Cancer Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility
This relationship should be very good because it combines two water signs. Both Cancer and Scorpio are concerned with emotional closeness and bonding. They understand each otherโs needs for intimacy. It is said between two water signs that any feeling is fine as long as there is feeling so both signs can tolerate anger, frustration, sorrow, and despair.
How to Attract a Cancer Woman as a Scorpio Man:
You can rely on your emotional magnetism to draw a Cancer woman towards you. She is able to feel your intensity and the vibration of your desire and is not afraid to respond to instinctual impulse. In fact, she will feel like you two talk the same language, which you do.
How to Attract a ย Scorpio Man as a Cancer Woman:
You are always a little bit afraid, and that works to your advantage here. With this man, it’s a call to action.ย The combination of fear and desire is irresistble to him.ย Think of the Chinese lady who hides her face behind a fan while givingย her man a come hither look.
Degree of Romance:
There can be a high degree of romance with these two signs. The roles of male and female here tend to be archetypal, that is to say a strong protective male and a nesting, nurturing female. This naturally leads to a romantic bond.
Degree of Passion:
There is less passion with these two signs than with others, but the degree of intensity can make up for that. Passion flares and dies, but the feelings between these two can reach a sustained level of ongoing intimacy.
Degree of Friendship:
Friendship is not particularly accented here.ย He may feel intensely possessive about her and even fatherly, as if she is vulnerable and needsย his protection. This does not foster the equality that makes a friendship. Both Cancer and Scorpio are capable of sharing feelings, creating a natural closeness, but there is a marked degree of dependency when these two get together.
Degree of Marriage:
This is an excellent combination for marriage. Both signs bond deeply and steadfastly, and both understand the concept of family loyalty and exclusivity of feeling.
Progression of Relationship:
A Cancer lady will be pliant and yielding to a Scorpio manโs strong sense of leadership. She will follow his pace naturally, which gives the relationship a great degree of comfort. Scorpio, you can relax and be yourself with her (as much as you ever do).
Sex:
Sex in this combination can be excellent because of the degree of intimacy involved. Both of you will feel you can be trusting and safe with one another. With this unconditional love flowing back and forth, you can explore feelings in connection with your sexuality.
When Itโs Over:
It is not likely to end, but if it does it can be extremely painful. Think of the look on Princess Dianaโs face during the denouement of her marriage or the tone of anguish in the comments made by Prince Charles.
Our Rating: 8/10
well actually the scorpios are hot!*** ๐
Hey Nancy, thanks so much for this. I can honestly relate to this. My pisces ex boyfriend and I shared a very intense relationship but his alcohol habits ruined it. My father’s an alcoholic and I know how it is to live with one so I decided it was best I break up with him. I have been since dating a Scorpio who is exactly how you’ve described him above, strong and protective. I feel comfortable, secure and happy with him. But, we do not share much in common compared to my Pisces ex, my scorpio does not make me feel like he IS the one, which worries me because it is very improtant to me. My ex has been trying to contact me recently and I am really torn between these two gentlemen. Please do help me with some advice!
Yes and no!
this is great!
Im dating a scorpio right now and this stuff is almost dead on, I model and he has said things he would and wouldnt be comfortable with because im his and certain things are for him…lol…i think its cute though…anyways the bedroom stuff is right on… he is near insatiable and loves to make sure that i and everyone else knows it… i.e. grabbing my ass in public or turning me around at the mall to kiss me in the food court, and when no ones looking he likes to try to play through my jeans..which i always playfully bat his hand away and tell him hes being naughty…but the thing is with the freind stuff…its not totally true…i met him in high school..senior year…we were really good freinds…though i knew he liked me as more…then i moved away for 3 years…i moved back 8 months ago and we were freinds again…but of course he drew me in…and we were “freinds with benefits” for a while, i moved in with him as a roomate…i started exclusively dating someone else…a capricorn…bad idea..but one nite he came out with it and said he wanted me….i think after accidently meeting my now ex…he got jealous…anyways weve been officially exclusive since 2-1-10…and ive got to say its the best relationship ive ever been in…and it is true that scorpios know how to snag a cancer…and take care of one too. i couldnt be happier!
