Scorpio Man and Sagittarius Woman Compatibility
This is a surprisingly good combination given they are so different. They can appreciate each other’s breadth (Sagittarius) and depth (Scorpio). Both are powerful signs with dominance ability. Each has an uncanny way of “knowing” that the other can readily appreciate. Scorpio knows from the gut, instinct and bull’s eye perceptiveness. Sagittarius knows from the heart, spirit and intuition. This sets them apart and drives them towards each other for mutual understanding of their exceptional qualities. Both these signs play fair and play for keeps. The stakes are the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
How to Attract a Sagittarius Woman as a Scorpio Man:
You will have to figure out how to cross her path which is sort of like aiming at a moving target. You’ll be fascinated by how active she is and motivated by the chemistry to chase her down. The next thing to do is your famous “shock and awe’. Look her right in the eye and let loose one of those amazingly perceptive comments you’re famous for such as “You’re really bored here, aren’t you?” Far from being phazed, she’ll laugh out loud and you know you’re on your way. Aim also toward cultural events, political activities or find out what are her favorite causes, probably raising money for animal rights or humanitarianism abroad. Be as honest and crude as you like. Go for it!
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Sagittarius Woman:
What really comes in handy is your ability to get the ball rolling. You make what is dark and complex to him (sex =– after all, it’s his religion) light, fun and natural. Jostle him up a bit. Rough up his hair. Reach out with a light slap on the shoulder or a little shove on the back – the way kids play. You’re the only one who could ever get away with that, with crossing those famous Scorpio boundaries, and he’ll admire you for it. (He thinks he’s really scary.) Now you have his attention – pull back and play hard to get. Book some tennis matches with your male friends or grab a girlfriend for a quickie trip to Europe. In other words, just be yourself!
Degree of Romance:
There is a lot of intensity here but nobody’s got time for romance.
Degree of Passion: Both signs are famous for passion, a word that means different things to different people. Here, it means only the best, lust for life and one another. Both have the need and willingness to relentlessly and mercilessly explore all worthwhile inner and outer experiences. They amaze one another with suggestions and nonplussed acquiescence. This makes a terrific and unbreakable bond.
Degree of Friendship:
If mutual respect is the cornerstone of a good friendship, these two walk off with the blue ribbon.
Degree of Marriage:
Especially for a second or later in life partnership, this rocks. Both partners are capable of appreciating the qualities that make positive bonds: honesty within limits, commitment to vital living, fidelity and a humane realism regarding space and time demands.
Progression of Relationship:
You will never meet two people more committed to hashing out territorial and time issues. Both Scorpio and Sagittarius put a high value on what is genuine. Since they find this prized quality in one another, and so rarely anywhere else, they are likely to pull together to get it up and running. Both are good communicators, negotiators and life partner material.
Sex:
Sex can be at its finest with these two. Sagittarius sets Scorpio free of self imposed restrictions (ever had sex with a Sag? that’s their gift to all of us) whilst Scorpio puts a ring of fire around Sagittarius, heightening the experience almost unbearably. The sex is so good it doubles their efforts to hash out mutual territory and make necessary compromises in other areas.
When It’s Over:
This one is most inclined to last because both Scorpio and Sag will easily overlook anything if they want to be with the other: all things are forgiven and forgotten after a ferociously honest clearing of the air. If it must end, Scorp will have to do the honors. Sag will waltz off into the sunset, a bit sad but already looking for life’s next big adventure.
This soo true at least for me! I always wondered what attracted me to him…. I now know why I love him soo much even though were so different!
I am a Saggie, and my love is a Scorp from INDIA. The magnitism between us was immediate, though I had no clue of his interest in me. He was secretly tracking me out of interest, until he found the right time to make his move of approach. When we did begin to talk, we would talk for hours about everything and anything. We truly feel we are soulmates, and our intimite experiences are beyond all spiritual realms. The only thing is he truly did put me through an unbelievable time of interrogation, ferretting out everything he held in suspicion. I felt like a sheered and naked bone by the time he was finally done. This went on for quite a time. He does watch all that I do, though finally trust has been established.I believe he will never completely stop looking over my shoulder, as he is immensely possessive and jealous. This does not bother me, actually. In fact, I like his attention and possessiveness. I completely trust his loyalty, and he trusts mine. Ironically, the times when we both wanted to “cash in the chips” so to speak, we could never manage to tear ourselves apart. One of us always ended up lowering our pride and approaching the other, strangely usually this is him. I think this has gained respect from him, because although I love him intensely, if he is wrong, I stand my ground, refuse to be his doormat, and let him know, I will walk if necessary. On flip side, when I am wrong, I allow him to vent his anger, sincerely apologize, and work on a compromise and understanding. I sure don’t like his temper though! He has showed me his “inner self” something that I know is no small thing, as his family has not even seen some of these aspects. I love him intensely with all of my soul, and would never be the same again without him.
A#@ TAmelaa
This rings very true. Thanks for such a vivid and accurate deecription.
@ Tallulah, … gems are disaster, I had one who tried to convince me that he loves me, but its so difficult to Believe a person who is *hammering* it verbally that he Loves and Loves.. something in me, just does not trust them. (I find they are too clever for my simple ways).
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“Too clever for my simple ways”, is a good way to put it! I don’t think they can ever just do something and get it done. They have to monkey with it.
Scorpio man and Sag woman can DEFINITELY work, it is Superlative, he does get controlling and I dont give an inch, and he mellows down, wow and wow… but it is not too often. lol
I am very laid back and easy, I dont pressure him to call me daily or meet weekly or do this or do that, .. but I only put my foot down and press the heel when he is Unfairly Demanding, then I dont give a fraction of a millimeter, forget the inch.
in his mellow and soft times (cough.. you know when), he even admitted he loves me most for my strength when I say NO to him and NO to further negotiations on the subject.
he is a Quint-essential man, I love that about him, he is protective, caring, authoritative and amazingly insightful. Men bore me too quickly, but not this guy, even his silence is amazing, he can play with my hair and listen to my silly gibberish for hours, without saying a word, and he actually Listens (unlike libra or gem who are waiting for a pause to start this chrip chrip..)
whats best about him… rofl.. is that he is MANIPULATIVE, giggle, yes.. and he admits it.. so all the cunning, manipulating tasks I leave to him. Dealing with stupid relatives or refusing to go to dumb get togethers etc, finding a way out of tricky situations,, I always look at him and he takes over and is soooo suave at this, this suits me perfectly and him too. 😉
I have been with all the zodiac (how sag is that, 😀 except taurus and cancer .. ), and I did not find a more complimenting mix.
