Virgo Man and Libra Woman Compatibility
This combination works beautifully for a serious relationship. They may be less inclined toward family life than to enjoy the deep aesthetic of each other’s company. Elegant and tasteful, when they combine, imagine Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers dancing across the floor to “I’m in Heaven”. Everything they do will have a touch of perfection and flare. Virgo minds the details while Libra orchestrates the social ambiance.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Libra Woman:
You’ve gotta be feeling pretty good about yourself to get this off the ground. Chances are you are in touch with your inner beauty and outer radiance to draw such a discriminating gentleman into orbit around you. Here you can use all your grace and charm. Your excellent manners will hit the mark, too. Ask for refinement in the things you do and the places where you meet. You’re the pace setter. He’s kind of shy and self effacing. You’ll get along great.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Virgo Man:
Show your lovely and flirtatious social skills. Dress nicely in understated elegance with attention to detail. Comment discriminately on something in the room and compliment something about her that shows you have chosen her because she is someone special. Ask her intelligent questions about herself that are not personal. Listen and remember so you can impress her next time you’re together by mentioning something she said.
Degree of Romance:
Over the top! This is possibly the best combination for romance there is. You two speak the language of love and each appreciates attention to detail and finesse. You are probably the envy of all your married and single friends. Where romance is concerned, you wrote the book.
Degree of Passion:
There is no place for a bull in a china shop. How crude. How rude. Leave that to the “unrefined” people.
Degree of Friendship:
They share such a common view of life. They each crave peace and harmony. They both recognize melodrama for what it is (a big fat waste of time). They both like to do everything beautifully, tastefully, and are oriented to quality not quantity. Their family crest will be emblazoned “LESS IS MORE.” They both look at the world with equanimity and can trust each other that way. They truly believe there is nothing that can’t be talked out in a civil manner. Each is willing to compromise with an innate sense of what is equitable.
Degree of Marriage:
All the way one perfect, precious step at a time. Dot all the i’s and cross all the t’s.
Progression of Relationship:
Neat and tidy. Proper increments. First base, second base, third base, home. What a thrill!
Sex:
Sex will be like the Kama Sutra or a Japanese Geisha arrangement. Stylized and formal can be kinkier than you’d ever believe. Check it out with a small caveat: no place for amateurs.
When It’s Over:
Things will unwind in an orderly fashion after a civilized conversation about what’s best for all concerned.
Spot on! Very good article 🙂
Many thanks for the nod in our direction, Snoop!
Yes, I have a question. So if you could e-mail me with the answer that would be great. I whole heartedly believe in astrology. So, I have been doing a a lot of research on the relationship compatibilty of a libra woman and a virgo man.(me being the libra) Almost every article I have read says that libra and virgo can manage a successful relationship, but it is highly unlikely. The virgo man in my life has been my best friend for years, and I know a lot about his personality and how to maintain harmony in our friendship. So, what I want to ask you is, do you personaly think that because we have been friends for so long it would make it easier to maintain a healthy, happy relationship? If you could e-mail me back that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. Jamz
Hi..Jamz.. I wud say tht virgo men seek perfectionism in every thng they do.. They criticize a lot.. It may annoy u, bt tak it in a positive sense.. If they r criticizing abt smthin, u shd consider it cos they r sayin it rite.. nd if u tak it as their nature thn u wnt hav any problems.. We librans think thru our heart nd virgos r very rational so u cn even tak advantage of d situation agn.. U cn blindly trust him whn u hav to tak a tough decision.. even in relationships he will guide u very well.. he will tel u wat is rite nd wrong nd whn it comes to sensitive issues, u cn tak d lead, cos v r best at it.. If u learn to mak advantage of d differences u both hav thn u cn hav amazin chemistry.. He’s d one who appreciates ur efforts, trust me..! nd every relationship is abt workin on it.. Understandin it.. Infact d guy i lied ws a virgo nd I hv learnt a lot frm him.. I wish i cud get him back in my life agn.. Bt i wasnt tht mature enough to undstnd thse relationships thn. So u bettr hold on to ths virgo guy.. U guys rock!! Enjoy 🙂
Very impressive analysis of Virgo man and Libra woman. Its the only write up I’ve seen so far that’s upbeat and positive.
Thanks. Try it. You’ll like it.
I had a break up with my Virgo boyfriend on Saturday. The article described us down to a T as I read it. I find it so hard to deal with our separation. It wasn’t an ugly one, but more of a mutual one. We were in a long distance relationship but he found it harder to keep up. We were together for 8 months. Best relationship I’ve ever had; short and all the way sweet.
Hi.. Jamz .. Im libran woman currently datin a virgo man.Crazy in luv and my family is crazy abt him ,but I sometimes dont knw where I’m standin with him ,one minute he wants a wife the other he does not evn want 2 consider a serious relationship. I knw he loves me (in a strange way) but sometimes Ijust dont knw what he wants.He does not trust easily and can be very jalous and posessive.
Been 2gether for 6months and one of the best relationships Ive had. Sumthin sayz I shud leave but thats not what I wana do .Please help …
This is not completely true. On the downside he was criticizing and sounded rude…typical Virgo I presume!!and all we did was fight. But yes he did complement me in most ways. We were the envy of all our classmates, but then something happened and he’s been avoiding me and now he’s cold and aloof and reserved, I can’t make him out at all and I can’t make him talk. Do I break up?
Be patient with him. I find that with Virgo’s if you let them be and even share your feelings by letting him know exactly how much he means to you and why you love him, it may boost his confidence to “let you in.” I have been friends with a virgo male (I’m a Libra woman) for years. We knew from the time we met that there had been a mutual connection, but it slowly grew and we both got to a point to trust enough to express our love. Then we went through a hard time of me not understanding how he expressed love and how selective he was about it. Whenever in doubt, I can think of the kind things he has done, said or even noticed about me and then I “know” that he loves me and that we were born to be together. Patience is the key in dealing with your virgo man, but I believe it is worth it. I feel blessed to have been chosen by this man because I know how discriminating and worisome a relationship can be for him. He motivates me to be better and I do the same for him. If you are patient and listen more, he “will” talk and you will enjoy “listening” to what he says. I started a journal and document the things that he says to me. When I am patient and listen to him, he can talk for days on end. Whenever I am down or he is “working” and away from me, I read my journal and I remember why we are in love….I wish you the best. I think a balanced Libra woman is the best a Virgo man could ever ask for. Go for it! At least you’ll be able to say that you gave it your all. Isn’t true love worth the sacrifice?
Libra girls stay away!!!!
I was with a virgo man for five and a half years, we got married six months ago, and now he is divorcing me! He became very jealous, possessive, untrusting and resentful to the point of harassment (e.g., calling me twenty times when I’d go out alone [because he never wanted to do anything] even though he knew where I was, reading my emails, and being pushy about sex, which is funny because our sex life was really bad in terms of frequency and overall quality). We ended up separating for a month and a half because I told him I needed space to finish school without all his harassment. Now he is divorcing me because he says he is tired of waiting for me, wants to get on with his life, and that he doesn’t care about me anymore!
I spent four years changing who I was to make him happy, and then one month after the wedding he tells me that he wants to start making decisions for himself and by himself. Then he accuses me of not being committed to the relationship.
They are (okay, to be fair… mine was) all talk and no action. He would say whatever you he thought I wanted to hear, and then not act on it; plus I would have to get him to say something in the first place! They don’t volunteer themselves. I’d say, “why don’t you tell me you love me, without me asking you?” He’d say, “I do love you”… whatever!!!
For us Libras, these guys are way too selfish. They may do stuff that makes you think, “oh–look how generous he is”, but really they only do those things because they expect something in return. I guess if you don’t mind that, then to each her own. But please be warned–my heart is broken because my soon-to-be ex-husband decided to protect his pennies over his marriage, and the human being he claimed to love!!!
ive been datinq my virgo guy for awhile now & so far its been pretty well & refreshinq. virgos male or female are interestinq ppl to be around. b4 we got together we were and still to this day are great friends. yes we’ve had disagreements and so forth but breakinq up is really the last thinq on our minds. i mean yeah sometimes its good read horoscopes etc. but virgo male or not, its not about the sign, its about honesty and trust which is almost one & the same then love can come 2nd. i know it can be hardvto fiqure them out when they become distant but its ur decision if u wanna be there for them or leave them & leave them feelinq more lost & confused…the virgos that ive met are hard on theirselves and always askinq for someone elses opinion (in my case) so will we actually ever unfortunately break-up idk but ima give it my all but if thats not good enough I’ll be there for him.