LOL. no thanks. as a cancer woman I’ve dated 2 scorpio men. very jealous and insecure and thought a little too highly of their “reported” sexual prowess.
takes more than the ability to repeated stick a pole in a hole to = great sex
I met my Scorp about a month ago on the job; he was my photographer and the connection was immediately there except he acted on it after we parted ways. He is 2yrs younger so I was skeptical at 1st as I typically find comfort in much older lovers but it didnโt take long before I said yes to his sweet text of asking me on a date. I even blogged about him and he somehow found it and told me he wished someone could blog about his day to day as openly and sweetly as I did about our encounter and that he couldnโt have chosen better words to relate our attraction.
Fast forward a few dates, weโve already had sex and I suppose are seeing 1 another but we had both agreed (myself being the initiator) that we hate it when we go on our first dates and the other person practically stalks you to be their significant other (too rushed, too annoying).
He is young, very successful and internationally known in his field which intrigues me ..(Me! I am difficult to intrigue) but he does it. He even went as far saying I remind him of his female counterpart and heโs baffled each day, he never knew I existedโฆ.so I suppose we intrigue one another.
The point: Well, everything feels โJust Wrightโ (<โshameless self promotion LOL) and I feel very secure with him yet there are small things that are beginning to bug meโฆeverything I left my Pisces for about a year ago. I can't understand actions such as him not calling or texting when he is away. Thus far he's been gone twice 1 for personal family reasons which he said he wanted me to be the 1st face he saw upon his return (but clearly just a figure of speech) and we saw each other immediately 2 days later (our sche conflicted for sooner). He is gone this 2nd time (practically back to back, 2 wends) for work and the same: before he left, we had a great evening dining out and enjoying one another's company but he just doesn't call or text or even email!
I know we spoke of immature girls he'd been with in the past and that if he were to date someone it would have to be a mature woman but he said I was astonishingly all of that but I just don't know how much I am these days. He seems to have more faith in me than myself (haha).
I don't know, should I talk to him about being incog while away? I do understand how much his personal space means to him but it seems silly to not communicate like thatโฆI am all about c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-i-o-n.
I have never been so insecure about a relationship! I've spent the last 2 days researching our compatibility (which seems outrageously stalkerish yet I am doing it! OMG if he ever knew!) and odd enough, I haven't felt yet that he may be seeing someone else also since we never really clarified our "situation". I think for his young age he is very focused and grounded. knows what he wants, goes for it, and accomplishes well so sometimes I wonder if he is in my charts now to ground meโฆas inโฆmaybe this is all just a phase and the feeling will simmer into blahsay. Am totally confused when he acts one way while with me in person (can't stop kissing me, touching meโฆtelling me he's never been that much into kissing but can't stop touching meโฆsaying he has a lot of respect for me and think I ma brilliant, very sexy,and quite attractive)โฆAhhh, just everything seems perfect then he doesn't communicate. Just don't get itโฆI am Cancer Sun and Rising with a Gemini Rising btw.
What to do?
I love my scorpio boyfriend he puerto rican muscular tall with brownish green eyes he say he love how petite iam cause he can be protective over me he call me his chocolate mami cause im black but he is so protetive and jealous he told me hes not ok with guy being all over cause i have lots of male friends he hate when they talk about how sexy iam he wanted to fight one of my home boy cause he say that he can have me anytime but i love how protective he can be and jealous he look so sexy when he mad everytime we around our friend he hold me the whole time just to let my male friends know that im his no one elses but when we in the bedroom he be doin abunch of stuff to me that are too much for others to know he love pleasing me in bed he make sure im satisdied he love to eat the p..ss..y he be making sure my eyes rowle to the back of my head when it comes to sex with him theres no stoppin his touch are so intens and the way he looks me just make me want to go crazy and when we the be sexin he be so intens
By the way ima cancer thats why i cant get enough of how protective and jealous he is it turns me on
i’m a cancer woman, totally in love with my scorp man. it took us a while to see things eye to eye, or shall i say “my way” but now he gets me…..and we are in love. he’s intense and passionate and i love it! everything i’ve read about scorps is true when it comes to him.
cancer is attracted to the scorpion man therefore will love him more.
