Libra Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility
This is a nice power couple where Libra can compensate for the sometimes otherwise raw intensity of the Scorpio. She is attracted to power or she wouldn’t be with a Scorpio, but she can provide the niceties and social mannerisms that grease the skids on their trip to the top. Even the hottest couple needs to make some friends and allies. It’s not that Scorpio hates other people; they simply don’t know how to extend themselves socially.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Scorpio Man:
Leave the dark glasses at home and look like you care about what other people think. This lady is socially plugged in because it’s important to her to have a social network and it might be important for you to borrow hers someday. Try to appeal to her through as much logic as you can possibly summon or better yet be openly appreciative of her logic. This lady is the greatest for feedback. You are not used to sharing your plans and schemes with anyone, but with this woman you will quickly find out there is an advantage to it. Two heads are better than one if the other one is a Libra.
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Libra Woman:
You are attracted to him because he’s powerful, so don’t hide it. Show him that you can help him build a winning strategy. If he is willing to share with you a few of his personal goals, he’ll catch on quickly and come back for more.
Degree of Romance:
Libra’s idea of romance is a rather superficial sentimentality such as observing Valentine’s Day, both birthdays, and Father’s and Mother’s Day if appropriate. She is businesslike about her romantic expectations and yet he may still find it difficult to live up to her standards because of his general social ineptitude.
Degree of Passion:
Libra will tend to squelch Scorpio’s passion, but overall that is probably a good thing. When fate draws these two together, it is without doubt for Libra to temper the tumultuous emotions of the Scorpio.
Degree of Friendship:
These two are not particularly inclined to be friends with one another. In fact if they don’t meet on some potentially romantic wavelength, their paths are not likely to cross at all. Once coupled, they can accomplish a lot together, but it will be as harnessed working partners and not as friends. The camaraderie of friendship in this relationship is replaced by a complex system of checks and balances for secret purposes known only to the couple themselves.
Degree of Marriage:
There is something very karmic about this combination. If the couple meets at all, the chances of marriage are very strong because there is something that they must accomplish together. Time will reveal what that is.
Progression of Relationship:
Black and white. Black and white. Yes. No. Maybe. There is something both cut and dried and extreme about the progression of this relationship. If the couple does survive, I would expect there to be several serious break ups during which time the importance of the liaison (or not) becomes clear. This relationship, above all others, lends itself to extremes. It is an inherent pattern with these two.
Sex:
Sex may be something Libra concedes to Scorpio in order to gain in other areas of the relationships. She may use his powerful sex drive as a means of controlling him, presumably for his own good. It’s all in her head and this just makes her the more desirable to him.
When It’s Over:
This relationship is likely to end bitterly and finally. There is little chance of negotiating a truce, friendship, or “agreeing to disagree.” This is fine between two grown adults, but when children are involved it would make you think twice before committing. Break ups are not as likely as you might think because both parties are able to live a lie if there is a greater purpose.
This bit on Scorpio/Libra is so on point with the Libran female being a cardinal/masculine sign and Scorpio men being just plain chauvenist it is very difficult . The plus is he is so deeply passionate 1000 power . Very protective and very brilliant ; he is who I want period . That’s my final answer.
I’d go for that 1000 power, too, Olivia. Aren’t Scorps the living end?!? Just don’t even ever think of messing with him, ok?
Nancy the problem is he is very strict and suspect in regards to me . He refuses to let me have my way with anything ; thinks I have to much game. He thinks I am messing with him all of the time and I’m not . He has finally broken me down to tears and the crazy thing is I still love him. He makes it appear that tears means nothing to him. I have already been stung a few times. He wants total control and won’t have it any other way.
It’s a touch combination because you expect to be treted as an equal. You didn’t tell me what keeps you there. What are the good things? Scorpio does a lot of “testing” like this and can certainly be control freaks.
touGh combination
Oh man I just stumbled across this..I can relate with Olivia..Scorpio’s must have their own way at all times..they think u are toying with them when that is not your intention..and they can bring you to tears and seem to care less.. I too was stung by a Scorpion..Its like they have two sides..one is very passionate and loving and the other very unpredicatbile and complicated..and they are so damn stubborn..but there is something about them..I think its their power and passion and once you get them to open up they start to feel confertable, you can get a better understanding of how they feel..as they tend to be always on guard..Im a Libra woman who loves a Scorpio man..and it ended very bitter…
I am Libra female who just ended a relationship with Scorpio male. Our connection was amazing… mental, physical. But he was very needy/clingy/suspicious. Six months into relationship, I caught him cheating with an ex. He denied everything. Never apologized, never explained. In fact, he blamed me! Bitter ending indeed…
My ex-boyfriend is a Scorpio.
I was surprised when you said that this is an unlikely friendship combination, because now he’s my best friend. I don’t know, unique situation I guess.
This was so true i wonder have you dated every sign there is or just asked other people for their experiences.
I think I have probably dated every sign. Thanks for the great feedback. Please tell a friend.
Yea I went out wit a scorpio guy and he broke my heart, by cheatin on me since he asked me out, we were together for like almost 2 months and i found out by a friend gettin suspicous every little hint came in…and then i actuaaly saw them…together…it really hurt but i had no idea why but i still loved him…i think im gettin over him now because im happy but maybe im just hiding my feelings….?
Sounds like all the women here have had experiences with the scorpion scorpio. There are different levels to a scorpio BTW.