… probably because his moon and mars are in leo and venus in sagittarius, but it is touchwood, amazing, I feel he Completes me, all that I do not have, he has.
He is most HONEST, he knows his pitfalls and admits, he can take criticism and even ponder where he should. I am similar.
the bottom line, I trust him.
the way I came to know is funny, I lost my baggage and ticket on airport, and was just left with mobile in my pocket, and he was *one of the guys, in love with me* (cough) at that time, but then and there, I thought of contacting no one, but him, I felt **this is the guy who will fly to another city and be here**, that realization was most strange. Though i did not call him, I did find my belonging back,, and find the Desire of my Heart.
it is the most truthful and best writeup about sag woman and scorp man, so RIGHT on mark.
thank you for this.
sexy sag
Thanks for a very beautiful love story.
@ Tallulah, a scorpio will test your strength, do not become a doormat to him, he will walk all over you.
that seven years thing is so true, probably because of saturn being in virgo. Home and Security is becoming my top priority as well.
bring your fire out and do not let this scorpio torture you anymore, Trust me, he will jump the highest of bar set to come up to your standard, do not lower your bar. Raise it. 🙂
all the best.
thanks nancy,
just a little note, not for the board but just to you.
If there is ONE person who can keep a sagittarius Loyal and Faithful, that is a scorpio. Here is a primitive man, and sags know not to play with his temper. All the temptations and itch that sags have, is totally hushed out, when with a scorpio.
They both are, secretly AFRAID of eachother, fearful and respectful of the immense power their partner has, and they totally commit to Not disappoint the other.
My most recent ex-girlfriend is a Sag. We were an amazing couple! The only thing that prevented marriage was the fact that she listened to her friends more so than me. She broke it off, and know she regrets it! We still maintain a good friendship that on occasion slips into being lovers again. Go figure.
I’m an Scorpio male that just lost my SAG wife of 9 years to lung Cancer. I can tell you she was truly my soulmate. It was both our second marriages and we were amazing together. It was like we found each other thru eternity. Everything written in the compatablity above is true. It can work! I just pray to God we will be together again in another time and place.
yes, that intensity part is totally true..
i dont find people at-par with me there too,,, do emotions means crying out loud and saying them all, I cant do that,, but then that ONE PERSON who can touch me and makes me feel that he *understands* is very surprised to know the depth, that otherwise I shrug off ..
how is your scorpio doing T?
my scorpio gives me the taste of my own medicine when I dont go deep or too emotional by staying away.. (its like INSTANT give-n-take with scorps), but he is so LOVING,, and i guess I am getting good at reading him,, and making him do anything I want, without asking.. 🙂
oh k, that was soo superficial and ostentatious, dont mind plz..
I am with a Sagittarius girl now and though I’ve been with one before, this time there is so much complimentarity and so much joy. I am Scorpio with Leo Rising and Leo Moon with Mercuy in Sag and Venus in Libra. She is Sag with Virgo rising Scorpio Moon, and Venus in Scorpio not to mention plenty of Pisces energy in her chart.
She is the perfect compliment to my life. She is my best friend. I love her. I want to love her forever and progress inward and upward with her. Her love is so youthful and true, mine is deep and unbreakable.
it’s so blissful
Wow…wow…this is me and my guy now. He’s a scorpio and I’m a Sag (not sure about what moon I’m in) but everything is true. He ended it with me but lured me back with movies and a day trip complete with apology and amazing sex! I think we are on more solid ground now: we’re making time for each other, talking more to each other and the like. I do sense that he is worried about ‘how things will look’ (as if I care-typical Sag huh?) regarding to his ex. Like many of the other posters, my scorpio is a complimenting balance to me and I am hoping that it will continue to blossom into something more!
Wow I’m with a Scorpio man and I don’t see all the compatibility everyone screams about. The sex is subpar, he is very guarded in expressing his feelings, and etc. We get along great as friends and I could even see us getting married but a great love affair romance I do not see. I see a loyal man who treats me like a princess and that’s enough for me. Every other horoscope says we are not compatible or just barely. I think those above have made it work and are happy. But as a whole it will not be this walk in the park fairytale. It will take hard hard work and tons of patience to make a sagg woman & sagg man work. In the end it’s worth it so don’t give up.
the only problem with sag/scorpio couple is the inability of sag’s to keep a secret. Scorpios demand secrecy from their partner but sag’s compulsive desire to want to always blurt everything is painful.
Im a Sagittarius and I too am in love with a Scorpio man. He is my best friend relative, and the first time I met him I felt something within me that I have never felt before in my life with no other man. I was 15 at the time.
He always made me nervous and i was to shy to talk to him. At the time i was in a relationship and i wanted to get out of it. One night i stayed the night at my friends house and he was their. I didnt care about anything put that moment sitting next to him on the couch; i leaned to him and kissed him for few seconds and pulled away and went to bed. The next day i told my boyfriend about it and he broke up with me. I did it because he was leaving out of town. I remained single cause i knew he would be back. almost an year goes by and i hear that he is back and i knew he was at my friends house. I end up going over their to tell him how i felt about him, but sadly i seen him with a girl; one that i knew n couldnt stand. I never told him anything. Eventually i began to date.
through out the years I did see him at gatherings, but i couldnt stay their for too long always told myself that he belonged to me and his kids should of been mine. I left because i felt anger towards myself. 10 years later he found me on facebook and we started to talk he was not in a relationship. We are now together and surprisely he said that he loved me from the moment he saw me, and didnt know how to approach me, and wished i would of said something to him. He too thought the same thing about me at gatherings. He is an amazing man and i will never let him go. Yes, i do have to admit that he has a temper, but for the most part he keeps me balance and very happy. We communicate about everything, and he makes me feel like no other man has ever made me feel. keeping him, thats for sure! Cannot be without him.