Diamond you are illiterate. Moving on… Nancy I’m just starting to get into astrology and was wondering why cancerians are so different? I’m sun cancer scorp rising but don’t feel like a cancer at all although it seems everyone else can relate to discriptions. I only attract water signs but feel more like a fire sign…whats up with that?
@Canserious….I’ve read your comment and I can totally sympathize. I’m a cancer woman married to a scorpio man. We were in a long-distance relationship for 2 years and we’ve been married for 2yrs now and he has NEVER ever cheated on me (trust me i’ve snooped around quite a bit ๐ ) but I get it when you say that he seems oblivious of you sometimes. I just want to help you understand a little better because I’ve been through what you are going through. The thing is, most scorpios have a STRONG need for space and privacy. That doesnot mean they don’t love you, it just means they need their alone time to recharge. Your scorpio not contacting you during his trip doesn’t mean he doesn’t care or is cheating, it only means he is taking his time to recharge and is probably so involved in what he is doing that he doesn’t realize the need to contact you.
You can never compare your scorpio to a pisces because that would be unfair to your man. Its funny but when I met my husband, I was just ending a 6yr relationship with a pisces and I get when you say that a scorpio man doesn’t act like your friend most of the time, he acts like your lover. But i have never regretted my decision to marry my husband. He gets me like nobody else does.
All I can recommend from experience is that you understand that your scorpio will always (and I mean ALWAYS) want to untangle himself from you from time to time and go recharge. But if you go after him, not give him his space, he’ll withdraw even further. Just give him this space and be patient and he’ll come back to you more intense and lovey dovey than before :). Good luck with your relationship and I hope for all the cancer women and their scorpio men out there that the situation works itself out. Just be sure to let him know that you are not going anywhere and that you can respect his need for space and you’ll be set for life :).
P.s. my solution to when my husband wants to go into his cave to contemplate, I make a date to meet my girlfriends and they keep me busy and happy ๐
Well guys i dunno how u do it!
Am crazy about this scorp guy.. all he has to do is show up in my vicinity and all my senses go haywire. I have never felt that with any man.
But…the sad part is its not mutual ๐ i dunno what i can do to make him love me as i do him.
sometimes i feel that he knows there is something between us and that he is in denial of it ๐
I proposed to him recently… he didn’t say YES/NO but gave me some diplomatic answer that i am yet to figure out
what do you suppose i should do!!
hello. very insightful page. im a cancer girl and im attracted to a scorpio man…and i can feel that he is too. He is really protective of me even if we’re just starting to really know each other…the funny thing is, the attraction is so intense we cannot talk that much….my problem is…he is so shy…it frustrates me because he communicates but rarely and often times when he gets the chance to talk to me, we talk about something else…also, i feel like he wants me to approach him and makes opportunity to do so…but me being me, i’m not sure how….
I’m dating a Scorpion man whom I’ve broken it off with twice because he doesn’t give me the attention I want, he rarely communicates his feelings towards me, and he leaves me feeling insecure. He has returned to me both times, so I know he wants me – on what level exactly?, I don’t know. I do, however, want to stay involved with him and patiently wait to see where this leads us.
How can I, a cancerian woman, overcome my insecurity? I’ve made up my mind to stay involved with him, and so I want to dead any feelings that will interrupt me having a good time with him. Help.
scorpio and cancer are best for each other..
really..
I was married to a Scorpio for seven years. TOTALLY DID NOT WORK OUT!! Not saying it won’t for you guys, but oh my god, he is an awful person, terrible father, and is downright psychotic. As I write this, he hasn’t seen our boys in 8 MONTHS! They are 6 1/2 and 1 1/2. I get along best with Leos.
married to a cancer man for 9yrs. extremely horrible. he is such a cry baby and has emotionally, verbally and physically abusive. it took me 17 yrs to come to this point. i am now messing with a scorpio and i could not be happier. you just need to give him time to himself. the passion between us is so intense, it is crazy plus he knows how to treat me like a woman.
