Virgo Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility
This is one of those divinely enduring and compatible matches we all dream of in our most frantic moments (but most would find stifling if they really had to contend with it). Being two earth signs, the Virgo woman and Capricorn man are able to commit and persevere, essentials of a long term union. Earth signs are conservative by nature, the “placeholders” of society, and what everyone is talking about when they refer to “married, with children.” Nothing too exciting here, just maturity, duty and security.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Capricorn Man:
You’d probably gravitate toward each other in any gathering. Except that neither one of you is likely to be found “gathering”! The best way to run into this lady, therefore, is at work. She flirts a lot, but it’s absolutely meaningless. Just a way to keep the space around her inviolate yet not be rude. Approach her in a serious, mannerly fashion and you’re already miles ahead of the competition. She’ll find your shyness uber-exciting. Second, say what you mean. And for God’s sake mean what you say. This lady’s discriminating taste rises to contempt very easily. It’s best to start out with a workday lunch then escalate daringly to Saturday night. You can do it!
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Virgo Woman:
This man is used to hiding his interest to minimize chances of rejection. He plays indifferent (stuffy and businesslike) when he really lusts after just about every one. He will probably be delighted if you flirt with him and will eat out of your hand if you touch him lightly on the arm while doing so. It’s sensuality he’s after — not sexuality — so know the difference. A few blushes with averted eyes and he’ll want to keep you forever. Please don’t lead this dear guy on. He takes flirting seriously and could really be hurt. He doesn’t deserve that. Save your outrageous dalliances for the beefy extraverts.
Degree of Romance:
Romance is deeply ingrained in these two. Both are modest, self effacing, and inclined to put the other one up on a pedestal. Virgo, expect him to bring you a bouquet of violets or forget-me-nots rather than a flashy brassy dozen red roses. No, he’s not cheap, My Dear. It’s called class.
Degree of Passion: Expect two earth signs together to be, well, very “earthy”. Many a Virgo love goddess has graced the silver screen and a Virgo beloved can make her lover’s dreams come true. This is a woman the Capricorn man will absolutely cherish. She will be very patient with him. Just don’t expect to hear about her past (she has one), Cappie.
Degree of Friendship:
These two are rather self sufficient but they can be good buddies to one another, especially if they share a common responsibility. Both have impeccable integrity.
Degree of Marriage:
Excellent prospects for marriage after a “decent” courtship.
Progression of Relationship:
Protocol will be followed meticulously except when Virgo periodically goes off the deep end. At those times Cappie will be both fatherly and captivated.
Sex:
Would I be stretching it if I said earth signs marry to guarantee a steady supply of this commodity?
When It’s Over:
If it must end it will be death by Virgo because Capricorn couldn’t stand the guilt or sense of failure. He will remain awash in remorse, moody and depressed, probably because he knows he can count on her to (1) do the right thing and (2) clean up the mess.
Our Rating: 10/10
Am a cappie 30 in luv wit a virgo 18. She claims she luvs me 2. We’ve only had 2 romantic dates within 3 months. We cant see often because she is tied to her parents apron strings. I cherish her more than my other girlfriends but they give me more attention, love & sex than her. She keeps apologising for hurting my feelings & professing her love for me & yet she keeps hurting me by not making out time to see me. What am i gonna do to make her crazy about me to the extent of sneaking away from home to see me whenever i want her to?
i dont know how to help u ned.. i’m also having my own problem. Im a virgo woman.. interested to know my office mate who is a cappie.. I really like him a lot.. but he seem to secretive n hard to approach..
I dont know whether he like me or just treating me as if im one of him other office mate.. most of our conversation is about work..
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im a virgo woman i work w. a guy thats a cap. we became friends first then started going to lunch together etc…….. here it is 2yrs later and we just crossed the lines of being more than friends i can not stop thinkn about this man. sex….. comp. is great the friendship is still there but i want to hear him say he thinks of me just as much as i do when im not with him……. ugh! somebody help im tryn not to come on too strong.
Ned it’s not love and the relationship you two have isn’t healthy in the slightest. The way you typed your message, you can’t be thirty. But if you are, find a girl your own age who can make time for you in her life.
Well, I’m a Capricorn guy… Twice cursed! Not only my birthsign, but my personality traits sign as well… It’s taken 29 years of serious thought and 3 years of flying solo.
If there is one thing about a capricorn, it’s what we can’t have that makes us *click* & go for it. If you’re within reach… odds are you’ve gotten too close. No doubt you’ve seen this all too often. At the point of closing it and can’t seal the deal. I’ve blown by 3 perfect… I mean “perfect” girls just for the what if’s that plagued me. Now, I realize I should have given in to their demands. You can’t be pushy though… He’ll become “busy” on you. For the love of god! Don’t give in until you absolutely know he’s in your hands! If you time it right… You could have your guy in a matter of weeks. Because he (if he honestly likes you) wants the same things you want whenever you want it. No bs allowed… You’ll get friend zoned & we will keep on looking. So, now ya know! Don’t bring the pressure, just pry a little more and feel him out. Then move in! 🙂 maybe that will help capricorn guys understand why they mess up & learn that they’re not giving in… Instead of just wanting to giving their all.