At Kevin: I am intrigued. Can you explain a bit more?:) thank you
I first want to say I’m a Scorpio male. Im in love with a libra woman. I guess you can say we broke up. I just graduated college and have been stressing to find a job so much to the point it’s driven into depression. During this time I have been neglecting my libra woman mainly because I didn’t want to be bothered. Also I didn’t want her to see me like this. This went on for about two weeks untill I guess she finally got tired of it. I’m lost, don’t know how or what to do to get her back. I love her I know that just had a little selfish stint and now I’m paying for it. I don’t want to appear weak by texting or calling but that’s what I feel I should do. Idk please help. (libra women)
Text a d call her
I am a Libra Woman and to Charles, you should reach out to her. Libra Women love to be adorned with attention but they are also stubborn. Even if she is missing you dearly – SHE IS NOT GOING TO CONTACT YOU. So the best thing you can do is contact her and tell her exactly what you are thinking. If you don’t, she may assume that you do not care about her and will look to erase you from her mind…
Im a libra woman. Call her if you love her. Libra woman love being chased, and we require men to fight for us if they want to be with us. If you are honest and humble, and tell her what is really going on with you, she will respect and appreciate that, and become more calm, and willing to speak to you amicablly. Then you can start to rebuild your relationship. Try not to do this again. Libra woman become bitter, and dont fall for a fool twice.
Why is honesty weakness? Do what you FEEL, and be HONEST when you communicate with her!
I am Libran & expect a Scorpio to be man enough to step up.
If you want to win your libra girl back.. send her flowers.. a card..something to show her she is in your thoughts…
that simple move will open the door back to her heart.
oh my, I should stop commenting since I am a sag and not libra, but there is this Link with Scorpio and tears.. being the sag woman that I am, I HATE display of weakness (tears imo) and after a long winding painful debacle, he made me cry, openly… it happened months ago and was one big pivot in our relationship journey (there are many others :D).
He made me cry in front of him, on my birthday.. and with tears running down my face, I remember I said (‘shouted’ is perhaps more apt), to him ”thats what you wanted, Happy Now,, you wanted to see if you can hurt me, well yes.. you can and you do have the hold on me to HuRt me.. bask in your glory.. have fun… you made me cry on my birthday you &(*&^*(&* … now leave me alone, for I despise men who find joy in my pain, thats sick.. be out of my life”..
he left and we broke up, he seriously contemplated leaving me for good, in my mind, I was already done with him.. well, he did come back and made it up for me some weeks later, and No, he never made me a single bit in pain since then. He has mellowed down a lot, and I do not think he wants me in emotional/ mental agony, for he knows I am not going to live with that.
I guess scorpio NEED to see strong emotions; rage, fury, pain, obsession, mindless acts of passion.. are OK in their books, rather BASIC requirement to them.
One thing that I can say to anyone who is dating or has a partnership with a scorpio is *Do NoT hold back on psychology*, yes,,, all that you think and interpret from his behavior, e.g that he is controlling or curbing your style for he is insecure…etc. No matter how painful the revelation, TELL him as crude and as rude.. here is a guy who actually listens and applies knowledge somewhere and remodels himself to suit his lover’s requirements,,, but the drawback is *HOnesty Begets Honesty* with this man, so be prepared for facing your bare-soul-picture too. 😛
A sag can take critical analysis and apply to betterment as well… that must be the LINK that binds sag and scorp, if its not sex 🙂
HI
I am a libra woman, and not showing her attention and notletting her help you through your stress pushed her away… CALL her if she loves you she won’t turn her back on you!!!! Im involved with a scorpio man and jus recently he is opening up to me…JUS A LITTLE (LOL) It’s a start. His best friend said that was Good and for me to be patient. GOOD LUCK!!! BTW i have known my scorpio for 3 years!!!!!
*I’m a Libra woman with 4 planets in water signs, for what it’s worth*
Charles, I think that you should call her and explain things to her, if she will listen.
Being a Libra myself, I tend to forgive people at least once if they really are sorry and are genuine when they apologize. I don’t see it as weak. On the contrary, it takes a lot to fess up to something. A weak person could never admit it if they made a mistake. That’s just my own view of course, but my point is that your Libra might not see apologizing as weak–she might, but there’s also a chance that she’ll see it as strong.
Also, if it helps, I myself made peace with a Scorpio friend that I had been enemies with–I never thought that it could happen but things are even better now than they were before our falling out. So, there is at least some hope for any Libra/Scorpio pairs out there–friends or otherwise–who have been through some rough patches.
Good luck out there to any Libras and Scorpios who want to reconcile with each other!
I’m a scorpio male with a libra woman – 20 yrs married.
Absolutely love her in the scorpio way. She is classic libra with an aries Moon. Sex is absolutely amazing, fiery and passionate. Always has been and that has been the only consistent thing we can say. We were young, determined, but still feeling our way out through life when we married. We are now starting to allow ourselves to be our true signs. Unbelievable but true. I’m finally accepting who I am after going to the gutter to find out. Still not completely comfortable with it but I’m finally at the point where I can appreciate people for who they are and not be so negative. It gets hard sometimes because I know how debase and sinful humanity is especially knowing my own nature. I really don’t want that and from what I’ve seen, after being out there, Libras on the other hand have the sense to know it and still stay classy about it. They just want you to love them with constant affection and adoration but…..they need to see you have balls. They pretty much like that mafia mentality, be bad on the outside with everyone else but not with them. They need to be treated like queen’s without the dominance. It’s complicated but I finally found out how to make it work without comprising my true nature. One thing for sure, she’s been tested…….and that’s all I wanted to see proven. All good with me for now – she’s still an Aries Moon so I’m sure I have a lot more to find out…………..gotta say though. She keeps things interesting and knows how to play at my level now. Hope it doesn’t end but if it does it’s been worth it….
@Levin Amazing! The Aries Moon really helps. You are so lucky to have each other!
