Gemini Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility
A Gemini man and a Virgo woman can be fascinating to one another. They will never run out of things to talk about. Their view points on life are amazingly similar in that they are both observers of human nature and they bring out the tolerance in one another. They are equally intelligent and can share insights about the world around them. These are two people who process the world mentally with a certain detachment. The Virgo woman tolerates the Gemini man’s gregariousness while the Gemini man’s constant activity gives the Virgo woman the space she needs.
How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Virgo Woman:
If you’re a Virgo woman wanting to attract a Gemini man, try to convince him early on that you will be valuable to his career by keeping him organized and tying his loose ends. If you like this Gemini man, you will be willing to do the things for him that he doesn’t like to do. That’s your nature and it’s a big asset to him who can’t be bothered to do a lot of things. The Gemini man is very sophisticated so you should act polished in public, keep your hands to yourself, and take out your best manners. He’ll like witty repartee, so please provide this. Feed him some sophisticated commentary on the world around you and people you encounter that evening, and don’t hold back. He will be impressed by your astute observations and that you have the nerve to say some of the things you do.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Gemini Man:
If you’re a Gemini man trying to attract a Virgo woman, put your best intellectual foot forward. Don’t waste her time with small talk. Have something intelligent to say, about world events or current affairs, and make it original if possible. Keep your hands to yourself and act like a gentleman. If she wants more than that, she’ll provide the cues. It is best to be conservative because she will not be very forgiving of mistakes in etiquette.
Degree of Romance:
Virgo is one of the sexiest signs in the zodiac while Gemini has all the smooth moves. The courtship is likely to have a very romantic veneer that is pleasing to the sensitivities of both the Virgo woman and the Gemini man. The success of the early courtship may even turn on the right words at the right time as these are two superb communicators each of whom will appreciate finding someone of equal caliber to interact with.
Degree of Passion:
The Virgo woman has a way of letting loose when she decides to take her defenses down which can send a Gemini man’s head spinning. When two cerebral signs connect with such chemistry, sparks are bound to fly — much to the surprise of both. This surprise fuels the fire which builds higher and higher in spite of the cool collectedness for which the two signs are famous.
Degree of Friendship:
Gemini man and Virgo woman can make a very fine friendship. Virgo brings out protectiveness in Gemini. Gemini understands Virgo at a fundamental level and will give her the space and clarity she needs. In return, Virgo lends Gemini a willing ear at every turn. He has someone to talk to, and she has someone to listen to. This is a friendship that can endure.
Degree of Marriage:
This relationship is a very good one that creates a space for two intellectuals to pursue their interests. Children are a little bit hard to work into the formula, because basically people aren’t interesting to a Gemini or a Virgo until they reach the age of reason — about 8 years old. As a couple, the Virgo-Gemini combination may go in one of two directions: (1) They may be studious and introverted spending time in the library or reading before the fire; or (2) They may be just the opposite — gregarious and friendly to the extreme. It works well as long as they are both on the same page. If wires are crossed and a gregarious Gemini hooks up with a studious Virgo, or vice versa, there will be friction.
Progression of Relationship:
A flurry of texts and emails will follow soon after these two meet. The object will be to communicate constantly with one another until they are face to face again. It may be hard to meet again right away because their schedules are so busy, but sooner or later they will create a space for each other in their lives. It will all be respectful and peaceful. They have a wonderful ability to communicate about problems in a very feeling manner. Neither sign has much ego and is less interested in being right than in being fair and cooperative.
Sex:
Both signs have a reputation for being very good lovers. Between the Gemini man and Virgo woman, there is a willingness to experiment, an ability to build friendly rapport, and a gift to be able to talk about sex comfortably with one another. Virgo is a born flirt and tease, while Gemini knows all the moves to make. They are especially good with their timing in the bedroom and of course there’s the famous Virgo attention to detail.
When It’s Over:
When it’s time for the party to be over, Virgo will quietly put her foot down. Gemini will affably take the hint and hit the road. And because she’s a Virgo, he’ll hit the high road. These two are likely to unwind their relationship with finesse and integrity.
Our Rating: 8/10
What do you think of this match? Who is your favorite famous Gemini/Virgo couple? Share your thoughts in the comment below.
Salma Hayek who is Virgo married a French Gemini
Do you mean Francois Henri Pinault?
An 8 out of 10, wow. Sometimes I just don’t know… I can agree with some things though.
I take it you’re not that enamoured with the combination? I wish you had been more specific.
I am in this type of relationship. And I agree with this statement the most: These are two people who process the world mentally with a certain detachment. The Virgo woman tolerates the Gemini man’s gregariousness while the Gemini man’s constant activity gives the Virgo woman the space she needs. It is a weird connection between us, sometimes I hate him, sometimes I love him. But what it all boils down to in this relationship is our communication. We have to talk in order to get along. We don’t have many fights, maybe a debate or misunderstanding. And that is when this happens: It works well as long as they are both on the same page. If wires are crossed and a gregarious Gemini hooks up with a studious Virgo, or vice versa, there will be friction. Sometimes I am studious, but sometimes he is the studious one. We switch minds ALOT! lol
My husband and I are this combination. We have been married eight years and have worked together everyday for five of those years. We still never shut up. People are amazed at how much we still have to talk about. One thing worth pointing out. We do want kids but still haven’t found the time for them. This combination definitely works for us.