I am in love with a Scorpio man. When we are out, he makes me feel like I am the only person in the room. Others in the room will leave because they said it looks like we needed some time alone…lol…we were only talking…guess you can feel the love and intensity coming off of us. In the bedroom…oh, in the bedroom…the intensity begin before we even get home. The way he looks into my eyes and he holds me….thats all I can say here. He’s my protector but, he calls me his Angel because I’m his protection….how cute.
Canserious … In high school a Scorpian found me… I too am a Cancer woman .. I had just broke up with another guy and was hurt.. Long story and not necessary to share… My scorpian guy came on strong with me and I ran… I broke his heart but dont do it again… yet he was in puppy love or love with me right away.. we both never got over each other… my family moved away and he moved too.. yet I kept trying to be in touch with him… We have now found each other yet but there is complications… he is still in love with me.. as I am with him…he has a scorpian woman in his life too.. wonder which woman will stand the test of time.. time will only tell..
Canserious … In high school a Scorpian found me… I too am a Cancer woman .. I had just broke up with another guy and was hurt.. Long story and not necessary to share… My scorpian guy came on strong with me and I ran… yet he was in puppy love or love with me right away.. we both never got over each other… my family moved away and he moved too.. yet I kept trying to be in touch with him… I broke his heart but wont do it again… Im committed till the end… We have now found each other yet but there is complications… he is still in love with me.. as I am with him…he has a scorpian woman in his life too.. wonder which woman will stand the test of time.. time will only tell..
wow this is real cause I was with him for almost two years and thought maybe he didn’t want commitment so I left and started dating a Virgo to which has died out but me and him really never stop seeing each other, I could never let go of him nor could he let go of me and he allowed me to be with the other guy as long as I was his and then like a wicked love curse I needed him desperately and wanted the relationship back now I am trying to break up with the Virgo with out hurting him helllllp
my x hubby was a scorpio and im a cancer we been together since we were 17 and we are 25/26 now…. and everything is sooo true!! We broke up 3 yrs ago and we kept seeing each other after that but now he has a gf and he doesnt want to see me or be around me i guess cause we still have that “intense connection” with each other but if we are around each other he tries keeping a distance, keeps his sunglasses on, acts mean towards me…. but i think its all a front but i could be wrong, we are not officially divorced either…. we just been separated for 3 years, but that is the best relationship i ever been with, and the break up was the worst… i was depressed and cried so much, and he started drinking alot but we both are moving on now but right now im dating a gemini man and i read about gemini man and cancer female and OMG it is sooo true, makes me want to back out of it and just get back with my scorpio hubby!
I was involved with a scorpio – i am a cancer… we grew up together and our parents were friends. three years ago, i ran into his dad who wanted to bring us together.. so, we met for lunch and i was struck…. but we live in different countries – him in the US, and me in Canada so neither of us made much effort. But we kept in touch and would meet around family stuff. Then something took hold last Christmas.. BIGTIME. I had just undergone an operation and he camp into town.. we spent an entire day and evening together… he confessed that he had had a high school crush on me… and described things from our deep past… from my end, for the last five years I have had his name in my mind without knowing why…it was so touching..
we emailed, and called daily, sometimes 10 times per day. And then one night on the phone he started talking about fantasies…. and confessed that he had had a crush on someone for years (thought it was me) but it was someone he had known in university… and because this woman didn’t want him, he never got to figure out if she was the one… i was stunned because i know felt whatever we were starting, had no real currency… but we kept talking … he then told me of his love affair with a french woman from years gone by… how he loved her so but when she moved to Boston to join him, he lost interest… after all this talk about other women, i asked him if he was seeing someone … and he said, yes. i was stunned…
this guy had not only flirted with me… he had spent an entire day and started a physical thing with me (we didn’t go all the way at first but we went far enough)…. and he had a girlfriend and I didn’t know about her..
I got off the phone… wouldn’t answer his emails and tried to close the door.