Hey y’all it’s me again… I took your advice and it worked. Unfortunately I’m an idiot. I screwed up again. How can libras be so final? I love this woman to death and yet I always seem to shoot myself I’m the foot. At first she wouldn’t text or call me back then she finally just told me that we weren’t meant to be. I recently brought her flowers to her job put myself way out there and she basically said she appreciated it but she wouldn’t budge. The whole ordeal was stupid. Basically I want to know where do I go from here. Do I continue to “proove” that I love her and serious about making it work? Is that what libra women want? It just seems like bugging her. Is there any chance of making it work? I want this so bad it hurts. I get mad because I feel she has given up and I’m still fighting for us. Got me doing things Ive never done like buying books like WTF.. Or should I just let her come back on her own? Y’all were so helpful the first time and I wanna know do I have a second or third chance.. Thanks yall
Reply to SAGILICIOUS….”I guess scorpio NEED to see strong emotions; rage, fury, pain, obsession, mindless acts of passion.. are OK in their books, rather BASIC requirement to them.” WOW!! Anyone and everyone NEEDS to read this!!! Thank you so much for that statement. This statement needs to be read to any woman trying to date a scorpio male! Im a scorpio and i need to know ur willing to DIE for our relationship. Im already married to you after the first date. Passion X1,000,000 is and understatement. I dare any woman to find someone like me. Strong emotions are not speed bumps, they are the fuel that power any relationship with me. If i even talk to u, i love u on some level. I met a libra woman the other day and i cant stop thinkin about her. She is intriguing, very attractive, the way she walks is sexy, everything we talked about we related to in some way. I feel like she is going to light my fire. Im a bit scared but ready for this amazing rollercoaster. that is if things get off the ground. Im in love
Hey yall, its me again unfortunately. I tried writing from my phone but it didnt go through for some reason. I followed your advice and it worked but unfortunately I’m an idiot. I’ve lost my libra again and i dont know what to do. All this happened on the 9th of july i recieved a text and i completely overeacted and said some hurtful things and was stupid enough to go to my ex’s house though she is my good friend she is not liked at all by my libra. I did all of this to get a reaction and when I got one it was not what i expected. She didnt return my calls and text for about a week. She text me we werent meant to be. Couple days passed, so i hand deliver flowers to her job. She text the next day saying that she accepts my apologies but happy with where she is at. Im lost yall. I want to let her know how much i want this to work. Its been a month since we split but about a week since her last text. I texted twice since then… no reply… I have honestly never felt a pain so deep. I wake up every hour, wondering if someone is laying next to her. Cant eat. Head constantly hurting. Libra women… are you forgiving? what should i do? I feel like i should just leave it alone but I’ve heard if you let a libra wonder to far they’ll be gone.. Do I keep texting with no reply like a pshyco? How far do I have to go?…. Or just let go… I dont wanna hurt anymore… I just want my girl back…Thanks yall
Hi
I am also libra woman. I was dating with a scorpio man for 9 months. I was extremely attrative to him. I am the one who worked very hard in the relationship but we finally broke up. During this 9 months, we had 2 breakups. I was hurt badly in the relationship. He did not cheat on me at all. The reason we broke up is that he could not move forward from his past relationship (3 yrs ago) who exgirlfriend hurt him badly since he loved this girl very much. Because he could not move forward from the past, he could not give me all the love that I need. There was always something prevent him from being in love with me as the same way he loved his ex. During these months, I was not happy at all. But it was very difficult for me to break up with him. Everytime I borke up with him, I am the one who came back to him. Finally I decided to like someone else so I could leave him which it works. Although I am with someone, I think I am still in love with this sorpio man but I know for sure it is for the best not to be with him. I square to God. I will not ever date a scorpio man again.
Levin – I am a Libra in love with a Scorpio Man – you said you tested your wife…how, what do these tests look like? I know my guy is not easy but I think I understand him. I want to know if this is just him or is he intentionally testing me in some way????
So what do I do?… Do I keep trying? She has told me if we were meant to be it will be but how is that when you dont at least try? I too was dealing with an ex. But I dont like to hurt people so I was trying to let her down softly. Me and my libra actually started messing around together while I was still with my ex. I just wish she could have seen us through. But I guess I took to long I should have just cut my ex off cause I am deeply hurting. I find no other women attractive. All I think of is her. We met face to face to what she said “end things” but left with both of us in tears. It seems like she was forcing herself to move on. Love is not logical sometimes it doesnt make sense and you have to take risk. I hate that it took this for me to finally realize what I had all along. I too test relationships. I might say something like “lookover there babe there go you a handsome white guy” just to hear her say “he has nothing on you” which I didn’t hear in return a lot of the time. Which made me think to myself “are you really in this. On the outside Im calm and cool when truly inside I’m on fire with love. I went from 196 pounds to 175 pounds in one month. I have taken myself to the ER a couple days ago for the doctor to tell me Im suffering anxeity attacks and stress. She is truly killing me slowly and I dont think she knows. She has a lot of friends and a lot of men that are attracted to her that have so far done a good job entertaining her. When we broke up four days passed so I went to visit my ex just to distract me from thinkin of her. Messy ex puts it up on facebook. This is when the real breakup happened. My libra, well my use to be libra doesnt trust me or maybe she never loved me because she is determined not to let me win her heart back. Will she come back in time? What do I do now? Leave her alone? I have done everything in my power to let her know I am sorry and want to make it right. Im not a pshyco and respect her or, any woman for that matter, to just pop up at her house or we she is at. As I read back over this it seems kinda pathetic I know. I just need some help. Im 6’2 athletic build, never had a problem getting women, i usually get approached by them but I only want my libra. I want her bad ya’ll. Is it over?
And to mimi… How can you force yourself to like someone else if you love him. Thats stupid. If he is serious about getting you back, let him in. If he aint well idk. When you are dating a scorpio you get out what you put in. If we dont feel like your all in we will become hesistant and start to think “ummm idk bout this one lemme detach my emotions and go through the motions”. If you let it be known that you want him and has your heart then he will jump. You have to wait out the storm with scorpios we put relationships through trials and tribulations to see who will wait out the storm and when it clears its smooth sailing. On the news its the people who held onto the tree during the flood that survives not the ones who let go trying to figure out how to get out of it.
Hello everyone… I have been in love with one scorpio man in the past and am falling in love with one right now.
The scorpio from my past was an intense lover and very affectionate, but was also a womanizer & unsure of my love for him which pushed me away. Now he won’t stop trying to pursue (I am now to the point of just ignoring him).
