Libra Man and Libra Woman Compatibility

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You would think that this combo would be tied at the hip.  People think Libras want to share everything, but, in fact, it is just the opposite.  Two Libras together need twice the space.  They may even wind up in separate bedrooms or separate wings of the house, but at least they understand that about one another.  These are two cardinal signs trying to get along with one another which means there is a question about who‘s going to lead on the dance floor.  Hopefully two heads really are better  than one and they combine resources to come up with the winning strategy.  If not, it will degenerate into a cold shoulder détente.  So there they are, lying together on the bed, each one facing outward with a big space in between.  There may be a lot of leadership between the two of them, but not always the motivation to put it into action.

How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Libra Man:

You’re going to have to decide which one of you is willing to be the risk-taker.  You can’t both be calculators.  One of you has to be willing to test your theories in action.   It depends on your individual personalities (on the other parts of your chart and your personal life experiences.  Libras can lead.  They can partner up.  But they are never really comfortable “following.”  So you’ll have to reach an accord with each other as to how you will dance in tandem.  This will probably be interesting to you both because you like to talk things out.  You are both able to be exceptionally fair and detached in your judgment so that you may actually be able to arrive at a logical solution.  By that i mean that you will cordially agree which one of you is dominant and which one of you will be receptive.

How to Attract a Libra Man as a Libra Woman:

You’re going to have to decide which one of you is willing to be the risk-taker.  You can’t both be calculators.  One of you has to put a match to the flame.  It depends on your individual personalities (on the other parts of your chart and your personal life experiences).  Libras can lead.  They can partner up.  But they are never really comfortable “following.”  So you’ll have to reach an accord with each other as to how you will dance in tandem.  This will probably be interesting to you both because you like to talk things out.  You are both able to be exceptionally fair and detached in your judgment so that you may actually be able to arrive at a logical solution.  By that I mean that you will cordially agree which one of you is dominant and which one of you will be receptive.

Degree of Romance:

These two both value romance highly and are willing to invest time and energy in faithfully fulfilling its function.  They have a mutual agreement to elevate each other above all others.   The calendar of required events such as birthdays, Valentine’s Day, and major religious holidays will be observed faithfully.  An appropriate gift, beautifully wrapped, with an unusual designer gift card to accompany it is never too much trouble for this pair.  Appearances are very important as they are both heavily invested in the superficial aspects of a relationship which have a deeper meaning for Libras than for the rest of us.

Degree of Passion:

Oddly enough, passion may erupt unexpectedly between these two cool cucumbers.  After a steamy rendezvous each will act shocked, exclaiming “Oh my goodness I don’t know what came over me!”  But it‘s just an act.  That’s the whole point.

Degree of Friendship:

These two intend to be good friends. Both value good judgment, fairness and harmony and cultivate in themselves the qualities of a good friend.  Others may find them calculating, but motives count for a lot.  These two get an A+ for noble intentions.

Degree of Marriage:

This can actually make a very fine marriage.  Each Libra is guaranteed a good mirror and sounding board.  This pair will pride themselves on their astute judgment, taking comfort in their ability to cooperate on planning and strategy.

Progression of Relationship:

This relationship progresses like a game of chess.  Each Libra is trying to force the other one to make a move so it can be assessed and then responded to in anticipation of the next move.  It’s a pleasing little game for these two thinkers, made more pleasant for each by the quality of the “opponent“ (they‘re actually collaborators).

Sex:

Sex between two Libras is a carefully orchestrated dance like the Viennese waltz.  Everything signifies something and yet means nothing.  Sometimes they get lost in the form,  thinking that something can be done correctly or incorrectly.  While this may be hilarious to other signs, it can be a genuine quandary to a Libra.  It’s nice that they understand each other.

When It’s Over:

Do you remember the Spy v. Spy cartoons?  That’s what it’s like to wind down a Libra-Libra relationship.  The denouement will be just as complicated, calculated, and comprehensive as the commencement.  Everything will have to be dismantled, boxed up, labeled, and stored before either party is willing to leave the room.  This is one relationship where it might be said that it will take as long to get out of it as it took to get into it.  Librans are famous for after-thoughts.  Years later your ex-Libra partner may call you up and say, “I still don’t feel right that you got the painting we bought together in Amsterdam.  Can we figure out a way to make this work for both of us?”  YIKES!

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