**guy that’s 30 if you’re still hung up on that girl… Realize this, you’ll hurt that girls feelings. Be honest with yourself, she needs to learn her lessons from guys in her own age group.**
I want to know how other male caps feel about dating virgo women….does this relationship really work? Or should I move on it sounds like we would have a boring life together!
I have been with Samantha for about a year now. She is
a wonderful caring woman. The sex is great and she is a great partner.
Samantha is very frugal and more of a saver that spender…I like that!
Sometimes she can appear to be over critical and fussy but since I know her traits, I have learned to deal with her in a manner that pleases us both.
@Bill
You sound like a wonderful partner. I wish you and Samantha a lot of happiness.
@N
i was with a virgo for a long while,and i honestly have to say they are good women.havent met any attractive(single) one’s since.think about;would you rather have a dramatic rollercoaster w someone you possibly cant trust,or have the only thing to worry about be boredom
(which is entirely in your hands)
Im a virgo woman 38, who is inlove with a cappy male 39. Its hard for us,cause what brought us together was definatly out of the norm, and caused a whole lot of drama. He has a girlfriend now but we still keep in contact and talk daily. We have confessed to each other of being soulmates(but his thoughts on that is sometimes sm dont end up with each other.) I see that as a cop out sort of speak. @N i say go for it belive me it wont be boring. We are not boring but than again im not the average Virgo woman either. Good luck on you quest for dating a Virgo.
I’m a virgo woman that’s been with a capricorn man for 5 years now…..I have patience the size of Jupiter, but I don’t see a future with him anymore. He’s too childish and I think he wants to stay that way, capps are stubborn as hell, right? Besides, I’m in love with a capricorn, AND a cancer at the same time. What am I to do…..I’ve known capps for years and have made history with him, but it’s all predictable and boring now. Cancer man……I’ve known him for a year, and he’s so different and exciting, and I’m so drawn to it. Help.
I was very surprised when reading this because it seems to be very accurate. I’m a virgo woman and I met a capricorn man at an amusement park actually. We both weren’t “found in the gathering” like said in the compatibility essay. We each were in line at the back of the roller coaster and we didn’t have riding partners. My group of friends were paired up as were his. We didn’t have to sit together on the ride, but I wanted to. I then asked him if he wanted to be riding buddies in a jokingly, flirty manner and he accepted. He was very shy when doing so. We then got to talking and he still kept in his business like mode and talked about his college he was attending and I was instantly attracted. I then touched him lightly on the arm, like said previously, and he blushed. At the end of the ride, he got my number and texted me that evening planning a follow up date. This essay is extremely accurate in my book!
I’m in love with my capricorn man, well we both are! We cherish eachothers ideas and dreams and help eachother with whatever! We have one of if not the the most wonderful relationships! I future together is strong and we both know we will be together for eternity!
@ k your right i was just curious! I really like my cap but sometimes I don’t think he feels the same but it is cool whatever happens happens…..I’m in! And to Bill we virgos can be fussy lol, but just let us have our moments we will be fine after that!
@k
This is personal but I was wondering way did you and the virgo separate?
Am a Capricorn .. and am suffering for the Virgo girl i love ….
i did approximately everything to empress her .. and to fell in love with me ..
i know she loves me deep inside .. and am sure of that … but she’s not telling or acting like that .. how did i know .. by making her upset and she didnt want to lose me at any rate … but she didnt confess anything while she change the subject when i ask her …..
it’s hard .. totally hard not like building a house .. like building a tower !
waiting for my magical day ! “Wish That Badly :(“
I am a Virgo woman. Met my first husband (Taurus) the same day I met my current husband (Capricorn) 15 years ago. First, Capricorn and I were just friends but we had always communicated well with each other and had an unspoken attraction. Was married to Taurus for 13 years and finally divorced. There was fault on both sides but Taurus will NEVER admit his part. Capricorn came back into my life and it was an instant fit! I must say after all these years I can’t help but think of all that wasted time. We are ABSOLUTELY perfect for each other in EVERY way!
If its anything Capricorns hate, it is to be criticized. And if its anything Virgos do, its criticize…This is a match made in hell, two thumbs down, boring, depressing and terminal. My brother is a Capricorn and he was with a Virgo woman for (I think) about three years. She was a HORRIBLE housekeeper. Her apt was filthy, packed with plastic containers and old clothes and papers. She made good money at her job but she was always complaining about being broke. They fought all the time. My brother looked like a slob when they were together and he lived pissed off, always enraged about something and horrible to be around.