The scorpio I am dating now (2 weeks now ) is the complete opposite, is almost has if he is them male version of me. He is understanding and open (always volunteering information of his past and his feelings). He is affectionate and loving…. Its almost as if I found my yen. I keep telling him he is not a real scorpio (born on October 31st). My one fear is that we are falling for each other too fast and will inevitably break each others heart. I have been trying to move in a slow pace, but even this slow pace seems like its moving too fast.
wow, i’m so happy to have found this site and thanks to all of you guys for sharing. i’m also a libran and i believe i’m in love with this scorpio guy that i’ve been talking to. unlike you all, it’s a long distance relationship kind of thing. lately, i felt like he’s been so distant with me. we used to talked almost every night and all of a sudden it minimized to a point as of last night i decided that i will only reply if he text or call me cause i’m tired of being the ones caling and texting him. it’s killing me softly not talking to him at all but i’m holding up. i want to call and telling him how much i’m missing him and all but i’m afraid of being a lil’ bit too pushy. i know that we on the same page when it comes to our feelings but what i don’t get is how hard is it to just send a text saying i miss u or even hi and how much it can brightens a woman day. my question for you guys is it ok to tell a scorpio about ur feelings and your expectations from him? how can you lay it down the right way? or should i just keep everything inside and just try and ignore him so i won’t go crazy cuz i’m tired of crying my eyes out.
off topic, can you fall in love with somebody you haven’t seeing in person?
Thanks for nothin y’all I really needed y’all support but it’s working out anyway.. I forgive all of you.. She is back in my life to a certain extent and I’m happy for just that.. To barbie I’m not sure… Long distance is a tough situation.. All you can really do is tell him how you feel but y’all being distant he has probably realized that nothin will become of your relationship.. Scorpios love to be re assured so don’t let pride get it in the way of speaking what you feel.
i’m happy for you charles and please learn from ur mistakes and thanks for ur replied
@ charles by learning from ur mistakes i meant it’s time for her to the all the talking and you need to hear her out and understands where she’s come from and be honest
Thanks
This is for Barbie. I’m a Libra female living in England who is having a long distance romance with a Scorpio in Arizona We have seen a picture of each other amd we email and you know what they like is the personal touch of a hand written letter. He gets one a week 3-4 pages. We are planning to get together in the UK next August for good. We have been doing this for past 3 months and all is well, a but slow on his part but we know we want to be together and I’m 14years older than him. Give it a try and be honest , Good luck Barbie. Will put my thoughts up for you
Charles you see we are very honest and we trust people. We are very faithful to our partners but s**t on us to often and we get fed up and want to move on . So stop doing stupid things , throw the ex to the curb don’t darken her door and concentrate on you lady for this might be your last chance .Listen to her wants and needs first and try and work things out .
Good luck
Thanks Christine. I need to just give a real shot. I have doubts about her love for me because everything is very lighthearted with her. I don’t know if that’s just a libras nature or what? Idk I’m just gonna dive in.. live life no regrets! One life!
@charles.
I’m new to this forum so bear with me :). I too am a libra woman who’s been with a scorpio man for almost five years now. There were times he tested me in the beginning of our relationship which almost brought it to an end. I’m not sure about all libras or any other sign for that matter, but what I can say is that we absolutely HATE being tested. It’s the equivalent of insulting our intelligence. If you have her back in your life on some level, do yourself a favor and don’t play games. Leave the ex alone. People can say all they want about the scorpio temper but a libra scorned is nothing to play with-trust me. The good news for you is that she must love you on some level. If not, she would not have given you another chance. Good luck to you, and once again, if you love this libra woman, kick your ex to the CURB.
@ Val
Hey thanks… I do love her very much. Just wanted to ask you or any libra women for that matter, Why does it seem that her love is not deep. Is it because of ya’lls
free spirited nature. At times it doesnt seem as deep as mines. I love her and Im thankful we are back together. But at times I feel like I compromise a lot of who I am. Is that what it gonna take, or is just gonna be like that for a little while? Do you find you and your scorpio dis-agreeing on little stuff? And how is the sex in 5 years lol? As a scorpio I just need a little reassurance of a stable relationship.
@Charles They aren’t deep because Scorpio is a water sign and Libra is an air sign. Scorpios feel where Librans think. Scorpios connect and bond where Libras detach and distance themselves.
@charles
Yeah. I know what you mean about the whole dissagreement about little stuff. That happened a lot in the beginning of our relationship too. We libras just need our space at times and as far as the love is concerned, she must care for you if she took you back. And I do agree with Nancy as far as how libras “think” when it comes to relationships, however, we are still very, very emotional people, well at least I am anyway. Idk about you guys, but the times I’ve shown my scorp true emotion, he didn’t know what to do, lol. It could be because my moon is in taurus and my rising is in aries but i’m not sure. With regards to the whole compromising stuff, all relationships require some type of give or take. If you feel it’s going to far on your end, have a talk with your libra about it. I’m sure she’ll hear you out and try to make things work. As far as the sex goes, it’s actually gotten better with time so I lucked out!
thanks christine
I finally had a chance to spend time with my scorpio’s guy. Now, my main concern is that he’s not really coming straightforward and tell me how he really feels about me and if he’s willing to take a chance with me? I’m really affectionate towards him and he’s not really that affectionate towards me. I’m nnot really sure if it’s actually the way he is or maybe he’s not really into me like i’m into him. but, whenever we’re intimate, i can tell how much he’s really into me by the way he kisses and touches me but besides that he’s really vague and it bothers me to the fullest since it makes me thinks maybe we only have a sexual connection that’s about it. I would like to know, what others way you can tell if a scorpio is really into you and how to ask a scorpio questions without them thinking you’re trying to control them. thanks ahead of time
@barbie
It’s really hard to know a scorpio’s true feelings at times. I think the best advise that I have is to talk to him about the way you feel and ask him how he truly feels about you. If you guys are sleeping together, he owes it to you to let you know where your relationship stands. But, before you do ask, just be prepared to hear something you may not want to hear. Although scorpio’s are “emotional” and they “feel”, just know they can be really cold when it comes to feeling and opionions that are not their own. I would also suggest to be firm with him regarding what you want from the relationship and don’t let him bully you. Good Luck.