I am a Sagittarius that is crazy about a Scorpio man. We actually dated many years ago when we were in our teens. I hurt him pretty badly then, and I still feel like he hangs onto that anger or resentment. We sometimes have the most intimate conversations in terms of how he feels about other things in his life..things that I am certain he doesn’t share with anyone…and almost every time he opens up to me, he shuts down pretty much the next day, and he won’t speak to me for a few weeks. I try so hard to not feel hurt by this, because I understand that he is very complex and it is not easy for him to open himself up like that…There are moments where I feel as if I should give up, but something keeps pushing me towards him…and I think I might be one of the most important people in his live even thought he would never say that, or let me know that he feels this way. But when he feels like he is spiralling out of control, it is me that he takes comfort in….but I wonder if he keeps me at an arms length because of the pain that I caused him earlier in life, or if he reaches out to me when his is in just because I am comforting to him… I wish I knew what to do. Everything in me tells me to keep trying, and remain positive…but that might just be the Sagittarius in me :0)
this is so true.. my boyfriend is a scorpio.. and trust me when i say we’ve been through a lot together but we both overlook it all to be with eachother.. the passion to be with eachother and make everything work is something that i’ve never experienced before.. we work at what we want out of life together and it make the relationship all the more worthwhile.. i’ve never met anyone so much like me but different at the same time… its a wonderful feeling… i love my little scorpio man…
i am a sag woman who was datin a scorpio man he ended it after 3 months sayin it didnt feel right, that is the only explanation he will give. The endin came out of the blue as i thought every thing was good so im totally lost with this one, as ididnt want it to end.
I’ve read so many things that said Scorpio Men & Sag girls aren’t compatible. I’m a sag, and my BEST friend is a scorpio. He is probably the best thing that ever happened to me, although he doesn’t see it. We have been friends since we were 5 years old and have never stopped. Our distance has never cancelled out our friendship. We have a special bond together, it’s almost… its weird. You can FEEL it. You can see it. I have so much respect for him, as he does for me.
Although he asked me out before, I rejected him.
I don’t know why, I was too afraid to lose him. I don’t want to spoil anything. He was/IS the best thing ever. Of course, I had been in love with him for too long. My mom even told me about how he looked at me. I wish I’d noticed.
Now he is with a cancer woman and she is due – actually this week. I’m wishing the best for them.
But at the corner of my mind… I know we are so perfect for each other. I bring light into his life, quoted by him, and he brings feeling into my life. I need it. It’s healthy for the lifestyle I have – its havok.
We are making the same mistakes… we are still teaching each other. There will always be a place for him with me, although I know I can never have him romantically.
A girl can dream.
I love the honest and loving depiction that you have written! I am a sag woman and I have never been more in love or felt so connected then I do with my Scorpio. The thing is we definitely had are downs and times were things were on the edge but the love between us kept us going. Even though most sites depict a sag female as being simple minded and flighty (witch is sometimes true) you really captured my honest feelings perfectly. Honesty and truth is all that ever matters to me and it’s great to know that I have someone who feels just the same.
Even though I find that he can sometimes take loyalty to the EXTREME he means no harm. During these last few months I decided that because of some very unsure behavior on his part that it would be best for me to just walk away. That is something that for me as a sag I find very easy to do, but he is the only person who I have ever forfeit to in a sense. He is the only person that has ever been able to make me doubt myself and for me I find it so attractive. I left him before I felt he would break my heart something I am usually never afraid of. I knew though from the beginning that he was the only person who had the ability to do that.
Since then I haven’t communicated with him for two and a half months. He has since rushed into a new relationship with a Virgo female. Although the relationship between them is said to be a good one they have no “fire” as I would call it. There is a strong force that holds a sag woman and a Scorpio man together. I know that he is still as in love with me as he was before if not more. After this short time of separation I know we have both had allot of time to reflect on the mistakes we made in the relationship. I know that he would drop everything to be with me. I’m just waiting for the right time. I miss him dearly and I know that I don’t feel this alone.
My advice to a sag woman going after a Scorpio male is that there will definitely be struggles but the pay off will be great and the love felt between the two cant be captured anywhere else.
i met a scorpio almost 10 months ago. i wont go into the story of how we met because it mirrors the story of all the posts above. i 2 used to cry as a child for God to send me the man of my dreams and i think he is that man. i feel so confused by him and he pushes my buttons at random, especially when he wants to prove a point. I feel connected to him even when he isnt around and when he is around, i feel like a volcano ready to erupt. i am very possessive of him and his attention. he’s definitely afraid of me (moon in scorpio) and i am fearful or him but in a good way.
I too have started to take “home and security” serious since ive met him. hes advice is so logical its almost scary.
when he lays next to me, i cannot fall asleep. my mind races about him. even when im in the same room with him, i can feel his mind debtaing some plan that will come to frution in days or weeks; or even hours…
oh my..he MAKES me want to be a good girl. ive seen and felt the stinger when i used to not take him seriously. ive seen him lose control a few times and vice versa.
sometimes i get tired and say that the race is tooo long..but the prize is sooo grandiose.
i pray for him every night. i write him poetry (this is a first). hes special.