He broke up with her and it was hell getting rid of her, even though they don’t have any kids and they fought all the time. He has a Pisces girlfriend now with ALOT of Aries in her chart (Merc, Mars and Venus). Its like he came back to life. She is absolutely gorgeous, slim and fun. He looks his age again and they are so good for each other. I absolutely love this girl for my brother, even though I was against her at first because of her tattoos. I don’t think Caps and Virgos go well together at all. Cap men need a spark and they go gaga for femininity and class and thats just not what Virgos are about.
Hi..,i’m a Capri of 34 and I’m currently dating wz a Virgo woman (a Pharmacist)of 32.For z first time i wz working in my New Shop, she always hd to come n watch me in a lost manner,as if she is in a problem which she wanted to relate. I ignored her most of z times.But to my suprise I started missing her a lot when I got another job elsewhere.
since then I had to go to his wrk to see her..as we were both strangers.But since I droped a Love/Appology card to her..,she was attracted to me .
Nowaadays..she trys to find time to talk n care for me.We even went to a lunch..n there afterwe became best freinds..we communicate to each other so much days n night..zt she did nt even eared her husband..
I want o hv sex wz her…bt she always thinks in this matter..welll sometimes she ask me if i hv a car to go out wz her..
@Kiran Huddya Do you have a car?
The most horrifyingly accurate part of this essay, is the break up.
Heed my warning fellow Cap men:
If you find a Virgo you think is “too good to be true”, she is true. Don’t let her go because Virgo will help you think through the toughest times. After she’s gone all you’ll feel is clouded thoughts, remorse and guilt exactly.
Learn from the experienced, or suffer your own misdoings.
This is the best match in all the zodiac. I was 15, he was 22, instant magical attraction like we were just meant to be with one another. Always together and married for five years ours home is bliss. Whoever looks at us considers us the “perfect couple” they had ever seen. And no we don’t do PDAs but still…just the way we look at us and talk etc. We have found magic for this lifetime.
P.S @ Sam, my other Virgo woman friends and relatives and I are among the classiest woman you’ll ever meet. Not snooty but ethereally beautiful and “real” classy.
I am a woman virgo in love with a cappricorn man. We are like best friends talk about everything when we have time to set apart for just us, we both work well lets just say ALOT we are very loyal to one another, respect and honor each other. We just have past yuck we are still fininshing up, from mistakes we made in previous relationships so we don’t seem to have a real life just yet. When we do get our time it is so much fun with or with out kids they add spice to our life when we are all together. Just gonna take time to get life straightened up again before we can consider next level. I know I love his sweet kind heart, and that he is a very tall, dark and sexy man just makes this virgo woman want him even more. I love to be pretty and sexy but he makes me want to take that to a whole upper level, and I am cuz it is so comfortable for us no “weirdness” here in this relationship, Hummmmmmmmm
I am a Virgo women totally in love with a Capricorn man. He is a work collegue and we flirt a lot. The thing I find really attractive about him, is being so ambitous and shy and perfect. I am so attracted to him that I feek so lonely and my heart is aching when he is not around, I know we can be great together, but there is one problem, he is with a Sagitarius girl for almost 10 years. I don’t want to be the one to split them up and I know I should stay away, but I can’t help feeling the way I do. His girl doesn’t want to settle down with him, which after reading a few Capricorn traits is a must. I don’t know, just thinking about him now, makes my heart beat dead fast. It could be because I have split up with a Pisces, marriage after 4 years, because he was unfaithful. I love the chemistry between Virgos and Capricorns.
i am a Virgo Woman, Soooo much in love with my Cappi man.But we broke up 3 months ago. Still, i cant get him out of my mind.I broke up with him because of his attitude “COME & GO” i got tired of it. so i decide to cut my relationship with him…Sometimes in life we need to sacrifice something even tho its deadly painful to lose someone you love but we have to rather than suffering or wasting your time with someone you cant even sure how long it will be…..to all virgo girls gud luck with your cappi.hope you will work it out your relationship for a long term…..
Sam, why are you such a douche? my analytical powers just pointed out to me how you are coming on here trying to diss Virgo women based on YOUR BROTHER’S relationship. why don’t you get your own woman and talk about that, instead of trying to act like you know the ins and outs of your brother’s relationships? maybe it’s your brother who wasn’t the catch, ever think about that? it wouldn’t be too surprising considering that he’s related to you… what’s your sign? it MUST be Asshole.