Barbie, I’m in a sort of same predicament as you my friend. I’m fond of my current scorpio crush, I’m a libra female. He and I are inseparable when we’re together. He unfortunately lives about 1 hr away from me so when we’re apart..I wish he’d put more effort into contacting me during the day or letting me know he’s thinking of me. But through many bad break ups, I’ve just gotten to the point to where I don’t chase men anymore. Regardless if they’re a scorpio or not. We all know Scorpio’s are charming and very passionate. Sex is what they’re great at, because they display such passion during the act. Just go about your day and be hesitant to get fully involved with him. 🙂
hey i am a libra woman, and im just interested as in why everytime i meet a man its a SCORPIO!
When y’all say “we (libras) are faithful to our partners” how faithful are we talking about here? We talking semi-faithful where they might exchange numbers every now and then with someone or faithful like shut out anyone who pursues them. It prolly varies from person to person I guess huh.
@ charles, i’m a libra and i’m only faithful when i’m really into a guy. by faithful i meant i don’t give out my numbers out and i cant find anybody else attractive but him…….whenever i feels this way thats when i know i’m in love with that person or else i will give my numbers out to any guys that i find attractive and see where it can leads to. also, just cause i give my numbers out doesnt mean i’m really going to talk to him….lol
@ val, thanks for the tip and i’m about to text him right now to see where do we stand?
@Sashagrl, i wish you the best with your situation. i’m at the point in my life that i just want to close the door one every man and just focus on my life and my relationship with God. I’m getting tired and sicked of crying for nonesense. I, honestly do wish you the best and God bless
@ val, you are definetly right and i actually follow exactly what u said. i told him how i feel and i asked him bout where do we stand and his response was i’m too far away and he can’t have serious feelings for someone who live this far. i already had a feeling that it wasn’t going to work out but i’m glad that i was brave enough to ask him all of my what if questions instead of keeping them all inside and wish that i told him ….now i got the closure that i need to move on….
this question is for the guys, why do you guys say things just to say it and can never back it up? remember that woman starts fallin in love through her ears and that’s how this scorpio’s guy got me. I, honestly believe he meant what he said and wants in the begining of our convo. i think he got scared and he just pulled back or he probably lost interest since it’s a long distance thing
when im in love i am extemely in love and devoted. i have respect me bf even if he says he doesnt mind me filrting and giving out my number i dont because i know that if i do someone else is able to catch my away from him and then ill probably stop liking him etc. so i dont open doors like that when i love someone. im like a kid trying to resist candy or something lol
What is the best way to win back your Libra? My situation is very unique. I will tell all our whole story. Let me know if there is anybody willing to help me, and I will tell you everything down to the T.
If you’re up for studying it in greater depth, you may want to look at your decanates. This is the influencing sign within your element based on which of the 3 10-day blocks of the sign you’re in. An easy way to calculate it is just to know that the 1st decanate is your own sign, the physical aspect, the 2nd is the next on the wheel in your element, the mental aspect & the third is the last same element sign, the spiritual aspect.
Simply put, You Are, “THE BEST”
clearly you are gifted with writing, but more importantly you have an amazing understand of the interaction between signs in so many areas of life.
Thank you,
I was a little more optomistic about me and Libra getting back together last time I posted. But after not hearing from her for almost three months now after repeated attempts of putting myself out there, flowers, text, letters, calls I beleive I have to let go. I know it’s nothin for y’all Libras to cut feelings and move on so I believe thats what she has done in these past three months. Its like she doesnt even think of me? I admit I messed up. But there were alot of things in my gut that didn’t feel right. And if you don’t know Scorpio’s gut feeling is dependable most of the time. But still I ignored it. I love her very deeply and she is my first ex that can say I wasn’t the best boyfriend they’ve had. I left a really good girl for her and don’t get me wrong Libra could have been too. But I can’t deny that I turned a blind eye to a lot of her mistakes and downfalls because I was in love. There were several times I caught her in lies, chillin with ex’s with my own two eyes, smelling “sportin waves” on pillow cases smh I’m stupid. but she would just deny deny deny until I just gave in because at the end of the day I wanted to be with her. Been crushed before by a Taurus of five years she cheated and got pregnant and lost my apartment. Still took her back a few months later with another man’s baby in her belly but she left again. (She wants me back now). I was scared me that I loved Libra deeply. Whatever I felt for Taurus X 10. I was nervous about the hold she had over me. All I could think of was last time I felt this kind of love it didn’t end so good. Which resulted in counter productive actions for the relationship. Weird I know but its the truth. If you really want to know the story I’ll tell it. It’s the only way yall might see where my head was at. As of now I just want to hear that I’ll be alright. I mean I know I will but would like to hear it. Does time heal? Does everything happen for a reason? I cheated for the first time in my life on my Pisces and left her for my Libra and the guilt of seeing someone who never did anything wrong to me suffer had my mind confused for over a year now. I loved my Libra though. To this day Pisces is still right there. I ask her why? And she just says she always will see the best in me. SMH f**&^ing confusing. All the while its my Libra I wish would see the best in me. Happy Holidays to yall. God bless.
Yea, pisces ladies are well known for their unconditional love. With the libra however she may expect you to prove yourself to her in some way. Make sure the communication is going well with her before assuming she doesn’t care. Anyhow, it seems like you’ve been through a lot. & you will be fine, if you believe it, & I believe it too, Chuck. Just hang in there & things will become clearer when you turn up the understanding dial few other signs know we even have. Good luck.
How can I prove myself when she won’t communicate with me at all its been two months? She graduated college today. Family in town, friends everywhere, and to add to that she is in a sorority so she has all the attention Libras would kill for right now. I don’t what to do. Are libras known for dating past ex’s later down the road? Cause that may be my only shot.
