North Node in 1st House
Read about the North Node in 1st House and then click the link at the end to Take the Test to see how well you understand this nodal placement.
The traditional interpretation of the North Node in 1st House, also known as the Dragon’s Head in the First House and Dragon’s Tail in the Seventh House, is good health and a strong mind, but troubled partnerships.
In past lives, you relied too much on partners, even losing your own identity in your sacrifice for others. You were dependent and/or dominated by a spouse, friend, confidant, or other person. With the memory of such dependency and partnership, there is danger you will marry early and/or for the wrong reasons. Further, you may have a semi-conscious or unconscious fear of losing your partners, which makes you especially dependent. A successful marriage may come later in life.
Because of past experiences, you may not even know who you really are. You are here in this lifetime to be an individual with all that that entails. Strive to develop a personality that is distinctive and that others recognize as your own. Take a stand without regard to how others react to it or what they think about it. You must resist at every opportunity the temptation to be a people-pleaser.
Martin Schulman writes that these natives, with their fond memories of teamwork and cooperation, find the process of individuation particularly painful. They have, explains Schulman, a soul longing to discover themselves after having lost their identity in others, and yet an equally strong desire not to hurt those close to them in the process of doing so. They must take on the mission of establishing a sense of self but do so “without shutting off completely the benefits of marriage and partnerships.” In the process of striking this balance, there may come a time when you overcompensate, being too aggressive or even obnoxious. Keep your ego in check, and eventually, you will find the right chord to strike.
It will do your soul good to accept leadership positions. It is also good for you to take the initiative. However, be wary of seeking power. You cannot make up for past mistakes in relationships by becoming a dictator, though you will be tempted to dominate others once you wake up to the ways people have taken advantage of you in the past.
Some people with this placement of the North Node in 1st House go to extremes with their appearances. You may make a point of not tending to how you present yourself, thereby alienating others. Or you may obsess over every detail of your grooming. Try to avoid both these extremes. You do need to make a good impression on others, and your physical appearance is an important part of this as one reflection of yourself; however, there is a limit. You must understand that your appearance is just that: your appearance. It is not your actual self.
Own your need for recognition. You are here to be an individual, which means standing out. Take the time to figure out what you think. Do not waiver from your views when they become inconvenient or unpopular. If you are a good friend to yourself, offering support and encouragement to your own self as you have done for others, even in the face of opposition and at the risk of creating disharmony, you will find a deep reservoir of courage you did not know you had. It is important to understand, though, that the North Node in 1st House nodal position is not about philosophical conviction; it is about learning how to be yourself.
Resist the temptation to wait for others to offer their opinion first or to tell you what you should think or do think. Because your placement is North Node in 1st House, you will be happy when you come to your own conclusions and stand up for yourself.
Click here to take the Test to see how well you understand the North Node in 1st House!
Recommended reading:
Karmic Astrology, vol. 1, Martin Schulman
Astrology for the Soul, Jan Spiller
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This is such a great page Celestina! Thanks for the valuable information about true node and north node placements. I have been referring to them as mean nodes.
What if you have north node in libra in first house? Is that a contridiction?:) sincerely
I agree Frida!
I have libra NN house 1, it’s taught me to believe in myself more, to embody ‘self’, be your true authentic self, don’t be dependent on others physically, mentally, emotionally.
This is very exact description. Thanks Celestina for helping me understand something about myself.
The term, disharmony, is an atrocious word to me. Being a Libra with a lunar sign of Scorpio. And having my NN in Aquarius in the 1st house a LOT of this is stuff I’ve already come to realize. It’s great to see it in words rather than just already knowing about intuitively and thinking I’m weird! Hahaha!
I’ve gotta reach out to you just because you’re the exact opposite of me, my sun sign is Scorpio, moon sign in libra, and my north mode is in my Leo first house! I just found that really cool haha
I’m tearing up reading this. This really hit home. Thank you :3
Celestina I would like to get a reading from you can you get back to me please.
With SN in Libra, NN in Aries, and Sun in Virgo, this is even more challenging. Completely lost myself in a soulmate relationship, like a rollercoaster of intense emotions, sacrificed myself for the greater good of the other’s development, but in return just get betrayed.
Seriously true, I’m a better version of myself when I’m being independent and beating to my own drum.
North node in 1st, as well as Neptune and Uranus in 1st in natal chart. Everyone I read this stuff it sounds just like me to the max. Though it makes me so sad, because all I want is true love. I feel like patience is key. Though I am in love and all I want in this life is to be happy being me with this woman. If not, it will destroy me, but I am willing to take a chance for love. For her. Thank you for your time and intelligence.