This is quite spooky I am not usually one for star signs but… I am Virgo and I just met the most amazing Gemini we just clicked and reading this –
“A flurry of texts and emails will follow soon after these two meet. The object will be to communicate constantly with one another until they are face to face again. It may be hard to meet again right away because their schedules are so busy, but sooner or later they will create a space for each other in their lives. It will all be respectful and peaceful. They have a wonderful ability to communicate about problems in a very feeling manner.”
Just about discribes it perfectly, he was someone who I thought I’d have nothing in common with yet I talked to all non stop all night. I wasn’t even looking for anyone. Odd.
i am a virgo woman and i am inlove with a gemini!
i talk to him sometimes but i dont know what he thinks
of me i ddnt tell him that i love him and i dont know what move to make first !! hes always busy so if i talk to him i bother him and that makes him think of me as “oh shes inlove with me whatever” what should i do ? and i need him to fall inlove with me before i admit that i like him , so both of us can tell eavhother that we love eachother ….. PEOPLE WHAT SHOULD I DO ? Help please!
@lila
Hi! Two things
(1) try not to worry so much and
(2) be patient and
(3) say less – it’s not all in the words
so, you guys think its possible for the virgo and gemini to be happily married? i’m in love w/ a gemini and he’s confusing but he said he’s willing to work.. if it’s worth a shot. should i take it?
Hi,
Im a single virgo woman, i just met this gemeni guy…was cluless until as u said the flurry of texts and bbms came in…..wow…i was like wow…and cudnt sleep, he was on my mind…then we cudnt wait to meet and then he grew distant…ahhhh….now i dont know….he…gosh im frustrated…:(…..i think he is cute, and oh my the things i want to do to him again…..and he has such a cute soft voice, but i love to hear him over the phone….no way ….no way…how the hell did we connect so fast…but i sense a distance from him…i react just today…and then he apologized…chhhheeeeezzzz man…..and then we back to normal…what to dooooo????
absolutely confused by this captivating gemini…damn
I still think about my gemini….. had a dream about him last night~~ sigh <3
Mine did the same thing he disappeared. We got into a huge fight about him being so busy and fyi fights with us are me yelling and him shutting down. We broke up but kept in contact. 2 yrs. later were back together happy as ever. But, I needed him to miss me. I know that sounds crazy but I needed that. I didn’t even realize this and now the sensible gemini is literally running into my arms and telling me he WON”T live without me. I know he is a workaholic but remember virgo so are you. Yes, he talks to you while he running errands but its because he always wants you around. Sometimes it feels like he squeezing you in but he cant live w/o you and eventually he will make time for you because he knows that what you expect and your not worth losing.
V similar story w me tho we are not reunited (and I don’t think we’ll ever be but you never know)
How did you happen to end up getting back together?
i’ve had 3 relationships with a gemini man and none of them worked 🙁 they confuse me a lot and one of them cheated on me…we fight a lot too.. 🙁
btw, im a virgo woman 😀
I’m dating a gemini and he is kinda hot/cold but I just allow him to do whatever it is he does when he isn’t with me….He is starting to want more and more time with me, I think its because he has not been pressured by me to do anything.
I’m dating a Gemini and it’s a definite hate/love relationship. His disorganization, flightiness, and general “whatever, whenever” attitude irk me. But I’m just as certain that my neurotic, worrying, OCD Virgo traits annoy him – especially because he’s so laid-back and I’m, well… not. He also has some past relationship issues that manifest in mistrust (he started the relationship absolutely certain that I would cheat on him – funny coming from a sign that is stereotyped for infidelity) and defensiveness. Of course, I have my own issues and no one is perfect – but I’m an extremely loyal person and I almost ended it right there – I was so offended he would think I would do that just because some other women did.
We fight a ton – about stupid stuff, especially when he reads my sarcasm as truth. Often I’ll tell him how I feel and think, making requests (or maybe more like demands sometimes lol), and he usually responds by withdrawing or with something like, “Yeah, you’re right, I’m such a jerk.” Which is, of course, not what I said.
I think communication is key. We both love words so much (we both want to be writers lol), but I think that Gemini in particular has trouble expressing feelings emotionally and also in accepting the emotions of his or her partner. He often tells me my feelings are irrational – that he doesn’t understand why I’m so upset – and maybe that’s true, but I can’t change how I feel.
The good thing is if you are patient and open-minded, intense tiffs usually blow over leaving both Gemini and Virgo wondering what they were even fighting about to begin with – at least that’s how it is for me.
Sex is great – we’re both pretty selfless lovers. Attention to detail + spontaneity = HOTT. One thing Virgos might want to watch for is our love of routine and order – don’t ruin the moment by moving to the bed or putting on cleans sheets. Trust me. I’ve done this waaaay too many times to count. The flame’s still there, but it struggles to burn as intensely after doused with a bottle of Mr. Clean. 🙂
I’m torn between eloping with my Gemini or ending it right now, and it can go either way. A definite roller-coaster. Intellectually we click, but emotionally we don’t. My Gemini is very sweet and attentive – he leaves me care packages when I’m feeling sick or brings me lunch to work when I don’t have a long lunch break. I don’t leave care packages or surprises – I clean his apartment or cook him dinner. He appreciates this, but sometimes I feel like he might appreciate a grander, more romantic gesture.
Noticed a lot of closeness/distance; hot/cold with this pairing – perhaps because we’re both stubborn and both like to keep a secret part of ourselves (you know, the darker parts) behind a veil.