And when you say we I assume your a scorpio too?
wow. starting to like a libra gal and i now totally see how we would be together to accomplish an incredible and challenging project. but i also need sexual satisfaction. and i gather this relationship could be dry in this area causing me to only be that much better at my work??
Libra gals? can anyone share about your strengths as a sexual partner for a scorpio male?? ie: can you satisfy??
thank you!
hey..! am a libra woman..in love with a v.v.sweet scorpio guy. had been best friends for over 2 years..and a v.v.beautiful love bloomed.. 🙂
he is v.friendly, v.v.loving and loves to socialise with all my family & friends and does everythn i need n gr8 on the bed too!! OMG! it sounds totally shocking wen i read this article!
Libra women pls watch out! der are a few wonders too! 😉
this has an extremely low score for some reason. I have seen this pair work though but the scorpio must have several libra planets
Well its been four months since I’ve heard from my ex Libra. Should I consider it a done deal?
hi,im a libran been off and on with a scorpio for 3 years had a baby with him 6 months ago, and its like he show little interests in me and my baby. he has changed soo much from how we were a year ago, i feel soo lost and i still have love for him in a way, but i dnt dont know if he does. i know that he a person not to show anything but its hard on me.i dont know if i should stop talking to him and move on, or jus let him come when he wants. He changed his number and i dont want to ask for it. He comes when he feels like it.And if i want to move on he turns up so i feel like im struck, i feel trapped., coz i dont know where i stand with him. can anyone help? does any1 know why he is like this. i think he is back with his ex babymother.
hi charles, knowing myself she will come back, when she is ready.she jus finding herself and wondering where to go in life.it takes a couple of months or years sometimes to come around. hope that helped. xx
ceecee,
ask for his number and ask what else is required, atleast for your baby, money and his presence…
.. dont be timid now, you should let him know your genuine needs and dont think that will make you less desirable,
best
ss
Wandered on here and am curious…..as a Libra woman, I have been seeing a Scorpio man for a short time. We have a great time together and have started sharing personal information about past relationships, goals, etc….it started as a friendship until it became sexual. Both have said we don’t want a relationship. It feels like it is progressing, but both of us are stubborn and are sticking to our story about not wanting a relationship, even tho all our friends see us as together. Anyone have any advice? Don’t know whether to say something about the progression, or keep my mouth shut and wait for him to say something.
And for the question about whether a Libra woman can satisfy a Scorpio man? The answer is yes. We have an active, imaginative sex life that is incredibly satisfying for us both…..
hi nichole, from my experience, i told my scorpio, that my feelings for him are deep, he was going on like he didnt know, but he says that we are lover n friends. But he may not tell you anything but say he likes you alot, scorpios dont really show their feelings. But it depends what month he is born because october scorpio will let you know more then a november scorpio.But you will never know unless you tell him.
CeeCee. If you want. look over my past post. this has been an ongoing situation. And this last break up was my fault completetly. I screwed up bigtime. With that being said is there still a chance? Like i said i havent heard from her in months. I stopped calling a while ago but even then she didnt answer, flowers, letters nothing. Im afraid she might have another man already and is probably trying her best to make it the best thing possible. I think about her all day everyday. Everyday gets a little easier but idk. I really want to right my wrongs. She wasnt perfect but she made life worth it. lol…. You know how you libras are. Cant never be yalls fault and if it is yall shrug your shoulders and say oh well. Do i let go. Do i call one more time?
Hi charles, i just read all your messages and my babyfather is in the same situation like you. He was with his ex while he was with me and he has been doing this for 3 yr, and he keeps going back to her after she hurts him,and i felt like i was trapped with this on and off going partnership.I just had his baby and he seems to have changed but i know he has feelings for me and i not sure where i stand with him, and i’ve wondering to just move on, and i love him sooo much but i have to do whats best, but it seems everytime i see him i seem to fall for his charms and i dont want too! i believe that if you was to go to her house, (not saying you should) then she would probably take you back, but once we come to our senses we will, find someone else and it will help us move on, if she is with some1 else, then when they do break-up then she would more likly to come back to you. If shes not, then she will not answer your phone calls until, she feels lonely and bored she will call u or text you back, as long as you havent hurt her badly. I wish my scorpio would show me how he feels cause, i really want to be with him properly! i hopefully if you do take her back look after her as well as he does for you.
I think if you dont phone her she will, (hopefully) phone you. when you leave her get her own space. i really hate when my ex will keep phoning me and i just want to be left alone for awhile, to know where im going, that would push me away. You dont want her to push you away completly.
Well see thats the thing. I did hurt her badly. I respect her to much to invade her space more than I have already. (left a letter on her car). And I too beleive if I seen her I could get her back and i think she knows and is probably why she didnt answer back when i was calling. we have different circle of friends and different styles of life. We met by fluke lol but the chemistry was there from day one. Im a scorpio and once we get get lied to or crossed thats it your cut off. But I loved this woman so much that I ignored the fact my boys caught her in her exes lap at bar. Ignored her other ex at her house when we broke up in the summer. Me…. a Scorpio ignored all this. Made really timid to truly commit especially since leaving a pisces for her. Looking back i should have just jumped. But hind sight is 20/20. I havent called in two months. I want to call. But with valentines coming up I dont want to fuel her getting close to whoever she maybe with. I hope i didnt push her away trying to get her back for the prior two months. Maybe I’ll hit her up in a month? idk. I wish she can see the changes I have made. If anything holds true I know I been low on love before and came back stronger and better. And I look back and say “dam i was trippin” Granted this has been the lowest obviously got me on this site gossipin with yall females. But yall have been helpful and as long I care for her you’ll probably hear from me again. Scorpio will rise again. Beleive that! (just wish she was by my side when i do lol) happy valentines to all the lovely libra ladies out there! I’ll be in touch…
gud luck 🙂
you to babe> charles
I agree. Im a female libran, if im single u see a social butterfly that is hard to be ignored (which we are well known about), but when i personally am in a relationship, i devote myself to that person, and i love to get from that person: (ATTention, APPreciation & AFFection) I guarantee that this will be enough to keep our eyes, heart and soul (what a scorpio love to possess in a women) that will keep us away from whomever no matter how good they look like!