So I am a Scorpio man and I have only had 2 serious relationships in my life, and oddly enough they were both with Sag women. I have a lot of Leo aspects in my chart, which is why I feel I have an instantaneous connection with most, if not all Sag females that I come across, but it gets much deeper than that. When I was 13, I met my first love and she was a Sag. I actually didn’t like her when we first met, I thought she was rude and domineering. We hit it off the second time we met and the relationship lasted 2 years. I had lots of fun with her, even though we were very different people. We broke up when I was 15 and it was a major heartbreak, especially since she dumped me for someone else. In the end we drifted because she wanted me back, but I had lost the feeling due to the way the situation took place. Then I hit a rough spot around this time and she completely turned her back on me and when I resolved my issues then she came back, but that was it for me. I kind of figured I didn’t need someone like that around. Plus I needed a friend, but she showed me she wasn’t when she turned her back on me inn a tough situation. Now that I think about it she was a typical Sag, or at least the one’s you read about who are superficial, unfaithful and not loyal. I guess what attracted me to her, and what attracts me to all Sag’s was her bright and outgoing nature. She was frank when it came to speaking her mind but her actions were timid and she wasn’t bold at all, which made me lose a lot of respect for her. I guess we were both young and I was too deeply emotionally involved with someone who didn’t understand any of that. I never held a grudge after everything was said and done and I deeply value the experience.
Okay so now we get to the love of my life, the mother of my child and my best friend, who I am with now and hopefully forever. She is a Sag and we have been together for 7 years and counting. Our relationship started off as only a sexual one, (and ooh boy was it good, come to think of it, it still is) actually we had strong feelings for each other right off the bat, but we were both too stubborn to admit these feelings to each other. I was even seeing other girls and having sex with them and she had knowledge of this stuff while it was going on. I didn’t want a serious relationship, but she did and she broke first. She told me and I laughed her off. I had feelings for her but I had learned a valuable lesson from the last Sag girl I was with so i treated her like crap because of it. But some pretty bad things started happening in my life, and she was there for me throughout everything and I didn’t ask her to be and she was, which really amazed me. I had friends who didn’t lend a hand, but she did. So I gave it a chance and I wasn’t dissappointed. She is beautiful, funny, charming, rational, strong willed, and very easy going. She isn’t superficial, in fact she is very genuine, and her character is all around great. We share everything, and do mostly everything together. She is the complete opposite of my first Sag love and I can’t picture life without her. She also got me to open up to her and other people that I never have before and I am pretty comfortable with that. Last but not least she is strong emotionally and mentally, she doesn’t bend break or fold and I really like that because it signifies strength and power and that is what most Scorpios are all about. So I think this couple description was on the money… I love all you Sag’s, what whould we do without you guys…lol
well James,
from the sound of it,,, the first sag was very young and almost a child, and sags take some hard lessons before we start to take life and emotions seriously.
as for being typical,, your second sag, is actually TYPICAL, not the first. Sags are not Selfish people and I guess they find it very very hard to turn back on friends when they are in trouble, and most importantly, they do not do so for any favors-in-return..
Iam obsessed with a male scorpio ..and i found out he’s with a taurus chick ..how can this work ?? are taurus females better than sag females with scorpios … its driving me crazy
that’s so true..i’m a sag girl dating a scorpio man.. in the begining , it used to be a great bond, we would talk for hours and everything was just wow..but now i feel him so “far”from me, he barely says what he’s thinking and feeling and i have no idea what’s going on.. i also read about sag&scorpio compatibility and most of them say it’s a really bad one..hmm.. i like to talk a lot, i’m funny and i also loke my freedom and i know he is gelous and possesive, but i didn’t give him any reason to be so..I really wish i could understand what he thinks and make him speak his mind 😀
If you’re up for studying it in greater depth, you may want to look at your decanates. This is the influencing sign within your element based on which of the 3 10-day blocks of the sign you’re in. An easy way to calculate it is just to know that the 1st decanate is your own sign, the physical aspect, the 2nd is the next on the wheel in your element, the mental aspect & the third is the last same element sign, the spiritual aspect.
i dont know about any of you but….Scorpios are to dam controllin they asked multiple questions like they are they fbi and i jsut cant stand that .. so no more Scorpios for me
okay so wow once again I find a post that mirrors my experiences with my Scorpio friend. I say friend because right now we are dating and taking things slow because I just recently divorced and have a 2 year old and don’t want to dive head into a new relationship so fast. With him I don’t mind if I do but I’ve had past relationships where all I did was get into them to hastily and they ended up crashing. If this guy represents what a Scorpio man is about then I must say that above any other zodiac sign I’ve dated he is the most awesome. Yes Sagitarius woman and Scorpio male mix will get into heated discussions but what I love about him is that he actually “wants” to talk about things and not avoid conflicts like most men appear to do. I can go on and on but so many of your posts mirror what I feel and think about this guy. He is generous for sure and that’s not why I’m so into him but that is definitely the icing on the cake. He is definitely passionate and passion is something I’ve been missing for a while in my life. No matter what kind of disagreements we have we always make up almost in the same instance and the flame seems to burn hotter and hotter. Anyway you all know where I’m coming from. Just wanted to put my two cents in. SCORPIO MEN ROCK!
Hi James,
i was just reading your post and i agree with sexy-sag who responded to it. The first sag’s youth would explain her entire actions. Naturally we are not selfish and would not turn our backs on our friends and when i read it i was surprised by sexy-sag brought a godo point about the youth. When I was younger i was always very giving (for eg. i wanted to give my new bicycle to my younger sister because she didn’t have one yet) but there are certain I recall doing in my youth where I could’ve been more helpful toward a person and I blame it totally on my own lack of life experiences at the time. Your 2nd sag is who we’re really about and I am happy that it worked out for you two.
CORRECTION !! *Hi James,
i was just reading your post and i agree with sexy-sag who responded to it. The first sag’s youth would explain her entire actions. Naturally we are not selfish and would not turn our backs on our friends and when i read it i was surprised but then sexy-sag brought a good point about the first sag’s youth. When I was younger i was always very giving (for eg. i wanted to give my new bicycle to my younger sister because she didn’t have one yet) but there are certain I recall doing in my youth where I could’ve been more helpful toward a person and I blame it totally on my own lack of life experiences at the time. Your 2nd sag is who we’re really about and I am happy that it worked out for you two.
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@the branch , i dont get all those venus stuff you were saying D:
@mike that is sooo sad !
Well recently i met this scorpian guy nd in the past i have been SCAAARRDD badly by the evil Aries so its hard to love nd trust.