In my opinion, this relationship takes a lot of work – but when it does go right, it goes SO right. And, unfortunately, vice versa.
im a virgo woman, met my gemini on facebook, emails txt msgs, pic masgs, phone calls. Im falling hard.,it’s weird to me though cuz he lives in another state. And im in no hurry to get into a relationship. but its getting hard not being able to see him or touch him. sigh
#18!!!! Get out of my head!!!! You hit the nail on the head, glad i’m not the only one feeling these things. We are all virgos! true virgos, lol.
I’m actually a virgo sun with a gemini moon so sometimes I think I’m a true virgo with all my ocd, fussiness, want of perfection, etc. But sometimes I think I’m a bit like a gemini especially when I’m in one of my happy moods because I tend to be flighty, sociable, etc. But one thing for sure is I share both their mercury trait – I get extremely nervous at times, I’m mostly restless, my friends describe me as being always too busy to do anything and I like intellectual conversations (;
I’ve currently fell for a gemini but I don’t know, I don’t want to keep texting him or calling him because I’m worried I’ll come off as desperate (another virgo trait lol). Sometimes I think he likes me but sometimes he acts like he doesn’t even notice me. Help! What’s going on? 🙁
Im a virgo sun with a gemini moon (scorpio rising) and I recently entered a committed serious relationship with a gemini sun with a virgo moon (cancer rising). In fact, my natal moon conjuncts his natal sun, and his moon conjucts my natal sun. Its the best relationship ive ever experienced physically, mentally, and spiritually. I often wondered why im so crazy for a virgo. Its that gemini moon. Ive always dated Virgos. In fact, I married a virgo and it was all disastrous. So, I finally hooked up with a gemini and it just works. He basically nurtures that gemini side of me that everyone else gaslights. So, I definitely think youre right.
im virgo woman and my hubby gemini wher excellent pairs and leading a honey life. joy to say that im the luckiest woman to own him. “Thanks to Sai Baba”
Yeah this was creepy because it was so dead on! My Gemini haunts me when I’m not with him, it’s crazy…we didn’t even notice each other much when we first met, but now we are in each other’s mind. It’s like we don’t have to speak sometimes. I hope this lasts for a long time! 🙂
im in a reltionship with a gemini guy!! he loves me alot and im vry confident tht he wil nvr cheat me.. bt smwhere or the other i feel he does nt understnd me.. whch bugs me alot.. and ths is th nly basis a reltionshp can go on.. wht shouls i do??
I’m a Virgo with a Gemini who is really distant.. We live in different states which makes this even more annoying. I try to find out what the issue is, but he takes this “whatever” attitude to every aspect of his life.. Except his music… Most times.. lol He wants to relocate to where I live because he ‘really wants to be with me forever’ but he’s not acting like he feels this way… Now, I’m nothing if not self-aware, so I know I get worried about things that aren’t that big a deal, but I’m really frustrated… He seems to have an issue that he won’t… Let me fix. I sound crazy don’t I?? That’s my role in life.. I’m the caregiver, fixer-upper.. I want to take care of him..
They are very fake I am a Virgo lady and had bad realationship with this man he was always working and telling lies about where he was he cheated three times and only found out on the third time when he pretened to be single with the lady who lived in our house before us I was with him for 8 years be wise to this man they are not all they make out to be
I love my man
Virgo ladies, its not uncommon that we worry too much and read too much into things.
I would say, if you are feeling doubts with your gemini man, leave. If he really loves you, he will come running.
But don’t just give in easily, test him… If he is really the one for you, you will see it in his actions.
Ofcourse there is a side effect to this treatment. He may always question your motives and distrust you!
Well you don’t have to do it as I did. But my intention wasn’t to hurt him. I just thought that he wanted to always have his way and he is constantly busy. I just thought that we were over. So, I left and after a while I even moved on. Upon starting a new relationship with another, I ceased all contact with him. I never let him expressed his love for me. I told myself that I wouldn’t let myself fall into his web again.
I must mention, he is very smooth and flattering!
Among the things that I love about him, was that we can talk so much! Sometimes, all night. Ofcourse later i will pick apart the conversation.
Now after 8 years, I have decided to give another chance to our relationship. Our reunion was like no other! We couldn’t get enough of each other. Few things have changed though. He is still very busy as am I but when I miss him, I wait until he misses me then after 2-3 days I get into contact. For now, it works for us and time apart definitely give us the spark we need (unlike any other that I have experienced).
I don’t know if this relationship will work out and at the same time, I am not looking for a permanent someone. I have learnt alot from him as well as past relationships and distrust is a common trait we both share now. However, attraction and love (as he says) is still there and we will see what happens. Time isn’t running out on us, its just that time isn’t right at the moment. If feelings continue for the next 2-3 years, we will make our decisions accordingly. It is sad that I didn’t give him the chance earlier, but I think it helps for him to realise what I meant to him.
I don’t understand why you gave this one 8/10.
One of my friend was a virgo who dated a gemini and had a devastating relationship with him.
I am a Virgo who had a gemini ex, I guess its just similiar…. nothing worth giving him attention.
I don’t think a Virgo x Gemini relationship pulls it off that well.