On the other hand, ocassionally being a flirt is us just being nice it is part of our social life, a way how we are linked to the others since we are a couple we want U to be there ur presence is important in our mind most of all.. near or far to steal the thunder from Brad Pitt or xyz and we have no doubts and believe that a male scorpio-partner- is capable of doing that! and look at us boosting ur pride in a diplomatic way that will knock ur socks off (and for that we will show u stars!!!)
I’m a libra woman and I’ve had feelings for a scorpio man
Since day 1 when I met him. It was like love at first sight,
He actually introduced himself to me as I hang out with his
Same crowd but
All we’ve ever been were friends.
I feel like maybe he just might feel the same but I don’t know
He’s always on my facebook likin stuff, msging me pics of
Himself etc
I would love to just know how he feels but don’t think he will
Ever admit it
Can’t help how I feel about him though, his eyes feel like they
Pierce into mine, he’s always staring me.
Never once tried to make an inclination with regards to how I
Feel, I’m too afraid of rejection!
Anyone knows how u can tell when a scorpio guy is interested ?
Would really appreciate it 🙂
localgirl – I am a libra female with a scorpio male for about nine months. Pretty much everything I’ve read has rung true for us save a few things. It’s been my experience (and I admit he is my only scorpio since they’ve always scared me relationship-wise. Sex-wise they’ve always intrigued me!) with MY guy that he was VERY reluctant to persue me. In fact, I pretty much had to persue him. We also were friends first (that seems to be common?). We got along so well it seemed odd to me that he wasn’t coming on to me. So I asked him “um, should we go on a date?” He was so surprised and he NEVER would have suggested it. Turned out he had been IN LOVE WITH ME for years! I had no idea! So how to tell if a scorpio male is interested in you? You have to ask him. At least he won’t play games with you (ie: you’ll get a straight answer). By the way, I love my boyfriend but I would NOT do this pairing again. It’s too much work. This kind of communication does NOT come naturally to someone like me (I am a TRUE libra! I like to TALK!!!!)
Hey charles when is ur bday.I’m a libra and I’m wit a scorpio I cheated on him because he was so mean a d arrogant to me.he told me he would never take me back but he did but this has been o er a month and he keeps throwing it in my face.I love him but it seems like hiz friends come first he’s very stubborn and has a bad temper.I mean I do everything for him.he plays mind games n I feel muself about to cheat again.but charles libra women require dominace.we need a lot of love and attention.we hate weak guys.lay off her for a min shell soon start to c that ur the one and trust shell fall in ur hands like putty.libra like attention and romance in relationships.
And we love being center of attention.scorpio sex is amazing it wasn’t the sex y I cheated I didn’t feel loved and I cheated wit another scoripio man.it seems I only attract them or something.my bf bday is november 17.libras problem is we fall to quick.and now I have him back and he’s being an extra jerk I havve yet another scorpio chasing after me and I’m startin to get attached.lls.really don’t wanna cheat on him again I want it to work he just keeps being a ass
I’ve read lots of interesting comments and most I can agree with 100%. I just started seeing a scorpio and he is very intense, which I usually shy away from but I’m so drawn to him it’s scary. As far as feelings, he’s already let me know, without any hesitation, how he feels about me so I’m glad I don’t have one I need to pull that info from. This libra loves a dominant male and he gives it to me. I even dated a scorpian female (yes I like them to) but the aggression in her came out as rude and arrogant. My sensitive, libra self could not take that so cut it off.
Rachel McAdams is a Scorpio not a Libra. Her a Ryan Gosling are both Scorpios
Me (October Libra) woman and my love (November Scorpio) man have been date for 3 years. In this coming September will be our 4 years anniversary 🙂 Our relationship was like a best friend and at the same time as a couple. Some of my colleague thought that we were like sibling because of our surname are totally same :S but I don’t care all that at least our grandparents are totally different :D. In our relationship, we need a good communication, share ideas, faithful, loyal, understanding and of course, I show my love to him ;)..if we have a personal problem either big or small, we have to discuss it and together we find the solution..Libra love to hangout with her best friends. But before you go, you need to ask your Scorpio man..if he say ‘yes’..you may go and if he say ‘no’..just do it what he said..I know it is very hard to accept what he said..If you want a serious relationship you need to understand each other feeling..Scorpio is known as a very jealous person but he did not show it..Me (Libra) don’t want to mess around with his feeling because if you do that, he will revenge you in the end but not once maybe double or even triple..The most thing that I really attract to him is that he is very funny guy and love to make people laugh :P..I love to tease him btw lol :D..Now I’m really happy and very glad to be with him in my life and I really love my Scorpio man very very much and may our love grow from time to time..Lastly quote from me:
“Bad women are for bad men and bad men are for bad women,
And Good/Pious Women are for Good/Pious Men,
and Good/Pious Men are for Good/Pious Women”
PS: Sorry about my english and grammar..I’m not very good on it (^_^)v cheers~~
I am a Libra woman and I am heart broken. My 2 and a half almost 3 year relationship recently ended a few days ago with my Scorpio boyfriend. I am in awe of the whole thing because I was so sure that we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. We spoke about getting married and having a family of our own in the future.
In all honesty, we both really didn’t want to end the relationship because it’s too hard to let go of each other … but we both agreed that we had to.
I believe that we rushed into a lot of things, our communication could have been way better, and how we handle problems could have been way better as well. It just got to the point where we were focusing too much on the bad things in our relationship rather then all the great things we shared together. I think we took for granted all the great things about each other and just focused on each other flaws.
Never in my life have I met someone who I really connected with. We clicked and it was perfect! He just understood me on a level that nobody else has before. We had a lot of similarities especially with our families … it was crazy … and I really cherish that.
While we were together, I just knew deep down in my heart that he was the one for me … he was the guy that I was truly waiting for … he was the guy that I was going to marry and create a wonderful family with. I was done looking and never once thought about being with someone else. I knew what I wanted and he was it!