The first guy I was with was a Virgo. The most recent one was a Virgo …they’re alwasy chasing after me…they make me fall in love and then break my heart with cold ruthlessness. I have never cried half so much or felt half as wretched in any other relationship with any other zodiac. The worst part is if another Virgo guy was to walk into my life, I’d probably risk everything, take little heed of the warning bells inside my head, bury the past and start over. The relationship I had with a Virgo was beautiful, enchanting, classic, typical fairytale romance. The problem is when I wake up from this dream and I’m an old hag of a witch in disguise and hes a dragon instead of prince charming and breathes “spiteful words” instead of fire!
the relationship i am currently in is one with a virgo man . we’ve been seeing eachother for almost a year . in the beginning the relationship was all good . my mother is a virgo and almost all of my best friends have or are virgos . so for the most part i understand them . a lot of people say they are coldhearted and mean but i think they are just misunderstood . they dont open up easily and they dont give their heart to just anyone . so when my virgo guy opened up to me about ALL his insecurities he had both with himself and his life, i knew i was something special . they are not the types to tell you a million and one times how they love you and miss you . but when they do just know its sincere . its funny because im a libra which makes me a hopeless romantic . and when we first started seeing eachother i red that virgos are not romantics at all . but ive found my virgo partner to be the most affectionate man ive ever been with [ outa Libra, Cancer, Taurus, and Scorpio ] i can say that the relationship has had its downsides . when he goes days and even weeks without speaking to me . his Me VS The World attitude . they were all problems i had with him . but instead of letting it go i told him so we can work on it . i can honestly say that this is the best relationship ive ever been in . we clicked not just physically but emotionally and spiritually . i knew he was something special when i didnt have my typical libra mind frame of having others on the side just in case . i love him soooooooo much and i want this to work …
WHAT!!! Libra and virgo match?!?!?!…this should be interesting 😉 They just so earthy
WHAT!!! Libra and virgo match?!?!?!…this should be interesting 😉 Virgo’s are just too grounded – I don’t know. But I’m a libra on cusp of scorpio – just too dramatic
I totally agree with you Alea. My experience has been exactly the same. Getting in maybe the toughest part but once you’re in, all I can say is WOW… I find my virgo guy to be a romantic guy looking for pure love… I don’t want to let this go and feel so sure that this my future mate.
STAY AWAY LIBRA LADIES!!!
Trust me; I lived with my Virgo bf for two years. I was totally in love. I gave up so much for him. He made me believe we were saving for a house together.
He’d meet up with ‘friends” after work & one night I had this gut feeling that he was with this woman he works with. When he returned home I told him I’d called his mates & he admitted he was with her. He swore black & blue that nothing was going on. He even cried. Things went from bad to worse & we split.
He convinced my family that he was leaving me because I’d wrongfully accused him of cheating & I was too jealous! That was just nasty & BS!
He immediately moved in with her & I began to get prank emails (apparently from strangers) about how happy they were together & how sorry they felt for me. It was horrible.
Six months later (just as I was getting over it) he sent me an email confessing that he had cheated on me more than four times while we were together. He wanted to get it off his chest!
He said that he cheated because he never loved me as much as he thought (so it was my fault then) He said he had now found his other half (her) & they were engaged.
I could not believe how cruel he could be to someone he spent two years with.
Now – two years on they have split & I can only hope it’s the result of one of them cheating & they are getting what they deserve.
I could sent smart ass emails, but I am above that 🙂
Virgo man married to Libran
PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE!!!!!!!! If you believe in this and have it in you chase a Virgo man else its cheer waste of time and energy.
My wife is 2nd libran in my life. The first one broke due to family challenges. Some tips for Libra ladies if you have pinned your hopes on your virgo man.
a) Never ever react and always make a virgo smile no matter how tense the situation is. I know it sounds crazy and absurd but it will surely work.
b) Dont be lazy if you are committed or after marriage, keep your homes clean and neat. Personal hygiene is very important and brush up if not give serious thoughts on improving your cooking skills, the door to virgos heart is through his stomach.
c) Understand his moods. If he is acting cranky irritated leave him alone dont REACT and ones he cools down very gently ask him why he was upset and chances are you will get to know.
d) We are Workaholics never NAG, always understand home is where we love to be no matter were we are.
e) Brush up your general knowledge skills especially know little bit of his hobbies he loves it.
f) Librans i find them little selfish in bed be expressive and see the change.
d) Be loyal and you will win your freedom to eternity.
Married for 3 years it was very rocky during initial stages. She really worked on all of the above mentioned qualities and now she is reaping the harvest and i started to love her like never before. She is possessive and loves me like no one. Now my purpose of life is to fulfill all her desires, dreams both material and emmotional and show her that it was worth investing time and energy on me.
All the best to everyone out there!!!!!!
Yep….
Mr. Virgo is so right.
I have been with my Virgo man for two years now and am a very patient woman, very maternal as my rising sign is Cancer.
We went through Hell for a year and a half until I laid down some some rules…
1, Libra ladies have pride and don’t demand loyalty…we Command it.
2, I am a rock….yet very passionate ( the selfish bedroom thingy I don’t get that as libra’s are sheer artists in the bed) but hey?
3, I do not nag…that was huge because even pushing him to talk a little bit unerved him so now I just flutter about and cook up a storm.
Before I know it he is all over me…. and you know what starts in the kitchen. 😉
I learned that me being myself is the perfect thing, but I must express that I will not be trampled on or verbally abused! Virgo men can do this, but secretly LOVE it when their lady gets full on in their face and simply says…”play nice or pay later”… of course with a half smile…
Virgo is also the hottest lover on the planet…better and better all the time. Cleanliness is a must, body and house, car, appearance…fresh smells and soft skin are great weapons (that true Libra sneaking out..tee hee) when Virgo is being cool and aloof…which I can be too if he needs a mirror..
Virgo needs a great brain to loosen his machine like mind so I use feminine play to catch his attention….as in verbal wordplay, wit, and of course my secret signals….lol
Patience IS the foundation…..but consistency is a close second. Peace friends…
While its a know fact that Virgos are very shy and reserved, waiting for the woman to make the first move. In reality most of the virgos have crush on libran woman. It is so overwhelming that whenever i admire a woman be it at work or in movies or any social gathering it turns out that she is a libran and this is the same in case of many virgos that i have interacted and known. Just that we dont express it easily being a typical shy person. The overwhelming charm and mannerism attracts us. But from there on the previous comments becomes that vry important to keep our interest intact.
Cheersssssss
One question…..
I have wondered about my virguy hanging on to the past…as in never really getting over his lost loves. Is this a typical thing with you guys? It seems the sentimental longings creep up now & then and I wonder if he will ever stop analysis of what he could’ve done differently to have kept his loves from leaving. Being a Libra I am very territorial in matters of the heart. This is of course something that could cause ME to protect my own heart over. I always joke w/him that maybe I should become a part of his past so I can then really be a part of his future..lol.any thought/experience?… thanks all. Have a great day & smile…..you’ll feel better:)
Hi Sandi,
Virgo is man of perfection and observation. We are the most meticulous and analysing characters. When it comes to love we are very very cautious and when it fails we become still more cautious in choosing the next partner. There is always this question been a perfectionist why the previous relationship broke nothing emmotional but analytical. The good news for you is we are fast forgeting characters. One of the neatest break ups that can ever happen is that with a virgo. Once done its over, done and dusted so much so no matter how involved it might seemfrom outside once off the person is forgotten. Weird but in my case i dont remember the faces of my ex girlfriends. Sorry to generalise but to most part it is true. So sandi the good news is he has choosen you after great observation, no need to worry. But work on my previous comments very very important. With libran sometimes the emmotion part becomes challenging be physical and compassionate, listen to him and you will reap the reward.
Cheerssss
Thank you, Lloyd.
I do appreciate you being so candid. I respect a specialists input and have been humbled many times for over reacting. I would NOT be as confident in this relationship if I wouldn’t have taken the time to educate myself on the Virguy.
I also know I have much to learn and more room to evolve as a balanced Libra (person). My man is a Virgo/Aquarius/Aquarius….yikes!… I am a Libra/Cancer/Taurus…
We are the epitome of Yin/Yang…cool/warm…black/white..you get it.
Have a seriously nice weekend!