I’ve been with my Gemini man for over a year, and the entire time he has been telling me he doesn’t want a relationship! Yet we live together and started a business together, which is growing successfully. I agree with most of the analysis provided above – we’re a great intellectual match, we’re wonderful business partners, we love and respect each other, we talk all the time about anything and everything (sometimes to the detriment of our relationship). My problem is that he tells me he doesn’t want to be with anyone long-term. Is he just a commitmentphobe or is it a Gemini thing? Sometimes he says stuff that I think is designed just to get a shock out of me, or some kind of reaction. Negative things about how he doesn’t want kids til he’s 40 – he’s too preoccupied with his own pursuits. Yes, he is another one that is busy ALL the time and hardly ever slows down.
In bed, he’s hot and cold. He claims to not be very interested in sex, but once I get him going, it’s great. But I’m the one to initiate 99% of the time. I could be OK with that long-term, but I’m not sure he would be. I don’t know what will happen, but I suspect the relationship will end. It may be a case of “too much, too soon” for him. But at 32, I’d expect him to be mature enough and to want an actual lasting relationship with a woman as great as I am (I’m 34). We’ll see what happens, I guess…
I truly do believe that 8/10 is right…on my second gemini male and so far by me being 407 miles away doesn’t change anything…we both make the commute. I really feel a stronger more meaningful with my gemini men then any other sign…point blank…THEY UNDERSTAND ME BETTER…but I do notice one thing about this new gemini…sometimes when were just sitting around doing nothing…he stares at me with a very serious look on his face…ill look up and smile slightly…HE WILL ASK ME IF I LOVE HIM…lol instead of me saying YES…I will walk over and kiss him and go in the other room…that’s fires him up…cause I won’t actually say it…but he knows what I mean…I LOVE THE CONNECTION AND THE SPEAKING WITHOUT SPEAKING AND ITS UNDERSTOOD…
Comments # 18, 21, 25, 30, 31.
I cannot believe how similar your stories are to mine. I am a virgo, and I met a gemini man back in July. Since then it has been a definate roller coaster.
There is chemistry, love, and definately an understanding of each other. ‘connection and speaking without speaking’. Never in my life have I experienced this with anyone else.
However, I am a virgo and I worry, and as some have mentioned, I try to fix things. And he is a gemini, and he has a problem with trusting people, especially due to his issues with his family and previous relationships. So whenever my man has a problem I want to know, to see if I can help, and even if I can’t, I just want him to know I am there for support. I give him his distance and I don’t pressure him to tell me, but I feel he still has a wall up between us, and I wonder if it is a defense mechanism, because other times he opens up and I see how truly sensitive and amazing he is, and then my caring nature kicks in.
Whenever we have a disagreement, he shuts down and states ‘it’s over’. Three times now, Somehow we ended up back together. This last time we reconciled over a phone conversation, and we said our good nights, and hung up only after he said an ‘I love you’, which I reciprocated. It only took 10 hours for him to bail on me, accusing me of playing with him, and not meaning what I said. This hurt me so much that I was ready to move on. At the same time, I am a forgiving and practical virgo, and I understand his personality and keep telling myself that it is that.
I am not sure where this will go. I understand when you say ‘I need him to miss me’. But I am worried he is too stubborn to come back for me. I know it will be a great match. We just get each other, and it’s great to hear stories where it works. I hope it does with me, because in addition to loving him, I love his family.
Comments # 18, 21, 25, 30, 31.
I cannot believe how similar your stories are to mine. I am a virgo, and I met a gemini man back in July. Since then it has been a definate roller coaster.
There is chemistry, love, and definately an understanding of each other. ‘connection and speaking without speaking’. Never in my life have I experienced this with anyone else.
However, I am a virgo and I worry, and as some have mentioned, I try to fix things. And he is a gemini, and he has a problem with trusting people, especially due to his issues with his family and previous relationships. So whenever my man has a problem I want to know, to see if I can help, and even if I can’t, I just want him to know I am there for support. I give him his distance and I don’t pressure him to tell me, but I feel he still has a wall up between us, and I wonder if it is a defense mechanism, because other times he opens up and I see how truly sensitive and amazing he is, and then my caring nature kicks in.
Whenever we have a disagreement, he shuts down and states ‘it’s over’. Sometimes the excuse would be something wrong between us, other times it would be him saying he’s not willing to settle down anytime soon, other times it’s his personal ‘problems’ that he is not willing to share. Three times now, Somehow we ended up back together. This last time (a week ago) we reconciled over a phone conversation, and we said our good nights, and hung up only after he said an ‘I love you’, which I reciprocated. It only took 10 hours for him to bail on me, accusing me of playing with him, and not meaning what I said. He didn’t even bother to clue me in though. Only when I called twice and he didn’t answer did he send a text message stating as much, and to leave him alone. This hurt me so much that I was ready to move on and be done with everything. I sent him a message back saying that I love him enough to do what he asked me to do. Now only a week later, after I have thought about everything (because I am a virgo and that is what I do best), and by nature I am forgiving and practical, I keep telling myself it is his personality and I am okay with dealing with it. And I keep over analyzing and wonder if I should leave it up to him to fix things, or should I?
