Aries Woman and Libra Man Compatibility

Opposites attract and thatā€™s whatā€™s operating here. She admires his cool detachment and diplomacy. He adores her courage and initiative. Sometimes the excitement of an opposite cools off pretty fast, so go slow and easyĀ with this one.

How to Attract a Libra Man as an Aries Woman:

You can attract your Libra heartthrob by being all Aries — daring, courageous, impulsive, and even reckless! Just be sure and give him the space (time) he needs to return each volley before slamming another ball right at him. Show some of your famous independence. That will absolutely win him over.

How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Libra Man:

Libra is aĀ shrewed strategist who manages to get whatĀ he wants without alienating thoseĀ heĀ manipulates into giving it to him.Ā  Such a concept is fascinating to Aries.Ā  If you canĀ dangle this inĀ front of her, she’ll be oddly compelled to learn more about you.Ā  The trouble starts there.Ā  You’re indecisivenessĀ andĀ scrupulous manners will infuriate her by the second month of your relationship.Ā Ā That’s just about the time you become convinced she’s a barbarian.Ā Ā Ā But, if anyone can keep anĀ Aries on track, it’s a Libra.Ā  AlwaysĀ pushĀ back when she gives you a little shove.Ā  She wants someone she can respect.

Degree of Romance:

There is a high degree of romance at the beginning, but things will go sour if he suddenly decidesĀ she’s bitchy and castrating.Ā  Whether she is orĀ not, Librans like to throw out their disagreeable octopus ink resentment when they feel crowded. If this happens, thereā€™s little chance the relationship will endure becauseĀ the ram willĀ get mad and want to have it out,Ā while Libra willĀ do his famous duck and avoid, suddenly demanding that everything be civil and ā€œdecentā€ — no raised voices or grand scenes.Ā  Rams aren’t capable of such diplomatic manouvering in their personal lives.Ā  Whatā€™s the fun of relating if you canā€™t have a good, clean fight, then kiss andĀ forgive with all that greatĀ make upĀ sex?

Degree of Passion:

There is a moderate degree of passion. Fascination would describe it better. Thereā€™s a subtle role reversal that san be very sexually exciting as long as heā€™s secure and confident in his masculinity.

Degree of Friendship:

Unfortunately thereā€™s not much chance of friendship because, after all, friends have a lot in common and these two are, well, opposites. There are plenty of marriages where friendship is not the driving force, but itā€™s best in that case to have a lot of other things in common to tie and bind such as kids, houses, and traditions. One thing that can contribute to friendship is her willingness to pursue independent activities, which leaves him with the space he craves. Libraā€™s war cry is, ā€œI just want to be alone.ā€

Degree of Marriage:

Many first marriages are based on attraction of opposites.

Progression of Relationship:

The relationship will have a nice rhythm if he doesnā€™t take too long to hit the ball back over the net or drag his feet in the bedroom.

Sex:

Sex is interesting because of the background role reversal. If the Aries girl is turned down often enough it will inflame her passion beyond realistic desire just because it seems like she canā€™t have what she wants and she secretly loves the challenge. The Libran guy will be secretly astounded at the things she ā€œmakesā€ him do. He may also pretend to be shocked and disapproving of her boldness. Donā€™t buy it! Heā€™ll enjoy finally getting out of his head and showing some healthy animal instincts.

When Itā€™s Over:

This could end very badly when all of a sudden you see nothing but differences.Ā She ends it with fire; he with ice.

Our Rating: 5/10

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