This is me to a T. So I can’t blame everything on the parents..haha Seriously though, many of these aspects of me & my fears/troubles in relationships I have acknowledged. I thank you for now I have hope in reading here that a decent relationship is possible later in life as I am 61 & have shut out men for a while now. I have such a fear of loving someone I become as you say dependant, drive them away,self- sabataging the relationship & thus fulfilling the fear. This is last thing on my bucket list..a healthy relationship with a partner
I feel the same i am so obsessed with my body my appearance etc i go to the extremes when it comes to keeping myself clean but also looking good from pimples on my to not trained body it can really upset me till the point where i don’t even go outdoors since i’m a showoff and i like to be seen (venus leo) but i’m not extreme at wanting to be seen but more my own appearance. my north node is in capricorn i don’t know what that means. and besides that giving everything to relationships helping the other person to develop but losing myself many times. While i know i can accomplish alot if i want to but i kinda hold myself back also because i have my mars in libra i tend to live for my partner not that i depend on my partner because i can be impulsive at times since i have my moon in the 1th house with my ascendant in sagittarius
I appreciate this so much!
Thank you for the note.
Thanks so much – your article is amazing and so so helpful.
I have a question I am extremely hesitant on taking someone to court who has harmed me greatly – physically and psychologically, if SN node is in Libra doesnt that mean I will lose the lawsuit? Having the south node here confuses me a lot if I should pursue any sort of dealings with the law?
thanks, I apprciate your help
I know you’d like a longer answer, but my basic response is that the Node placement doesn’t tip the scales either way in my opinion. It’s hard to say without a lot more context and astrological details.
I’M CONFUSED. my NODE IS AQUARIUS but IF THE GOAL OF NORTH NODE AQUARIUS IS ABOUT THE PEOPLE, WHAT TO DO WITH MY AQUARIUS NORTH NODE IN THE 1ST HOUSE. you SAID 1ST HOUSE IS ABOUT BECOMING AN INDIVIDUAL. this ALL SO CONFUSING AND CONFLICTING.
Wow. This was so very helpful. I have studied astrology for years, but completely neglected the Nodes and house placement. I have NN in Leo in the first, conjunct Uranus, with Venus ten degrees off on my ascendant. Just eded a 21 year marriage in which i swooped in to ‘heal’ a man with two children. Really gave a lot, but in reading more about the 7th house SN dilemma, it makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! Became dependent, forgot myself and the life I was meant to live. It is understanding the NN that has givn me courage to be ‘selfish” ad Selfishness for m will be the highest form of cooperation. Thanks for the article and all your comments. It wont be easy but I am excited to see what will happen as I align with my first houe NN Leo energies.
This is my progressed North node and sums up exactly what I am currently experiencing. Taurus sun and Libra ascendant I daren’t do anything without it being perfect. I always worry about what my actions will have on my partner but get upset because he doesn’t do the same.
I have this position and I would not say that ” I find the process of individuation particularly painful”. I always preferred to work alone rather than in a team. However as younger person I wanted to be appreciated by others, by family, but growing up I realized that it is pointless. I am a loner and I always wanted to be independent. However I feel I have to eliminate my worry to be accepted by others.
bro wtf thats me atm too
This is wonderful! Best site on the nodes I’ve seen yet.
Not sure how to reconcile this with the fact my NN/1H is also in Libra.
I have my NN in the first house and have two divorces to show for it, plus innumerable ex-boyfriends. Serial monogamy is the only thing that works in the love department. Quite a shock to a Libra with ALL personal planets in Libra.
The lesson for the 1st house NN individual is to stand on your own two feet. In the business world, be an entrepreneur and not an employee. Never create “partnerships.” You will be misled and even betrayed in the end. Or just escape them because you are bored. Friends however, will stand you in good stead. Just don’t marry them! And beware business partnerships.
in my natal chart my north north is in gemini in the 1st house, but in my draconic chart It’s in Aries in the 1st, I feel like I have a lot of Aries traits. It’s probably because of the fact I have an Aries Lilith aspecting 5 of my personal planets and my sun sign is in an Aries decan. I relate to your description of nn in the 1st a lot, I don’t come across many accurate summaries about it very often so I appreciate your take on it 🙂
“You must resist at every opportunity the temptation to be a people-pleaser.”
Yes! Being a people pleaser ruined my life a ton. Having an Aquarius moon plus Libra Venus made this extremely hard. I often felt an intense pressure to please people.
My N.N is Gemini in the 1st house, and now that my nodal return is coming, I am focusing on my nodal positions more.
Thank you for writing and sharing this. Every bit if info for self knowledge helps a ton!
I have NN in Taurus, in the first house, this is very accurate. It’s hard to myself though, but I’m learning though.
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