every single moment I ever spent in her company.
In my experience I know, that girls around me are always interested in me but this scorpio girl…although she was interested in me i know that..but she always stayed aloof. In the starting she acted interested in me (there was instant attraction and love was in the air) and she initiated conversations but I was not so sure of my interest in her so I stayed my natural self and talked to even other girls too. Then after sometime she started keeping distance from me. Looking at me, she would start talking to other random guys (I know she was not interested in any of them) and would look at me to see my reaction so as to make me feel jealous. I am a strong jealous type so in the beginning although i had no feelings for her I slowly and gradually developed very strong feelings for her. She was one of those rare people whom you know will make your life more blissful if they somehow enter your life. Now, whenever I would try to talk to her she would say little and stay aloof. Then finally I made up my mind to propose to her although i knew it will be a disaster. I proposed and she coldly refused. After that I never looked at her again with those loving glances of mine. I left her for good to let her figure out what she lost. And then after few months when I came back, there she started it all again..those loving glances from her and at the same time trying to make me feel jealous. I don’t know why she was playing with me but I really did not want to talk to her again. I am a kind of a guy if a girl says ‘no’ that means a no. Although I have known more beautiful girls in my life than her who were nice to me but still when I look back I know that feminine charm which she had, that grace, that elegance, that poise, the passion she had for us was unparalleled. I will not use the word ‘beautiful’ for her rather I will use the word ‘wonderful’ to describe her. She was all-in-all a wonderful experience.
All this lasted for 8 months and it was some of the most wonderful time I ever spent in my life. I hope to meet another scorpio woman in my life but as fate will have it I don’t know when it will happen.
Am a scorpion woman nd ve been dating my gemini man 4 5yrs now,but lyk all de scorpion nd gemini affairs, it is on nd off. Sumtym i feel e loves me nd sumtym i felt e dosnt give a shit abt me. But de problem is dat, since i know dis swt gemini of mine, ve not been able to luv any oda guy nd it is really affecting me.
I just recently met my Gemini man. And he is BEYOND extraordinary. The way he attracted me was very strange and I can’t explain but I just happened to fall for it. Very quiet at first with his words and actions. But I feel with my crazy Scorpio ways I can get that side out of him. I’m 20 and he is 27 and honestly being into older guys, he’s the first older man I can actually say Im into. Hes so sweet and kind but I just hope that we can make this more than a crush. I like my Gemini man a lot. And we seem to click on so many levels and have so much in common. I love what we have so far .
I’m a Gemini man, and I’m fascinated with an African-American Scorpio woman. She’s beautiful, sexy, mysterious, and has great fashion sense. If I were in a relationship with her, I would totally do my best to make it work.
As a Gemini, I’m tired of being accused of being fickle and unfaithful. There are many Geminis that are actually faithful and eternally romantic. I am totally romantic, and again, I would love to make this relationship work.
Also, Russell Brand and Katy Perry were a Gemini man & Scorpio woman couple.
Thank you.
I’ve been with my gemini husband for over 10 years. High school sweethearts. 3 kids together. But we have too many ups and downs. Sometimes our signs seem switched. Because he is the jealous one and I’m the one trying to hold back and not get so angry. I kno that I can hurt him verbally but I don’t want to. It just seems like it isn’t gonna last when we aren’t on speaking terms. But when we are going good things are wonderfully great. Cloud 9 great. Like nothing can break us down. I hate how confusing it is. And in the beginning I wasn’t even into him. But it was an old friend that tried to get w him that I had to make sure he was mine. I have never even told him that I didn’t like him at first. A mutual friend brought us together. Till this day she says she thought we would have never lasted this long. Sometimes I wish I could let out the stinger and give him everything but I think it would ruin us. And badly. If u r gonna be with a gemini then u HAVE to hide that stinger. Or it will never last.
What in God’s name is going on in this comment thread? Is someone having a manic episode or something? Maybe a bunch of deleted comments? I’m crying.
Im a Scorpio lady, who not to long ago fell quite hard for a Gemini man. We met thru mutual friends, and after he met me he kept asking for me, he got in contact with me! I was surprised how this man found me again! So we started talking, we took things slow! I really liked him for that! He didn’t rush things.. he didn’t call me babe or baby or anything like that till’ a month later, we kissed like a month later as well! I was 100% positive he was going to me his:-) Well, honestly…I fronted myself into thinking that:/ he would act HORRIBLE WITH ME! One day he would tell me all these nice things like ‘I fell for you because you’re an amazing person’ and the next day he would use this short-talk-I-could-care-less-about-you! It really crushed me! I got attached to him sooo much! He would make me feel comfortable and everything.
I guess I just got use to him because he wasn’t like no other guy that would call me babe or baby on the second day! Ugh! Then I would get suspicious that he would talk to these other girls! and I would ask him about him because I’m an extremely jealous person! And he would be SOOOOO good in denying EVERYTHING! And there I go back to him): Turns out he was talking to a Libra behind my back! I asked him and he said there was nothing going on, I got fed up so I stopped talking to him…3 days later…he made that Libra his girlfriend): I was in total PAIN! Ive dated a Leo before and it didn’t turn out so good. He stopped ‘loving’ me like in the 8th month of our relationship. & besides I didn’t like as much I thought I did. Then I dated a Scorpio. We didn’t have nothing in common. He was to mysterious. He was too clingy Idk WHAT I saw in him.
Now I’ve met this Pisces man. Oh my god! He have this WEIRD connection from the first day we met! We have so much in common he seems to make me laugh so much like no other guy! The problem is that, he’s to slow to realize what he wants and to see the strong feelings I have for him. Its weird, I feel like I’ve known him my whole life. We’ll see what happens with him ..
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If forever wasn’t only a dream to you… If you cared that long… Loved… What would it have been like? I think everyone has their own idea as to what forever looks like with them…
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No one, I mean absolutely no one makes me feel this way ( and I’m glad its only ever felt with my amazing gemini)…NO ONE under the sun, moon and stars, above or below the clouds will ever take his place or replicate this perfectly sculpted mold….not ever! I love me some him for ever and for always, through good times and bad, for better or for worst…..for he is the one my soul loves.?