I am not sure where this will go. I understand when you say ‘I need him to miss me’. But I am worried he is too stubborn to come back for me. I know it will be a great match. We just get each other, and he has done things for me to show me how much he loves me on many occasions, so I know he truly cares. It’s great to hear stories where it works. I hope it does with me, because in addition to loving him, I love his family.
omg…i’m falling for a gemini too!!! maybe if he didn’t turn to look at me like three times that first day, i wouldn’t have cared, but..?!?!? and…he’s beautiful…the more i find out about him, the more i realise this is exactly the type of guy i want…HELP…!!! i thought ppl like him didn’t exist in this vile world…what am i in for? what are some dos and donts i better follow? gemini is in my fifth house, my rising’s aquarius, my moon’s in sagittarius, my venus is in leo and mars in libra…hell…
Gemini and Virgo relationship demonstrates how opposites really do attract! I am a Gemini man (May 28, age 23) who has been in a serious relationship with a Virgo woman (Sep 22, age 27) for almost 3 years. I saw our Chinese horoscopes fit together perfectly because I am a rabbit and she is a boar but does this actually have anything to do with our relationship and why we are so compatible?
I am a virgo woman and have been in a relationship with a gemini man for almost 3 years.
Our relationship was great at the beginning. Soon I saw his other side and he would snap at me in a second.
I’ve gone through great depressions, weight loss while being with him. And lived the majority of the 3 years out of a duffel bag because I never knew when he would become angry and kick me out. I dedicated my whole life to make him happy while all the while losing the very thing that made me tick.
He would constantly put me down and attack me or make me apologize over things I didn’t believe I was wrong for. Then always maintain a happy presence in public, despite ridiculing me minutes before.
I would try to talk to him and he would disregard me or walk into another room. He never wanted to communicate and would go days on end without speaking to me. Then when I would leave him, he would charm his way back in. I found pictures on his laptop of a woman and have even caught him out with one.
Recently, I found a Taurus and we have been going out almost everyday this week. Gemini hired a private investigator and spyed on me and found out about Taurus. I love Gemini even though how he treats me, I really don’t want the Taurus but I’m so sick of Gemini not being here or showing me any emotion! I feel terrible. Don’t know what to do.
my man is a gemini and i am a virgo and i swear we are soal mates, he can read my mind and i can read his, he is always so buisy and i always know what he needs before he needs it so he refuses to go anywhere without me because i am his helper lol. and when i throw my virgo temper tantrums he knows exactly what to do and what i need so i only stay upset for like 5 min (but then i get upset that im not mad anymore lol) we talk constantly about anything, i find myself bringing up topics just to hear his ideas about them and he loves to talk to me because i give him so much attention and i think he is the best thing since sliced bread. the sex is AH-MAZING and gets better as more time goes by. we are completely addicted to each other, we are best friends, we are totally inlove. we broke up once and tried to see other people but they just werent like us, i will never find another man who will be my bestfriend and know me as good as he does and he will never find another woman to always be there for him before he even says he needs anything.
Time for a Gemini to weigh in! Im a female and many ot the comments you Virgo gals made about your Gemini man may have more to do with him being a man than a Gemini. I was married for 22 years and was extremely loyal, never cheated. I do get bored easily though and love the Virgo audience. Give us Geminis time to cool off. We often say someething in the heat of a moment that we regret in short order (we dont plan our words and or the consequences aswell as you do). We come running all apologetically and I know it can be confusing, believe me its confusing to us too. Our moods can change quickly. We love security and crave communication. I will apologize for all Geminis that we dont give you enough space. If we feel you are our soulmate we may act like we are Siamese twins and we want you to be with us for every adventure we have. A good Gemini will develop other friendships of the same sex to go shopping, antiqueing….whatever, instead of dragging her resistant Virgo along. Still, hes the one she wants over all others. Communication is the key to a Geminis heart.
I am a True Virgo to my heart. I met this Gemini Male that is 7 yrs younger than me! I have vowed to never date any man around my age or younger! But this flattering Gemini stole my attention from day one! He is so attractive and kind. He tends to my needs no matter what! First it started with texts then phone conversation. Now it’s everyday we’re in each other company! We have not been intimate. I’m too nervous to let it get to that level. Should I keep it platonic or give this sexy hot Gemini my heart??
@#18 I also met my gemini on fb. We’ve been together for over a short time but we just KNOW its right and now we’re getting married soon. I couldnt be more in love with a star sign man!
Ive tried with a leo, scorpio, cancer, capricorn…but its like our *best* match is seems to be a gemini man <3mainly because of hence, communication. sigh im so thankful for him. For us virgos, we need that connection and communication to truely feel loved & believe me. My gemini and I work quite well together!