Hello! I too am a Virgo woman in love with a Capricorn man. He’s 42 and I am 39. Never have I ever had a deeper connection with any man, as compared to my Simon. We are compatible with so many things, and even the sex is INCREDIBLE! Personally, I will put here that I am multi-orgasmic. I swear this is a curse, to be so highly arousable and sexual. I have been with men that have misunderstood this, and felt insecure because I am so into sex. However Simon has NEVER made me feel low or been insecure because of this fact. He is even more attracted to me because he TOO is multi-orgasmic. This is HIGHLY rare I have found out.
But it isn’t just the sex. We are best friends too, and we share everything together. I am a single mom with a severly autistic 8 yr old boy, and Simon has done wonders with connecting with my son. Simon is my soul mate and its interesting because I NEVER thought that I would meet and fall in love with a man like him.
Hello everyone. I am a capricorn man (cap. rising and cap. sun with a taurus moon) and I have just recently seperated from my virgo partner of four years. We have a beautiful 2 year old son together. We both fell madly in love with each other immediately when we met and moved in together within weeks. We had the best sex with each other that either of us have ever had. I had dated three other virgos before her but none of them were as special to me as she was. She became my best friend. I thought we were soulmates.
I lost my job and went back to school about a year ago and although I was getting paid well on unemployment, that made her the main provider of the household. This is where the problems started. I didn’t realize the selfishness she had untill this happened. And, before I lost my job, I was working around 70 hours a week as a kitchen manager (typical capricorn) and she only worked 24 hours a week and NEVER cleaned anything. She is the most selfish and untidy person I have ever been with.
Our seperation is exactly how it is described in the “when it’s over” part. She is the one who decided the terms of our seperation and how we would handle visiting our son with no compromise for what I needed in the seperation (I didn’t even get any furniture!). I can’t argue with her because everytime that I point out a fault of hers or something that is legitamately wrong, she retaliates with five of mine and then SOMEHOW this negates the fact that she ever did anything wrong! And I have tried in every way possible, but she genuinely does not understand that she is at fault for much of our situation. What I would do for her, she would not do for me. What I would do for my family and best friend, she felt that she didn’t need to do.
The hardest part is knowing how close we were (she was my best friend), and now we don’t say more than we have to to each when we pass off our child.
Im a virgo nice as they come.. dated a cap for a year. he came on sooo strong in thebeginning. fancy dates, returants, expensive jewelry.. then he ditched me on new years. then he became himself. distant cold stoic, heartless.. nothing i said was right. he criticized me. sex was robotic. he had a hot body but used it as if it was just sex not love. he was indifferent. mean almost. boring as HELL. never talked. I would ask him ques and he would give one word answers,, wouldnt see me as often..
he had told me he loved me after a month of dating. told me i was the one.. always talked about buying a house, a big ring for me.. I met his whole family.. then the whole thing just went stale. And it was his fault. I tried seeing him more talking… ect he was just a wall. I never felt true love with him. I felt like i was dating the devil. I feel he was also cheating.. he was on numerous porn sites, even escort sites,,, i never brought it up. THEN he has th nerve to tell me im the boring one.
meanwhile everyone thinks im sweet funny and fun to be around.
we broke up and im dating a gemini now… we talk constantly.
im not sure i believe in the pairings of astrology. I dating 3 taurus and it was a boring disaster and 1 cappy… all earth signs. all supposed to be compatible.
I dated 1 gemini yrs ago it was great i was just too young.. and now another gemini so far it seems good.
So maybe it depends on the person???? their upbringing? he was a problem child.. did drugs ect..
so who really knows. u just see if u get along. who cares what sign they are.
Hi everyone, this is the first time I’ve been on one of these sites.
I am a virgo (just turned the big 50), I am soooo in love with with capricorn man (53). We met on line on a dateing site. We hit it off straight away. We have only known each other for 3 & half months but in that time I have come alive again. We get on so well. We laugh and talk the whole time we are together. We want the same things in life. Only thing is he sees me as his best friend. We are best friends. We have been intimate a few times and it was wonderful. He is from a German background and is often saying sexy things to me in German, then translateing them back to me in English which I find so nice. We flirt with each other all the time. We are just so compatible, but I can;’t understand why when things are so good and we are so great together he doesn’t want to go for a relationship. I have 5 children, 28, 25, 22, 16 & 14. He gets on so well with all of them, my 14yr old lives with me and they have such a strong connection. I have met 1 of his 3 children and we got on really well. Are Capricorns scared of commitment? I sometimes think that because I love him so much, that I need to let go and stop seeing him, as each time we are together I fall more in love with him. The only problem being is that I can’t bring myself to stop contact. I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
Anyone got any suggestions for me, please??