But this scorpio he is sooo affectionate and soo loving…it scares me!
idkk if he loves me ijust dont know but im scared to love him but he is sooooo loving towards me nd weirdly the first time we meet he was sooo passionate to me ! suprisingly! because there all to themselves, i asked him whyy is he like this to me and he said this is how he expresses love and give his love but im scared of being hurt by him like the Aries did to me.
do you think the scorp is telling the truth or no?
@mike
If you’re still around, I’m so sorry for your loss, but your story gives hope…
That you and your beloved wife, who share an eternal bond, will be reunited in the afterlife…
And that no matter what others say, Scorps and Sags can have a beautiful love like yours.
Dear All
Thank you for all in your insights into the Scopion /Sag Union ….
Here goes:
A few year ago I was married to somebody who nearly destroyed me, emotionally, sexually, physically ( I dropped to 48kg I’m 5ft 10), and finacially. It has taken a few years rebuild me as a person and now I truely feel happy – but single.
Last year I met a scorpion male – and we seem connect is thie really strange way – Mark is so not my type – at the time he was in a relationship that was on a slippery slope to ending … we hung out for a few months – until I received the drunken call from him …. which ended in a ulitimatumn on his part – I will never be back into a corner – so we lost contact..
We recently found each other and his relationship has ended ….
The connection still feels there – more from his part than mine as – I’m just not sure if he is being truthful (about what he feels, thinks about me) or if I’m just a “challenge”
So sitting here reading compatibility studies for answers !! Hmmmmmm
I feel I have a number of scorpion traits … I love my own company, can easily spend weekends not talking to anyone. I’ve not had many partners and I’m 42 – so not a typicaly sagi?
I find all of the comments very interesting. I’m a Scorpio man, and I love my Sag woman more than anyone. Despite the simple logic of most compatibility tests, I actually think Sag is the best partner for a mature Scorpio. For those of you exploring a relationship with a Scorpio, there are few things you should know: We love honesty above all other traits. (Not truth, most Scorps think truth is nonsense, but honesty.) When we test you, we are testing your ability to be honest. If you pretend that you’ve got your life together, and that you are looking for a lover and soulmate, we will test this in you. Less mature Scorps may try to do this through jealousy tactics and things of that nature, but the more mature Scorps will try and get into your psyche. We’ll find your wounds and press on them ever so slightly. We don’t do it to be mean–in fact, it’s very difficult for us because we know that it is painful to you–but to make sure that the emotional wounds from past are as healed as you say they are. Why do this? Because, the thing about Scorps is that we are difficult to handle on two fronts. It is our absolute desire to be the most loving person you have ever had in your life. We want to give a beauty to your life that you cannot even begin to understand, and we can do it. We are willful enough to do it. But we also know that this alone requires enormous strength of heart to handle, and it doesn’t include our moments of brooding or the darkness that makes our love intense. Sag is one of the few signs I have known that can handle this duality with relative ease; and not only that, but can invert it, and make what is a serious desire for Scorpios seem light-hearted and playful. Sags also have the ability to make Scorps feel more loved than almost anyone. It’s the way you react to our seduction. Since we know your strong willed, it is wonderful when we see you melt, blushing in particular(!), when we are trying to be seductive. The fact that we know you are honest makes this all the more intense and is in return seductive to us. It’s a very nice give and take. It is what makes the process of making up after a fight so wonderful.
If there is one draw back in all of this, it’s that in order for this to work both people have to be mature. I dated several Sags before meeting one that brought out in me, as well as in her, all of the positive elements. Immature relationships between these signs is almost impossible to maintain. Our differences led us to fight constantly, and without the maturity to communicate, compromise and negotiate the fundamental personality differences, it led to a lot of hurt feelings. With my Sag now, none of these things are an issue. We respect each other; we trust each other; we assume that we are looking out for each other’s well-being. It took a long time to get to this space, but now I wouldn’t want anything else.
I am a sag woman. I never dated in highschool because I held a high moral standard that dating was for adults and pregnancy was nothing I wanted to deal with so young. In college I couldn’t help but become curious about the young mean I kept seeing around me. For some reason I kept attracting gemini men into my life! As much as their words were adoring, the sex being passionate, and communication being exhilarating along with alluring childish antics, each and everyone of the 3 gemini men I have been with were not completely truthful, arrogant, sarcastic and talked more about things they wanted to accomplish (an impressive list) rather than actually setting goals to accomplish it. The weird thing is you never forget a gemini, they are so colorful that part of you always loves them and being the sag that I am, I wished the second but last would always come back to me despite the lies and arrogance.
However I am now with a scorpio. I was attracted almost instantly because he was sweet without saying one word and my curiosity got the better of me because I was constantly wondering what he was thinking about. He would offer his time to help me with whatever I asked; being a very independent person I feel like part of me was testing is the sweetness was genuine. This man fraustrats me because he is quiet and does not express his feelings. I am constantly asking questions to see if I can even scratch the surface of the depths of this man but it doesn’t work. I have never had anyone answer questions with silence before and not even flinch. There is this quiet strength he has at all times, which makes me feel safe and loved all at the same time.
I have not gotten used to how he constantly watches me, even if I don’t think he is watching me he is watching me. He catches little quirks of mine and seems to make a mental note for later. I feel like I am in a job interview with this man.
The thing that puzzles me is that he only wants to see me once in a while. We are both busy during the week because we run our own businesses but he will still skip out on the odd weekend that we are supposed to get together. I get that this man needs his space, but its too much. Sometimes I think he is out with other girls or with friends or out of town, but I’ve come to find that he is home watching movies by himself on those weekends. I don’t know if the guy is scarred of commitment or what! He constantly says he likes me a lot even though he doesn’t really show it. Says I am the most loving, free-spirited, compassionate and intelligent woman he has come across and that he is only begining to know me and really likes me so I shouldn’t fret.