im a virgo and i met my gemini over facebook, we got talking alot before we actually met, but we couldnt get enough of talking to eachother, like both of us would cancel all our plans to sit down at home and chat for hours, wen i finally met him, he was not what i expected at all, I dont mean it in a negative way, i was jus suprised. because of the way he looks in his photos and how he presents himself, in his pictures he poses and looks vain and big headed. As a facebook name he calls himself prince, so i got a very strong vibe that he may be very big headed. When i started talking to him, he seemed very observational and asked many questions it felt like an interrogation, and when i mentioned what i might be doing that day, for example ide say im going to go drink with some friends, hed say “no your not. u better not” he seemed like a control freak, then he felt guilty and was like “actually no do what you like, its not my place to tell u what to do”… in a way i felt he only told me not to drink because he worried of me getting drunk and doing something stupid, in a way it pleased me that he cared enough and i liked the whole over protective element, it made me feel like i was wanted and cared for, and perhaps we had a future, it definitley rang alarm bells in my head and i paniced for a moment thinking omg hes controlling!! but for some reason part of me felt disapointed when he said do what u want like i love the attention, and when he said that i wasnt sure, if he was jus being laid back or if hed given up, like he didnt care. But after while of talking to him for a few days, i started to get on with him, and realised that deep down he has a very sweet and nuturing side to him, he would start to say romantic things like “my love etc” when i finally met him, i noticed he was cery fashionable and well dressed, but he was also very quiet, for someone so talkative on facebook he was very quiet. and i felt this sense of mystery like he was hiding something, my soul felt very far away from him, it felt icey not warm.. i also noticed although he is friendly, he did not have a sense of humour, for example i myself am a very bubbly confident social type of person, very loud and clumsy. im a very giggly person and he seemed too intellectual 2 let his hair down, for example ide be giggling, because im jus bubbly and he wouldnt understand hed be like “whats funny?” like everything seemed so scientific to him. wen we sat to watch the film in the cinema, he wasnt very talkative we didnt have much too talk about it was quite awkward although i usually get on with anyone, im very sociable, it did not make sense, he jus seemed so distant, and had his hands crossed tight the whole time… however his distance pleased me, because he was so different to other guys i have dated who would have probably put their arm around me in the first 5mins into the movie. he didnt approach me not till very near the end of the film, he was veryy passsionate, and gentle, slow and gentle kisser, i dont know but im usually a rough kisser, and maybe the saying “opposites attract” is really true, because i felt such a chemistry btw us, ive never lusted anyone so badly. ofcourse… i did not let it escalate into anything more then just a kiss, it is a first date afterall, and we had to keep some element of respect. after that date we where not talking so much on facebook, and he seemed even more distant. he seemed to always be busy, i dont know i dont feel like i carry the traits of a virgo at all, im rarely ever busy, i commit all my time to socialising… so i felt annoyed wen ide txt him and he wouldnt txt back, but hes talking to me now, and we will see what happens, i have a feeling our next reunion is not going to be for a very long time, he seems like a very busy person and strongly committed to his studies. However i definatley can imagine a future wiv him, i need that balance in my life, that autority, and some control and he seems to have that, i need it because i am abit too whats the word.. free. i need that order in my life that i dont seem to have at all. im a very unorganized person.
I am a Virgo Woman with this Gemini guy. We met and became best friends until we realized we liked each other! It had been 6 years and all these years we have been on and off, but right this years we have not been off yet. Like if we broke up we stayed in contact, hung out because hey we were best friends and really loved each other. I get irked sometimes when he is flirting so much, his ego and ambition I love it. He moves me out my comfort zone to do stuff I could not do. He boosts my confidence and just gives me a fun time. When he is working and busy we talk like three hours straight and even together we are talking, and when it is time for sex we have to make our selves shut up. But the sex, the intimacy is awesome. I give him that grounded feeling and security and he gives me that freedom. He also embraces the flaws I have, you know us perfectionists. But we work together in business, party together and he is in love with socialists so I go along but he knows that I need space sometimes. And the kids thing, Neither believes we can add kids to my medical school and his music/fashion life. We don’t really want any, I love kids, he does not really care but I know we just don’t want any. We argue seldom lately since we have learned eachother so much. It is like I can read him and him me, and we just know when not to cross lines and what not to do or do. People look at our relationship in awe, the passion, honesty, and loyalty. I trust him with all my heart and he let me in and I love that. I can get loose with him be myself around him. It is perfect like we knew each other all our lives. I also have a Pisces Moon like he has A Pisces moon too.
Oh also, my secret sweetie since I was 6 to the current age of 22 is a Virgo, we dated some in junior high, messed around a little in high school but never dated. We’ve been extremely close friends mentally all these years and both love flirting with each other, if she didn’t sleep around so much and settled down I could make that commitment as well.
Thank you Mr. Enigma, for shared some thoughts of Gemini man’s characteristic. I have someone special who is a Gemini man and he is just like what you’ve said.