Hello,
I am a 36 year old Virgo and have been dating a Capricorn for 13 months; I have been unemployed since we met, but have also worked part time, so he has supported me financially and I know Cps have a miserly/begrudging quality. I have asked when e would move forward to marriage, and he said we would once I have a job, which I am about to land. Now he says he isn’t ready, says he is afraid of my financial drain (buying organic items, not being able to cook..which I am learning). I am realistic about money, and despite my dream of a lush life, I know it’s better to be with a wonderful, ambitious man who cares about me. He does criticize, and exhibit some dark traits but I am a person who can teach him to think and act otherwise, and we do have a good relationship. I thought we were soulmates, and now that he says he isn’t ready to be married, that he fears about my money spending and because he sin’t where he wants to be financially, I told him maybe he needs to see if there is someone out there who will spend less and cook more. I feel foolish to abide by his timeline, as I will be 37 in September. Any thoughts?
hi . iam a cappie 24 with 26 virgo from 5 years. in start we are perfect for each other but now we alone but i kwn she love me too much. and god kwn i still love her extermily. i dnt kown why we are still alone n connected from thre months…….pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee do tell me any idea to get her back forever….love you my dear come back… i am waiting for you till i m alive..as your ego is not premitring you contact me as my ego….god help me…..
I met a Cappy male (24 yrs old) @ work. Im a cashier, he works @ a vineyard… Anyway.. He is extremely shy.. ANyone have TIPS on how to BREAK the ICE or should I be patient and let him do all the work? :P?
PS. As a Virgette, I have found the entire description of our initial relations as 100% true true true!
So accurate :P!!
Virgo n Capri’s r very gud match 🙂 if u wanna break his brick of silence try best to develop TRUST, once he develops that automatically he will be open to u 🙂 But remember these guys r very hard, if they c mistrust they will never look back 🙁
Well.. Weve never really spoken lol. Hes super reserved and Im suuuper shy so makin eye contact is hard for me because he’s so hot!! Lol. He makes me nervous even , so Im workin on bein a bit more approachable.. SInce we see each other only at my work neither one of us knows what to say or how to initiate a more personal convo.. :/ Help! Lol.
Im gunna go bananas if someone doesnt cut the bashful stage out :P. Maybe I should startout by takin a chill pill..
All of the Virgo women I’ve met and know have been the most critical, shit talking, always negative, never satisfied, boring, picky and annoying people…no wonder none of you bitches can’t keep your man!
All you fake bitches act like you’re ultra conservative ladies when in reality you’re the most scandalous!!!
Uh… for the Virgo hater, you must be hurt by rejections bad… not that judgmental i am… virgos are probably the most loving
for the virgo hater….i’m sure she is a woman who is extremely insecure towards virgo woman…or her man left he and live with virgo woman ..muaahahahahaha….
Maybe her Capricorn man leave her and be with virgo woman!!!…..
Whoa there. Virgo hater had a falling out with ONE Virgo and now he’s generalizin and hating ALL Virgos? The hell outta here with that.
Maybe if you’d stop being so stubborn and showed a little compassion and understandin things could have worked out differently.
And we are not scandalous at all. We’re very shy, humble, and reserved. And very lovable, loyal, and DEVOTED towards trustworthy people.
Get that sty out your eye boy
i had a capi man before and he is verrryyy flirty guy, he seems like he is dating all the woman around….but he kept coming back to me and hurt my feelings until i give up, then he is begging me to get back together…oohh boy, never again…now he is losing his face and dignity….verryy stubborn and selfish, soo cold and greedy…
HELP!!!!
How do I talk to a Cappy guy? Idk what to say or how to go about approaching him!
I’m also married to a virgo and i one or two things i see n your letter, ill definetaly concur, they’ll cheat on you and be very deceptive about it. i also notice if i’m not being careful my wife would have me do all the chores around the house and claims that she’s very tired.
Have capri step mom, she is a bad step mom and abusive..insecure and cheater.Her daughter is also capri, she is also abusive and very insecure.they well, my step mom did abused me when i was young.but i moved to my aunt my father’s twin.my step sister a. Capi, also insecure and she did physically abused the youngest siblings of her.I am virgo woman, these mother and daughter tried. To bring me down but i am a hardcore and hard to bet me that makes them more frustating lol..capri are the worst people i have been with in my life…i get. Along with my relatives and they are all fire and air sign.earth to earth supposed to be good together but i think depends where the persons up bringing.
Percy, why are you even commenting? This essay reflects on cap men and Virgo woman compatibility….not Virgo woman and cap woman
well, i couldn’t stop laughing at some of the comments in here. you guys should stop taking astrology so serious, i mean am sorry for the bad things you been through but its weird to associate it all with astrology.
as for Deb: am glad that new woman make it up for you. hope that lil baby comes with joy.
anyways sorry to get away from the real subject here, about the cap man and virgo woman, i only had friendships with capricorn men and in general they are nice men, great listeners and talkers, they always know how to comfort you and assure you that you are never alone, they are warm hearted men with a strong personality. i like that they are never fake and always very true and honest.
my respect to great Capricorns <3
Jesus!!!