However, I don’t feel like I am in a relationship because I am used to the constant adoration from gemini (when they are still into you) and the spats we have that draw us close. I can tell I shouldn’t get the scorpio man angry with my sharp tongue (half the time I know its mean but it is always the truth and I am always right, or so I like to think). I can tell there are layers to his emotions and if I hurt or insult him it won’t be easily forgiveable like with gemini where we scream, have sex and get over it.I
Lord help me but this relationship is hard. If you people are saying it will last if i just hold on….then I am just going to do that…I’ve always been loyal even with the gemini..they do not know a real woman
this all bullshit ..off all the guys ive met in my life this scorpio might have been the worse always wanting to pick an argument never stop fighiting or arguing he loves arguments to be honest…
My sincere suggestion to all the sweet Sags here ..
1. Never date your opposite sign ( Gemini ). It is a difficult combination .
2. Never marry another Sag . They are the best friends one can ever get , but not the best people for marriage .
3. Aries , Aquarius and Libra are perfect choices for Sagittarius women . Leo is a good choice too but you need to get through the ego clashes first .
4. Get the entire chart checked if you know his DOB , Birth time and birth place as well.
5. Another tip is , do not date the signs that rule your 6th , 8th and 12th houses . Suppose if you have an Aries ascendant , Virgo will be your 6th house sign , Scorpio will be your 8th house sign and Pisces will be your 12th . Although , this works for the most part , this isn’t entirely fool proof.
6. Pay attention to sun-moon exchanges in both of your charts .
Scorpio -Sagittarius can be a winning combination if the Scorpio man has a fire sign as moon/ascendant or if the Sagittarius woman has a water sign as her moon/ascendant.
When dealing with a Scorpio , Sagittarius women should not follow the head-over-heels approach . You should refrain from being an open book and judge his character carefully before confiding in him about anything you are sensitive about . Scorpios with a badly placed mars and Pluto , will truly live up to all the horror stories written about Scorpios.
@summer,
never date a gemini. then what is the Angelina Jolie (gemini sun) and Brad Pitt (Sagittarius) combination?
Reading all you guys comments have really helped me! I don’t feel alone anymore or like I’m going crazy lol.
Well I’m a sag 24 and my boyfriend is a Scorpio 37 yrs old we have been in a relationship a little over a year, and lets just say that the honeymoon stage has long gone but I’m in it to win it its just his coldness and silence and cold shoulder hurt me sometimes and at times he seems to complain and complain about little thing i find are not that serious so to him it comes off as i don’t care. hes never told me he loves me hes shown it to me and I’ve never told him because I’m afraid of rejection, he does play mind games with me and test my strength so at times I’m battling if i should just let him have his way or stick t my guns…I have also went through his phone before early in the relationship and was hurt to find he was texting other women it hurt me deeply i cried and wanted to let go but somehow the bad experiences we’ve had has made him closer to me but its taking a toll on me I feel he enjoys an argument and I don’t I also don;t like to be questioned but i know I have to make sacrifices for this to work so I’m willing to put my guard down a little more and be more patient with my Scorpio and especially with his feelings!
Any advice for this young sag is welcome!
Hi
texasgrl90, I have to say I have a few friends and most of them are Scorpios, and the worst part is I myself am a Scorp. Anyway, I said “a few” It doesn’t mean I haven’t met lots of people, but I have, and I’ve found Scorps as the most loyal ones. You think they are calm and cool, but you don’t know how badly their heart burns for every little “ouch” that their loved ones say. He loves you, if he thinks you love him. He adores you if you say you love him. He won’t care if he dies for you only if he is sure you will only be for him.
He won’t abuse you, unless he is abused. I’m kind of sure you have texted some guy so in fact you made him text some woman.
Believe me, I’ve met the most idiot Scorps who don’t care for me at all, they will be happy if I die, I guess… but they have the same quality which is “righteous”.
NEVER play with his feelings, this is not the type who forgive and forget at the same time. Something was so surprising to me; most of them can read your mind. So don’t think he’s a fool and won’t understand it if you cheat on him. When he knows it, he’ll slowly go away.
So don’t be shy, show him your feelings and be real honest, don’t be an annoying Cancer girl who hides lots of things…..ewwww….
More you tell him about what you do and what you like, more you’ll be real friends in this romantic relationship, and who are better in friendship than a couple. He just loves this kind of relationship, be for him and just him, no flirting with others, so he’ll be yours and no others’. He’ll change the way earth goes round the sun if his lover asks him that, oh only if he’s sure she’s his lover. (Don’t be sad, he thinks you’re his lover before you do anything for disapproving it. Disapprove it and you will lose him forever, for real.)
Sorry if any of my words annoyed you, being mad of me is better than your life not be enjoyable.
Whomever shared these sentiments definitely had an encounter with the innocent little nocturnal creature 🙂 …..”He loves you, if he thinks you love him…. He adores you if you say you love him…. He won’t care if he dies for you ONLY if he is SURE you will only be for him.
He won’t abuse you, unless he is abused. NEVER play with his feelings, this is not the type who forgive and forget at the same time….. be for him and just him, no flirting with others, so he’ll be yours and no others. Something was so surprising to me; most of them can read your mind. So don’t think he’s a fool and won’t understand it if you cheat on him. When he knows it, he’ll slowly go away”.
In addition….. “oh only if he’s sure she’s his lover” …. you will forever be his always!