1 out of 10 !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Enigma, I read your response.. and it is SO helpful. But I have a more specific question that pertains to your second paragraph. My Gemini and I were getting incredibly close. He was the one who was obviously overcome with emotion at the beginning, but he would stifle it. I was more just sexually addicted. Unlike you, I absolutely fuse sex and emotion. Can’t help it. I started to realize I loved him not long after I think he was feeling it too. I sort of sensed that I needed to be cool, and not clingy. But it flipped in a very damaging way to me. I worked late as a cocktail waitress, and I would go to his house late late at night to see him and sleep with him. He was tired all the time from it. He would often joke that I had a “secret boyfriend” because of my weird schedule. When in truth, I did not at all. I only wanted my Gemini. But he got more and more suspicious( I could tell by his jokes), that I started to feel like he was projecting and that he was the one looking elsewhere. I am confident now, that at the beginning, he just wanted me. He just wanted me to be more normal and be with him during the day. He often joked that he was my “booty call”. But, I am a naturally jealous person once i’m really in love, and the person is (like geminis) only quietly expressive. I didn’t tell him, but I started to feel like I NEEDED him to tell me he loved me, and the less I heard it, the more I tried to be strong and distant as well. Eventually we were both cheating on each other. I don’t know who did it first, and it doesn’t really matter. We got back together, broke up, got back together 4 or 5 times in a few months. It was very dramatic. And it always seemed like the other wanted the last word, either by playing it cool, or being expressive at the right moment. We messed with each other a lot. But once I realized he is the only man I am truly that attracted to, I decided to cut the games and try to express to him that I wanted to really give it what he wanted. A girl that is not needy, but also not sleeping around or partying so much. He would see me, and be VERY distant. He told me he wanted a friendship first, and then maybe we could work back into a relationship. HE was abstaining from sex. I couldn’t believe it. I of course, looked at it as a challenge. And not a hard one to overcome. But this left me VERY hurt. I would then sleep with the man I loved who was so devoted to me at the beginning, but he was no longer only devoted to me. And he blamed it on my being unavailable at the beginning. In a very talk show style twist, he had gotten another girl pregnant while we were talking again and he didn’t know what to do. It wasn’t the physical act that hurt me, it was that he had actually developed feelings for someone else while I was busy playing games. (reminder.. I only played games because I sensed that Geminis like them! And the challenge!) but they are so contradictory, because they want this stability from a Virgo, but a challenge at the same time. It’s a contradiction in terms. Stability is not challenging to someone fascinated by change? I wanted to party, and ALWAYS go back to him. He became jealous, and wandered, and it got serious. They decided to not keep the baby, although I know he wanted to be a father, he could not cross what she wanted to do. He is frustrated and mad.. and very sad. And I wanted to be there for him after this. Despite the pain I was in, I felt I had somehow pushed him to wander by my own unavailable style. We were constantly trying to control the schedule when we’d see each other, and it pissed both of us off. I wandered too, and made him feel unappreciated, so I did not feel that his wandering was not understandable. But unfortunately, I am still in love with him. And he still loves me. We try to hang out, but I was constantly bothering him and asking if the other girl was as pretty as me, or as smart, or as fun.. I got VERY insecure obviously. I would also crave sex for intimacy, he says he can’t say no to me, and then I’d end up even more confused, because his walls that were coming down, are up higher than ever. He has spoken that i’m his intellectual equal, and that he wants to be able to just talk to me. Our sex is amazing, and I realized I can’t be around him without wanting to have it. So I kicked him out the other night. I feel like this relationship is a fail. But I have such a deep void in my heart asking him to go away. He bowed out respectfully, but that hurt me as well. I wanted him to fight for me, but I know cognitively that that would have been insane. And I respect him for being respectful. I have this unfinished feeling.. and I know it’s because we love each other and we care. I think about him all the time, and he has written to me that he’s just “a phone call away”. But why would I call this person if i fear this same shit is gonna happen again? Once it’s been broken this badly, is it worth trying to repair? Will efforts be in vain? Do Gemini truly forgive? Is his attraction to me going to increase again in absence, or do you think he will just forget about me because I asked him to leave me alone. I know he can be practical, but I know we have a special connection.. and I don’t know if I want to let it go. I have for now.. at least I try my hardest not to text or call him. All he said to me when I said I’d be there for him, is “thanks. I love you.” But I love a passionate man.. is that really Gemini’s way of being passionate?
In my ealry teen years I met this gemini boy and we briefly dated but the connection was always there. We tried quite a few times but maybe it’s me but it’s kinda a big no no when we have like agazillion mutual friends Lol I guess you can say he is my ‘Boy Next Door’ and we’re the ‘One that got away’.
Now at 22, I am currenlty getting to know 2 gemini men Haha Are we really bound to find amazing chemistry with them? Lol
She hit it at exactly “Flurry texts and constant communication”. I believe in chemistry not harmony but it’s both =) Endless serendipities <3
Given I can only be with one but they are both very very much special. I know long longer then the other. I seen the detacthment side of one of them already Lol But he charms his way back in Haha And the other we just started but… Wow! He blows me away 😉
Just for fun… When's everyone's birthday?
Happy birthday all my virgo babies! <3
Well! Let me say, this combination far supersedes any other I’ve experienced during this lifetime 😀
I met my Gemini fella just over 3 years ago. He was my boss(!), we fought a lot while we worked, I was probably a bit of a handful – but yet, he knew I was the one member of staff he could rely on when push came to shove & something needed to be done properly!
After working together for 9 months, we became friends from thereon afterwards. Keeping in mind, I wanted him the entire time. We arranged to hang out and meet a few times (outside of me visiting the workplace), but most of those times it fell through; he was busy, or tired (which I could understand), or simply needed his space. We actually cultivated a very dynamic friendship during this time, and little did I know, I was one of the very few people he actually made an effort to keep in contact with throughout those years he was married to his job! But as time wore on he took on more responsibilities with work, and eventually was due to move interstate earlier this year – by which time, I decided it was time to pull away – not to mention, having been magnetically attracted to him for so long, without any of it materialising, was making me feel both depressed and restless. I began to see other people, stopped calling, ignored his birthday – actually genuinely began to believe nothing would ever come of it, that he was content to pursue his career & that was that.