Can anybody type or construct proper english sentences any more????
Good god I need a degree in gibberish to understand the most of this!!!
hi there,
i m first time here… but liked this website. the above description is so true about touching hand and You’d probably gravitate toward each other in any gathering. there lines are so true in my case. i m virgo he is cap. we work together… i know i love and i feel it he loves me too..but i m confused because there is another woman aqua works with us and i think he likes her too. he says bad things about her to me and he says he loves me ..i dont know if he is lying to me or what . i m trying to figure out but i get exhausted.. its like there are after each other and i dont know what is my role i know i love him. but i m not sure of his intentions……..any suggestions….?
i am a CEO Capricorn involved here in Los Angeles with a successful and lovely Leo Actress who is a Virgo Moon, Venus and Mercury. I am truly blessed and my Moon in Scorpio, Mars in Aires and Venus in Sagittarius with Libra rising loves this woman more than anything in the entire world. Muah! good luck to you all.
I’m a Cap. Lovin’ this article, too. Whoever wrote it, pretty much nailed it.
🙂
I say ditto to that too! I have been with two cappies and I can say there were certain aspects that made them easy to get along with, being a virgo, everything was there except the physical attraction. Now I have found one that is like the perfect match for me and I must say, you hit the nail on the head. It is like we were literally born for each other, AMAZING! There are so many things that we have in common that it is ridiculous! We laugh and play together, we work together, I get my space when I need it… I can’t say enough about us! I literally want to cry, with joy, because i can’t believe I found this perfect man!
i am taurus girl lived with a virgo girl for 4yrs. my roommate had boyfriend who was cappy for 5yrs and i knew both of them since they were kid. Everything was ok when they used to go out as a couple. However when they were married after 1yr of dating, moving in to our house, things began to turn as disaster….
But Firstly, I must say….. virgo ladies are very sentitive but not sensitive when they act on their ideas. i was pretty upset with my decision to let his couple in my house, because this virgo girl kept making noises even late in night, make masses with dinner party with her friends at home, Drink lots of wine, got drunk and never cleans kitchen (Although herself hates dust and germs). She nailed the walls of the house to change interior without asking me before hand, brought dirty(not clean!) carpets, secondhand vintage furnitures, moved things in living room without my opinion… Now, i am taurus and understand virgo’s nature. They are active, witty, teaser, leadery figure and creative, but many times they get fixed with their ideas and ideal images and take actions without considering others. Sometimes their cause of action was so selfish and self-righteous, i found them in many fights(and they are never scared to fight which is very great from my point of view)..
The capricon man, on my observation… was quite passive, responsible and rather be nurtured intellectually than emotionally. He thinks and acted, not much meow bow wow. HE loved the energy and praticality part of virgo girl. She was also a very good manager, me and her boyfriend was very proud to know her and of her achievements everytime. However, when he saw her problem he never tried to save her or solve her problem. i was angry when he left her alone, because i thought that’s so mean. But he told me that this was because he and her shares same problems and both of them do not know how to approach to the answers. i saw that quite cold hearted.
Also, i have realised when the virgos fall in love they get blinded and do everything for their lover, but it actually makes their lover a little hard,… Cos they take action first and do everything, then fight the other side by not give anything back or not follow the way they want. Her Capricon man often came to me and complained about “What she does is great but it is to fulfil herself, but none of them are truely for me.”
Anyway, back to the point, During the 4yrs of sharing a house with this married couple, i had to be their private cousellor or a house keeper while keeping my work going at the same time. They were both very busy and never have time for house works or proper communication. They kept guessing about how each other would think of themselves, building up unsatisfacted, unresolved problems and secretes.. i tried my best but…. you know i have notice that none of them want to ‘let go’ of self and ‘give in’, or open one to the other. They were ok until i was at home, cos i always delivered each other’s thoughts but when i was travelling for a year, they had a big big and long long fight about their own role in the house.
As Cappy man can be a traditional father, He does not help alot with house work. He can do it, but he prefers the woman to take the role, but i Don’t think Virgos are material for house wife. They are more like women who are very talented in many ways, like to roar like gemini girls. She needs emotional maid, not a strong husband who wants to control her, so she can go out and accomplish in outside world. That’s what she was telling me too. She told me she liked the cappy man when he treated her EQUAL, not a house wife.