All said and done, Scorpios are adorable, sound, solid, stable, dependable friends and the most awesome lovers 🙂
I dont know who rights this stuff but this is WRONG! lol Im a sagittarius woman, our compatible signs are Aries, leo, aquarius, libra and gemini in that order from top to least. Scorpio is NOT for us! For some reason scorpios flock to me the most and its the same with every one, ive also dated a couple female scorps as well. They are cold but posessive and that doesnt work for us because we like our freedom, they call us sensitive and it takes them FOREVER to open up. Scorps get crazy after they fall in love and interrogate you like your a child, or what to know where you are, who your with, whos that person your talking to, its to much. They are only loyal if they REALLY love you and that takes to damn long lol. Every scorpio i was with we could NEVER see eye to eye, it was one argument after the next, and the arguments can become physical. There super critical and us as sags have sensitive hearts and even though were blunt are hurt isnt intentional, scorps are vindictive and cruel and say things to hurt us. I was always arguing with them about every little thing and trying to get them to open up and be more sensitive or show more affection and its like pulling teeth unless your willing to wait for them to. Then when you do everything seems like roses and then a week later your in another argument fighting. Its to much of a rollercoaster of negativity, all they want is sex from a sag because were the only ones that can keep up and are stallions in bed. Other than that they dont take us seriously because were to flighty. Ive sworn off scorpios because of all the bad experiences ive had with them, they make great friends but as lovers im telling you it wont last. Do yourself a favor and find yourself an Aries if your a sagittarius man or woman and vice versa. Aries and sagittarius are the perfect match, if you wanna end up pulling your hair out and have your clothes bleached when you come home after hanging out to late, get yourself a scorpio. lol im only using that as an example because sag and scorp arguments go waaaaaay to far and if your a sag you know it takes ALOT for us to get mad but when we do, its like an explosion.
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I am a Scorpio man and my first love was a Sagi girl. We started dating in high school, but our initial attraction towards each other went back to middle school. For a long time once we started dating, things were great. It was the young romance that most everyone seems to have, with intentions of marriage plain as day. We both gave each other our virginity, and we both infatuated with each other in every way.
Towards the end of high school, she got in a verbal confrontation with my friend. My friend was not really cool about it, but I believe she saw it as contest to see who I would back up. I found the whole argument childish anyways, so I kept my mouth shut. She took it as a betrayal, that I should back up my girlfriend 100%. I told her that she should have just let it go, and that it was just my friend being a jerk (I would have lots of convos about how awful my friends were. Maybe she didn’t like me giving attention to other friends?). Anyways, after that things got crappy. We had a long talk and at the end of it we were “on a break”. We had already made plans for senior prom so we went to that together, but it sucked. I thought she looked beautiful and she knew it, and she teased me all night long and then left with other people afterwards. She started pursuing this guy, who I knew she was attracted to even when we were dating, and behaved very coldly to me. I was very hurt.
I started flirting with another girl, yet maintained a polite relationship with my Sagi. Then one night, she broke down in tears while I was dropping her off at her dad’s house. She wanted to get back together, and I tried to tell her we were broken up, that we needed to stay as just friends. But I was weak, and couldn’t cut it off. My baby was bawling right next to me, and I just wanted to make her feel better. I knew that the guy she was pursuing had turned her down; she had told me so herself. Looking back, I wonder if she only wanted me back because I was getting involved with another girl while her attempt with another guy floundered.
Anyways, I took her back (a mistake) and the following summer was the most sexually explosive time of my young life. But I felt like she was very clingy. I always had to give her rides to work, to hang out with her friends, to do anything. I even had to give her little sister rides. She still did not have a license to drive at this point, and I honestly felt like I was a chauffer or taxi man.
Then, when I was about to start college, we had another talk. This time, she said she felt like I loved her, but not as passionately as before, not like a girlfriend. But she was not sad about it, and I found it too easy to agree with her, to tell her she had hit the nail on the head. After all, the world had just opened up for me, and I was eager to explore. So once again, we separated, this time as friends. Things got worse. We had a casual sexual relationship, but she never thought twice about telling me about how she took some younger kid’s virginity who worked as a counselor at the summer camp she worked at, or how sexy this guy I work with is when they are alone *gag*.
And then she started dating this other guy, and our sexual relationship ended. I became evasive and withdrawn from her. Eventually she broke up with that guy, and once again our passions were reignited. But then, suddenly, it was over again. We still slept in the same bed, but things were obviously different when we never did anything more than exchange simple kisses during several concurrent nights spent together.
Then one morning after we slept together (mind you, still no physical relations), the insane Scorpio in me came out to rear it’s ugly head, and I looked at her text messages that she was spending so much time on the previous evening. Well my suspicions were confirmed, unfortunately. She had been texting her boss from work, who I had met previously. I didn’t know they were involved romantically, but it hit me like a ton of bricks that morning. According to her text, I was an “asshole friend” who couldn’t take her out to the bar where he was hanging out. I guess they had made plans or something, and I was her ride (yet again grr) to get out to meet him. I was wondering why she was so eager to go out…
So I kept looking thru her texts with him, and I have never felt any heartbreak greater than that day. I was literally able to trace their romance from its beginnings to the night they hooked up to the night that I was too tired to take her out to the bar to meet her friend. After that, I was really depressed and felt betrayed. I became withdrawn again, but we managed a shaky and tenuous relationship as friends. They dated for quite a while. While dating him, she revealed to me how she felt caged by him, and she told me how I was her outlet for her feelings. Then they broke up, and this time I was more than ready to reignite our flame. I had some other unsuccessful attempts at romance, and the chemistry we have is unlike anything else I have experienced.
But it seems that she is past me. We have kissed and hugged romantically and only once made love since. I thought she wanted to take it slow perhaps, let our love blossom again. I was ready to treat her like a goddess; I had come to realize how happy she made me. But it isn’t turning out as I imagined. I can handle her having physical relationships with other guys, but I need a little physical attention of my own. She says she wants things to last between us, but I can’t handle it when she invites me out to a bar, where she is hanging out with another guy friend that I know she has a crush on, and she is all over him while I had to sit by myself and make small talk with her sisters friends.
She used to call me to hang out all the time. But now she has 2 jobs and is very busy, I can understand that. But she is too tired to hang out after her double shift, and I work a lot too, which leaves us little time to be together. A few weekends ago she said she would ‘save a weekend night just for me’. I was looking forward to it with great avarice. But then, our time together ended abruptly as yet another friend came to pick her up out of nowhere to take her somewhere else. All in all, I’d say I spent more time thinking about how I wanted the night to go compared to the amount of time we did spend together. This brings me to the here and now in my life. I started looking into astrology out of curiosity, and the descriptions for Scorp and Sagi were pretty fitting for me and her. I love her but I am tired of being emotionally toyed with. I am having trouble moving on, and in truth, I don’t want to move on. She pervades my dreams, and fills my head at night with feelings of desire. I am young and I will find another love. This is my mantra until further notice
I am a Scorpio man and my first love was a Sagi girl. We started dating in high school, but our initial attraction towards each other went back to middle school. For a long time once we started dating, things were great. It was the young romance that most everyone seems to have, with intentions of marriage plain as day. We both gave each other our virginity, and we both infatuated with each other in every way.