Ps….as for us Libra gals, if we feel understood, validated and listened to (really heard) the emotions usually have no reason to roar 🙂
im back, and i must say that the comments i`ve read have bin really positive . but everythinq w me and my virqo quy haven’t been all that well . I recently found out that a couple of months aqo he and his ex fooled around . My cousin was actually the one who found out 1st and told me . when i confronted him he actually had the nerve 2 get mad w me . beinq a libra once i trust someone its blinded, so i let it qo . a couple weeks aqo the qirl actually hit me up and told me that they had been seeinq eachother, so i had her call me and we talked about everythinq that had been qoinq on . when he found out he was furious w me . he hadn’t spoken 2 me in 2 days . i ran in 2 him and he apoloqized, and told me that when he messed around w her, me and him were not on speakinq terms . i told him “alriqht” and that was that . at that point in time i had no words for him . a month has passed and w in that month him and the other qirl had qotten back 2 qether for 2 weeks, then broke up . he claimed that he was “tired of her snoopinq and insecurities” he recently hit me up askinq me if i ever think about him . i told him i do, that i missed him, but bcauz of wht he did i just let the feelinqs pass . he told me he was sorry (aqain) n that he didnt mean 2 hurt me, and he missed me 2 . idk wht 2 do . the problem from day 1 had been this 1 qirl, but when i confront him about her he tells me he never messed w us at the same time . but im mad bcauz it takes A lot 4 me 2 trust someone, and he broke that . i want 2 kno why its so hard 4 virqo men 2 let qo of their past ? i want thinqs between us 2 work becauz i love him and i kno he loves me 2, but im a libra woman which means i have a lot of pride, so when i walk away for qood, i DONT look back , i just don’t wanna miss out ona qood thinq 🙁
I am a libra and i have been with a virgo man for three months. We hit it off really well and decided to take it to the next level..a relationship.I have fallen in love with him. I asked him if he loves me and he said he wont answer that. Mayb the answer was no. He talks on his phone quietly and sneakily texts someone.. He is always walking around with his phone and this has caused me to be very suspicious. I only see him during the week and on Sundays. Never on Fridays and Saturdays. When i confront him about it he will get mad and make an argument like i did somethin wrong. He says i dont trust him, but how can I? Are virgo men always so secretive. I told him let us break it off because it dosn’t make any sense being together while im feelin like this.. and he insists that we work on our relatinship and he is in it till the end.. but he wont let me know what is goin on with him and his cell phone calls..I think there is someone else. i am most certain. But then y wont he let me go? this relationship isnt based on sex. we spend most of our time watching movies and cuddling. He even mentioned us getting married and buying a house together. he wants to have children in the future..well then if there is no love on his behalf..what is the need for this virgo man to be around. is there a reason y he is so sneaky and wont break things off? Is this virgo serious or is he jus……….i dont know. bein a libra my feelings guide my heart
wow just wow…this article seriously makes me want to date a libra….Nancy you make it sound so much better than a virgo/capricorn pair.
Cheating is not a typical characteristic of a Virgo..If he is cheating on you or has cheated on you..this clearly shows that he does not love you or respect you to be loyal. Virgo is known to be very loyal to the one they love and I speak also from experience. When I am in love with someone I become so focused on that special someone that I get so blinded by my surroundings even if there are naked women around my surroundings.
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I love all of the comments posted…I am a libra woman and spent 16 yrs of my life with a virgo man (13 yrs living together and then married for 3 yrs…now separated for the last 5 yrs)…my virgo exhusband was unfaithful for several yrs and when I found out I was devastated…I try to be his friend for the sake of our daughter, but it has proven to be harder than I thought…Now I’m dating another virgo man and I’m so taken by him…since I know what the “expectations” are, I’m much better equipped to give him what he needs…and our physical relationship is simply marvelous! He is fighting what he really feels, and distances himself at times, but he resurfaces when I fall back and give him the space he needs…I already know that I love him, but I’m more than just a little bit apprehensive about exposing my heart to him…but when he tells me that I make him weak in the knees, I know that it took a lot for him to reveal that to me…I just want him to be happy and content……I really want this to work..
I am a Libra, and dated my first Virgo man back in 1991 when I was 21. He pursued me even though I had, at that time, been through some bad relationships and told him that I didn’t want to get involved with anyone. Over the next few months, I did give in, too quickly as we Librans often do. As soon as he “had” me, he became obsessive, jealous, accusatory, and had me followed to make sure I wasn’t cheating on him. The relationship ended after only 5 months when I caught him with another woman! #13 YOU nailed it!! After being married to a Leo for 16 years (I have found out I cannot tolerate the Lion lying around on the sunlit hillside expecting HIS woman to clean HIS house and hunt for him, LOL) I am hopelessly, helplessly NOT heeding the warning bells and have fallen deeply in love with a Virgo guy that has been my friend for years. I hope that our long friendship will be a foundation that will give us a strong chance of success. One thing I believe that I did draw from my first experience with a Virgo was that they long to feel like they are the only one… THE ONE, in fact. In 1991 I couldn’t give that to any man. Libra gals, put on your tunnel vision glasses, quit flirting with all those other men, and give your Virgo man what would make 100% look like a drop in the bucket… and you will win him! Write him poetry, give him massages, look deep into his eyes… no talking necessary, hug him often, compliment him on litte things, and when he DOES open up to you LISTEN!!! And from what I’ve read above, the reward will be incredible, unspeakable.
Question for you Lloyd…i was with virgo man for 16months..he fell madly in love with me..i also did, however, a bit slower than he. I find it difficult to trust any man, especially after a failed 11 year marriage. We thought we were meant to me forever (Virgo man and I).he wanted to marry me. He’s been divorced for 10years and he found what he thought with me would be forever, however during our relationship, he wanted to get out…telling me we had nothing in common, we don’t have chemistry…he tried everything..we did breakup a few times..and everytime i would be devasted. Again i have issues with trust, and i did accuse him of having another woman/women…obviously he would get very angry with me…only because he kept distancing himself from me. I would be the most loyal and loving woman he has ever had. Three months ago, he told me he fell out of love with me. He told me he is finding himself another woman to forget me, and I should find another man and move on. Well, i can’t and i won’t. I have made my decision to be alone now and raise my child. He has completely blocked me out of his life. My question to Lloyd…how can a man fall out of love like that? and find another woman so quickly to forget about someone he loved? is this a virgo trait? Do you virgo men move on so quickly? I have read all the previous comments and they are so true…he is, as i found insecure, a little selfcentred, always wants the last word, but, as a patient libra i was ok with all of that. I am hoping he will return, once he realised what he missed out on…perhaps he won’t. Thanks…
i have been with a virgo man for over five years and the first two have been extremely tumultuous. we went to couples therapy to work on our communication/conflict management skills when in the end, it turned out that the only way to stay together was for me to not take it personally when he needed his space/time to distance himself. as a libra woman, i love romance and outward signs of affection- virgo men do not adhere to the same philosophies on love. you truly have to pay attention, listen for subtle cues and nonverbal expressions of their love. i have dated men from other zodiac signs but found the best and most rewarding experiences to be with virgo men. they are loyal once they have committed but it takes a great deal of trust and patience to be with them. i’ve learned that acceptance is the key in getting through to a virgo. forcing them to show their hands in terms of expressing their emotions will blow up in your face. i’ve learned this the hard way. i must have done it over 50 times only to result in a huge argument where he leaves, leaving me hanging feeling even more angry. when given an ultimatum to leave the relationship, he will generally express himself in the moment, perhaps a week at most then revert back to his usual behavioral pattern. the result does not last. however, once you’ve accepted the virgo for who he is, the relationship will be one of the most emotionally and physically rewarding ones you’ll experience. what was written about this pairing is true- we are the envy of our friends, family and even strangers on the street will often come up to us and compliment how perfect/complementary we are together. guess the libra woman/virgo man chemistry is obvious? 🙂
I am so intrigued by this website that I stumbled upon. I am a libra woman married 20 yrs this month to a Capricorn. Our marriage is not very fullfilling, which I suspect is true for both of us, but I am definitely much closer to ending our marriage We still have kids at home, so I have convinced myself to stay for them.
I recently went on a trip with a friend and ended up spending the last day alone when I met a very fascinating and very sexy Virgo Man. Sparks flew, and I really wished that I wasn’t married! Upon parting, he took my email address, and contacted me. That was in September and we’ve chatted since…and he has definitely expressed that he is interested in pursuing a sexual relationship with me, but his emails are extremely brief. I understand that his work schedule is amazingly busy, so I haven’t dwelled too much about the minimal contact from him–and after reading all of this, it sounds like that may be typical for a virgo. I am now scheduled to attend a conference close to where he resides and he said he would meet me while I am there, and was clear that he would like this to be sexual. My questions are…..would a Virgo be interested in only a sexual relationship? I’d be interested in seeing if there is more that a sexual chemistry, but I had concluded that since he is so quiet, perhaps he is only interested in some “fireworks”. I might pursue this contact with him even if that’s true, as I could use some fireworks! But in deciding what to do about this man that I find myself thinking about frequently, I have done some reading as I’ve been out of the dating circuit for so many years. I read that no man likes a woman that doesn’t present to be a bit of a challenge/chase–but I had assumed by the 40s, perhaps men were beyond that and appreciated direct communication. And being distant and coy on my end, when I was very clear that I too was very attracted to him, seems like a contradictory approach for a Virgo man if they need much reassurances and attention. Not sure if I should back off and play it ultra cool before I go to the conference or continue to email him periodically with something funny or that I was thnking about it. Hmmm. New to all of this. Any insight or thoughts would be appreciated.