He called a few nights later beseeching me to listen. He told me that he had never wanted to be so honest with a woman before and felt in his heart we were meant to be together… that he needed to be with me.. and that he could let go of this other woman but wanted to know me first… in his defense, he has glaucoma, and can no longer drive although he runs a huge company… so he said he was vulnerable, even scared of change
I let him back in…..because we had a childhood history and his mom and my mom were best friends, and now his father wanted us to be together… and we had the same humour and intense physical chemistry… and he was planning to move back to Montreal
so we planned our next time together even though I felt badly about the circumstances… I’m very straightforward and don’t like cheating..
and then one night before our trip together, I called to say goodnight and interrupted him with “her”. He called the next day to say he would choose me over her… but in fact, he had lied to “her” and denied that he was involved with me…
We travelled to Florida together and spent time with his father and his father’s girlfriend who had invited me to visit them… It was a mixed vacation… Then we went to NYC… and it was horrible… he worked most of the time or was detached… and realized, finally, that he couldn’t be with two women at the same time….. I ended it even though he couldn’…….although we continued to email for a while because we banter so well.. but it got harder and harder for me.. and I kept thinking how he was almost still cheating with “her”… if he really meant to be with her, then he should have stopped all communication with me
anyway, two weeks ago he came back home and he and his family invited me to have dinner with them, which i did… and i couldn’t look at him…
this scorpio has all the negative and positives… he’s intense, brilliant, charming, a family guy… but he’s secretive, cunning, and does not offer the truth,,
I hate the part I played and have lost respect for someone I so much admired at one point that he was my hero.
Female cancer here….I’ve been dating a Scorpio man for about 8 months. I’ve been in lust with him since the first month of us dating. He such a caring, take-charge, motivational, and achieved person. He’s 12 yrs older than me (i’m 34, he’s 46) which makes it all the better because he’s a mature Scorpio…trust me there is nothing better. We connect so well, its like we can read each others mind, then again cancers & scorpion are very observant…for different reasons of course. Cancer observe folks so they can learn what that person likes…. to use it as an effort to please them in the future. Scorpios observes others just because they want to know EVERYTHING, they don’t want anyone to ever catch them “not knowing” lol.
“He may feel intensely possessive about her and even fatherly, as if she is vulnerable and needsย his protection” <<< I must admit this is my favorite thing about a Scorpio (yes I have a dad, and no he didn't abandon me lol). But I'm insecure and scared of evvvvvverything. So his possessive is what I need to boost my esteem and he encourages/protects me when I'm frighten/worried.
Scorpio men will tell you anything you want to hear in the beginning. And unlike us cancers they don't verbally express every emotions/feelings/thoughts.
After 8 months I've demonstrated my loyalty and trust ….I now sense that my Scorpio is starting to move a little past the "like" stage. But when I think about it… what's the point in trying to rush things? We enjoy each other's company …point blank!
Omg, ima true Cancer woman & two years ago when I dated a Scorpio man was the worst of my life! He cheated on me with four different women & came back crying & telling me all about it! Called me out my name & was very disrespectful toward me. Verbally, mentally, physcially abusive man, highly jealous if I even talked to a really close guy friend that he knew! Thru hissy fits if he couldn’t get his way & mouthed my whole family! I was good to him but he would embarrass & humiliate me in front of everybody on campus everyday I was at school, then come back & try to profess his love for me & how much he wanted to be with me. I was absolutely miserable & unhappy, felt like it went on forever. Yeah, the attraction is off the hook & the bond is like no other but omgoodness that is what I call raw & uncut & unhealthy living for anyone. I think he was mentally disturbed & very confusing, he had no respect for any woman & could care less if he hurts women & he told me this himself. I am now scarred because of this man, but I thank him because it made me stronger & wiser & to never never ever ever date another scorpio man again or like that. Yeah of course, at first they act like their so innocent & just so romantic & loving, like the perfect man for us cancer women but lemme tell ya, HE’S NOT! Its just a front, I had to cut off all contact back in jan cause he told me yet again he was with another woman in another state & I said idc that’s just how you are so what? He says your still my girl idc what you say, you’ll always be mine! Ladies, that’s not cute that’s scary. Watch for the signs: over possessive, drama king, stuck up, conceited, disrespectful, too overprotective, major major mood swings, cry baby, overly sensitive & dramatic.
sweet story……:)
truly described an scorpion personality………gud oberservation………:) but sorry for u…….:(
If you’re up for studying it in greater depth, you may want to look at your decanates. This is the influencing sign within your element based on which of the3 10 day blocks of your sign you’re in. An easy way to calculate it is just to know that the 1st decanate is your own sign, the physical aspect, the 2nd is the next on the wheel in you element, the mental aspect & the third is the last same element sign, the spiritual aspect.