The only thing is … I was his first girlfriend ever in life. He was new to the whole dating and being in a serious relationship scene. He never had the opportunity to experience and date other women. Nearing the end of our relationship, he started to have these curiosities and thoughts about what it would be like to date other people. It seems like he is still confused as to what he truly wants and what he is truly looking for. He told me that when it comes to marriage … he really wants to make sure that the person he marries is really the one because divorce isn’t an option for him. I agree with this statement. When I marry someone, it’s for good … divorce isn’t an option for me.
Anyway, that was one issue that lead to our breakup. Another issue was I feel like maybe I depended too much on him given our situation at the time. Where I was in life, I felt so numb. Now that I am back where I feel more comfortable, I’m getting back on track and it’s only a matter of time until I start to get myself back together.
I have this very bad feeling that we won’t get back together :(. I’m trying my best to just get over him and keep telling myself that we won’t get back together. But another strong part of me is still holding on and doesn’t want to let go of him … there is this strange feeling that maybe we will get back together … ugh! It’s all so confussing!
What should I do?!
I really, really, really can’t stand Scorpio men. Yuck. Run far and run fast. And preferably as soon as you see them coming. So dark. SO heavy. They’ll latch right on and want to be having all kinds of ridiculous intense moments….no thanks. And they’re weird about money.
Heavy and dark. Heavy and dark. TOTAL buzz kill.
you got the birthdate /astrology sign of rachael adams wrong.
she is a scorpio, not a libra:
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/PwxyUHtc7Ldw.htm
Born: November 17, 1978, 12:00 PM (unknown)
in: London, Ontario (Canada)
Sun: 25°00′ Scorpio
Moon: 28°20′ Gemini
the only couple that is correct above that is libra/scorp is gavin and gwen 🙂
the best thing to do for you libra gals out there is to find a mature scorpio, i’m a scorpio and if you dont know much about us, well best of luck in trying to find out lol. anyway we have three main cycles to our maturity each are defined by a creature usually. the scorpion,the eagle, and the dove sometime the dove is compared to a phoenix due to the ability to rise from our ashes and fly yet again. the scorpion is a earth dweller usually concerning himself with no one else, he is selfish, un-easy, and a general ass. the eagle is when a scorpio finds wisdom, and can right his wrongs, becoming more in tune with others, and the dove is the final stage where he is for a lack of better word mature. i consider myself in the middle area between eagle and the dove. also you need to be aware of the lunar and sun scorpios both act differently one is less of an ass. anyway just thought you libra gals would like to know a little about us scorpions. it may come in handy sometime
Dated a Scorpio several months ago. It did not end well at all. Things didn’t even get remotely serious, and once he realized that I wasn’t interested anymore, he acted like a complete jerk.
Why wasn’t I interested? Well, I found him to be pretty arrogant and snobby, to be honest. During the few dates we went on, he had said a couple of smartass things and thought they were so clever. Such a turnoff for me.
He became involved with another girl shortly after we stopped dating. How do I know this? He made sure to specifically announce it to me. lol.
Now, with that said, my parents are a Libra woman and Scorpio man … And they’ve been married for 30+ years and they love each other deeply, so it’s definitely not impossible for this couple to work out wonderfully!
d only scopio ve me,despite we are attracted to each other tel me work work…talks about self control meanwhile our heart longs for eabh other.,what do i do?
i really love Scorpio men because i’m married to one but i’m not a libra. I just like to research.
i do notice that if the Scorpio man has Libra in personal planets and he’s venusian, and has Aries, (because oppoiste attracts) and if the Libra woman has Scorpio, or is dominant plutonian, it will work great.
There is a Libra Sun famous Singer, Avril Lavigne with Scorpio moon and mars, married to Chad Kroeger who is a Scorpio Sun, famous singer from “Nickelback” band, and he’s Sagittarius Moon, and has Uranus Libra and his pluto both in the 7th house of Libra (the house of libra venus) so he gets her.
plus both are dominant Scorpio.
another one:
Elizabeth shue (Libra sun/Gemini moon) and she’s with long term 2nd decan Scorpio sun male, with Gemini moon Davis Guggenheim.
It looks like since she’s a libra with gemin moon, that she can’t get with Scorpio right? but looking deeper, i saw she has Scorpio mars in the 8th house. and she’s dominant Scorpio. And he has 7th house.
they don’t have their rising but they get eachother obviously for so many years now and just fine.
scorpio men an women need to b wit each other cause HELL will wait on you 2 to set it off n bring libra doormat dumb ass in a black trash bag,cause they such a fool n this world n gullible i jus laugh at they kind ;( fuck the libra n scorpio n im 1 but not 1#scorpios not me but scorpios r slick but not as smart as aquarius or saggis but hate on anyone that is better thn they r libras are jus dumbass that need to b sent to HELL RITE NOW b4 the judge#HELL is really waitn on yall to fill its furnaces an you will#may your souls rest in hell#im glad i treat those particular people bad n have no mercy on thm at all#but Jesus will b your* final judge for UFOOLS#by the way Kill Yourself :()
If you’re a “typical” Libra woman… stay away from the “typical” Scorpio man.
In 2014 my cancerian gf left me because of my possession over her…..I was utterly heartbroken I fell in depression……in 2015 I was so angry with life and love and I convinced myself that other signs are better for me, I’ve been with a libra (she was fake), I’ve been with taurus(she wanted to control me!?!no way I’m outta there) I’ve been with a Pisces(she cheated on me with another Pisces!ho) ……. Now I’m single and I’ve had enough of these signs ESPECIALLY LIBRA WOMAN ew they gross and 2faced…..I just wanna be with my ex cancer who has moved on without me:( I convinced myself that I hated cancer women but I don’t…hate stems from love xxx I love them I want a relationship that was like the beautiful one I had in 2010-2014 only cancerians have what I want(and no I’m not talking about their curves;D) but their love……