Hello everyone.
This is my first visit to this site. Sorry for my English if there is any mistake.
I am an original Virgo man who has fallen in love with a lovely little nice libra girl named Nazanin. I made some mistakes in my relationship with this little angle. I really don’t want to miss her. She is the most beautiful and lovely girl I’ve ever met in my whole life!
Please help me! This is my story:
We met each other at university. At first there was no emotion between us. after one year or so, she tried to make the first steps and showed her interest in me. But I didn’t reply. Because, simply as being a Virgo, I had no feeling about her in my heart. I was completely indifferent to her. Then, after a year, she engaged with a Pisces man. Again, this didn’t effect my feelings. But now that we are already graduated, I can feel that how beautiful and spiritual I loved this girl. During of all those 4 years that we were classmates, now I know that there was not even a second that I didn’t love that little angle, the girl whom was with ultimate respect and spiritual love in my dream and reality.
Despite the fact that there was not even any friendship between us, I can clearly remember how our other classmates were jealous of us and spoke about us. We had many things in common too. We both liked the classical music, were dromantic,
I loved her much. I still love her so much. I will love this libra girl much much more than ever she could imagine. She is my soul mate. She is me!!!
Help me please!!! Is there any way that she could love me and return? Now that I am writing this sentences, I can’t help fighting back the tears pouring on my cheeks!
In my life, there were many girls around the zodiac who showed their interests and love to me. But I couldn’t fall in love with them. But this is the first time that I have had the chance to meet a Libra girl and I truly fell in love with her.
At first, I wondered what this creature was who could simply find the secret ways to my heart. Was she human or an angle?
Being a perfectionist, I can find my way only with lovely Libra girls! I can’t even imagine marring a girl except those nice and romantic Libra angles.
I do love you so much Nazanin!!!
Libralisa- if he is also past his mid thirties, he probably appreciates a more direct approach and have left his need for mind games behind. at this point there is no need for a man to feel a woman is a “challenge” in order to see if she is worth pursuing because he is probably well aware what type of women he is attracted to, etc. there is a huge fallacy in the myth that once men get the physical aspects of the relationship, they lose interest in anything else. that is not true. attraction develops differently for men and women. women are more in touch with the emotional aspects of their being so they constantly gauge what they feel about the partner, etc from their heart. men however is a bit more..somatic. if there is good sexual chemistry, they will see MORE potential in the women to be something more long term (girlfriend/partner). however, sex on the first or second date often also leave men to think..”she might not be girlfriend material” because they assume you have sex with any guy on the first date, etc. after the third date…it’s good to go. the “holding out” in order to get the man to be interested in something long term mostly backfires. i would suggest anything after the third date to just be natural- let the attraction build and progress on its own without too much apprehension or fear. in my experience, too much thinking usually puts a damper on things rather than help.
i’ve grown up with a lot of brothers and have always had a great deal of male friends. i’ve always been interested in relationship patterns between men and women. also, my partner now is 47 and i speak about this with his friends and colleagues about this very subject. men usually stop the challenge, chaser/pursuer dating game after they hit their late thirties. that sounds accurate. females tend to mature faster than our lovely male counterpart 🙂
nice thought…….but few persons become more childish n naughty at middle age………..hav u heard abou AGE REVERSAL in capricorns n it’s tru…………:)
I am a Libra woman,never really paid attention to the whole “Zodiac” thing but have lately, and it’s amazing how many “Virgo” men i attack. I am married to one,it is true what they say…Virgo men are some suave fellas, lol,swept me straight off of my feet with his well kept hair, radiant skin, neatly dressed,tall,slim,good smelling body.He was indeed shy but he let me know in so many words he wanted me & only me.He had so many woman on our job throwing themselves at him,right in front of my face…they didn’t know we was dating at the time,when they found out,they did everything they could to break us up,like a fool i almost lost him by listening to the rumors but thanks to such a good “Virgo” man god sent me…who fought to keep me and taught me a valuable lesson “keep people out your business”.I do now and we are happily married with children he adores.The only thing i can object to is… they do cheat but only if you “fail” in your wifely duties.
I learned my lesson,i was being lazy,depending on him for everything,paying more attention to other people and there problems and no time for him,believe me “Virgo” men are very needy when it comes to attention,they will find it from someone else.Although it takes two,i know i really caused it more on my side then his,that’s all he really ask for in our whole relationship, was my attention and i broke it.Never again i love my “Virgo” husband he’s a great husband,friend,father, lover and fighter,and i give him all the attention he needs now!!!!
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Thanks #40, that’s very nice of you!
A typical Virgo man is loyal to both his family and his love. You can find an example of an Original Virgo man in “Shall We Dance” or “Unfaithful” both acted by Richard Gere. Richard Gere is also Virgo too.
If you notice, you will find out that the type of character that Richard Gere plays, completely suits for his real personality.
A Original Virgo is not cold hearted, but just falls in love rarely.
Being honest, I really appreciate the Libra ladies. When I was reading the “Sing Sings” written by Linda Goodman,
the only Zodiac Sing that made me to have tremendous admiration for them, was lovely Libras!
Lol Count Harker,another swuave “Virgo” man,i don’t know why that one Libra woman moved on without you but i can surely tell you…it wont be hard to get another one,since Libra women love romance and you are a romantic.
libraglamgirl, your “Virgo” man is a piece of work no offense,he seems opposite from what i’ve witnessed or read about them,they usually “like” being alone with there mate showering them with love and don’t have a problem showing there emotions with,not distant and none affectionate.But then again,each person is different every relationship goes through troubles,it’s the makeup sex with “Virgo” men that makes you realize why you love him so much.He not only makes love to your body but your mind as well,something “Libra” women give and appreciate receiving, Virgo men are “perfectionist” each time just gets better and better.
I was with a beautiful virgo man for 16months..the last few months were turbulent. He kept breaking up with me, giving me excuses…then once he had broken up with me he would come back. He has done this all year until 4 months ago when he said he fell out of love with me. I am still coming to terms with this. I am completely heartbroken…i was married to a an aquarian for 11 years…that was not a good marriage, and when i met this beautiful virgo man…he fell in love with me instantly….I found it hard to trust at first, and slowly fell crazy in love with him…everything about him i loved..everything he stood for… I honestly thought we were meant to be together, he use to say that no one in any of his experiences (he is 48), has come close to how i made him feel. We were unbreakable for a good solid 7 months…people would say what a beautiful couple we made…And now i am completely heartbroken. He has moved on, and I can’t. Once us libra ladies give our heart we give 100% heart and soul. Perhaps, i needed to give him more of my time, i agree with quote 40 ‘virgo men r the best’…they have insecurities and they need to be reassured…i have learnt. I also have learnt that its not a good idea listening to other people…it destroyed our relationship…he is very private and i should of kept it that way…but, people were giving me negative statements about him…but, i loved/love him and i stayed with him, until he started to distant himself to the point he fell out of love with me. Its too late….i thought he would come back…i thought he would be thinking of me…i miss him so much. Now he has another ….don’t know how long she will last for…as i was the longest he had in 10 years of his divorce. I thought he loved me. OUr intimacy was amazing…we were definetely connected even there. Can virgo men fall out of love just like that? He is a very fussy man, and a perfectionist…so having another woman so quickly…is this is virgo trait?
The Ultimate Combination of Logic and Romance
hah! the relationship is over but it is true- the breakup was extremely diplomatic. 🙂 everything was talked through, understood and agreed upon. i must say however that this is a bit of a relief. virgo being the perfectionist they are..i dont know, he was hard to keep up with! he could never give me the emotionally charged, spontaneous, whirlwind of passion and validation i craved. everything was thought through, evaluated, analyzed, rational, dragged through the dirt…and knowing his m.o, he will probably be hitting the meat market and having me replaced almost immediately. once we had an argument, i dropped him like a sack of potatoes (maybe this is where the insecurities came into play) and next thing i know, he’s got three women he just met in his house (making sure i knew this had happened). nicely done. im sure history will repeat itself but being a sexy, sharp and cunning libra woman.. I’m sure I will be just fine. Even in the end if I end up alone, I have truly wonderful friends and family that continues to makes life feel hopeful and satisfying.
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I feel your pain,when me and my Virgo man were just dating,we broke up a couple times.First time a month,
Several times weeks and our last ones (before marriage) days.Each time he would run back to me,or i’d run back to him.You just expressed your faults in the relationship,did you tell him?If you really love this man then you should go to him,instead of waiting for him to keep coming back to you,I did now we sit back and joke about the way he use to stalk me and i stalked him.I wish you the best on who ever you find,cuz having a broken heart isn’t healthy.
You need to make a decision whether or which life you want with him. Whatever you decide (final)he will eventually come around and be happy with the decision… like the article says you give him an infinite-namginable amount of fire, flare, self-confidence, and adrenaline to live more adventures…im a virgo man myself…acknowledge this and he will redirect it toward you!!!