Yes! Now Im relive about Dayan being a cancer this is so GREAT!!
I just recently met a Scorpio man (I am a Cancer Woman) and we instantly feel head over heels in love! It’s like we have known each other for years. We complete each others thoughts and sentences. Never thought that this could happen – but after reading the stories and getting more insight into this very passionate man I want to continue the journey. So far, It’s been quite a ride and I don’t want it to end – and neither does he. Very passionate and it’s the little things he does for me that means the world! We want to have a future together – things look very bright!
we’re so alike !
I totally agree with you. We were together for two years and he cheated on me with a Virgo, who was aware of me (Cancer). I ended our relationship, moved out and he found me. Soon after that he hooked up, but he was still sleeping with the other girl. I became prego and kept the baby. Now he lives with Virgo. Heart broken and a single parent.
Not all Scorpios are bad! There are two kinds of us Id say. One will never be loyal and the other cant bring himself to even think about cheating. Im number 2 ๐ I have all the passion and intensity but I could never cheat or be a liar. I respect honesty and loyalty in others so I try hard to be the like that too. I am seeing a cancer girl and she is so amazing. Our personalities gel so well, so much in common! I have what she is looking for in the passion, protection and confidence and she makes me feel so secure and I trust her so much. It keeps my jealous side away. Ive never felt like this before. Plus she is absoulutely beautiful and I make sure I tell her every day. She loves how I dont hide my feelings and shower her with compliments. I felt good things with my ex who is a pisces but never have I felt this so secure and just awe struck. Its awesome!!!! lol So cancer ladies just search hard for the good type of scorpio. We are out there.
whatever, i feel all scorpio’s are like no 1……. ๐
Well Im sorry you feel that way. Your loss :p
don’t understand that why the hell it’s my loss ?????
Woah no need to get so defensive. I was joking around. If you think all scorpios are bad guys then go right ahead. Its your opinion. Im just saying the truth is it is not the case. I can tell by your first comment you must have been in an ugly spot with a scorpio guy. Sorry if it happened. But what one did doesnt apply to all. Thats flawed logic
So I am a cancer female and I met my first scorpio in oct.. he sucks me in and holds me close emotionally and then its as if its too much and he shuts me out for a few days. The sex is amazing, and our connection is amazing I just don’t understand why he continues to push me away not sure if I should give up and move on or continue this limbo.. any advice would be helpful
heyh! i’m a cancer women n these sentence is absolutely true..i bilieve him n he too.he knows i only look him.but he is checking my patients.i have behaved rushly 2 him but he handles my mood swings with patients. i trust him completely n we have great sense of same deep intensity and having a great mental as well ad physical connection!! yo yo! i love him totally…he is leen but hiis eyes attracts me!! killing me with his look..woowe i feel it n he too feel my motherhood nature
heyh! iโm a cancer women n these sentence is absolutely true..i bilieve him n he too.he knows i only look him.but he is checking my patients.i have behaved rushly 2 him but he handles my mood swings with patients. i trust him completely n we have great sense of same deep intensity and having a great mental as well ad physical connection!! yo yo! i love him totallyโฆhe is leen but he is sexy n attracts me with his magnetic eyes.!!! killing me with his look..woowe i feel it n he too feel my motherhood nature.