Towards the end of high school, she got in a verbal confrontation with my friend. My friend was not really cool about it, but I believe she saw it as contest to see who I would back up. I found the whole argument childish anyways, so I kept my mouth shut. She took it as a betrayal, that I should back up my girlfriend 100%. I told her that she should have just let it go, and that it was just my friend being a jerk (I would have lots of convos about how awful my friends were. Maybe she didn’t like me giving attention to other friends?). Anyways, after that things got crappy. We had a long talk and at the end of it we were “on a break”. We had already made plans for senior prom so we went to that together, but it sucked. I thought she looked beautiful and she knew it, and she teased me all night long and then left with other people afterwards. She started pursuing this guy, who I knew she was attracted to even when we were dating, and behaved very coldly to me. I was very hurt.
I started flirting with another girl, yet maintained a polite relationship with my Sagi. Then one night, she broke down in tears while I was dropping her off at her dad’s house. She wanted to get back together, and I tried to tell her we were broken up, that we needed to stay as just friends. But I was weak, and couldn’t cut it off. My baby was bawling right next to me, and I just wanted to make her feel better. I knew that the guy she was pursuing had turned her down; she had told me so herself. Looking back, I wonder if she only wanted me back because I was getting involved with another girl while her attempt with another guy floundered.
Anyways, I took her back (a mistake) and the following summer was the most sexually explosive time of my young life. But I felt like she was very clingy. I always had to give her rides to work, to hang out with her friends, to do anything. I even had to give her little sister rides. She still did not have a license to drive at this point, and I honestly felt like I was a chauffer or taxi man.
Then, when I was about to start college, we had another talk. This time, she said she felt like I loved her, but not as passionately as before, not like a girlfriend. But she was not sad about it, and I found it too easy to agree with her, to tell her she had hit the nail on the head. After all, the world had just opened up for me, and I was eager to explore. So once again, we separated, this time as friends. Things got worse. We had a casual sexual relationship, but she never thought twice about telling me about how she took some younger kid’s virginity who worked as a counselor at the summer camp she worked at, or how sexy this guy I work with is when they are alone *gag*.
And then she started dating this other guy, and our sexual relationship ended. I became evasive and withdrawn from her. Eventually she broke up with that guy, and once again our passions were reignited. But then, suddenly, it was over again. We still slept in the same bed, but things were obviously different when we never did anything more than exchange simple kisses during several concurrent nights spent together.
Then one morning after we slept together (mind you, still no physical relations), the insane Scorpio in me came out to rear it’s ugly head, and I looked at her text messages that she was spending so much time on the previous evening. Well my suspicions were confirmed, unfortunately. She had been texting her boss from work, who I had met previously. I didn’t know they were involved romantically, but it hit me like a ton of bricks that morning. According to her text, I was an “asshole friend” who couldn’t take her out to the bar where he was hanging out. I guess they had made plans or something, and I was her ride (yet again grr) to get out to meet him. I was wondering why she was so eager to go out…
So I kept looking thru her texts with him, and I have never felt any heartbreak greater than that day. I was literally able to trace their romance from its beginnings to the night they hooked up to the night that I was too tired to take her out to the bar to meet her friend. After that, I was really depressed and felt betrayed. I became withdrawn again, but we managed a shaky and tenuous relationship as friends. They dated for quite a while. While dating him, she revealed to me how she felt caged by him, and she told me how I was her outlet for her feelings. Then they broke up, and this time I was more than ready to reignite our flame. I had some other unsuccessful attempts at romance, and the chemistry we have is unlike anything else I have experienced.
But it seems that she is past me. We have kissed and hugged romantically and only once made love since. I thought she wanted to take it slow perhaps, let our love blossom again. I was ready to treat her like a goddess; I had come to realize how happy she made me. But it isn’t turning out as I imagined. I can handle her having physical relationships with other guys, but I need a little physical attention of my own. She says she wants things to last between us, but I can’t handle it when she invites me out to a bar, where she is hanging out with another guy friend that I know she has a crush on, and she is all over him while I had to sit by myself and make small talk with her sisters friends.
She used to call me to hang out all the time. But now she has 2 jobs and is very busy, I can understand that. But she is too tired to hang out after her double shift, and I work a lot too, which leaves us little time to be together. A few weekends ago she said she would ‘save a weekend night just for me’. I was looking forward to it with great avarice. But then, our time together ended abruptly as yet another friend came to pick her up out of nowhere to take her somewhere else. All in all, I’d say I spent more time thinking about how I wanted the night to go compared to the amount of time we did spend together. This brings me to the here and now in my life. I started looking into astrology out of curiosity, and the descriptions for Scorp and Sagi were pretty fitting for me and her. I love her but I am tired of being emotionally toyed with. I am having trouble moving on, and in truth, I don’t want to move on. She pervades my dreams, and fills my head at night with feelings of desire. I am young and I will find another love. This is my mantra until further notice
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I don’t know about the Aries man…..I’ ve never met one I could get along with. I was married to a Gemini for 15 years and honestly we were and still are the best of friends. There was never any pressure I did my thing and he did his and we did things together but the love fell away over time.
It can be really difficult to “get along” with Cardinal signs. They aren’t game players and don’t usually have agendas, but they are oriented in a certain direction (usually some goal), and if you aren’t going in that same direction, they don’t know how to relate. If the person is an immature Aries or there are other Mars influences in the chart, Aries can also pick fights for no reason just to generate some energy. Geminis are great company, and mutable signs are so easy-going. You have the perfect description: “I did my thing and he did his.” An Aries is looking for a lot more interaction and can be really provocative if they don’t feel you’re paying them enough attention.