Thanx for the advice Sly Guy.Its been more than six moths ever since I wrote that blog .He recently broke up with me (but I knew it wazint over) and guess what ? after three weeks he came back and confessed that he missed me and He cant leave withouth me .
I thought I would get over him but eversince the contact I cant stop thinkin about him and when we meet the chemistry is just too strong and when he introduces me to his friends and family he says I’m his wive .Its difficult to tell where the relationship is going.
I know we love each other but we just cant get there…
I’m a Virgo man and loudly say that:
Libra Women R the Best!!!
I am a Libra Woman and I just adore my Virgo Man!!!!
1+1=2
my virgo man + me his libra woman= successful happiness.
I’m gonna have to agree. I just adore my Virgo man 🙂 He’s the only one I can say anything and everything too. Such a wonderful match!
I believe this is pretty much true, I’m a libra woman and pretty much all of my virgo man’s friend envies us =]
i’m a Libra woman…and i’m head ova heels in luv with my Virgo man….we hardly even fight….he is surely the 1 for me 🙂
really guys? but m a Libra women n my relation with a virgo man is on the rocks.. n there is not a time we are not fighting.
i dont tink there is any man more handsome decent mature and loving then my virgo man we are truely a mach and hope he will become my husband
I (a libra woman) fell for a virgo man, he left me without saying a word :/ im still not over him (sighs)
these astro combos are good read but depends on the indiv person. i knew a virgo dude for 4 years before my current taurus. my taurus is 2 yrs older than me and grounded! no castles in the air for him adn knows important from nice to have. i love he’s a problem fixer. virgo was amazing in so many ways….romantic, affectionate, smart, a little too easygoing 😉 , but had to have things his own way. god forbid if he had to discuss anything. what for?! if he had to get something from the home repair store he had to go get it. it was expensive and since clearance couldn’t return. guess what we had it anyway and our neighbour had borrowed it for awhile. yeah….virgo man can think better than anyone else! no need for a little give and take. that’s for everyone else. that’s right ….and end up in a big mess! aND then a smart taurus caught my eye. we’re now few months old and it’s going well. what a relief. virgos aim for the grand design all their own way! libra ladies… all in all it wouldn’t be so bad to hold off if you’re not sure. worse case better be single than stuck with mr. high and mighty.
I don’t know what i would do if my Virgo man left me alone,i have dated other signs but none pan out to the total package VIRGO MEN. So handsome, intelligent, manly man,great provider,no nonsense taking, a gentleman out on the streets but a true freak in the bed.
I must admit they are pushy and want things certain way and will complian alot,if you give into his demands just a little, he appreciates that, basically Virgo males want a partner that’s gonna meet him halfway.After all that’s what relationships are about, lossing some and winning some.
My appreciations to all lovely and romantic Libra ladies.
I am a Virgo man who fell in love with a lovely Libra lady. But she has already engaged. I don’t know what to do? I think she is my soulmate. In my whole life, no woman could attract my attention but this nice lady. I think she is heavely sent. Her relationship with her current husband is not good. I hope she can end up this relationship and become my prancess.
The only thing that I am sure about, is that I deeply love her and I will do everything for that little Libra angle. Also, I am completely sure that our personalities are absolutely compatible.
I love her and I will love her and love her!
Best wishes for all lovely and romantic Libra angles!
As a libra woman i find my virgo man is a perfectionist almost every day every minute. but he tries to let me know what he’s thinking and explains himself to me every now and then. so i get some sort of an idea. i don’t know how useful it is though because it is his thoughts only not his thinking in action and in conjunction with someone else’s. he puts in a lot of effort though!
Im a typical Libran lady with a very typical Virgo man. We were friends for a couple years then both split with our partners & realised we meant more to each other. He is definately my soulmate. He does find it hard to say how he feels, but i know the way he looks at me that he loves me. Being a Libran, i tell him how i feel all the time & im very open & loving towards him. He likes that about me & i think it has helped him be more affectionate & open to. Were friends, lovers & im very optimistic that we’ll be together forever <3
yaay! virgo dudes r the best for libra gals.
my husband is virgo and our understanding is really good. he is very caring and loves me alot
Libra woman are idk unpredicatable. I been with my libra gal for about yr when she wanted to go on a camping trip. we picked a place together (she loved it) bought stuff rented some and then we had a big fight and she just stopped talking to me. it was v silly. i tried reaching out but could not. her mom was not able to either. idk. she just took off with her friends. few days later she gets back to me and coolly as cucumber wants to do the camping trip. really! shes so sweet now and im trying to be more understanding too of her tantrums but sometimes it can be aaaargh! we had to do it elsewhere though not exactly her choice but she learned an important lesson. sometimes can drive me crazy except for her sweet smile adn ways.
Gosh I (a Libra girl) Love my boyfriend (A Virgo Cutie) .He Understands me,And we have been friends since we were graders. Hes cute and wonderful…Hes like the person i’ve always wanted.I cant go on a day without thinking of Him.He makes me go crazy (in a goodway ;P).Hes soo sweet and mysterious in a way that gives me butterflies in my stomach~.i love him and if ever we broke up..(which i hope will never happen) …………………im not sure if i can get over him…I love you babe~ i want to kiss you in the rain X’P
Weirgo males are too shy and timid for the libra girl. I’d say NO!
I been going out with a beautiful libra now for a couple of months now so far were doing great i really love her n she does too as a virgo men i was shy at first. Total gentlemen romantic smart and neat with good taste she wasn’t as shy as me but still give her butterflies i like dat she’s very open n she’s willing to do what she can to make it work .
Ew. Seriously? I generally can’t stand Virgos. I can’t ever imagine dating one. God.
I wouldn’t want to be any other sign. Us Libra women are the total package. Lovable, affectionate, understanding, feminine, trustworthy, creative, charming, irrestitable…the list goes on!
I see why it’s so hard to say know to a Libra woman,
men get so caught up in our beautiful eyes!
I loved a virgo male once and ended up in total heartbreak.He just did’nt care much at all or so it seemed.When we spent time it was great and he said he cared but his actions showed that he could take or leave me at any time
I am a libra woman nd i fell in love wid a Virgo duy=)
he is truly amazing..hes the perfect guy…he knows how to love the right way nd respect all my decisions..but it is true thta virgo men think a lot..nd i mean a lot…they want eevrything the right way..if they expect something from their partner nd you dont come up to their expectations..they will leave u..lol..viro man..all he needs is love love love love nd love..if u kno how to show ur love all the way..he’ll always appreciate u..but if u dont show it but u do feel it..he’d still accuse u of being heartless…so one big suggestion..a libra woman should always show her love nd care for her virgo man..nd it’ll work out=)..in love nothin is impossible..everything works out..just love ur ass off..nd dont be too afraid of the consequences becuz u dont kno if u’ll ever find this partner again if u do decide to loose them=)
im a virgo man and ive been talking to a libra women for some time now and to me this page is right about it all,shes really just to perfect to me and everything this info offers is right,i hope we hit it off 🙂
I’m a Libra gal with a Virgo man for about 4 months …and I can say it is the most confusing relationship ive been in since I was with a Cancer man ….equally confusing…. I want to be warm and affectionate and loving to him and sometimes he is so cold an confusing and i just dont get what he is feeling or thinking …i already want to end things but part ofme is soooo intrigued with his caring considerate and mysterious nature its so contradicting and intriguing at the same time…. i just want to figure him out!!!!
wudnt hv described any better n true dan this
I’m not sure what to think about all of this stuff. I was married to a libra for 23 years, have been separated for just over a year. 2 daughters which I love, and would do anything for, of course what man wouldn’t. Our marrage was never a connection, too bad really, I did love her and she is very beautiful, inside and out. Here comes the but, but she was a control freak. If it wasn’t done her way or your opinion was different than hers, you were simply wrong and that was the end of the disscusion. It drove me nuts, her mother and 2 of her sisters are the same way. Our oldest daughter has a real resentment for her and their relationship is terrible. The youngest lives with her and their’s is very close. It kills me that this is the way things are, but thats the way it is. We both carried a torch for our old flames, neither one was aware of each others problems. I eventually called mine and we spoke, when I hung up the phone it was over for me, thank goodness. It was like a prison, having these leftover feelings for someone from so long ago, but the phone call helped me. I then began to concentrate more on my wife but it was to late. Afew years later, when we were talking, I figured out her problem. She was floored, I tend to be quite intuitive. I suggested that she phone him, knowing how it helped me I thought it would help her. I told her I was there to support her, as I wanted our life together to get on the right track. My family was the most important thing in my life, and my daughters still are. When she called him, the spark was reignited. But she tried, our intimacy level went through the roof. I thought I had died and gone to heaven, we couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. Finally we had a relationship, we talked more freely with each other the sex was very moving. I need that connection to have that kind of intimacy. But her feelings for him crept back in, they got in contact with each other, they planned to hook up, he was going to risk his family for a fling with a woman he hadn’t seen for 30 years, and she didn’t care that it may destroy his family. We spilt up, they never hooked up, and life goes on. There is more to this story than I have time for. I guess what I’m trying to say is that, I think it has a much to do with the 2 people involved as anything else. I dated a Gemini for a little while after, she was to scatterd, nice enough but too bitter and all over the place. I was just in a relationship with an aries, it was great, but she ended it to back with an old boyfriend that treated her like crap. Sometimes I think it’s just people. I am going to keep my heart open because I know that there is someone for me, but I am not going to pick them based on anything but how I feel about them. Vigos get a bad rap, the last lady I was with was very much overweight, but I didn’t care. She was what I thought was perfect for me, but she had a thing for the old boyfriend she couldn’t kick. You just never know, so good luck to everyone on here. Happieness is out there.