I have been in a year relationship with a scorpio male… I’m a cancer female… and it’s amazing.. both signs are extremely passionate ๐
I’m a cancer woman who is currently married….I have been married going 14years and have never desired to be with another man until this scorpio man came into my life. We connected instantly and had a rapport like no other. He is also married….to make things even more complicated. What’s so difficult is that I love my husband and i know scorp still loves his wife even though they are having problems. We have an extremely intense bond and can almost read each other’s minds. We think about each other all the time to the point that it is painful when we are not together. I don’t understand the level of intensity of these feelings between us. Common sense says we shouldn’t be together because we are both committed to our marriages…but we can’t lie to ourselves about this unusual connection that we have with each other. We are drawn together like two magnets. I understand his deepest inner feelings…he even says that I scare him sometimes because of how accurately I can read him. I know this is wrong….bt we finally became intimate with each other about a month ago…and to my surprise it’s like we were made for each other…we were completly in sync with each other…it was like no other experience ever before. We agreed that it was wrong and have not touched each other since that night….but I still cannot get him out of my mind. We still work together and try to keep our distance…but the temperature rises in the room when we are near each other…it’s so hard to describe the feeling…I don’t know what to do or how to feel about all of this.
In response to (Crab in love with a scorp man)
I am in a similiar situation, his partner is Taurus and mine is a Leo male. What about you
To (x joker x) I love what you said about your Cancer girl. Scorp guys, do you prefer Pisces women or Cancer girls?
Definitely Pisces women I prefer. I just wished they lasted longer than Cancers. Cancer girls get fed up but hold on, as they cling to attachements, but Pisces gals get fed up and swim away.
Both signs are good for scorpio because they provide the emotional security that the scorpio man needs. I’ve dated both. The cancer girl I’ve dated on and off for 4 years since high school. We could talk about anything and she was so nurturing. When we were off during the 2nd year of being with eachother , I did have a relationship with a Pisces girl for a year. I felt reborn and fell deeply in love with this pisces woman. I agree with Scorpio Dave because she got fed up with me (and my overly possessive and jealous nature). I would withdraw myself from talking about my emotions with her because I didn’t want to get hurt but I guess she took it as me punishing her. As a way of getting back control, pisces women swim away and this is exactly what my piscean lover did to me. I did however go back to my cancer lover but am afraid that she was a backup. I knew that she would always be there for me. We now have a kid together but I still think about my pisces ex and think about how different my life could’ve been if I changed. I always look back and wished we could have worked it out.
I guess you can conclude that I like pisces women better. Cancer women are very reliable if you know what you want. They just work a little harder to keep you. I, on the other hand, like puliing the aloof pisces gal back in. It’s more of a challenge thing for me. A relationship with a cancer is easier because scorpios and cancers are very alike(both have hard exteriors(shells), both are very moody, and both cling to emotional attachments)
I love this site! So informative!! ๐
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In response to (Crab in love with a scorp man)I am in a similiar situation, his partner is Taurus and mine is a Leo male. What about you
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In response to (Cancergirl)….the interesting thing is that my husband is a cancer and the scorp’s wife is a scorp….
This is a perfect combo! My scorpio man is great! Not only he is caring, protective, loving, but he is my best friend too! He is all about making me happy and I’m just the same way to him! We are so alike we practically read each others mind! But at the same time we’re different too. I definitely believe Cancer woman and Scorpio man are a perfect match..of course it also depends on the person, you just gotta meet the right one!=)
There is this man at work whom I became close to during a weekend trip. Unfortunately he is engaged to someone else. I wish I met him before his engagement. He told me he can’t stop thinking about me although nothing happened between us. We just bonded immediately. He is a scorpio and I’m cancer. I feel like we can read each other’s mind. The attraction between us is very intense. I’m sadden. There are other men who voiced their interest in me and I go on dates with them so I dont have to think about my scorpio man, but he is the only person present in my mind all day and all night.
I became a total woman with a Scorpio man over 25 years ago…it impacted my life tremendously. I met my 2nd Scorpio man in 2001 and from the moment I saw him I knew there was something there, but nothing happened. Now in 2011 we meet again and he is SINGLE. I once more felt this strong emotion and he did too once we locked lips. I hope this time we can move forward and explore our feelings. This has never, ever happened to me with any man of any other sign before. The ball is in his court now….and he knows it. ๐
hehe i like the part about atracting a scorpio man its true i would use a fan to hide my face.But cancers are also dominating people.