Now they are divorced, both moved out, virgo girl got even busier than ever. i hope for their happiness.
oh btw please do not get me worng. i do like both of them.
i find virgo ladies very smart, mature and very accurate, cappy man as the same. Both of them as quite responsible about their works. But I was just sad to know that many virgo and cappy couples i met always ended the relationship quite badly…
They have a great potential but when they always talked ’bout each other’s problems but never led to answers. One cappy man, who i intorduced my other virgo friend also broke up recently and told me, “One morning, i woke up next to her and just thought that i had to break up with her.” Geezz….. i just think cappy’s too cold
Good luck ladies. sorry for my poor english…
I’m a Capricorn male and my first girlfriend was a Virgo. Our similarities made for instant chemistry, but that fizzled-out eventually since there was hardly any contrast. We are both submissive and shy so communication and problem-solving was a disaster! Our passion was only in the bedroom and our conversations never really went anywhere.
I am a Virgo woman and 3 years ago met a Capricorn man. We met at work on my second day and our attraction was instant. As we emailed each other, it was evident we were attracted to each other on many levels. We laughed a lot, and his charm and cheekiness won me over. We both used to talk of butterflies in our stomach and how nervous we made each other.
As we got further into our relationship, the chemistry deepened. But so did the darkness. His moods could cut shapes in the room and he was so possessive and controlling.
As an independent Virgo I used to leave his house to go back to my own for some me time and to catch up with friends. He would start rows with me and accuse me of seeing other men, so my free time would be spent arguing back. Everyday in our relationship he emailed me from start to finish of everyday, and texted me too. I never had time to do anything as he would get weird on me.
After 18 months I fleed. Sneaked out my stuff as we had lived together for a while. I’ll never forget the hysterical cries of a child begging me to come home when my stuff wasnt there. He said he didnt want to live without me.
You may wonder why I would stay but his charm and knowing how to push my buttons always won me back.
The sex was amazing, we made love constantly and spent most of our relationship cocooned in our own world like John and Yoko!
He cooked for me, ran baths for me, paid for everything, bought me whatever I needed, took days off work to take me to courses for my work….I’ve always known Capricorns to be generous. And he was. He would give anyone his last…
We even lost a baby together… 🙁
After fleeing the relationship, he gave up after the continous letters, phonecalls and texts were being ignored…he even threatened suicide…but he moved on met someone else.
They lost a baby together too 🙁 at the same stage we did.
Against my better judgement my heart went out to him. From MArch till May we emailed each other nice friendly lighthearted and humourus emails.
I declined invites to meet him as I knew he would win me back. I could never resist him and his touch.
What I didnt know is that his life was a mess financially, he had two timed his girlfriend numerous times and his dark moods had persisted.
On May 26th he was found hanging from his loft…
We had only spoken the week before. Everyone was surprised he did it – even his family.
I wasn’t. Guess I just knew. No matter what he put me through (and I was no angel either) – I truly loved that man and always will.
I’m sad I cant just contact him, but happy he’s at peace.
I am a virgo and have been with a capricorn guy for five years now. I think the above article does hit the nail on the head, although I did have a laugh when I read the bit about romance lol and the capricorn male being “classy” bahaha couldn’t be further from the truth in my situation, mine took me to freakin Mc Donalds for my birthday and we went through the drive-through and ate the food in the car lol lucky we are both earth signs that understand each other or I really would have had to open up a can of whoop-ass on him. He is also very moody and stubborn. The moods are very bad and I imagine if he was with someone from any other star-sign he could be violent. I somehow know how to calm his mood, even if he’s real fired up to the point of wanting to hit somebody/something I can calm him within seconds. Another point is that when one of us is angry the other knows exactly why without a word having been said. After five years we are both sometimes bored however its the first relatinship i’ve been in where there actually is 100% trust, loyalty, understanding, perserverence and acceptance of different values and ideology. Oh and lastly I must add that we almost never fight, the only thing that really grinds my gears about my capricorn is if I don’t cook, we don’t eat! So frustrating! Im studying so im often up late writting essays etc. and some nights I will go to a study group, well the other night I got home at midnight and my capricorn had joed out in bed with our 2 year old son (whos also a capricorn born the day after his fathers bday). My son hadn’t been fed tea!! it’s not often im not there to cook my son and partner tea but cum’on ya cant not feed a 2 year old tea at night. I know my capricorn can cook too because he used to when we first met! Other than that small fact I love my cappie he works so hard, is a great dad and not to mention a stubborn a*shole, he’s that stubborn and grumpy that it constantly amuses my virgo mind lol
Met Capricorn man on line ( I am Virgo female ) He told me to search compatibility of Capricorn man and Virgo lady, and this come out, We haven’t meet yet, because I am married still to a boring Leo guy (lol I know it wont last since I joined dating site) but we tex a lot at the moment, its just he made my day exciting will see what happen next 🙂
Men, i wished this was true, i fell in love with this virgo women in college and EVERYTHING you said about meeting was right on the mark, we met in class and it felt like a perfect match since we met at gathering 3 times, men was i shy, she was kinda too but shes very talkative so yea. Well we started talking etc etc… and the first date i was so tired from planning it all out, drove 2 hours to pick up my sister car and to drive it back -.-….. then she tells me lets go somewhere close…..but it fine at least were together. Times goes on and i cant stop liking her, she wants to hang out etc etc and lotal as i am, im always there, which i regret not playing hard to get. After a year i had tried to tell her i liked her but i guess i got into the friend zone and that pissed me off. told her i liked her and she tells shell give me an answer later since she has dinner plans with some people, pissed me off after seeing her with a dude……..right now i hate virgo’s but what can you do? billions of other people out there, you cant base it off of ONE event right? Well this really helped me out alot reading everyones comments. I was really hurt for about 6 months but Thanks to you guys in fine i hope lol. And yes capricorn are pratical i am really pratical and an extreme social alcoholic.