I love my virgo man soooo much. I’ve learned to deal with him finding things that he feels aren’t right,just to pick a agruement…only to get the passionate make up sex we have.Hell…sometimes I mess things up just to rattle his cage,lol.The way he lays me down and make love to me,it’s like he’s teaching me a lesson…that if I keep being a bad girl, he’s gonna give it to me “PURRR”!
We’ve been together 7 years and he still surprises me with roses, cards,candy,cars,trucks,etc…just out of the blue.
He knows I love my “PET” Brand “Birthday cake ice cream”
he called me from the grocery store fussing at the workers for being out of my ice cream.
He was so disappointed he couldn’t get it,because I usually reward him VERY well for the treats he give me,lol.
Our sex life is so amazing,he alway’s tell’s me “if every man had a wife like you,he wouldn’t cheat”.
My job in this world is to please my VIRGO man.
I don’t want him to go no where. I keep it spicy…he never knows what woman he’s coming home too…i keep costumes,wigs,etc…he mite come home to a helpless peasant girl, a horny cat crawling,begging on all fours,
a swedish maid,a female burgular,a asian woman “me so horny,me love you long time”,Pocahontas,a unconscious woman on the floor he can have his way with.Let me stop there,i can’t give out all my idenities,lol.
I’m having a tough time with this one!!! virgo man jus confuses me with his tight lid on his feelings…..
I’m going to meet a beautiful Libra lady tomorrow, any advice? She’s 3 years older than me…
I’m a Libra woman and married to a Virgo man, he’s wonderful to me but, I must confess they can be childish when it come to finances and they are gullible to influences….like wanting to fit in! other than that, they are charming and romantic….love him anyway and he loves me back
its true! i like a virgo guy and he likes me too and our relationship is just like that
Oh! you made it sound like heaven, well it’s not! i’m a virgo male engaged to a libra, we (as virgos) must confess our exagerated attention to details and being perfectionnists. But it’s all for the sake of the perfection of the relationship, virgo males really care and love the pther person, trust me they’re the people who never believe on one night stands and they will definitely call you back the next morning. Personally I’m having some problems with my fiance, and i think to myself; what the hell was thinking to pick her out of all the pretty girls, basically her liberated spirit and sociable mind are the main causes. irgo males are jealous (out of love) so that could be a huge bump in the way. you gotta love them though
Okay so I randomly came across this article, as my friend (virgo) and I were kind of curious about our compatibility, and after reading it we both kind of started criticizing the other sites which mentioned inaccurate traits of ours. So first of all I’d like to mention how true most of the stuff here is about him; I don’t think they mentioned how reserved personality a virgo male has but other than that I found the information pretty interesting. Degree of friendship sums everything up and how to attract each other became a pretty fun discussion between us. Overall I’d like to agree with whatsoever is mentioned above, I think he is a great guy, fun to talk to, a real gentleman (that’s for sure) and I don’t think there is enough space to write all the good stuff about him. Whereas when it comes to bad stuff, then I really don’t know any..so yeh they’re some cool people to be with which I can guarantee! 🙂 And I’m sure he’ll stand promising on the other degrees too.
My (libra) friend wanted me to post first but over here what I see, she is above me. As we both were curious about our compatibility, we both went through many sites but this one elaborates some true facts about her. I absolutely agree with all the good stuff written here about Libra females. She is certainly the one who could attract not only Virgo’s attention but all other signs too. 😀 I am not sure if all the libra ladies are like this but my friend, she never takes things fast, she always takes things slow but surely she is the loveliest girl in the world. Even if she put on any ordinary piece of clothing, she’d still be able to turn anyone’s head by her ultimate sweetness. 😉 I pretty like her idea about her love life. In the end, my experience with this friend (libra) friend of mine is amazing till date, and she is one good company to be with. One thing more I witnessed is that almost all libra ladies have long beautiful hair which exaggerates the beauty in their personality. 😉 Lastly, the compatibility is worth rating 100/10. 😀
Aw, the two of the anonymous above give me a couple-like feeling and if not I still think they would make a good couple. =] As for my experience, virgos are very sensible and super romantic and us librans are somewhat the same. My hubby Ryan has given me all the happiness in life so far and we barely have any ups and downs. So, to all the librans and virgos out there, hook up as you’ll never find someone better than each other <3
VIRGOS AND LIBRAS FOREVER!
I just started dating a libra woman being a virgo man and couldn’t believe how quickly I admired and adored her. The reciprocation form her is incredible, smart, sexy, polite, adorable, CLASSY. Didn’t know that existed anymore.
I’m curious to know if anyone else here have noticed that Libra females don’t get along well together?
I was wondering because i don’t get along with my teenage step-daughter whose also a Libra.
My husband’s a Virgo, and both of us compete for his attention.
It’s like we’re twins; i’m the good one.
When she comes to visit, my friends enjoy her, they say she’s just like me “fun”. She steals my earrings and perfume, i even caught her trying on a pair of my shoes.
She’s a writer like me, she shows good manors like me, almost as pretty as me and not to mention TALL like me!
She knows how to use everything she’s got to get her way. At times i can’t stand her but then i look into her beautiful, glossy, light brown eyes and i see myself.
hmmm i have been with my virgo man since 2 years…wowwww dats an awesume relationship i can tell u he is really great…he is able to satisfy me 100%…previously i was shoky of his criticism but now (being libra girl) i have learned his nature (as virgos are the prefctnst and criticizes a lot) and whenever he criticizes i dnt take it to heart…but after every criticsm he realizes that something is goingon wrong inside me sooo he starts treating me like a kid and say sorry of what ever he said but i knw whatever he says is for my betterment so i dnt mind his criticism …i love him and i will be loving him till the end of my life he is really great..he gives me smilese cares for me he worries for me…he alwas remember everythng related to ma and dats what a true libra wants…so dats a fantastic relationship…i dnt expect him singing romantic song for me all the time…i knw he cant as e is a virgo 🙂 but i knw he is loyal to me and dats enough…:) God bless him alwaz
LIBRAs and VIRGOs are made for eachother datsit
back again for the final time. besides this website I’ve read others and for the most part the experts have said we make great partners with virgos because both signs are analytical, hate arguing and fighting and for the most part think with their heads rather then their hearts….but from reading other libra woman’s actual experiences and having dealt with a virgo man myself this is a match mad in hell! I’ve heard and read that virgo men are VERY MUCH so unfaithful. they say they only cheat on woman they aren’t in love with and that to me is just an excuse for the fact that virgo men never end their relationships with past lovers…and LYING is something they do FAITHFULLY. they are great in the beginning but after a year or so you’ll see their true colors. they are selfish and only care about themselves. being a libra i am very forgiving so for me to actually come to the conclusion that i want to have NOTHING to do with someone, anyone, broken heart or not it says a lot. they are coldhearted, think they are different from other men when in reality they are the same, and when caught doing wrong they try to make you feel sorry for them. i felt sorry for my virgo man for almost 2 years and put up with sooo much of his crap that idk how and if im gonna be able to trust anyone else. being a libra i am very guarded and i told my virgo guy how many times and ways I’ve had my heart broken but its like he didnt care even though he claims he did. I admit they are very driven and easy to talk to, but at the end of the day talking is not enough and i want him to do for me what I did for him and that is understand me, or at least try. I just feel like at this point in time there’s nothing left to say. I always felt like I was putting more into it then him but because I loved him I didn’t care, and he took advantage of that. being a libra I hate being alone but when i was with him, thinking he was doing the same I broke ALL ties with everyone else (which is a lot to say because I have to have others on the side to feel comfortable) and now he’s back with his ex and I’m looking stupid, and I’m alone. he claims he’s with his ex because she’s ben there for him and I think if you base a relationship simply off of that, it won’t last. all they do is fight and although he claims he hates arguin, that’s all she does(she’s an aries I.e a libras opposite) I now will not speak to him when I see him, and I have no problem with that. I still Love him, but after having my heartbroken plenty of times I’m learning to Love myslef even more and not stay in those type of situations.