For me our relationship is a roller coaster ride. We respect each other a lot, the sex part is superb but there are severe compatibility issues :/
scorpio man too domineering having a war of eotions & ownership control; we r too alike ; ๐ not for me; cancer woman says;
too domineering having a war of eotions & ownership control; we r too alike ; not for me; cancer woman says;
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:s i am cancer girl and at the same situation for a year now ! all is superb between us but he is married!
Khloe kardashian odom and Lamar Odom.. This couple is trending..
At first I was totally in Aww of my Scorpio man…so strong, confident, physically attractive. Smart funny as hell…but after the 2yr mark jealousy kicked in and he hit me at a club for dancing with a 60yr old man (I’m 31).blame it on a drink if you want but still wasn’t called for. He loves me to death and I’m so loyal but now don’t feel the same way even after getting back on track. Maybe too many emotional UPS and downs…he’s a great guy and I love the way he takes care of me physically and is a great provider. My emotional well-being is lacking..like its all about him and never asks how I’m doing or apologies for what hes said or did…I guess I’m wondering if I should suck it up and settle??? I’m afraid if I do I will be unhappy…don’t ever cheat and don’t want to look for emotional needs elsewhere. By the way I’ve explained this to him and he’s says I complain too much or never satisfied. Confused because he’s my world!
Scorpio and Cancer are good IF……..the Chinese signs match as well. This is REALLY important.
i do agree with ynvme…i mean em a cancerian by zodiac nd 22….sharin d courtship with a scorpion of 31… no doubt the luv…chemistry…romance…care and concern….is to a degree unsurpassed in our case…but sometimes i found him behavin erratic…which even i could not figure out…sometimes ultra possessive…he’s mah world…but then oft at times i found him rebukin meeh for maH COMPLAINS…for nt devoting meeh dat much of time…he claims the best way to harness a girl is to set her free in a cage…nw wts dat…??
but inspite of ol d odds em very much sure dat i definitely luv him…!!
I have strong feeling for a scorpio man. But I don’t believe it will work.
So, I wish him the best.
I’m a 39 year old scorpion man married to a perfect 46 year old cancer women
Wow!my Scorpio man is 28 and I’m 37 now. I loveeee how protective, fatherly he is towards me but i guess I’m very insecure n possessive of him๐
I’m a cancerian woman and was with a Scorpio nan for four years.It was great the first two years then it became hell. The man was extremely sensitive , moody and broody.It felt like l was with another woman .
I got fed up with fighting and being criticised for being
friendly to strangers.I’m very good in making friends I can go solo to any event and come out with several friends that will tell me they feel like they have known me forever lol. I’m that good with people like have a sense of humour that’s irresistible. Well my Scorpio man never appreciated my sense of humour at all.He would take offense with any jokes or laughs.He never seemed to enjoy the moments we spent together doing outdoor site seeing or travelling, he only enjoyed to watch the videos or pictures we took long after the vacation had taken place.He would get jealous of anyone who tried to talk to me and would criticise me for being friendly. He seemed to think that if he had upset me he can resolve it by buying me a gift , boy was he wrong.His nasty behaviour
got old and I left him with everything.He thought I was not going to leave the car and property. I did leave everything. Only my dog which he tried to get from me lol.it surprisedo me coz he treated my dog poorly and was jealous if I seemed to be giving it love.I’m now with a sag and I’m very happy.He is exactly what I needed. A real man not a wimp.My sag can understand my humour
I love him to death and he loves me too
Ima cancer woman… [deleted by admin]
Dear my stalker ex,
I loved u so much but then u ruined it by getting jealous and taking your anger out on me, u got paranoid and asking me where I’ve been- omg u wanted me to end my friendships???wow u really trusted me…. Not!!I’m not a liar like u and I never even raised my voice at you but you shouted at me and called me names.
I left without warning you because I know if I told you that I’m leaving you , you would’ve tied me up like you threatened to do! And now you still trying to get my new number well you’re NOT having it.
Seriously, STOP knocking on my door n harassing me or I’ll call the police and you’ll get arrested AGAIN…..GO AWAY….
TO OTHER CRABS WITH BAD SCORPIOS runnnnnnnnnnnnnn! You’re worth more:)
I’m dating a cancer man now lol 2 crabs together?? at least my bf now actually loves me.