I agree there is this unspoken understanding, chemistry between the two. I’m a Virgo gal and met this Cap guy, it was lie i have known him for years and he tells me stuff about himself his past,hes very open and i’m the opposite i dont like talkin about myself and not open. I really like him alot and so is he. The problem is he wants us to have relationship yet he is with someone and has a child. It doesn’t sit well with me knowing he will be cheating on his galfriend with me. I see him everyday and there is something mutually developing between us. We kissed once just a light kiss on the lips nothing hectic. Please give me advice on what to do. Should i not see him anymore until he has made a decision on who he wants in his life or go with the flow?
Gotta find one of these virgo girls lol
I was married to cap iam a Virgo my cap didn’t help at all and was always on some sex web site I find caps to be sweet but moral respect no there we have children all Girls and he was always watching porn they will work but the finace is always bad with them they don’t know how to manage money at all ,they don’t know how to enjoy life negative is there middle name complain all the time Virgo and Capricorn not good match Virgo
Hello. My previous cap boyfriend kicked me in my ass, he only trashed me and used me. My current BF, he is a cap also. But his love of life, some amazing libra woman who left him, broke his heart and he can never love again. I feel like I am in an abusive relationship. I realized that he hasn´t recovered from his heartbreat all this time. Libra women are WH*R*S. Guess what, he doesn´t care about me, only talks about other women and flirts and he laughs at me, cheats at me, and his behaviour is similar to what his ex was like. Libra women, I hate them they´re all fake. He was a kind man, but as I told him that his ex doesn´t care SHIT about him, he turned to me angry and he still loves her, not me. I am only being used in the meanwhile, she is married and has a baby, but he has her phone number in his phone. He is waiting for his librian queen, who is only joking and pretentious. And I am a bad bitch who is only being used, and everything good I do for my partner, is turned against me and I hurt.
A broken capricorn is broken FOREVER, and not even a Virgo woman is enough for him, he just can´t handle the pain, and will never love again. Even if it´s virgo or taurus woman, maybe scorpio woman could manipulate and brainwash him in the good way, but he drinks alcohol – and still loves the memories of his amazing Libra queen, sho one night just broke up with him out of nowhere. Well, the only thing he can do, is cheat on me, and abuse me for the pains that other people did to him. Maybe if we met before his awesome Libra woman he wouldn´t be an aggressive brainwashed person, but this woman just made him a fool. And now I am the one who must pay for this amazing Libra womans behaviour. I just hate life. I don´t want a Cap anymore, these persons make themselves used by Libras, and they never appreciate Virgos. Or maybe it is just me, because I am cursed.
it is best to have a taurus woman and capricorn man relationship
I’m a Capricorn. My ex is a Virgo. She was quite a handful that one. She was loving @ first and kind until she showed her true colours. She would just get angry for no reason @ all. I mean she would not talk to me for weeks when she was upset. I mean who does that? She wanted to be listened to always but she never listened to what I had 2 say. Virgo women are the worst. The only good thing about them is that they are really loyal.
Hey , what do you mean virgo (does have a past). why I
mean that made me sad. I thought she didn’t had any ?
My Capricorn story hurts. I was married when we met out dancing. He’s a Taurus ascendent and me a Virgo with Scorpio rising–it’s serious physical attraction. Anyway, we kissed on this first night and then went our separate ways for a month. I contacted him and then we met up and began an explosive sexual relationship. I have never felt such electricity with another human being. We are from such different worlds–me Christian, him Muslim. Me financially stable, he starving artist. Me married, him independent and free. I have separated from my husband now for a whole catalogue of other reasons. He blames himself. He worries he can’t provide for me. He’s talked to me at length of his expectations for a long-term relationship. He does all the typical Capricorn hot and cold stuff. I hope that we can meet again in another life where we can be soul mates together without all this worry and strife. He’s constantly on my mind, a bittersweet tragedy.
I’m a Virgo man and I been talking to this Capricorn for over a month. Sexy AF mature low key and he knows how to eat some good bussy 🍑🍑 👅👅👅🌈 that brutha ain’t going no where🤎