virgos have many many drawbaks they thnk they are the best they are great and they cant xcuze u sometime my virgo man criticizes me alot and i got burned insyd nodoubt it is…bt whenever we get in a relationship the girl have to be more caring and have to compromise but i want to knww frm virgos what do they expect from a libra to burn her completely? yeah i agreed with alea…they are a kind of people who cant excuse so although i love a virgo man…but i can say that every compromise here is by me and he cnt compromise previously i had a virgo partner we had a lot of fyt fyt fytf fyt all the tyme nd i ws so much fed up of him that we had a breakup after marriage sometime i feel libras and virgos are opposite sign and they are nt for eachother m marriedf again with a man who is more leo rather than virgo so lil better than that fussy virgo
virgo boy nad libra girl worst combination
I HAVE DATE A VIRGO MALE FOR SIX YEARS IT WAS A HOT RELATIONSHIP WE HAD THE BEST SEX EVER BUT HE WAS ALWAYS LOOKING BUT HE ALWAYS SAID I WAS THE ONE. BUT WE DIDN’T MAKE IT I’M WITH A TAURUS THE SEX IS NOT AS GOOD BE HE’S REALLY LIKE NICE THINGS LIKE ME AND WE CAN TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING. AND WITH TIME I PLAN TO GET THE SEX WHERE I WANT IT.
ive recentally started getting close too a virgo, he split up with his girlfriend then we met up with eachother a few months ago as mates.. however, he ended getting back with his girlfriend whos an aquarius :/ but would occasionally still text me.. and get jealous about me and other guys. and say that he thinks he lost his chance with me. recentally him and his girlfriend split up again.. and ive seen him with friends but it was nice too see him and we had a chat and a few laughs. then he went on holiday and when he came back he wanted too meet up just me and him. so he came quite a way too see me in the middle of the night! we were just talking and we kissed for the first time, we were really shy.. we got carried away but we stopped and said maybe we should wait cuz of him just getting out a relationship haha. but it was really cute. everything was fine before that he would text me every day. but after the last time we met, he hasnt text me. i text him the other day saying if i had done something, but he said he has alot on his mind & i just said well im here for you if you need anything, cause we were good friends before.. i don’t know what ive done.. him and his girlfriend just split up before his holiday and maybe now hes home, he realises how much he misses her. :/ im not sure what too do & i don’t know what i could have done wrong? maybe he’s confused… any help of what too do? i really wanna text him, but too scared that will push him away cause you have to patient with a virgo, but he said he wouldn’t leave me again and he seemed so interested even when he was with hs girlfriend sometimes :S and now he is just not talking too me.. what too do?!…
Virgo men need space – he’s proboably trying to figure out the best thing to do with regard to his ex and you and in the absence of a decision, he’s doing nothing. If you are there for him, just let him know and then leave him alone to work out what’s in his mind.
He’ll be looking for the best way to hurt people the least.
Guess you just have to wait…….
@pippa-
that’s how I ended up with my virgo man. He was already with someone when he met me, I knew my place so I played my position because I knew A, he wasn’t married. B, he was worth the gamble and C, he was a good man. With that Virgo streak in him, he pulled away, because they like to make sure what they are doing is right. Me being a Libra, I had to change the rules of the game a little. I nolonger made myself available to him, when he wanted me. I started going out more and more, so I wasn’t home when he would pop up.
I want reveal all my cheats, let’s just say…when I got finish running rings around him, he became hooked, intrigued by me, because I showed him a side to himself he never knew was there.That was several years ago,and I still keep him intrigued with my LIBRA CHARM.
LOl Well we should talk 1 on 1,Libra to Libra! 😉
Hey Mz LibraVirgo. I have given a virgo man so many opportunities and i myself is a libra woman.. think he will come back to me or frankly this is the end?
i have given him everything love affection his space. the problematic was the arguments.. i would just push it aside and comfort us but he made it a big deal, once he is mad he never turns back never admits that he is sorry
Well, I have always read Virgo Man and Libra Woman is not a compatible twosome..but to my surprise, I have been dating a Virgo Man since the last 20 months and we are soon getting married, and I would say I am the happiest with him than I have ever been with anyone..!! I agree that all our married and single friends envy us..we are in love in the same way as we were right from the start..We argue but soon patch up, we love peace..we don’t drag our arguments, saying sorry is the fastest thing we do..whoever finds it hard to fight any further 😛 We both are loyal..I always wondered that everywhere it said virgo and libra dont go well..but to my surprise, we were always otherwise..first time I read something which said otherwise, and atleast in my case its 100% true..!!
Sometimes I wonder the zodiac compatibility depends a lot on two people’s bringing up and their life’s experiences!!
As a libra woman I can say that dating a Virgo male has it’s ups and downs. I’m very much in love with him and he is very much in love with me. However Virgo men can be critical and needy compassionate and irritable all in the same week.! This type of behavior can throw libra women off balance and we seek balance in everything! So dealing with Virgo men takes a strong affectionate indecisive libra woman to maintain these Virgo men. Virgo men are perfectionist no doubt about it. If you can get past that sharp tongue they have it’s bliss!
I think this isn’t a good combination. I’ve always known Virgo’s to stretch the truth, Be Very Self-Centered Or try to make their lives seem as though every thing is always Great. & I don’t think these are characteristics a Libra could relate to or Respect.
I’m a libra female, who was dating a virgo man long distance. We knew each other from college…ummm what can I say…confused! We are no longer together. It was short lived. In 6 months long distance, I met his whole family and him mine. Got into a couple of disputes over a weekend and he dumped me! He would not talk to me for a month.We just started back talking and he feels that he only wants to be friends because he thinks that we will get into again. I’m ignoring him as I’m writing this because to me, a couple of arguments should not break a situation-plus I’ve been the one always compromising first! I don’t know what to do!! I’m pretty much tired of trying to make it work:( Any suggestions??! Well, good luck to all!
Hey!! Can someone tell me just how to deal with a Virgo man? What are the tricks to get the ball back in your court after an argument? Do you ignore him? Be his friend?! I’m curious, btw his bday is on Sept 22, so he is on the cusps of Virgo/Libra-thanks if you can help:)!! May peace be unto all!
Heyyya Virgo man….what is your suggestion, if a Virgo man has backed off after an argument and just wants to be friends? He was so loving before the argument. Now he has done a complete 360 and has broken up with me….odd?
A 360 degree finish just in the place where both started,in 0 degree(just a hint)
I am a Libra woman, musician. About a year ago, I met a young, very talented, Virgo musician whom man, i was instantly attracted to, but avoided because I knew he was quite younger. He worked to get my attention all night, after finally letting my eyes meet his, I said simply “hello” and kept it moving. About 4 months later, i joined a new band. a month after that, our drummer quit and guess who was the replacement??? Yes, Mr. “Young”ington. I tried to have minimal conversation, contact, etc., with Mr. Younginton, but the attraction was just too strong. We are hanging out a bit more, somewhat at the beginning stages of dating, but not official a.k.a. the awkward ‘okay i know we are attracted to each other, but who is going to make a real move’ phase. He is very much a VIRGO, but I consider myself to be a not only a emotionally settled Libra, but also a wider understanding person. Already in these early stages, I find the more freedom I give him, the more eager he is to see me. and when we see each other, we are total magnets.
My man is a Virgo, and I’m a Libra… Anyway, to me, how someone dresses isnt the most important thing to me, as long as his clothes aren’t filthy dirty or ripped. I wish all the astrological book/blog writers would quit making Libra’s seem so superficial. However, I love romance, consideration, and feeling important to my man. I have to KNOW that I am his world…
Here’s a suggestion on how to survive an argument or dispute with male Virgo:
First of all, most likely, he will not apologize! Don’t expect it.
Second, they are very smart and observant, so they already know things about you that you haven’t told them, mainly personality wise. So keep in mind that our scale is constantly teetering as issues are weighed, and try to maintain a certain degree of balance in yourself.
Third, appreciate him! He most likely will not let it be known how much he is thinking about you, but, a real Virgo MAN, has integrity, and consideration, and class… He may seem self centered, but he is more likely relationship centered.
He does not like selfish, “I’m too good for any man” type of women. He will drop you so quick, you won’t know what happened!
Try to Remember that when it seems like he’s being controlling or bossy, it’s not for him, it’s for you both as a whole.
I hope this helps…
I’m a female libra and I am currently dating, ummmm, lemme see……there’s C, D, B, and….I know I’m forgetting someone….W, oh, and J..can’t forget R… altogether thats 6 (that pertain to this article. I won’t even get into the Aquarius, Leo, or The 2 Scorpios), who are all virgo males. In comparison to my other romantic entanglements, these males certainly seem to attract me the most and vice versa. The only drawback I can see is that I have 6 and there are only 7 days in a week. Plus…I got the other guys. I’m gonna need to work out a schedule. I should do that right now instead of reading this.