3 months ago, all of a sudden, he decided to quit the company. He literally came knocking on my door, and I guess he decided the greener pastures really lay at said doorway, because shortly after, we finally began to get this thing off the ground! At first, I was still reeling from a broken liaison with another guy who unapologetically abused what little faith I had afforded him (Aries – UGH! :\) – but the sparkling love of this Gemini man has all but blown those hurtful memories away 🙂 🙂 🙂
I don’t normally befriend people with the intent of dating them, but I didn’t have much choice in this instance! Although being able to cultivate a friendship before actually getting together has given us a wonderful familiarity and understanding that would usually take ages to build up, as a couple. I’ve always spoilt him with thoughtful gifts & treats, which he has been very appreciative of, and this in part has made up for my harsh criticism and occasionally brash manner of courtship (leo mars conjunct virgo merc). Thankfully I have a Gemini moon, which is conjunct both his sun & merc, and his Taurus venus is exactly trine Capricorn AC as well as my Virgo sun (15deg – which also happens to be mercury’s degree of exaltation!); so we have the stars weighing in our favour. And as everyone here has stated, yes, Communication, Understanding & Respect (and in Virgo’s case – patience) are key. 😀
By the way, my birthday is September 7. His is May 30. We’re 6 years apart, making us a mismatch according to the Chinese tradition! Western Astrology FTW. 😉
Really? I’m Chinese and I don’t know if the years really make a difference. I mean, I know that it does but maybe you mean the animals representing them clash not the year Lol
I don’t think I personally could ever forgive someone for cheating on me, at least not consciously. Time makes the mind forget. He obviously doesn’t trust you in the least. There might not even be someone else on his side, I wouldn’t put it past a Gem to fabricate a fantastic story in order to test you. Probably not your situation though haha. He’s probably depressed and feeling emotions! Shell shocked might be a good way to put it. Gemini’s are usually happy happy happy but something like an abortion and losing your ladies probably has him off his game a lot! Go you’re own ways for a while, rediscover yourselves, and maybe someday sooner than you think you’ll be back together. Sounds like a shitty situation, sorry I don’t have good advice for it. I’d have never talked to you ever again if it were me. 😮 Go to a strip club and get a few lap dances and drinks with some girlys. Get back in the game and you’ll start getting hunted again.
This article is quite true, I was with a gemini for a few years before meeting my wonderful capricorn. Although my gemini always interested and excited me, he just couldn’t stop cheating and thats a massive no-go for me as I value loyalty. The bit in the article that states “when it’s time for the party to be over, virgo will quietly put her foot down” is exactly how our situation ended. I eventually got sick of his cheating, however we definately unwound our relationship with integrity.
Very true I’ve the virgo women n I’ve been away from my Gemini man n were back together n very much in love with each other still thank u
I’ve been dating this gemini guy for almost 2 months but I’ve only seen him twice. We chat everyday until late in the early hours. He’s fun to talk with. Butt the thing is he can’t make time. He’s always busy with his work.
I am liking a Gemini man (and luckily he likes me too), and this article made me realize some important points I have to remember before we level-up romantically. I know what I am as a Virgo, and I am proud of my pride. But this man will be my very first – I still don’t know what will happen once he starts flirting with other girls! What all I know is that, he can cheat, as long as at the end of the day, he’ll come home to me.
Really? , that pathetic?…..”he can cheat as long as he comes home to you” , is there no self worth and are you not afraid of immune viruses, disease and infections.
Some of these comments trigger the weirdest concepts in me, I swear.
I have a question for whomever wants to give a feedback, do you think its rude suggesting a status check together before leveling up romantically with someone, especially if this is someone you want to get real down naughty and dirty with, but not only that but plan to start a family with, settle down with and so on.
I think my Gemini man is nothing like any description Ive ever read, instead he’s shy, likes his own presence, hates alcohol and clubs (people for that matter), never leaves the house unless you tell him to or he needs to. This is the reason why I do not believe in horoscopes that much. If anything the dynamic described above works well if I were a Gemini and he was Virgo. He needs space and I need friends. “This relationship is a very good one that creates a space for two intellectuals to pursue their interests” – this statement however is v well describes what we have. For me, I never check this compatibility cause for some reason Gem and Vir are a bad match, but this is BY FAR the best relationship I have ever had and we are a very strong team. Theres no control, jealousy, abuse. Relationship is purely fuelled on mutual respect, commitment and acceptance. Also we are 100% honest and we think out loud in front of each other even if it can hurt. This is why our relationship is based on complete trust. All of our friends say we have a very unconventional couple as we are kinda independently get on with our own lives and arent needy. He is not my second half cause Im a whole. He isnt my soulmate, he is my life partner by choice. So for all Virgo + Gemini couples out there who are discouraged by astrological compatibility readings….dont be down, it works if you want it to.
‘”Neither sign has much ego and is less interested in being right than in being fair and cooperative. ” – so true
Oh boy, we have different styles with problem solving and confrontation. I am honest and talk openly but I have whined for attention a few times and he snapped into another person. I would catch my words that I’m being a brat then I would stop myself and apologise and he would act like everything was ok but he would secretly be plotting for retaliation and when he did that he went for the throat. Gemini is like a snake. When they bite they kill. No discussion nothing. That was our one problem. Other than that we were a perfect match but his relation turned into betrayal and he deceived me pretending to be a good guy and then I found out any little issue he would set out to hurt me with another girl. No Sex but he persued them and then try to make me jelous…So childish and immature. When he promised he would never do that to me. We broke up after 14 months in a bad way. We started out as friends then progressed into a relationship and we had so much fun together I loved being with my Gemini man but he was wishy washy. He loved me one minute and told me then the next he’s confused. It became hard for a Virgo woman to deal with. It got ugly in the end. Gemini was a good bullshitter when he got mad something I couldn’t deal with. As I began to get anxiety and started freaking out when he wouldn’t protect me or my heart. I believed in him but he was just as immature as I was with solving conflict. I still love him but he has moved on.
Wow sounds like we were all dating the same Gemini man or shall i say boy!?