Im a virgo man (sept 7), 43 years old who has been seeing my 37yr old libra girlfriend for 4 months now. She is the best thing I have ever seen…The sex is awesome, and the romance in unbelievable. I never thought I’d find someone who could challenge me so much. She won’t take my crap, I like that…I respect her. I consider myself a true virgo, and I have to say that we are very misunderstood…Yes we can be very picky, but only about things that we have a special certain interest in…my work for me. My libra woman is way more anal about her house than I am…We love to cook together, and cuddle on the couch…She has a wicked sarcastic sense of humor that I love…And she is learning to understand that I’m not much for small talk…I’ve had long term relationships with aquarious, cancer, and leo women…wish I would have known earlier how great a match libra is for me…almost any source says it is a bad combo…couldn’t be more wrong, I’ve never felt so fulfilled…
10/10???? Please! Virgos are awful! They’re sooo critical and full of self-pity. A total bummer for a light, airy, charming Libra girl. Virgo is my least favorite sign next to Scorpio. Unless you have some compatible earth or water heavily influencing your chart (moon or rising), forget it–you’ll feel bummed out all the time. I’d give this maybe a 4/10.
Be honest, and sincerely express your true feelings…he already knows the truth, he just wants to hear it from youType your comment here
This combination is accurate and works. Virgo man has a great sense of vision and as a Libra woman I enjoy seeing it and making it manifest. The synergistic relationship is the basis and just right for the extraordinary improvements that both want in terms of family goals, community and betterment in general. Having said that I’m always aware when he works very, very hard to accomplish everything for the family. I am okay with whatever is possible since the essence is already there. We are now focused on working steadily on the foundation already built to achieve significant heights.
I always doubted relationship’s because I got hurt too much and I could handle it . I was about to give up and a virgo man came into my life made me so happy that I think Ive fallen in love with him or is it just infatuation . I don’t know . We used to talk so much last year this year he doesn’t even speak to me. I feel so disappointed in my self but I really like him . I should move on which isn’t working . I haven’t told him about my feelings.Help ! what should I do
*sighs* I’m a libra woman who has deep feelings for a virgo man. He’s seven years younger but me being older wasn’t a problem for him. We worked together so that’s how I met him. I really don’t remember when I started to fall for him…..but I did! We went out a few times; we never officially dated. Almost a entire year goes by and we only hugged one another. So finally around my birthday, we hung out and went back to his place…..for a “movie”! That was one great flick…….ok two, but the point I’m making is the sex was guud!!! We continued seeing each other; we would work together and then get together afterwards. I was seeing him and only him at the time.He would tell me about how he was attracted to me and how i was special to him.They say when something seems too good to be true it usually is! One day the calls/texts began to decrease, as did us being alone together. So I finally find out that he was seeing another woman as well. He stated that he wanted to be with her……..and told me he wanted us to remain friends! Yeah, my feelings were hurt because, I’m ashamed to say this, I was sleeping with him bareback, THE WHOLE TIME!! So yeah I feel like I was just a FWB. So I still have to work with this dude, but I get male attention all the time from coworkers. So I was talking to one of them, the virgo man got jealous!! He became irritable and angry all of the sudden. I couldn’t understand his behavior, given what I now know!! It seems like he want to have his cake and eat it too without consequence! If he doesn’t like me that way anymore, why is he getting jealous, why does he stalk my social page, why can’t I just forget about him?! Smh
Hi I just met my Virgo man and all the things I read including some of the comments ..is pretty damn true and I don’t doubt because I’m a Libra woman.;
my friends always say there’s no one as grounded as a libra woman but I still find it hard knowing what the virgo man wants. what is he thinking? my bff who’s also a libra woman like me had the same thing to say and she’s totally sworn off virgo men. no matter what i do he always find something wrong and worse names! its hard being with someone so negative. did anyone else have the same experience because I am still in the beginning and want to know more?
I’m a Virgo male and I’m young kid but going though this has made me sad to call myself a Virgo because, My whole life I was raised only by my mother who is a Capricorn that no matter what you are always treat a woman with the up most respect and to sit here and read that some women out there have had their hearts ripped out just makes me sad that as a Virgo male that’s the kind of reputation I will have on my shoulders because that what female’s are going to expect, And when I say young I mean that I’m 16 and even though I have never had the the chance to meet you, I personally would like to sorry for what has happened to all of you and this is not me saying sorry for them but for the generation of Virgos that I’m apart of and hopefully this generation finds this and takes to heart and no matter what stay positive there is always someone out looking for you. I wish you the best of luck in you’re search for the one.
Hello to everyone especially to Libra ladies. As a Virgo man, in my whole life, only once I fell in love with a Libra girl at university. Although I fell in love with her very late that she already got married, I still love her and I don’t know what to do. It has been near a decade that I love her and I closed my heart to anyone else! Every moment I blame myself why I didn’t fall in love with her earlier! I love you Nazanin!
I wish the best for you where ever you are and with whom you are with …
A note to Ryan – that was such a sweet thing to write, but don’t take the burden of broken relationships on yourself. I don’t think it’s so much a Virgo male thing as just a male/female thing. Sometimes relationships work out – sometimes they don’t, but it is just the two people who don’t work out together – not their sun signs, because there are different influencing factors in all of the houses of your birth chart that can determine compatibility. I am a Libra woman with a Virgo man (who is younger than I am.) It works for us, but my Venus is in Virgo, and and I have a lot of practical Capricorn in my chart. There are a lot of factors here – so being a Virgo or a Libra shouldn’t be the sole decision factor in anyone’s relationship and certainly isn’t the sole factor of blame when things don’t work out. 🙂
Hi MJ,
Can you help us to get through the same situation we are in now..
we like each other but our personal taste scares each other that it will work out or not.. How can we understand the chars in a proper way..
mY Man is virgo n me libra…. he is nyc n sweet.. n awsmly romantic… he is very possive abt me n our relation… he can never change his way n style for me or any one else… he hates advices when it comes to his style personality and dressup…. well l love him… no matter wat…
Hello.. well m a Libra girl in love wd a Virgo man. He z a Christian n me is a Hindu. He z 1year younger than me. He z from a totaly dffrnt state, language and culture. But I don’t think than I can find more gud or suitable person for me… we are being in a relationship for 7 yrs. And thre is no issues between us… we argue we fight.. for very silly reason which doesnt matter at all..every time our love increases. Now he z staying in a different country.. I have met him online… I don’t see him in real yet. He z a real gentlemen man. He loves me a lot. We always stick togethe biz we kno what we want to be wild each other. Our love is gr8… romance hmm we nly give flying kisses through Skype… we are gonna meet 4 the 1st tym in real.. n i think we all do dt. N yea my bsf z a Virgo girl… I think Virgo z nyc
Had a Virgo male friend since I was super young. We’re 13 years apart. Recently I got high with him and got into a long conversation about sex with him and the other friend that night. Stayed up till wee hours as his want of me because more n more obvious. He said he wanted me and I took it like a grain of salt. The other friend left I stayed. He persuaded me to lay Down in his bed with him separate ends separate covers. We eventually began just holding each other with our eyes closed. It just turned into the sweetest respectful intimacy I’ve ever had. Latter we had sex spooning only because I was so nervous of giving into him. Turns out he n I r sexual compatible and his care of me , his affection and sweet tender kissing and embracing with out him even knowing gets to me so dam much. I feel he feeds my neediness of passion. I feel like I could fall in love with him. We understand each other. The story is much longer. But he is what I need.
Mindset on just going about my day, Not looking” n met a fine female. Immediately all about her seemed just so splendid in every way. Added to that an awesome spiritual greeting gift (I want to call it) ~ blew me so far away that I couldn’t compose a simple communication like hey wanna continue talking, maybe we should eat together or something”. Like to meet her again even if just to say one thing I thought needed saying from that greeting day.
I’ve met enough females to say each one who attracts me does posses very fine qualities along with that at first sight” positive tingle, and that the one who turned out to be my wife also Air sign, resonated strongly with an instant soulmate karmic destiny. But they had no comparison to this Libra. Just sayn’ the charts of this Libra Virgo combo had something going on !
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! Thanks for your page Nancy : )
Nope this article is completely wrong! I’m a female Libra and I was with my Virgo boyfriend for 6 years. He had no romantic side to him at all. Wasn’t thoughtful and was very selfish. It was as though I was the one in the relationship and I was pulling him along for the ride. Now that I think about it, maybe it isn’t a Libra/Virgo thing, maybe it’s his personality and maybe he just didn’t love me. Go figure but I am definitely staying away from Virgos from now on.